#i was thinking bigender for a while

[real-odark]

"gay whizzer" i say, the crowd applauds

"gay marvin" i say, the crowd cheers

"bigender sunscreen and coca cola, sandcastle destroying, shark tooth collecting, hawaiian shirt, disney towel, beach vacation stepdad mendel." i say. the crowd vanishes.

#please guys just hear me out i have proof #my proof is he whispered it in my ear while i was sleeping #and it subsequently subconsciouslt made me make this post #no one thinks how i think. #genuinely shaking in my boots to make this post #bigender mendel guys riht haha? right? haha this is a popular headcanon i fit in with you all (its not) #falsettos #marvin trilogy #jett talks (me) #mendel weisenbachfeld #musical theatre #theatre #musical #musicals

[our-lesboy-experience]

im thinking how this one person i met is convinced that lesbians and trans men cannot date......... and my partner, a lesbian, is dating me, a bigender man + woman, making me a trans man. i lovveee being on the bigender lesboy grind; it neva stops!

"lesbians and trans men cannot date" I mean you can't Physically stop them. if a lesbian and a trans man both agree to the relationship and doesn't mind then like. yes they are dating. I mean a lot wouldn't but. not everyone is the same. you just can't go "no you're not dating actually." I don't think anyone else has a say in that matter

#I get like. thinking that if a lesbian dated a trans man that would be invalidating his identity #and for a lot of trans men yes that would be! #but for some no. some are bigender #some have been in a relationship for a while and he just came out. an expecting that lesbian to immediately fall out of love would be weird #since that's. not how people work generally #this is just another case of “so? who cares?” #they're both consenting people and their personal relationship has nothing to do with anyone else #lesboy #our lesboy experience #lesbian #bigender #trans man #asks

[larrythefloridaman]

WOAH, HE'S BIGENDER? I DIDN'T KNOW THAT!

#hey. hey. im just saying. he LITERALLY 'transed his gender' in a diagetic bit in orange. and if that wasnt enough. #in blue he disguised himself as squid jenny specifically with larry's powers (the only thing hes done with them on screen) #got caught by his god-assigned roles-obsessed caretaker. and was given the label of being something intrinsically unescapably deceitful. #while 'pretending' to be trans girl. #like. if i wasnt pretty sure it was all an accident i might even call the allegory here slightly heavy-handed. #with the nccts emphasizing a theme of 'youre not just what people say you are #you can be more than one thing at the same time' with crim #i think crimson can have boygirl swag. some bigender pizzazz. i think he deserves it. #is it REALLY a cpu kerfuffle arc without a subversive narratively relevant gender-transing. #am i supposed to believe the spirit of deviance himself is cis? get fucking real. grow up. /silly #also a lil crimtoinette in there. just for flavor. because i cant help myself. #also sidenote the nccts have given him this cute lil tendency #to tip his hat down to hide his face when hes trying to be Genuine or Thoughtful or Poignant. and i enjoy that little touch #i maybe like this guy a little too much. hes most of what ive drawn for months. #but what do you want from me. i read him as a queercoded villain deconstructed at the metanarrative level. #am i just supposed to be normal about that. #me and zia talked about this in dms and discovered. we came to a lot of the same conclusions. completely independently. lmao

[skillbattle]

yknow what fuck it . throws my kirby headcannons at you

#the concept of gender is not a thing on planet pop star everyone is genderless unless they decide to present an certain way #kirby is referred to as gender neutral in japan iirc but i just think he doesn’t really care what pronouns you refer to him as #meta knights is bigender and bisexual i think she’s so real for that #they’re not in this image but sword knight uses she/her and blade uses he/him theyre both nonbinary girls 🫶🏽 #shakes hands with taranza in being feminine he/him users #txt #i posted this on twitter a while ago im not sure why I didn’t put this here

[c0l0re]

Being bigender while also not giving a single fuck about the gender binary is honestly such a combo

Yes, I am both a man and a woman at the same time. No, these two things are not at odds with each other. Yes, I still manage to be genderqueer in both directions. I wear skirts and dresses while being a man and I wear men's clothes and work to deepen my voice while being a woman

I may have two genders, but that sure as hell doesn't mean I'm gonna be using either of them correctly

#bigender #transgender #trans #multigender #genderqueer #gnc #gender nonconforming #colore speaks #the longer im alive as a trans person the more i learn to love being trans and accept myself as such #i love my transness even if other people can can assholes about it #thats a them problem. it has nothing to do with me just existing as a multigender person #transphobes are idiots. it doesnt matter #ill never be totally accepted by them no matter what i do so i simply stopped trying and i have never been more confident in my body #my young trans self who was so terrified of never being loved while being trans would be ecstatic about this i think #it makes me a little emotional to think about

[biblicallyaccurateandrogynoussex]

Maybe one day I'll be strong enough to write fanfics but for now you guys get my vaguely angsty art

#qsmp #quackcicleriana #or at least it's implied y'kno #slimecicle #elmariana #quackity #what if your bitch wife and lawyer (you are in love with both) start bonding and getting closer through egg death while you were in #self-imposed egg-xile huh??? what do you do when you come back briefly from eggxile and see they're closer than you were with either?? #what do you do then? because you think you're unworthy of love and connection so you just go back to eggxile without talking to either #anyways gotta love t4t4gnc/bigender swag. i promise I'll draw fluff of these three at some point i just had to get this outta my system

[sorcery-fight]

I'm bigender in a Schrödinger's cat kind of way.

#im a boy and a girl until i need to think about it. then im one of them for a short while. #superbell logs #ok2rb #bigender

[dullahandyke]

Microdosing on coming out to my family by talking about myself in the third person as a man

#usually its inconspicuous like 'im a man of simple pleasures' but i just went 'god forbid a man want his cat happy' #n thats more conspicuous. plus my sister has my instagran which has he/she pronouns in it #^ im also microdosing on coming out by growing the beard tbh the beard is a GODSEND #like do i believe that me being intersex influenced me being bigender in any way? no! #do i think it makes it way more easy for my family to see me as such? yes so i let the misconception lie #they know anyway its fine. mam once acknowledged me as 'other' while we were bra shopping its fine

[the-gayest-sky-kid]

they dont tell u this but the moment you let yourself just use or not use words and stop caring is when you are truly free

#i stopped caring about my identity a while ago and just let it be whatever and like #yk what? its been pretty good #maybe i dont need to understand it and label it and write it down #maybe it can just be there. itself #and it can be whatever i want and it can change every 6 seconds just based on what flag or word I like more #or what i feel more #maybe today i feel more bisexual and asexual and arospec but tomorrow maybe im gay and aego or maybe just mspec or aromantic #maybe im all of them #maybe im genderfluid or bigender or demigendered or nonbinary or maybe im just trans. in some weird incomprehensible way #i like that one more often i think. just being that #maybe its more boy or maybe im okay being girl or a creature or nothing or maybe im just dapper yk #and you know what. honestly #maybe im just a fag!!!! and its okay!!!!!!! i can just say that because thats me #and i really like that #idk. feeling kinda teary #i just. idk i feel more secure in this than i have abt anything ever #im just this hodgepodge of everything that maybe can just be that. and if i want to name it sometimes i can name it whatever i want #sorry that got really personal i just feel. okay rn #like a good okay #personal posts and stuff idk

[starheirxero]

BOO hiii do u like any pjsk ships!!!!! I need to know ur pjsk opinions ,,,

HAIIIII okay so I'm gunna be totally honest here I haven't really been paying attention to many characters besides N25 so like, kind of the only ship I for sure like is those 4 in a poly LMAO

I WILL SAY THO. I've been seeing how some of these characters interact with ppl outside the group more lately and Emu and Mafuyu are especially adorable 2 me. I think they have some sorta undefined qp energy. Maybe Kanade and,,, Hinome?? The,, the side ponytail girl Kanade made candles with during that one event. They also have some sorta sweet dynamic I think.

But mainly the N25 poly is my fave <3

#asks #bigender-shiho #genuinely i got tunnel vision SUPER HARD on N25 during the first few weeks I was playing and i WOULD NOT pay attention 2 how they interact- #-with Anyone Else bc i was like BOOOOO YOURE NOT FROM MY GIRL GROUP 👎👎👎 HSJAGSJSHSJD #(which is why i don't know a lot of names. i wouldn't even bother processing them HDJSHDJ) #BUT IM SEEING THEM NOW. IM SEEING HOW PPL TALK AND INTERACT AND ITS FASCINATING #im learning who knows who babey!!!!! #OH WAIT ALSO. UH UH WHATSHISFACE PURPLE HAIR. #RUI!! #Rui and Mizuki knowing each other delighted me and while I don't know if I'd say I /ship/ them #I think theyre my second fave platonic pairing <3 #< next to Emu and Mafuyu HSJANSJ

[arcaneyouth]

i do kind of like the bigender label. im probably not going to use it but i do hold it and toss it around in my brain sometimes. that's a lot like me fr fr

#the reason im probably not gonna use it is the same kind of reason i dont identify as trans: #while the meaning in my head isnt technically correct it is MY meaning for ME and it doesnt match me #bigender is 2 whole genders. 200% gender. maybe even more. thats the definition in my head whether or not its accurate to everyone isnt #important. *i* have only 100% gender. but that gender is split between like 40% girl and 60% something else #and that something isnt even on the scale of normal genders. there isnt a label for that part of my gender #bigender in the community from what ive seen tends to be people who identify on both sides of the boy-girl spectrum #maybe not exactly on that scale but like. aligned generally with it #and my gender. is girl. and a tree and the sound of birdsong. which. uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. is not on that scale #i still think i could use bigender if i want because i can do anything i want forever but because my experiences dont exactly align with #bigender is in my head i dont think i will #(note: these tags are MY definition of bigender. it absolutely isnt the actual definition. my definition in regards to how it relates to ME) #(you do not have to tell me thats not how bigender works trust me i know ADGSFHSHGD) #demigirls a better fit anyways. like yeah theres some girl in there. the rest of it? heh... well.... use your imagination #i just sometimes want to recognize i do have 2 different types of gender in me #i am a girl! and im also something else entirely! #and its fun. i like the way my gender works #and bigender does catch some parts of my experience i dont think demigirl and nonbinary do #but not enough for me to use it i think #absolute ramble of a tag set it is 4:30 am i need to sleep

[fayesdiary]

31 and 35 for the Engage ask game!

31) Are there any easter egg-esque details in the game that you really like?

I really like the meta reference of Lucina and Lyn being the Emblems who save the day in Ch11, given their games saved the franchise from oblivion.

Also specifically, Corrin reciting what Xander said in the Fates prologue during her Paralogue.

Something about she who was once a scared, unsure child who was constantly plagued by uncertainty and guilt for her choices being the one who act like a mentor now.. gets to me for some reason.

I know it's the same for all the other Emblems, but something about Corrin repeating what Xander said to her makes it even more clear.

Also, something I just realized- the stone Veyle gives Alear in their S support to meet each other again- it's a magic trinket she could make due to being part Mage Dragon!

35) Spoiler slot! Talk about whatever spoilery thing you want and how you feel about it. (Ask this one at your own risk.)

Ok, huge ramble incoming.

Something I found particularly interesting about Alear is how they never actually become a full fledged Divine Dragon like you would expect from Engage's story beats. Sure, they are 100% Divine in their Emblem Form, but that's just that- a form. Not to mention even in that, you can find red everywhere from their partner to their combined attacks.

In their regular form their red hair, symbol of their Fell heritage, stays even in the credits and during their coronation.

Their Fell nature is an inextricable part of who they are.

And what I like about it is that it's never treated as baggage after their friends instantly refuse to let them leave after the reveal. In fact, Alear just becomes even more resolved to rescue Veyle, and you could argue it's what makes Mauvier finally decide to help Alear save her.

And every other comment the Hounds and Sombron make about being a Fell Child is met with a figurative eyeroll (and a roast in Sombron's case)

After all, so what if they used to be a Fell Dragon?

Veyle is a Fell Dragon and she's one of the sweetest people they've ever met, to the point they had to overwrite her entire personality to get her to do Sombron's bidding.

Actually, about Past Alear- it's really telling that even at their literal worst, as an emotionless, mentally broken, Corrupted-like puppet, you can still see evident glimpses of the person they'll become despite, well, all of the killing they've done.

And what's really telling is, they extend this acceptance even to their past self. You know, the literal face of their nightmares.

And yet they keep being worring about their mental state and safety, ignoring the fact they're... well, them, so they reasonably shouldn't worry.

They actively risk their life by giving Veyle, a little sister they've just met, their Dragonstone to comfort her and hopefully see her again, despite how terrified they are of being labeled a defect and getting Sombron'd and how lacking a Dragonstone would make them significally weaker and so... more prone to being called the d-word.

So it's evident that for me by the end of the game they've grown to accept their Fell heritage especially since it's a symbol of their bond with Veyle. And who knows, I have an hunch that when the Fell Twins join their family they might even grow to be proud of it.

And when they see a stranger holding an Emblem Ring, first they ask them to hand it over multiple times instead of ambushing them, then when the stranger very evidently retreats they let them regroup, challenges them and their allies to a fight and lets them prepare for battle.

For a so-called mindless puppet terrified of being discarded, these are two strangely kind gesture to make, literally the best they can do in their situation which puts their life way more in danger. No wonder Lumera saw something special in them.

Edit: Also the irony that in the world where Alear was born a Divine Dragon from the very start everything went to hell.

In this I actually have to give the localization a rare W- while in JP the species is apparently called "Evil Dragon", in English the title of Fell Dragon gives it a bit more nuance, because it symbolizes an affinity for darkness. Sure, this often overlaps with being evil, but it doesn't have to.

Just because Sombron is a complete monster doesn't mean his children or tribe (you know, from his home world) have to be.

#fire emblem #fire emblem engage #fe17 #fe17 spoilers #alear #veyle #my rambles #ask replies #loregoddess #actually wanted to get into that fell alear ramble for a while but i couldn't find motivation for it so thanks😂 #you know i've seen a few people read a trans allegory into alear's story #so i wonder how the fell blood staying would fit #my guess is being bigender or just flat-out being that kind of trans person who doesn't have disphoria about their past self? #idk i'd be curious to hear what people think

[cuntstable]

got hit with curiosity about popular de fanfics and after looking through ao3 for a bit the report is that its mostly just cop yaoi obviously but auuugh this fic. i read it a while ago but got reminded of it auuu

#patrick is there for the crop dw^ #but auuuugh. CUNO…. #also if anyone has any good disco fic recs feel free to link them in that replies…. i was actually looking for this fic about harry #realizing that hes bigender(?) that i think got praised a while back but couldnt find it 😓 i wanted harrier gender character study…. #de

[whatudottu]

Hmmmm if Annie fell and how would the Andromeda 5 react :))

Like what, she tripped? Fell out of bed? Jumped off a cliff?

Annie while being an adopted daughter to 5 aliens that don't know humanity inherently, she's a 16 year old who's first introduction to the 5 was through P'andor which I will state (if you're a long time follower, this is a reminder, if you're new, this is some context) she was immediately trying to mug him with a knife. He also probably looked like his human ID at the time which is... well, the picture of a large Slavic man who takes no shit.

But I'll indulge, I'll indulge, but prepare to be underwhelmed.

So if Annie fell (in the tripped context, maybe she fumbles a dance or just falls ass over teakettle on something), P'andor already has the impression she can take tougher shit than the ground. Might bark a short laugh especially if she gets right up and brushes the dirt off herself, depending on the dramatics of the fall he might jokingly award points for style, but not unless she got genuinely hurt P'andor does the quick 'You good' and move on when Annie starts walking as usual. Bivalvan would disapprove of P'andor's dismissiveness but less out of instinctual parental response and more from the fact he's grown up as a species with an exoskeleton, and Annie being human she has an endoskeleton which the soft fleshy bits on the outside. He takes a glance at whatever skin deep lesions Annie gets and puts in a bit too much stock than necessary into them, but his big main problem with that would be that Annie damaged the parts of her that would have been well protected under armour that humans don't have, and trying to associate the damage to scrapes in shell is building up his ability to cope that Annie would know what hurts or not.

You might expect that Galapagus would immediately baby Annie, but I don't think that would be the case. Aside from having the same instinct as Bivalvan (squishy shell-less human got skin damage), as a species with an unconventional method of flying, that being literal air propulsion, well there's a little bit of his cultural mentality that views children as baby birds or what have you. You could piff a geochelone aerio child (not in the least because they can be held in one human hand like Earth turtles and tortoises) and while still being an asshole, not an irredeemable bastard, the shell doing a lot of lip service (it's built in naturally to compensate for a fall, especially with all the weight of the shell itself contributing to the intensity of said fall) thanks to the inherent learning curve of 'oh yeah you're going to have to fly' children are gonna fall over anyway and heck, an adult too who would be much heavier is going to inevitably drop out of the sky like a rock. Not to say Galapagus wouldn't at least still hover over Annie for a hot sec or too, but if anything given that geochelone aerios have at least some areas of endoskeleton, so long as Annie isn't actively bleeding or straight up broken a bone he's not going to get too worked up about it.

The person that will really get worked up about it would be, of course, Ra'ad. Having absolutely no bones to actually break (his gladius doesn't count and his beak is hard to break at all) you might think he's the most prepared in dealing with skin lesions, but this is the man that grew up in an ocean and lived on land floating around like no one's business, people just don't get hurt by gravity! Not to mention, injuries in the sea are bound to attract predators, or injuries in stagnant water are bound to attract infection, or injuries are (in his culture) the first sign that you will be the next to die and dying isn't a thing his people are concerned with WHY AREN'T THEY CONCERNED WITH DEATH! It's only really his mind reading that tells him to stop right before he panics over Annie ensuing she dies... from embarrassment. If she fell and she's fine if slightly humiliated, Ra'ad will suppress his anxieties and kind of explicitly change the subject to hopefully make it clear he isn't thinking about her falling anymore (if it works it works, if it doesn't well...). And if she's legitmately hurt, Ra'ad would be actually the first to clock it since Annie like to be tough and infallible even if only for herself instead of being someone's stone, so if mentally she's wincing and grumbling etc Ra'ad will be the one to ask 'Are you actually okay?' and attempt (keyword: attempt) to be as low key about it as Annie is.

And finally I think out of all the Andromeda 5 I think Andreas is the only one who has experience with children, both in raising them and with the [alien] to human comparison to what a child is. I've mentioned my piece a whole bunch about making talpaedans ant inspired, and part of that is because Andreas would be the 'male' of an ant colony or the tradie of a talpaedan, which would mean Andreas grew up learning to parent the children of the colony's Queen and other architect/tradie pairings, expecting to in adult do the same in the colony Andreas had been married to if Aggregor didn't cause a divorce instead. So unlike Bivalvan who would claim with 100% certainty he was a father but only because he's a broadcast spawning species, Ra'ad who would claim complete opposite else he'd be actually dead to a herd of zooplankton young, Galapagus who would really be in human translation in his early 20s only remembering being a child, and P'andor that doesn't even know what sex is because prypiatosian-bs literally don't have sexual reproduction, Andreas would have nearly a life's worth of knowledge of childhood development (which is still only the equivalent of being 25ish years old, it's just Andreas being essentially a male ant) and have the most experience with a child falling over.

Which - because Andreas has experience - Annie falling over is not a big deal and if in arms reach, Andreas would lift her back up and brush her shoulders a little bit before letting her run off again and move on from the whole thing. The worst thing any parent can do is coddle their teen like a toddler and damn, Annie falling over is not as bad as what happens to talpaedan youth, it's a breath of fresh air.

This is hardly a 'P'andor exposes Annie to radiation' moment, but I did use this as an excuse to shoot forward some brief biology and culture headcanons about the Andromeda 5.

#ask #anonymous #annie andromeda #p'andor #bivalvan #galapagus #ra'ad #andreas #andreas ben 10 #andromeda 5 #ben 10 oc #ben 10 #someone falling over especially in public is not a big deal (maybe embarrassing but not angsty) #i don't know what else to interpret from this ask especially with the :)) there implying grinning for some pain #which i mean if you constitute cringe (one the result of cringing at someone falling not cringing at someone having fun) #as being 'painful' then sure it can be very painful- in the secondhand embarrassment way #/not me sneaking in some ideas i've been thinking on for a while #i think orishans are bigender hermaphrodites and can be a mother and a father or at least that's the translated words #bivalvan associates 'motherhood' with raising children as 'fatherhood' to him means forever on the go- it was his job as a trucker #at least as a trucker that wouldn't ever settle and it informed his unigender in a bigender normative society- gender is personal #and since you can be a 'father' by standing out on a windy breeding season day spreading gametes into the air #sex to him is just a thing that happens and being on the move he'd never think to consider himself a 'mother' at all and called himself uni #i don't know if i've mentioned this before but squids die in the act and in the development of young #male squids die because all their energy was spent growing up and mating so they kinda ran out by the time their peen got removed so sad #female squids die after using all their energy growing up mating and then having babies which means they live longer by proxy #of course it takes more energy to make a brain capable for mind reading and psychometry but i do base amperi off of squids #so i might have to think over why in particular a sapient species would still die from energy expenditure after mating #because brains take a lot of energy to make (it's why human babies are so useless) #part of the reason why prypiatosian-bs don't have any ability to sexually reproduce is because look at em #they're energy beings in canon and mine are radioactive deer skeletons they don't have any organs

[theauthor27]

This one's making me rethink my gender identity.

#tbf I've been thinking about it for a while #may be bigender? #idk #but weirdly enjoyed how feminine this one made me look #don't tell me about femboys I know I ain't one of those never sounded appealing to me #picrew #look at me. look at me. i am the op now

[nightly-ruse]

Water theme, v v fluffy cat?

This is Sandyshore! A fun loving sort of naive cat with a clam for a brain. While her heart is as bright and precious as a pearl, his mind isn’t so shiny though it has its strengths. Warrior of a sea based colony I see her falling head over paws for many cats and finding out love isn’t quite so easy or needed for a cat to have.

#she’s so freaking fluffy and cute I love him #uses she/he and is a bigender pansexual fleeting romantic. while he dreams of having a mate I dont think her first few tries for one would #work out. eventually learning not all of life needs to revolve around love and that it isn’t always so clear #kind of fallen in love with him she just makes me smile #hope you like her! #Sandyshore oc #now to sketch a fossil cat and galaxy laperm both cool concepts I’m excited for #night knacks #WC oc #warrior cat oc #warrior cats oc #my oc’s