#it was so fucking dumb and toxic

[theartthatleavesthemark]

another hot take but I really liked Roy and Jamie’s super dumb toxic masculinity fight. they aren’t perfect! Jamie is compelling because he is a twat. i read a fanfic recently that was talking about Jamie’s inner asshole and how that is an irrevocable part of him and it was great because Jamie learned to be a better person but he didn’t lose that part of himself—he just learned to channel it better. and Roy is an aggressive dickhead who is bad at sharing and thinks he has the right to be patronizing to literally everyone. he’s working on making himself better but he hasn’t lost that part of himself either! the diamond dogs convo was such a perfect addition to that scene because it’s all about how people can get better but they also are always in a way going to be inherently themselves. and in a situation where he is fighting for something he really wants, Jamie is the kind of person who feels the need to lash out and say the most asshole thing he can no matter who it’s disrespecting, and Roy is the kind of person who thinks he can brute force his way into being the best. and those qualities came out in both of them! and it was so great because they aren’t perfect and if they were it would be boring (a la Beard). and then Keeley says you absolute idiots (and by refusing to choose, setting up a more compelling throuple interpretation too, so bonus there), and all their work to be better comes crashing back and they’re both like. we are idiots. and because they have put in the work to grow they can get past Jamie being a twat and Roy being a cunt and move on to better things (like realizing Keeley has two hands)

#idk I think perfect soft always considerate jamie wouldn’t really be Jamie #and wise thoughtful always unagressive Roy wouldn’t be Roy #it was so fucking dumb and toxic #but it’s who they are! and in season one they wouldn’t have even been able to get to the point of having that fight #growth! #ted lasso #ted lasso spoilers

[sheepthatgobaa]

Thought about the fabsnap profiles and an idea popped into my head

#obey me #obey me solomon #obey me barbie #who thought of the nickname barbie for barbatos #the demon that travels through fucking time #is reduced to barbie as a nickname #anyways they r so toxic doom yaoi #its like that one bubbline meme #marshall + gary = fluffy yaoi #princess bubble gum + marceline = toxic doom yuri #i like to think they fight over smth dumb then make out right after /j #why is solomon the only one with pronouns in his bio #is he trying to make it obvious hes a dude #....... sorcerer puss- #solomon #barbatos #obey me barbatos

[luvevee]

Ok so I get the theory that Kieran is being influenced by the toxic chain after a certain point of the story and yeah there's something with it going on but it's ok to pair that + him just being an emotionally unstable kid with neurodivergent coding. Like there's no need to pick either one, both can go in hand 🤷‍♀️

#idk i've seen people getting really pissy if you agree with one theory but not the other #'um the people who think it's the toxic chain are so dumb' or maybe it's a very valid thought because that's what happened to the L3??? #like he's like 14 or something y'all telling me when you were that age certain things didn't make your fucked mental state worse? #because damn personally undiagnosed adhd paired with outside influence fucked my ass up for life #pokemon kieran #pokemon teal mask spoilers #pokemon teal mask #vevee posting 💜

[lunicho]

writing asshole yuma but being too nervous to make him as much of an asshole as i want so as a result of that im struggling to write this fic at all....

#im my biggest enemy #i be wanting to write lowkey toxic idols so bad but i get scared #like i want him to lowkey suck and i want y'all to be like “damn why is yn fucking him” #like i want y'all to think yn is dumb asf #but im cock blocking myself #i always do this 😭

[francy-sketches]

this argument pisses me off so bad bc yes laena was treated like shit by the writers but no they didn't 'strip her from her canon relationship with Rhaenyra and give it to some white woman' bc they have nothing in common except being friends with an implied romantic relationship. They could have easily had them both it's not like rhaenyra can't have more than one friend lol. Like yea we should absolutely criticize the writers' treatment of laena but I only ever see people bring her up to hate on a character/ship they dont like it's so annoying

#.txt #sorry 4 hotd discoursing but it keeps coming up on twitter. free me #also just in case it needs to be said dont look for this tweet i dont wanna start shit I just used it bc it sums up the argument #its so dumb they're not remotely comparable #wholesome uwu gfs where one of them dies before the war vs toxic megadivorce at the center of the conflict #they sidelined laena to prop up the uncle incest ship but for some reason they never say anything about that. weird #all that 'i know im not the wife you wanted' bullshit #also them fucking at her funeral

[anradalikesfish]

for some odd reason, its the malleus fans who are toxic and problematic

not saying ALL of them are, of course, but im seeing a pattern

#like first laizy boy #and now ugigiugi #and then heres ventique jumping in to defend ugigiugi #also that name sounds so fucking dumb sorry not sorry #i feel bad for malleus for having the toxic fans #and they always make everything about malleus and revere malleus so much like bro #have you forgotten about the fact that malleus wants to be treated like a regular person #and NOT the way you are revering him rn #💀💀💀💀 i swear #im starting to dislike his fans #not him i love him but jesus #and then they get mad when you call him overrated #motherfucker he IS overrated

[conanssummerchild]

fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck

#tw sh related #me when listening to so long london is giving me flashbacks the the worst most toxic friendship of my life #the relationship i attribute to most of my bad habits and fucked up shit i picked up from her #and she just moved on so quickly and i was left picking up the pieces for two years #and im still trying to mend them i havent even gotten there yet #and its fucking me up i cant think about it anymore #and i cant relapse right now i really really cant #im staying the weekend with my friend and we've been talking about this shit and god its supposed to be in the past #but its not and ive been lying so much #because she thinks its been two years when really its closer to maybe a month #god i cant relapse fuck fuck fuck shit dude #and my dumb stupid idiot ass keeps a fuck ton of pins with me because i like them on my bag #even tho thats how this shit started three years ago #i mean three fucking years how can i not be over it #this isnt the same girl i tried to kms over btw #i had a lot of toxic fucked up relationships in my suicidal era #ok i feel a bit better after having gotten that all out #im also wearing short sleeves rn to fully convince myself i cant relapse #ok im stable now i think at least i can breathe #alex says shit

[seokmattchuus]

Matthew sang take my hand for me <33

#dumb fuck ted talk #he really - 언제든 니 손을 잡을 때면 Do anything 뭐든 다 can be 난 된 것 같아 hero 오직 널 위한 - just for me #he wants me so bad #i just know it 😔✊🏻 #delulu is the solulu 🧘🏻‍♀️ #if w1 doesn't give this man more lines i will be toxic again #like #we all saw him belting notes in bp don't act like you didn't #let the man sing 😭😭 #free his vocal chords !! #seok matthew #seokryudan problems

[armoralor]

my favourite irony of the current shipping discussion is the folks who allege WolfWren enjoyers sent “threats” to people who enjoy cishet ships (I have asked for ANY examples or usernames of anyone doing this multiple times), have also been calling for Filoni to suffer & die if he doesn’t make their ship canon. but don’t forget, it’s definitely the sapphics and queers who like WolfWren that are the problem

#queer nbs & women get harassed for MONTHS by sabezra stans: [complete silence & all the major sabezra blogs still interact with those folks] #wolfwren gets a little love from the cast: “UMMM ACTUALLY THIS SHIP WAR IS SO TOXIC NOW AND THE WOLFWRENS ARE THE PEOPLE THREATENING OTHERS #are there wolfwren fans that suck? probably. & if you would like us to do something about it please give us examples and show us who #so we can make sure we aren’t supporting ANYONE sending threats and hate. #I’ve even seen wolfwren shippers giving sabezra shippers advice on blocking IPs + turning on stronger privacy settings #but where the fuck were Sabezra shippers when other Sabezra stans were talking about rape + murder + abuse in queer peoples posts? #I have about more than 20 examples of disgusting vile HATE (actual hate & not “haha RIP this ship) that I’ve been directly sent #multiple wolfwren fic writers have had to turn off their comments on fics because of homophobic hate #artists have been getting dumb shitty homophobic comments on their wolfwren art with “gay garbage!!! Sabezra of life!!!” #and I’m not seeing anyone calling out sabezras as a whole for being bad toxic people (which no one should because they aren’t) #do you understand & feel the hypocrisy now? #I have no doubt there are “mean” WolfWren fans that are saying silly shit like “hahah we won” and “our ship is better” #and yeah! That’s mean. HOWEVER it is not fucking harassment or the same as “fuck this LGBT shit” #and it’s wrong that queer sabezra stans are being harassed too- there is way too much biphobia & homophobia in this whole fucking fandom #but let’s not act like being called homophobic is the same as suffering under homophobia #and let’s not forget that queer people are capable of being homophobic themselves by perpetuating harm #thank you for coming to my TEDtalk #text

[hatake]

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#started going to therapy again in the hopes of coping better with my fam situation #but my therapist is pretty adamant that the situation is too toxic for me to be able to heal in #and i know he's right but also i'm not in a place rn where i can leave said situation or have the emotional capacity to try #and having a third party affirm that the position you're in is actually more fucked up than u thought is both validating and exhausting #bc like before i was just like ''my mom is entitled to still be close to the ppl who sexually abused me'' #and was able to just blame all my rage and frustration and hurt on myself #but now that it is starting to resonate that Wait That's Actually Fucked Up #just existing around my mom has become so much more exhausting #& i've spoken to my therapist abt this but i'm venting here bc i'm really feeling it today #it's sounds dumb but having someone explain to u that ur rightfully at ur limit at all times makes it so real somehow #ofc i'm at my limit at all times in this environment most people would be too!!! #i'm just so tired 😭😭 #tired and overwhelmed and tired and overwhelmed #and #ugh

[scarletanpan]

Fully watched a 5 hr video recapping the velma show in great detail bc all the other vids went into just how cringe the first few episodes was and didn't think I'd come out with an appreciation for autistic-coded Fred in the older shows. I remember watching them as a kid and thinking how funny it was that he seemed clueless but then would get so excited when very specific things came up that he would have extensive knowledge abt and it would always help the case. And he would infodump sometimes and everyone would just stare at him for being a nerd. Intentional or not I love it

#text #autistic king ig. like they said it was tacked on later to give him more depth but i think it works really well #esp bc some ppl see him as a jock or a dumb pretty boy. or a toxic yt man looking at you mindy kaling #nothing actually captures how abysmal velma is except going through it bit by bit bc its so bad and never stops getting worse #truly a work of art in how much it fails at being palatable to any audience. its a parody of progressive shows played entirely straight #also girl u got all ur talking points from 2016 tumblr its time to move the fuck on. we got bigger issues here

[universalcaffination]

Spock, almost coming in his pants on the bridge: oh my god... my captain is so smart and handsome... he knows how to make gunpowder I'm in love...

Cut to kirk, putting an unidentified powder in his mouth

#kirk: i dont know what this substance is i shall taste test #fun fact! potassium nitrate is toxic #ya boy is so smart and so fucking dumb #star trek #tos #the original series #spock #kirk #spirk #space husbands #god i love the gorn episode

[cantofworms]

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#ok ik all the hot take asks are pre much done and the sparkly say smth nice asks are better but well I’ve been having thoughts all day at #work and want to get them out now so that’s what I’m doing lol #obvs for the past few months i think ppl are vv heavily leaning into the dnf /r and I firmly believe that they aren’t #like yes I enjoy being a multi shipper but I still primarily read dnf fics bc they’re cute dnf writers and artists MWAHH ilysm #but it’s been increasingly annoying how every move dnf make ppl hyper obsess over it and ignore everything else like blog what u want this #is tumblr dot com but I think ppl how only see dnf thro the lens of romantic do much more ‘harm’ than ppl who dont #like the argument about taking validation out of their very REAL amazing friendship just gets over shadowed by omg Dream posted a pic of #geogre they’re in LOVE and sucking and FUCKING every night. like #and then completely disregard when dnf do and say the exact same shit about all their other friends #like dream has explicitly said they aren’t dating (ignore that tho) amd that’s he’s kissed multiple ppl since coming out (ignore that too) #and their friends naturally say that they’re all single (ignore that too) idk man it’s ok they like to pander amd that dream is a toxic #dnfer but it’s all just For Funsies. another thing is ppl CONSTANTLYYYY putting geohres sexuality under a microscope oh he drinks lemonade #from Starbucks he’s soooo gay like dumb shit like that is so irritating #the fact that geogre has never once talked about his sexuality except that one instance where he got a DONO about it proves how much it #just doesn’t matter or apply to the type of content creator he is/wants to be #to be clear if he is or isn’t or dnf every explicitly announce their romantic relationship im gonna be sooooo happy and supportive like aw #dnfogies🫶🏻 but I think there’s a 99.9% chanve that’ll never happen so maybe we should all just care a Little Less and focus on out lgbt #creators if that’s smth u wanna watch/blog about idk maybe I’m just burnt out from the phandom but whyyyyy does is matter what their #sexualities are they play minecraft who cares who CARESSSS idk maybe just having older brothers around dtqk ages has made me realize that #guys will just act homiesexual no matter What #guys are just Like That and tbc I’m not saying that just bc gnf hasn’t made an official coming out doesn’t mean he’s not queer but for the #sake of his contwnt it doesn’t matter either way ? so why are ppl talking about it on the daily idk man it’s just annoying but Oh Well #at the end of the day they’re all famous white guys and nothing matters hurray !!

[indiemovies]

when i say rian johnson is the root cause of r/eylo i know that is hyperbolic and not the whole truth BUT i feel ok saying it anyway bc in tfa their dynamic is played SO differently and just purely antagonistic (jj calling the torture scene akin to SA) and yes people shipped them no it was not a small ship but i truly believe there was no intention of them becoming canon pre tlj (+ i genuinely believe they did not map out the sequel trilogy well enough or they just changed their plans with every new movie/based on reactions) and tlj definitely stoked those flames to hell and back!!! and caused it to become a really really huge thing. which all led to the mess that was tros. and it would be wrong to pretend that any director that isn’t lucas has creative control over a sw movie but tlj just really does feel like a rian johnson movie (derogatory)

#and before anyone gets on my case of ooohhh you like toxic ships why are you still complaining about reylo #well 1 they are fucking boring. and their dumb fucking storyline ate up all the screen time that SHOULD HAVE been given to finn at the very #least and then poe and rose #2 idk sw is for kids imo and i just think there’s something fucked up about little girls seeing that shit #just my 2 cents. you watch tfa when you’re 15 and then boom you have opinions forever #.txt #this post was actually longer but i cut it down if you can believe it #i promise i typed this last night but it feels relevant now so!! here. just my thoughts. last sw post ever i prommy

[yoshihashismattebum]

Loving the intro posts for the G1! I wanted to add a note about Gabe Kidd for people to be aware. Now I am no expert on mental health so apologies if I’m not explaining this correctly. He has been open about a lot of his mental health issues. Last year? I think it was he called out several people on Twitter to the point that Ospreay asked people not to engage with him and that it was a serious matter

However, I bring this up because a female wrestler called out one of her trainers of emotional abuse as part of Speaking Out and the person she accused Sid Scala was suing her for tweeting about it. And Gabe during all of this accused her of lying as Sid was his friend. Now I’m not here to say whether it’s right or wrong or justified or anything like that. Just wanted to bring that for people’s attention

Thanks for this extra info. Yes, I saw some of Gabe's posts on Twitter during his mental health crisis. I didn't include anything about it in my guide as it seemed like it was a pretty complex personal situation, and one where I didn't feel we had enough information to really know what was going on.

I'd missed his particular comments about the Scala accusation though. I've just looked them up. Yikes. I'd like to be able to put it down to him being in the middle of a mental health crisis at the time (since I believe it did occur around the same time), but also, he hasn't apologised for his comments since his return to wrestling, as far as I can see. And I know how tempting it is to give people a free pass when I'm a fan of theirs, which I'm determined not to do here.

As you say, important information for everyone to know, so thanks for bringing it to my attention.

#uuuuggggh #I'm so fucking fed up of this #the culture in wrestling is so fucking toxic still and it sucks #and as much as it sucks for me to keep discovering that wrestlers I liked have said shitty stuff #it makes me even more sick when I think about how many fans/trainees/wrestlers have been directly affected by this culture of abuse #how many people have been betrayed and let down by an industry that they loved? And an industry that should be about escapist entertainment #fucking do better #I'm glad that all of this stuff is coming to light. It's important to know. But I fucking hate that it happened in the first place. #I wish posts like this weren't necessary. #I just want to make dumb jokes about wrestling. I fucking hate that I have to write footnotes about abuse and blackballing and misogyny etc #anyways sorry for the rant – thought I'd better keep it in the tags #. #asks #g1 guide #cw abuse

[chocoenvy]

smh well now that I know it's you im just gonna randomly pop into your world and terrorize you w pretty women concepts oh noooo how terrible /s 😔

so. tengu!reader/yan!miko 👁👁

she "jokingly" bites you saying she's going to eat you bc your technically her prey but really she's just making sure no one gets any ideas. it took so long to gain your trust and lure you into the section of the shrine she made just for you after all. her own lil birdcage to hold her lil songbird

it'd be such a waste of time to have to hide their body and get you back into your cage. she wouldn't have done it if you'd just behaved, really. well. thats a lie, but what you don't know doesn't hurt you, right??

she knows all sorts of remedies to calm you down if you keep acting up though. she just wants to help keep your feathers nice and pretty and your throwing a tantrum. she just cant have that, can she??

she'll make it up to you with cuddles after. not that you'll get a choice in that either

i just think toxic possessive women hit different. Miko saw Ei get a bird and she wanted one so she just picked up your dumbass off the street and now you have. a few regrets - eros

GOOD. ALDSFJSADLFK pretty women <333

AND HELLO THANK YOU FOR THE FOOD OH MY GOD ik this has been in my askbox for a... hot minute now but i'm still frothing at the mouth

no bc i LOVE the fact that ei and yae have matching birds and i can shove kujou sara (or reader) in between them

like eimiko is cute and all but ei treating the bird reader all nice and friendly while yae straight up monches on the poor little thing- I JUST THINK IT'S A NEAT DYNAMIC IS ALL HASDKARJSADRHSAR

#choco.asks #*~frequent customer #also the last paragraph... #miko getting jealous bc ei has a bird and so she gets you #miko being a toxic bitch and trying to make ei jealous by getting you #and she's kinda stupid so she accidentally made herself doubly jealous bc FUCK people are talking to you only SHE'S supposed to do that #I LIKE DUMB YANDERE SHENANIGANS OOPS