Ok so I was at work today and before I left my mom was like hey we’ll visit you at work today what time do you finish etc etc and she was like ok I’ll text you when we’re on our way and so I go the whole day being like I am waiting for a text from my mother saying that she my dad and my grandma are on their way to the museum and then it gets to the end of my shift and I have received no text so I’m like ok they clearly aren’t coming otherwise they would have let me know so I clock out and leave and ten minutes after my shift ended my mom calls me and is like hey where are you and I’m like hello??? I finished work??? I’m walking back to the car??? And she’s like ok well we are here and I’m like 🧍♂️ ok so I walk back to the museum and I get there and she’s like hey now we can go see the galleries together and I’m like 🧍♂️🧍♂️ girlie last call happened ten minutes ago we cannot go see the galleries because the museum is fully closing in 30 minutes and she’s like oh I didn’t know that and I’m like yeah you should have looked it up?? Or like asked me??? Or like come when I was working my shift because then you can like guarantee that everything is open
Anyways I’m just annoyed and it’s not even that much of an annoying thing I’m just extra annoyed because I’ve had an awful headache all day and I had to do twenty minutes of extra walking around with my parents and my grandma after work when I should have been driving home and listening to a podcast
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just got through the most stressful week of my life because of a combination of work + me battling my own sick and evil mind and just as i’m coming out on the other side i find out that david tennant and michael sheen are neighbors. there are literally new mercies every morning <3
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[medical gaslighting]
Oh and I had to see a different OB/GYN than my normal endo specialist and she was the WORST
She actually suggested that my period and ovulation pain that leaves me vomiting and nearly hallucinating might be “normal” for my body.
And then proceeded to lecture me on IUDs for more than half of my appointment after I explicitly stated that I don’t want one and my normal doctor said it’s not a good plan for me (nevermind the fact that IUDs are contradicted by my connective tissue diseas in the first place)
And then she said I have “too much going on” in my body and need to figure even MORE out before I can even be evaluated for endometriosis. And blamed my pain on tethered cord and “nerve pain signals getting misinterpreted.”
I should have walked out, but I was so dissociated I just sat there, frozen, staring at her in complete disbelief
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"TOXIC positivity for thinking it’s normal to, idk, enjoy the shows you watch."
no, toxic positivity is when a fandom can't take criticism and makes insular bubbles where they harass anyone who falls out of love with a thing or strawmans two different points into one so they can sound smart and win a shower argument.
y'know, like you did when you conflated the railroading and aimless arguments. :/
What’s a shower argument?
Haha wild. Anyways. Still don’t get ppl who have time to hate the things they watch. Seems really sad. Sorry ur in such a place. Hope you learn to love yourself more than that at some point.
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You know, I wonder if one could draw parallels between the Wizard’s attempts to help and save Dasein despite the potential risk to the spiral and Mellori’s attempt to kill spider despite the consequences?
i completely forgot about the context that prompted this ask BUT I DIDNT EVEN REALIZE... this changes everything for me
i think where it differs however is that mellori has that opportunity to do so - the wizard doesn't. we don't get the kind of agency and choice in matters that involve the entire spiral - in a sense, we are a neutral party, and a 'necessary evil'.
and i do tend to think of it them as a necessary evil - at least, perhaps, in the eyes of others. mellori might have thought of it that way when we refused to kill spider even when it meant that the entire spiral would be at risk of falling apart. or maybe perhaps she thought it was the kind of necessary evil she expected us to take even at that cost...
(the moral compass of a divine being is tricky...)
the point is that the wizard has to kind of... accept that this is happening. accept that there wasnt anything they can do to save them, and accept the kind of villainy they're being painted with when having to make the (very often) difficult choices when it comes to dealing with things that go on in the spiral
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