ok this does not make any fucking sense but,,,, i am thinking,,, about how chase and henrik were the only ones in my lore to live a semi-domestic (even if fucked up) life with anti,,,, and how they both compare/contrast with each other in that regard.
chase suffered from loneliness in front of anti, because he had just lost stacy. so anti exploited that isolation for funsies, made chase love him. but with henrik, that was completely different - anti had lost mealla, and henrik lost all his friends, so they were suffering together. henrik’s isolation wasn’t a tool to anti, love was never part of the plan - they were both just so hurt and they didn’t have anything to lean on but each other.
and anti tried to fill all the holes in chase’s life. chase wanted a drink, anti had plenty of whiskey. chase needed a hug, anti was there to hold him. chase ached to be hurt, anti had knives at the ready. but henrik? anti tried to fit henrik into all the gaps in his own heart. anti needed someone to hurt, henrik was it. anti wanted to talk to someone- well, it wasn’t like henrik could leave his little homemade prison. anti needed to be held, be touched, be distracted, henrik eventually was all he could want.
A thing that bugs me deeply in the evolution of the way 🐜 argue is that I'm seeing more straight up gaslighting? Like, "we NEVER EVER harass or called you ー so now here's a list of 5 random unpleasant encounters that we will tell you is REGULAR with you freaks". It's just wow. I don't know how to fight against that without undertaking the mental Herculean task of documenting posts that will guarantee stress. I think I saw the beginning of this with "we didn't call ourselves anti" but at least that seems to be born out of relative ignorance unlike the aforementioned.
I’ve seen several takes that completely rewrote facts entirely documented on the internet about and around the fantis community on tumblr and twitter, and while it half absurd half amusing how far they’ll go into their bold denial, I don’t see it much differently than their already established hobby of twisting words’ definitions to fit their faux arguments. It’s still serving the same objective, and it’s throwing the same kind of smokescreen.
I'm sorry but can people stop sending hate and death threats to everyone
Because that is never okay I don't support it and you shouldn't either you're making Tumblr a toxic environment nothing but hatred and anger why?
Why can't you guys be happy and get along and realize that everyone has a different opinions and that is okay if you don't like something then block it that's what the block button is for
Stop acting like sending hate threats is something good because it isn't you're actually hurting real people
You keep forgetting that behind a computer screen or a phone screen is a actually a real person with feelings and with a real life you need to realize that everyone has a opinion and everyone has feelings and what you doing is never okay and I don't think you should support that behavior
the way some people speak about nesta with such vitriol and lack of nuance makes no sense to me. some of y’all act like she’s a war criminal that murders babies. like yeah, she was an asshole, but what did she do to make some of you so hateful and not worthy of forgiveness?
To that anon that said that the situation with kookmin is the same as with kpop fans. I've been in many many fandoms too, and usually the only way these situations die down is when fandoms become dormant. Generally speaking, Big Bang and Exo aren't the "most talented groups" anymore, so even taking out BTS from the equation their stans can't start throwing temper tantrums about wins and losses anymore. But they also haven't had a comeback in a while, which is why you don't hear from them as much. Still, just a while ago Exo-ls were hating on Jin because of enlistment, so that goes to show how they will use anything to elevate their faves. Anyway that's not the point. BTS are still growing, still breaking barriers and gaining new fans. As long as this continues, the hate will only grow, unfortunately. And we shouldn't "not be frustrated" just because "that's what fandom is like". That's not right. We're talking about basic human decency here, people shouldn't be allowed to think that they can get away with anything just because they have a screen and a keyboard to protect them. We shouldn't be standing here waiting like "well, they'll change their mind eventually". Because Jimin sees the hashtags trending, and they hurt. No matter how much media training you have, watching your supposed fans insult you hurts. So yeah, it's frustrating and we're allowed to vent.