#and y’all… I cannot handle it

[sassylittlecanary]

Dick Grayson and his glorious flowing 90s hair + ABBA suit 2.0

This is truly A Look and I respect it.

Dick Grayson: Disney Princess, Romance Novel Cover Model, or Disco Band Member?

#I’m reading nightwing (1996) vol 1 #and y’all… I cannot handle it #dick grayson #richard grayson #nightwing #bludhaven #dc #dcu #dc comics #1990s comics #nightwing vol 1 #discowing

[soullessjack]

this isnt rlly a serious post more so than a thought I need to verbalize but like. there’s an INSANE difference between the fandom being like “hey what if jack was actually his age and got to be a little normal” vs y’all treating a grown ass man like he has to cover his ears when someone swears or sleep with a nightlight on because he’s afraid of the dark, and throwing the P word around to anyone who thinks he’s attractive. one of these things is not like the other.

#there’s a layer here about giving jack the childhood he specifically chose not to have #and ignoring his other choices because that’s just. idk a running theme with any character who struggles to have autonomy #but whatever idk #genuinely i think the past year or so that I’ve spent talking about this has burnt me out #either that or I’m just too fixated on VB to really care too much #like obviously I still care about it and wish more was done to help but it’s not really a warpath for me to walk currently #just. #I’m just tired dawg #it’s like talking to a deaf brick wall #please just do some research into infantilization I cannot keep having a one sided conversation with people who don’t care #spn #jack kline #baby jack #spn fandom #fandom critical #fandom ableism #tfw2.0 #not even just ableism it’s the whole mischaracterization woobified bullshit all over again #and the using baby jack as a prop for everyone else but I digress #jack: *chose not to be a child and hates being seen as one and is more than willing to get violent if he thinks he has to* #y’all for some fucking reason: he’s just a widdle baby he can’t handle the scary movie he needs his daddies to take care of him #I’ve already said all these things before #i am tired. so tired

[ursie]

The way you can always tell how normal a person is about Ashton/Callowmore by what pronoun they use for them 😭

#if they only/mostly use he? 🚩 everytime #sm of the fandom clearly just sees Ashton as a angry man it’s so frustrating #they only time they acknowledge their disability is for uwu angst or hurt comfort like as a disabled person #makes me wanna vomit the way you actually treat their disability like 😭 #like. the most masc trans character you could handle was Molly and y’all even make them more effeminate then they were in canon 😭 #just. much to think about don’t feel like explaining #but something about the villainization of masc queer people be it transmascs or amab trans people and the #way that most of the queer community just. cannot be normal about us 😭 #ashton greymoore #callowmoore #cr #cr3 #critical role #spoilers #I babble

[fleshadept]

happy taika tuesday give it up for taika tuesday (mirror edition)

#ik tuesday is over for a lot of y’all but… still #i’m in orbit i cannot handle these pictures #taika waititi

[liam-summers]

Sorry, I would rather eat flaming hot DOG shit than have another man live in my house ever again.

#it's my cousin and I can’t even handle it #why is there always so much hair and noises ? #every day he needs a home cooked meal like I’m his private chef or something ???? #the amount of laundry I am doing is criminal #the bathroom stays FILTHY #don’t even get me started on the UNHINGED amount of cologne this MF drenches himself in #I cannot breathe #1 hour long showers LIKE WHAT ARE YOU WASHING?????? #I’m FUCKING TIRED Y’ALL #it’s like living with a child #and his stupid ass won’t even take the garbage out #personal #text post

[crossbackpoke-check]

You have excellent tag thoughts, especially about Key & Laf!!!!

thank you!!!! i wish i had a better description than just 🥹🦋😭💕🥰 to explain my reaction to you saying nice things about my tags but please trust that this ask just made my day!!!

#me when i. when you. y’all are so nice and i simply cannot handle it without immediately declaring my love for you #the absolute validation and joy i got from this ask is indescribable #BECAUSE HI THIS IS WEIRD BUT YOU’RE A MUTUAL IN LAW I THOUGHT WAS COOL and now you like my tags and i am feeling a little shy but also now #i am very very happy and 💕🥺☺️‼️ about it and ALSO i need to find the post of yours that i saved in the drafts because i went full ham #in the tags and didn’t want to be weird about it but maybe it’s okay (it is not nyr related it is jarvy related but) #ALSO THE FACT THAT YOU MENTIONED KEY AND LAF OHHHH MY HEART warm leftovers is so dear to me they make me feel unhinged they’re in Love #also tumblr let me have group chats i want to introduce you to my friend lostandmost who has made me exponentially WORSE about key & laf #in the very short time that i have known them and i want everyone’s key and laf opinions please & ty i feel like they don’t get enough love #liv in the replies

[sophfandoms53]

Thinking about how much Leo has grown as a leader and a ninja to the point of being Master Leonardo

#Y’ALL REMEMBER WHEN HE WAS LIKE “what training? you guys have been training??” #LIKE HE BARELY TOOK BEING A NINJA SERIOUSLY #AND NOT ONLY IS HE LEADER #BUT HE FALLS INTO THAT ROLE SO WELL HE BECOMES MASTER #AS HE SHOULD #LEADER LEO MY ABSOLUTE BELOVED #I CANNOT WAIT TO SEE HOW THE MOVIE HANDLES HIS ARC #tmnt #rottmnt #rise of the tmnt #rottmnt movie #rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles #teenage mutant ninja turtles

[theprideful]

if you’re wondering why you can’t reblog the gendered names post it’s because i’ve revoked reblog privileges. y’all are annoying me

#i genuinely cannot handle hearing ‘bUt SaShA iS a MaLe NaMe’ one more fucking time #the reading comprehension on this site subzero #stg y’all focus on one minute detail and fixate on it when it’s not even the fucking point #it’s just an example #god #sry for being negative on main but i just feel like i’m losing my mind because i’ve addressed it a million times already and yet still #people keep commenting the same. fucking. thing. thinking they’re proving a point by enforcing traditional gender roles and saying #‘ACTUALLY it’s a MALE name in RUSSIA’ #that’s not the hot take you think it is

[the-broken-pen]

I suffered a mental break after writing like eighteen college essays and wrote the newest one about a bagel and I just call it college essay bagel and it haunts me but like objectively it’s funny because it’s about a bagel you know? And my English teacher is gonna throw a book at my head when she finally reads it

#I cannot handle the unbearable pressure of this patriarchal and capitalist system meant to grind all of us down into something palatable #the system wants to swallow me whole and goddamn if I won’t make myself poisonous #what do you mean the AP classes and perfect academic existence isn’t enough #i made this my whole life and now you tell me I cannot write of the pain I had to hide to do so #this is not writing #sorry y’all #I’m but a teenage girl who is simply going through it #like and I’m not even allowed to write about trauma on the essay what kind of bullshit is this #you say write about your life and damn if that isn’t mine #I’m a writer and an artist #you think I’m okay? #I’m gonna start a series of food related college essays

[thecryptidbard]

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#trying to be active on here again bc I miss y’all and my brain cannot quite yet handle discord #things are still just. 😬 #but trying to get back to the happy things #fandom stuff and writing/making art soon #anyway <3 #TK tag #it speaks

[zeb-z]

qBad this, qForever that, when did everyone forget about unreliable narrators?

#like listen. alright. bbh I get it. but the feeling he’s feeling of being soooo targeted and that the system is already corrupt is like #he’s taking it incredibly personal yknow? and I respect it. I also agree with his general view of not wanting leadership w federation backin #In the first place yknow? but like everyone look at me and level with me. qBbh is such a hypocrite and I won’t hear another word of it ofjsj #qBad apologists I see it I get it but like. to say everyone has had this coming and bad is treated so poorly on the server like?? #have any of you seen half the stuff bad pulls? have any of you met foolish even entirely unrelated to bad??? y’all are acting like bads - #- getting the foolish treatment rn. which is how qBad is feeling! but guys! unreliable narrator come on now!!! #and the thing about qBad is that he is all about pushing other people’s buttons but when it comes to him? he can’t always handle it. there #are exceptions to this rule ofc but he can be quick to react. if this was a rule specific about say foolish? #or Roier even? Cellbit? bad would jump on the chance for the ‘meme’ #he’s aggravated about the presidential position in the first place and is feeling targeted and is going 0-100 #which is the classic qBad and I respect that! it makes him a fun character! hes just an unreliable narrator and we all gotta remember that #idk man #Cellbit’s convo with him about the electoral process really shows that if you were watching one of their POV’s #the chair bit was salt in the wound to be clear and funny as hell but everything else #I dunno I just have been seeing a bunch of takes that are like I get it I see your passion. but qBad isn’t this saint you make him out to be #anyways I cannot wait to see what comes of this ✌️ #edit: forever isn’t immune to this either btw! but he’s trying at least #mcyt #qsmp #bbh #q!forever #z speaks

[soullessjack]

I have a special amount of hatred for jack content where he’s kept as his canon-adult self but has all remnants of his actual personality bludgeoned out of him and is still infantilized to the point where he’s basically just portrayed as having the actual mental capacity of a child. “Jack can’t drink beer he orders apple juice and drinks sippy cups at bars,” “Don’t swear around Jack or he’ll repeat it,” “Jack can’t handle scary movies, he likes [insert silly non-scary media like animal crossing].” etc etc.

obviously I can’t speak for what the actual intent and appeal is, but it. honest to god just feels like a way for spn fans to keep infantilizing jack and get away with it bcit’s more covert than the usual de-aging/normal-baby aus and they think “look, he’s still an adult, we’re not infantilizing him!” is enough to avoid criticism. I don’t know how to tell you this, but if you are registering Jack as an adult and still going out of your way to give them literally infantile traits like sippy cups and not being allowed to say bad words and still fundamentally treating them as if they are a child, that is still infantilization and it is still horrendously ableist—whether the intention was there or not.

It’s not even a matter of ppl “personally seeing” Jack as a child, because he isn’t one regardless of personal opinion and it’s just stupid to insist on something that isn’t there. If you can watch this character basically become a military leader and flirt with a girl and do a whole slew of other things that a child cannot do and still “personally see” them as a child, then maybe you should reconsider why exactly you see them that way when the show very clearly does not, ask yourself if the “childlike” traits you think you’re picking up on aren’t just autistic traits and why you’re so uncomfortable with seeing this character as an adult.

#spn #supernatural #jack kline #spn fandom #jack spn #autistic jack kline #cw ableism #tw infantilization #the way some jack antis think he’s a coddled manchild and then spn fans are like hey wait that sounds awesome! let’s do that! #both of y’all go fuck yourselves Please #fandom ableism #just something I’ve been thinking about a lot…like #even when he isn’t a literal child he’s still seen and treated like one. #‘Jack can’t handle scary movies he needs someone to comfort him and say it isn’t real’ HE IS A FUCKING HUNTER AND HE LOVES HUNTING #HE FOUGHT A FUCKING WAR AND GOT LITERALLY JADED BY HOW MUCH DEATH HE SAW #I cannot fully express how much I fucking hate it here #truly

[tvrningout-a]

i got to finally meet my friends’ baby and i :’ )))) he’s such a cute lil stinker and i am simply smitten 💜

#i’m also thinking about my muses’ reactions to lil babies now bc ofc i am asdfg #chiyo getting all smiley and entering baby talk mode instantly — ma’am is very natural with them tbh! #feels so comfy holding them and doesn’t shy away when they start crying #her grandma would babysit her neighbors’ kid so chiyo had practice pretty young with handling babies #i’m also thinking about yubari and how unsure he feels but so determined and utterly enamored he is #they are so small and he cannot stand it (in a good way) #oh i am so soft rn!!! #i’m also still with my friends but i hope y’all are having a lovely night 💜 #get ready to ramble | ooc

[g0tmilkx3]

Idk why ppl think the writers of the bear are dumb and don’t have a storyboard but these writers are fucking fantastic and I trust them to give us an amazing szn 3 shipping aside they always give us the best writing and god the directing is otherworldly they need to be paid™️ their worth bc I wouldn’t survive a pushback or worse a cancellation 🧿

#yes we all hate how Claire was written BUT hear me out #Claire is supposed to be surface and plain #she’s supposed to easily lift out of the story #they’re using her to show us how carmy literally cannot handle a relationship at allll #him popping off at syd when she let the fishes die is a prime example #side note: they need to stop letting them men yell at my girl like that and talk crazy to her #I need the upmost respect in szn 3 #anyways back to my point #yeah this isn’t a fanfic and it won’t pan out like one at all so give that dream up #I’m not saying that to say there would be no romance I’m saying that to say it’s not gonna be linear #if sydcarmy does happen which I think it will in one way shape or form #I think they’ll write their relationship very languid #I think it’d be one of those things that we don’t expect until it happens #but ya the writers are brilliant and I need y’all to study film or something so it’s easier to understand shows like this #bc so much is said in frames and music #wide shots and closeups too #every detail means something and it’s meticulous #uncle jimmy gave us an entire run down of what would happen with carmy and Claire in his baseball story #did we just ignore that lol

[sayaratyriea]

i am craving Creative Activity so badly but law school sucked away my spoons to write by myself… so i’m reliant on friends and rp… and all my friends want to do is play overwatch (which i don’t play and don’t want to) or watch tv shows which is fundamentally less interesting and does not scratch the itch….. the adhd gremlins are shredding my skull from the inside out at this point :( send help

#taz talks #i hate that my low-spoons ‘want attention’ activity is a high spoons activity for everyone else and nobody wants to do things with me #i have made a personal resolution that every time overwatch starts being played when i am on a call. i will simply leave. #with or without saying anything #they can figure out why :/ #i find no pleasure in watching other people play video games! it is boring! i cannot contribute to that conversation! #it’s fun for a bit to tease them and comment on their comments but i cannot handle it for more than like a half hour before i get bored #or worse… resentful #i don’t watch twitch streams i don’t watch gamer youtube i don’t really even wanna watch a friend stream their game #i don’t care about it it’s boring can we do literally anything else #y’all we’ve been in limbo in the dnd text game for three weeks i have both of you on call can we do things other than overwatch? #answer is apparently No :( #i’m glad they’re having fun and i’m a grown ass adult who is mature so i won’t hold it against them #but i will not lie: i am sad and lonely and a little bit frustrated about it #it feels like pulling teeth when i ask people to rp with me and that makes me sad #if you guys just don’t want to continue the campaign that’s fine but say so

[purpl3padl0ck]

When your daddy issues rear their ugly head bc Joel looks hot asf killing that guy to protect Ellie and do what he never could for his daughter. Most attractive thing ever.

#I WANT AN OLD MAN TO TAKE CARE IF ME LIKE THAT #my daddy issues cannot handle Joel Miller #as soon as he says baby girl i am GONE #see y’all in the next life bc i died and went to hell #like #come treat me like a princess #tell me i’m okay #i would kill to have that man #What is it with people w daddy issues being obsessed with traumatized men that are old enough to be our fathers #I didn’t understand that feeling when i watched game playthroughs as a kid but #boy do i do now