#friend help

[veganpepperoni]

Calling wordgirl fans!!

Ive been looking for wordgirl discord servers to post my art and start some roleplays with people

The servers in disboard are currently not working, if you can get some server links to me that would be great!!

#wordgirl #my silly thoughts #please help lol #discord chat #server #server help #friend help

[pathesis]

Hey Y'all my friend @inked-dnd-doodles needs some help with bills this month. She makes beautiful detailed pieces please go and check out her art! Don't be afraid to DM her and ask any questions! Inked-dnd-doodles

Reblogs help get this around! :)

#friend art #PLS HELP HER ART IS SO PRETTY #friend help #commission sheet #signal boost #promote

[mushroomrealestate]

genuine question tumblr why do I keep getting ads for transphobic scam t shirts right under my transmasc bestie’s posts I’m genuinely confused 🤨

#Friend help

[stormyoceans]

I mean it makes sense for them to have an open ending. Some would say they are a tragic love story and will have to overcome a lot of obstacles to be together. Not only because of personal struggles but outside forces. Kimchay Will also likely have an open ending. I think KinnPorsche is the only one that’s going to end nicely wrapped in a bow.

it does make sense for vegaspete and kimchay to have an open ending, but only to a certain point

idk if i can explain myself properly, but an open-ended story is one in which the ending is left uncertain to one degree or another. the viewers aren’t told all the answers and are left to figure certain things out on their own. this, however, doesn’t mean that there is no resolution at all, and some open-ended stories guide the viewers to think one way or another even if the story does not actually specify certain facts

let’s take kimchay as an example. to me, the ending that makes narratively more sense for them after episode 11 is kim finally talking about his feelings and admitting he does love chay, and chay accepting that. this doesn’t mean that we know FOR SURE that they’re back together, but it’s left open to the viewers’ interpretation to decide if they do and how that happens. if the writers want, they could maybe add chay asking kim to go somewhere and kim smiling and agreeing to it, just to hint that yes, eventually they will get back together. this is still an open ending that gives their story a resolution but leaves more things to be explored in a possible second season, and it’s an ending im perfectly fine with

an open ending that i would NOT be fine with is if kim never explained himself and chay ended the season still thinking that kim just used him, ESPECIALLY if they didn’t know for sure to begin with that there was going to be a second season

same goes for vegaspete. an open ending where pete leaves the main family and becomes vegas’ bodyguard and it’s up to the viewers’ interpretation to decide if and how they enter a relationship? GREAT!!! an open ending where vegas loses everything and pete remains under the main family, reprising the roles they had before everything happened? in my opinion, bad

so yeah, i definitely didn’t mean to say that open endings in general are inherently bad, but some open endings ARE better than others ;;;;;;

#also i don't personally see vegaspete as a tragic love story so there's that too ;;;;;; #but again it's all up to personal interpretation #all i can hope for is that whatever ending they'll decide to go with is gonna be a satisfying one that's true to the characters #vegaspete #kimchay #m: ask #not me writing this during my break at work #friend help

[bruhstation]

you’re just like the rest of them

#thomas the tank engine #thomas and friends #ttte gordon #ttte henry #’s skeleton #3x4 #casa tidmouth #senjart #kind of a follow up piece to the one before this #tfw you have complicated feelings towards your estranged old friend and him d*ing and coming back to life is NOT helping 😂😂😂 #I dunno where I was going with this honestly… pure experimental #this casa tidmouth stuff is crazy. what kind of ttte have y’all been watching 😂😂😂

[drumlincountry]

I was at a Palestinian solidarity gig last night & the one Palestinian artist who was going to perform had COVID so the organisers asked around to see if there were any Palestinians who'd like to say a few words instead.

A local guy who was born & raised in Gaza offered to speak. He started with "I'm an engineer. i'm not a poet or a politician. I don't... do public speaking… I had no idea what to say when I came up here. So i'm just going to tell you about the street I grew up on."

And then he did! He went down the street building by building. He told us about the ice cream shop on the corner, the grocery shop, the charity that supports people with intellectual disabilities. He told us about the people who he knew growing up, the families who still live in the different houses. He told us about the university buildings and about his friends who quit being accountants to start a band together. All on that street.

All of which is gone now, by the way. Bombed to dust.

#Gaza #Palestine #I talked to him a bit afterwards but god what do you say!! #he said he found the gig helpful anyway. Supportive. So that's good. #I'm gonna see if I can find his friends band and share some of their songs #Me Fein

[soaked-doors]

baby i fall in love again come every summertime

#nimona #girl help nimona grabbed me by the neck and Gave me the Power #goldenheart #ambrosius goldenloin #ballister boldheart #ballister x ambrosius #nimona netflix #my art #did i mention that these bitches r childhood friends to lovers UUYGGGHHHAAAHHHHHH

[seagiri]

very sleep deprived doodles of whatever’s going on inside my brain

#my art #senshi #Chilchuck tims #Chilchucks wife #<- we call her whitbelle #whitbelle #chilshi #chilchuck sandwich #dungeon meshi #barely visible text says the following #(pointing at Senshi) ready to ruin things for himself because he wants to help his friend #(pointing at Chil) mcdumbass developed a crush on Senshi and is now afraid of letting him go despite wanting to reconcile with whitbelle #***the name whitbelle came from the fic Reelin’ In The Years by werewolf_gimmick on ao3 !!!

[gumptioncretaceous]

hate it when you're looking for a good painting to watch on cave wall and by the time you find one your mammoth hunk is cold 😭

#ty to my friends for helping me brainstorm

[diezmil10000]

besando a mi amiga para que recupere maná (⁠●⁠’⁠3⁠)⁠♡⁠(⁠ε⁠`⁠●⁠)

#farcille #dungeon meshi #dunmeshi #'kissing my friend to help her recover mana' <- caption meaning #my art #marcille donato #falin touden

[malinaa]

if i think about the hunger games in peeta's perspective i WILL start sobbing

#imagine you're a boy who's going to die. you're in love with the girl you've been watching from afar. you know your fate. #you just want to help her‚ but then there's the announcement and she's here in front of you‚ kissing you‚ risking her life for you and you #think‚ i could live and i could love. you think she loves you when she hands you the berries‚ when she puts them in her mouth. #then you both survive and you go back home and nothing is real anymore. you have nothing. no family. no friends. no love. just an empty #house. a drunk for a neighbor. the love of your life walking into somebody else's arms. you think‚ i survived the games. i could survive #this. and you also think‚ i should've bit down on those berries‚ should've felt the juice burst before i died. #and then the third quarter quell announcement rings in your ears and you think‚ she will live and i will die as i should have in the first #place. the girl you love kisses you on the beach and somewhere you heart stirs and your mind revolts and you savor every touch she has ever #given to you‚ in front of the cameras and off. because you are a tribute and you are always being watched and snow's presence looms and #you think‚ i know she cares. but you get taken. you get drugged. you get tortured‚ your mind altered. the girl is a mutt‚ a murderer. she's #everything you despise‚ your mind stirs. your heart revolts. you gain more awareness but cannot distinguish reality from fiction and you #have never known katniss' love. the war ends. you heal. you come home. you plant primrose for her. years down the line‚ you grow in love #more than you thought possible. but some days‚ you cannot tell fiction from reality so you ask the love of your life‚ you love me. #real or not real? and she says‚ real‚ and kisses you. #and you sigh and kiss her back and revel in this. a home. a life. a love. #lit #the hunger games #everlark #otp: real or not real? #katniss everdeen #peeta mellark #text #tais toi lys #thgpost

[caffeine-and-spells]

#polls #help I’m socially awkward #I like friends #y’all seem cool

[inkskinned]

it's been said before and i'm sure said better than i can phrase it. but really, really - if you like making "i'm going to kill myself" jokes, please try switching to being ironically conceited instead.

anytime something goes wrong, say things like "ah well at least i'm beautiful and charming and everyone loves me." when you forget something, try "my big huge brain is so smart and thinking about too many other very big wizardly thoughts you wouldn't even understand." when you're frustrated by one of your symptoms, start talking like you're in My Immortal. "Life has come for me but my eyes are beautiful pools of gorgeous fire and my hair is amazing. I stuck my middle finger up at life and told it to fuck off and it did."

just... try it for a month or two. try saying the most absurdly self-congratulatory shit you can think of.

i know it's tempting to make suicide or self-harm jokes. and for me at least, a decade ago (!) when someone suggested i stop making those kinds of jokes, i was kind of at a loss for what to replace them with. i wanted to make light of these moments, but genuinely (at the time) my first thought really was suicidal ideation. there was a part of me that even felt like ... i was kind of "making light" of that voice. that if i could say i want to die lol, it would help take the sting out of that genuine (albeit passive) desire. like i could turn my illness into a joke.

when i started complimenting myself instead, it felt awkward and stupid. it felt really, really ironic. what i was actually saying was nobody would ever think this stuff about me, that's what makes it so fucking funny.

but. the effect was immediate. first thing i noticed was the people around me. when i dropped a glass and said ah my skin is too beautiful and sleek the glass has swooned and broken for me, other people were suddenly overjoyed to jump in with the joke. rather than making an awkward moment, we'd both start cracking up. ah princess sleek hands, i've heard of you.

i was 19. i hadn't noticed i'd been making others tense when i said i want it all to end. i know now that it's incredibly hard to know how to walk that moment - do you talk to them about your concern? do you potentially make them uncomfortable by asking if they're okay? do you ignore the situation? do you help them pick up the glass, or do they need to do it by themselves? are they genuinely made suicidal over this small moment? and most importantly, how do you - without professional training or supplies - actually help?

most people want to help you pick up the glass in your life, they just have no fucking idea how to do it. they don't want to make anything worse. they don't want to make assumptions about you. they love you, they're scared for you - and being scared makes people kind of freeze up. it's not because they don't love you. it's because they do.

now when something bad happens, my first thought is how can i make a stupid joke about this. it isn't my brain saying you're a dumb fucking bitch. i spend more time laughing. i spend more time being gentle with myself. i spend more time feeling good.

and the thing is - what's kind of funny - is that you'd be surprised by how many people agree with you. the first time i said i'm too pretty to understand that, someone else said to be fair you're the prettiest person in this room. i promise - you really don't know how kindly your friends see you. but they love you for a reason. they sort of reverse-velveteen-rabbit you. your weird and ugly spots fade away and you just become... the love they want to give you.

go love yourself ironically. the worst thing that happens is that you end up tricking your reflection into actually loving you.

#something something toxic relationships notwithstanding #(re: the friends stuff) #most people love you. automatically. for being alive. like people are just MADE that way. #and the reason kms jokes don't always land is bc people fucking love you and are like - ahhh how do i help #let them help you!!!!!!

[pearwaldorf]

You want some serious old fart advice? Never, ever lend your friends more money than you think you can lose permanently. I don't fucking care if they say they'll pay you back. I don't care how small the amount is. Write that shit off as gone in your mind. It will eat at you forever if you don't.

Some people say the same thing about family, but I think it applies more to friends. Family is (usually) held together by obligations the way friends aren't. And money is a huge stressor in all kinds of relationships, not just romantic.

I'm not saying this to bum you out. I'm telling you because this is not something you want to learn on your own. Because it fucking sucks to realize it's one reason you're no longer friends, whether you were necessarily aware of it or not.

#friends #money #friends and money #pear is helpful

[lilysaus]

reblog if you consider the people youve befriended on this website (and other websites) to be real friends, even if youve never met them irl before

trying to prove something to my dad

#reblog chain #my dad thinks the people i talk to on tumblr arent “real people” #he said that if i dont know them personally and havent met them face to face #then they arent real friends #so help me prove him wrong!

[jaynovz]

if yall ever want like serious advice from me about how to solve burnout as a creative it's like...

literally ignore it. stop pushing. go do something else, enjoy your life, fill it with other things, do what brings you joy in the moment if you can.

go to the gym, take a walk to touch grass and look at dogs and smell flowers, cook dinner, watch tv with your friends, talk about your feelings as needed with ppl you trust, take a drive and blast your music, do the chores you need to do, the job hunting slog you need to do, read books that aren't for research, stop cordoning off your brain for The Craft or The Draft or whatever the fuck

forget about the project, stop thinking about it for as long as it takes to be excited again.

fuckin rest, basically

#thoughts #writing stuff #personal #wish there was better advice than Stop Pushing and Rest and Ignore It #but sure haven't found any #and the time in between sucks a lot #jay prescribes a nice beverage four orgasms and a good movie with friends for your burnout #hope that helps #jay philosophies