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tempenensis · 2 years
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Hi lele just wanna drop a lil vent AND need YOUR opinion on it please if you would be so kind♡ tq
I hate western fandom so much like even god can't help them!
Ok so i shipped satosugu and itafushi (♡♡) but now this western fans are screaming crying blah blah saying its canon when its NOT
Ok i understand about itafushi cus gege has implied it as well but nothing about satosugu has been said has it? It was just a mistranslation for godsake
All these western ppl started screaming satosugu canon after the director said some ship stuff but that SO does NOT make it official now does it?
I mean even the director of bleach has officially admitted that the anime was kinda biased and towards ichiruki than the ichihime that was later CANON by the MANGAKA himself
Im east asian and i speak and write Japanese well (its my first languag) and so i have always been reading manga first and then watching the anime. And i, as a manga reader, noticed the difference and so many things that were indeed ichiruki but thats not what im saying
Cmon are you getting me lele?! Im not trying to spread hate i just want the western fans to know not to cry wolf unless its OFFICIALLY confirmed or such
Just because THEY WANT to make a ship canon thru some half assed opinions does not mean they would pressurized or shame others who do not get on board on their not canon but i say its canon so its canon train
I really liked satosugu because i though it was cute but now i don't cus the western fandom made it so toxic
I told them that the official manga that is in Japanese language says something else (that my one and only thing) they literally all hounded on me, bullied me online for being a 'homophobe'? Like why? I have a girlfriend for around 3yrs now haha 😂 (im a girl)
I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY IM SORRY LELE FOR WASTING YOUR TIME BUT I JUST want WHAT IS YOUR OPINION please
Thank you very much
Have a wonderful day
Uh, yeah. So it's finally time that I came clear. I once said that I have a ship that I barely tolerate, so.... that NOTP is none other than stsg. I recently block the ship tag here in tumblr, actually. So now that I said this, stsg fans, you're very welcome to block me.
I'll put the rest of my answer under the cut in consideration for the ship fans, since this is definitely not for the fans. Don't say I didn't warn you if you're one of the fans and still continue to read and then get offended
Honestly, this is a thing that has been happening since several months ago. I don't know exactly why, but the western stsg fandom got very loud - to the point that I, who usually can tolerate many things including pairings that I don't ship, became unable to ignore it. Fans today really likes to throw words like "canon" and easily verbally attack people who don't agree.
Anyway, even if Director Park said it, it doesn't really make it actually canon. I still remember Nakata Jouji (I love the man, he's my favorite priest in Fate series), the seiyuu for Naobito, said that Naobito is Maki's father, which later written by Gege to be untrue. Ougi is Maki's actual father. So, unless Gege writes or says it directly, what other people (even staffs) can only be considered as a speculation; since it's their interpretation of the characters, just like we fans do.
It's just when related to a ship, fans always get loud. Remember viz's mistranslation "my one and only" lol? I have long thought since the volume came out that the stsg fans will take it and run with it. And this is just a personal theory, but the loudest one are the one with the smallest crumbs. Itfs is still fed today by gege so we're just content day to day, but stsg currently has nothing in the manga so they get really loud when the smallest crumb drops. It'll pass if you wait, just stay calm lol.
So my intolerance does not come from the ship itself, but from the fans, so yeah. Same, anon, same.
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olderthannetfic · 7 days
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Am I the only one who thinks some fanfic writers are nosy and insecure? Maybe it's just this particular Facebook group but it's a big Ao3 writers group so I know the majority are also here, but I was asking how I should thank someone nicely for writing a fic I didn't like (it's part of an anonymous gift exchange from a Discord server. Despite putting the things I want included in the fic the result was still disappointing) and some people were like "why didn't you like it?" or "share the fic, I want to see what's so bad about it," as if not liking a fic is such a big deal.
I said I would thank them for their hard work, I'm just bad at scripting the words (cuz I'm autistic) and I thought other writers who had been in my position could give an example. I expected short and direct answers and instead met with people wanting to know more about how I got to this point.
I have multiple people saying how "This is why I won't ever do gift exchange" or "this is why I stop making fic from other people, there's one time someone said really bad things about it." As if I didn't ask EXACTLY how I should respond politely.
This isn't the first time I got this kind of thing, whenever I ask a trope or a tag that's remotely dark or dead dove-related there will always be a person or two going, "Why would you want to write that? I don't think it will get people to read." Which is funny because there is a lot that has spoken about antishipping or antifiction behavior and how to not treat people that way. Esp since that group supposedly exists to help support any fanfic writer.
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someverygaymoth · 3 months
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MASTER POST!
Welcome to the Moth Den! This blog is the home of KD!AU, The Retriver Institute, The Horrors in the Wilde, CFK!AU, Skyfall AU, Bugged!Cross(Bug), and plenty of other AUs.
(check out my AU details list here)
I'm still figuring out Tumblr, so be patient with me please!
It's important to note that I do write proship/dead dove content, and as a psych enthusiast, I believe exploring darkness through fiction can be a positive and safe experience! So, hopefully there's no confusion there. There's a list of what I am comfortable writing about vs not below the cutoff. (That is why I focus heavily on tagging all of my works adequately, and all of my posts! So that you can block keywords you don't want popping up on your timeline, and you —hopefully— never have to run into anything you don't want to see on my page!)
Two quick rules!
1. We're a SFW blog here, so when I do get our asks set up, please keep everything rated E to PG-13, alright?
2. I personally do not care what people write or draw as long as they're keeping things safe and having fun. Don't bring silly conflicts about what people write or draw onto my blog. (I'm referring to proship/antiship arguments) Thank you!
And a quick note, I do not currently take drawing or writing requests, but I do take suggestions. If you would like to suggest something to draw, I do not guarantee that even if I respond I will do said suggestion or finish it if I do start it. But please feel free to ask questions about my AUs and the characters within them!
Links↓↓ and about me↓↓
Here's the link to our SFW Discord, make sure to be kind and pay attention to the rules!
You can find me on AO3 at Some_VeryGayMoth, although not everything on there is SFW, so navigate with care!
And on Twitter, where I never post, @TgayMoth
Please make sure to take care of yourself and pay attention to tags on any of my writing, or any writing in general. If you see something you do not want to see, don't click on it. Tumblr does indeed have a keyword filter, and I will always do my best to use keywords in my posts, so if you do not know how to set up your keyword filter with the things you don't want to see on your timeline, I would highly recommend you check out this link on YouTube that will show you exactly how to do that!
Now that I've mentioned keyword filters— here's what I write vs don't write!
I write angst, violence, hurt/comfort, gore, all that good stuff.
I've written twincest(shout-out to Dreammare)(not defending this one at all, this was whore activity, and honestly if you're shipping this while riding on the technicality that they're not really brothers you have some shit to sort out because homie this is still just twincest, but I do question whether this counts as twincest due to them being one spirit split in two and popped out of a tree, so like, take that as you will)
I'm not comfortable writing any parent/child stuff but no shade if you do, I usually don't like any OG fontcest stuff either it's just hard for me to digest but again no shade.
I've written stuff about anxiety, depression, schizophrenia, disability, all sorts of trauma, lots of that.
I won't talk about the kinks I write and don't write on here but oh readers there are many yesses, maybes, and hard nos to be found there, I assure you. And again, write or read, no shade.
Uhh honestly I think that's all I have, which is kinda L, maybe I need to step up my dark fiction game if this is all I've got. (It can get so much worse and istg I will write worse stuff to spite anyone who's tossing around hate like it's confetti. And I'll tag it properly so they don't have to see it if it makes them uncomfortable. I'm just cool like that.)
(Oh btw if you're not tagging your stuff properly or make a fuss about tagging things when someone tells you that you didn't tag something properly, you and me ain't cool. Nothing about that is okay. I will never fuss about someone asking me to add a tag, if I EVER miss something please tell me, I will happily add tags for you and keep them in mind for next time.)
About me↓↓
I have been writing for about four and a half years now for the fandom, and I've been here since about the very beginning. I started posting my writing back in early 2021. It's been so wonderful to see this fandom grow and change, blossoming with many fun aus and beautiful ideas, and I hope I can contribute to many more beautiful ideas on my little corner of the internet.
I have some physical health problems that may make it difficult for me to post more regularly, but I will do my best!
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I’m gonna say something controversial
I do not give a flying fuck what you ship. I am not the thought police. I am not trying to repress media, I am not trying to censor anyone by not wanting self-or-otherwise-proclaimed proshippers to interact with me.
What I want is for people so entrenched in ship discourse to stop telling me as a victim I am wrong to be upset and uncomfortable when people bring ships that make me uncomfortable into my space.
Listen. People can do as they will with their free time regarding fictional characters—they are simply objects after all, writers are the people who give them life, they do not think for themselves. But at the same time, I do not like to be reminded of the shit that happened to me.
I am not proship. I am not antiship or whatever either. I do not take part in this discourse. I just do not like being told I am wrong because of my experiences making me averse to certain things, and for whatever reason, some people really like to try to lay on the whole “you should be okay with this actually” narrative extremely thick.
No. I should not. You do not have the right to tell me how to curate my online experience, you do not have the right to remove my autonomy in that way. The moment you start preaching to me about how it’s fine because they’re fictional as an excuse to keep talking at me about something that viscerally upsets me because it reminds me of my own past? You are the villain here.
It’s like any other issue with consent. Tag your shit and drop the subject if someone says “hey please don’t talk about this around me”. Thanks
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lovelybrooke · 24 days
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I want to put my two cents into the whole “ant-dark fiction” debate because I think it ultimately boils down to people not being able to understand viewpoints outside their own, ON BOTH SIDES.
Resently I saw a post of someone saying something along the lines of “please stop writing fanfics of woman being r*ped” and I saw a bunch of people in the comments and reblog a essentially saying “welp, guess tumblr isn’t for you” and I think that’s just in bad faith.
People are allows to not like fanfic the glamorizes SA, HOWEVER, on the other side, people are allowed use fanfic as a coping mechanism or a safe way to explore fantasies. I personally think that because Tumblr isnt an app like TikTok with an algorithm, meaning in order to consume content you have to search it out, I think it’s ultimately your responsibility to read tags and make sure you’re safe. You can’t police everyone because it makes you uncomfortable. On that same note, if you write dark fiction you need to recognize how putting your kinks/ fantasies out their can effect people, because contrary to popular belief, it does effect people.
I hate how Proship/ Antiship discourse has runined fandom spaces. I hate how people see the discourse as black and white, it you support this one thing you’re a terrible person, if you don’t support this one thing you’re great. I hate how the discourse has ruined fanfic as an art form and has discouraged people from using fanfic as a way of dealing with their trauma, AND I also hate how people are unwilling to recognize that the things they put onto the internet is going to effect people. Controversial take, but fiction does effect reality.
It effects reality when you put posters of your favorite character on your wall. It effects reality when you cry because your favorite character died. It effects reality when your reading fanfic or drawing fanart of your favorite character. It effects reality when you sit here on your bed writing all this shit for most people not to care. If fiction didn’t effect reality then most fiction wouldn’t be loved today. Fiction effecting reality isn’t always a bad thing, people just like to paint it that way. But it can also really harm people who might not be in good mental shape. I KNOW that yandere behaviors are bad in real life, that’s why I can read Yandere fanfiction and be perfectly fine. But there are actual people on this app acting like Yanderes, talking about how they want to hurt themselves or other people for their “love.” That is fiction effecting reality in a negative way.
Either way, I think we need to start understanding and acknowledging viewpoints outside our own. Instead of rushing to say “we’ll actually I use non-con fanfic to cope from my on SA” any time a person slightly critiques dark fiction, actually take the five seconds to understand their viewpoint and why they might be upset/ uncomfortable when you post about how badly you want to be non-coned by some hot anime boy. It’s weird, especially if you’ve gone through that first hand. It isn’t glamorous or sexy, it’s traumatizing and people are allowed to fee that way. People are also allowed to use their blog to explore dark tropes in a safe way with people that also want to explore those tropes, and commenting on a post that clearly says DEAD DOVE DO NOT EAT with “how dare you write fanfic about SA, you’re a terrible person!!!!” Is also not helpful in any way.
Tdlr: other people exist that aren’t you. They experience and deal with trauma in different ways and no one should be shamed for that. Pro/Anti-ship discourse has ruined fandom spaces forever, and fiction does effect reality and that’s not a bad thing.
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oscconfessions · 3 months
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To the anon who made the anti-ship ask, I agree with you on some level.. but also don't?
Now, I’ll give you credit. I do personally enjoy most wlw stuff from the osc. So I might have some baises here. I do get where you're coming from when it comes to shipping.
But at the same time, I think the reason you don't see that many anti shippers in the tumblr/twt community is because most antishippers in the osc (Who doesn't actually even use that title) are 10 year old boys on some big osc youtubers community tag.
And a lot of oscyt who do fall under the line of anti shippers are just very immature individual who are stuck in the echochamber known as the community tab of youtube who would most likely be as immature if they were shippers) but that still doesn't help out in the image
Basically most anti shippers in the osc don't actively want to critique and rant on ships like you do, most osc anti shippers don't really know how to even analyze the writing (Ex. "team that loses = bad writing")
TLDR: Anti-ship discoursein the osc, (FROM WHAT I KNOW) is very very stupid and usually very very petty
I do agree with you the more shippy sides of the osc are very allergic to non-ship dynamics, but
*Epic cowboy hat going down*
Look, I've been in the same situation as you, so many characters I like get stripped down to some basic garbage personality, tha lacks the nuance they have in canon. And then it’s all I see of them, I only see people portray them that one way and I can’t escape it. I feel it’s also shoved down my face.
But now, and this is where you might lose me, and where my take might become ass.
IF you want anti-ship osc content you need to make it yourself, even with all the haters.
I wanted more content that noticed the characters actual personality, so I started posting analises, I wanted to find people who shared my takes so I started looking around for people(THIS was actually way easier due to me making content, since those people KNEW my takes)
I'm sorry to say it, but people who like shipping all the characters together won't suddenly stop posting that content or posting more platonic content of osc characters because you don't like ships. Whilst it sucks that you feel like you have a place in the osc, a lot of the people came here wanting to ship stuff, a lot of people enjoy doing that just as much as you enjoy antishipping
BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY
If you want more platonic osc content, if you want MORE anti ship content you'll need to make it yourself, if you want to stop having ship content down your tags then block as many ships you know of. (Again I'll give you credit this ain't fool proof), Your confession is true I do agree with it. I know you might feel forced to ship things, but I’m telling you right now as a person who's been in a lot of /fandoms that are big on shipping, no one is forcing you. And I think you understand that. But forcing yourself to like shipping isn't good. But then again I can't really blame you (god this is way to long)
BUT AT THE SAME TIME, If you want to have a space for platonic osc dynamics THEN YOU CAN’T EXPECT PEOPLE WILL MAGICALLY KNOW YOU WANT THAT IF YOU DON’T TELL THEM. I’m sorry to say this (because I’ve done this before) But especially on the internet people don’t know what you want.
And looking at the response your ask got, THERE IS A AUDIENCE FOR IT. Even if it isn’t big, people do want to see that!
YOU KNOW WHAT! If you make a blog or whatever about divorces and platonic osc dynamics, I will be your number one supporter! KEEP ON DESTROYING RELATIONSHIPS, GO FOR IT! HAVE FUN!
- a certified yapper (PS TO any people who are really into shipping who would attack this person for having a blog about antishipping, your as bad as the oscyt 10 year olds)(I sorry if this is mean I'm going insane, have a lovely life etc))
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kelssecretaccount · 4 months
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hey look, an official intro post!!!
hi my name is kel. im (probably) the host/a fictive in an osdd-1b system. we dont have a system name or anything so i guess you can just collectively call us kel until we learn more about ourselves :p you wont see me doing it a lot but its ok to separate me from my source
im still learning about plurality and stuff. we dont really have the best communication or anything.. actually, our communication is shitttt… but were trying super hard!! 💪
bodily, we are 18 years old and so ofc i would prefer to interact with people around my age!!! i use we/i interchangeably. this is a secret account since i really dont wanna open up to my friends about this and, if you know my main… no you dont :)
I WILL NEVER PURPOSEFULLY SPREAD MISINFORMATION. if you catch me doing so please please please correct me. i want to learn.
DNI and all that under cut!!
DO NOT INTERACT
fake claimers - i dont care what youre fakeclaiming or why youre fakeclaiming
‘narc abuse’ truthers - or believers in any other (insert mental illness here) abuse. just say ur ableist and move on
you post about args or analog horror - awesome interests to have but unfortunately they can make me dissociate and feel paranoid when im not in the best state of mind (exception: if ur willing to tag or dont post about them too much)
youre really into discourse - self explanatory
meanies :( - self explanatory. be nice to me pls
creeps** - pedophiles, hebephiles, maps, whatever you wanna call yourselves. all the same in my eyes. (people with POCD or sexually violent intrusive thoughts are not in this group, of course)
anti therian/fictionkin/otherkin - self explanatory
polycrit - im ambiamorous lol
terf/gendercrit - IM TRANS????
all radfems - i understand that a handful of you are chill but theres too much of an overlap with terfs. i wouldnt feel safe, no matter how nice you are (or say you are)
weird about religion - this includes nonreligious or spiritual people that make fun of people that follow a religion, as well as people that harass or are generally assholes to people that dont follow their religion (im luciferian)
**i dont really wanna get into the proship/antiship debate (its way too nuanced for me to take a black and white stance) but if ur jerking it to depictions of toddlers or anything like that then yeah no.
ill just block you if you otherwise make me uncomfortable
BYF
i fake flirt with people im close to (with consent ofc)
just bc i interact with somebody doesnt necessarily mean that i agree with everything they believe in lol
i have NVLD and autism so i might not seem very aware. it can take me a while to understand things. please dont call me dumb or anything like that, even as a joke (im ok with most other joking insults)
i dont know much about syscourse and i dont care to know. we are, however, traumagenic and wed prefer to interact with systems that are also traumagenic (not anti endo or anything)
im always learning more about myself every day
PLEASE INTERACT
didosdd systems
queer people
omori fans
people with learning disabilities
people that post about mental health or positivity
people that wanna b friends :3c
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Hey OP, has this blog and all the asks and stuff you get influenced any of your perspectives on shipping discourse and general media stuff?
Oh, for sure.
I don’t think my opinions on “problematic” media or whatever itself have changed at all, but my opinions on these communities definitely have. Of course, I can’t talk about every single proshipper/anti and I’m generalizing here and this is entirely just from my experience. If it doesn’t fit you, it doesn't fit you.
I don’t really know how to articulate this very well so I’m sorry if this makes no fucking sense.
The communities everyone has built feel so backwards. Going into this, I assumed the community built around problematic media would be centered around said problematic media, but instead, it’s centered around defending it while also never engaging with it at all. It feels so bizarre to me that you’ve created a community around “live and let live, just enjoy the fiction you want to, it doesn’t matter at all actually” and yet 99% of all posts I see from proship blogs is about being proship and not them actually just enjoying their little fictional guys. In my experience, there seems to be more “fictional incest is okay because it’s fiction” posts than “here’s a drawing of some fictional incest, which is okay because it’s just fiction” posts, if that makes sense.
I don’t know, it just feels bad, man. Running this blog has made me significantly less happy, and I don’t really know why anyone would subject themselves to such a soul-crushing community long-term when they don’t even care all that much. I don’t know why someone would run a proship (or anti) blog where you only post about being morally better than the other “side” about your fiction, while also… Never posting or reblogging anything about the fiction you like. It just feels like nobody is happy or posting about the things that make them happy, ever.
I have the opposite problem with antis and proshippers. Antis have some fucked up opinions and I think they’re awful, but at least they don’t post about other shit. It’s possible to enjoy the things an anti has made without being an anti because they don’t exclusively post about being an anti. The #anti and #antiship tags are overrun with crossposts because nobody fuckin uses those hashtags. Antis don’t post under ship discourse tags or search through ship discourse tags or follow blogs exclusively about ship discourse like proshippers do.
I obviously can't speak for anyone else, but from my experience running this blog, it is exhausting constantly surrounding yourself with a community entirely built off of outrage. Of course harassment and bullying are bad and of course we should be anti-harassment. But I feel like that should be the baseline for the community and not everything the community thinks and does.
The term “ignorance is bliss” comes to mind. You don’t have to post about “wow antis sure do suck haha” all the time when you could post about your fictional blorbos instead. Post your blorbos dammit, even if they’re siblings or what the fuck ever, it’ll make you happier than posting about discourse.
Enjoy whatever fiction you want, but at least post about things you enjoy. You can quit posting about discourse if it makes you feel worse, I promise it doesn’t make you an anti I swear.
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antiproshipping · 7 months
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I was googling about pro/antiship stuff and I was led here so I hope it's cool if I ask a question here about something I've been thinking of for some time... Sorry this will get long. So for starters, I'd consider myself an anti (or just neutral), as I'm not a fan of what proshippers like (problematic ships etc.) and I personally believe fiction affects reality (but I really don't care about what people write/draw about since it's fiction, if that makes sense, just tag it properly so I don't need to see it), but... I don't condone harassing anyone for being a proshipper. Some think there's no "neutral" stance for this, you're either pro or anti and even if I align with the anti mindset personally, some people would deem me a proshipper because I'm not against proshippers (I have literally been called a "spineless proshitter coward" before because I didn't agree with harassing a proshipper). I wouldn't mind talking to a proshipper, I wouldn't mind being friends with a proshipper, so that apparently makes me a proshipper too... I personally don't think it's that black and white, but, what do I know? 
What I'm wondering is, what went wrong? I'm a bit older (30+) and back in my day, if you didn't like something, you would click the back button and move on. No need to attack others, just leave them be. These days people even add content warnings, so if I see someone write "CW: [something I don't wanna see]", I just won't check it out. And if someone states they're a proshipper, I'll likely just ignore them or mute them. Again, there is no need to attack them. So why do some antis knowingly look at things they don't like and then harass others? That doesn't make any sense. Don't DNI lists work both ways? So if the anti doesn't want proshippers to interact with them, then maybe the anti shouldn't knowingly interact with proshippers and vice versa. That's how I see it at least, I don't get why some people prefer to hurt others instead. (Also in case if any anti thinks I'm just slandering them here, then no, it goes the opposite way too so a proshipper shouldn't be attacking antis, IMO.)
So the question I wanted to ask: what am I? I've heard of people getting leery if you don't mention in your bio whether you're anti/proship and like I mentioned I personally align with the anti mindset but clearly I'm not "anti enough" for some antis. If I label myself a proshipper, people will get the wrong idea as again, I'm personally not a fan of such content (you do you though). And what if I pick the ""wrong"" label, what if my friends actually turn out to be antis/proshippers and they get mad at me? This whole anti/pro thing is so tiring. I don't want people to get the wrong idea, but I also don't feel like I need a label, but if I don't have a label I'll seem suspicious to some people... So, so tiring. I know I'm likely just worried for no reason because I really shouldn't care about what some random person online thinks about me, but I still think about this a lot and it has been on my mind...
Whoever is reading my ramble, I hope you have a nice day!
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tower-of-hana · 8 months
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Intro Post
This post will probably be updated as things come up so make sure to pay attention to it.
Who Are You?
Salvēte omines It's me, Hana. I am a conlanger, linguist, and demigirl from the United States and my pronouns are she/it. I also do Latin things sometimes because that is part of my background.
How Do You Pronounce Your Name?
I prefer /xana/ (German ch + anna) as it is a Gothic name but I accept /hana/ (it's pronounced the way it looks) too.
What Is a Conlanger?
A conlanger is a person who makes fictional languages, think David Peterson (Dothraki/Valyrian etc.), Marc Okrand (Klingon), Dr. Zamenhof (Esperanto). Tolkien (Sindarin, Quenya etc.)
What Are Your Profiles?
Here are the active ones
NSFW blog
Conlangs only blog
ConWorkShop
CBB
Discord: saussureancatgirl
Bluesky
What Do You Post?
Sometimes I will post a bit of what I am working on and sometimes I will shitpost about linguistics. Sometimes I do neither of those things and post about other stuff.
What Conlangs Are You Working On Right Now?
The only conlang I am working on right now is Jallo (d͡zaɬo). I will probably start a new one at some point.
Do You Accept Asks?
Yes please reach out to me about anything.
What Is Your Policy for Finding People's Pronouns?
I will check every piece of social media linked in bio and the bios of those social media sites until I run out of places to look at which point your pronouns are they/them until you tell me otherwise.
Politics?
While I am on the left I probably save my political engagement and most of my angry ranting for. The reason I have this blog is because I wanted to shitpost about linguistics and my (small) group of followers were built off negative political engagement. It made me genuinely miserable and so I don't post on twitter that much anymore. Maybe when/if twitter goes under I will make a sideblog but idk. I guess what I'm saying is I probably won't argue with you.
What Is Your Opinion on This Sexuality/Gender/Kink?
I can't be bothered to list out my opinion on every separate sexuality/gender/kink you might have but as long as it is consensual (children and animals can't consent) it's probably good.
How Do You Filter Your Content?
I try to use common sense when I tag/cw/apply labels to my posts for things that I think will upset people but if you need me to do it differently then please feel free to send me a message. I don't make a lot of posts that require censoring.
What Are Your Opinions on Proship/Antiship?
The terms proship/antiship are so variable that they are completely meaningless so I can't really say.
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benilos · 10 months
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About This Blog
I am Etan. I have been previously known by other names, but this is the one you can have for now. My AO3 is benilos.
22 years old, I am American Indigenous, pronouns are he/they/it/majora. I am the creator Hyrule-Bound and Time and Time Again of the TCU media series.
My AO3 account with all of the actual fics is benilos. You need an account to view mine, as it is marked as mature. It should not take very long to get an invite when you ask the site for one, but please keep this in mind.
This blog is 16+ due to the dark and sensitive nature of the majority of content I make. I'm aware some countries have differing age of consent laws, and as long as you are of age in your country to consent to viewing this content, you may do as you please. Everything here will be heavily tagged, and a tag list for blacklisting or searching purposes will be at the end of this pinned post.
I will not accept any discussions involving the proship vs antiship discourse. I do not identify with either term, and I am frankly to fucking busy to deal with children who don't understand what they are speaking about. Do not speak to me about it, block and curate your own goddamn experience.
I primarily do Legend of Zelda and Creepypasta content, my series Three Circuits Unending is a crossover series involving both medias, as well as having a lot of original content involved as well. This will be the blog for all series related content, art and writing.
My reblog blog where I may bitch like the toxic asshole I am is @kitom-kortil
My incorrect quotes blog for TCU is @tcu-incorrect-quotes and for some reason i cannot tag it
Tag list is
"Beep beep" for NSFT content.
"Bread", and "music" for food and music related content during Ramadan (more tags can be added as any Muslim followers request it).
"Knife" for writing content.
"Kid art" for art content.
"Riceball" for gaming content.
"Moo" for vent/sensitive content.
"Skull Talk", "Evie Talk", and a few other Talk tags will refer to either me, one of my alters, or Anthony and Morgin speaking on a post.
An addition: If you are of a religious sect that has any kind of holiday similar to Ramadan where you need to avoid certain subject matters, you are absolutely welcome to let me know, and I will gladly add tags to posts if it is needed. Ramadan is the only one I am somewhat knowledgeable about, so I may need prompting for others. This DOES NOT INCLUDE content warning tagging for LGBTQ+ related things unless I personally feel it is important, because I will not cater to queerphobic people. This is a safe space for everyone BUT those people. Thank you.
Do not come to me with your whining about how you feel about me. You have been blocked for a reason, even on this new blog. Me creating a new blog is not your invitation to bother me. Eat the fucking block, and go the hell away. I will not have a rerun of last time. Grow tf up.
Anthony and Morgin have their own sideblog, @kito-nasra. You are welcome to say hello to them. I do not look at that blog, and I have all notifs muted for that blog. You will not be able to speak to me or get ahold of me from that blog, so do not try to do so. You will only get cussed out by those two.
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fearmongrel · 16 days
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♧ INFO
hey there.
> Nikolai, you can call me Nikke, Niko, Nik, or wtv really
> he/it/hound. they/them is acceptable but not preferred.
> the song lyrics on my profile are to Apocalypticism by Moonwalker !
> i am an east european shepherd (aka VEO) therian and holothere. specifically as a military k9.
> i am in EST.
> i interact from @garden-arch.
> i try to tag moving gifs, flashing colors, dead animals, taxidermy, gore, and bigotry, but may sometimes fall through. please ask if you need me to tag something! i'd rather spend a few seconds editing a post than trigger someone.
> i do not rb reblog bait. "reblog if your blog is a safe space for—" biting you. be nicer to people with OCD.
♧ DNI IF...
> you consider yourself a zionist, defend Israel, or claim supporting Palestine is antisemitic. you are not welcome here and the children of tomorrow will not remember you fondly <3
> you are a nazi or genuinely antisemitic.
> you are anti-neopronouns, anti-xenogenders, anti-contradictory labels, or generally anti-good faith identities.
> you are anti-BLM, anti-ACAB, pro-war, support western colonialism, etc.
> you are transID (no, this does not include transspecies folk. y'all's chill).
♧ BYF...
> i am not interested in syscourse. i'm part of a traumagenic system but genuinely don't care. just don't harass anyone on either side 👍
> i don't really care about proship/antiship discourse. a lot of proship stuff makes me uncomfortable but you can still interact, just might get blocked depending on how uncomfy your posting makes me.
> i don't make original posts very often bc of genuine struggles with AVPD, so expect a lot of reblogs! i'm trying to get better <3
i'll probably add on to this as it comes up. ty for tuning in :}
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furvillaconfessions · 8 months
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hi it's me again, thanks for humoring me! i understand how it seemed like bait, but i genuinely wasn't trying to bait anyone. as for my proshipping friend, they're not into pedophilia/zoophilia/etc. problematic content, they hate it too, they just believe in the freedom of shipping others... as in, they wouldn't harass someone for shipping something problematic. they wouldn't really condone it, but they wouldn't attack the person just for their ship. they also believe in people being allowed to write/draw/etc. about whatever they want as long as it's tagged properly and they keep it strictly fictional. "dead dove do not eat" kind of thing, if you know what that is? they don't mind seeing that sort of content (and have even read some stories like that too) but it doesn't mean they support it. they consume it critically, as they say.
as for why i'm friends with them, it's just that i'm old enough to remember the times when people didn't instantly refuse to be friends with someone over whether they're pro/antiship. we've been friends for a really long time and it was only later they told me they consider themselves a proshipper and i know them well enough to be able to trust them. still, if it turns out they're into problematic content (pedophilia/zoophilia/etc.) and don't see anything wrong with it (and would maybe want that irl too), that's when i'll try knocking some sense into them and if it doesn't work, well, it was a fun friendship while it lasted. i don't mind proshippers who are chill, but the moment they turn into genuine creeps is when enough is enough.
sorry for rambling! also sorry i brought the shipping thing here for a bit, i don't think i'll talk about this any further. thank you again!
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( sort of long rambles, anyone can interact, stay civil. )
anything can be used to groom someone/desensitise them to real life rape and sexual assault and incestuous situations and violent situations. anything. that includes your fanfic with incest themes.
i'm not saying that it's morally reprehensible to write these things.
i'm saying that it can be used.
if you wanna write stuff that talks about / involves taboo topics, good for you, just do these:
tag properly
put a disclaimer on the bio
ex: something simple like " i don't condone this in real life, read the tags and trigger warnings here:"
if you want to recommend something messed up to someone properly warn them so they don't go in blind.
this is a complex topic, and it isn't as easy as proship/antiship.
it's ok if your thing isn't someone else's, and someone else's isn't yours. there are things wrong with fandom culture, to be honest. about how you can just easily speak with anyone you want about certain things, the internet blurs boundaries. i'm not denying that.
that is everyone's responsibility. if you were groomed by a media, that is not your fault. it is the fault of your groomer(s).
it is also not the media's fault, if it is fictional. if it has taboo subjects mentioned and it isn't genuine, real life children being exploited **in the media itself**, it isn't the media's fault. hell, even then, it would be the creators' / the groomer who manipulated a child/anyone into creating the media.
if it is real child pornography, with real life children being filmed and hurt. that is inexcusable. and that is the media creators' fault. the creator in these situations is the one who either made it, knowing it is hurtful. or the one who was manipulating someone into making it.
if you have been groomed with certain media, but the media itself/ the media creator themselves aren't the perpetrators, it is perfectly alright, acceptable, good, to not feel comfortable interacting with that media or seeing posts and the like about it.
that does not mean all the people that enjoy that media / created that media are the same as your perpetrator.
fans of the media / tropes that were used to groom you are not your groomer.
that does not mean you have to interact with the media at all, or interact with the fans of the media. it just means that you need to acknowledge, to move forward, that they are not your groomers.
fandom spaces do have a long ways to go, with people tagging things properly, warning things properly, speaking with each other in a civil way, etc, etc. that much, i think, everyone can agree on.
as i said before, this is a very complex topic. i'm also not the best at articulating my words. i just think that this is very important, more so than being a proshipper, or an anti-shipper, or not liking someone elses' kinks, or being absolutely sex repulsed or squicked out by incestuous or age gap ships, or being triggered by those things.
fandom should be a community where people can share their interest in topics without being afraid of getting sent death threats or being triggered wherever they go.
please, tag things properly. please, be civil with each other. stop calling people proshitters and antishitters and telling them to kill themselves and what have you. we all just want to feel safe in a place where we can talk about media we like.
tag things properly. it doesn't matter who you are. tag things properly. please.
( anyone can interact with this post, as long as they stay civil in the replies, comments, etc, and if anyone else has anything to add that they feel would be of note on this topic, please comment. because it's more nuanced than "ew, this person likes fictional incest." thanks. )
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cascadeofsouls · 2 months
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Independent multimuse and multifandom rp blog portrayed by the entity known as Nayen. (of @exnusquam , @sourhydrapplin and @manywcrlds fame)
I'm 27, use it/its pronouns exclusively, and live in Germany, which means my online times are harshly different from most of the 'Muricans here.
This blog doesn't host any pokemon muses, but is still welcoming other people with pokemon muses here for crossover/AU interactions!
MUSES | MUN | OTHER BLOGS
Read all rules underneath. I'll know if you haven't.
Multiship, multiverse, chemistry only. Platonic ships welcome and encouraged! - Every ship will result in it's own verse unless discussed otherwise. -- Please make sure you say which muse you're referring to so I know which one to write.
None of the art here is mine unless claimed otherwise.
No drama, no badmouthing. I don't touch antiship/proship discourse either.
This is a hobby, not a job. Do not hound me for replies. Reminding me one every three days or so is fine. - I do not enjoy roleplays that only have like two lines per reply, but so long as you write more than that and give me something to work with, I truly do not care how long your reply is.
I will not ship any minor muses with any muse over the age of 18 and vise versa. - Any attempt anyway will result in an immediate block.
We do not ship with pokemon at all, unless it's a legendary pokemon written in a similar role to a greek god (e.g. human form, intellect, ability to communicate and consent). - If you have a problem with that, that's okay, but please just block me and move on
I am willing to roleplay s/mu/t rp, but only with people I trust and have interacted with extensively, and only based on chemistry. I prefer doing nsfw rp on discord, but can also do it here if tagged appropriately and under a read more. - Discord is only given out to people whom I trust and have interacted with extensively oocly on tumblr IMs and otherwise.
If you want me to unfollow for any reason, let me know privately, and I will do so without resistence. I would prefer to be following someone who welcomes me there.
In general if you have any issue with me, feel free to talk to me privately. Don't just listen to whatever someone else says about me. The rpc has a clique problem as is, let's not make it worse. I promise I don't bite.
I ask you not to softblock me and instead just hardblock me. It makes things a lot easier for both of us.
I'm much friendlier than I sound like, I promise!
This post will be edited whenever I find it relevant to.
Thank you for reading. Love you all!
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f4gbutchdyketwink · 5 months
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hello here is an about me!
my blog is 18+ only! minors don't interact!
HI MY NAME IS SPERO! IM GONNA TALK ABOUT MYSELF NOW!
my commissions are open! click this link!!!
I'm 24, my pronouns are anything except she but it/xe/he are my faves rn. I'm a guy in a twink way and a girl in a butch way 💖 I'm polyamorous and I love my wife and my boyfriend very much!!!
I'm probably autistic, got some kinda anxiety disorder, fuck knows what else. I'm also chronically ill and probably disabled at this point but I feel weird about claiming that label so idk. Likely ehlers danlos and/or lupus 🤪
ex Christian and kind of baby witch but I don't do witchy stuff often, it's more of a state of mind for me I guess
stuff I'll probably blog about:
special interests: Half Life (whole series but especially half life 2), dragons
hyperfixations: dungeons and dragons, Moominvalley (90s anime), hyperpop, Skyrim, homestuck
other interests: arts & crafts, emo/scene fashion, harajuku & kawaii fashion (especially decora and ouji), invader zim, dungeons and dragons
I mostly just reblog memes, shit posts, and helpful things/social justice posts but I will post about my interests or art every once in a while lmao
I'm also almost exclusively a mobile user lol
THINGS TO WATCH OUT FOR
I will be posting NSFW here but I'll definitely tag it as such. I try to tag common triggers but I won't be able to tag everything so be careful. if we're friends/moots and you have a specific trigger lmk and I'll make sure to tag it, but I'm not really able to spend that energy on strangers so take care of yourself even if it means not following me. I don't mean this to be mean, but I only have so many spoons to remember what I need to tag.
I'm neither proship nor antiship. Thought crimes are not a thing but you also need to be responsible about how you conduct yourself online as the media you create and interact with affects real people whether that's your intention or not.
my only hard DNI is minors. if you're under 18 go away. other than that just don't be a creep or a bigot and we're cool.
I highly recommend NOT listing what you need trigger tagged publicly, you're telling random strangers how to trigger you!!! not everyone online has your best intentions in mind!
MY TAGS: maybe this will help me remember to actually tag my shit
half life: #im a simple man I see half life I hit reblog #im a simple man I see halflife I hit reblog
selfies: #my face
my art: #spero creates
OCs: #Sparkz the dragon, #Ruthless the Tiefling, #Invader Bit, #Alto the Tiefling
nsfw tags: #nsfw #nsfw image #nsfw text #lewd #lewd text #lewd image #artistic nudity
queue: #quwu
general thoughts: #spero live
other: #art ref #helpful #witchy #vent #vent in tags #wifecore #bfcore
potentially triggering posts will be tagged with CW or TW before the trigger itself. for example: #CW bugs #TW abuse
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