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inkskinned · 6 months

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the problem is that being single is seen as the consolidation prize, and not the natural neutral state of being-a-person. at the end of the movie or the book or the poetry, there is a person waiting for you at the altar, and they love you. if the play is a comedy, everyone gets married. the metaphor is about how you are not-whole. the metaphor is about how everyone is going to be happily-ever-after. the metaphor is that romantic love is the most important resource on the planet, not just all-love. all-love is not a thing, that is a disappointment. the treasure is not the friends we made along the way. the treasure is the girl you landed.

the metaphor is that you cannot be alone, that means you are broken. are you getting over someone? that is acceptable, you can be getting over someone, but not for long. you must be single because you would rather not be single. you must be single and looking to not-be-single. you must want to date, eventually.

friendship and community are never seen as being equal-to or even-better than romantic connection. that person is your one! you need to find them. you need to hunt through the sand particles until you can shift out some kind of gem. this is regardless to your own experience of the beach and the sun. you need to be somewhere with someone.

if you are taking this time alone to heal, that is so sad. everyone gives you this little pitying look. the understanding is that you are not actually happier than you were before you were single. it is seen as a sort of pity - oh, you are choosing yourself, making yourself the priority? - that isn't quite right. you must mean that you are making yourself ready for the right person. you are just laying the bed better this time. open up your heart. you'll find them, we promise!

what do you mean you're really-truly genuinely-very happy? you are probably misremembering what it was like to be in a relationship. and besides, once you meet your person, that time will look grey and bland and wasted. your person is the only way for you to see in color. so what if you have taken this time - for the first time in your entire life - to actually-for-real do the fucking work. you can be proud of yourself, sure. but the way we need to know that you got better is that you get a partner. you're healed enough for the next bad part!

people don't choose to be single, they just say they're choosing to be single - they actually mean "nobody wants to date me." it doesn't matter how many people you have gently rejected or how many times you've talked it over carefully in therapy. what matters is that you are single, and by all accounts - that means you are something worth our pity. your successes and life all seem pale in the sunlight. sure, you have done amazing things and finally found your way in life. what matters is that there wasn't a person in the room with you while you did it.

you want to tell them - that's the whole thing. i didn't know how to be alone in the room. i didn't know how to handle the silence. every moment was so sharp, and i kept choosing the wrong way to close the door. i have spent my entire life in the empty well, living in the ricochet of someone else's cruelty. for once i have built myself a ladder. for once everything i taste is all mine, every bite of sunshine and laughter. i have learned how to sleep out in the open with my memories. recently, they have started to purr.

your father rolls his eyes. listen. this isn't about you. i just want a grandchild in my future.

#writeblr #i actually didn't want a girlfriend before nat #and my dad recently said to me - raquel. i don't approve of the promiscuity #1. i am 30.#2. i had casually dated about 4 people over 18 months.#3. i do believe he was just mad that i get more girls than he ever did #i had to look this 60 yr old deacon in the eye and say. okay so i have a girlfriend first of all im just not tellin yall about her #and secondly.#OKAY???? OLD MAN I DONT EVEN LIVE HERE WHAT ARE U GONNA DO ABOUT IT #briefly considered asking nat if i could pretend we were a one night stand kind of a thing

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lunalucas-world · 3 months

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The trans girlfriend you always wanted sweet little princess 🤭🥰

#trans nsft #trans pride #mtf trans #trans woman #transfem #transgender #transgirl #transisbeautiful #transmasc #18+ content #classic cars #thick ladies #date night

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chiliger · 4 months

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Cody - Kote - Glory

For Cody Day 2/2/24

(Closeups under the cut)

#chiligerart #cody day 2224 #cody day #coday #commander cody #star wars #the clone wars #sw tcw #star wars fanart #there are 18 Cody’s in this! Realized too late I wanted 24 but I was already behind #this is to date the longest illustration I’ve ever worked on #estimated time with all the files is maybe 25-30 hours #I wish I had started working on this sooner but the art bug kept evading me this last month #and then I had a big exam to study for orz #but enough of that #I enjoyed drawing every single one of these Cody’s #centaur Cody was a bit intimidating but he worked out #dragon merman and nautolan Cody are probably my faves of the bunch #i even played around with some of their scars and sunbursts #vaquero and elf Cody’s took the longest to line and color out of all of them surprisingly #and of course: I had to include 2224 (purge trooper Cody)#‘where do we go now?’ by lil nas x was definitely this piece’s theme

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miladasmith · 2 months

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Peace 🤍✌️

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hopeluna · 4 months

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I don't normally brain rot for Levi but just imagine him being the complete opposite of his quiet personality in bed.

As much as I love the idea of him whimpering for me, just imagine Levi going down on you and be absolutely pussy whipped that he just ignores your whines for him thats its too much. He's not that experienced but he eats you out like a desperate, starved man who only needs you.

You stop trying to push him away when he growls against your cunt to "just fuckin take it", before he's diving right in, his chin covered in your slick, tongue cramping from how long he's been at licking your core. You glance down just to see him straining through his pants, moving his hips just to get any friction. His eyes roll back when your taste fills his mouth for the fifth time tonight.

You think he's finally going to give you a break when you feel Levi's tongue dipping right into your cunt again.

#obey me x reader #obey me smut #obey me levi x reader #obey me levi smut #obey me x mc #obey me x you #omswd x reader #obey me levi x mc #obey me leviathan #levi x reader #levi smut #obey me #om x reader #om headcanons #obey me headcanons #leviathan x reader #obey me shall we date #♡! 18+

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lindsay-lust · 9 months

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I went shopping today #change room selfie ♡

#thank you #aesthetic #https://lindsay lust.tumblr.com/#change room #selfie #shopping #dateing #+18 or +adult only #bimbofied #daddy’s babygirl

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on-this-day-mcr · 6 months

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On this day, November 18

In 2022: My Chemical Romance performed their 61st show of the 2022-2023 Swarm tour (the last of the North America leg) at the Corona Capital festival in Mexico City, Mexico. At this show, Gerard Way wore a Joan of Arc inspired chain mail outfit, with a long red cape and a streak of fake blood painted on his chin and neck. "Muy feugo" [sic] was written on the drums. (🖤)

Watch the show here!

Lulu Urdapiletta

#the performance of sleep from this show. mindblowingly brilliant it plays on loop in my head to this day it was incredible #and the official good quality stream after months of 6 pixel IG lives. it was so much #i remember seeing the chainmail 2 lines into foundations and being hit with the realisation that they were joan #November 18 #2022 #tour date #MCR Mexico City #ID in alt #swarm era

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miladasmith · 14 days

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Good morning 🥰✨

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bubbiethesaur · 2 months

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my hand slipped :3

#messy messy sketch but I love it #sun fact for the future: he doesn’t love jewelry (except rings) but he will later get a [REDACTED]#grrrr lra sun #holds him so gently #melancholy sun times #he’s looking for the chapter 18 release date #I look at the chapter #I look away #fnaf sun #long road ahead #lra sun #PleasureBot!sun #dca au #fnaf dca au #bubbie art

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chattychicks · 5 days

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saturnsickle · 5 months

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Polaroid from Roy's Fridge

#grant emerson #lian harper #titans dc #damage dc comics #dc comics #grant emerson damage #my art #in my brain. she hurt her chin and then they put a bunch of bandaids and stickers on to feel better #they r like siblings to me #the date is from the release date of the titans issue 18 bc i love that cover

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m-ayo-o · 9 months

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selfshiptember 2023

18+ drabbles / shorts - characters 21+ : JJK, CSM, BLEACH+ ♡ no smut ✼ smut ★ kinky *own prompts ~ suggestive ⋆ ⁺⋆ self ships; purple ⋆₊⁺⋆ for fun; black ⋆₊⁺ favourites here

september;

1st COFFEE SHOP ft. megumi fushiguro ✼ 2nd ARCADE ft. megumi fushiguro ✼ 3rd ROAD TRIP ft. toji fushiguro ✼ 4th SHOPPING ft. kento nanami ✼ 5th DANCING ft. megumi fushiguro ♡ 6th DRAWING HIM ft. rin okumura ♡ 7th *NIGHT OUT ft. aki hayakawa ♡

8th SOMETHING SCARY ft. ryomen sukuna ~ 9th FIT SWAP ft. kisuke urahara ✼ 10th RAINY DAY ft. megumi fushiguro ♡ 11th DOING MAGIC ft. megumi fushiguro ♡ 12th FIRST KISS ft. megumi fushiguro ✼ 13th KNIGHT & ROYAL ft. riftan calypse ✼ 14th GARDENING ft. yuji itadori ver. 1 ♡ ver. 2 ✼ 15th *DATE DAY ft. kento nanami ★

16th COOKING TOGETHER ft. kisuke urahara ♡ 17th STUDY DATE ft. megumi fushiguro ★ 18th *PHYSICAL EDUCATION ft. byakuya kuchiki ✼ 19th RIDING THE BUS ft. toji fushiguro ♡ 20th SUNSET ft. satoru gojo ♡ 21st *BODY SWAP ft. toji fushiguro ★ 22nd *DRESS UP ft. megumi fushiguro ★ 23rd *EATING COMPETITION ft. satoru gojo & toji fushiguro ✼

24th F*CKING IN BED ft. toji fushiguro ✼ 25th TIME SWAP ft. riftan calypse ✼ 26th CAMPING ft. isshin kurosaki ✼ 27th CONCERT ft. megumi fushiguro ✼ 28th *CATCHES YOU MAST*RBATING ft. megumi fushiguro ✼ 29th BEACH DAY ft. megumi fushiguro ✼ 30th POOL TIME FUN ft. ichigo kurosaki ✼

[masterlist]

likes, comments + reblogs appreciated! ♡

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on-this-day-mcr · 8 months

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On this day, September 18

In 2022: My Chemical Romance performed their 41st show of the 2022-2023 Swarm tour in Alpharetta, Georgia, USA. At this show, Gerard Way wore a cropped red shirt and patterned scarf with slacks, and "you got the job" was written on the drums. (🖤)

Watch the show here!

Katie Claire

#tour date #swarm era #2022 #september 18 #mcr alpharetta

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