hi! i'm in process with my book, and i really wanna give one of the antagonists a rollator as his main aid. i'm disabled, i use a cane, but i daydream about rollator so. that's why.
the question is. what conditions in your mind lack representation? i have no problem with researching, but i lowkey don't want to just give him my experience. thank you!
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Thank you for your ask! Personally I believe every disability lacks representation, as disability shows up extremely infrequently in media and even when it does it’s often shallow and poorly represented.
One thing I’ve noticed in media is that when someone uses a mobility aid it’s often due to an old injury, amputation or muscle weakness. There’s nothing wrong with giving a character one of these, I just think it would be cool to see someone using an aid due to a limb difference, a heart or lung issue, a brain condition, or to help with fatigue or dizziness. There are a lot of reasons for someone to use an aid and I’d like to see them represented!
Here’s a short list of disabilities I’ve never seen represented that could cause someone to use a rollater:
camurati-engelmann’s disease
congenital genu recurvatum calcaneovalgus
bilateral peroneal neuropath
nail-patella syndrome
tetralogy of fallot
arthrogryposis multiplex congenita
cardiomyopathy
You don’t have to use them, but since your question can also be read as asking for specific underrepresented conditions we decided to include them :) (smiley face)
Before I finish, I noticed you said that the aid was for an antagonist. Please make sure that you aren’t falling into the disabled villain trope by giving some of the protagonist characters disabilities as well. Keep in mind your antagonist also shouldn’t be the only character with an aid or visible difference (if you choose a condition that causes visible differences).
Have a nice day!
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question for physically disabled or chronically ill people with mobility aids or with no mobility aids
tldr: can i use a mobility aid as an abled autistic person who experiences fatigue, balance/stability issues, sways more than normal when standing, and get more than occasional slight body aches? (feel like i have to explain myself)
Im abled but i feel like i could benefit from mobility aids but it feels like i’m invading or something
i’m autistic and sometimes struggle with standing, i sway sometimes (i think more than the average person does), and i struggled with balance and coordination sometimes. I also struggle with fatigue. i find myself not going out because i’m just too tired to walk the whole time or stay standing. my legs get tired easy, i get tired easy. i stay in the house or in the car majority of the time.
my body also feels uncomfortable, like sort of achy, but i feel like i’m being dramatic about that and everyone feels that way. it’s probably just like when you tell a kid a bandaid fixes the pain and they believe it. idk the word. it starts with a p i think. it’s probably just my bra or like the way i eat. whatever, my point is i don’t feel good a lot, even if i don’t feel sick, i feel achy.
i want to use a mobility aid but i feel like i’m invading if that makes sense. i feel like i don’t really need it, i know i don’t need it, but i think it would really help. but i can’t really afford to see a doctor about it either.
i want to know what the physically disabled community thinks because i feel i need permission to use one.
i feel sorta like a faker or imposter.
i’m sorry if this is offensive to ask
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REMINDER.
It’s okay to need a mobility device if you’re young.
It’s okay to need a cane
It’s okay to need a walker/rollator
ITS OKAY to need a wheelchair, or to use the riding carts in stores
Age does not matter. Use what you need.
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Things disabled people wish you knew about mobility aids!
I am more mobile with my mobility aid than without.
Stop asking me when I'll get better.
When I don't have a mobility aid and am using a shopping cart, do not take it, I am leaning on it so I can be on my feet longer.
Stop asking me why I need a mobility aid when we're strangers.
I decorate my cane, it feels like a part of me, please give me space to feel sad when I have to replace it.
People will walk into me or gotten very close, please don't stare at your phone while you walk.
Mobility aids are not depressing.
Mobility aids help us to live fuller and more independent lives with less symptoms.
I love my mobility aids! I don't want the focus of my treatment to be getting rid of them, I want it to be improving my symptoms.
Mobility aids don't have to be boring and plain. A mobility aid being decorated doesn't mean I don't need it!
I don't need help unless I ask for it.
Disability isn't taboo, let your kids be curious and ask questions.
Stop moving my mobility aid(s) without asking me. My mobility aid(s) are an extension of my body.
I don't just use my mobility aid for shits and giggles, I need it. It is not for show it is not for attention and implying it is is incredibly ableist.
People use mobility aids differently, some people use their mobility aids all the time and some people don't. I don't need my mobility aid 24/7.
I switch sides with my cane and constantly have to worry about being fake claimed when in reality I just need it for both of my legs.
I'm still disabled even though I'm fat and have invisible disabilities.
I'm still disabled and in pain even when I'm not using any mobility aids.
I'm not a baby, I'm not just fat, I'm not just weak. I am disabled and I like to think I'm stronger than most non-disabled people.
It's really weird to make comments or gestures when I'm in my wheelchair. If you wouldn't say it to someone who doesn't have a wheelchair don't say it to me.
Don't bend down to talk to me it's hella weird. Just talk to me like you would talk to anybody shorter than you.
Just because I'm not using my mobility aid doesn't mean I'm suddenly better!
I'm just as disabled when I'm not using my mobility aid.
Going a few days without my mobility aid doesn't mean I'm no longer disabled.
Just because I don't always need my mobility aid does not make it a toy.
Mobility aids can be incredibly helpful and we shouldn't have to be embarrassed to use them.
If I'm in my electric wheelchair and I'm in front of an aisle you need to get to just let me know, don't reach over my lap like I'm not a person.
If you don't step out of my way as a wheelchair user I am going to hit you, that's not a threat, it just will happen. You have a lot more maneuverability than I do.
If I'm using my mobility aid, you can be respectful and accomodate me without making it a thing. I know my limits and capabilities. Using a cane does not make me weak or helpless.
It's really funny seeing you guys jump to get out of the way when I use my cane, the space is appreciated, but it's still really funny to see the look on your face.
Please stop praying for my "recovery" there is none!
My rollator gives me freedom! I can go more places without having to worry about a lack of seating. I can actually walk faster with it than without it.
My mobility aid shouldn't be a horrifying last resort, it helps me so much, even when I'm not at my absolute worst!
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