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penofwildfire · 3 months
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It really is so funny to me when people draw Cole in dresses or heels or any cute little fem outfits because like. That man wears open flannel vests and jeans, man. He's about as masc as they come. I do admire the effort though, never stop 👍
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raph-x-reader-logs · 2 months
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Masterlist
I would like to preface this with a disclaimer that I do not own TMNT and I am not a writer! This is a collection of all the Raphael writings I can find, so it would be easier to binge-read for my favorite turtle. Last Updated: 17 April 2024
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Directions:
This is fairly simple and straightforward, but I'll add some directions just in case!
The master list is split into different iterations, genres, points of view, and then reader types. If the section gets too long (which I'm expecting they will) a new page will be created and linked on this post.
Each link will take you exactly where you want to go within this blog! This exempts the posts with a cut in them, those links will take you directly to the blog where the story is posted.
As for AO3 links, if the story has multiple chapters, it will take you to the "Entire Work" version so you can binge the whole fic.
Rules:
I am open to any suggestions or submissions! HOWEVER, within this Masterlist, you will not find the following:
OC x Raph
Canon x Raph
TCEST x Raph
Now that all of that stuff is out of the way; Enjoy!! :D -Pinto🌱
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Fluff
NSFW
Angst
Just Friends by @theyhavetakenovermylife , 2POV, fem! reader, NSFW too, Summary: Raph has trouble juggling his mission and his feelings for you.
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Fluff
NSFW
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Focus by @pebblestar , 2POV, gn!reader, Summary: Raph helps you focus, whether he likes it or not.
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When The Tables are Turned by @theturtlelovers , 2POV, gn!reader, Summary: Raph really likes it when you take charge..
Angst
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Shower Sex by @theyhavetakenovermylife , 2POV, fem!reader, Summary: Things get a bit steamy with Raph.
SnapCall by @oozedninjas , 2POV, f!reader, Summary: You send him nudes while he is on patrol and he isn't quite happy about it.
Angst
Acceptance by RubyRaspberry , AO3, 2POV, Hurt and Comfort, fem!reader, Summary: An injured Raph lands on your fire escape! Turns out you’re an extremely understanding person! But how much are you willing to accept?
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Rough and Tumble by @mytheoristavenue , 2POV, fem!reader, Summary: After dating Raph for almost a year, he begins to ache for you...
Angst
A Reasonable Turtle by @thejudiciousneurotic , 2POV, gn!reader, Yandere, Summary: Raphael wasn't an unreasonable turtle—at least that's what he told himself with each hit of his fists, relentlessly beating the man who dared to try to take you from him.
Fire Breather by @tmntxthings , 2POV, fem!reader, Summary: Reader is fed up with Raphael's attitude.
There, I Said It by @tmntxthings , 2POV, gn!reader, Summary: It's that awful feeling when you can feel them slowly start to slip away.
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Cuddle Headcanons by @mysticovo , 2POV, fem!reader
He's Too Nervous to Ask You Out by @scaredycatqlt , 2POV, masc!reader, hc format
You Don't Scare Me by @tmntfixationxreader , 2POV, fem!reader, Summary: Raph misunderstands your shyness toward him as fear.
Self Conscious Sleepover by @tmntfixationxreader , 2POV, gn!reader, Summary: Raph doesn't want you to see his retainer during your sleepover together.
Make You Feel Loved by @tmntxthings , 2POV, gn!reader, Summary: Raph takes a love potion!
Wherever You Go by @tmntxthings , 2POV, gn!reader, Summary: Raphael is head over heels in love with you and he would do absolutely anything for you, just as you would for him.
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Gentle by @fishstixloser , 2POV, gn!reader , Summary: You spend some quality time with Raph while he's brumating.
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Change by @tmntxthings , 2POV, Hurt no Comfort, gn!reader, Summary: You make him happy and he's willing to do anything to make you see that he loves you. He wishes you can see that.
Big Teddy Bears Are The Best by @theyhavetakenovermylife , 2POV, fem!reader, Summary: Raph knows he's a big guy, he can't change that. But sometimes he wishes he could.
Your Protector by @tmntxthings , 2POV, gn!reader, Summary: It was supposed to be a normal night -- a normal date. But someone got to you before he could.
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Miss Me? by @theyhavetakenovermylife , 2POV , fem!reader , Summary: Raphael is away in Gotham and you miss him.
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The Night Before by @theyhavetakenovermylife , 2POV , fem!reader, Summary: The events of the night before Raphael leaves for Gotham.
Angst
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Hallway Crush by @theyhavetakenovermylife , 2POV, f!reader, Summary: Raph had a crush on the prettiest girl in school, but he's too nervous to talk to her. He took down SuperFly! He saved New York! He can do this!!
Angst
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How The Movie Night Went by @theyhavetakenovermylife , 2POV , fem!reader, Summary: Things get a little steamy during movie night with Raphie.
Angst
This absolutely is NOT all of them. I'm steadily working through the tag again, so I'll be updating this frequently (as frequently as my life will permit lol).
Again! If you have a fic in mind and you don't see it here, please submit it! I'd love to add it to this list!
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0mysticmidnight0 · 2 months
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Hello!! I was wondering if you’re still taking requests? (•᷄- •᷅ ;) If so, could you maybe to a prompt (or headcanons if you’re more comfy with that) with the yandere ROTTMNT turtles with an ‘all bark no bite’ gender neutral or masc reader? (Preferably masc) Essentially a reader that’s super defiant, fights the whole way, etc. but when it comes down to being threatened or being told off or just when they’re scared in general they’re actually pretty docile (the word docile is kind of iffy but I can’t think of another word to describe it) (ó﹏ò。) but only if you’re comfortable and want to write it, thanks for reading this over anyways!! ദ്ദി(˶‾᷄ᗜ‾᷅˵ ᵕ)
I'll try it! The reader is kidnapped by the turtles in these headcannons!
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YANDERE ROTTMNT BOYS WITH AN "ALL BARK NO BITE"! READER
Donatello
-Just glares at you while you shout threats at him and desperately try to pull on the metal chaining you down to the ground. You continue yelling and telling me insults, etc. "i should be punishing you for your behavior! Yet here you are making my job so much more difficult!" -Once he finally had enough, he threatened you with his tech bo and once he sees you flinch, he knew you were all talk. -After this, he decides to use threats like this often. Often pointing his Tech bo at you with spear or blaster on the other end. You were forced to do anything he said. Knowing Donnie, he'd stop at nothing until he gets what he wants. You knew not to test his limits.
MichelAngelo
-Took him a while of your insults and threats until he entered your shared room and poked your cheek. "You, know your threatening the wrong person here! I'm helping you! If you keep acting out i'll have to end the people that caused you act so fiesty!" He said this as if it were nothing, it was merely a small threat. -Though, your eyes widened as you saw him take out his weapon, his Kusari-Fundo. You begged. You stopped trying to fight through your restraints.. -Mikey noticed this and laughed. He found a weak spot, he was going to use it. He started using this from time to time when you'd act up or out of line.
Raphael
-He ignored every threat you had, often responding with kind and compassionate words, he wants you to know and to feel his love for you but you weren't having it. -Very rarely, he lost his patience. "Oh? ya' wanna be like that? Then fine! Goodluck here alone again!" he shouts as he left. He didn't mean it, obviously. You were his teddy bear or the other way around. -You screamed that he'd stay. You didn't wanna be alone again after being alone for so long. Not again. So you stopped insulting him and threatening him and stayed quiet while he sat down and watched you.
Leonardo
-Out of everyone, he'd be the first to find out and he'd abuse the power he had. He would use it pretty often. Even if you were doing nothing wrong! Making sure you understood who's in charge. -He started threatening you almost daily, making it habit to whisper in your ear what he'd do to your loved ones. "You're threatening me? I should be the one threatening you! Try all you want but you are here with me whether you like it or not." -This became a living hell as you were forced into EVERYTHING. You hated him. Of course, this would be paradise for him. This gave him major control at every decision you made.
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f1nalgirlz · 3 months
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Valentines | Danny Cooper
♡super fluffy fluff kinda a drabble?♡
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˗ˏˋwarnings´ˎ˗ none, unless you count sickeningly in love couples ♡
˗ˏˋcontent´ˎ˗ gay Danny cooper, male reader, masc pronouns used for reader, use of Y/n
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The kitchen of the small shared apartment was filled with the smell of chocolate, vanilla, and strawberries. Y/n had prepared several trays of heart-shaped cookies for his boyfriend, one of his favorite treats and was now focusing on dipping the fresh strawberries into the melted chocolate. After dipping in the last strawberry, Y/N heard a key turn in the front door. He placed the strawberry down next to the others he'd just prepared and went to greet his boyfriend, untying his apron from around his waist and tugging the sugar covered garment over his head, leaving it strewn across the counter. His mind was excited, anticipating the moment when his boyfriend would come through the door. He wondered how he would react, would he like the cookies or the strawberries more?
His eyes watched as the doorknob turned, opening to reveal his boyfriend, Danny. The man looked a bit more disheveled than when he left this morning, stray hairs falling into his face having escaped his hair tie and his cheeks and ears red from the wind outside. The thing that really caught Y/n's attention though, was the goofy grin on his face as he shuffled in the apartment, closing the door behind him. It was at this point Danny was gently thrusting his arms out towards his boyfriend, a pretty bouquet in his left hand and a little brown bear holding a heart in the other. Y/n could feel a smile tugging at his lips, taking the gifts with a giggle and instantly feeling strong arms wrapping around him. The moment he felt his arms slip around his waist, squeezing him so tightly, he felt like he was melting. He laughed softly, hugging Danny back before pulling apart to admire the flowers. "Thank you." he muttered earning an "of course!" from his boyfriend.
After a beat of silence Y/n was leading Danny to the kitchen, gingerly setting his own gifts onto the counter as if they'd fall apart if he didn't. "Ta-da!" he said quietly wiggling all ten fingers in the direction of all the sweets on the surfaces in the kitchen. When his eyes found his boyfriend again his face was lit up, lips forming a little 'o' causing a soft chuckle to leave Y/n's lips. He made his way back to Danny's side, looping an arm around his waist. "What do you wanna try first?" he asks, not expecting to see his boyfriend looking down at him with big watery eyes. Y/n's heart dropped as he was engulfed in another hug, this one almost knocking him over by the sheer force of it, but he steadied himself, wrapping his arms around his boyfriend's waist. "Is something wrong?" he asks, but doesn't receive a verbal answer just yet, feeling his boyfriend shake his head, then laugh. Danny pulls back, hands gripping onto his boyfriend's shoulders. "No, nothings wrong i just-" he was interrupted by little sniffle, wiping his cheeks. "I just love you so much and you did all this for me i just... i never want to let you go." he said, tears rolling down his cheeks again by the end, Y/n's heart felt more at ease knowing these were happy tears. He didn't have much time to reply before his boyfriend was pulling him into a salty kiss, so sweet and gentle it made his heart swell. Y/n could practically feel his heart melting in his chest, spilling down and spreading warmth into his stomach. When they finally broke apart Y/n muttered softly, "i love you." which earned him another round of kisses, including some being peppered all around his face as he laughed happily.
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R: happy valentine's day lovelies. thanks to everyone who reads my stuff for doing so, it makes me very happy ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶
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the-edelweiss-rattles · 4 months
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splatoon agent head cannons because uhhh i can <3
Captain/Agent 3 | Adam | he/him
he is a guy 2 me. idk why but I've always viewed agent 3 as male/masc-aligned
asexual demi-polyromantic + masc-aligned nonbinary
prefers more gender-neutral terms (partner, spouse, etc.) but uses he/him exclusively
quiet, stoic but also heavily emotional in private
tendency to over-exert himself extremely hard, to the point of collapse
goes on deep-cover recon missions in Octarian domes w/ Agent 4
is often either apathic or showing vey intense emotions
vision is heavily impaired in right eye after OE
Agent 4 | Holly | she/her
asexual hetero-romantic
the girl ever...she's my favorite agent by a long shot
very much looks up to Marie & Captain
feels as though her mission was not as "bad" as the others, in the sense that they all suffered more than her, the wounds she received are not valid
Callie loves her
goes on deep-cover recon missions in Octarian domes w/ Captain/Agent 3
Agent 8 | Mallorie | they/she
asexual + demiromantic (bi)
SUPER quiet, especially in public (had selective mutism as a child, and it was not properly taken care of, leading to it still persisting into their adult life)
Is fluent in both Inklish and Octarian
learned a lot of Inkling culture from Agent 4
Neo 3 | Python | they/them (+ Little Guy)
Inktoling; a baby dumped in Salmoind land with the hope they'd die. They did not, and were raised by Salmonids.
young & reckless
genuinely feral; often bites when fighting & bears their teeth when aggressive
got into a lot of fights when they were younger and has faint scarring on their arms
After their mission, they went on deep-cover missions w/ captain 3 & 4
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buckys-little-belle · 2 years
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Can you do Care giver Eddie or Steve supporting a trans masc little? I haven't seen anybody do that before, and I think it would be very comforting
Little Bear
Eddie x Little!Reader (He/Him Pronouns Used)
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Warnings - None
Notes - This is short, but I honestly needed to see Eddie react to his little saying they are a boy, and it’s short but I feel like it’s perfect in a way. Please let me know if you want me to continue making this story bigger, maybe see a different interaction with the two. I hold this story close, thank you for requesting it!
SFW - Please keep all interactions with this post, and this blog, SFW.
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The sun had gone down hours ago, the air cold and crisp, the soft chirping of bugs and sporadic cars driving by the only noises heard. The Munson trailer was quiet, Wayne at work, Y/n and Eddie cuddled up on the couch, a movie playing distantly in the background. “Ed’s?” Y/n whispered, almost like he didn’t want to be heard.
“Yah bub?” Eddie cooed, pausing the Tv and looking down, their eyes meeting, Eddie immediately smiling.
“I jus’ I don’ know how to say it.” Y/n began. “An’ I don’ wan’ you t’ be mad.” He added, a slight frown on his face.
“You can tell me.” Eddie soothed, immediately moving so the two of them could be sat up facing each other, his one hand rubbing soothing circles into Y/n’s knee, the other running through his own hair nervously.
“‘m a boy.” He whispered, his eyes looking away from Eddie. “I feel like a boy, in here.” He said, his finger pointing to his ‘heart’.
“Wrong side.” Eddie said, moving their finger from the right to the left, to actually hover over his heart. “There you go.” He smiled.
“In here.” Y/n said again, their eyes searching Eddie for any fraction of anger.
“Thank you for telling me.” Eddie beamed, pulling Y/n in for a hug.
“You’re no’ mad?” Y/n questioned, a few happy tears spilling onto their cheeks.
“No bub, I’m not mad.” He chuckled, releasing Y/n from the hug to cup his cheeks. “I love you, you’re my bub.”
“I don’, I don’ wan’ be called bub anymore.” They confessed, his gaze looking away embarrassed.
“Hey, hey.” Eddie called, getting their attention once again. “That’s okay, again, thank you for telling me.” He paused to think. “What about Bear? Hm?” Eddie smiled, genuine love in his eyes.
“Yah.” Y/n smiled back, their heat fluttering from the support, the scary situation not scary at all. “I like Bear.”
“Good.” Eddie chuckled. “So Little Bear, would you like to finish the movie?” He asked, his head dipping to kiss Y/n’s forehead.
“Yah.” They beamed, getting back into their previous snuggle position, wrapped up in Eddie’s arms.
“I love you Little Bear.” Eddie whispered.
“Love you too.”
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seleniancalamity · 7 months
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what's that, another AF post? featuring all of the designs i.. for some reason never posted! read below the cut for more info and yes im aware some of these poses are garbage these are once again in my old style i drew these like weeks ago :sob: also the text below is Stupidly long so bear with me
bet you're wondering "gee, steven, where's cyalm/celesteal and voixer?" Welllllllll there's a bit of a problem with those designs and it's called "i might of taken a bit too much inspiration from a different artist's designs and i dont remember said artist's username" and so i'd feel REALLY bad for posting them (which is sad because voixer is my favorite design of literally all the ones i drew)
anyways, some design notes
arrolin was an actual fucking pain to design. red/green is such a difficult color combo to work with. i originally tried adding yellow but a challenge i wanted to do for this artwork is stick as close to the original palettes as much as possible
mino and morward are meant to reflect on each other since morward is meant to just look like mino but Advanced since.. here they're both robots
solgon and naen are married you can't convince me otherwise thats why i gave them rings
(yes i know naen is doing the "you know i had to do it to em" pose)
signol is a deliberate design disaster. i love them. (i also made them genderfluid because i said so)
i made shallare look like the most Guy of All Time with intent he's meant to look like if a normal ass guy was a point
i've already uploaded stratosfear in a different post so i'll probably post my own design for the first star savior later since i dont have any actual art for them besides a low effort sketch
pasless looks like a farmer i'm gonna be real i had no idea how else to incorporate Woah he's the guy that represents The Past (tm) other than make him look like a farmer
yawgate is meant to straight up deadass have a portal in his torso like i just thought it was a sick idea so i did that no i didnt think of the consequences
please ignore compale's shoes. they're meant to have snow shoe spikes but i cannot draw perspective for shit
ploque is best described as having designed to look like he'd work at home depot
ixol is meant to look like they made hawaii part II miracle musical into a personality trait
anshine is just an angel bro idk what else to say about him i made him very angelic looking to contrast stratosfear looking demon-y
ulipse was very fun to draw idk why also i have no idea where i got the inspiration for her design other than just "damn what if i made her more fem presenting because all of the other points are very neutral or masc barring signol"
and finally, staraza! my design for the second star savior! they have no personality atm i just think they're neat i gave them three colors and made them a point because... Well funny story i was on actual AF2 restored and someone said something along the lines of "point star savior ocs are bad" and i was like, internally. "fuck you" and decided to do it out of spite
I'll post a celesteal/cyalm/voixer design eventually but idk if it'll be the one i use personally
Also how the fuck do i tag any of this im just not gonna tag all of the characters i cant be bothered im sorry
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neoarchipelago · 1 year
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HERE’S THE CONTEST’S WINNERS! FUUUUUCK IT WAS SO SO SOOOO HARD TO CHOOSE !
You guys created AMAZING characters it honestly took 2 hours and the help of my Ghost to manage to make a choice!
Thank you so much for your participation you guys make me so happy!!!!
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Name: Lupus grey
Callname: Grim (6R1M)
Age: in their 20s 
Gender: Non binary, masc leaning
Physical appearance: They have blue greyish eyes, redish/blonde shoulder length hair, they are rather short(about 5'6), slim - not really muscular. They usually cover their face with a fox mask because of a huge face dysphoria(the mask is shown in the mood board), they also have problems expressing their emotions so the mask helps with that
Backstory: Lupus Grey had always hated cold Berlin with its odd, outrageous old buildings. It was a place where they felt anxious but also at home. 
They were a patient, forgetful, coffee drinker with pretty eyes and a slim figure. His friends saw him as "the quite kid". They really were the silent type of person, thinking before using their words. But as soon they got comfortable they got loud and outgoing! 
Lupus had a.. Not so great childhood. Their problems were belittled. They were good at school but never good enough to earn some affection from their parents. They always wanted to become an artist but later found out that they had a talent for hacking too. They used that talent and hacked shady, big companies to force them to their knees. Someday they ended up finding hacker friends- in this case: sparrow!
@muttsstuff
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Name :Richard
Nickname :Ricky
Code name :Car-Keys
He’s into khaki clothing (gets teased a little) but the main reason was because he lost the car keys in the drain when they were on a mission (was never let down)
Male - Asian Over- weight
Deep voice Loves dying his hair tips different colours (Depends on the mood)
Lives in his parents basement, loves to play MW2 but hacks games to his advantage.
He realised his potential and started broadening his hacking abilities and got rich off it.
Living with his parents is a cover (gotta stay hidden ya know)
@happy-potat0
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Margo ‘Bishop’ Cassell
Age: 29
Female she/her
•5’6, doesn’t necessarily have a figure but she has “child bearing hips” all grandmas love and point out for some reason. Isn’t considered small but not how society considers “fat” she wears a size 12 pants if that gives an idea. 
•From Kensington Liverpool, grew up with wealthy parents in a slightly religious background. She’s almost the definition of old money yet also getting new money. Was in chess club growing up and also took computer science classes and learned to code, took it a step up by getting into hacking to change a grade for a friend to help them out. Moved on from getting into school grades to other… not so legal information. Promised to not do it again and eventually join British military much to her parents disappointment. 
•I also like the idea of Margo having a kid
•Bishops mood board
@sapchat
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Name: Elizabeth/Liza
Callsign: coyote
Age: 29
Gender: Female
Physical description: Definetely redhead, and tallish, still shorter a bit than the boys though, slightly chub, so ofc insecure
Backstory: Started hacking cause the government of her home country was so so corrupt, Sparrow found her hacking the same system at the same time so they found her, Lashwell contacting, thy have been working together ever since. After a mission went wrong she was sent to the UK under a fake name for protection, thats how they lost touch for a bit.
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klownkoster · 1 year
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Can I please hear some thoughts about your takes on the main 4?
Just anything on your mind I love hearing your thoughts :>
oooo good ask actually, I've been so focused on developing Dr. Hare and Binary Bard that Black Widow and Captain Crawfish haven't really crossed my mind all that much 🤔 Doesn't mean I haven't been thinking about them though! I've just been brain-rotting about Hare and Bard more cause they're my comfort characters
My brain's a little scrambled right now to really go into depth at the moment, but I'll give you a few heacanons for each!
Dr. Hare ~ Autistic/has ADHD, or heck even both, and loves to info-dump about his interests to anyone willing to listen,, I'm just projecting at this point ~ Has fants(fur pants), his fur is very soft <3 Sucks in the summer, though ~ His little rabbit tail wags when he's really happy or excited about something, or info-dumping about something he's really passionate about 🥺 ~ He's envious of his pre-villain self, he wished he could go back to that young naïve version of himself, way back before the harshness of reality had a chance to crush him like it did and caused his villain totem to develop. Though at the same time, he wonders if that version of himself would hate him for who he's become, and if he would even want to associate himself with him in his current state. ~ What happened to him wasn't an accident
Binary Bard ~ I headcanon him as a masc-aligned nonbinary guy, he/they pronouns but he's cool with just he/him or they/them. I, personally, just call them what I see him as in the moment like I do with myself and my own OC's with pronoun sets like that ~ Speaks in binary to really aggravate others sometimes, just for the sake of being cryptic, or sometimes to say something he doesn't want to say directly. Luckily for him, the other three are accustomed to this and have learned how to translate it by now. ~ Knowing the things he did while under the influence of his villain totem has left him with sleeping issues, often laying awake at night feeling guilty and wondering what he could have done differently. ~ During his time controlled by the totem, it had altered his personality entirely, essentially turning him into the complete opposite of the calm inventor that usually kept too himself, he hates the person that totem turned him into. He especially hates what it made him do too his loved ones.
Black Widow ~ Black Widow and Betty Jetty are absolutely dating. Power lesbians. ~ I headcanon she became Black Widow because throughout her entire life her artistic talents were always pushed aside and belittled ever since childhood. Beautiful landscapes and still-lives eventually turned into warped portraits of herself when her totem came about, and she sought out to make the world see and recognize her talent. ~ *Rubs my gay little hands* Transfem Black Widow ~ After her totem was destroyed, she almost didn't know how to adjust to domestic life, it even scared her a bit, but with the help of her little ex-villain friend group they all learned to adjust and reflect on themselves together, which helped ease her fears. Now she's essentially like the group "mama bear" and "cool aunt" both wrapped in one.
Captain Crawfish ~ His totem came about after a previous crew he was captain of was lost at sea after a rival crew from Skullduggery sunk his ship. Survivors guilt and anger spawning both his totem and his hatred for Skullduggery, wanting to steal every bit of treasure they have like they stole his crew from him, whom he treasured as his own family. This eventually turned to stealing whatever treasure he could get his hands on, with it temporarily filling that void his fallen crew left behind, and when that feeling would wear off he'd set off for the next set of treasures in a desperate attempt to fill that void again, and that cycle would continue. ~ After his totems destruction, it took him a long while before he felt comfortable enough to return to the seas, still feeling awful about his lost crew and fearing another crew would be taken from him if he started sailing again. But, like mentioned in Black Widow's section, he and the others all learned to cope together and he eventually did return to sailing. ~ He's honestly rather protective of the other three, them being the only ones he's felt particularly close too since his first crewmates. He'll never admit it out loud, but he doesn't want to lose them like he did his crew.
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the-illiterate-pirate · 10 months
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D+G headcanons, sfw AND nsfw? preferably with a masc s/o? 🥺💖
Random D an G HCs ♡
Nsfw under the cut as always
FUCK YEAH MASC READER FTW. Just fyi I try to stay gender neutral for headcanons but if needed I will be using masc terms this time around! This is actually my first request using a male reader so this is hype
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• D an G just loves to surprise you. Little jumpscares in the halls, claustrophobic romantic dates in the janitors closet, you name it
• He LOVES to feed you food during lunch and dinner. Ever the romantic, feeding you slop with a heart in his eye
• So don't get me wrong, my man is smart in his own way, but he gives off major himbo energy.
• Somehow he still finds way to get you gifts, even in Green Dolphin. I think he's stealing them. But anything you mention off handedly or talk about so longingly in passing conversation, how is D supposed to just let it slide?
• Fond of toilet wine and has gotten pretty good at making it
• He's in the super secret gabbling ring in the Aquarium. Sucks at it, but I mean he isn't losing any actual money so what's the harm. (They mostly use stolen items and food)
• He's pretty tight with some of the guards, like Viviano and the yellow coral hair looking mf too despite D an G's history
• Can I just throw here my HC that his actual name is Gabbana Dolce. He swapped his initials around as a cover in case other inmates recognized his original name
• Paranoid of what might happen if they find out he's an ex cop :( he hides out in maximum security the most because at least Viviano is there to keep him company (when you can't)
• Suffers from insomnia. Most of the time tries to walk it off until sunrise, then tries to ignore how fucking exhausted he is the next morning
• Your cell bed is much comfier than his, likes to steal it during open hours while you're busy.
• He also likes to cuddle <3 I won't say having you around immediately fixes all his problems but you do help
• Has the prettiest and fluffiest dark brown hair underneath his helmet. As long as he remembers to wash it though
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• Speaking of sneaking into your cell...
• D surprises you with many late night rendezvous
• I see him being into somno, as long as he gets consent
• He may be a criminal but he is still a GENTLEMAN
• He leans more into soft dom, but loves to tease you and call you all kinds of pet names. It can get sickening at some point
• Def into slapping ass. Constantly. In public or not, your ass is not safe.
• Totally calls himself papa and you papi I'M SORRY
• Can I just say? Bear bf. Hairy.
• The rare occasion I allow a character to have the girth and the size HE IS PACKING
• He may be a little stupid but dw my man knows how to prepare you <3
• Loves having quickies in the most fucked up places, outside, mop closets, the shower room, bending you over in your OPEN ASS CELL what is this man thinking
• He's got big tits and he knows it, doesn't mind if you ever want to suffocate yourself with them
• Low-key has a voice kink, but on the giving end. Loves talking in your ear, saying how good you feel, making tiny moans and whines oh god it's to die for
• After sex naps are a must. Sex helps him conk out easier and tbh it's easier to just take them with him instead of trying to escape <3 he's like a constrictor when he's sleepy
• He'd be a really good kisser too I think. Just very sloppy
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The prevalence of male character feminization is really high in the ST fandom and I’m not sure how to feel about it. It can’t just be the hanky thing (that costume designer has no idea what they’ve unleashed!) and I understand that it’s a kink and I’m not going to shame that. But as you say, it seeps into lots of fics where it’s like people think that’s how a bottom acts.
I wondered if it was the huge influx of tik tok teens that came with S4, who might (MIGHT) be eager to just run with their own thoughts rather than following canon? I mean, a small but significant proportion of Steddie fans readily admit haven’t even watched previous seasons. A couple of authors have even said they hadn’t watched the show at all, and only know it from tik tok. Now, they’re allowed to be in the fandom. All are welcome. It’s just an interesting phenomenon. It would explain some of the poor grammar in some fics. I’m not talking all fics/all young authors, some of them are brilliant. But with dialogue, some seem to think you put a period wherever a comma would normally go, and that’s something I’ve never seen in any other fandom. And then there’s your/your, the past tense of to lie/to lay, peek/peak/pique, queue/cue, bear/bare…I could go on for ages.
But that’s beside the point. Back to feminization: another consideration is the fact that many authors write their favorite characters as a self insert of sorts. Not just fanfic authors, either: Stephen King does it all the time, and other authors too. So that means some (again, not all) female authors will write Steve (it’s usually Steve, let’s be honest here) that way because they want him to be loved the way they want to be loved, whether that involves kink or not.
I’m not a fan of it, personally. I like Steve how he is in canon, and a lot of traditionally ‘feminine’ tropes don’t fit him. When he’s written as a coy or coquettish, or someone who cries all the time, for example, it’s not to my taste. Kinda throws me out of the story, tbh. But it clearly is appealing to lots of other people.
That’s not to say that Steve doesn’t have some ‘female’ traits. I find the babygirl Steve meme as funny as anyone else, and of course he has been given the reluctant babysitter role. In S3 he was so prettily styled it was crazy, and he was the one receiving creepy facial caresses from the Russian general when any other show would have had that happen to Robin. But he can be written as he is in canon - that same pretty boy who’s also a jock, who can take a punch like a champ, is an adorable doofus and a recklessly courageous protector - and still be a bottom.
I also have no idea where it really comes from. However, the feminization for the purpose of making one character in a mlm gay relationship 'the man' of the relationship and the other 'the woman' of the relationship is a widespread issue across most fandom spaces tbh, and I know that everytime it comes up its just cycled discourse that's been talked to death - but the fact of the matter is that gay men in fandom spaces have repeatedly told us that it's harmful. There is a tasteful way to have Steve (or Eddie or whoever) explore a more feme gender expression, but it becomes very clear in fic when the feminization is being used as a way to fit a gay relationship into heteronormative gender-roles and/or fetishize the pairing. It is all very "so who wears the pants in this relationship?" imo - which really sucks. A metalhead nerd and a prom king jock can be in a relationship with each other without having to sacrifice the masculine aspects of their personalities. It is so rare in gay relationships for one person to always be the bottom or always be the top and sometimes the top is the tiny femme one and the bottom is the big masculine one. And sometimes neither has any particularly femme qualities and sometimes neither have any particularly masc qualities.
Also, on another barely related note - what is with people exaggerating their heights to fit this idea, one of the first indicators I have for "this fic might not be for me" is if one of them is suddenly towering over the other despite the fact that Joe Keery/Steve is just barely an inch taller than Joe Quinn/Eddie?? Idk if that's just a personal preference thing, and I don't always hate it but it's another thing that I feel sometimes gets used to enforce het-gender roles.
IDK if my points came across all that clearly, but the issue isn't necessarily "Stop Babygirl-ifying Steve" so much as it is "Stop Babygirl-ifying Steve in a way that's fetishizing gay men" and that can get kind of lost in the discourse I think - imo it's pretty easy to pick out when it's done well and when it's done harmfully and everyone can read what they want to but I personally am going to try and stay away from the latter.
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Hi! I (she/her, 20s) normally don’t do asks, but I saw your pinned post and wanted to ask about your experience. My husband is a trans man, early in transition, and he’s been researching the various surgeries and treatments for him. Is there anything he should be aware of, any tips about the social or medical side, any encouragement you could offer him? I find it especially hard to help him deal with his dysphoria because as much as I want to understand I just can’t seem to wrap my head around it and say the right things. Sorry if this is vague :(
Hi there! I’m gonna jump around a bit here, and this is gonna be long, so I’m gonna put it under a cut.
An important thing to know is that up until such time as he is in the OR getting anesthetized, he doesn’t have to be 100% certain what he wants. There are plenty of options, and all of them have their pros and cons. A good surgeon can do a plethora of configurations to suit what your hubby needs and wants. There are some things that do have to go together (what comes to mind is that if you get phalloplasty with urethral lengthening, it’s going to require a vaginectomy as well), but for the most part, bottom surgeries for AFAB people are pretty modular. I recommend checking out www.cranects.com for more info on that.
On the social aspect: things are awkward when you first start transition, but it gets a LOT easier. If he’s going on T, once he starts growing facial hair and his voice drops, he’ll get misgendered a lot less often, at least among folks who either hear him or see his face at the start of the interaction.
Transphobes LOVE to bang on about public restrooms, but honestly, my experience is that cis men operate by a golden rule when it comes to public restrooms: mind your own business. All he has to do is act like he belongs there and even if some guys double-take, the vast majority are just going to keep their eyes to themselves.
Also, if it makes him feel any better, there are literally millions of cis men who sit to pee. I’m given to understand that in the Muslim faith, it’s considered spiritually unclean to get urine on your clothes, so if a Muslim man is in a position where sitting is going to have a lesser chance of that happening, he’ll damn well sit. I think this mostly applies when the men in question are wearing flowing things like a kandura, but still. (Source: my former manager, a married Black Muslim cis woman.)
When it comes to dealing with dysphoria, that’s going to depend mostly on what trips it for him. It might be the use of certain words for his bits & bobs, might be certain sex acts, might be expectations of certain sex acts, might be clothing, might just be any reminder that the body he has isn’t the body he feels he should have, or a number of other things. It might be a hard conversation, but I reckon if you’re married you should be at a point in your relationship where you can have a difficult conversation in an open and supportive manner. Bear in mind that dysphoria triggers can change over time, so try to impress on him that if something wallops him upside the head, he can talk to you about it.
If he doesn’t already have a masc wardrobe: take him shopping! Save up some money to set aside for new clothing that gives him that good ol’ gender euphoria, and go hit the men’s section. Most men’s fashion isn’t exactly what I’d call exciting, but sometimes that’s not the point, and patterns can make up for the sameness that plagues menswear.
I think the best way I can explain gender dysphoria in a transphobic world is this: imagine for a moment your knees are on backwards. Things don’t fit right, nothing feels right, there’s a sense of deep-seated wrongness plaguing your every move—but everyone around you is telling you that that’s the way YOUR legs are meant to be and you should be happy with them the way they are rather than trying to change them. And maybe with years of treatment, including some really pricy surgeries you’ll have to prove to multiple medical professionals and your insurance and probably at least one judge that you need, you can get your knees turned MOST of the way around, but you’re gonna be walking real funny for a while between here and there.
Transition doesn’t always cure dysphoria per se, but for those of us with it, transition is the best possible option. It stands a pretty damn good chance of drastically improving his life—and probably yours, since married life is a lot easier with a happy spouse! But just like if you break your spine and have to go through physical therapy to regain the ability to walk, it takes time and work and expense to get there—and just like going through physical therapy, it is WORTH IT.
For a personal anecdote, I spent several years in a state of 24/7 depersonalization. I existed a few inches up and to the right of my body at all times. Things happened to my body before they happened to me. It became a comfortable space, because being seated in my meat was extraordinarily uncomfortable, but boy it was not a healthy one. I remember one afternoon at work something slammed me back into my body and I kinda freaked the fuck out about it because it felt GODAWFUL—painfully aware that I was a consciousness swimming in a soup of electrified fatty matter piloting a puppet made of meat and bone and SO many fluids dangling from the seat of my awareness, jfc it was horrible.
After the first week post-op from top surgery (because for the first week I wasn’t really awake for more than 15-30 minutes at a time), I realized…that was GONE. I was fully seated in my body, full-time, and…it was okay. I missed that comfortable space terribly for a long time, especially since I still had REALLY bad bottom dysphoria, but I was okay. It was, pun intended, a big weight off my chest. I could actually touch my chest and it didn’t feel vile, too.
And after bottom surgery the rest of my dysphoria pretty much evaporated. I still have some measure of frustration that what I’ve got doesn’t work the same way as AMAB equipment, but I can do little things like shift in my chair without that horrible wrongness, that feeling like the psychological equivalent of nails on chalkboard. The inner peace that HRT and gender affirmation surgeries have brought me is worth every penny I’ve spent, every minute fighting through red tape, and every twinge of post-op pain.
I say all this to mean: there is a light at the end of the tunnel, and it’s not an oncoming train.
If he has not already changed his name and/or gender marker: depending on where you live (and, I cringe to say but it’s true, quite possibly his race as well, simply because legal hoops do tend to make themselves easier for white folk to navigate), changing his legal documentation might well be a lot less hassle than he might be expecting, especially if y’all live in a blue area. Look for a trans support group in your region; they should have resources to help smooth the way, such as grants for name changes, full write-ups of the name/gender marker change process for your location, trans-friendly judges and which judges to avoid, general legal help, etc. He doesn’t have to navigate that alone!
This might vary from one place to another, but a specific piece of advice I can give on the gender marker change is to wait till he’s been on T for at least three months (around the time that one’s voice typically drops), and have his medical professionals specifically state that he’s made irreversible changes as part of his gender affirmation treatment. I don’t know if all states require that, but mine does, so the judge I went to specifically looked for that type of verbiage. The trick there is that making irreversible changes doesn’t necessarily mean surgery—your voice dropping IS a permanent change, so legally that counts! (And of course if you don’t live in the US, the requirements might be wildly different.)
Okay that was an awful lot of rambling; gonna shoot this out into the ether before I find more things to yammer about. Best of luck to you and your husband both, and thank you for being a supportive spouse!
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bugnirvana · 2 years
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🎸🤘brother from another mother🤘🎸[Eddie Munson & Reader] HCs
warnings: drug usage from eddie, implied from you. that’s basically it
terms used: masc (per usual)
a/n: I’m making this to soothe my anxious soul. i am in a constant state of anxiety, allow me to enjoy this please. requests got me anxious n shit. I love them but human interaction makes me so fucking nervous lol. anyway. watching anola holmes rn. i make a lot of “mbb runs over gay people” jokes but she’s truly so radiant and such a good actor! love her to bits. ok enough rambling. Im so nervous. reader and eddie have the kind of relationship/brotherhood ig that dustin and steve have. two men with nice hair yet totally and completely different? insanity. ok for real now.
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the both of you met via hellfire, however, you’re in the year above the main stranger things kids so you get an entire year free of them and their bullshit
it’s ok it’s fine you love them nonetheless
this is about Eddie though. oops
Eddie literally just takes you under his wing as a younger brother and you love it
You will become the baby metalhead the world has always needed
He definitely helps you make a vest
painting with you and shit.
he loves every minute! Genuinely. He loves helping you with crafts and gets paint EVERYWHERE
probably would let you borrow some of his rings and stuff
maybe even keep some
the both of you love sharing music with one another
you find a new band? He’s probably heard of it but he’s going to act like it’s something he has no clue of just to make you feel good
You also definitely get all of your music taste from him
also just in general a grunge aesthetic
you weren’t exactly normal going into highschool but you also weren’t on his level
you let him in on ALL the gossip. he loves it
y’all have probably gone camping at least once or twice together just cuz
he’ll tell you stories about campaigns he held before yours and oh my god are the stories so entertaining
he’ll also tell you stories about his concerts and shit, like if any fights broke out from the drunk dudes lol
speaking of concerts…
he probably taught you how to play guitar
and if you knew how to already he’d teach you on how to improve
actually asks you to play with the band at one point
mainly just a simple line from a song or two but every moment is so amazing
one day you ask him if he could do your hair like his
if you have short hair oh my god did you look silly
if you have long hair he loved it
you had to tell him to stop using so much heat on ur hair or else ur hair was going to get badly heat damaged
he just ended up using copious amounts of hairspray in the end
You found him high one day and all he could do was tell you to not do drugs or whatever to be a good influence
you listened for the most part but that isn’t to say you didn’t dabble at least once or twice
did you tell him?
no…
-t directly? you let it slip out once though
he wasn’t really mad he was just curious of your experience and kind of concerned because of how young he is
also where the hell did you get it from????
that’s another question for another day
you know how eddies uncle has a lot of mugs?
eddie probably has some stashed away in his room
he eventually gives you one as a birthday present and you understand the meaning to this.
officially adopted by Eddie Munson
ok back on topic
he definitely at least attempts to get you to wear a leather jacket but you reject, claiming “it’d be too hot”
he says fine, but you’re missing out
over all he takes good care of you. good older brother figure and you wouldn’t trade him for the worldl
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anxiety has kind of been soothed I guess. eddie munson brother true.
FUCKING FRANKIE GRANDE ON SPREE??AND THE GUMMY BEAR SONG WHILE HE HITS A DUDE WITH HIS CAR OH MY FUCKING GOD. new favorite movie
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noroi1000 · 2 years
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Matchup request
Elo!! I would Iiked a jjk (romantic & sfw) matchup please! I’m an intp and an aquarius. I’ve been described as sarcastic, a bit of a risk taker. I’m usually very honest and stick by my beliefs a lot, even if that means somebody won’t like me for who I am. I’m sorta dead-pan with like my behavior with people but at the same time, the person who’s atleast in a bit of trouble lol. I’m omnisexual with a preference for masc people. I use they/she/xe and am a demigirlflux. In my spare time, I read, watching anime and true crime documentaries, listening to music and collecting rocks.
Hopefully that’s enough! Have a great dayy
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I think your Jujutsu kaisen matchup is
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He's the way he is, he doesn't care about danger. If he wants to do something, he will. He's just curious and doesn't really care what happens. If he doesn't take the risk, he won't know what will happen when he does. People can admire him because they think he is doing things that no one else will dare to do. Or people can hate it. They think he's just bragging. And he doesn't know if he wants to show that he is better than the rest. Or he just want to do it for himself because he want to.
There is never a moment when he doesn't say something too honest. He's just holding his point of view in such a way that you can't beat it. He honestly says what he thinks.
And his beliefs... If he is convinced of something, he will just keep thinking that what he knows is true.
People don't like him. They actually hate it. Why? Because he directly tells them his opinion.
Sometimes he is able to act like a complete wreckage of a human being, which can be the result of his really hard life. He doesn't always smile...
He is able to be dry and mean just to be left alone.
Has quick character changes, or at least fakes it.
But he is often very embarrassing, forgetting something important or just simply didn't feel like it. He makes others furious. He also depends on what person. There are people who like to piss you off like that, there are people who want to piss you off because he hates them, but also there are people who want to get frustrated because they want to see the reactions.
He's annoying, but you can survive it. Hiding his sadness under annoying behavior is perfect for him. He just likes to act that way. Good for him.
Headcanon:
• For teasing you, he is able to say constantly that the clouds are made of cotton candy. Even though he knows it's not true, and he thinks people who think so are idiots...
• He's able to listen to your beliefs while saying his own, just to piss you off a bit. But he can listen to your opinion and consider it correct.
• He can joke with you. Even if you make jokes about others you get into trouble. Of course it will be his fault. And it cannot be changed.
• You can even hit him and say whatever you say about him, but he'll still laugh at what you say. He wants to ignore people with you. He knows how pushy they are and doesn't care about others. The only one you and friends who also consider him a friend. Therefore, people may not like you. Or maybe just him... The important thing is that he likes you. But liking is even more.
• He can't bear the thought of you crying over someone. He is not sensitive to human life, but he cannot stand it when you are unhappy. Even though he may always seem mean and sarcastic to anyone, he can't watch how sad you are. He doesn't even want to watch you suffer. He just doesn't want it. He then becomes sensitive and sometimes even angry with others that he is not with you as always. When you don't smile.
• Everything for you. He will complain, for example, watching something or doing something. But he cannot give up spending time with you. Hugging, sitting together. Can't miss it. He will act like a child when you ignore him. He just loves your attention. So play with his hair, hug him and even kiss him so that he is not obnoxious. Then he will be as loved as ever. After all, you did something for him, he must also be kind and cute to you.
• You can tell him you like something and he will get it the next day. He will find you precious stones and anything you want. Because he loves you and will do anything for you.
"Do you like the gift? Was it expensive? Why do you ask? You don't like it? You wanted it. Ah... So now you're gonna say everything to make me regret buying it? Why would I regret something for you. I can buy you as many as you want! Will you then continue to love me? You say that you Love Me...? *He's looking at you seriously* ...I love you too! *He's smiling* Don't think about it. I did it for you! I don't want anyone else to give you more than me. I piss you off so? How many times do I have to say I love you ?! Come on. I want to be with you more often..."
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the-gay-trashmouth · 3 years
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Okay so I binged q-force. Is it perfect? No. No its not- it's a comedy adult cartoon about gay spies. It was funny, it had that found family trope and it had it good rep. It had butch 4 butch rep (pam and Deb my loves) trans goth chicks, and even an older women in power who I have a permanent lesbian crush on. I see a lot of people complaining about the stereotypes - mostly Twink- but like.... Y'all realize stereotypical gay people exist, right? Like there are butch lesbians who BBQ on weekends and adopt way to many dogs. There are drag queens who are super extra and loud and sexual. There are alt queer people who like obscure shit and would maybe like to fuck robots- shut up
Like ... Gay people are allowed to act gay. Y'all know that right? Gay culture is built on the "weird". Q force gave us stereotypes but also broke them.
Twink is a top who can throw a punch and is fucking badass. His drag connections come in handy and offers them tons of Intel. I've seen people talk about how it's bad that he wants to be skinny but.... Yall know some people Wanna be skinny? And that's not a bad thing??? Like yeah it can be unhealthy but he never once commented on anyone else's weight negatively- and we had a diverse body types. Just in the force we had a muscle vers, a fat stud lesbian, a tall lanky hacker, a slim thicc drag queen, a chubby hunk, and a middle aged woman with actual proportions. Could I have done without some of the tummy tuck jokes? Yeah, sure, but y'all realize actual queens talk like that.
Then we have Deb- the only character with her life together. She and her wife are very very happy and secure and its like... One of the first butch 4 butch relationship I've seen on screen that healthy. She's a mechanic and was on surviver but she's also the mom of the group. She's in touch with her emotions, she rescues dogs, her happy place is on the phone with her wife- she is a black stud lesbian and she's not a cold mean shell of a person. How often do y'all see that????
And then Stat- STAT! she's weird!! And that's the point! She likes being weird!! She's a trans hacker badass and she fucked an AI!! She's herself and unapologetically so. While affection and emotions make her uncomfortable she's still the one to go after Twink on his birthday. She cares about them all, even in her weird goth way. Shes good rep for those of us who are the "ugly alt queer" people love to make fun of. And the force loves her and her weirdness! Her and twink- two characters on complete opposite sides of the stereotype spectrum- are like best friends. They could of had them hate each other but they don't! He loves her and her weird goth vibes, she doesn't understand his scene but loves him and his drag and never says a damn word. Also!! Her VA is a trans woman!!!!
And fucking Steve- he's the cis het ideal. Strong, masc, average gay man. He could pass as straight- but he doesn't?? He has a boyfriend (who isnt some fuckin super model with the same body- he's a shy bear with glasses and a suffocatingly loving family- also!!! No homophobic family side plot???? Unheard of!!!!) and half of his arc is trying to be there For Him. He's not some hyper masc guy who "happens to be gay but everyones surprised" There is no sub plot of him hiding himself or "being seen as het" he's just a vers with a dorky sense of humor and has a little gaggle of gays (plus buck) that he's adopted and co-parenting with his butch lesbian best friend. Also wlw mlm solidarity!!! Holy shit!!!! that's rare!!!!
Even Buck- who's prolly bi let's be real- goes through an arc and isnt a 2D prick- he loves those gays like family by the end. And that's the end message- community in each other and loving your fellow queer people. There's no fighting between them about being a stereotype. No one makes fun on Twink for being femme, every one gets so happy when Stat smiles, Pam and Deb are happily married and Pam automatically takes her wife's little gay family from work and goes "I love them :))) you should bring them over more."
No its not perfect- I wish there was more open trans rep and nb rep, I wish there was some ace aro rep and I wish there was less animated dick and I could do without some if the skinny jokes Twink made but y'all realize rep isn't ever gonna be perfect? Gay ppl aren't perfect. Gay people are allowed to be stereotypes and the amount of LGBTQ people who worked on the show made it realistic. There was never a point that I was like "this was written by straight people".
Y'all shot down a funny, well written comedy cartoon made by the gays for the gays and hate it because there's a femme drag queen? There's stereotypes?? We're never going to get good rep if y'all crucify everything we do get. That's not saying don't be critical, but don't attack queer writers and what little rep we have because it's not the perfect cookie cutter shape for gays.
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lick-me-lennon22 · 3 years
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Trans Man!Reader X Beatles headcanons/How they'd support a trans (FTM) partner + help them through dysphoria 💙💙💙
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(lengthy title, I know ^^' this amazing request is from @anonymous-blanket ! they originally asked for how the Beatles would help a trans [FTM] reader through dysphoria, but I sort of expanded it to add general headcanons- I hope you don't mind :) 💞)
⚠️⚠️⚠️DISCLAIMERS:⚠️⚠️⚠️
- I myself am a cis woman and this is solely based on the experiences my trans guy friends have been so kind as to share with me, as well as some of my own research on gender dysphoria and grounding techniques
- this is NOT entirely accurate to the 60s or 70s
- I have written these with the assumption that the reader has already come out and has transitioned or is currently transitioning; with that being said, none of the lads would ever out you or disclose your identity before you are ready to do so yourself/without your permission!
- all of the boys would respect your identity and address you by your name and preferred pronouns !!!
- please feel free to (kindly) correct me if any of this post is offensive or incorrect! I have written these headcanons with nothing but love and respect for the trans community ♡
Paul:
when you come out to Paul (if you were together before you began your transition), he's so proud of you for being your authentic self and so glad you're willing to share something like that with him
he immediately offers to take you out shopping and buy you a more masculine/comfortable wardrobe, as well as items such as boxers and binders if you want them
whenever you're up for it, Paul does your eyebrows and some masc contouring (if you ever want him to)- he's quite good with makeup, as he often does his own!
along with (of course) using your correct name and preferred pronouns, he showers you with gender-affirming nicknames and compliments ("my handsome man," "my prince," "dashing," "Adonis," etc.)
if you ever feel dysphoric about sitting down to pee, Paul reminds you that he also pees sitting down (hc)- "It's just more comfortable that way, no shame in it," he shrugs
he makes it a point to remind you how strong and handsome you are often
if you're having a particularly bad day and your dysphoria feels suffocating:
Paul respects your boundaries if you want to be left alone or don't want to be touched
he stays close to you and holds your hand if/as soon as you're okay with it
he tries to take your mind off of your discomfort and ground you by serenading you with your favorite songs
he listens attentively if you just want to vent, and gives you plenty of reassurance and words of comfort/validation if you need them
Paul reminds you that however you want to present is valid and that you are still, of course, a man- regardless of idiots who may tell you otherwise
"How can you not look like a man...? You are a man, love" ♡
John:
when you come out to John (if you were together before you began your transition), he talks you through everything you're feeling and listens intently when you share your experience with him
he suggests going to therapy if you feel like it'd be beneficial (he attends therapy sessions as well- hc)
he immediately assures you that he'll beat the living daylights out of anyone who dares to deadname or misgender you
John (without an ounce of subtlety) corrects anybody who uses the wrong pronouns to refer to you
he makes sure you know and always remember that your identity is valid
if you're comfortable with it, John places pride pins on his leather and denim jackets- regardless of the comments people make
he will absolutely go off on bigoted and closed-minded interviewers/reporters who question your identity or your relationship
John accompanies you into the men's restroom if you're nervous (and if you want him to) and will tell off/uppercut anyone who even looks at you the wrong way
if you're having a particularly bad day and your dysphoria feels suffocating:
John reminds you that your body doesn't dictate your gender and that your identity is 100% valid
he offers his clothes for you to wear if that would make you more comfortable
he helps ground you and distract you from your discomfort by putting on a silly movie for you to watch (together, if you'd like)
John carries his/your cat into your bedroom and places them in your lap for cuddles and purrs
he reminds you of what a hot, sexy stud you are ;)
"A... woman?? That's the dumbest thing I've ever 'eard. You can't 'look like a woman,' you ain't one- you're a man, love"
John tells you he can't wait until the day you become his husband ♡
George:
when you come out to George (if you were in a relationship before you began your transition), he sits patiently and listens as you share your feelings and experience with him
on his next trip out to the store, he buys doubles of all the masculine-scented hygiene products he usually purchases (body wash, deodorant, shampoo, etc.), as well as some extra boxers in your size in case you'd want them
when he arrives back home, he wordlessly places the items in your shared bathroom/dresser so you have access to all of them, but won't have to ask if you aren't comfortable enough to yet
he's very mindful about using your correct name and pronouns from the moment you come out to him
George supports you if you're on T and gives you daily reminders, or advocates for you if you aren't and want to be
he supports you equally if you don't want to start T at all!
he reminds you that your presentation doesn't invalidate your identity
he refers to you as "my boyfriend" or "my man," and tells you that you look sexy, dashing, and handsome ;)
if you're having a particularly bad day and your dysphoria feels suffocating:
George respects whatever you want to do and makes sure you're as comfy as possible if you just want to stay holed up in your bedroom for a while
he fetches you some comfy, baggy clothes in case you feel like disappearing into them for a bit, and offers you some of his clothes if you'd prefer them
he'll bring your pet into your room for some extra love and cuddle time
George will be considerate of your boundaries if you don't want to be touched, but stay by your side if you'll allow him
he's taught you how to meditate and will practice meditation with you as a grounding/relaxation strategy
"Remember, darling- your body doesn't dictate your gender. You are a man no matter what" ♡
Ringo:
when you come out to Ringo (if you were in a relationship before you began your transition), he is elated and relieved that you feel comfortable enough to share something like that with him
the next time you leave the house without Ringo, by the time you've arrived back home, he's set your entire dining room up like a gender reveal party: complete with an It's a Boy! banner and everything blue he could find (it's overkill, but he means well)
on the table is a care package he's bought and assembled for you
in it, he's included plenty of masc-scented soap/deoderant/shampoo, boxers, a pricey and great-quality binder (if you've expressed that you want to bind), and a very thoughtful handwritten and decorated card
from then on and if/when you're ready, Ringo makes a point of (re)introducing you to everyone (and I mean everyone) as his boyfriend- you both love the sound of it!
he'll give you the most genuine, validating compliments out of nowhere
for example: the first time you watch your favorite show together after you've come out to him, Ringo admits that he's always thought you looked/sounded a lot like one of the main characters (who happens to be male)
if you're having a particularly bad day and your dysphoria feels suffocating:
if you're still alright with being touched, Ringo smothers you in one of his famous bear hugs and tells you that everything is okay and you're no less valid for feeling this way about your body
he brings your favorite snack/treat into your room for you to eat and enjoy
he'll sit on the bed and engage in honest conversation with you if you feel like venting; if not he brings you all of the pillows, blankets, and/or stuffed animals in the house- as well as any clothes you'd like to change into
he showers you with gender-affirming nicknames and compliments: "my handsome man," "my prince/king," "heartthrob," "hunk," "stud"... some of them silly, but all of them sincere
Ringo is sure to remind you that no matter what your body looks like or how you're feeling about it in this moment (and no matter what bigoted asswipes may say to either of you), you are just as valid and masculine as any other man:
"Because that's what you are, my love- a man!" ♡
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