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3scapethevoid · 2 months

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A dose of validation for a-spec identities!

You're valid if you're aplatonic and don't have friends!

You're valid if you're aplatonic and do have friends!

You're valid if you're afamilial and aren't close with your family and/or familial figures OR don't have any!

You're valid if you're afamilial and are close with your family and/or familial figures if you have any!

You're valid if you're aqueerplatonic and don't engage in queerplatonic relationships!

You're valid if you're aqueerplatonic and do engage in queerplatonic relationships!

You're valid if you're aromantic and don't engage in romantic relationships!

You're valid if you're aromantic and do engage in romantic relationships!

You're valid if you're asexual and don't engage in sexual relationships/intercourse!

You're valid if you're asexual and do engage in sexual relationships/intercourse!

You're valid if you're the 'stereotype' of your label!

You're valid if you have any label that 'contradicts' with your actions/feelings!

You're valid if you aren't a-spec or don't consider yourself a-spec or don't use labels but are still attraction-repulsed, ambivalent, or whatever!

You can't control what you do and don't feel and no one else should either, be proud of who you are, no matter how 'absurd' or 'unnatural' it is to others. You are all valid! <3

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fallenrain40 · 1 month

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aplatonic unicorn <2

#my art #art #aplatonic #autumn's art #unicorn #apl #aplspec #aplatonic spectrum #aplatonic pride #apl pride #apl art #aplatonic art #aspec #unicorn art #digital art #ibispaint art #pride art

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xxcalicofemmexx · 3 months

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aplatonic wallpapers!

Aplatonic: A term used to describe people who do not experience platonic attraction. Specifically, it is most commonly employed by aplatonic people to describe a lack of desire to form friendships with specific people, or difficulty forming friendships in general as a result of neurodivergence or trauma.

#aplatonic #pride #queer #aplatonic wallpaper #aplatonic pride #aplatonic positivity #apl #aspec #aspec pride #apl pride #apl positivity #aspec positivity #my wallpapers #mine

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mlp-friendship-isnt-magic · 2 months

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Any character can be aplatonic if you’re not a coward. No, I will not elaborate.

Now go out there and zap all the characters with your apl beam.

#aplatonic #aplspec #aplatonic pride

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aftonsparv-bugzz · 10 days

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:33 < youcannot support a community if youdont support everyone. youcant support the lgbtqia2s+ community if youdont support two spirits, or lesboys, or contradictory labels, or aplatonics, or xenogenders, or trans people who dont actively present as their gender whether by choice or not, and more. youcant say you support the community if youdont actually support it. either support the community as a whole or dont and get out.

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your-fav-is-aplatonic · 5 months

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#undescribed #aplatonic #aplatonic pride #aplatonic memes

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feelingthedisaster · 2 months

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What does the aspec flag look like officially / exactly? Google is giving me different answers and I don't know which one to use...please enlighten me🙏

Thanks

well, there is a lot of flags, depending on their meaning and/or preferences of the person who identifies with the identity of the flag

but, these are some of the most know ones:

aromantic (feels little to no romantic atraction)

asexual (feels little to no sexual attraction)

the most know aroace flag (i think the name it's the sunset flag) (it can be used for both spectum to 0% atraction i lack a better word for it, but usually people who use a micro label prefer to use the specific flag for that micro level)

the next two are alternatives for the aroace flag, people often use this because the colors usually have meanings (i am not an expert about the topic, i'd have to do reserch) and the alternatives flags, even though are meant for the same identity, can have diferent colours with different meaning. a lot of people use the flag they like the colours better (for example, dont like orange, just use an alternative flag)

the next flag is for oriented aroace, which means an aspec person which feels some type of atracttion (sexual, romantic, aesthetic, sensual, etc) so they are aspec and at the same time another orientation (like lesbian, bi, gay, hetero, pan, etc)

[looking for the pictures, i found this one who also includes the flags of some microlabels, but im not going to delete what i previously wrote]

the aspec flag in general

asensual: someone who feels little to no sensual atracttion

aplatonic: someone who feels little to no platonic atracttion

there are microlabels in that image like demi (needs a previous connection to feel the attraction), gray (little/rare atraction), and more

[there are more flags for all the microlabels (and more microlabels that arent mentioned) out there, but they are a lot so im not going to include them]

there are also 'cursed flags', which are any flags but what an image or text on them, usually a fictional character or joke. they are made with humoristic purposes

also to clarify, you can use whatever flag you like/feel more comfortable. if you are aspec and feel some atraction, it doesnt mean you cant use 'original' ones (the three first one) (i dont know if original is the right word)

but i repeat, USE THE FLAG YOU LIKE. wheter it is because you like the colors more or because of the meanings (with i didnt put because im not familiar with them, but there is a lot information out there), the flag you use is for you

hope this was helpful!

if anything was wrong/harmful, im really sorry, it wasnt my intention and if someone can point my mistake/tell me the right word/what to change i would appreatiate a lot

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spiritmoodboards · 11 days

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Moodboard for Yuri (DDLC) aromantic positivity/aplatonic positivity/purple themes For an anon!! Hope you like this!

We're closed for now, thank you~

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kittyqueer-arseniccatnip · 10 days

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:33 < aplatonic fag flag!!

:33 < purple: history, dark pink: community, pink: attraction to men, light pink: reclamation, yellow: pride, light green: aplatonicism

#mogai coining #mogai flag #mogai community #mogai term #mogai #mogai blog #mogai friendly #mogai safe #pro endo mogai #pro mogai #mogai gender #flag coining #mogai pride #mogai label #orientation coining #aplatonic #aplatonic spectrum #aplatonic pride #aplspec

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entropy-sea-system · 5 months

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Claiming the color blue for aplatonics 💙

#aplatonic #/lh #apl #aplspec #aplatonic spectrum #aspec #apl pride #aplatonic pride #aplatonic symbols #It's bc there's blue in the apl flag + blue heart is apl symbol hope that helps

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papercranesandpride · 3 months

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So I googled "is there an aplatonic replacement for friends?" and I think we should make this our word for if we are lucky enough to find people who want relationships with us that are not platonic or romantic but just are. Just two apls vibing together in the same space, talking because they like talking but not actually necessary friends. I think we need to make ducks a thing.

#apl #aplatonic #apl pride #aplatonic spectrum #aplspec #aplatonic pride

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themostfangtastic · 6 months

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aplatonic culture is seeing ur friends say that they love each other and ur just like ahahha heh hmm yeah. anyways-

#apl #aplatonic #aspec #aplatonic pride #aplatonic spectrum

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door430 · 10 months

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This pride month, I’m proud to be aplatonic.

Over the years, I’ve seen many therapists, and their immediate reaction to me saying that I don’t want friends was that it couldn’t be healthy. I must be repressing some internal desire for companionship, or maybe it’s because of my self-esteem issues that I believe I don’t deserve friends. Yadda yadda, something about how humans require “deep emotional connection” or whatever to survive

And today I realized they were wrong. I don’t have any friends, and I’m happy with that.

#aplatonic #aplatonic pride

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xxcalicofemmexx · 3 months

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anyway

aplatonic people are beautiful and good and deserving. having language to express how they experience the world is not a bad thing, and should Never be framed as such.

if you are aplatonic because of a personality disorder, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because of autism, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because of trauma, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because of a fatigue disorder, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because you're just happier on your own, you belong.

if you are aplatonic because of another reason i can't think of rn, you belong.

you are real, and you matter, and you deserve to find pride in being yourself.

- sincerely, an aroacespec

#aplatonic #aplatonic pride #apl pride #apl positivity #aplatonic positivity #aspec #aspec pride #aspec positivity #that person got me riled up #ugh #i speak

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mlp-friendship-isnt-magic · 2 months

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