#not rebloggable because it's just for u

[slaviclore]

immigration anniversary is this month and it always makes me reflective. when i was a kid my parents moved from poland to the states (to florida). i desperately didn't want to go and to this day it's the most impactful trauma of my life. after a few days in florida, my uncle drove us to the beach (which was very close to where we were staying). this was going to be my first time seeing the ocean. everyone was really hyping it up, and i distinctly remember sitting in the back seat and thinking to myself "ok here it comes, finally something that will make it all worth it" -- leaving my home, my family and friends, having to give up my cats and my dog, pretty much all my belongings toys and books and drawing pads, going from living in the countryside surrounded by nature and green things and fruit trees and vegetable gardens so if i had to stay outside all day i could easily feed myself like some sort of feral child while being followed around by my stupid poodle and the family of cats i raised before finally going to sleep in my own room in my bed, to now being surrounded by concrete and unable to leave the cramped apartment by myself, no animals, all food is in plastic, there's like one tree outside, sharing a single tiny bedroom with both my parents, no friends only strangers, no one can speak my language, everything is fucking agony, but here we go, here's the atlantic ocean of lore, everyone is acting like this is so special, this must be the reason we're here

and y'all it was just a lot of fuckn water

#not rebloggable because it's just for u

[stargloom]

hey. i dont like doing this. and i dont want to be a tumblr bitch who's wrote a callout before. but i cannot in good faith continue posting in the same community as this guy and allow him to pretend to not be genuinely a sicko. but @/bloomingduskk (who im sure will change urls after i post this is. a prosh.ipper radq.eer trans.d alongside a plethora of unfavorable unethical things. most of which being too personal to share, but enough left for me to be uncomfortable with my own silence. tw for like fucking everything lol

I never wanted to be in this position, or ever have to be the author of something like this. I am not a confrontational person or someone who enjoys drama, i’m entirely someone who goes out of his way not to get involved in such things, but due to my past public friendships with this person, and his tendencies of covering his tracks and lying about me and my friends, i feel as if it would be cowardly of me not to at least issue a warning about this user, and hope my message is conveyed well. If this was solely a personal gripe, I would not come out with a doc publically, I have no intentions of being petty, and am purposely leaving out a lot of petty issues and things that have been done to harm me personally. I only intend to talk about the actual dangers he promotes, and provide counterclaims to the narratives he tends to enjoy putting out. 

Before going further, i will be addressing him by his url, or nothing at all, as i will not be calling him by the japanese name he chooses to go by as a white person. It is against my morals. I hope that my decision doesn’t make this document more confusing than it needs to be. 

--- bloomingduskk uses Japanese names as a white person, and has done so for a while. He currently uses the name “maki” , and for the last half of 2023, went by Kaede, despite the fact that i firmly told him not to due to it being cultural appropriation multiple times, and each time he gave me an excuse, before continuing to do it. This is not a targeted attack against him, as he has said before in regard to being told not to use a japanese name, but something that i would condemn no matter who the person was. He identify(s)d as transracial. No matter the mental health issues you may have, the entire concept of “transitioning” into an ethnic minority is racist and entirely unacceptable. Here was his response to that.

And here is him self describing as transracial, and his pinned post on his old radqueer blog

^^ his discord at the time, which i and many others have personal dms with, matched exactly with his radq.ueer blogs. he cannot fucking say this isnt him i will go insane if he tries to deny this shit. He has spoken about me under the guise that I am stalking him, despite never having me blocked on anything but an old art account, and also the fact that I have gone out of my way, due to having severe morality ocd, not to scroll through or look at his content. All screenshots were provided to me secondhand, and not from my own devices, due to how severe this situation was for me, a person with ocd who he knew has ocd. At the time of these screenshots, i specifically requested my friends to block out his usernames so i didn't obsessively compulsively make myself feel sick scrolling through his blogs. (the screenshots in question here are not mine, i own a samsung galaxy, this ui does not match. I added my own annotations to the second image though.) VV his self identification as a proshipper + some stuff he had on his propara blogs (heavy tw)

^^ the first image here is in repsonse to an extremely long and thought out message my friend sent him during this period to this specific blog of his when it still existed.

his response to this was full of lies and empty promises and excuses, and plenty of vapid words he has taken back. i dont see a point in including what he had to say about this purely because he was lying through his teeth.

his twt account was probably the worst thing of his that was shown to me. i do not want to include screenshots of the things he would retweet as they were all sexually explicit imagery and posting of pedophilia, rape, beastiality, severe abuse, loli/shota content, and general dangerous and exploitative philias. i do not want to make that content more reachable to anyone than it already is . this account has been deleted. but i have been given screenshots of him posting his art there. along with the most tame thing i think he posted there. yeah

a lot of the harm he has done to my friends and i is extremely personal, far more personal than i feel comfortable airing out on a public blog that i've worked hard to distance a public personality from. so, i am not willing to spend time slowly outlining every single lie and harmful action he has done. that would make this post impossibly long, and i dont have the stomach to retrigger myself in this way. this has taken me two months to write, as i am deeply bothered by it and this entire event with him made me the sickest i'd been in a long while. do not fucking harass him. block him. im certain he's going to send himself anon asks pretending to be stargloom rabid fans or pretend to be my friends or whatever but all i want is for him to stay the fuck away from me and my friends and spaces where he pretends he isn't into vile shit. block him. dont interact. dont send him anything. just be careful of this cunt . i refuse to let him walk around as if he hasn't happily and enthusiastically promoted the most vile content one can enjoy.

im sure he's gonna scramble after this and probably start spewing revolting shit abt me which hes done at every single turn after me being upset. but he cannot pretend like nothing happened forever. thanks.

#long post #starspeak #jesus christ. now i gotta fucking trigger tag this shit #tw inc*st #tw pedophila mention #tw sh #tw zoophile mention #tw unsanitary #i already said this but DO NOT harass him please just dont interact w this sicko or engage w his work #i know he will send himself anon asks its his favourite game but genuinely. dont do that. thanks #this is rebloggable please do if u can i dont like how he slinks around in the dgr fandom all innocent #tw r4p3 #bruh i cannot keep up w these censored tags #i will probs rb this throughout the week bc i want . this to be known #i am leaving this up because i dont want this to be ignored or forgotten about .

[laconic-nightmares]

so fucking bored of having to deal with moral ocd over the use of words

people arent going to stop making progressively stricter rules as to why people who dont have the exact fucking experiences as them cant use certain words

they arent going to stop trying to exclude anyone they percieve as suffering less than them from community, or help, or fucking 'terminology.'

i cannot express how little i give a fuck about this obsession with only ever using the exact right words, only using the words other people give u permission to use once theyve decided youve reached an acceptable level of visible pain. because its only about how much they think ur suffering based on their perception of ur life

#current nightmare; caim #not making this rebloggable because the idea of any of those fucks coming along and starting an argument on this post #is making us nauseous from dmitri fucking stressing #only able to post this thru his anxiety because im a stubborn fuck #if u have a problem with this post do us both a favour and just #fucking. move. on. with ur own fucking life #u can do that on the internet actually #ur not gonna get anything from us other than all of the angry bastards coming out to swear at u simultaneously #ur not gonna get a reasonable rational debate #we arent going to let dmitri get into another fucking 'discussion' that rips it into pieces

[chamerionwrites]

The thing about my lowgrade genderfeels is that it feels functionally impossible to know if that is actually what they are in a world in which being a woman is, objectively, really fucking annoying sometimes

#it's not just misogyny but the misogyny sure doesn't HELP u kno #not rebloggable because you just know the terfs will add some evil overgeneralized bullshit #but also i am allowed to have feelings about my own experiences damn it #gender stuff #my posts

[hungry-hobbits]

i'm saying this as an almost 30yr old person who has kinda come to terms w the fact that i'll probably never be properly gendered in public and am at peace with it: BUT i think a lot of trans people are too hyped up over the idea that you have to be gendered correctly by everyone you ever meet, no matter how briefly, or they automatically have bad intentions - which isn't always the case because unfortunately you're not the main character and people are gonna make mistakes (yes that includes people close to you because everyone slips-up)

people get so hung up over casual, unintentional, and well-meaning misgendering, and are so quick to categorize it with the purposeful, blatant, bigoted type of misgendering when its really like - the old lady scooting past you in the grocery store calling you ma'am/sir out of politeness towards a stranger while she says 'excuse me' is probably not doing a microaggression towards you believe it or not

if theyre doing it maliciously then yes obviously you can feel bad about it, i'm not saying that at all, but its like when sam smith talked about how they were gonna be misgendered til the day they died; it's a hard thing to accept but you gotta accept it if you literally wanna get through any interaction with strangers ever

#long post #making it not rebloggable because its just my personal feelings - hopefully people understand what i'm saying but alas #this doesnt even touch on my feelings of young lgbt's 'clocking' other queers in public with pronoun questions and limp wristing #which is a well meaning but shitty and dangerous practice #but it all goes in hand with that extreme over-hype of having to have everyones pronouns immediately or else you're evil and bad #these kinds of peopel feel way too comfortable going up to a person in public and going I SEE YOU EVEN THO U THOUGHT U WERE PASSING

[talkurtalk]

heyitsmebee -> talkurtalk

okay folks its official.... I've changed my url!! 🫡

got good feedback from y’all so thanks for helping an indecisive bitch make a decision <3 It feels SO WEIRD to have a different url, but I really like this one. new haircut syndrome I guess lol

I’ll be releasing all the others I had grabbed for consideration, so if anyone wants thisluvspiral, crimsonclover-uh-huh, thatsarealfinglegacy, somethinginthehaze, beenbetrayed, or burgandyscarletmaroon from my poll... go for it lol!

#swiftie #url change #love y'all #gonna start using a user hashtag because I have like.... a lot of followers and thereby mutuals now?? #and I want us to communicate more <3 #soooo #I'll be tracking: #user talkurtalk #from now on <3 #and might use #talkingmytalk #on things... we'll see #trying to be like #an actual swiftblr/Tumblr community member after 6 1/2 years not just a reblogger??? insane #no u may not have my og url it is M I N E

[cannibalismyuri]

HUGGING U EVEN TIGHTER !!!! LIFTS U OFF THE GROUND W THE SHEER FORCE OF MY LOVE !! SPINNING U AROUND AND AROUND AND AROUND !!!! 🫂🫂🫂

SUNI 🥺🥺🥺 ILYSM HUGGING YOU BACK THE HARDEST ILYY 🫂🫂🫂🫂

#let me ramble in the tags since nobody's gonna see em #so i made a post abt how willel are the antithesis of billy. and i tagged it w bully flopgrove tag #so the drama started #i did a whole psych analysis w a friend of mine on discord #and sent the screenshots to the rebloggers #and ofc i got a fucking death threat #and hmm lemme count 17 ANON asks full of hatred #just because i dared to say smtg #and i literally showed how billys abuse to max very closely parallels abuse patterns in marital abuse #and how billy made max go thru sm emotional and mental abuse #yet all everyone said was “OHH DONT COMPARE ABUSE VICTIMS”/“ YOU JUST HATE ABUSE VICTIMS” 🤬😡 #so yeah #tfw u finally engage in some serious fandom discourse and u get 3 (three) death threats 😩🤯 #okay ill stop now #sara's asks #suni <33

[ascalonianpicnic]

You won't give any details about what happened but anything we do hear is a lie? And you want us to send you any info we see about what he says? Dude are you okay? Ily but you have to see how shady that is.

I literally said anyone can message me for details but as it involves a personal medical situation, no I'm not going to post those details publicly ✌ and like what elf did isnt like some big deal, it was just very hurtful to me personally that I wanted to complain about, so like why does everyone need to know exactly what happened. I'm not trying to tell people he's dangerous or to cut him off I'm just yelling into the void about the fact that I got treated bad on a personal level last october

I guess basically if you talk to elf about me and he says I did something wrong, I would like to know? So I can at least improve as a person if I did fuck up and didnt notice? But also I don't want to ask people to do that for me because I'd rather just avoid him and because there are multiple things going on and I'm very specifically talking about a thing that happened only between him and I over september and october that again, anyone can ask questions about my dms are open I won't be mad if people want to pry

#and no im not ok thank u for asking my life has been issue after issue since last september ✌ #maybe it does all sound shady i havent been able to sleep more than 4 hours a day at most in 2 weeks #and this was kinda just meant to be a one off thing of me just yelling about a thing thats been just sitting in my brain since last october #also anon i have no fucking clue who you are you really could *just* dm me instead #i am simply exhausted and slightly paranoid because of another thing and literally none of it even matters i just wanted to complain #i can just delete the post if this is That Big Of An Issue thats why i made it non-rebloggable

[theladybrownstarot]

Future Spouse first impression V/s Yours

❀ Here's my masterlist for more !

❀ Make sure you like/follow/Comment/reblogg for more pacs like these !

❀ This pac will be guiding you to how to manifest your connection with some channeld messages from them

Pile 1 . Pile 2. Pile 3.

𐙚 Pile 1 .

Namaste pile 1 ! Let's get with your reading :-

❀ Their first impression over you :

Okay , pile 1, from what I can see feel read and understand is that this person is gonna think of you someone as a hopeful person , even when you are in difficulty you will get instant solution . I guess when you will be meeting them you two or either one of you maybe going thru some problems and one of you will offer help .

They may see you as someone serious also . they feel that light and passion dripping from your eyes and melting their hearts to see as who you are . they will see you as someone brave , passionate , bold , honest , warrior or fighter , someone who stands out among everyone , someone who they can depend on wow pile 1 hands up to you ! this person is gonna study you like their favorited subjects .

They will see you as someone who doesn't give up and really you will be their type they had like to be passionate with . They think that you expect honesty from everyone and really they will do same for you ..they will show who are they like in actual to win your heart and they do see you as someone rational and smart and someone who is good at proving their logic.

It is possible that you may appear cold , defensive and bit egotist but its okay because for them you will matter most . this is gonna be an instant strong attraction for them .

❀ Your first impression of them :-

okay pile 1 are you ready for it ?! lets dive in buds, hmm so it maybe possible that you will actually feel like " finally I found you at last" when you will meet this person for sure . I can see you thinking about them as an achiever ; who got may accomplishment . this person is gonna astound you up for sure haha .

you will see them as someone is who is giving , loving , caring and who got people to support them . I can see you as if you will feel like he\she is my pure air to breathe under in forever . I feel this person is very good by heart and nature . you will think of them as someone calm , rich , luxurious by their nature , appearance and personality . they are an extrovert for sure , but ig u may even thin that this person may give a lot but in end may sometime get in trouble but I also feel that this person won't hold grudges because they don't care about people , they have best emotional and mental control babies and i guess you want someone like them . This will be a dream come true for sure for y'all .

𐙚❀˖° How to manifest with connection fast ?

you need to be expressive of your emotions and about yourself so you can transfer and spread your energy in this crowded world to signal them .

𐙚❀˖° Channeled Messages From Them :-

(1) just hang in there my love im coming so don't be sad I will save you up from the darkness .

(2) meet more people and find me darlo , I m around you haha .

(3) with you my life seems more prosperous and I will be blessed to u have you as my greatest gift .

𐙚 Pile 2 .

Namaste pile 2 ! Let's get with your reading :-

❀ Their first impression of You :-

so i see that this person will think of you as someone strong minded or we say overall strong in nature . someone who can take a stand alone for themselves in the worst situations , someone really positive during hard times. aah i see self made individuals an mature people .i see leo and sun astrologically by vision . they will see you someone who is really charming even when you are silent .

okay , it must be possible that when you will meet this person you will a some sort of breakup or breakdown out there . this person will want to hug and console you for sure . i don it just hit me maybe when you cry you look more beautiful . or it maybe at least case that they had a breakup when they met you .

They will see you someone very charming , transparent , innocent , clear minded, focused , beautiful for sure .

❀ Your first impression of them :-

Okay , i can see you seeing them haha someone of a dominant personality lmao . this person ur future wife/ husband basically will be of an obsessive of nature . you may see them as someone who may restrict or cross boundaries of someone else . they person will be strong minded for sure . they will be strategic . could be boss or into military or police service . they will be muscular .

since i you will see them who is clear headed to do achieve the aim . they aren't that dominant to but can be little bit more caring . its possible that this person is gonnaaa be lazyy uff ... and could be that isn't that adventurous or stuck somewhere in their life ..will be having some transition and will be kinda scared or confused to how to go through this transformation . maybe you can help them somewhere.

𐙚❀˖° How to manifest this connection fast ?

SO , u may meet them at some sort of celebration or something maybe a party . you need to maintain your ownself like be careful of what you do and think plus be yourself ! enjoy your life .

𐙚❀˖° Channeled Messages from Them :-

(1) You know i need some time ; i'm stuck try now .

(2) I will come to you when you will show you real self .

(3) I want to have a happy family with you . i wanna take care of you as a queen/king of my life and will be loyal to .

(4) I want some rest i'm tired mentally .

𐙚 Pile 3 .

Namaste pile 3 ! Let's get with your reading :-

❀ Their first impression over you :-

Okay , I sense that this person will think of you as someone who is doing alot of self love or we say someone who is interested in themselves.

They won't be shocked to see you at first instead I see them as being like I wanna be with her/him even If I have to let go of things .

I see that u maybe would have left toxic people behind in your life to know and establish your own self worth and this person will sense same .

They Will daydream about u and their scenarios in Mind haha ♡ cute ! They will see you as someone beautiful and maybe one part of ur body is chubby like 🧸 ♡ .

❀ Your first impression of them :-

Okay , it feels like that you may not notice them as you must be having some fights and mental conflicts and even when you will see this person you may see them as someone smart, observant and intelligent. Your Mind will be playing games with you tbh . You will feel shy infront of this person.

For some people OR few I see that u may see them as someone who is experienced and matured after prolong emotional breakage .like bad relationship experience and failures ect or vice - versa .

It might be possible that you will get people saying that no bro don't focus on that person,that person is mine kinda jealousy vibes tbh .

I see for most of the people that u will be meeting them during high-school times .

𐙚❀˖° How to manifest this connection fast ?

You are being told to cooperated with others . To ask help from others like your friends or colleague to recommend some choices and all . For least to go on a trip of some sort .

𐙚❀˖° Channeled Messages from them :-

(1) show ur strength but be In a flow .

(2) I'm so attracted to you that I wanna take you from everyone ,just to trap u and protect u in my heart .

(3) you are my most unexpected gift from divine and universe .

+:★:+*━━━*+:★:+*━━━*+:★:+*+:★:+*━━━*+:★:

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[blamemma]

what you said about maxiel fanfics with endgame lest4ppen, yes, I agree. someone mentioned this before, but maxiel is slowly dying on ao3 while it seems to be thriving more and more on tumblr.

for me it's 50/50 because I don't mind where I'm reading, but here we have more one-shots and pieces of WIPs (which is good because it means authors don't feel the pressure to turn everything into a 50k story, so they can just post their ideas even if it's incomplete), but I personally LOVE longer stories, so I would love to read more and more about every single one of them.

and personally I just don't like lest4ppen at all. I understand the need to tag maxiel because daniel is the bad guy and the "shitty boyfriend" or whatever, but I just don't like seeing those stories 😬

will always preface asks like this by saying people can like what they like and find joy in whatever, i ain't gunna turn my nose up at anyone or anything, lestappen just doesn't make sense to meeee personally, but honestly whatever butters ur bread!!!

as someone who has dabbled here and there in this writing lark, for me there is a distinct difference in ao3 posting and tumblr posting....ao3 to me is formal, ur presenting something perfect, a fully-fledged story, a beginning a middle and an end (not in all cases but i just mean in general). most stuff i read on ao3 is fully-fledged nuanced ideas that the author has obviously spent hours of time crafting and experimenting with.

tumblr fic is inherently fun and blase and easier to throw out there into the ether and forget about really. tumblr fic doesn't need to follow grammatical rules or structure etc etc....it can just be a fun prompt game response or a quick lil fic that you had fun writing and wanna share with ur people?? both have purposes and both are enjoyable to write imo, just depends on what ur feeling and how much u want to expand on said idea??

when it comes to the maxiel of it all....idk how rude or pointed i can get here without getting into shit....so i'll try and word this gently....you have to keep the eco-system alive....i think comments and kudos are GREAT but honestly, if someone reblogs my fic with a fun few tags, i love that more, because in a selfish way, i might get 1 or 2 more readers from that because its going out to an even wider audience?? but its more than that!! engage with ur writers, message them on here and shout at them about their ideas, send them prompts, recommend their fic to ur friends...but i will stand by i think one of the best things you can do, if they make a fun lil post or graphic for their fic...reblog it...ur not only spreading the maxiel gospel, but ur also supporting that writer?? too many times on here i see people's fic graphics flop yet big blogs are leaving them comments on ao3 and look, EACH TO THEIR OWN and also i can sometimes be a bad reblogger dont get me wrong, but LIKE, there are some wildly talented authors on here who just need to be pushed into the limelight a little bit more??? idk if im wording this correctly, but sometimes there are fics that fall through the cracks because no one engages with them, and if ur an author who has put blood sweat and tears into that fic, ur not exactly going to be motivated to post another maxiel fic if u dont think ur going to get engagement from it (again, fic writing isn't necessarily about engagement or response, but let me tell u when i get a fun little comment or someone messages me about a fic i published, it inspires me to write more????)

maxiel is definitely alive and kicking, i follow some stunningly good maxiel authors, but at the same time, its about pushing forward those smaller writers as well and not thinking ur too cool for them???????????????

and so with that, this flufftober, kinktober, spooktober or whatever tober u are a part of, reblog the fic, talk about the fic and enjoy the fic

#if u can understand what i am trying to say here then well done cause i dont think i even do #mean thats a lie i do know what im trying to say but i know a lot of people would hate me if i said what i actually wanted to say :)) #anon #asks

[i-cant-sing]

I just wanted to tell you I love your writings. I'm a long time reader/ reblogger. I'm christian and through your blog I've learned so much about the Muslim faith, its really cool to see writers talk about their personal lives/ religions. I love learning about your culture. ❤️

well if u wanna know more about islam and religion in general, or even history, i would recommend u to go through wikipedia and other articles available online, or watch them on youtube. Because I am not an expert and i sometimes have to write about things that would suit the plot more.

ANYWAYS, im glad that u enjoy my yapping tho <3

[slaviclore]

posting this because I'm seeing eastern europeans expressing increasing concern over this issue -- the socialists are calling it campism

From this article by Dan La Botz

#politics #not to be confused with the cool gay campism #not rebloggable because it's just for u

[yooniesim]

now bestie, u ain't too stupid to take a screenshot now are ya? I knew the girls were bad off, but damn... 🤣

that being said, my posts ain't rebloggable now bc it ain't a discussion. it's a psa. I don't give a damn what the girls have to say anymore. it don't matter to me what anyone thinks about what I say or do. what I say is final and thats it. you're just a spectator that has no choice but to read and accept. you don't like it, you're gonna have to either deal with it or get familiar with a screenshot tool so you can rant on your blog under your own name- it ain't that hard love, I promise. just Google "how to take a screenshot" with your device name, you should find it easily from there.

that being said, I think everyone on this site would be better off if they realized that you don't have to entertain bad faith arguments or entitled bozos thinking they get a say in your life. you can ignore them and give them no platform, rather than making it easier for them to harass you. freaks like you will never be satisfied or have your mind changed, you go into it without any sense of empathy or emotional intelligence, so why should I bother with you? you ain't even worth dealing with. the only reason I'm answering this now is because I think it's a good opportunity to let everyone know where I stand on this. my new guiding philosophy is that what other people say about me is none of my business.

oh also, 99% of my posts are rebloggable, but I dont care what anyone has to say under those either. you come with some strange ass bs i'm just going to ignore it and block you. you wanna talk, by all means do so, but you can do it with yourself or other like-minded, no-life weirdos. not around me. it's just none of my concern anymore.

#asks #anonymous #ceci speaks #negative #and yes this post didnt need a read more i just did it to annoy you lol #i spent waaaay too long open to the opinions of every tom dick and harry that could open their mouth #that chapter of my life is closed my dear #you wanna 'callout' you gotta work for it ya lazy ass

[galladrabbles]

Weekly Wrap U-Up

Double whoop! It's Sunday! It's time to say thank you! I love this part of Galladrabbles:

Thank you!!!

To the writers. To the rebloggers and supporters. To the prompter: Thank you, Lyle! @milkovetti

Thank you to Evie, just because.

Thank you to everyone who enjoys Galladrabbles in any little way.

Aaaaand throwing the prompting joy over to tomorrow's birthday person: @callivich! Please submit your prompt to us via ask. And maybe some of your birthday cake too?! Please?

Enjoy your Sundays everyone!

Till tomorrow, Vey

#this is the most gallavich colours coded gif I could find... enjoy 🤣😅 #galladrabbles #shameless #gallavich #weekly wrap up #weekly Wrap U-Up #mod post

[jeonwonwoo]

i saw a gifset for the first time to have 11 notes where the likes were just 2 and the reblogs were 9. it's a miracle idk why we don't get a like-to-rb ratio like this more often. i want more rebloggers because that was originally tumblr's whole conceit anyway!!!

yep yep yep!!!! sad how rare it is to see a good like/rb ratio on here 😔 tumblr is meant to be a site where u like and then hit reblog and then add ur notes in the tags bc thats how u share the things u love. esp bc gifs aren't easy so cc's love seeing ppl actually TALK about the content in the the tags instead of just liking and scrolling

#answered

[neonbutchery]

listen i've been where u are mentally and it's really hard but u need to change ur mentality. do u send people asks? do u reply to posts? are u an active reblogger? engagement/community doesn't come from thin air online. u constantly have people reassuring u ur mods are good, that they appreciate u, they show interest in ur ocs. focus on that instead of the evil brain worms! it takes discipline and time but if u put in the mental effort to focus on the good it will get easier. i'm sorry ur sick as well, that doesn't help. but there's only so much the people around u can do and say to reassure u before it's really up to u. said with love.

i 100% agree w u anon, and it's very true that i genuinely need to engage more w people. to be completely honest i've lost interest/energy in interacting with tumblr for a while but it's true that i can't complain about not getting attention when i don't do the same. idk if this will make sense but i'm basically someone that needs to be prompted to do things, like "hey can you send me asks/reblog this/etc" because i often get the feeling that i'm annoying people and being cringey. which i know it isn't true, and i'm not using this as an excuse, just explaining where i can come from sometimes. also i'm genuinely interested in continuing this conversation if you'd like so please go off anon, i'm not going to get angry with you and i 100% understand where you're coming from!

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