Just saw a goth girl on a dating app. Spider tattoo on her neck, purple hair, black nails, fishnets, etc. Her top spotify songs were all taylor swift. This is a prime example of Batesian mimicry, in this essay, I will
the most helpful thing i have ever seen from neurodivergent internet spaces is “THERE ARE OTHER TIMES OF DAY TO BRUSH YOUR TEETH”. this has genuinely saved me from executive dysfunction spirals so many times.
Seeing a woman in your dreams that you find attractive almost definitely links to your desires. if you see a woman in your dreams that you would realistically want to be in relationship with, you may have had what Frued refers to as a “wishful fulfillment dream” (https://www.freud.org.uk/education/resources/the-interpretation-of-dreams/wish-fulfilment/). If you're dreaming about a woman in a romantic way, the most obvious conclusion to make is that you are starved for romance or sex and you are fulfilling this starvation subconsciously. If you don’t think of this woman in a romantic way, and your admiration of her beauty can be thought of as more akin to jealousy or envy, it’s more likely that your self esteem is suffering and you wish you could be that beautiful woman. you may feel bad about your appearance and the woman is a manifestation of what you wish you could look like.
i don’t know what chronically-ill/disabled baddie needs to hear this, but doing things slowly, with a mobility aid, or with the help of a caregiver is still doing things. even if it took you an hour and five breaks to fold a load of laundry — you still did it! just because you can’t do things at the speed and ease of able-bodied people doesn’t mean you can’t do them. i just switched over the laundry and it took me 10 minutes and now i’m laying down in bed to recover, but i did it!!! and i’m proud of myself for even trying!
Our dreams cannot invent new faces– the woman you see in your dreams is someone that you have seen at least once in your life. But why is she here if you don’t know her? Unknown women in our dreams can represent femininity and/or maternity, especially if the woman in your dream is presented in a way that relates to femininity (holding a child, giving birth, etc.). The woman being unknown means that the woman herself does not hold any significant meaning for you, so instead she represents women and femininity as a whole. she could possibly relate to gender issues you may face, especially if you have troubles accepting your femininity, or if you have just recently embraced it.