#idk your mom i guess

[poison-p1nk]

spy portrait. 🚬

#thats right im back from the dead with the most random content #tf2 spy #tf2 #team fortress 2 #artists on tumblr #·art #red spy #blu spy #idk your mom i guess

[jorrated]

i agree that latinos experience xenophobia/racism just for being latinos, but also i cant help but laugh when white latinos try to pull the race card. girl you cant even take a photo with the flash on

#source: im brazilian and white #idk man her i guess we just see things differently #like once i saw someone saying they were half brazilian #as in their mom was brazilian and they were born in american #in my head i was like...... so youre american?....????? #latino isnt an ethnicity??? #i guess we separate ethinicity and nationality here so whenever i see people talking about it as one thing i just dont get it #its not even a gatekeepy thing like 'oh you cant call yourself latino!!!!' or 'youre not a REAL brazilian' i deadass dont get it #culturally its another thing i 100% get when people say oh my ma was brazilian so yknow im brazilin #its one of the reasons why i never understood why people got so mad when they put like black characters in anime or smth #like they can be japanese and black? #idk i rememberd when someone described my as a poc artist and i found it funny. i cant go out in the sun for long lest i look shrimp pink #like i cant even tan.. #anyways. #that being said. i saw someone saying vivz1ep0p is poc so she couldnt be racist and i looked it up and shes like half salvadorian #girl..... lol

[arvoze]

you can tell they're related to eachother based on their move mastery decisions

#pokemon #pokemon mystery dungeon #cacturne #nuzleaf #spidops #my art #keith #cass #luwel #butcher #cass is keiths mom btw. theyve never interacted before #they'll interact eventually but they remain pretty distant to eachother #like if anything. butcher talks to keith more than his own mom does #(hes like his stepdad basically i guess bc cass and butcher are A Thing) #not that cass is really much of a talker anyways. which. fuck dude keith isnt much of a talker either actually #(keith talks to his friends/family a lot but if youre a stranger he's usually very quiet #he'll be happy to talk about jobs/rescue work/etc but if u talk to him outside of that he's so different) #they'll meet eventually. idk exactly when. probably pre-calamity joining. inch trap gives team brambleweed a letter #not that keith wrote it or anything. he didnt. it was probably guildmaster rime if im honest

[sherlock-is-ace]

the imposter syndrome i feel every time i even slightly think i might be autistic is insane, specially for a person who highly relates to the lived experiences of people who are professionally diagnosed.

Like I was just watching this one youtuber, and she was talking about very specific examples in her life and childhood where she saw autistic traits that made her realize she was autistic and then seek a diagnosis and then get one, and everything she was saying was like she was describing my life! But yeah no, I can't be autistic tho

#and one thing that has been filling me with dread (as if it was relevant lol) is the idea of seeking a diagnosis and #either not geting it because it's already so hard to find a diagnosis for '''''''women''''''' (afabs) #and that will make me doubt myself even more! but most importantly those around me who already don't believe me #but also i'm very scared about this one thing in particular which is the talking to your parents portion of the diagnosis #where the therapist will want to talk to people who knew me as a child... and that person will have to be my mom #and i'm pretty sure she will dismiss most signs. like she would either not bring them up because ''they're normal'' #or play them as less important than they were #or maybe she didn't even notice them! because most of my struggles are internal! #things like being bullied or having no friends or liking a routine #idk if she'll be able to talk about all those #because my bullying wasn't violent it was mostly dismissive #my ''friends'' weren't really friends like i didn't CARE for them as maybe someone would have #and also they would leave me for no reason at all out of the blue... so i don't think even THEY considered ME a friend #and liking routine i guess she could say i prefered it but she doesn't know to the extent i hated going off it #i'm sure she forgot about the time i cried (as a 10 year old so not THAT young) because they made us change classroom #and i didn't know that was gonna happen... it was added to the anxiety that i thought my mother wouldn't be able to find me #but like the unknown classroom traumatized me (to this day i get anxious just thinking about that) #like... all those things i don't think she would bring up (if she could even) and i fear that will make me not get a diagnosis #not that this is a thing that's gonna happen cause as i established i cannot afford a therapist nor i'll ever get a diagnosis i don't think #so like it's not relevant #but i am anxious about it nonetheless #angel talks #personal #idk what's my point with this post btw i'm just venting and creaming to the void #dkfjhgdfg

[natjennie]

anyone else out here a middle child saddled with eldest daughter responsibilities?

#a bumper sticker that says 'middle-child neglect and eldest-child duties' #i want to believe it started when my older sister moved out but. lets be real. it's always been me. #i am genuinely acting care-giver to my chronically ill younger sister while my dad watches basketball on the couch #and my mom doesnt get out of bed. #like. my mom is pretty sick too and works all day and does most of the housekeeping too #so i dont blame her at all. #i mean i guess my dad works all day but. for real king you can't get up off the couch to support your daughter crying and heaving #no that falls to me. yeah yeah I'll get her a drink and make sure she takes her meds. #what's that? yeah I'll rub her back and run a cloth under the sink and bring her something to eat too. #oh? yes fine I wont take a gummy so i wont sleep because she's in a flare up and needs them more than me #to be clear!! I'm not blaming her either like clearly she feels like shit and she feels guilty all the time #i just. some amount of help from anyone else. or at least maybe. idk A DAY I can rest when i feel like shit #but oh- no- she's coughing up bile again. yep I'll come bring a bucket.

[viivdle]

"oh no, it's okay" but i just told my mom.

#and i never tell her ANYTHING #mother issues #mommy issues #😝 #you know it's bad when you tell your mom #people pleaser #txt #idk how to tag this #i just rambled to my mom abt it and now i might cry #i can't #vent #i guess #idk

[flufflecat]

anyone else finding it really, really personally nauseating that the pjo show would remove gabes entire character and replace him with someone less abusive to make sally a Strong Female Character. like wow, im sure glad that youve proven that women who are abused are the REAL threat to feminism, and they should just try talking back more!! what a good message to send to abused kids. sorry, kid. i guess you just didnt argue hard enough and #Own your abuser into seeing how cool and strong you are. what do you mean that arguing with an abuser will only make them hurt you more? but look how snappy and cool and feminist sally is now!!! youre clearly just being abused wrong.

#pjo #gabe ugliano #any other kids who related to percy feeling a bit uhhhhhhhh like shit rn #saw a post saying how sally being 'less simpering and helpless' is a good thing #like fuck you. jesus fucking christ. #can you think about what youre saying for 2 fucking seconds. #lemme just go tell my mom that she needs to stand up for herself more brb #oh wait i tried that as a kid and guess what it got us. more abuse! #changing sallys story for the purpose of making her a 'stronger' character is disgusting in ways that i cant put into words #women dont have to be abused Well to be worthy of sympathy #and getting angry didnt fucking help me get out of being abused #this was the only story where my sister and i felt seen and were DEFINITELY not the only people who related to it #taking that away from kids who went through our situation is awful #and the fact that anyone would consider it necessary to... idk. fix how the book portrayed abuse? it hurts more than i thought it wo #fluffle talks #negative #personal #sorry im not tagging this post very well #i dont really have the energy to find the right tags rn

[nightjarring]

I still haven't read DM but if there's one thing abt Laios that doesn't seem relatable it's that I am fully, acutely aware when people hate me and find me annoying

#going to a conference tomorrow and the person driving the van gives very strong I Barely Tolerate You vibes #its a bug conference. if your wondering #i used to be less good at it when i was a child but i remember one time i was talking to my friends mom at her house #bc i always thought adults were easier to talk to as a kid #and i was telling her abour cloned sheep and shit like that #and later my friend was like haha yeah my mom looked like she was about to snap #and i guess i was like. shocked and upset as a 9 year old that i still remember this extremely acutely. like oh i was tellingly you about #about the first time they cloned a sea urchin and you were on the brink of maddness ok why did you. allow me to continue then? idk. #many such cases. #ive rectified this by becoming a hermit and only seeking out repeated interactions with people i feel like i can trust which. actually. #idk how to determine that

[princesscallyie]

Me when I'm listening to the most stupidest story about my mom giving my brother $1500 for a down payment for a 2nd car while his in the shop for a deer hitting him and him losing the nonrefundable $1500 cause he drove 2 hours away to a scummy dealership and he didn't get approve for enough credit from the bank

#like... idk maybe cause I don't have a son but does anyone else have experience with a mom acting delulu for their son??? #like... 1st she paid $17k for the brand new 2022 which he traded in behind her back so he can get a 'fast car' #he got in an accident in the fast car mom put the parts to repair on her credit cards #since now the fast car wasnt pretty any more with mixmatch parts he traded in that car for a lexus for payments #which is dumb cause the whole excuse on why he traded in the 2022 cause he didn't want payments #he hit a deer with the lexus and i guess he thought they was gonna total the car cause he was already looking for a new one #but they gonna fix the lexus but he still went to try to get that car... #and that lady just agreed to it... #he owes her thousands of dollars... #she keeps on saying 'oh well he got a new job making $17 an hour and plus he's working a part time he's gonna pay me back #he's been saying that since he traded the 2022 and he barely paid you anything... #like why are you enabling his impulse purchasing??? #he thinks these cars are like toys or something and you just letting him use your cash and credit like that... #then she's like... 'well I would do the same for us' referring to us other daughters #but like... we're not idiots that would purposely put you in these situations... #why on earth does he need a 2nd car??? he only making $17 an hour plus a part time job??? you live at home??? why did you agree to this??? #just tell him no for once???? #idk I feel like I'm going crazy or am I just super stingy with my money and credit score? #callyie chat

[lowcallyfruity]

Guys I thought we hated the shroud parents- I thought this was a whole thing one time when we talked about how they’re probably not the best parents- guys am I going insane I swear there was a point in time when we hated them- guys-

#also I’ve been thinking about this but #shroud mom looking through Idias personal belongings (files) is BAD right #can we all agree on this? #I’m not on jp so I don’t know all of the context but #from what I have seen she went through his computer files??? #and that is.. concerning to me?? going through your child’s stuff is bad right guys? can we agree on this? #I don’t care what the reason is it’s still a really gross thing to do right ????? #are we acknowledging this? #because all I see is people finding it funny and doing comics and stuff #which is FINE. as long as we acknowledge this is not. something that a parent should do #I think it gets very uncomfortable for me the longer that joke goes on but WHATVEER #its FINE I guess #I’m just being dramatic but idgaf #idk it just seems that everyone* loves them now? #*I know not evryone does but a lot of people do #and why? is it their designs? the way they act? #but whatever #💛!me talking💀 #this was kinda Ranty sorry if you made it this far

[governmentmandatedryujinstan420]

previous version of this post got nuked by my computer i think this is a sign from god to stop becoming ill over fictional women but brother i am in stage 4

#hand jumper #juni chang #webtoon #your mom #idk bros we are so doomed #this is the part where my writer's block clutches my back and both images of what i can write are stormy castles #if we remember this exists and once The Outlines™ finish their fight to the death #throwing myself off a cliff #it's literally a circle rn #IT'S A CIRCLEEEEEEEEEEE #WE'RE NEVER GETTING PAST OUTLINES AND SKELETON SCENARIOS IT'S SO OVER #IT'S BUNGOVER #the way i shouldn't even be typing rn i should be practicing RICE[or riz if you're french] #but no slight tendon tear will stop me from agonizing on the internet over fictional characters i guess #BUT THE CIRCLEEEEEEEEEEEEE

[bangcakes]

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#personal #im like so happy rn. but also terrified #bc like. uh. gotta go back to the real world of having a job after bein in school for 3 years DNDNJDNDNDNDN #and also like. my boy problem. like NDJFJDJDJJDJDJDJD #big transitions oml #i can only do 1 thing at once and like so sorry to me but the job search thing is kinda taking a back seat NFNDDJFN #OH I HATE TO SAY IT. AS LIKE. A USUALLY CAREER DRIVEN PERSON BUT.................. #JDJDJDJDJDJDDDJDNDNDNDNDND I CANT EVEN SAY IT............ #but rn ya. my priorities.... im ashamed NDNNDNDNDNDNDNDNDNNDDNDND #but.... HHHHHHHHHHH its the more fun thing so !!!!!!!!! #but gah..... i also am like takin a break bc its like christmas n who the fuck is looking to hire rn lmao #the time between xmas n new years isnt real so !!!! #and also !!! i think i deserve a break after 4 months of non stop work !!!!!!!!!! #also like the faster i resolve my boy problem the easier itll be to focus #on job searching ????? #or like god i guess i could do both. my mom keeps being like.... youre both looking for jobs... why dont you ask him to do it together NDN #um.... 1. hes my competition LMAO. we literally had the same gpa down to the decimal #(tho this may no longer be the case bc we got our grades for the semester n mine went up. idk the state of his. would be fuckin funny if it #was still the same tho JDJDJFJDJ) #and 2..... LOL ID RATHER DO LITERALLY ANYTHING ELSE WITH HIM........ #god idk where this post is going. but 1. i wished him merry christmas and he answered back with a 'merry christmas 😄' which !!!@@@ #from a reserved/grumpyish guy...... im just kind of like NDNNDNDNDNDND IDK. IDKKKKK. LIKE IM HAPPY ???? BUT IM ALSO LIKE FREAKED OUT ?????? #i dont think i'll be able to deal if he actually likes me back #and 2. i like have a draft message of like. asking him to hang out JJDJDJDNDNDM #if youve been following these posts.. maybe u remember me askin him if he wants to keep in touch with me n our mutual friend and he said #he would. so that friend is like. going away for a month and like ok lets be real. if i have to wait until feb to see him i'll um Die JDJJD #so i have a message planned. IDK WHEN IM GONNA SEND IT. BUT IT WILLLL GET SENT. I JUST.... HHHHHHH I HAVE TO GET THE NERVE.... #but .... ya idk i hope he says yes but i'll also get if he says no. may be awks just the two of us. maybe we're not ready LMAO IDK. ive bee #alone with him maybe like. 30 mins max. and like the convo keeps going but there are pauses. IDK. maybe i should stop thinking and go to be

[bookwyrminspiration]

for anyone learning to drive, when they say to adjust the mirrors, there isn’t one specific angle or adjustment that’s correct. there is a range of angles, but what you’re trying to do is find one within that range where you can comfortably and accurately observe the road behind you. you aren’t aiming for the same angle every single time, but just something you can work with. and specific preferences will vary from person to person. confused the hell out of me when I started driving so, maybe I can spare someone that

there’s no “right” adjustment, just a range you can safely work with. and you can adjust as you go. if it’s not working for you change it as needed at the next red light. might take some time to find your range but you’ll get there :)

#driving tips #random #I was so nervous about getting the ‘right’ angle when I started learning but that doesn’t exist #it’s just whether you can safely and comfortably see things and interpret the info the mirrors tell you #and you can even do that with mirrors outside your range #my mom has the mirrors adjusted very differently from me #and sometimes I forget to change them #or I’ll forget when I drive my dad’s truck #but there’s still info from those mirrors and I can work with some of it #and then change it at a stoplight if I need to #random advice with quil time I guess #idk where this came from #but I hope it’s helpful for someone

[weirdgirlbymommylonglegs]

there’s being a teenage girl in your 20s then there’s whatever the fuck the babyface by sorry mom experience is

#i absolutely hate the phrase ‘teenage girl in your 20s’ idea it’s infantilising and will only stunt yr mental + emotional development #because if you keep doing that you’ll be 30 something saying shit like ‘i’m a 21 year old in my 30s’ which just sounds worse lol #and so on #and it’s not exactly a new phenomenon either bc women (mainly) will say they’re 21 with x amount of years extra experience #it’s just. idk. the obsession with perpetual yourh looks worse on people who are already young i guess #anyway back to babyface sorry mom. the album of all time; resonates with the ‘teenage girl in your 20s’ idea #(which for me has always been about being directionless and lost in life and feeling younger because you can see all your other 20-something #friends grow up and get jobs and finish their degrees n shit. and that makes you feel younger; almost teenager like) #(whereas i see a lot of people saying ‘teenage girl in my 20s’ as a way of almost bragging about being immature?? #like not knowing how to do things or speak on certain subjects #stuff like ‘when he talks to me about the economy but i’m #literally a teenage girl in my 20s’ LIKE DO YOU NOT HEAR YOURSELF?? #and of course i’m not shaming people for not knowing shit i mean look at me. i can’t drive i have no job and i dropped out of uni #but the REFUSAL to learn is astounding. like people think they can get away with being deliberately oblivious because they have #the self-proclaimed mentality of a teenage girl. and how do you think Actual Teenage Girls feel about people assigning their demographic as #being oblivious and vapid and lacking awareness #you know. traits that have historically been assigned to teenage girls that I Can Actively Remember trying to not associate with. #and my female peers were also arguing against as teenagers. #i dunno. in the words of tame impala it feels like we only go backwards) #long tags #kaycore #(fuck it. putting this in the sorry mom tag) #sorry mom band #babyface sorry mom

[hasarjunadoneanythingwrong]

> this is why I’m Españophobic

*hides Spanish descent on birth certificate* oh er me too!

If it makes you feel better I actually have 0 room to talk (white, mom is bri’ish dad is usa AND military) I’m mostly just being hyperbolic for an attempted humorous effect

And also bc I occasionally see these posts on reddit where (presumably spanish?) people complain about there being no/only one (don quixotic now) spanish servants like they’re the most oppressed country in the world when the continent of Africa exists and basically no country there has any canon heroic spirit so they annoy me sometimes.

#like damn guys at least they acknowledge your continent enough it’ll probably happen #‘is being half a white person from another country actually relevant’ you wouldn’t think so but my mom used to make English vocab sheets to #give to my Girl Scout troops #and other English culture stuff like idk. shortbread #there IS some cultural stuff (they don’t have medical ads on tv) #I guess? #well she had fun and I love her so #my asks #idk if I could hack it in England though their roads are uh. somethjnf

[scattered-winter]

THIS SUCKS!!!!

#SORRY I HAD TO GET THIS OUT OF MY SYSTEM #she's not gone yet but. very soon. #if i had to guess i would say sometime during the night or tomorrow. very very soon. #ive already said all my goodbyes and we sang around her bedside one last time and i think im as ready for it as ill ever be #but that being said. how the fuck do u get ready for your mom to die. #but it's not all bad. #my aunt was sitting by me while we sat at my mom's bedside and just shared stories between singing #and she wiped the tears off my face and traced my veins and held my hand while we both cuddled my dog #and idk. im the black sheep of the family but that doesn't mean i'm not part of it. even when shit sucks. #and these last couple months have been rough because first i lost my friend suddenly and now the thing we've been waiting for #for 3 years is finally happening #and idk. in a way i'm glad it's happening because i won't have to watch her suffer anymore. and in a way i won't suffer either. #just kinda ripping the bandaid off yk. #anyway i am contemplative and mostly at peace this fine night. we'll see what the morning brings. #winter speaks #personal #grief tag