#harassers dni

[girlaph-lilyrose]

Antis, stop harassing Proshippers. Just block and ignore them.

Proshippers, block and ignore antis.

If you harass someone, you will get reported.

#antis #proship #proshippers #proship vs anti #ship wars #seriously #the block button is there for a reason #if you harass someone #youll get reported #harassers dni #psa

[al-selfships]

The "if you don't want to get harassed, don't post your weird shit online" take has to be among the ones I hate the most. You're telling me I have to post "normal" stuff (whatever that means) or else the harassment is justified? That the one in the right is the person sending threats? That I can't even have a space for myself online? For fuck's sake.

#proship #proship safe #proshippers please interact #antis dni #anti harassment

[proudproship]

I've seen a surge of antis calling themselves punk/alt, and I just wanna make this clear:

Book-burning conservatives are not punk, sorry... :/

#anti anti #proship #proship safe #comship #proship please interact #comship please interact #anti harassment #profiction #profic #antis dni #🌈🍖

[vivi-ships]

Do y'all remember when this was a normal thing to see all over the place? Because I do. I remember seeing and posting this image everywhere when I was like 12-15.

#anti anti #anti harassment #profic #pro fiction #proship #pro ship #proshipping #proshipper #pro ship blog #pro ship safe #pro shippers please interact #antis dni

[justproshiprants]

I really don't get the, "But a kid could see this and think it's okay!" Because it comes with so many infuriating assumptions.

Why is a kid looking at something that explicitly isn't for them? Why is the creator of said content responsible for that when they properly tagged it and told minors to not interact? Why is someone who's making content not meant for minors responsible for teaching minors that incest and grooming are bad, when that's something a kid should've been taught already?

I'd argue there's a lot more fucked up and traumatizing stuff on the internet than someone's "weird" or "problematic" ship art.

#proship #proshippers please interact #antis dni #anti anti #proship safe #anti harassment

[insomniac-ships]

I wish more people understood that you can have hard limits and boundaries when it comes to fictional content you enjoy without insinuating that anyone who doesn't share similar opinions is some kind of freak/pervert/monster.

#t.k. talks #proship #late night ramblings #well... late-ish #im just tired of the nonsense #you're allowed to not like things!! thats fine!! i also have certain things i Dislike!! #just don't go around making baseless accusations and harmful generalizations about people you know next to nothing about #like... i Don't Like sexualized lolisho stuff. it makes me really uneasy. #but im not out here harassing strangers on the internet over it or calling people ''p*dophiles'' over fictional bullshit #i just don't interact with content i don't like seeing #it's that easy #antis dni

[frameacloud]

"DNI-Related Controlling Behaviors: The use of a DNI to try to enforce control over anyone who so much as ‘likes’ a post of theirs to an unhealthy degree, often backed up with social shaming, harassment, and callouts. The DNI may also be used as a social ‘trap’ to create an acceptable target for abuse. NOTE: While reasonable boundaries are good and DNIs are not by themselves red flags, this goes beyond reasonable boundaries and into unreasonable controlling behaviors. The use of ‘DNI’ in this criterion refers to all ‘boundary rule’-esque pages such as BYFs and other such things, not just DNIs.

"Vagueing, harassing, making callouts, or otherwise attacking people who are using the website as intended (i.e.- interacting with posts on their feed in any fashion without stalking the op) and likely did not see the DNI. Especially if the DNI is hidden or nonspecific and vague (ex- ‘no freaks’ or ‘standard DNI’), making them even easier to violate by accident.

"Frequently interacts aggressively with people who are clearly on their DNIs and then calls them boundary violators for responding to the harassment."

- Excerpt from "Safety in Alterhuman Spaces," a document by the Dragonheart Collective. Emphasis in the original. You can read the whole document here (PDF).

A note on language in the above quote: DNI (Do Not Interact) and BYF (Before You Follow) mean a type of post that many people put on their social media accounts to tell others about their boundaries.

#rated G #internet safety #quote #queue #harassment #online harassment #about DNIs and BYFs #The Dragonheart Collective #community safety

[unstabledumbdoll]

yea no i don’t think “normal” people tell others to kill themselves over a goddamn ship.

#proship #proshippers are valid #proshipper safe #proshipper #proshippers please interact #i’m just fed up with antis saying they’re ‘normal’ #while they’re just harassing random people on the internet #😭😭😭 like girl that’s not normal #antis dni

[ivan-braginski-2001]

I hate to sound chronically online but genuinely why do antis only go after eastern creators on the very rare occasion they go after a larger artist?? Like it's such a strange phenomenon where they'll say that Hetalia is racist or MHA promotes pedophilia or that Beastars is for zoophiles or how SpyXFamily is lolicon bait

But those SAME FUCKING PEOPLE are SouthPark fans, or Star Wars fans, or into FNaF, or they're slasher fans. Like genuinely.

Why is edgy content ONLY okay when a western artist does it?? Like I'm not trying to be rude or call people racist but I genuinely just do not understand.

#Proship #Ant anti #Pro shop #proship #profic #proship safe #ship and let ship #anti censorship #anti dni #anti harassment #pro ship #proship please interact #comship #pro shippers please interact #fiction is fiction #fiction is not reality

[theproshipboy]

Remember to write whatever the hell you want. No matter how grotesque or weird it is, write it. You'll regret not writing it.

#proship #proship safe #proshipping #proshipper #proshippers please interact #proship positivity #antis dni #antis fuck off #comship #pro fiction #profiction #problematic fiction #anti censorship #anti harassment #motivation

[profic-ethereal]

Literally people need to talk about this more.

I'm not trying to be a bitch but antis are such fucking hypocrites most of the time it's disgusting.

Okay instead of defending that little ship trope you don't like why don't you actually talk about how your little "protect the kids, hakuna Matata" is bullshit and has literal pedophiles in it. Like do they not get that antis can be pedos/zoos or are they just ignoring that fact.

Goddamn are they stupid or are they dumb pick a struggle.

They fr they wanna protect kids yet literally are kids themselves half the time from what I've noticed, don't even know if people are pedophiles or not yet they are contacting the person who drew the stuff they hate anyway?! Like mf if you think that someone is a pedophile or anything why would you TEXT THEM? they could find your fucking adress for all you know. GOD. DAMN.

Idk what else to say my brain is like, coughing right now.

But happy Halloween everyone stay safe and never stop being who you want and doing what you do in fiction cause it's just lines on screen/paper

#proship safe #proshipper safe #pro fiction #profic #proshippers please interact #proshippers are valid #anti harassment #proship rant #antis dni #unless you want to idk

[proudproship]

It's really sad that if I see anyone with "proshippers DNI" somewhere on their profile, I block them everywhere I can.

Not because I'm proship and on their DNI, but because I fear they're going to violate my basic human rights.

I used to have panic attacks about antis when I started leaving the community, yet they're "the normal ones???"

Anyways thanks proship community for helping my mental health literally so much waaa

#anti anti #proship #proship safe #proship please interact #comship #anti harassment #antis dni #profic #comship please interact #profiction #🌈🍖 #antis are stupid

[space-dorito]

People say stuff like this without feeling a type of way ? All this over fictional things drawings , sketches , pixels are making you wanna say this stuff to REAL people !?

#proship #proship please interact #proship safe #proshippers #anti harassment #proshipping #anti dni #anti anti #pro fiction #just anti things #antis are disgusting #antis are weird #profiction #pro shipping #profic #proship discourse #pro ship safe #proshipper #pro shippers please interact

[justproshiprants]

I don't think you need a real "reason" to block someone btw. I've absolutely blocked people because they gave bad vibes or had a bad take. At the end of the day you have power over what type of content you see online, take advantage of that!

#proshippers please interact #proship #anti anti #proship safe #antis dni #anti harassment

[cccat-in-a-meat-sack]

Me: I don't care about people that aren't actively harming others

rando: oh, so then why do you care about endos then?

Me: *stares at the amount of misinformation in the endo community that actively harms systems*

#not even to mention the harassment #like what the fuck #sorry for medicalizing a medical disorder ig??? #traumagenic did #did alter #did system #traumagenic system #actually did #did osdd #endos dni #anti endo

[insomniac-ships]

NOT a problem: Primarily liking yaoi, BL, or m x m content.

IS a problem: Treating living, breathing mlm like they're a spectacle, invading their space, or going "SQUEEEE OMG IRL YAOI!!"

NOT a problem: Primarily liking yuri, GL, or w x w content.

IS a problem: Treating living, breathing wlw like they exist for your entertainment, or asking invasive, inappropriate questions out of the blue.

*NOT a problem: Finding NS/FW queer content attractive or arousing, even if you aren't necessarily queer yourself.

*IS a problem: Being an Actual Homophobe and claiming that being queer is gross and wrong and perverted, all while still using NS/FW queer content for your sexual gratification.

(* using "queer" as a blanket term here!)

#t.k. talks #proship #pro ship #proshipper #pro shipper #profiction #pro fiction #profic #comship #anti-harassment #im so sorry but i was so frustrated #nsfm mention? #i guess? #tell me if this needs more tags #antis dni thanks