#and im just really kinda pissed off about it

[emphistic]

I saw a post on instagram talking about sukuna being the type to hide a relationship/ being ashamed of his partner but I disagree. (the post kinda pissed me off but im pretty sure it was supposed to be a toxic headcanon so maybe that was the point)

He's totally the type to be in a private relationship instead of a secret one. Where people know who he's dating but keeping their business to themselves. He'd go everywhere with you and not care who the hell sees him. Why bother being with someone if you feel ashamed about them (his words not mine)

Oooh, i've never had a submission before — no idea what that is. I think you had to do that bc my inbox is temporarily closed, haha.

Anyways, i totally agree with you.

Private ≠ Secret

I feel like a lot of people would find Sukuna attractive to the point where he isn't even fazed if he gets hit on, has people slide in his dms, etc. Thus, if he were to get into a relationship, he would probably flaunt his partner around. But not in a bad way. He would do it so people start leaving him alone, y'know?

But, going back to a private relationship: he wouldn't be the type to post pictures and videos of him and his partner 24/7. Still, he wouldn't hesitate to drape his arm over your shoulder, wrap his arm around your waist, or pull you into his side if he saw someone staring at you for too long.

Some people say he would be a voyeur and would be into stuff likewise. But i agree to disagree. I don't think he would even be a pda person, really. But that's just me.

As for your last point: "Why bother being with someone if you feel ashamed about them (his words not mine)" — you could not be any closer to the truth; i totally agree. Like, yeah, Sukuna isn't the best person but i don't see him just leading someone on; he wouldn't get with someone he felt embarrassed of.

#em uses her mouth #are these #sukuna headcanons #also wth is a submission

[kari-go]

Day 14 of @mlbfemslashfebruary

Free day so I did an idea I had for Alila :)

#dunno why but im kinda obsessed with their (non existent) dynamic #alya being annoyed with lila nonstop while lila is just pissing her off for fun #because she knows shes got the upper hand and alya cant really do anything about it #but maybe im just bringing my au into this #my art #miraculous ladybug #alya cesaire #lila rossi #volpina #rena rouge #alila #lialya #itd be really fucking funny if they had to share the fox lmao #trixx would do that just to see the chaos #also just realized that so far the kwamis that cause the most chaos are luxx and his domain lol

[sea-buns]

Holy fuck, man. What a trip Fearne has been on, huh?

You tell her how grateful you are to have her in your life, you flatter her, you tell her you need her, that you have to do this together. You have her make a promise that has this woman, born of chaos and fey, agreeing through shaking hands and a trembling voice.

You make her deceive your friends; you make her follow where they cannot know; you make her help you into this contraption; you make her feed this thing into you despite the fact that you both have been warned extensively of the risks. You make her watch you crumble and splinter and shatter and fracture and burst and implode. You make her watch you die, over and over and over and over, for a minute in agonizing bullet time.

You make her do all these things, because when she tries to back out, when she tries to not be the one who let you do this—how could you do this—

you tell her, "YOU PROMISED."

Because if there's one thing you know, it's that the fey do not break a promise.

#cant wait for her to fucking pissed for a very long time. shes really packing the entire human experience in a very short period of time. #critical role #cr spoilers #c3e77 #fearne calloway #ashton greymoore #bells hells #just gonna get ahead of the um actually mfs and state that i am aware that its not confirmed that thats why ash brought up the promise #but boy howdy would it make for some great drama down the line huh? #edit: apparently i did not get ahead enough cuz ive had to turn off replies #since ppl were somehow interpreting this mini introspection piece as me infantilizing fearne?? #anyway the first line is now changed to something a bit more neutral. after sleeping on it i do see how it was a bit aggressive at the top #other than that im not sure how else to reword without completely disregarding the core of the post #i might make more posts addressing this but im not sure yet. i wanna try to approach it in the best way possible. #but if it helps any the point of the post was not to say fearne had no agency. she had plenty of moments where she tilted one way or the #other. the POINT was to just shine some light on the emotional pressure she had been put under. #hasnt your friend ever asked you to keep a secret or promise that felt wrong or unsafe or made you anxious? #it has nothing to do with the amount of agency she had. ash wasnt holding a knife to her throat and forcing her to follow against her will #all i was trying to do was take this detail about his reminder of the promise that i thought was interesting and have some fun writing an #overview of the kinda stress she was under BEFORE theyd reached that scene. this entire ep was everyone discussing how grateful they were #for this family theyd made. and while im not saying ash was PURPOSELY emotionally manipulating fearne.. #there is a level of unintentional manipulation when you pair the severity of his request with the convo theyd had 2 seconds prior #as well as the desperate need they all have to save each other NO MATTER WHAT. #ash was giving incredibly strong energy of a friend who peer pressures you into helping them do something that you know in your gut WILL #cause problems. hes a fucked up guy. theyre all fucked up guys. even if he didnt mean to “force” her into anything the pressure was THERE. #<- i feel like all of this overall gets my message across. i think maybe ill clean it up later into its own post. #im gonna try not to rush myself to get it done tho. #im under no obligation to explain myself. especially when ppl approach the misunderstanding by being rude af. but i do think it CAN #be clarified so id at least like to try to some degree

[demadogs]

it really hits different when someone, whether its a celebrity or just someone you work with, is a happily out lesbian. obviously im happy for any queer person that comes out but the majority of those who do, at least who i have encountered, are either gay men or bi women. and even tho we’re a part of the same community i still always feel a little isolated and different from them. the majority of my friends are queer but i have zero lesbian friends and it actually really upsets me. when i find out someone is queer im obviously happy but when i find out theyre lesbian i get so happy i wanna cry. its just different.

#im actually full on crying now after i just wrote that goddamnit i just washed my face #this is literally just about a hair stylist on tiktok i love that i knew was queer but i assumed she was bi but just learned shes a lesbian #and she dyed her hair pink and orange and wore a pink and orange dress and earrings today for pride and now im crying #this post is for lesbians #do not reply or rb and tag something related to being bi or a gay man or something itll piss me off this is for LESBIANS #i mean you can rb if youre not lesbian but just dont make it about yourself #i rbd a post that just said ‘lesbians 🩷🧡’ and someone rbd it and said ‘bisexual 💜💙’ and i know #they meant well but it made me unreasonbaly upset #i just sometimes feel like there are a million gays and bis and like 10 lesbians including me #lesbian #pride month #lgbt #it actually makes me cry that i have no lesbian friends #i mentioned it to my bi friend once and granted we were kinda drunk but she just said ‘are we not good enough for you’ and we laughed #but fuck it really makes me sad like im fully crying rn thinking about it #this is so stupid

[leatherbookmark]

my dream portrayal of jgy is that he's an independant character with his own strengths (not lxc's sweet little child-birthing wifey) that get recognition and appreciation (and that aren't 'being a good mommy/rabid event planner, haha, such a control freak this a-yao'), who deserves and gets love (but isn't just a tiny lovely thing whose only purpose is-- do you get my point already i wonder), who's allowed to be in a bad mood (but isn't defined by those moments, which is very important to me personally), but who isn't a cruel or bad person (and whose attempts at explaining his situation to others are taken seriously, and not as just him trying to Manipulate Others As Usual because, and i might be controversial but idqc, if i'm to call a character a gaslighting manipulator i'd like to see cases of him a/ doing it b/ succesfully c/ often, and no, "well he conned lxc into thinking he's not an evil murderous twink, SOMEHOW" doesn't count)

and my problem is that it's, well, as dreams usually are, rather unattainable

#what i mean by 'allowed to be in a bad mood but not defined by them' is that like. i talked about it before but the way the entirety of the #fandom and their moms are convinced modern jgy is sooo cranky when he wakes up and he loooves to bitch and complain and his ^_^ is ALWAYS #AND ONLY a mask hiding murderous rage towards stupid customers. and as an irl misinterpreted character i find this kinda #hurtful because you're not really 'allowed' to do something if this something will get you teased/immediately associated with Being A Perso #Who Does Thing. like the fandom is very bad at recognizing when a character is acting influenced by intense emotions #but like if cql!lxc slaps jgy that doesn't make him a violent person who solves all problems with his fists and is Sooo Scary Haha to be #around haha Don't Piss Him Off. but this happens to jgy a lot in fanfiction and i'm kinda tired of it #give me one (1) fic where jgy can complain about his stupid ass father and his stupid ass job and gets comfort and support #i also don't get people being so into wwx+jgy friendship. like. jgy would be like 'hey please think abt how your behaviour impacts #not only your reputation but also those of your friends and associates' and wwx would be like lmao chill out idc! #and wwx would be like 'wow your life situation sucks you should just tell everyone to kiss your ass and get the fuck out' to which #jgy would be like There Are No Words To Convey How Much I Can't Just Do That and that would be it. idk #anyway. lotsa words when im just being a hater #shrimp thoughts

[mbat]

ive been bingeing the pie playlist lately and. ghost really does have to say toast is his partner every single time huh. okay fruit

#taleblr #my post #am i insane to say that- nvm i shouldnt say it. nvm i will #why are all of jordans characters kinda fruity. hello #IM SORRY #its been killing me #papa acachalla is like the least fruity though #i do mostly just think its funny to call any of the characters that cause i know it would probably piss off jordan #and i think it would be funny to make him mad #the puppet arc really does emphasize ghost and toasts whole thing though doesnt it. truly a 'you dont know what you have till its gone' #please tell me someone else sees what i see. like i know almost all of us agree about toasted ghost but. #i would like to clarify that aside from it being funny. theyre so fruity though. the characters

[princekirijo]

Mordred as a persona is so refreshing for me to draw because while I put a lot of thought into other persona designs with Mordred I just went "big dark half rotten dragon :]" and ran with it

#oc tag #literally just me saying fuck the rules and having fun #by rules i mean general design conventions + my own rules lol #whenever im really pissed off about something i draw him its so cathartic #its also really fun because ive always wanted to draw dragons but never knew how #so im kinda learning through him and its really fun making inner child me happy u know #you could argue that mordred not looking like a persona is like deliberate cause his awakening is unnatural #but eh whatever hes really just self indulgent #ive been thinking a lot about him and black mask lately ngl #id love the share the new design with ye but honestly most of these sketches im doing are for me and me alone so #sorry u guys know i love talking about my persona designs and im just not having a good time rn so #ramble about the big scary dragon persona time it is ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

[volfoss]

I really hope it'll get better as the game goes on (as I'm pretty early on) but the way the Witcher 3 is treating ciri as an adult versus geralt feels weird to me 👍 like she's got a full face of makeup practically and a fantasy bra. I wish I was fucking joking like they put her in a (sheer wet white :/) blouse with it being torn open in the middle to reveal a super duper supportive bra (this is sarcasm it's like. Barely fucking covering or holding anything.). Now obviously I do NOT expect a fantasy game to be realistic with undergarments but to pretty much have the clothing decisions reflect modern bras but again only for ciri (so far. Again I am not far into this but her character design OHHH they did some shit with her in a bad way!!). Like this isn't even offering structure or anything (her bra strap (which of course is revealed because her shirt is slipped to the side enough to show that) is maybe a half inch thick) and I again do not expect them to keep the historical accuracy but it's so clear it's just for objectification. Not even to go into the like. Fact her shirt is cropped (which so far I have not seen with geralt but again early on 👍) and cropped enough that it pairs so good with the skinny jeans so that playing in 3rd person is so clearly just catering to players that are objectifying her. Like the fact that she has literally no armor on in this first appearance (minus a. Leather corset because of fucking course they did) and it's just so clear that the player base really does not seem to respect her (as in I was looking for armor mods and the countless amount of mods that were just like ok she's tits out and in a tiny bikini bottom. Nothing of hey here's some cool armor for her ^-^ which is all they have for geralt). Not even to get into her heeled boots which like. Are so fucking impractical I'm so sorry but you want her to be running and fighting when she is having to be in heels. It's um 👍 very weird and offputting to me because they're giving her sweet character moments (again very early on but seeing her in the bloody Baron quest line was so frustrating) and then are like oh yeah we are going to make her so sexualized and so perfectly polished pretty girl despite having fallen into a mud puddle moments before. She plays so so much like they're trying to make her so dainty and feminine like. She's supposed to be strong and when you see this kid tell her that oh she's stronger than this kids dad for killing all these wolves, and then you see her toothpick arms. And it's like god idk I do not expect her to play the same as geralt (since he's 6 ft+ and built like a fridge in this game) but she plays so like??? In the way that it doesn't feel natural with her movements because there's so much focus on look how she's sashaying as she walks (wish I was joking 😞 but she resembles that one batman video game sashay gif) and it's idk. It's very weird to me and I hope it gets better but for rn I'm like honestly frustrated w it 👍

#twist rambles #sorry i was playing a lot of the witcher 3 last night and met adult ciri and am still kinda mad about it today 👍 #long post #probably man idk this is smth that rly pissed me off last night #like ive really enjoyed the game so far but with both how theyre treating her and what they did to geralts face compared to the first 2 + #games its like i have minor gripes <- wants that man to be more offputting and less yassified #also sorry mutuals who dont care about this but consider im so so silly and can get rly frustrated over this #i love ciri i just wish it wasnt like this. i understand the game is so good at sexualizing women but theyre painting her as a strong woman #and then doing this to her like. it's just eye candy :/

[roostertuftart]

I hate the people who needlessly villainize Kyle but I am also not loving what feels like a general insistence that Kyle’s intentions must be perfectly pure and he can’t have any selfish/problematic thoughts or behaviour and his anger can never be misplaced

#LIKE I agree with most of these as a general but guys!! he can be a dick! #he sometimes defaults of anger unnecessarily and quicker than others (probs bc he’s learned this response as a defense mech) #idk there’s probs more points I could present and I don’t think this is a problem with one person #even if I was spurred on by a post that came off a little like this to me #it’s just a general culture in the fandom I’m starting to see #I get it! I get the frustration with him being depicted as secretly bad inside #I hate it too. it’s really unfounded stuff that puts down the genuine food we’ve seen of him and his obvious effort to do what’s right #but like. idk. as much as I like uplifting his character as good I don’t like seeing this weirdness about him ever holding a selfish thought #or doing s problematic #Idk im getting rambly. it just feels like how the fandom either goes far one way or far the other when it’s a little more center leaning in #reality #I think also im uncomfortable with this bc a lot of these behaviour people criticize literally feel like trauma responses/etc #or really understandable learned behaviour. stuff like that. and treating it like it’s just him being depicted as bad when it’s moreso him #being depicted with unhealthy behaviour bc of the bad stuff that has happened to him makes me kinda pissed #he has trauma!! traumatized people tend to develop unhealthy habits and it’s okay to depict that especially when the show supports these #ideas even if only through humour #like do what you want ofc say what you want but yeah that’s my take #kyle broflovski #me talking #i gotta make a post about my feelings on kyle being shown as angry without reason too bc I agree it’s annoying in some cases #where he’s just a nasty bitch about anything for no reason bc haha angry character #but also it can be done right in the manner of this kid is stressed the fuck out and sometimes reacts unhealthily with anger bc it’s defense #this is not about the kyman zine to be clear idk how anyone would confuse this post for defending it but making sure #in general I’m still super defensive of Kyle being an extremely good person I’m just also defensive of Kyle being depicted as having #realistic struggles that make sense for the trauma he’s experienced and how these can somehow be toxic for himself and other people and #result in him sometimes doing bads bc being blinded by anger/getting angry quickly as a stress response/etc

[nerdie-faerie]

My entire uni process since I applied three years ago has just been accompanied by a series of my parents getting pissed at me about information they made up, like how are you mad at me about stories you created

#Uni shenanigans #+Extra #personal #ace is a grumpy bean #im sorry theyve really set me off i cant even deal with my own sht without them making up a problem to be mad at me about even when im not #there like fck i already moved to the other side of the country which sure its not far but was the best i could do without a passport #im kinda dealing with all my childhood trauma right now its kinda bringing it all back for some reason #but its been like this the whole time they convince themselves they know things and then get mad about them when thats not even the case #and its not like they fcking listen to me anyway when im the one actually experiencing it and its not like i dont lie to them #i absolutely do but those arent the things they get mad about which makes it extra bizarre #like asking my dad to be my guarantor for my flat last year and i explained that it was the same as first year but instead of being #assigned random flatmates i would be with my friends and he was like 'oh you want me to be your friends guarantor and pay their rent? #im not doing it' and i was like ?? no you theyre parents have already agreed to be their guarantors were all paying separate rents for #separate rooms its the same as last year but i dont get assigned a random flatmate and you didnt pay my rent last year what #and then he started claiming he wasnt my guarantor last year but you cant rent without a guarantor as a student? and i certainly didnt #have a rental history before first year so obviously i needed one what are you on and he just kept getting pissed that i was tryna force #him to pay my friends rent its just been that kinda sht over and over for 3 years with a side of threatening my autonomy when im home #im just so tired and fcking frustrated and i just wanna lose my sht at him about it cus its not like we talk we dont have a relationship #and yet hes still finding things to have a problem with me about when i got enough to deal with as is like youre not getting money from me #right now do you want me to starve? i got grocery and laundry money and tuition thats it there aint no spare money you shouldnt have made #poor financial decisions so you could bully money out of me assuming id be home for the summer only for it to backfire cus #now you owe sht and moneys tight and i aint coming back

[pretty-little-martyr]

hot take of the day which will probably get me lambasted now and in 10 years will be an opinion considered "correct" or whatever: calling everyone who's polyamorous ugly, or implying that wanting to be polyamorous makes people ugly, is actually really really shitty. and we should stop doing that. I will never understand the kinds of people who will reblog 20 posts about smashing beauty standards and then reblog other posts about how ugly polyamorous people look and Yes while I love their work I am absolutely side-eyeing Chris Fleming's video on polyamorous people where they literally compare polyam folks to donkeys lmao it's just something that always strikes me as mean, and cruel, and not useful at all.

are there polyam people who fetishize bi people (usually referred to as "unicorn hunters")? yeah absolutely and you should call them out for fetishization .... not call them ugly beasts ..... are there polyam people who are shitty with boundaries and try to pressure friends into being their thirds/fourths? yeah and you should call them out for coercion... not call them ugly beasts!

idk man it just strikes me as SO weird how commonplace it is to equate being polyamorous with being ugly. especially while in the same social justice spaces that recognize how bullshit and eurocentric beauty standards are. and dont give me that "we mean ugly on the INSIDE" bullshit because 1) No You Do Not lmao and 2) do tell me why it's ok to generalize this whole Concept of people under "ugliness on the inside." give me a good reason that isnt either some weird moralizing about how it's cheating (it's Not, by the way, those are two separate things, and cheating Is shitty yes) or something equivalent i.e. "it's unnatural". ESPECIALLY do not hit my transgay ass with how "unnatural" it is, you will not be heard ! thanks.

#idk sorry i saw a really shitty mean tweet about this polyam throuple who are literally just living their lives #nd it pissed me off #disclaimer: im not polyam myself. im aroace and kind of do not give a shit #i have had 0 relationships of a romantic nature because im not very interested in them #this is wholly a connecting-dots kind of deal #nnd something i from an outsider perspective consider Kinda Fucked Up!