#breathe and be present

[tawdrytalk]

I fell asleep too early tonight

open.spotify.com/track/683b4ikwa62JevCjwrmfg6 When I woke up, it was 2315; I thought I had slept all through the night. Went out into the garden, and this song came into my head, and I just wanted to share it with you!

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#breathe and be present #insomnia #music #say yes #self-care #sleep hygiene

[knifearo]

being aromantic is like. hey btw you're going to live a life that is the culmination of most of society's worst nightmares. sorry lol ✌️ but then you turn around and take a really good hard look at it and it turns out that living in that nightmare is fucking awesome and you get to wake up every day and take that fear that other people have and laugh and hold it close until it's a great joy for you instead. and being happy is a radical act that you define instead of someone else. and you're sexy as fuck that's just a fact of life i don't make the rules on that one

#aromantic people are just sexy i'm not making the decisions here it's just facts #course ur hot as fuck. it came free with the aromanticism #being sexy is just default settings for aromantic people 👍 #hope this all helps. anyway i'm on my 'i hope i die alone <3 i can't wait to die alone <3' kick rn #i think the existential fear that people have of Not Partnering specifically is so. well. #obviously that shit is strong and it is SO awesome to be free of it. #realizing you're aro and you don't Want a partner can be such a hit to the solar plexus #cause society says that's the only thing that'll make you happy. so either you go without that thing or you force yourself #into doing something you don't want which would make you unhappy anyway. #so you think it's a lose lose situation and you have to come to terms with what amatonormativity presents as the worst possible situation #but then! whoa! turns out personhood is inherently valuable in and of itself and romantic partnering is just a construct! #and that nightmare is now your life to do with as you please... define as you will... structure as you want... #best case scenario. is what i'm saying. #every day i wake up ready to spit all that amatonormative rhetoric back in life's teeth by being alone and being happy #and it's so fucking satisfying. every day. #fucking JUBILANT being by myself. and i love being a living breathing 'fuck you' to the romantic system #you need a partner to be happy? oh that's sooo fucking crazy guess i'll go be miserable then. in my perfect fucking dream life lmao #yeah obviously it's the worst possible outcome on earth to die without a partner. so terrible. can't wait for it :) #aromantic #aromanticism #aro positivity #aroace #arospec #sorry to bitches who are sad about not having a partner. i could not give a fuck though get better soon #you couldn't EVER pay me enough to go back to a mindset in which my inherent value wasn't enough by myself. #FUCK that shit. absolutely miserable and a bad life outlook in general. like genuinely do the work w/ amatonormativity and get better #life is something that can be so fulfilling whether someone wants to kiss you or whatever or not #i'm on antidepressants and i have people i care deeply about. what the fuck would i need a partner for lmao

[csuitebitches]

Do you think you speak too fast/ too slow?

Here is what I learned from a speech coach.

warm up:

start this exercise by taking a deep breath and saying “aaaaah” - try to extend this to 30 seconds. Now if it doesn’t go till 30, that’s fine. Aim to work your way to that. If you can work it up to 30, go for 45/60 seconds. Do this 5 times.

next. Download an app called Metronome beats. It’s basically what singers/ musicians use for beats.

Settings: keep beats/bar as 1,

clicks/beats as 1

start at 90. It will start with a click sound and continue “beeping.”

Match your words to the beep. One beep = one word. Now slowly, increase the beat by 5 till you reach 110. Increase it at your own pace but try to spend at least 20 seconds on each number (90 for 20 seconds; 95 for 20; 100 for 20….) That’s when you stop.

either start by reading something out loud and matching the beat, or select a topic and speak freely.

do this every single day. This will help with your breath, if you’re speaking on a topic it will help you think better and improve over time. The best way to further complement this exercise is to improve your vocabulary. Try to learn 1-3 new words a day and incorporate it in your vocabulary.

This is a great tool to use when learning new languages too. You can practice your speaking skills and see how fast you can remember/ read words.

#c suite #personal growth #ceo aesthetic #powerful woman #strong women #that girl #productivity #getting your life together #balance #Speech #How to speak #speech therapy #breath work #speaking #small talk #speaking confidence #How to #giving a speech #Talking publicly #Presenting tips #presenting #speaking tips

[uncanny-tranny]

It's always, like, mildly annoying when people see a het trans couple and go "all that work just to be straight?" like... one, you don't know if they're straight and two, trans people don't owe you a queer sexuality to "make up" for the fact we're trans. Transhet people aren't a subtype of trans people, they're members of the trans community, and the queer one if they so desire!

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #and i don't really vibe with the word microaggression but it's very that #like it just comes across like people think trans folks owe them queerness and cabaret preformances y'know? #and we cannot *be* if it means the way we are being isn't this carefully curated version people have of transness + queerness #and it can kind of warp your desires and understanding of yourself because you *want* community and to be seen and to be allowed to just be #this isn't universal and the 'you' is impersonal. i am aware this is a broad range of experiences and not everybody can/does relate #my overall point is that it's probably not the best move to act like this toward trans people #maybe i read too much into this but it's just something i have seen over and over and over and over . . . again #shoutout to the real ones (heterosexual and/or straight trans people or people in straight-presenting relationships 👍) #back to playing the lelda of zelda (is it bad that i don't even call her zelda anymore i just go 'THERES LELDA!!!') #it sounds wrong to call her zelda now 😭 #the LEG OF ZEG. SWORD SKORD???? BREATH OF THE WEATH!! -my brain 24/7/365

[shittywriterbrain]

he's such a fucking idiot

#bertie vs piece of paper 0:1 #i couldnt stop laughing through this ENTIRE scene i had to pause it to fucking BREATHE #idk if physical comedy is the right term (because i genuinely dont know) but hugh laurie is fucking amazing at it #also same bertie. whenever i try to wrap a present thats me #ok he was trying (unsuccessfully) to break a window but eh details details #jeeves and wooster #bertie wooster #gif

[lineffability]

"people shouldn't draw or write crowle-" sounds like a skill issue I love male Crowley I love female Crowley I love femme Crowley I love trans Crowley I love genderqueer genderfuckery genderfluid Crowley I love nonbinary Crowley I love Crowley spindly thin with broad shoulders I love Crowley with curves I love Crowley in a dress I love Crowley in a suit I love crowley with big bazoonga boobs or tiny boobs or no boobs I love Crowley with perky tits and a dick i love crowley with a vagina I love Crowley with a penis i love crowley with a tdick I love Crowley with a boy pussy I love Crowley with snesises I love Crowley with barbie-smooth nothingness I love lesbian Crowley I love gay Crowley I love virgin Crowley I love experienced Crowley I love asexual Crowley I love sexual flirty Crowley I love awkward blushing Crowley I love long haired Crowley I love Crowley with a shorn head I love Crowley with any hairdo at all bc they're all HOT I love Crowley with earrings or black fingernails or pointy teeth or horns or none of these I love Crowley with a snake tattoo on his cheek chest arm or ass I love Crowley no matter in which incarnation at all as long as the hair is FIERY RED but actually I also love blackhaired book crowley idgaf just go wild it's what Crowley would want

#good omens #crowley #my omens #wheee i feel out of breath after typing this #i didn't see any particular post or anything i simply love crowley and crowley versatility #everyone has their favs ofc and is entitled to their preferences!! lovely!! #only sometimes it irks me when ppl are like 'this is the only one true presentation and if you don't subscribe to it youre problematic' #in general #no shade only love #maybe somone identifies with trana crowley and someone else identifies with gay man criwley and yknow what theyre both right #everyone is right #embrace paradox #opposing headcanons can coexist so peacefully and isn't that GREAT

[lecter-lioncourt]

I COMPLETELY fucking forgot that in her first introductory scene, Missy refers to 12 has her boyfriend. Absolutely fucking insane behaviour

#so many things in this episode make me insane lmao #Missy in general. my 2nd favourite ever Doctor Who character #the doctor translating a sad dinosaur #the doctor in general in this episode fucking everything about him #his vulnerability with clara when they land back in Glasgow. aaaaaaaa #the dubious morality of the doctor. dark!doctor hints. #callback to The Girl in The Fireplace #VICTORIAN COSTUMES. #the doctor getting rid of the horses pet. #so many things. #idgaf Deep Breath is one of my favourite Doctor Who episodes of all time #top 10 for sure. #mine #doctor who #missy #the master #thoschei #look ok Moffat had to make them straight presenting in order to move them from subtext to canon #but thank fuck he did #also I call them straight presenting for a reason lmao #in my heart they're both transfem lesbians ❤️

[telekinesis-mind-control-comics]

#godzilla #godzilla king of the monsters #godzilla art #godzilla posting #godzilla evolved #godzilla earth #godzilla comics #godzilla design #godzilla fanart #godzilla final wars #godzilla fandom #godzilla dominion #godzilla franchise #godzilla save the earth #godzilla horror #godzilla island #godzilla ultima #godzilla minus one #godzilla minus 1 #godzilla movies #king of monsters #dinosaurs #prehistoric mammals #prehistoric monsters #prehistoric #fire breathing monster #dark horse comics #dark horse books #dark horse presents #dark horse

[zels-echoes]

‘What if Mic is dead???’

I ain’t gonna say he ain’t for some wild reason but—

Why would Hori emphasize the 3 dummies from the start? Why would we go from 3 dummies to 2 dummies to 3 dummies again for all of 5 seconds to 2 dummies all off screen? What is the point of ‘3 baka’ if they are never going to be 3 baka? Also Aizawa doesn’t seem to have a single scratch on him with the exception of what he probably got when they were fighting off the Twice clones. Plus how would Mic die? Suggesting Kurogiri/Shirakumo does after he just saved them from falling to their death? So I don’t feel like there was much in the way of a fight other than a mental one. If Aizawa was crying, my assumption is that trying to get Shirakumo to snap out of being Kurogiri was quite emotional for him and Mic considering the only time we’ve seen these two genuinely cry about something between mainline manga and Vigilantes is over Shirakumo.

Not saying that I’m right, but it just doesn’t make any sense to me that Mic would be dead. We see Aizawa in the last page, but no we don’t see Mic and we don’t see Shirakumo physically. It wouldn’t surprise me if Aizawa doesn’t want Shirakumo close enough to Shigaraki/AFO in the event of Kurogiri gaining back control and has Mic by Shirakumo’s side to protect him.

People brought up Mic being dead too because of the AFO line with something something people become stronger when they lose someone close to them. This has always been Aizawa’s entire story with Shirakumo.

#let’s all just take a deep breath and wait till next week #mha419 #MHA spoilers #Shota Aizawa #eraserhead #present mic #Hizashi Yamada #oboro Shirakumo #loud cloud #kurogiri #3 baka

[flock-talk]

Newt: time for screm

#my toxic trait is being able to prep for recording #and make it look like I’m not presently struggling to see out my left eye #have a migraine #and struggling to breathe #my face

[tawdrytalk]

Autumn Is For For Massage

What is your favorite season of year? Why? Golden leaves to brown Geese flying in formationLong sleeved shirts and shorts- Paul BrownOn Autumn Autumn is my favorite season Temperatures start to cool down and days grow short. Holiday season is just around the corner, and the time is nice to start thinking about your holiday gift giving plans, and o one of the best gifts you can give is an eGift…

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#breathe and be present #dailyprompt #dailyprompt-1966 #docosac #downtown sacramento massage #downtownsac #eGift cards #massage #massagetherapy #sacramento massage #say yes

[thecatspasta]

My favourite relationship dynamic is married for tax benefit good day

#jarthur #privateeyes #radiorose #helanie #dasira #malevolent #tma #the magnus archives #garlic breath #shipping #ship dynamics #yes all of these people are married for tax benefit despite their relationship presented in canon what of it

[chipper-smol]

Your drawings bring me nothing but pure joy! Do you have any drawings that are particularl favourites of yours?

It's very hard to pick, but y'know I keep coming back to this one

You could make a story outta this guy

#asks #G muses #like immediately you're presented with 2 questions about them #1: Why are they using a bow and not their flame breath #2: Why are they so tiny #glad i didnt sell this one cause theres potential

[cnl0400]

I understand why they didn't introduce Michael in the past but I think we needed more people suspecting MC was Not From Here™, they should have played More with the idea that anybody could unmask MC/Solomon true motives and Michael already knew, It would have been better for him taunting MC with the idea of telling the truth to everyones else unless they stop making pacts with the brothers (Bcuz y'know, thats what Nightbringer wants, Right? And whatever he wants must be... Not good?)

In earlier seasons the tease the idea of two Rings of Light existing in the same timeline, can you imagine the interactions?

Michael: Wow MC! that's a pretty ring you have there!

MC: ... Yeah...

Michael: It looks identical to the one I have here, see? *Flashes His own Ring of Light to MC*

MC: Ah... *Gulp*

#obey me #obey me nightbringer #see I don't like how everyone believes that MC is just a normal human from the human world and nobody questions this #Like I know Barbatos has his moments when he's like 'I know what you are ;) ' #but It's not like he's did give you away to Diavolo or anything. so it feels a bit pointless #I wish they gave more tension with this Idea... like they could catch you if you messed up too much with the timeline #like I want people breathing down my neck... Barbatos. Michael. Nightbringer IDC I just want the tension #this post was in my drafts for a long time for like a theory post but like... we're already back in the present... it's pointless now #feel like if they wanted to do time travel fuckery they should have gone all the way. go crazy idc... #we should have seen two solomons. maybe that'll fix me

[belovedrm]

#belovedrm.gifs #i actually stopped breathing while watching this video he is GORGEOUS #like i don’t need any other gifts today this video of dream is the best birthday present i could have asked for IM SO SERIOUS. #dream #dwt #dreamwastaken #dreamblr #dwtblr #dwt gifs #belovedrm.fave #video: https://twitter.com/angckity/status/1674818774027976717?s=46&t=GIh81zoBG-cKEahtf7TgbA

[chasingrainbowsforever]

~ Slate Blue ~

#gifts #presents #gift wrap #wax seals #baby's breath #slate blue #ribbons