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butch-reidentified · 3 months

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I'm currently helping my favorite cousin exit an abusive relationship, and a big part of the process has been talking to her about radfeminism and separatism. she was asking me about my thoughts on "sugaring" yesterday, particularly in situations where you are expected to be a pretty face but not to have sex with him.

she seems to be under the delusion that at least some men would look for such a sugar baby just to have a partner to really admire and respect and shower in appreciation, "like a goddess." when I asked why they'd need a sugar baby to do all that, she said something like, "well a lot of people are just independent and want to do everything for themselves, you know?" as if it isn't incredibly easy to find women who would literally die to have a man genuinely respect and admire them.

I told her my honest thoughts (pretty much what I said above), but would love to add some of yours, too! I've found that when I also ask yall your thoughts, I often get some uniquely insightful replies and also some great resources, book recommendations, etc.

edit: please see my reblog providing a bit more info/context! in short: my cousin doesn't really need the money, she's thinking about it more bc she feels that it would make her feel in control/powerful/respected.

and I did tell her this was rather unrealistic, basically delusional - she listens to me and looks up to me & my wife, so we do have a lot of potential to guide her in a safer direction, thankfully

#mine #radblr #sugaring #domestic violence #mvawg

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mouseshouses · 1 year

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Sugaring

#mouseshouses #Mouseland #maggiemice #sugaring

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trishstark · 1 year

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Respect yourself, and everyone will respect you.

It's a simple rule but it works. If you show up in the world as someone who respect themselves, that stick to their boundaries and is able to raise their voices to express their boundaries, you will be respected. And treated with respect.

A simple equation.

#leveling up #advice #feminine energy #level up #leveled up mindset #high maintenance #luxury #sugaring

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seschigirl · 1 year

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Rule One.

The feminine energy respects itself when it’s protected! Do not allow people into your spirit, your vortex, your world, your space, your heart, your life, your mind and lastly your body that disrespects, devalues and breaks the boundaries you set for yourself. Dismissal of such behaviour should be automatic!

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baddiesofluxury · 2 years

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jluxsymone · 1 year

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SITTING PRETTY 🌹

#glam style #beauties #healthy #put together #sugaring #dateing #black luxury #levelup #attract abundance

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spoiledlucky · 1 month

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I'm hot as fuck. You're worthless. Eat shit and send, loser.

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fucklovepayme · 2 months

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FLPM Update 2023-2024

Hello guys!

A lot has happened since I last updated this blog. Let me start off by saying that manifestation is so fucking real, I don't care what anyone says. A lot of amazing things have happened to me this past year, and I am very grateful for it. My Saturn's Return (2020-2022) has been so damn rough to me, there was times that I gave up on life. I didn't care about my life or what happened to me. Thankfully that all changed in the beginning of 2023, I guess it is true when they say you have to go through your roughest time in life to receive your biggest blessings!

I manifested girlfriends that are chasing the bag too. I even became friends with some sex workers as well. It feels so good to hang out with true like-minded ladies, we get to freestyle together and hang out at more elevated events. And they are everything I manifested: young, pretty, supportive, and genuine. Unpopular opinion: I was getting tired of hanging out with slight pick mes, small-minded, and broke women. I want girlfriends who dgaf about these men, have an abundant mindset, and have money to do the nice things to come across the rich men we want.

I still dabble in sex work. I recently rejoined the infamous sugaring website (Starts with seek) and surprisingly it's not so bad this time around. Still have to scope out thousands of time wasters and the cheapies but I am meeting more POTs. I also joined some vanilla dating apps and set my settings to meet more established men. I've been out on some pretty nice dates with men that got coins and are not shy to spend it 🤑.

There's been some opportunities which I did some light escort activities 😅. I have a girlfriend that do threesomes with me for the right price. Sometimes we get approached at the bar or we pick out a guy that looks like a trick. If you would've told me that I would be doing threesomes for money (let alone free) 2 years ago, I would have laughed in your face. But now I don't give a damn and will proudly do it for the $$$$ and right man. I sometimes get approached when I'm out alone, and I do not take anything less than $1000. I was thinking about joining Er*s to get some steady tricks, but everytime I try to join it seems like the Universe intervenes and prevents my profile from getting approved :/. I'm still going to do my hoe-tivites until I get that wedding ring from my dream wealthy husband!

I've been hanging out with some powerful (and famous) men and women. I am not going to mention names for obvious reasons, but I met these people by simply being at the right places at the right times. I met a lot of celebrities growing up, but it's different hanging out with them as an adult 😊. At the end of the day, celebrities are just normal people with extra money and recognition.

I also became a home owner, and I did it in the time frame I gave myself. I made a goal list years ago that I wanted to be a home owner by the age of 30, and here we are! I achieved my biggest goal I set for myself, and I did it by myself. I am very blessed and grateful to be able to have my own property and I thank God everyday. Now I need a wealthy generous man who wants to pay for all the renovations I plan on doing!

My life is really a movie and I am enjoying every scene! I literally smile when I think about how much my life has changed this past year, mostly everything has been very positive and what I wanted. It's crazy how everything that has happened to me, started off as a thought, dream, or a journal entry. I believed in myself and did not lose sight of what I wanted in life. I'm so glad I'm a city girl that believes in myself and not a pick me or "bOsS bAbe", otherwise my life would not be as exciting 😉 I sometimes reflect on my adult life so far and I can honestly say that I have a lot of great experiences that the average person couldn't even dream of. I am living my best Samantha Jones and Toni Childs combined life that I have manifested since I was a little girl. Little FLPM would be in so much awe if she saw how she would be living her adult life 🥹.

Overall, I am way happier now than I was 2 years ago. I overcame the darkest time of my life and I am so strong for that and I'm proud of myself. Maybe in another post I will get more into detail of that time period, but right now it is still triggering. I am just happy that I am seeing more positivity into my life and I am open and ready for what's coming next! I will also be more active on this blog, posting at least once a week! Get ready to hop on this fun ride with me!

#fucklovepayme #update #sugaring

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lolitalucia · 6 days

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on a real note..

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femmefatalevibe · 11 months

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What do you recommend for hair removal? Do you know any tips or tricks for getting longer term full Body (everywhere) and upper lip & face hair removal with no pain?

In terms of hair removal methods, I recommend the following:

Sugaring: Full body and upper lip

Dermaplaning: Face and upper lip

Laser Hair Removal: Any hair removal you have the budget, time, and pain threshold to afford

Tips For Less Painful Hair Removal:

Use a topical lidocaine numbing cream (I recommend Zensa Numbing Cream, which is made to use on sensitive areas like the bikini line or lips). I especially recommend using a numbing cream for laser hair removal!

In lieu of a topical lidocaine numbing cream, I would take an Advil or another ibuprofen medication as instructed before your hair removal treatment

Avoid alcohol 24-48 hours before your treatment (caffeine too, if possible), and drink plenty of water within 24 hours of your hair removal appointment

Exfoliate and moisturize your skin before & after your hair removal treatment. Don't exfoliate too soon after a hair removal appointment (how to irritate your skin 101)

Apply an ice pack or cold compress immediately after hair removal

Use aloe vera or coconut oil after a hair removal treatment to soothe the skin and reduce irritation or bumps

Avoid sun exposure before and after a hair removal treatment (timeframes depend on the type of treatment)

Don't wear tight clothes, go swimming, take hot baths, or engage in any sweaty activity immediately after a hair removal treatment

Avoid using any skincare products (or haircare you removed hair on your face) containing fragrance/perfumes on your skin for at least a few days after treatment

Don't use makeup or spray tan on your skin after hair removal

Never go to a hair removal appointment hungry, stressed, when experiencing PMS or while on your period – all of these bodily states can lower your pain tolerance and make the treatment feel worse than it otherwise would

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reincarnatedonthefirst · 9 months

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I read through some sugaring discussion threads and picked up some useful tips about training your boyfriends/daddies/clients to respect your time and boundaries…

Set boundaries from day one. Never text back within an hour. Do not text back right away. Answer their texts within 24 hours but never right away. Take a long time to reply.

From the start, let them know that in your personal life, you have an 8-hour work day, you need time to eat, time to shower and use the bathroom, time to talk to your family over the phone. Let them know that after all your necessary day-to-day tasks are done, that’s when you notice and respond to texts.

When you are together, in person, that is when you make him feel like a king. Make him feel like he is the most intelligent, attractive, and funniest guy on earth… but reserve this treatment only for when you are together in person. Set boundaries outside of that so they are trained to respect your time off.

#sugaring #sugaringtips #tips #finessing

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seschigirl · 1 year

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document your life: get a polaroid camera take loads of pictures, print them and stick them in an photo album, record videos and save them to a hard drive, record mini vlogs and upload them privately to your YouTube to watch later in life, journal about your hardest moments, collect things from the moments that brought you great joy and happiness….

but don’t forget to be present in the moment!