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[butch-reidentified]

<33333 you're wonderful, amazing, and incredibly strong and resilient. you've done more for lgbt people than all of the people throwing hate at you combined.

thank you, love ❤️ I know this for a fact. I know for a fact I've done and STILL do more for trans people than ANYONE on here coming for me 🤷 I've personally arranged and/or paid for healthcare including expensive HIV medications, housing, food, doctor's appointments, clothing, and more for homosexual AND TRANS people in need in my community. I've used my connections to get welfare resources for homosexual AND TRANS people they otherwise either couldn't access or would have had to wait months for. I've paid for and legally facilitated the name change of more than one trans acquaintance. I have opened my home to unhoused gay AND TRANS young adults to ensure they had shelter and food and safety and access to medicine, and paid for motel rooms for unhoused lgbt people for weeks or months while they waited for an opening in the shelter (which I also got them on the list for, sometimes when they didn't even technically qualify, using my connections as a Pulse survivor).

I've helped several LGBT young adults in need learn adult skills including how to drive, how to find and then apply & interview for jobs, how to check their vitals and what the dangerous ranges are, basic first aid, CPR certifications, harm reduction in cases involving substance misuse, how to find good medical providers & advocate for themselves to doctors/insurance, how to obtain and navigate medical insurance, how to apply for an apartment rental, how to apply for college or in one case even grad school, how to set boundaries and speak up for their needs, how to get documents changed, and much more.

I'm not wealthy, either, I did all of this while living paycheck to paycheck and struggling to feed myself. I did all this voluntarily, separate from charity organizations or guidance, on my own initiative. I found ways. I always found ways bc it mattered to me. I routinely used my unique connections as a Pulse survivor (esp connections to the lgbt resources who assisted us in the aftermath, but also to politicians like Carlos Guillermo Smith and Anna Eskamani who most of us survivors know personally) to help lgbt people in need. and what do the people who claim to be the real trans activists do? harass and threaten me anonymously online.

What can the homophobic "pro trans" assholes in my inbox honestly say they have done for trans people? Sent SA & death threats to a woman who actually helps them bc she says sex-based oppression is a real thing with material consequences? 10/10 insane thought process.

I'm tired of it.

EDIT 12.28.2023 - Please see full version of this post with my vitally important follow-up reblogs here.

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[samandcolbyownme]

HEY GIRLIE ARE YOU AWARE THAT SAM AND COLBY COLLABED WITH THE TRIPLETS

DID THEY DO IT ALREADY?!?!

I knew there was talk of it, but I wasn’t sure when!!

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[sebastiansluts]

I would make that face too if I had to wear a bucket hat

hahahaha awww he looks so adorable though, like a grumpy old man 🤣 i can't wait for this movie!!

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[hannaswritingblog]

Ravenclaw & Hufflepuff power 😤😤😤

hell yeah!💙🫱🏼‍🫲🏼💛

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[honestlyacunt]

wanna fuck ?

no im sixteen you creep 💀💀💀

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[aaronymous9]

Silly Dragon cuisine headcanon:

Sandwings don't need to eat much, so they usually have rather small dishes, like lizards and scorpions. What they lack in size they make up for in flavor and fragrance. They have very pungent meats and love to drown things in spices.

Icewings have very few plant based edibles, so they are concidered luxurious. They tend to eat meat straight from the kill, and use the hide as napkins.

Nightwings love dark (heh) meat, and savory, smokey flavors. They like juicy fruits too, which helps them adapt to the rainforest.

Rainwings don't eat meat, so they get their protein through nuts. They always recommend eating a talonful of nuts for every meal. They also like mushrooms, though sometimes they shove something they really shouldn't in their mouth.

Hivewings copy some Nightwing diets as well, but also enjoy some more flowery and sweet flavors on the side. They love having flower flavored drinks, and a staple of a good Hivewing chef is to have their kitchen smell like a florist.

Mudwings love raw vegetables and roots. Some mashed roots and potatoes over a nice salad alongside some gator meat is a staple part of lunch.

Seawings have unique aquaculture. Underwater spices and fruits, as many varieties of seaweed as the lettuce/spinach/Brussels sprouts plant has, edible coral, and all of it complements fish very well.

Leafwings always try to get their food without harming plants to avoid nature's wrath. Each fruit has its seed anted back in the ground once done eating, and food is never wasted. Letting your food spoil is especially taboo.

Skywings love to roast everything in sight. A slight char is concidered a good flavor, and very hot veggies like jalapenos are sprinkled on many meats for that extra fire punch

Slikwings are slow in cooking. They like to steam things in little silk pods, and take their time during meals, spending that time socialising with friends or family.

OOOOOO I LOVE THESE!

I personally have a hc that mudwings would probably eat things like cows and wild hogs over gators though, besides maybe Ice and Skywings I like to personally think that most tribes refuse to eat things seen as too similar to them, basically a very large group of Mudwings don’t like eating gators, Seawings don’t like eating whales/dolphins, etc.

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[notafraidofredyellowandblue]

Hi 😊 hope you have a great day 💜

I just look at the date and realized that it is only 10 days and we will know new setlist and new costumes 🤩 can't wait 😁

Which songs you thing they will add and which will be remove from the setlist?

Hi, hope you have a great day too @anwiel13 we had new(ish) from Rammstein official so that can't be bad 😊

it will be interesting to see what they will change, as i'm sure they will change at least one song (just because i don't think they are the kind of people who want to keep everything the same)

I wouldn'tbe surprised if Heirate Mich was replaced by another older song, maybe even Spiel mit Mir as they released a remix of it. That song was a bit of a surprise last year, and although i love the song, if they *are* making changes i wouldn't be surprised if that was cut.

i wonder if they switch one of the 'Untitled' songs for one from 'Zeit', like Zeig Dich going and Angst being in. That said, if they do the reverse and cut Zick Zack to bring back 'Tattoo' or 'Sex' i wouldn't mind 😊 (or another one from Zeit, maybe they'll replace Zick Zack with Dic.ke T.tten (tumblr doesn't like that title 😄).

I hope they keep the small stage, i think so, because the piano team is back too, but if they replace Engel there with for instance Ohne Dich, i think that could work pretty well too 🌺

I always hope Morgenstern, Klavier or Mutter will be back, but i don't have much hope 🍀

i think the big theatre songs Mein Teil, Pussy and Puppe will be back, i think Till likes that kind of song 🌺

but to be honest, i think Rammstein is especially great in live concerts and imo they don't have bad songs at all, so i'm sure it will be amazing 🔥🔥

#rammstein tour 2023 #non anon ask

[radiationlunged]

Since tanaka isn't playable, who do you usually play as in f&h termina

P.S. favorite tanaka death scene? (Out of the hundreds he already has lol)

o'saa and olivia, but i'm not picky i like all playable characters favorite death scene is the woodsman one lol

#fear and hunger termina #non anon ask

[doritopaw101]

Hello sir! or Ma'am! If you have an FireRaven art, i wanna see, i rarely see that ship among the fandom! btw your now one of my fav ppl here

Sir is fine

Fireraven is definitely rare and I love when I see it. I definitely went nuts whenever people open up hypokits.

Here’s a few older ones one with my canon fire design (ignore the ear tufts) and my au version

Here’s a few doodles I did recently

I definitely see Fire as more of the flirt but Raven does grow confidence and can fluster his lover just as well.

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[shinpredicts]

hi there, I'd like to participate in your game, my questions :

1. what does my first relationship look like?

2. will I ever fully commit to someone

3. what does my fs think of me?

I'd like to know the answers to these questions because I'm curious ><

Answers to your questions:

I don't want you to go into a relationship thinking this is how it will be. Generally speaking if you're in a relationship, you will typically struggle with your self-identity later on. Others around you will see that you have been very influenced by your partner. You may even change your lifestyle/habits etc for your partner. When you put your all in a relatinoship you will put your whole in, but it doesn't mean it's easy for you to do that. You keep your heart guarded and it takes time for you to trust someone. So when you finally feel like you can trust your partner and are ready to give your whole in, you will sometimes later become too immersed in the relationship that you end up losing yourself and you end up just catering to your partner.

Yes but it takes a lot of courage for you to do that. It also takes a lot of time for you to open up to someone and trust someone. Generally speaking it is difficult for you to get into a serious, long term relationship becuase you're quite guarded. You generally will have very few serious relationships in this lifetime.

You have a potential to be with someone for the long term, so I'll just based it off that that person. They will generally think you are very protective of yourself and have a lot of distrust in others. They will also think you are brave and strong yet also weak deep down like you are more fragile than people think. They know you have a lot of pride and will stand your ground. They will feel you can be very stubborn. They know that once they lose your trust you will just shut down. Sometimes they will find it frustrating when you just close off completely and refuse to talk. They want to solve problems with you in the relationship but you tend to just rather stay quiet and avoid them (that's what they feel). In reality you need more time to gather your thoughts and you don't want to say things that you'll regret. They will also feel like you're reliable and trustworthy; they know you will keep their secrets a secret. They feel you are mature and level headed--sometimes a bit too cold and objective oriented. They also sometimes feel you are totally fine with being alone and that you don't need them.

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[butch-reidentified]

I notice a lot of radfems claiming that trans community is a cult now that I'm in gender critical spaces and I guess I can see why because they silence dissenting opinions and keep engaging in their homophobia, ignorance of sex based oppressions, supporting problematic people and etc. When I was in the trans community, they say that radfems are a cult. I don't know why that is though. Do you know why they say that radfems are a cult? I just think radfems don't want trans people to promote misogyny, homophobia and whatever bigotries they keep spouting

I've seen that once or twice when I was in trans spaces too. It doesn't make sense to me either, but I can't say I'm surprised since every single other thing they believe about radical feminism is also laughably inaccurate.

Looking at these images, and going through each point in context of radical feminism vs transactivism, there's a lot that's interesting. Where we encourage critical thinking, doubt, questioning, and dissent, TRAs actively discourage and punish it. They no longer even tolerate trans people who disagree on very minor matters - I remember when it was generally agreed upon in trans spaces that dysphoria was a defining aspect of being trans & everyone made fun of "tumblr genders." Now, the "truscum," "transmed," and old-school transsexual types are also called transphobic bigots and told they aren't welcome.

We have no involvement or desire to interfere in other radfems' family or personal lives; transactivism often encourages people to cut off family members for minor infractions like questioning anything about the person's transition or identity, not adjusting quickly enough to new pronouns/name, and the like. TRAs have often claimed parents who do any of those things are transphobic and abusive. TRA culture also frequently encourages trans people to socially engage primarily with other trans people (but only the ones who share their views!), date other trans people, live with like 7 other trans roommates, etc. Most trans people I knew who subscribed to the full gender ideology package rented a place with 2 or 3 other genderist roommates. They also discourage relationships of any kind, including friendship, with anyone who doesn't fully share the genderist perspective.

TRAs certainly view "any outside criticism as proof of persecution." I don't know any radfems who have an issue with criticism of radical feminism (that isn't straight up misogyny ofc). "Outsiders who question the group are hostile enemies or inherently evil" is transactivism to a fucking T. Radfems don't claim anyone is inherently evil, and idk any radfem who thinks that outsiders who question or disagree with radical feminism are hostile enemies. I doubt many even feel that way about TRAs; we just don't tolerate misogyny. I don't think they're inherently evil or anything lmao.

"The leader's transgressions are explained away or ignored." In many of these quotes, if you swap "the leader" for "trans women" or male nonbinaries, you'll notice it's pretty dead on. Eli Erlick for example, or Sophie Labelle, and so many more. They will defend a serial rapist transwoman over a gender critical MTF transsexual any day, and that's pretty culty behavior to me - not to mention it proves that this isn't about literally being trans, but about the ideology. Though they will usually take a trans woman's side in any situation, if the trans woman does not subscribe to gender ideology, they'll demonize and attack instead. In rad spaces on the other hand, I see women consistently held accountable when they do something wrong, and if it's a serious moral transgression, they'll be kicked out of the space no matter how popular or influential they were.

"Unquestioning commitment" to the ideology and "practices are the binding truth and law" (insert binding joke here). Extreme "polarized us vs them mentality" and "black-and-white views and right-or-wrong thinking with no gray areas." All of this is accurate of transactivism. I have not experienced or witnessed this type of thinking in rad spaces.

"Leaders use deception both to the public and to its own members." I mean the entire ideology is based on deception and denial of reality. Flaunting that you've had sex with someone without disclosing that you're trans (aka deception) is fairly common in some of the more extreme genderist spaces as well. I'm not sure how this could possibly apply to radical feminism. We are generally pretty committed to accuracy and reality, and deception is not in line with those values at all.

"Members are discouraged from getting information from non-group sources." This one actually lowkey gave me chills bc it's really true. We all know they don't understand what radfems actually believe, they have block lists and block radfems/gender critical people on sight, even in the absence of any negative interaction. A whole lot, if not most, of the statistics and data they like to cite are from their own organizations, or even from information someone spread on social media years and years ago and everyone just doesn't question its authenticity or origins. "Non-group sources are held to be liars with sinister motives." That's practically word for word how they react to statistics, info, etc., from non-trans organizations. And gender critical people certainly know how often they call us liars and insist we want trans people dead. These especially don't apply to radical feminism. We encourage engaging with all kinds of people and content, and we don't rely on or use data/information from other radfems or radfem organizations much at all.

Now, regarding the point about special vocabulary/shorthand/buzzwords. Both TRAs and radfems use such things. However, radfems do not use them to "substitute for rational analysis." But a mantra like TWAW is exactly that. Even "TERF" and "transphobic" are thrown around extremely quickly and easily, in situations where they often don't really apply, and the intention underlying that is putting an end to any doubt/questioning going on, shutting it down by claiming bigotry.

Using "shame, guilt, and/or fear to influence and control members" absolutely doesn't happen in radfem spaces. Not that I've ever seen or heard about. It was definitely something I experienced a lot of in trans spaces, though.

I don't have the energy to do any more of these breakdowns of the points, sorry. But you get the idea. Additionally, TRAs tend to make it their entire identity and lifestyle. It's all-consuming. Not to mention there's no such thing as wrongthink in radical feminism like there is with genderism. I don't constantly monitor and police my own thoughts and feelings for "problematic" ones like I did when I was involved in all that gender stuff. Plus, they actively seek to recruit people, especially young, mentally ill, traumatized, and/or otherwise vulnerable people. Radical feminism doesn't really recruit at all; women and girls tend to find it themselves most times.

I hope this more or less answers your question

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[samandcolbyownme]

me waiting for the next FILTHY colby smut .

it’s coming 🤭

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[sebastiansluts]

Is it just me or is that Sebs shoe

It might be!! I think they're still together, as far as I know! I bet a dog brought it down there 🤣

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[hannaswritingblog]

Omg bestie u added pirates too!!! I live that movies 😭 and will and Elizabeth are so pretty like sdfgkk

Yes I did! I love these movies too (but only the first 3 lol) and I've been thinking about adding them since last year, so here we go now!

And OMG I just knew you're a Will & Elizabeth girlie! But while I agree they are pretty, my heart goes to Gibbs always and forever 💜

And recently I'm in love with those two idiots:

Surprising? Maybe, but what can you do haha

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[shit--pit]

I enjoy anything involving nature and wildlife, hiking, camping, stargazing, bonfires, gardening flowers and 420, movies, concerts etc.. Do you enjoy any of those activities pretty lady

I do enjoy some of those things on occasion with the right person by my side

#me #personal #non anon ask #about me

[aaronymous9]

ok i know this isnt a head cannon but if sunny has dragonets there is a possibility that they will be animus dragon and i dont see enough people talkin abt it

That’s actually really interesting, although it’s a little unclear how animus genes work, considering they had an animus as recent as Sunny’s father it is actually sort of likely since there are so many examples of grandparent - grandchild animus in the series? Maybe Im just making a pattern out of nothing though. I personally hc Sunny as aro/ace but if I hypothetically in a never will become true scenario had to write a next generation wof book with Sunny’s kid being an animus I could do a lot of cool stuff, also if this did happen technically it would bring back Animus blood to the Sandwings since Thorn is Queen and this hypothetical animus grandchild would be related to her! It would be super fascinating!!

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