#soy asexual

[ciudadanouniversoblog]

Yes. So?

#im asexual #asexual #happy ace week #acearo #ace #ace week #ace pride #soy asexual #comunidad asexual #espectro asexual #orgullo asexual #asexualidad #asexual spectrum #ace community

[lilfael]

#free icons #icons #Angel dust icons #angel dust #hazbin hotel #hazbin angel dust #lgbtq #gay #Lesbian #trans #bisexual #pansexual #aroace #aromantic #asexual #cupioromantic #Tenía unas ganas enormes de hacerme un icon de Angel #Me quedó tan bonito que quería compartirlo con más gente #Lo sé #Soy muy humilde #Ignoren los pixeles xd

[mushroomjar]

Bueno gente, mañana hay SEXOOOOOOO del bueno sí o sí

#por qué a todo lo bueno ahora le digo sexooooo. ni siquiera me parece tan bueno el sexo. soy asexual. es culpa de los mutuals argies #cat rambles #latine tag #español tag #argentina tag

[quemirabobo]

Mi pequeño aporte sobre la marcha del orgullo 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

#son las peores fotos pero tenia poca bateria y estaba en la mia asi que saque solo al principio ajajjajaja #estuvo re lindo #me compre unas pulseritas bi y asexual soy feliiiz💚 #chronicles of Yu's life

[estoesdivertido]

#aroace #asexual #arromantico #koisenu futari #si soy #imagen full hd4k jajajaj #no suelto esta serie no me importa nada

[slingshotfanart]

Happy Pride from the Violetta and Soy Luna characters!

Obviously, there is more characters I could've drawn. Also, every time a character appeared more than once, I change the outfits on them for a little diversity <3

#violetta #soy luna #pride #gay #bisexual #pansexual #asexual #trans #lesbian

[tortademaracuya]

Medio estresante el sexo hoy

#pero bueno como soy asexual no opino(?

[mawspiral]

pq tiene que ser tan fea la banderaAAAA

#personal #i'm still struggling with my sexuality ñ #creo que soy aroace #o estoy en el aspec #no se si asexual tal cual #pero estoy medio segura de que soy aro #y eso ME PONE TRISTE #llevo como 1 año en duelo #dure siglos.para salir del closet como bisexual NO ME HAGAS ESTO CEREBRO #also por que la bandera bi oriented aroace o cualquiera grey-ace son tan feas #los detesto #solo por eso no quiero dejar el label de bisexual #POR SUERTE PRIORIZANDO LO IMPORTANTE ( #(LA BELLEZA DE LA BANDERA I GUESS)

[skylordhorus]

i need and want to go to bed since i have counselling but brain wants to keep me awake and be sad

#*deep space noises* #brain was like ‘hey remember that absolute arsehole tumblr user who ur honestly kinda afraid of #and thankfully only dabbled in the yogs fandom for short time but ur still nervous abt them lurking in the soi area #n interacting around u?’ #like. thanks buddy thats not helpful.... #app just crashed when i was selfharmedly looking at an adjacent aphobe blog #sooo thank u tumblr app for once #UGH IM DOING IT AGAIN!!!! ENOUGH!!!!!! #yes someone in ur small safe space fandom still follows ppl who treat asexuals like dirt #what can u exactly do abt that #apart from feel sad and scared and dirty

[agreenfoxartist]

”He tratado de que me gusten los chicos. Incluso me he preguntado si me gustan las chicas... o ambas cosas. Pero no me gusta nadie. Puedo ver cuando las personas son atractivas, pero no quiero salir con ellas. No quiero tomarme de la mano, ni coquetear, ni besar. Pero siento que se supone que debo sentirme así”.

💜🤍🖤

#asexual #si soy #el fomo a veces me gana

[ciudadanouniversoblog]

¿?

#ace #asexual #acearo #ace pride #asexualidad #??? #asexual spectrum #im asexual #soy asexual #aromantic

[olderthannetfic]

I have really mixed feelings about the small proportion of F/F fiction (original or fanfic), because yeah sure, people have their desires, they should write what they want, I get it. It all works out when I hear it from person to person. But somehow the logic only ever applies in one direction? "There are more male protagonists because men only care about male characters! Women also mostly care about male characters, because that's the majority of characters they get!" And then somehow we also yet kvetch when men write female characters (because it's incorrectly or something, nevermind if women are writing male characters correctly). Why don't we expect gay men to feel compelled only by femslash for the same reasons (but gender swapped) as the lesbian slashers/fujoshi? All of those very rational justifications are applied selectively, "for me for not for thee," and it all only leads to "idk I just don't wanna write femslash", for Reasons. Do we get to call them microaggressions yet?

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No, you don't get to call other people's fantasy life a microaggression.

That is indeed "for me but not for thee" in the sense that you get to want what you want but other people aren't supposed to follow their id.

Do you also police gay men who spend too much time on drag and obsessing over female divas? That's an actual real world behavior that's somewhat equivalent. It frequently goes unchallenged, at least by progressives, because men are allowed to do whatever they want with chick stuff, while women are "stealing" if they dare to stray into dude stuff.

(God, I've seen so much more policing of drag kings being ~problematic~ for acting out stereotypical gender than policing of drag queens for the same. It's nuts!)

Fujoshi are often queer, but it's absurd to think we're mostly lesbians. We tend to be bi or asexual women with gender stuff going on, though there is a mix of everybody, including lesbians. There are also a lot of AFAB non-women who get lumped in with us. On the rare occasions I find a man willing to admit to being a similar demographic, he usually does like gender play in his hobbies and entertainment. It's just that men face even more pressure than women do to fit into tidy categories. Bi women get told we're whores. Bi men are told they don't exist.

Yes, I know plenty of lesbians who write more m/m than f/f, but in the big picture of all of AO3 or all of fanfic or all of media, they aren't the demographic driving these numbers. They're vastly outnumbered by the bi women, the asexual women, and the straight and gnc women.

The men we should be looking at as an equivalent aren't cis gay men but bicurious soy boys and the like.

Do most of us fujoshi object to equivalent men doing an equivalent thing? I've seen it sometimes, and I agree it's hypocritical. I'd like us to afford men the same ability to play and take on identities in their art. I remember enjoying Ranma fandom back in the day and reading quite a lot of f/f that was probably by men. It had some of that same sense of distance and fantasy that I so enjoy in m/m aimed at fujoshi. (I do consume some by-cis-gay, for-cis-gay content, both m/m and f/f, but it's often too literal and too bound up in specific named identities for my taste.)

On average, the people I see complaining most about men producing f/f material are the same people who think that because I have a clit, I should center my life around women exclusively. In other words, people spouting radfem ideology, perhaps on purpose or perhaps without realizing.

I do agree that some of the ways of expressing a lack of desire to write femslash can get pretty douchey. I want us to move away from some of the less accurate ones like "There are no compelling female characters" because of this.

But the reason for all these jerkass explanations is that women and people perceived as women who like m/m are constantly asked to explain ourselves. These aren't usually microaggressions: they're openly hostile. People get defensive and try to answer with important-sounding reasons about identity and pain because society at large won't accept "I like this" as the true explanation.

Pleasure is never enough of a reason for a woman to do something.

[weeb-polls-with-pip]

Autistic Anime Boys Prelims - Propaganda Division - Group 5

Propaganda:

Ame -

"Typical autistic childhood – doesn't want to go to school, doesn't talk a lot, his plans for the future are just to go to live as a wolf in the forest… He's basically a werewolf and I think werewolves are often autistic coded. Actually his whole family is autistic coded."

Floyd -

"Has no emotional regulation skills and will make it everyone's problem. Prone to mood swings and can get angry at the drop of a hat, but can also be so goofy, silly, and lovely. Sways side to side for that good good stim, and loves to squeeze others (with violent intent and affectionate intent). Who doesn't love a good pressure stim? His interest in things can be fleeting, and his motivation to do things can change as quickly as his mood. Spontaneous and feral extraordinaire."

Hibiki -

"he is canonically diagnosed with hyperacusis <3 my fav sensory issues guy (he's so relatable). also canonically pulled a bad bitch (uta) by being autistic."

Akira -

"He has a heartbreaking relationship with road racing and the memory of his dead mother, and while he is a major antagonist, he is given a lot of interesting looks into his internal logics that I personally find relatable as an autistic person. I also like how he expresses himself in unpleasant ways, but isn't always treated with disgust, its kind of refreshing."

Sang Woo -

"literally the first results on google is "sangwoo semantic error autistic." he loves routine + is extremely distressed by change in routine (contrasts w his ADHD-coded bf). very blunt/cannot read social clues which leads to some misunderstandings throughout the manhwa. he's very relatable to me as an autistic person but also as a queer man, and it's refreshing to see autistic characters being open with their sexuality/sexual life bc we're often displayed as asexual robots incapable of love (bad for lots of reasons haha). he's super cute generally and really grew on me throughout the series. definitely the best part of semantic error."

Douglas -

"Many other characters try to read into what he does and says, looking for deeper or different meanings but it's always revealed that he means exactly what he says every single time and the butt of the jokes is always the other characters for being dramatic and presumptuous, not Doug for being autistic. Also he's the mean autistic representation we deserve."

Scott -

"look at him. failboy autism. even more so than any previous version!"

Shinra -

"he's just like me forreal."

Soi -

"I mean come on, it’s Purson. He thinks he’s really good at talking to people but most of his conversations (at least at the start) are completely one sided. He just blurts out whatever he’s thinking and completely dominates the conversation (if you can call it that). I love him so much for it, I have a really hard time figuring out when I should just stop talking and let someone else have a turn and only tend to realize after he fact that I didn’t really let anyone else get a word in and feel really bad. But the way Purson communicates is never shown to be a bad thing it’s a bit awkward at times but that just how he is and the rest of the misfit class live him for it. I think I could go on all day about how wonderfully inclusive Iruma-Kun is it’s such a good series, also in my brain Balam, Kalego, Clara and Opera are on the 4 outer points of an x-y graph that represents the autism spectrum. Everyone else fills the blanks in between. His bloodline magic is ‘detection warding’ and for the first several arcs of the manga the rest of the class didn’t even know he was there."

Makoto -

"In one sentence: Katai considers the titular Komi-san a communication master. Katai looks like a brutal thug, but he's actually extremely shy. Shy enough that after missing a couple weeks of class, it takes him months to build up the confidence to go to school. Katai tries to make friends once he does go to school, but he can't hold a conversation and doesn't realize that his mumbled half-sentences and resting bastard face make it look like he's threatening people. He's also pretty bad at reading the room, which is why he interprets Komi's behavior as a communication master trying to guide him from afar rather than a kindred spirit also struggling to hold a conversation."

#tumblr polls #autistic anime boys poll #prelims #ame #wolf children #floyd leech #twisted wonderland #hibiki #bubble #akira midousuji #yowamushi pedal #chu sang woo #semantic error #douglas billingham #double decker! doug and kirill #scott pilgrim #scott pilgrim takes off #shinra kusakabe #fire force #soi purson #welcome to demon school! iruma-kun #makoto katai #komi can't communicate

[samwisethewitch]

Queer family is me and my husband who met at our school's LGBTQIA+ Alliance in college.

Queer family is my boyfriend who got ordained so he could officiate his partners' wedding.

Queer family is our household, which consists of three people who are in love with each other and building a life together with two dogs and two cats.

Queer family is my friend and former lover taking a week off graduate school in Australia and flying across the world twice in one week so she could be at our wedding in person.

Queer family is setting aside a bedroom for our asexual friend to make it clear she will always have a space in our home.

Queer family is our fridge stocked with soy milk and vegan butter because one of our friends is allergic to dairy.

Queer family is my biological siblings who are also queer and who thankfully had a much easier time coming out than I did.

Queer family is planning a baby shower for my nonbinary friend to help them pay for baby clothes, cribs, diapers, etc.

Queer family is the homes and communities we build for ourselves and each other.

Queer family is the ancestors who went before, who dedicated their lives to building a future where I could safely live as an openly queer person.

Queer family is the children I will help raise, whether I'm their parent or not, who will hopefully live in a more accepting world than I do.

Queer family is the descendants I will never meet, who will experience gender and sexuality in ways I can't even imagine.

Queer family is strong.

Queer family is powerful.

Queer family is beautiful.

#having Feelings about love and found family today #queer family #found family #queer #lgbtq+ #lgbt #polyamory #queer community #queer politics #queer pride #mine #this post is trans inclusive #terfs fuck off #terfs dni #genderqueer #nonbinary

[cloudcountry]

auburn. she/they. arospec, asexual. 19 years old. only writes sfw. ikemen, obey me, & twst writer. due to my shift in interests, this blog may have some more suggestive content being discussed.

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i love!! — MY SILLIES!!! marine bio, chemistry, medical terminology, writing, tea, shakespearean literature, reading, autumn, makeup, painting (+ van gogh.) i do not like . . . — mustard, onions, bugs, bitter foods, physics (sorry bbg isaac!!), and idia shroud. yes i am serious. i hate him. ❀ FAVS!! ❀ ― azul ashengrotto, trey clover, vil schoenheit, leviathan, satan (om!), isaac newton, william shakespeare, vincent van gogh (ikevamp), zero (ikerev), edgar bright, jihyun kim or v, hyun ryu or zen, keith howell, andro jazz, shichiro balam, purson soi.

⤷ masterlists. tags. my mutuals. interests. boundaries. side blog. quotev. ao3. friend codes. route log. ikemen faq. yuusona!! treasure chest. ikemen wrapped.

#blog things <3 #introductory post

[chascon-a]

ug, me volveré asexual ctm m aburre k sea lo único k busquen😮‍💨 soy demasiado sentimiento pa esta vida