ScorpioVenus ★ ★ ☆ ☆ ☆
💝 this is a very complex placement bc it brings complete infidelity, deception, manipulation, secrecy, hypocrisy & confusion. he refuses to become a victim under someone else's control yet he holds an unseen power over others & the ability to completely transform others, which his love interests either run from or succumb to. falling in love with him is like graciously sinking into a man who could either feed you or eat you.
💝 he is very guarded romantically, typically hard to get to know & cautious of new people. he’ll demand to know everything abt you whilst trying to keep as many aspects of his own life hidden. but it’s his mysterious vibe that makes him so magnetic. he’s particularly private abt his love life & intimate details, causing him to keep secrets & tell lies. others may take this personally but this is just his default nature. you must open up to him first so he can feel safe & comfortable enough to be vulnerable with you. but sometimes you may have to just let him have his boundaries & secrets. since he values his own privacy he’ll likely value yours in return; he know the importance of keeping secrets.
💝 often he’ll be instantly aware that he’s attracted to someone but he’s still undecided if she’s supposed to be in his life for the long term, in a deep capacity or for the short term, as a casual acquaintance. since he takes awhile to warm up to people, he tends be intrigued by potential lovers on his own timing, with his own observations & discoveries. he will ask questions, keep tabs, set traps, run trials, etc to observe her responses & reactions. if he truly likes her, he may not be obvious abt it & she may not even know it. but he’ll definitely plot to get her & play the long game until the right moment (when he feels ready to make a move or when an opportunity becomes available). he’s very patient & tactical in this sense, he doesn’t mind to prolong this stage, waiting even years to pounce & taking his time to seduce her, whilst stalking her in the meantime.
💝 he treats people he doesn’t really know, like or care for with a more sweet & sociable approach. he can seem interested in them but that’s actually a sign of disinterest. if he’s being “mean” to a girl, that’s actually an indication he likes her. he will put on a mask, the more he likes her, the more fierce the mask gets. he acts this way to protect himself due to his instinctual fear of rejection & vulnerability. he will try to trigger her by being mean. he will stare at her in a very penetrating & daunting way. this behaviour can make him seem weirdly distant than fiercely intimate. but this is just his way of fantasising, observing, plotting, testing, processing & wanting.
💝 he is very good at tricking his love interest into thinking he doesn’t like her at all. he will literally ignore her, but get upset if she isn’t obsessing over him, whilst he’s ignoring her. he’ll purposely ignore her & look sexy doing it, whilst assuming it will magnetically attract her. he thinks ignoring her will drive her insane & make her obsessed with him. this way he has the upper hand & is in control, taking away her ability to possibly hurt him. he will try to keep her engaged in a constant chase of cat & mouse. he will be back & fourth from completely obsessed to totally not interested. he’ll go from making her feel like the most wanted & adored person ever to completely & deliberately pulling back from her. its like a permanent limbo from all in to all out. this hot & cold behaviour is caused by his needs to cool off from the intense feelings. he’s giving a little just enough to stimulate his appetite bc it's overwhelming to give a lot all at once. his numerous manipulation tactics are clearly self-destructive bc it pushes potential partners away from him. he needs a partner who is patient or unbothered enough to stay around despite his never ending mind games.
💝 with scorpio placements, everything is a power play. if you’re reacting, you’re giving him power, so just detach & ignore it. when he is being dismissive & giving the cold shoulder, it can feel confusing. some find it rude & selfish. some find it enticing & mysterious. but the depressing truth behind his mysterious vibe is that he tends to repel intimate moments out of fear. it’s not ignorance. it’s affliction. he experiences intense feelings which make him feel overwhelmed so he represses his emotions. he loves so deeply & he’s so frightened of the depth of his love, yet he simultaneously has a desire for intimacy, which he believes he’ll never have, which he feels even more terrified of when he gets close to having it, for fear of losing it, so he represses it & shies away from it. he’s not looking to get attached right off the bat bc he has a fear of losing himself in connections & his heart losing control. he perceives love as giving someone the power to hurt him. rxships can cause him intense transformations & painful experiences. he is not open to deep intimacy bc of trust issues so he keeps feeding toxicity instead. he has a fear of connecting with people to then be betrayed or let down. often the people he loves eventually abandon him, get to find someone they love only to have that person abandon them through death, separation, infidelity or otherwise.
💝 he can be very indulgent in rxships. for example, wanting an open-rxship, avoiding labels, entertaining on-&-off situatioships & even cheating. he can be commitment-phobic (similar to aquarius venus) bc deep down he’s very hedonistic (committed to seeking pleasure) meaning he wants to explore his sexuality.
💝 liking a good challenge is usually associated with aries but it’s actually more of a scorpio trait. scorpio placements are very aware of all the hardships & challenges they have accomplished & endured. they’re not afraid of going through hell & back. that doesn’t mean they like hardships; it means they love the feeling of surviving it & they take a lot of pride in that. often, he looks at a choice & chooses to go down the harder & scarier route due to his yearn for a good challenge. this is why he’s most attracted women whom are hard to get, allowing him to chase (challenge). sometimes, out of spite, he may marry a woman who doesn’t even deem him as her type (challenge). he has a tendency of falling in love with toxic women that hurt him or an aloof woman that dgaf abt him (challenge). he may cheat on his partner not bc its easy but bc it’s hard (challenge). he craves the tease & hunger of desire (challenge. he may feel rxships are only meaningful if there terbulent & painful (challenge). despite him being possessive himself, he may not want this energy reciprocated. it’s as if he wants someone who won’t put him through the horrors of rejection but won’t put him through the torture of mutual acceptance, love & trust either bc it’s safer this way after all. he may fall for players who won’t reciprocate his intensity & devotion but will still stick around after he has confessed his love (challenge). he will even enjoy toying with jealousy. jealousy is scary bc it could threaten a rxship. since he’s scared of jealousy, he uses it as a toy. he experiments with scenarios where jealousy can feel less like danger & more like arousal (challenge). he has a tendancy to maginify small issues leading to unnecessary conflicts bc an intimate rxship that is too peaceful bores him, similar to aries venus in this sense (challenge).
💝 however, he often pursues woman whom he has a very mild attraction to. you wouldn’t expect this from such an intense person. he does this bc he hates being under someone else’s control. when hes truly in love he feels like he has no control over himself so he seeks out women whom he doesn’t love deeply. this way he remains in complete control of himself & his partner.
💝 he demands to beloved & preaches abt honestly yet he does the complete opposite. it’s not uncommon for him to get into rxship without being completely devoted. he will put his partner through many trial runs & expect her to surrender to his feet. he needs to know she feels or is capable of feeling as intensely as he does before he lets his guard down. it’s only at this stage will he give her his heart & become completely loyal. if not, he’ll secretly cheat on her as revenge as she’s not trusted enough.
💝 he is stereotyped as an intense & devoted lover even though he can be a player, serial dater & a cheater. he may channel a lot of intensity sexually whilst remaining emotionally casual & unavailable. but this isn’t actually how he wants to act deep down bc this behaviour rarely satisfies his deeper needs. he undoubtedly keeps himself very guarded & it does take a lot of convincing to get him to completely commit. he takes along time to determine whether or not to trust someone with his heart. but once you prove yourself worthy & get past his protections, there is surprisingly a deeply romantic & soft individual you wouldn’t expect to find underneath the sometimes intimidating scorpio shell. he is a passionate & loyal partner who loves carefully & slowly but intensely & completely. once invested, he is entirely, whole-heartedly in, so he’s got to be careful. in this sense, he is similar to his sister sign, taurus venus.
💝 expect a lot of jealous & possessive behaviour once he’s fallen in love with you. for example, showing up to places that you are. he maybe interested in having a a stay-at-home wife due to his possessive & paranoid nature. he doesn’t want anyone too see his partner (opposite to leo venus) & knowing his partner is always at home is comforting to him (opposite to aries venus).
💝 once you’ve earned his commitment & he’s locked in with you, he’s here for the long run. in fact, all fixed venus signs stay in rxships even if it doesn’t serve them. they love the familiarity & security the rxship provides. they fear the idea of having to start over from scratch.
💝 since venus is uncomfortable in scorpio, he may be quite shy or insecure. he may pride himself on not asking for much, even if he wants more.
💝 he may struggle with addiction (many scorpio placements do) bc he enjoys indulging in pleasures & being in altered states of consciousness. also, there’s defo a link between scorpio placements & smoking. they either smoke themselves or they’re obsessed with the imagery of others smoking.
💝 if his partner toys with his emotions, she will end up on the receiving end of his stinger! once harmed, he finds it hard to forgive & forget.
Turn On’s:
💝 he’s fasinated by a quiet & mysterious woman whom is hard to read & decipher. she has mastered the art of keeping to herself & she holds a lot of secrets which intrigues him. it’s important to him that she knows when to open up & when to not. she has a bubbling energy of intensity which isn’t so obvious physically but felt internally. “still waters run deep” vybz.
💝 however, once he begins to romantically pursue her, he wants an honest & straightforward response from her. he wants her to show him & tell him that she’s interested. this will make him feel safe & secure to let down his guard further.
💝 he perceives seduction as manipulation so it’s best to let him seduce you instead of you seducing him.
💝 you must prove yourself worthy first but you wont achieve that by doing the most bc his love cannot be be brought or forced. the key to his heart is honesty & transparency bc that promises depth & passion. he wants to see the real you & he wants to show you the real him. he falls in love with the imperfections, rawness & transparency of somebody. he’s the epitome of “i know you aren’t perfect & i see all your flaws but i think that’s beautiful & i’m still here for you”. he doesn’t care for anything thats without flaw bc he know thats not real & he values authenticity.
💝 he is drawn to your darkness bc he can relate to darkness so don’t be scared to shown him your dark side. he wants to know all the dirt you’re ashamed of. the more messy, the more attracted he becomes. he may perceive mean or bad people as more real, genuine, deep & therefore more attractive. after all, he has a dare devil spirit so he’s intensely drawn to what seems unlovable & forbidden. he loves taboo things & a woman who can handle this. the more danger equals the more temptation so replace pinks with reds & blacks. he also he possess a "let me protect you from all the hurt & evil" complex so often falls for either women with a villain vibe (intimidating, dark & dominant with a repressed soft side) or women with a victim vibe (soft & vulnerable crybabies). he may believe good girls will run away when he takes his mask off. but bad girls will be able to handle him.
💝 loyalty, unwavering commitment & deep/sincere connection is most important to him. he literally wants to deeply merge with his partner show him that his enemies are your enemies. look into his eyes & don’t turn away until he does. lock away his secrets. breathe into him.
💝 before diving into commitment he needs to know he’ll be sexually compatible with you so ensure to bring out your kinky side & fulfill him sexually. due to his love of power plays, he may enjoy giving or receiving head more than sex itself.
💝 any woman stepping into his lair best be well prepared bc he requires a lot of drama & emotional excitement in his love life. he feels alive when surrounded by passion & he needs intensity at all times.
💝 to impress him wear: dark, edgy clothing (eg kourt k after meeting travis barker). possibly oversized & comfortable to keep the mystery of what’s underneath. he enjoys the feeling of being the only one who gets to see your body since scorpio is possessive. look powerful & strong. black lace, mesh, leather & a bold, red lip, dark circles around the eyes. he loves all black bc it honours the shadow self (dark side).
💝 however, for him, it’s less abt what you look like & more abt how you carry yourself. in-fact, often he has unattractive partners bc he’s attracted to sex appeal & depth instead of to classic beauty. he likes partners that scare him a little or just have a more intimidating presence. he loves a mysterious & complex women with a very dark personality/aesthetic bc he tends to get bored of his rxships once the passion dies (similar to aries venus).
💝 his ideal lover would have a water sign sun, moon or asc.
Turn Off’s:
💝 stagnant, unfaithful, dishonest, apathetic, attention-seeking women.
💝 if you make him compete for your attention bc he resents seeing his person of interest flirt & mess around with other people, especially if he feels like you're doing it on purpose. scorpio placements do have abandonment issues so he wants to feel needed whilst respecting his boundaries.
💝 ignoring & ghosting him, making him feel left out & unwanted, refusing to take his feelings into account & not apologising for your actions. (that goes for all water venus).
💝 superficial encounters or small talk.
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Venus in the signs 💓
What brings you pleasure...
Aries: adrenaline, fast cars, taking risks, winning, trying something new, sports
Taurus: good food, shopping, decadence, luxury, being spolit with gifts, relaxing
Gemini: learning something new, going on a spontaneous weekend away, gossiping
Cancer: warm hugs, alone time, touch, emotional connection, thinking about the good old days, cooking
Leo: attention, being treated like royalty, compliments, public displays of affection
Virgo: order, taking care of someone/fixing someones problems, offering advice, being right, getting good results
Libra: peace and quiet, praise, fighting injustice, finding yourself in someone else
Scorpio: intensity with others, knowing other peoples secrets, blackmail, love/hate connections
Sagittarius: freedom, exploring nee things and new places, meeting new people, sharing your opinion, foreign travel
Capricorn: security, keeping others at a distance, accumulating wealth, being adored for your hard work, being a leader
Aquarius: human connection at a distance, bettering society at large, winning arguments, sharing your knowledge with others
Pisces: daydreaming, escaping (either through drugs and alcohol, isolation, or running away literally or metaphorically), creating
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