#based on personal experience 😮‍💨

[dumplingsjinson]

List of “not-so-random suggestive and non-suggestive” prompts 

“How was your sleep?” “Mm.. It was good. Better.” “Better how?” “Better because you’re here.” (THE WAY I GOT SO FLUSTERED WTF)

“That’s my girl/boy,” Character B murmurs in a hushed voice, stroking their fingers through Character A’s hair while Character A rests their head on their chest, trying to catch their breath. (THE SCREAM I SCRUMPT INTERNALLY, THE AUDACITY HE AUDACITIED??? WHAT THE FUCK??? EXCUSEEEE MEEEEEE??? BTW, SIR, HOW DO YOU LIKE YOUR EGGS IN THE MORNING-)

“Fuck, you turn me on so much with the noises you make,” Character B groans, thrusting their hips up into Character A’s and Character A whimpering softly at that. (Okay so I added the fuck at the start because it’s hotter this way bUTTTT WKGKSKFS PLSSSSS I JUST- OH MY GOD, I think I just realised that dialogue to me is SO IMPORTANT LMFAOOO)

“There are two hot things in this room right now: you, and the temperature.” (LET ME BREATHE, DAMNNNN) 

“Mmm, I’m gonna hog the bed so you can’t get on,” Character A murmurs, laying sprawled out on the bed. “That’s fine, I can just lay on you,” Character B says, making their way to the bed. “…Are you calling me a bed?” Character A questions as Character B gets on top of them, careful not to crush them under their weight. “Yeah, you're my bed,” Character B murmurs, snuggling close to Character A. (FUCKCKKCKXKDKKSKGKAKD HE’S JUST OUT HERE FLIRTING TO THE MAX WITH ME AND LEAVING ME SPEECHLESS TF)

“I told you my bed’s cozy,” Character B says, chuckling as they make their way over to Character A, who’s snuggled up under the covers. They pull the cover back and climb into the bed next to Character A, wrapping their arms around them. “And now it’s even cozier,” Character B murmurs into Character A’s neck. “Because you’re here?” Character A questions playfully. “Yeah,” Character B answers.

A laughter filled tickling play fight session somehow turning into them making out, turning into Character A straddling Character B, head thrown back in pleasure as they grind their hips against Character B’s while Character B holds onto their hips, thrusts matching the momentum of Character A’s movements.  

Spending way too much time tickling each other, peals of laughter coming from them both as they both try to attack each other’s sensitive spots. (His laughter is so cute AND I REALLY MISS HIM PLS WJDSK)

Morning cuddles and kisses as sunlight spills into the room.

“I’m gonna fuck you so good once we get there, yeah?” (MY HONEST REACTION WAS LITERALLY “???” I JUST?? WHAT?? SINCE WHEN WAS HE- AND HIM SWEARING? HOT HOT HOT HOT WKGKAKS)

Character A taking Character B’s hand into theirs while they’re driving. “You can drive with one hand, right?” they ask with a little grin, and Character B chuckles and nods. “Of course I can.” (HIM DRIVING WITH ONE HAND IS SO HOT BYE)

Character B guiding the speed of Character A’s hips as Character A grinds against them. (can he PLEASE manhandle me-)

“Okay, I’ll let you tickle me wherever you want if you give me one kiss.” (He lied a few times AHAHA, dodged my attacks instead after I gave him his kisses bruhhh) 

Character B lending their clothes to Character A since Character A’s staying the night. (The way I smelled like him AHHHH)

The soft “yeah?” Character B would mutter in response when they’re messing around with Character A and noises would fall from Character A’s mouth, involuntarily.

Stopping their play fight every now and again to kiss each other. 

Character B flirting with Character A and Character A not knowing how to respond other than half groaning and half laughing and calling them insufferable (affectionately). (Like I said, I’m romantically constipated-) 

Character B laughing every time Character A calls them annoying and insufferable whenever they flirt with them. 

Character A leaning in to kiss Character B… And then using that opportunity to tickle them when Character B’s guards are down. 

Them just laughing with each other at the dumbest shit until they’re out of breath; finding comfort and joy in each other’s company. 

Character A teasing Character B with how ticklish they are on certain spots. 

Character B tugging at the hem of Character A’s top, wanting to take it off, but Character A shakes their head and Character B immediately respects that by backing off a bit. (I’m including this because I don’t think people understand that any signs of no means no. Some people need to take notes for real)

“So… Are you going to stay over tonight?” “…Mm, maybe next time.” “You always say next time, though.” (EWLKNFWELN He really wanted me to stay, and I clearly folded so um pwnfewklnf) 

“I’m sorry if I’m like… Slow with all of this? I’m not experienced with any of this, and I don’t know what I’m doing. And I don’t think I’m ready for… You know.” “And that’s fine. Like I said, we’ll take it slow; we’ve got all the time in the world to get comfortable with each other, hm?” (WHEN I SAY I WAS GOING WEKJFNEWJKNEWFLN WHEN HE REASSURED ME, I LOVE HIM SO MUCH AHHH)

Character B climbing back into bed after taking their morning shower to get more cuddles in with Character A before they have to go to work.

“You can just change in here if you want.” (WO4HKLWFN THIS FUCKING MAN LMFAOOO, the way I didn’t listen and went to the bathroom to change because I’m still feeling too embarrassed to change in front of him even though he’s kind of seen me topless before)

Hugging each other a little tighter, and Character A mumbling, “God, I really don’t want to leave” before they part ways.

“The way you keep running around in my mind everyday… How dare you?” Character A mumbles. “Well, is there a problem with that?” Character B questions with a chuckle. (I’m bold for this one, praise me LKNEFKLNWG)

The constant check ins from Character B, to make sure Character A’s all good and well. (every prompt list has this because it’s something I’ll always fucking harp on about lmao)

Character B grasping Character A’s wrists so they’d stop attacking their ticklish spots, pulling them in for a kiss instead. (He did this SO MANY TIMES AND FAILED SO MANY TIMES AHAHA, I’m a sneaky menace) 

Character A pulling the Spiderman kiss on Character B while Character B’s lying down. (I WANNA KISS HIM MORE FUCKSLKFNES’F)

Character A waking up in Character B’s clothes and in their bed, hair all mussed up and sporting a faint mark on their neck. (I think I uh… I think I like having marks on my neck?? Made by him, specifically, IDK wpeofnew;nf)

Get home safe! Love you lots and lots, Character B texts Character A. (THE WAY I SMILED WHEN I SAW HIS TEXT WHILE HEADING TO THE STATION AHAHA, it wasn’t even ten minutes since we parted and he sent me this and I was fangirling about it to my friends AHAHA) 

“Aren’t you going to get up now? You gotta get to work,” Character A says, poking Character B’s side. “Mmm, five more minutes,” Character B murmurs, pulling Character A closer to them. (HE’S SO CLINGY AND I LOVE IT SO MUCH AHDFOEKNF)

Character A realising they might actually be falling in love, slowly but surely, with Character B. (YEAH SO THIS IS A REVELATION AND A HALF AND IDK HOW TO FEEL ABOUT IT) 

#long post #based on personal experience 😮‍💨 #so sorry for all of the commentary HAHAH #and yes before you say anything i’m living the fanfic life for you all LESNFNLK #cat guy chronicles #writing prompts #prompts #dialogue prompts #writing scenarios #otp prompts #suggestive prompts #smut prompts #fluff prompts #non-suggestive prompts

[evan4ever]

Omg I’m so happy that this fandom is still alive! And it looks like we’re still thirsty af too lol. Would you ever consider doing a NSFW alphabet for Evan? So curious about ALL your thoughts on that.

NSFW Alphabet *

Evan Peters edition

Keep in mind peeps that this is completely opinion based, how I personally think or feel it would be for Evan!!

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A = Aftercare (what they’re like after sex)

Oh Evan takes aftercare very seriously. He would absolutely help you clean up, get a shower or bath ready if you wanted, have water ready for you to drink and so on. He would be the sweetest and take care of you before himself.

B = Body part (their favorite body part of their partner’s)

I think Evan would be really into the neck/collarbone/shoulder area, touching feeling and kissing those areas on you every chance he could.

C = Cum (where they like to cum)

Evan would probably be an “in the condom only” kind of guy to prevent any accidents and to make sure you wouldn’t have to take a plan B pill or worry about anything that might be hard on your body. He’d def put your health over his wants, sweet boy 🥹 (but we all would prefer him to cum all over our bodies I mean let’s bffr)

D = Dirty secret (pretty self explanatory, a dirty secret of theirs)

I think Evan would think that the fact he masturbates is a dirty secret of his 🤭

E = Experience (how experienced are they? do they know what they’re doing?)

I think he’d be pretty experienced in basic missionary/doggy/cowgirl style sex, I’m not all that sure how experienced he’d be in the other positions. He’d always be willing to try a new position if you wanted to though!

F = Favorite position (this goes without saying)

100% believe Evan is a missionary kind of guy. I think he loves the closeness it entails and the passion it brings out in both of you. Like I said before, he’s happy to try any positions your comfortable with, but his favorite would be missionary IMO 🥰

G = Goofy (are they more serious in the moment? are they humorous? etc.)

He’d be pretty goofy, I think sex with Evan would include a lot of laughter and giggling. He knows how and when to be serious, but he’s a silly guy through and through and he’d need a silly girl to make things fun from time to time.

H = Hair (do they like hair pulling?)

I think Evan would only pull your hair if he was either stressed/angry (like angry rough sex), or if he knew you liked it which then he’d try to do it more often. I don’t think it’s something he’d do out of the blue, he’d definitely make sure you were okay/liked it first or let you initiate that you wanted him to. And I also think he’d get extremely turned on any time you tugged his hair, even before sex 🥵

I = Intimacy (how are they during the moment? the romantic aspect)

I think he’s a missionary kinda guy for the mere fact that it’s most intimate, so he’d definitely know how to be intimate when the time was right.

J = Jack off (masturbation headcanon)

I definitely think he masturbates but (as I said it would be a dirty secret in his eyes) I think he has to be pretty sexually frustrated or extremely turned on and you not there to relieve him for him to do it himself. I think he’s pretty shy about the fact he jacks off from time to time (so so cute omg)

K = Kink (one or more of their kinks)

I think he’d slightly be into biting/hickeys AS LONG as they weren’t in noticeable places and I think he’d give them to you more than he’d let you to him due to his job. But he’d be a collarbone/shoulder blade biter 😮‍💨

L = Location (favorite places to do the do)

His or your bed. He’d want to have sex with you in a place he was comfortable in, you were comfortable in, and where he knew that no one would interrupt. I think on occasion, if y’all were horny enough, he’d fuck you on the couch or counter 😋

M = Motivation (what turns them on, gets them going)

I think if you wore the spaghetti strap kind of tank top/dress that exposed his favorite parts of you, it would be an instant turn on for him. You’d wear more revealing clothes just to tease him. Or if he could see your nipples through your shirt, that’s a typical guy thing. And tugging on his hair/biting his lip during kisses!

N = No (something they wouldn’t do, turn offs)

Hurt you. I believe Evan would absolutely refuse to do anything that might hurt you. The extent of his rough sex would be hair pulling, a smack on the ass here and there, his love bites, and possibly a little bit of choking. Even with your O.K. and I even think that if you begged him to (say whip or slap you) I don’t think he’d be able to. He doesn’t like the thought of physically hurting you.

O = Oral (preference in giving or receiving, skill, etc.)

I think he’s a little of both, more so for foreplay and to help get you stimulated down there and to get him hard and ready for you. He’d definitely love your hands or mouth around him, but he would never expect it. He’s more of “get to the main part” kind of guy!

P = Pace (are they fast and rough? slow and sensual? etc.)

I think it would entirely depend on the mood and type of sex and what both ends want. Sometimes he’d be fast and rough, but I think most times he’d really enjoy going slow and being as sensual and intimate as possible, taking in and feeling every part of your body for as long as he and you could last.

Q = Quickie (their opinions on quickies, how often, etc.)

With his busier schedule, Evan would be down for quickies. Sometimes that’s all you guys would have time for for a couple weeks so he’d never deny one and neither would you (bathroom quickies at work would be his thing)

R = Risk (are they game to experiment? do they take risks? etc.)

Nope. I don’t think he’s a risk taker. I think he’s pretty happy with staying in his comfort zone BUT I think if you wanted to try something new and it didn’t entail hurting you, he’d be down to try it.

S = Stamina (how many rounds can they go for? how long do they last?)

Honestly I think Evan would be a one-round kinda guy but only because he’d usually take it slow and make love to you for a long while (especially when you haven’t seen each other in days/weeks). But the times you’re together often, I think he’d go a few rounds if you were up for it (and who wouldn’t be?)

T = Toys (do they use toys?)

Not on himself but he’s be happy to use toys on you. He’d do anything to make you feel even better than before. Toys are friendly tools not enemies!!!

U = Unfair (how much they like to tease)

I don’t think he’d be a huge teaser but I think he’d get off on being teased himself 🤩 it’d turn him on even more and make for even better sex.

V = Volume (how loud they are, what sounds they make, etc.)

Quiet, soft moans or grunts to start out with, growing louder as he’d get closer to his climax. He definitely cusses under his breath 🥹

W = Wild card (a random headcanon for the character)

Evan would keep his mouth on yours, tongues colliding as much as he possibly could during sex. He’d love the added passion and intimacy and the moaning into each others mouths would bring you both to your climax faster because it’s just so fckn hot

X = X-ray (let’s see what’s going on under those clothes)

I think he’s average, a good 6 inches 😋

Y = Yearning (how high is their sex drive?)

Normal, I think with his job he could get stressed out easily and tired often which would lower anyone’s sex drive but I think with the right person, he’d always manage to get it back up.

Z = Zzz (how quickly they fall asleep afterwards)

I don’t think he’d fall asleep before you often, maybe only when he was super tired or exhausted from work but he’d definitely mention it before sex because he wouldn’t want to ever hurt your feelings or make you feel unimportant. Usually he’d wait and fall asleep when you do or even after you do, tracing up and down your back or holding you close 😌😴

#evan peters #evan peters characters #evan peters imagine #evan peters supremacy #evan peters x reader #kai anderson #evan peters smut #kit walker #kit walker imagine #kit walker x reader #evan peters questions #evan peters ships #evan peters instagram #evan peters fic #evan peters cute #evan peters rares #evan peters fanfic #evan peters angst #kai anderson smut #kit walker smut #Evan peters alphabet

[twistedastrology]

🪐 my take on the outer planets 🪐

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saturn is constantly given a bad rap just because it does its job- saturn's placement in your chart isn't always a bad thing- it can signify difficulties in that area of your life, yes, but it can also tell you what you have unwavering resolve in (especially if you're saturn ruled or saturn is positively aspected)

for example, my saturn is in my 1st house in leo (cancer rising) and I've seen people say that saturn in the 1st house can indicate a fear of growing old or being lonely, whatever- my personal experience with this placement is, ask anyone that knows me and they will tell you i am fucking petrified of losing myself- losing my mind, losing who i am and dying early are my worst fears (dreams in which im dying are NOT the best ive ever had 😮‍💨)

but as a result of this, i know myself SO well. i do think saturn in the 1st house can indicate issues with finding yourself IF it's afflicted, which mine isn't (thank god 💔💔💔)

im also very scared of growing out of touch with the world around me- dont get me wrong, i love being a hermit, but if im ever that old man that can't understand trends or whatever and is overly cynical of younger generations... dawg- take me the fuck out 😕

uranus i LOOOOVEEEEE and i think it stands for so much more than just rebellion- my uranus has a LOT of power in my chart (so does my neptune but they're in mutual reception 😮‍💨) because my moon is cusped (1° pisces, but i feel both pisces and aquarius influence 💔), and it and my mercury im pretty sure are why i think backwards as fuck- (fun fact, my mercury is FIRMLY direct but it likes to act like it's in retrograde 💔💔💔💔)

but!! more interestingly, i have a very specific mental process where whenever im goin thru it, i cant stay goin thru it for a while- if my brain is fucked up for a little too long and i start getting pissed about it, my uranus takes over and legitimately propels me through the pain in almost an instant. i could be going through something for weeks and once i start getting pissed about it or legitimately bored of it, the next day it's like nothing ever happened BUT i still learned from it

ofc I have to do something to trigger that effect, which is where my mars in cancer comes in and i do a workout to tap into the physical catharsis and BOOM, go to bed and wake up the next day a new man 🙏🙏🙏 god bless 🙏🙏🙏

neptune Ok i am not entirely sure what made whoever said neptune is the higher octave of venus think that but I've never been able to see it. this might be controversial as hell but neptune is the higher octave of the moon to me and jupiter is the higher octave of venus. THAT BEING SAID-

neptune is an absolutely fascinating planet to me lately and im not sure why- i do have a couple transit aspects with it right now but ive wanted to write about it literally all day now- U KNOW i might love it so much bc it's in my 8th house actually that would make sense- ANYWAY-

neptune to me is the source of all the visions from god i get, especially my creative ones- (source: it came to me in a vision from god.) the moon is a very creative placement in my opinion (i have a WILDLY different idea of the moon that i can go over in another post), so neptune follows a similar current, but neptune is higher creativity, higher emotion, etc- it's the planet of spirituality and the absolute depths of our subconscious, like to the point of past lives, that's the kinda shit neptune fucks with

but because it's also the higher octave of the moon, to me it can absolutely represent addictions and vices, everything garbage- personally, my neptune isn't very afflicted at all but i also have a major lack of earth in my chart so i Do find myself experiencing classic neptune-based paranoia sometimes- fuck dude i went neurotic for a week at one point, that was some serious neptune delusion- But my uranus/saturn pulled me back from it, because like i said, saturn makes me petrified of losing myself, so those two joined forces like "ya this shit ain't cool actually take it out back and shoot it"

i might make a post on specifically neptune stuff soon and/or right after this bc the hyperfixation is hyperfixating 💔💔

pluto i FUCK with because it's such a soul searchy planet (my 8th house is very active so ofc i fuck with pluto) in the darkest ways and i love that shit- jonathan davis has his pluto in a fucking mastery degree (29° virgo) and i am to this day like 😦 over it- and it makes SO much sense for him to have PLUTO of all planets in a mastery degree- and i have mine in 26° sag so like im not that far behind... 💔

but dude that's mastery of some SERIOUS transformative powers- that's mastery of the wildly darker shit in life and that is so fucking tight to me- i value that kinda stuff more than anything dude- probably why korn is my fav band (been listening to them as i write this 😭😭)

one thing abt pluto that i DONT agree with tho, and this is more of a scorpio thing BUT i know everyone loves to say scorpios are the sexy signs but dawg... it's cancers... i swear 2 god it's cancers- i will write an entire fucking post on cancers and why i HATE everyone's interpretations of them bc everyone's like "cnanncers are cRYBbaueiis and tHyeyre the most emOtIknal siGnsns 💔💔💔" Bro. Bro. Bro dont do me like that for the love of god. that shit made me hate my rising sign for SO long and also not relate to it!!!! then i started doin my own research and found out "Oh fuck nvm im totally a cancer"

BUT if you look at pluto like the actual God- nowhere in his mythology (that I read anyway- i could be wrong i dont wanna act like i know everything) does it say anything abt him ruling over sex or sumn like that- but everyone says pluto rules over sex!!!!!! Where!!!!!!!!!!! dawg they said he was a god of abundance bc he ruled over the underworld and gems and stuff were found underground 😭😭😭

i do think pluto fucks with taboo shit though But back in the ye olden days when astrology was being developed, sex was not taboo at all, that's a new development that i think uranus fucks with more because uranus is a very future focused planet in my humble opinion

i could definitely keep writing but i think this is already a novel SO- to specify tho, this is all my opinion of the planets, ive read PLEEEEEENTY of books and stuff so by no means do i not know how this shit works, but my uranus makes me rip everything apart and make my own take so 💔

#astrology #astro observations #astro community #outer planets #saturn #uranus #neptune #pluto #astrologer #space

[hochulia]

Offtop from art posting

Yesterday I was reading my fav channel about lesbian and queer relationships (it’s be awesome blogger Sasha Kazantseva, google her). And there was a really good post about how to communicate and understand a person with unusual trans identity. Very educational. But in the comments terfs showed up and somehow find a reason to rage.

One of them posted this familiar long rant, how “gender ideology” is the reason why women oppressed and also “why the f we have to respect anyone’s pronouns/genders!!!” And I noticed how f-ing ridiculous this shit is and the fact they justify it by women’s rights is appalling.

I remember in 2016 I was still empathetic person, though that the most important thing is be your true self and was shocked when read the article about trans women in russia and how they have to survive. I f-ing didn’t know that the “gender ideology” was the root of all evil in the world until I found a very charismatic terf who lured people in her circle with based takes about feminism. Claiming she’s a radical feminist, she wrote really good things and added transphobia, racism and justification of child abuse here and there (yes she said it’s ok for women to beat and torture kids, because women is oppressed class). And I even wasn’t agree with most of her fash crap, but she helped me in awful times in my life, so I was willing to turn a blind eye. And yeah, was introduced to a new target for my rage, scary maniacs in womens clothes, whose only goal is to rape every child and woman in the toilets or locker rooms 🤡

So. Saying gender ideology is the reason of women’s oppression is so fucking funny, like read history books idk?? And if anything women’s rights are more protected in countries where trans rights are recognized. She also added, that trans persons reproduce stereotypes about women and women are hated for being feminine and if women weren’t feminine there would be no reason to hate. There’s a lot to unpack here, but this is so misogynistic. I loved being a girl since childhood, I always thought girls are cooler, and I consider myself a very feminine person even if I look super neutral or even masculine on the surface. 😮‍💨

And. The whining about people wanting to their identities/boundaries etc be respected, putting your “opinion” over people’s well-being is so immature and also fascist. Are you f-ing don’t know about basic human decency and politeness?? Try to learn how to live in civilized society maybe?? No one f-ing ask your shitty opinion about anyone’s body/face/gender/name/health etc, your shitty opinion have no value on this subjects, keep it to yourself.

And how they reduce even cis women’s for their flat definitions of women or sexuality. I of course share the experience of oppression with many cis women, there’s a lot of common things, and they influenced my life and personality. Yet I am unique human being, I have my own femininity, my own sexuality, my own mind. Seeing how she writes about women as a homogeneous mass and sexuality as a simple matter is so f-ing funny. Sis, I’m a living proof you’re wrong, so is any other person, there’s a whole world outside of your head of you didn’t knew.

Tl;dr I guess. To any gender critical feminist who fights scary gender ideology and trans people everyday, solution to your problems is to close your socials, put down your phone and go outside. Or play MH Stories 2, or stardew valley. Or meet your friends. And see a therapist. When you remember how to live a life you will save yourself from monsters in your head, amazing right? 😸

#trans rights #gender critical #terfs #antifascism #antiterf

[meowzfordayz]

I just know sanemi as a big d*ck

I just KNOW 😭

HULLO. 😳😏

I actually headcanon Sanemi to be 7” in my analysis (; — hashira men fanfic, but he could also totally be 8-9” too. 😮‍💨🤪

The ~ideal length/girth varies from person to person, but for me…

<5” = not quite satisfying 😶

~7” = perfection 👌🏽 (sooo obvi Sanemi had to be 7” 😌🤍😂)

9+” = lowkey painful 😬

and yes, this scale’s based on my own experiences 😆

Not to shame anyone w/ diff preferences; diff strokes for diff folks! 🥰 Certainly “knowing how to use it” is more important than literal size, and if you’re not into sex, then that’s cool too. 😁 Just sharing my preferences for additional context regarding how I tend to hc/write NSFW content. 😉

#answered by T #anon

[teawiththegods]

I’ve been working with Aphrodite for around 5 years now and I have the absolute worst luck when it comes to romance and love and I don’t know how to not be upset at Her sometimes about it. Like I know in retrospect it’s bs of me to blame my bad luck on Her and not trust that She has a plan for me but sometimes I just wanna scream Why Aren’t You Helping Me whenever I get my heart broken by yet another person and I think sometimes She gets frustrated with me because I don’t trust Her the way I should but I just don’t know how to change that. I’ve also asked for Her help when it comes to love so many times but I’m starting to think that isn’t Her plan for me and it makes me really sad. I want to stop getting hurt and I want to stop blaming Her and this was my long winded way of asking if you have any advice? :(

Hello, love!

I’m really sorry you’re going through a difficult time. I empathize with you because I understand this struggle of wanting to trust in the gods but things not always working in our favor. It’s not easy and I would bet Moo Kitty’s toe beans that the majority of worshipers also struggle with this in some way.

So first order of business is to not be so hard on yourself for feeling frustrated. Take a deep breath. It’s okay. 😮‍💨👍🏻

Secondly, let’s discuss where the struggle comes from. Or well one of the places it comes from. Expectation. See the problem with asking a god for help is that we tend to have a very specific image of what that “help” will look like but how the gods interpret “helping” may be very different from that image.

This actually happens a lot when it comes to Aphrodite and people asking her for help with their love lives. When people invoke Aphrodite they are expecting her to bring love into their lives or improve an existing romantic relationship. The idea that Aphrodite’s “help” could be the exact opposite of that never really crosses peoples minds. If you’re relationship is unhealthy why wouldn’t she work to get you out of it? If you’re not in the right headspace for a relationship why would she bring you one?

Where the trust comes in is trusting that Aphrodite (and the gods in general) will always work in our best interest, even when the outcome doesn’t match the result we initially wanted.

I know I’m talking like this shit is easy but as I said earlier, I know first hand it’s super hard. So no judgment from me. I’m listening to my own advice right now because I need to hear it myself! 🤣😭✌🏻

But let’s talk about your situation specifically. Now I’m not Aphrodite (I do not have an ass that bangin) and I can’t say for sure what her plan is here, however i can give my thoughts on it if you’re open to that.

My beliefs on how the gods ultimately help us is that they don’t make things magically appear or disappear. They aren’t bippity boppity booing a pumpkin into a carriage so we can go marry a prince and finally afford healthcare. Their help is better described as “guidance” because they give us the tools, knowledge, wisdom, and strength to solve our problems and change our lives ourselves.

In your case, I wonder if Aphrodite wants you to take a step back and look at your previous heartbreaks and see if there’s anything to learn? Not always, but often times a string of “bad luck” in love is actually bad patterns, habits, and cycles we find ourselves continuously indulging. Perhaps it’s time to do some self reflection with Aphrodite?

Of course check in with Aphrodite because as I said before I can’t speak for her. I’m just giving my own thoughts based on my experiences. But regardless I hope you found something useful here! 💕

[b-lessings]

We’ve been mutuals for a long time so I remember your occasional mentions about therapy and healing, which actually played a role in prompting me to try and understand my own trauma I was in denial of for a very long time and starting my journey towards getting better I guess. I’m still really struggling with my anxiety, have been for a really long time, sometimes the triggers are too overwhelming and feels like therapy and trauma work only make me understand enough to want to run away again, due to how much my body reacts in social settings, or at the thought of how out of control everything is in my brain. Can I ask, perhaps in vague terms, what was your journey like in the beginning? Does the anxiety ever start to lessen in intensity? Do you ever get to the point where you can process your trauma enough to finally face the reality of it’s remnants in people and places? How long does it take till you begin to seek happiness instead of the vicious internal destruction? How (if at all) does the dynamics of your healing journey change when you let another person you love into your life?

By the end of (reading) this ask I was like ouuff 😮‍💨 that's heavy😅

Salam my dear, I appreciate you sending this ask, I see your courage and your will to get better and get a bit of control over your life, and that's only a sign of strength and bravery, I am proud of you 🤍

Now, I am not sure if I am gonna answer all your points or get carried away by my own thoughts but let me give it a try.

First of all, from personal experience (obviously all my answers will be based on that) I don't think anxiety is something we can totally heal from or get rid of, it is not a feature we can deactivate, and do not take this the wrong way, I will explain later, but with therapy we learn to cope with our anxiety, we learn to make peace with it, and live with it in the most cooperative non-impeding ways.

One of the most memorable sayings that my therapist told me so early on in my journey is that her and my anxiety are both trying to do the same thing: protect me, they are not working against each other, they would actually work together (if my anxiety wouldn't be so stubborn lol).

Anxiety is in simple terms or at a very primal level a reaction to a trigger, you brain detects something that it deems wrong or dangerous and it alerts your body - there is nothing wrong with that. In fact, as human beings we relied on that trigger-response for God knows how many thousands of years to survive and get to this point in history. But then anxiety is perceived as a problem once it becomes a disability, in the sense that it would prevent the person from going on about their day normally.

Now what happened is that I lived like 27 or 28 years of my life not even realizing I had anxiety. I would hear people talk about it all the time and it never clicked, for me not even once that hey that's what I have! Until my therapist said the word. And I was like " anxiety? Me? Noway! I am an extrovert, I have a lot of friends, I am not scared of crowds, I love trying new things and living new experiences blah blah blah" but I had no idea that I had actually been repressing it all in for all those years.

So after the acceptance, the second phase was that anxiety took over my life! I had become fully afraid of everything and I just retrieved to myself. Everything was emphasized. I sorta kinda cut off people and stopped going after things and experiences blah blah .. I remember telling my therapist, since the day I was faced with the diagnosis, seems like anxiety is all that I am! I want to get my old self back, I want to get my life back! Anxiety stole my life! It was painful, it was uncomfortable and it was also my excuse for everything..

But then, one of the biggest turning-points in my therapy journey was when I decided to love my anxiety, and understand it better, understand that it does not want to do me any harm but actually protect me, so I became more aware inward and outward, I became very attentive to the changes and the signs my body gives me, you can catch me whispering " what is it babygirl, what's wrong? " as soon as I feel that stomach ache, lol. I honestly do talk to it, I can proudly say I befriended it and that's how I managed to get on its good sign and take control of my life back.

Now I even anticipate it. I sorta know my triggers, so I can te that I will have an episode, I have learned a few techniques on how to calm myself down or distract my mind, sometimes when it is intense I would allow myself a day off or even an hour off just to myself to do something that brings me comfort, I journal a lot, I analyze my thoughts and whatnot.. and that's what therapy is good for, it equips you with tools to cope with the issue at hand. And yes, that's how it lessens in its intensity like you said. That's how you gain back control over your life. That's how you get closer to feeling and achieving peace, because listen boo, we are not looking for happiness, the goal is actually peace. Happiness is only a moment in time, it's fleeing, it's just an instant. Inner peace and mental peace is what lasts.

I can't tell you how much time it takes because every journey is personal and different, to each of us their path, and relapses do happen, setbacks do happen, after all we are only human, and especially for us girls, the hormonal imbalance is a nightmare and it does affect our psyche.. there is also life events always happening and affecting our mental health.. but the most important part is that you never stop, never give up, you keep walking your path of healing and you keep asking for help! I always say that the keys to having a good experience with therapy are the 3Ps: perseverance, patience and practice!

I have been in therapy for I think 3 years next month, and proudly I can say we don't have the scheduled regular sessions, I do not need them anymore, Alhamdullillah, now it is basically only in cases of emergency like if something really intense happens, other than that, Alhamdullillah I am capable of managing my anxiety attacks, which are neither that frequent not that intense anymore, Alhamdullillah.

P.s. I did not mention trauma because tbh with my therapist we haven't been working on that. And I am well-aware of how sensitive and different our traumatic experiences are, so I chose to sit this one out.

Anyways, I hope I managed to answer your questions or at least bring you some hope! And again, I am very proud of you, I know how gard and tricky it gets but I promise you it gets better, so keep going 🤍

#asks #on anxiety #mental health #ask Asmaa

[anxietytwist]

𝐓𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐚 𝐀𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐦𝐬

[ 𝟸𝟿 | 𝟼'𝟶" | Female | Demisexual | ❤️‍🩹𝐀𝐜𝐞 ]

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⊰Style⊱

“𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘢 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘴𝘦𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘢 𝘴𝘬𝘪𝘳𝘵, 𝘣𝘭𝘰𝘶𝘴𝘦 & 𝘮𝘢𝘵𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘫𝘢𝘤𝘬𝘦𝘵. 𝘈𝘵𝘰𝘱 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘥, 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘢 𝘸𝘪𝘥𝘦-𝘣𝘳𝘪𝘮𝘮𝘦𝘥 𝘩𝘢𝘵.” ⁎ She wears "split skirts" while hunting ⁎

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ᴘʀᴏɴᴏᴜɴꜱ➙ She/Her ʙᴜɪʟᴅ➙ 𝘛𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘥 ᴄʟᴀꜱꜱ➙ ... ꜰᴀᴠᴇ ᴄᴏʟᴏᴜʀ➙ 𝘖𝘳𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘦 ꜰᴀᴠᴇ ʙᴏᴏᴋ➙ Frankenstein 𝟷ˢᵗ ᴋɪꜱꜱ➙ At the beach with 𝐀𝐜𝐞 (she had a lot of firsts with them)

𝐓𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐚 is ambidextrous

While she's comfortable being viewed as a "woman"; but never felt the need to define herself solely based on her sex/gender ♀🤷🏽‍♀️

𝐓𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐚 has a faint scar along her left jawline (from a silly childhood injury)

Due to her past, she's a VERY guarded person (especially when it comes to letting others know her "true" feelings/thoughts 🤐); her trust is hard to regain once broken

𝐁𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐬 is basically an older sibling to 𝐓𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐚 (she misses them whenever they're apart)

𝐖𝐲𝐚𝐭𝐭 calls her "kiddo" & "dearie"

She has PTSD, anxiety, & a panic disorder (which causes her to experience biweekly episodes); her calming method is breath counting ... she's embarrassed by these episodes 😮‍💨

𝐓𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐚 still feels nervous about being in water (it used to be a full-blown phobia, but 𝐀𝐜𝐞 helped desensitize her somewhat)

Money matters little to her besides it being a necessity for survival; she's a vampire-hunter because she wants to keep "humans" safe (+ she honestly enjoys the hunt too)

𝐓𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐚'𝐬 vibe can easily be summed up by this song: 𝄞

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𝐼𝐹: @larkingame

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Character creator by @ummmmandy

Her playing the harmonica makes me think of this:

#Larkin #Larkin IF #Larkin-if #if: Larkin #Larkin game #CYOA #choice game #Twing game #Twine IF #IF #interactive fiction game #interactive fiction #Larkin MC #Larkin OC #Larkin PC #Larkin Preacher #Preacher MC #Preacher OC #Preacher PC #Preacher Abrams #IF OCs #character profile #[will update as demo continues]

[crimsonkenjii-writes]

Giyuu jerking himself off and using different toys. Not just the cock ring. Omg wait why I see him as a masochist? Like you accidentally pull his hair a little too hard and he moans HARD like he want to try CaB torture to experiment and actually likes it

Giyuu is 100% into hair pulling!!! There is no denying it >:) Pull his hair, he pulls yours, he’s all for it. Especially pulling his hair.

I can kind of see him being a bit of a masochist. (I personally see him a lot more vanilla and loves lovey dovey/close intimate sex 🥰)

I don’t know too much about cock and ball torture so I don’t really have too much to say on that 😭 but I think Giyuu is most sensitive at the base of his cock. Kiss him there and he’s a whimpering mess 🤤 and he definitely loves teasing. Move so slow and take forever to touch him, please him, or let him cum and he’s a total mess. Red in the face begging and moaning kekeke

And also!!! Magic wand ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°) Or just any vibrating toy! Stroking him with nimble fingers as you hold the vibrating toy on his cock, his hips are rutting up into your hand as he whimpers and moans. Being overstimulated by the toy and babbling how he’s about to cum. Nuts so hard he’s breathing so heavy, eyes shut and head spinning. Fjdkaornsoakf 😵‍💫😮‍💨

#sorry for not knowing anything about c&b torture lmao #crimsonkenjii answers

[goldcranes]

Hi there!!!!!!!!! I just read your sleeper hit sequel and I have to say, I haven’t been so obsessed with a fic in literal years at this point. Every single aspect of it is PERFECT, and the kicker is— I haven’t still watched the top gun sequel that you literally based it on lol! It’s just one of the greatest things I’ve ever read, and it doesn’t matter to me that I don’t know a ton of context behind it. It’s so utterly glorious that I don’t even need to have watched the movie to know that it’s great, and so, so life changing. All i did was watch the miles teller edits and gifs here and on twitter (and I’ve loved that man for years now, since his divergent and whiplash days; gotta say he’s had one HELL of a glow up even tho he’s always been an attractive guy), and I looked up the actress who played Amelia and that was enough for me to go on with. You’re just such an amazing writer, and even tho I didn’t know anything about the top gun sequel, i knew just by reading your darklina fics that it would be a super amazing read, and I wasn’t wrong. It was literally the most engaging thing I’ve read all year so far, it’s pacing was perfect, your characterisations were perfect, the way you handled Amelia’s daddy issues personally pierced my heart and altered the chemical composition of my brain forever. The plot was AMAZING, and a special shout-out to hangman and maverick, I literally loved them both so much! Even tho I could live in the sleeper hit universe forever, I won’t be selfish because you literally gifted us a 50k NOVEL length fic for them that I’ll cherish (and reread lol) forever.

PS— I do very much intend on watching top gun maverick when it hits streaming, and reread your fic at least 17 billion times because of the newfound context and emotions that the movie will inevitably fill me with. Stay safe, and stay blessed😘💖💖💖

So I have had this message sat in my inbox for days upon days now and I, no lie, have come back to read it every morning because it just makes me soooo happy. Thank you thank you thank you from the bottom of my heart! I’m absolutely thrilled you liked the fic so much, especially without having seen TGM (which I fully advocate for you doing as soon as it hits streaming, it is a whole-ass experience).

I also completely feel you on the Miles Teller glow-up, he’d honestly never done it for me before but he came on that screen and I was like OH RIGHT. I GET IT. He’s like Zac Efron, ages perfectly to suit my tastes 😮‍💨

[spamgyu]

Hi love,

Okay, listen, please don't apologize for writing such beautiful angst. When I said that I genuinely felt miserable, i meant that it was soo mindblowingly good that I lost it for a good second, that I needed to get my shit together so I can send you an ask that makes sense. Anywho, so yeah, just, no need to apologize for that, I love love loved it. One thing though, darling, what have you been through to write such deep and painful angst based off of your experiences? If it's any consolation, I read angst because I like the pain and because I've experienced the pain(although, the pain is so much worse irl and not something I'd willingly put myself through). To me, reading angst and feeling that pain is delightful, but only because it's ficitonal, oh, how I would die if i had to experience that irl. I hope you don't have to experience that kind of pain anymore, sending all the love I can❤️.

Also, hoshi's fic being like cheol's, oh I'm in for quite the ride, aren't I? Looking forward to that. The best time to read angst is really in the middle of the night, the amount of times I've sobbed while reading angst in the middle of the night is crazy.

Not the cat and dog playing in the background, I hope you were able to get the bug out and reached wherever you were going safely.

I also realized I send way too many asks and that I should give you a break from all my rants.

Anywho, the whole point of this ask was to tell you that I love your angst and well, to thank you for the gut wrenching angst you write.

Hi!!!!!

"mind blowingly good that i lost it for a second" KFNWKFNE same omg ✊🏼😔 me when i read an angst so good i have to step away from it to cry HAHAHAHAH (peachykaix when i CATCH YOU)

And ahhhhhh don't worry hehe I promise I am in a happy healthy long term relationship where I am no longer experiencing sadness that I write about hehehehe most of my angst are fictional though some are taken from my personal experiences – it's been nearly 4 years since those have taken place and I have gotten over them heheheheheheheh IM OKAY GUYS 🤞🏼😌

Only angst I go through is my work life aha 💯🤧😮‍💨

I SWEAR MY LIFE IS ACTUALLY ONE LONG FLUFF FIC NOW

Angst fic in the middle of the night is fr so top tier ... even better when you're able to just put music on and let it consume you ugh so good ✊🏼😔

ANYWAYS NO OMFG you can send as many asks as you want hehehe I love talking to you guys and reading all that everyone has to say (even if i take a million years to answer some 🧍🏻‍♀️)

#spamasks

[lucyandthepen]

hi it’s 🍭 anon here !!

first I wanted to tell you that the last time you answered my ask I was so happy, like fr thank you so much for your kind words, it touched me a lot :’) 🫶🏼

NOW ! I just read salted caramel and. omggg.

first I wanted to say to jisung, I also enjoyed Age Of Calamity lol

hyuck is really a menace to society here💀 but thanks to him we had a jealous mark (in this house, we love jealous mark ‼️). I read the tag before reading the fic but I didn’t expect y/n and mark to be on the phone with hyuck this long hahaha.

thank you again for sharing your work, it’s always a pleasure to read your works <3

as I said last time, I go check your blog everyday to see if you updated anything.

1st I hope that your move while go smoothly ☝🏼 and I cannot wait for honey citrus !!

Also, have you seen the nct nation concert and heard the album ? (https://twitter.com/allforljn/status/1695421368870015007?s=46&t=wPoG9lz8nXXKd2HT9NynOA this jeno clip literally drive me crazy)

sorry I talk too much 😭 anyway, I hope that you’re okay. Have a great day/night and take care of yourself ~ <3

hello my sweet candy anon! 🍬 i’m so happy you’re happy! hearing from you always makes my day so much brighter, and i’m over the moon to hear from you again. 🩷 thank you for always being so nice and sending a message again!

are you a zelda fan/koei games fan?? i am both!! i really enjoyed age of calamity (even though some people say the format is kind of boring) and i love botw/totk! (watch that come out in another fic!) fun fact: the argument about dynasty warriors is based off of my personal experiences, and i share my opinion with chenle — the seventh is the best! the ninth was a train wreck! (although the art was truly quite nice.)

we always love a jealous mark! i am of the opinion that he is a very possessive person but tries to act like he isnt/thinks it’s not right to be so openly jealous. i will not delve into it too much right now but if i had to mtl the dreamies and their jealousy, mark would EASILY be in top 3 😭 SO WE LOVE SEEING MC FEED HIS POSSESSIVENESS WITH A FEAST! poor hyuck tho 🥹 he was a champ for staying on the line for that long but!!! he may have gotten something out of it anyway so we can’t say it was a terrible time for him😮‍💨

i hope that it isn’t too much of a hassle for you to check my blog! 😭 i know i’m not the fastest when i write so there are gaps between fics but i hope to not make the wait between uploads too long 🥹

thank you for your super kind words; i hope the move goes well too! i am quite scared but i think it’ll be a good new adventure, so it’s exciting too 🥹🩷

and honey citrus is something i’m definitely excited for as well 😮‍💨 i have a very particular hc list for jaemin when it comes to intimacy so i hope to get to explore those things in the fic! we can be excited together!!!!!

i wasn’t able to watch the beyond live of nct nation BUT i’ve seen clips and THE BAT JENO WAS SO OFFENSIVE (lovingly) TO ME LIKE WHY DID HE !!! HOW COULD HE!! he slayed every outfit and his arms were GOING HARD! what was your favorite performance of the night??

never apologize for talking too much!!!!!!!!!! i talk like crazy too so don’t even sweat it. i love blabbing and rambling with you and with everyone, so i hope you always feel comfy talking to me. have a really great day or night where you are, and as always, stay safe and happy! 🩷💜

[awholenutha]

Ugh this nigga just told me he wants to be a mangaka at 24 with no drawing experience or frame of reference to base his career journey off of...

My gut is telling me to go on the date out of commitment, but I think we're gonna be just friends.

Why is dating in my age group mainly just meeting untalented or unorganized people with high anxiety and no prospects or initiative? I hate even talking about what I do for work, let alone creatively cause I know I'm leaps beyond not only many of my peers but mature people as well.

I have above stable income, creative, solid career rapur, good personality, sexy, articulate, worldly, compassionate, blah blah, etc.

Chile, let's not even talk about when I get my new camera and get back to sharing my pieces.

Most people don't even know how to cook... 😮‍💨

#like im 26 #and feel like no one I ever meet measures up #or is interesting #especially in Atlanta #me #personal

[stargirlfics]

sleepover ask: beware, we’re getting slutty.

Virginity taking w/ Andy 😮‍💨 it’s the typical scenario where he’s pretty experienced and you aren’t but after dating for some time, you want him to completely deflower you.

I feel like it would be such a good experience that you begin to settle in the fact that this fine ass man with good dick is going to be the only person within your sexual relationship. You wanna try new shit? He’s the one. New positions? He’s your guy. Everything. And that’s just after him fucking you ONCE.

The morning after would be a moment because he’s downstairs in the kitchen making you breakfast, you’re relaxing in the bed for a minute and reminiscing 😵‍💫 like he did everything right last night, you came more than twice, he was super attentive, loving, and a nice mix of wanting to slut you out.

That feeling gets to rushing in your bones, through your blood, and all the way down to your core. Yeah you probably were sore but you’d get over it. You shower, do your hygiene routine, and make your way down the stairs in nothing but a satin robe.

You find your man shirtless, those evil grey sweatpants hanging nice on his hips. That paired with your salacious thoughts had you ready to act out. Andy finds you with a smile, putting the spatula down to greet you with a tender hug and kiss.

“Good morning, how’re you?”

“I-I’m good, a little sore but it’s nothing a hot bath can’t fix”

“Well good, I tried to really hold back because it was your first time so I’m sorry if you don’t feel comfortable right now, you uh, just felt way too fucking good”

That had a shiver running down your spine, what a menace.

“But hang tight, breakfast is just about done, wanna make sure my princess is taken care of”

He kissed you again and left you to get comfortable at the kitchen island. You got lost in your thoughts as Andy fixed your plates. You barely registered that he was conversing with you until his warm hand laid over yours.

“Yeah?” You asked, coming to and seeing an amused yet confused look on your boyfriend’s face. Your plate was in front of you, untouched.

“I said are you okay? You need anything else with this? Something to drink?”

You spoke before thinking, “n-no.. no, just you”

You round the counter and lowered yourself on your knees in front of him before Andy could say anything else. He was naked when you got your hands on him.

Andy groaned, clutching the handle of the stove, “s-sweetheart wait, are you sure? We didn’t get this far last night, I just wanna— oh fuck!”

Your lips circled the head of him, eyes closed and letting yourself go to everything that was happening. He’d treated you so well last night, you wanted to return the favor. And if this is what you wanted to do, why couldn’t he enjoy it?

“Oh fuck, honey, just like that.. yeah, yeah keep doing that, makin’ daddy feel so fucking good, c’mon”

You took him deeper, one hand resting on the muscle of his thigh, the other jerking at the base of whatever you couldn’t take in your mouth. You felt Andy gather your hair into both of his hands, carefully pumping his hips.

He didn’t wanna full out fuck your face, not yet at least. Hell, he didn’t even know you were this good at giving head. As bad as he wanted it sometimes, he never pushed you. You two never engaged in anything further than making out because you weren’t ready. Andy respected that.

And here you were. Absolutely making a mess out of him. Slobber running the sides of your mouth, eyes teary, and you still looked so fucking beautiful to him. It pushed him right at the cliff of an intense orgasm.

His grip on your hair tightened, you looked up to see his head thrown back, eyebrows furrowed, and eyes tightly shut.

“Oh fuck, fuck fuck fuck, ‘m right there, honey, don’t you fucking stop, gonna cum down that throat, suckin’ my dick so fuckin’ good”

His release caught you off guard but it didn’t stop you and you swallowed everything he gave you like the good girl you were.

Andy hauled you up to your feet and smashed his mouth on yours, tongue automatically finding yours. His kissed you breathless, hands desperately grabbing at your ass through the robe.

“On the bed, in the room, naked, give me five minutes and you better keep your hands to yourself, you hear me?”

“Yes daddy”

Andy muttered a ‘good girl’ before smacking your ass and sending you on your way. You couldn’t wait. 😈

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Happy Birthday, my luvvvv ❤️

MA’AM YOU ALWAYS DELIVER OMFG! 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

I love everything about this, Andy being caught off guard by how much you want him especially so quickly after your first time together but I mean who can blame you he’s too damn hot not to be on your knees gagging you know 🥵

Slut me outtttt sir!

This is perfect!!

#sleepover time!! #andy barber smut #andy barber headcanons