#i needed that sense of venting TO someone

[snowflake-sage]

#I need sage to be real #I need to experience the love he has for Mae #the love they have for each other #idk if this makes sense #I have a lot I want to say but don’t know how #I need someone to tear me open and look at my bare soul and see me and understand #god more than anything I want to be loved #I know I am loved #but I want someone to look me in the eyes and understand who I am and hold me in a loving embrace #vent #comfort #art #doodle #drawing #furry #furryart #fursona #digital art #furry fandom #furry art #furry anthro #mae #sage

[lover-of-mine]

One thing I will never understand is why some of y'all get so mad about Buck and Eddie being roughly the same age. I don't understand how people can learn that Eddie only enlisted when Shannon got pregnant and not just assume he was 18/19 when that happened. In what world a 23 yo would panic enlisted because his girlfriend got pregnant? I don't get it.

#eddie acting older doesn't necessarily make him older #and also #if eddie had 5 years of real world experience by the time Shannon got pregnant #enlisting would not be the reaction #because he would've had 5 years to be an adult #having an accidental baby at 23 is young but like thats the not of the world #not like getting your girlfriend pregnant right after senior promo when you dont want to go to college is #that was literally my only argument for never assuming he was older #and finding out hes around the same age as Buck was great #made perfect sense #why is that such a problem? #this is a rhetorical question #i dont really wanna know #no need to tell me #im just venting because i just saw someone say EDDIE WAS SUPPOSED TO BE FORTY RIGHT NOW #FORTY #FUCKING FORTY #like what the fuck are they on #and they were like straight saying the show retconed and they said eddie was born in 84 #and im like?????????? you tripping????????? #i will take the 5 year gap BUT SAYING MY MAN WAS SUPPOSED TO BE FORTY???????????????? #crazy #911 #thoughts thoughts thoughts

[spearxwind]

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#question... has anyone of you with neighbors ever had your attention called over making noise bc it happened for me yesterday and i feelbad #it was 100% our fault it was really late and we didnt realize so the neighbors #hit the ceiling hard a few times but theh hit it a lot so they were clearly pretty mad 😥 #obviously we're not going to do that again but like. irrationally terrified that they hate me cause i make noise sometimes #its also jarring bc I've always lived alone so I've always been extremely quiet almost like a ghost but its so much easier to make noise #if you're with someone else #god does this make sense?? augh. i just needed to vent a little #this is actually the second time we get a notice like that but over something else and now im worried babey!! what if the neighbourhood #kicks me out or something!! augh (this cant happen i dont think especially not about smth like this but like auuuggghhg panic) #I just dont wanna be a bad neighbour man

[batgirlkirb]

i wish we lived in a world that believed in good people. i get so angry when people get so fundamentally confused and scornful and defensive at the prospect of someone just being good. nice. kind.

#showed someone who had never heard of mr Roger’s his documentary and their first response seeing him was #‘​he has no allegations??’ #and something in me broke and hasn’t recovered. #I’m tired of media that depicts a lack of compassion as normal be it in common people or super individuals #not everyone needs to be homelander or omniman or sukuna etc #sometimes there’s Clark kents. there’s people who do good. I find them vastly more interesting #not every compliment has some grand mistrustful plan behind it #sometimes people just try to be good #when I compliment someone they always assume it’s to weird them out. lull them into a false sense of security. or flirt/get in their pants #no. im just trying to make someone’s day a little better. #fundamentally I just want to be kind. #social media was a mistake #because it never highlights goodness without being followed by messiness and criticism. #and i’m so tired of living in a world like that. #but who even cares bc no one is going to read this anyway. #kirby chats #Superman #mental health #vent post

[lives4lovesworld]

Daenerys could literally be the devil reincarnated and it is still infeasible for her to be the one to torch King's Landing;

A desperate Cersei (who is essentially a female!Aerys), a violent hord of religious zealots, two (rightfully) blood-thirsty sand snakes, the tyrells and lannisters about to be at each other's throats, shady Qyburn doing gods know what, are all IN King's Landing. A cocky would-be claimant is marching with deadly-infected, nothing-to-lose, bell-triggered Jon who-regrets-burning-a-city Connington TOWARDS it, and murderous crazy newly crowned Euron Greyjoy lusts for the Iron Throne.

Yet according to the ✨smart book experts✨all these plots will apparently freeze and these murderous hotheads will patiently wait for Daenerys to speed run through all of her essosi plots; travel to Vaes Dothrak, gather all the khalassars, travel to Meereen by horse pace, fight the war against the slavers, deal with Victarion, the Iron fleet and the Dragonbinder, deal with Viserion and Rhaegal being loose, Quentyn's death and his remaining companions, Yunkai and its allies, burn the dead from the pale mare and the war, divide fiends from foes, which the later includes her husband and the Green Grace (tho both could be dead by the time Daenerys returns) meet Red Priest Moqorro and Maester Marwyn, hear about Azor Ahai and the Others, meet Tyrion Lannister, face Jorah Mormont again, hear from Illyiro and Varys's many schemes, mend the wounds of her people, get a large enough fleet to carry her host somewhere and cross half of the world (a journey for which Tyrion and Quentyn needed an enitre book) with a bus stop at Volantis, where she will likely meet Benerro and The Widow At The Waterfront and council the slave revolt, etc... so she is The One™ to barbecue King's Landing since *checks note*... itS sO SUbvErsIve, but also; iTs bEen bUilT uP to ThAT sInCe Aegon’s Conquest. 🤡

#the audacity #asoiaf #asoiaf meta #✨vent time✨ #fandom wank #daenerys targaryen #fuck dany antis #the experts in question; 🐢dumbkween 🦋 and ms. lannister"(dAny wiLl chOse- BITCH I know this must be really hard to grasp for someone that #lack basic reading comprehension but SHE ALREADY DID THAT LIKE 482 TIMES) #also another brand new concept; P A C I N G (ever heard of it?) #like OMG can one dany anti FOR ONCE make basic commen sense? #not all idiots are dany antis but (apparently) all dany antis are idiots #watch them change KL to Oldtown the way these 🤡s changed the water garden to KL #In these speculations Jon Connington and (f) Aegon either just seemed to sit in the Stormlands forever or need three years to get to King's #Landing. OR they conquered the 7K in 2 months no biggie. Euron just endlessly floats in the ocean #Cersei will just look out of a window for #84 years OR die IMMEDIATELY. The sand snake the zealots the two hostile armies just magically disappear or become brainless pawns.

[bunabi]

two tragic mass shootings happening in such a short frame of time....not loving the fear and apathy that comes with being in the US imma be honest

#and honestly thats the main issue with my current neighborhood: mfs are terrified of each other & there's no real sense of community #saying hey hi hello to someone different from you or giving homeless folks eye contact and some change: nunna that #as a bitch scared of everything (bees & public speaking & butterflies) what the fuck #like with my thrift store visit yesterday yeughhh such a frigid experience for no reason #I think you need to some degree of vulnerability in your life to get the full human experience #this feels like revenge for the 2020 uprisings; just letting us wither and waste and suffer with an armory of guns & no mental healthcare #anyway ive vented im over it now #text post

[surprisinglydomestickakashi]

My favorite part about being still into Naruto is the way I'm into it means I frequently have to tell algorithms that I don't actually want to consume Naruto like they want me to. Don't give me bland voice over theories from people who need to be reminded of minor characters. I need my clinically not-normal girls, gays, and theys to talk with about the little side guys they have entire lives mapped out for, the interpretations that include their favorite filler episode because they like it and above all else people who don't shit on the women characters or only consider them, annoying and useless or waifu material.

#you ever stop interacting with the mainstream version of a fan of something #and forget how condescending and stupid they are #one time i was reading kakashi retsudan at an airport and someone asked me if i knew who the guy on the cover was #when i said yes he was like but really or just from that book #like dude none of thr short stories make sense if you haven't seen naruto shut upppppl #he tried to slamder sakura to me and i would not have it #i had to block this one channel that would act like an expert but still has not put together that naruto calling tsunade granny is not #evidence that his theory of tsunade being minatos mom is true #like thats just a cultural way of addressing a woman her age she explicitly states she had no kids #and it wouldn't even change his one idea of kage nepotism because shes still a senju granddaughter #like the fact she doesnt have kids is why there are no senjus around #and why the heck would Minato not take her last name if she was his mom #it is killing me so i needed to vent here #he just says it like its fact casually after he dropped his theory video too #not to stereotype but ohhhhbmy god cishet anime boys are a f #different breed (derogatory)

[xxlovelynovaxx]

Hey asshole.

People literally are the fictional characters that are their kintype.

They're not "acting entitled to your art" to tag it as their very real literal identity - and one that neither they nor you can control.

You're perfectly within your rights to block. You cross the line when you invalidate the core identity of who someone is.

When someone says "I literally am Rarity", they don't usually mean "I figuratively am Rarity". The fact that you have a problem with someone making it clear they're not just finding something relatable, but deeply meaningful to who they are, as you openly admit, "cringe" and "uncomfortable" is a you problem.

Again, you can block over it. Otherkin literally block doubles (when another person shares their kintype) for basically the same reason - that it makes them uncomfortable.

But you have zero right to say "I know better than you who you, an internet stranger, is." Not only that, but while it's not recognized as such by many people, being anti-kin and not acknowledging kintypes as real is very literally bigotry - discrimination against and denial of a person's immutable identity and subjective internal experiences.

Oh, and btw, even if someone kins your OC, that's still not fucking something that you have the right to say is not their identity. I fully fucking understand blocking over that or being uncomfortable, but that doesn't make them any less a real, breathing person who is that character.

Their deeply personal sense of identity and not denying who they truly are, honestly, matters more than something that to you is deeply personal, but still only fictional.

I hold this to be true of my own OCs, and I have fictives of many of them.

Oh, and btw, you are not safe for systems, either. Some fictives (and other introjects) are literally their source and you have no right to tell them otherwise.

Anyway, go fuck yourself. Catch a block for this shit. One of us is denying someone's actual identity and potentially triggering depersonalization. One of us is doing actual harm. The other is pretending like it's a personal attack or even that they could at all be harmed by someone else kinning their fanart of canon characters from a media property they don't own the rights to, and pretending they're entitled to tell other people who they are or what it's possible to be.

#personal vent post #'when it's clear that someone is just relating to a character' THAT'S LITERALLY NOT WHAT OTHERKIN MEANS #listen I actually don't hate kff and think the exclusion of them and the whole choice/not choice can hurt questioning alterhumans #but at a fundamental level when people tag as kin THEY ARE THAT CHARACTER #come on #being anti-kin is 2013 tumblr anti-sjw shit #do better and go educate yourself on the kin community I'm not asking #need ID #sorry the screenshots are not me should have made that clearer #was not in sense-making brain

[newwave-lesbian]

they really did just give me all of the dogshit mental illnesses, huh

#i mean what mental illness isn't dosghit #anyways the reason why my depression meds probably don't work is because i'm bipolar #that's what my therapist thinks anyways. and it makes sense considering the lil manic episodes i have #so um. that fucking sucks but it also explains everything so its fine really #like i really really want to do drugs actually #i mean i am just so sad and empty feeling #i'm working on art but nothing i'm making means anything #can i just get permission to do a shit ton of stimulants #i am sooooooo bored #i'm really trying to make myself feel better here but only with things that'll do it instantly #anyways i want to not smoke because i am running out of weed and money #but i'm gonna smoke delta 8 anyways rn because even after all this caffeine etc i feel nothing and i need something #honestly can i just pass away though. i am so pathetic #or can i actually become hypo manic again. because at least i felt something #anyways does anyone want to be friends with me even though i am severely mentally ill #or can someone give me some dopamine/serotonin. i feel like shit #vent

[littlest-nightingale]

Being compared to your abuser bc of autism is fun 🫠

#for context. my sister asks where everything goes every time we put away groceries. even though she knows. #and i needed the olives. so i put them on top of the microwave. and knowing that someone would ask #i was like hey. im putting this up here so (sister) won't ask were it goes and put it away #(bc i do find that annoying but SO DOES EVERYONE ELSE #anyway. apparently this is a horrible offense and I'm being sooo mean to her #im sorry??? what??? #i just explained why i did something i knew my parents would ask about. which makes sense to do. #and apparently im “just like the people who dod that to me” and like. no??? #im not actively making fun of her for entertainment. I'm not hitting her for shits and giggles. i just put up a can of fucking olives. #like. i have autism. i don't know how my tone comes off but i wasn't purposely being malicious??????????? at all??? #and then mom called her over to make me apologize and SHE DIDN'T EVEN CARE. WHY DID YOU MAKE SUCH A BIG DEAL OUT OF IT. #so now im just upset and somewhat regressed and I'm just. why. i guess i said it in a way that my parents thought was malicious but from my #perspective. i was just explaining something and then being compared to my abusers. so thats fun and cool #vent regression

[innuwu]

vent in tags

#i rlly need to get out of this house #like things aren't bad bad #but i just can't be here anymore #but ive got to be here #i can't just leave there's people that need me #and i feel guilty for just wanting to get away #i can't live someone else's life anymore #i can't lie about who I really am and what i see myself as #doesn't really make sense without context but whatever #tw vent #vent tw #cw vent #vent CW

[im2tired4usernames]

I might just be dumb but I don't really understand making fun of you partners? I don't understand introducing them to your family like "gets my stupid asshole "I don't understand the play fighting I get teasing on some stuff is fun n cute if your both into that???? but?????my wife's smart I'm not gonna call em dumb to be funny and I'd cry if my wife told their friends I was super dumb n annoying? Yeah people are gonna do stupid things and no one's perfect I know I'm gonna do something that's gonna be annoying and stupid same with my wife n friends n family and well really anyone I just don't get when people talk down their partners to they're friends? Like do you want your friends to think low of your partner Do you want your friend to really think they're stupid and smelly and hate them????Do you actually like the person you dating???? Then why are you telling your friends and family what a stupid irresponsible jerk they are and how you can't stand them????????????? Am I missing a joke goin on is this a humor thing or social thing in just out of the loop on???????

#like it's not even venting it's just a joke? #i hate my wife joke? #couldn't be me? my wifes the best they're smart and talented and hot as the sun and they treat me very kind n patient they're my bestfriend #i get maybe venting maybe i get Getting frustrated and annoyed over some things but it's kinda scary how many people i know.... #who just..... don't actually like they're partners... like they're not even friends?????????????? #i don't get it?????????? i really don't understand why would you date someone you wouldn't be friends with??????? #like i get maybe venting but this isn't venting and honestly you should talk to your partner about things if they're upsetting you so much #i think I'm just dumb because it happens a lot my siblings my coworkers one of my friends they just....talk shit about their partners like #they don't like them and I'm my coworkers case they really should leave their husbands are shit if everything they're saying is true #idk i just can't imagine introducing my wife m being like 'hers my bitch ass nag wife they're an asshole and they're stupid' to my friend #that's????? what???? are you both ok????? #i get like if you needed to like talk to your friend about something for another view just to make sure you aren't in the wrong #an unbiased option if there's a fight or to validate you if your goin through something like my coworkers xonfide in me about her husband's #cheating and financially irresponsible bullshit and frankly i told her he's probably not goin to stop cheating after three times and #like that makes sense #but just talking your boyfriend down to your friends why? #don't get it

[sesshy380]

Day 3 of 'Monday'.

*covers face with pillow and screams*

#random stuff #venting #i think i just woke up choosing violence this morning #i just need to scream #or cry #or beat some fucking common sense into someone #or all three

[artheresy]

I decided to try the general public sale today instead of immediately going to the resale tickets for Miku expo and literally... within three minutes of it opening, SOLD OUT and with the way the count was going down, it was so clear that so many of the "buyers" were just bots and I'm so... I'm so tired

I hate ticketmaster so goddamn much

#I ended up buying those stubhub tickets #Luckily found a good set of seats that were less than 100 dollars #Which Jesus christ so many were over 100 dollars when the seats not the standing room was 39-40 #Miku may be popular #But she is not really mainstream #Certainly not mainstream enough to justify charging ALMOST 200 DOLLARS for the seats furthest from the stage #Like a lot of these people reselling them I think need someone to knock some sense into them #It's like they want to lose money #Sorry im just so mad first thing in the morning #I'm so tired #I tried a few days ago with the local pre-sale and the insanity of it selling out that fast literally made me breakdown in tears #Ticketmaster GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER!! #I wish I could go back to sleep #vent post

[littlemisstoast]

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#vent #not to b drunk posting in the club but #void not leaving me in asilly video game #i’ve. been sobbing for an hour #i was doomed!!!!! literally haunted #but they stayed w me #and held my hand #i think i might b traumed #maybe actually it woulda been neat #if someone had stayed w me even if it didn’t make sense #even if leaving me woulda been the better outcome #maybe actually u don’t need to have a reason to do everything #and ur feeling are enough to justify ur reasoning #ahaha they all left me #because it made sense #and all i needed was someone to stay even tho it didn’t #even tho it didn’t make sense #just because they wanted to #i’m normal #and not super drunk #and trauma dumping #sorry pretend this doesn’t exist #healing is a process bro #i love my friends

[privateerstudies]

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#Hm #I'm in a server where part of their vent Channel desc says like make sure you're supporting the person and not the issue and I feel that th #But I think also maybe 'someone being upset' is not the platform to tell them what they're doing wrong for your needs #Especially when that's the only message you send like no support and then 'oh hey by the way' #Just that #Like I just think maybe that's not appropriate you know! Like maybe think about why someone would do that #When they were upset about that topic anyway #Before expecting them to put your accessibility needs before the fact that they were upset and needed support #But your support is 'hey BTW this is inaccessible don't do that' #And leaving a react on the message that makes no sense #Yes I'm vagueing #Yes I should probably do something else about this but UGH .