#all lesbians are valid as fuck

[the-gentleman-of-the-dark]

Another problem of the "non-men loving non-men" lesbianism definition is that it completely based on binary system. A lot of people will say that lesbianism is inclusive for nonbinary folks... But what about bigender people? Genderfluid people? People who identify with man and with nonman at the same time? Multigender people in general? They all can be man and nonman at the same time, like me for example!

Some identities aren't that simple.

Being queer isn't fitting in any boxes, it's being yourself. So if you don't support all good-faith identities... I will surprise you, but you're literally a queerphobe.

#lesbian #queer #mspec lesbian #lesboy #non binary lesbian #rad inclus #excluses dni #queer community #all lesbians are valid as fuck

[heartslobbf]

hater alert! far too many people say that juri’s character arc ‘isn’t about her being sad about being gay, it’s about being sad about unrequited love that happens to be gay’ and. well. that is not true and by saying that you are completely flattening the brilliance of juri’s character arc which literally culminates in her being able to accept her own lesbianism despite her unrequited love, despite all her shame and self-loathing, despite this pursuit by Some Fucking Guy to try and ‘save’ her from these feelings. like if you think juri’s entire character is just ‘sad about shiori’ how do you appreciate even a modicum of the emotion packed into that final juri duel. it is both about shiori and, even broader, her lesbian identity and what that means to her intrinsically as a person, removed from romantic relationships and just purely as like. you know. Who She Is. the idea that even when juri’s locket is cut from her neck she is still a lesbian that’s still who she is and she cant change that and, crucially, she doesn’t want to even as she is agonised by these feelings. that’s why she forfeits the duel!!!! she’s clocking out she’s quitting she’s saying no!!!!!! this is me and ive got to be ok with that this is me and i can accept that this girl might not love me and i can keep living despite that. like. god im so normal arisugawa juri im so sorry that no one understands you and your intrinsically unapologetically lesbian storyline like i do

#ok got that out of my system now (rewatched ep 29 duel too many times) #revolutionary girl utena #rgu #idk i just see that argument so much and it makes me so sad #bc i get where ppl r coming from there r a lot of unnuanced ‘sad bc gay’ narratives out there #but juri’s whole arc is about actively challenging and deconstructing that idea #and it deals with the sadness that comes with being closeted with knowing youre gay and not really liking that about yourself #and eventually she does accept and embrace that aspect of herself but CRUCIALLY she doesnt do it via romantic validation #in fact she does it in the face of like. All Opposition Ever #no one says hey juri if you were gay that’d be totally fine actually haha #ruka tries to save her from her lesbianism!!!!!!!! like!!!!!!! #it is juri and juri alone who makes this resolution and that is just So Fucking Important to me #shes so. she is the queer character of all time to me i literally dont care no one else will ever come close #LIKE!!!!!!! THE CASTLE WEEPING ON HER WHEN SHE MAKES HER CHOICE!!!!!!! #accepting that part of yourself and having the symbol of matrimony and heteronormativity WEEP over you #no one ever validates juri’s choice to accept her queerness but she keeps making that choice #and her in episode 37…….. god i just might keel over and die girls when juri utena touga parallels…… #anywayyyyyyy love and light i love juriposting #shut up daisy

[waddles-ex-machina]

actually the best thing about season 3 is how fucking VINDICATED i feel as a hardcore johanna fan right from the airing of the first season. up til season 2 aired i was what felt like the ONLY person stanning her in this space and no one cared yeah yeah she's just hilda's boring mom but jokes on you she's also INSANE and wields a BUZZSAW and has more lore than any other character in the entire show. you all LAUGHED at me but LOOK WHO'S LAUGHING NOW

#she was cool before she got all the angst and lore btw #but it rly feels like. like betting on a horse at the races i bet on the right character to get severe years-long brainrot about #this vindication was 5 years in the making #i know there are other ppl stanning johanna (ppl with good taste) #but i swear some time ago i saw wife say smth in a tag like 'i thought back in the day waddles was the only jo stan' and felt SO validated #bc for a while it sure Felt like it was just me and my lesbianism in the jo fan club #anyway i was Right All Along #watching the finale like yeah that's my fucking WIFE!!!! #THE character EVER thanks for coming to my ted talk #ah wait #hilda season 3 spoilers #hilda spoilers #hilda s3 #hilda s3 spoilers #Hilda the series #Hilda season 3 #Hilda netflix

[lesbiansanemi]

I hate self proclaimed “queer theorists” on this stupid fucking website because 90% of their posts are like “All lesbians are terfs because gender can change which makes sexuality obsolete so that means lesbians automatically hate trans ppl <3 What about gay men you ask? No, it’s different, don’t ask me to elaborate <3 Haha I love trans women so much *insert most insane transmisogynistic take three lines down* And this is all real and true because I am a boygirl fagdyke and I said it is !!!!! Btw if you argue or point out any flaws here it’s because you’re an awful evil gate keeping exclusionist >:( Peace and love go firebomb a Walmart” and then somehow the post has 563782922992737228 reblogs of ppl agreeing

#also if you look at their blogs you can usually scroll for less than five minutes before finding something racist too #and something aphobic #I need to stop venturing into tags jfc I cannot take this stupid fucking website anymore #you’re all like ‘yayyyyy gay ppl! trans love!!!!! not lesbians tho 😡’ #and then think installing shinigami eyes is the best thing you can ever do for trans women #I hate it here #sorry tried going into some tags to try and find more ppl to follow cuz my dash has been kinda dead #and stumbled a post that was like ‘it’s perfectly valid and okay to be DISGUSTED by lesbians btw <33333’ #and I lost my mind #kaz rambles

[princessefemmelesbian]

Well would you look at this. 😵‍💫 Because obviously if you dare say anything as wild and controversial as “lesbians don’t like men, please stop using a label that hurts us and tries to force men into our identity” you’re a raging terf radfem transmisogynist. Because obviously ONLY trans women use the bi lesbian label and it’s not like there are transfem lesbians who are rightfully against the label as well or anything and it’s not like terfs use the label to refer to cis lesbians who date trans women and why can’t you just let people identify as how they want of course lesbians like men stop the infighting already if you disagree with me that lesbians can like men then surely that’s because you’re an exclusionist gatekeeper who hates trans women.

#lesbian #anti-bi lesbian #trans women #lesbophobia #the raging hatred for lesbians on this site is getting to an all-time high tall will stop at NOTHING to gaslight us and make us out to be #hateful terf bitches for our sexuality #how many times are we going to do this same old song and dance #no i will not calm down i will be taken seriously #you CANNOT be a bi women as a lesbian idfc if you’re trans or cis #lesbians do not like men and bi women shouldn’t have to ‘oick a side’ by calling themselves lesbians #it’s absurd maddening and sad how little y’all respect us #and trans women always have a place in the lesbian community that doesn’t mean that ACTUAL MEN DO #shit #trying to frame this as ‘well you must be a terf if you are against bi lesbians’ is a shitty move and you’re not being original or clever #go fuck yourself #trans lesbians exist and are valid and the bi lesbian label hurts them just like it hurts cis lesbians if anything it hurts them more so #and i will block ANYONE who supports bi lesbians it doesn’t matter if they’re a trans woman a cis woman a trans man non-binary etc idfc #stop trying to frame this as exclusionary radfem rhetoric #bi lesbian as a term DOES support corrective rape idgas what lesbophobes like you want to say about it #that’s all goodbye #sorry but this got me mad you do not get to use transmisogyny as a clutch to spout blatant ass lesbophobia #i’m so tired of this shit #blocklist #op

[doomdoomofdoom]

There's something so funny to me about posts that are like "Here's my microlabel! :D Anyway, if you use this other microlabel, go fuck yourself, you are a bigot" Like bestie,,, the queerphobes arent going to let you live because you were mean to someone. The microlabel gang isn't your enemy, they're your inherent ally. You're siblings. Go play in the dirt together.

#ramble #queer #lgbtq #queer solidarity #be fuckin nice to each other for fucks sake #microlabels #labels for everyone who wants them #trans #transgender #lesbian #bisexual #gay #nonbinary #youre all valid ok #its not a competition #were not going to run out of valid

[theevilicecreamsoda]

You know what, for a community that’s supposed to be about “loving” each other and being a community we sure do jack shit. We’ll be like “everyone’s welcome 😊” then “erm except you, you arent queer enough, you havent suffered enough” is that all we are? Are we only fucking valuable to you if we fucking suffer? Is that the only reason im queer? Because i have been hurt? If thats all this fucking community is then i dont want to be queer. If this community decides its going to be hellbent on picking and choosing who or what belongs then fuck you all. If this community only focuses on the pain and suffering people have felt then ignore that of others then fuck you all. Grow the hell up.

#GOD the stupid ‘erm cis hetreo aromantics ARENT queer enough’ poll is getting to me #like seriously you people are children #you will seriously quabble about the DUMBEST shit like you dont care about other queer people #you dont you fucking dont you just want to get mad over the internet #what a fucking joke #anyways aromantic people are valid #also like i can bet 100% most of those people who said no on that poll probably also think more obsecure parts of the queer community arent #valid either like i can guarantee they shit on things like neopronouns or obsecure identites #this is exactly why we had the bi-lesbian discourse like fuck you all fr #‘queer community’ half of you wont accept other queer people like what a fucking joke

[catboyfurina]

Idk what precisely to call it since honorifics aren't Pronouns but vertin using she/her while routinely being addressed as Lord, sir, etc is soooooooo 🥰 it's like mixed pronouns but not.

#beeep #i love reverse 1999 #like shes not a he him lesbian but like yknow !!! #theres not a quick and easy shortcut for it but shes definitely sapphic and im leaning more lesbian hc than bi tbh !!!! #(which btw bi women can also be gnc and use he him in a wlw way) #(i just think vertin lesbian) #(but i KNOW shes sapphic) #AND HOW SHES USUALLY a my lord SPECIFICALLY when addressed by the girl so down bad for her???? gay as fuck #<- this isnt spoilers bc all the women wont her #well okay thats not precisely true. but a great deal of them do #anyway. i just hope that it isnt a translation error bc goes crazy ahhhh #shes a gentleman..... #and also i think vertin needs to meet a guy who isnt evil bc (possibly nb) lesbian and trans guy bestie duo is one of my favorite tropes #but so far she only interacts with evil people and or girls that wont her 😔😔😔 #which is so valid but also 😔😔😔 vertin u need platonic friends too. friends that arent desperately hoping you will push them out of danger #and land on top of them and gaze into their eyes #(or just hoping to make out) #(there are both types of wonts her in this game) #(along with a secret third kind) #anyway #rhvjvdjgdjvbjdbkrbkdjb vertin #i have to. be a person. i have to be a person but instead my brain is just full of WOW GAME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! #anyway vertin has like. fancy oldtimey gentleman gnc going on #not so gnc by modern standards that it would make Certain People mad but enough that it is making Me very happy #and i just !!!!! cannot get over how genius it is to combine sheher pronouns with traditionally masculine terms of address!!!!!!! #shes so gender. not my gender but she has so much gender #i love vertin and i love regulus and i love druvis and i love the fool and i love tooth fairy who isnt out yet but i saw her in that one vid #eo #i was expecting to play this so casually like stick it on my phone and then i can do it while waiting for class when im there a few minutes #early but i do Not feel casual about this at all!!!!!!!!!!!! <- i think i got hyperfixated lads

[sirenium]

Me: *looks up stuff relating to radical inclusion*

Google: hey pal you want multiple links to the truscum subreddit???

#no the fuck I do not #'anyone who isn't a woman isn't a lesbian' okay so forgetting about lesboys for now #that literally excludes non-binary lesbians. but honestly that checks out most truscum don't believe in non-binary people💀 #this is why I have so much respect for people who get out of those spaces because it's just such a rigid and hurtful echo chamber #fuck transmeds #anti truscum #transgender #trans #genderqueer #lesbian #all lesbians are valid #get your heads out of your asses exclusionists for the love of whatever #nonbinary lesbian #he/him lesbian #lesboy

[apollos-boyfriend]

there’s absolutely nothing wrong with having previously identified with a lot of microlabels only to have realized those weren’t for you and only identifying as one or two things now, but if you list out all the microlabels you used to go by and have the punchline be “oh isn’t it CRAZY i identified as SO MANY things lol 🤪 i was so WEIRD and CRINGE back then 🤣” i am blowing you up with my mind

#icarus speaks #neg #discourse #SHUT THE FUCK UP #first of all. let people explore. there’s nothing wrong with hoarding labels. if it makes them feel comfortable who gives a fuck #second of all. who gives a fuck. #who is being harmed by someone identifying as a pangender androgynous demisexual grayromantic lesbian. tell me. #who gives a fuck. let people live their lives. just because it’s not for you doesn’t mean you have to be a dick about it #i used to like spinach but now i don’t and you don’t see me throwing a hissy fit over it #did you get it? did you get the cishet validation you’re desperately craving? #how do those boots taste huh? do they taste good?

[action-not-despair]

putting on my clown nose if she doesnt live but rosamund gives off such big aroace vibes. she walks into a church for her wedding. there is no husband, but her sisters are there. the briars had a hundred years to approve of a prince, and their corpses litter her kingdom. she wants true love because shes been told it's what she should want, because it will break her curse.

#rey rambles #neverafter spoilers #dimension 20 #d20 neverafter #princess rosamund du prix #rosamund du prix #having some feelings folks #ik some people are saying lesbian for the same reasons (valid) #but that church scene really got to me #also we all agree that her other sister is snow white right? yeah? #man snow white is a fucked up fairytale. grosses me tf out #cant wait to see what brennan does w it #esp bc tapestry (the kingdom next to elegy) has apples all over it

[bwloodinjwection]

Today a Radfem told a bunch of people that they were trans "inclusive" but then ended up misgendering a trans person 3 times in a row because they pissed them off.

After that i came across their post being very terfy, excluding nonbinary people and saying they weren't trans, saying you need dysphoria to be trans (u dont lol), saying he/him lesbians aren't valid and so much more shit

And just to put the icing on the cake, they are a cis woman. If you don't experience the oppression that comes with being trans + never been trans in the first place, your opinion is invalid.

Also he/him lesbians existed waaaaay longer than chronically online tiktok lesbians, its literally part of lesbian history. lmao.

radfems arent safe, they arent inclusive towards trans people and they sure dont give a fuck about lesbians either. They are dirt, thats what all radfems are. All of them are terfs or spread terf rethoric in some way or another.

#fuck radfems #anti radfem #anti exclusionist #radfems dni #queerphobia #enbyphobia #he him lesbians are valid fr fr #i just wish yall would just accept that radfems are trash #all radfems are either transphobic racist or misogynistic #they do not care about any women that includes trans women

[lokiiied]

i love pirates of the gayerbilesbian

#all hcs are valid (unless u think they’re straight lol) these are just mine ! #so in my hc #will and jack definitely fuck #will and elizabeth love each other in a queerplatonic way #elizabeth has a pirate gf #bi elizabeth and lesbian elizabeth are both so valid i couldn’t choose #will is in love with jack but knows jack is aro and that’s fine! #they’re not a couple #potc #captain jack sparrow #will turner #elizabeth swann #commodore norrington #lgbtq+

[uncanny-tranny]

I don't necessarily see the whole "your actions are what define your sexuality, not your identity! If you say you're queer, your actions need to prove it!" as helpful to anybody at this point.

There are way too many examples I can include in this post as to why that exclusionist mindset is unhelpful and damaging to queer people, but I don't know if that's even helpful. I suppose that because I used to subscribe to this idea to an extent, it always felt like my queerness was a performance I did for others. I didn't feel fully in control of my decisions because I had to "prove my queerness." It's part of the reason my sexuality feels so complex now, perhaps; what performance am I listening to?

Queer actions can be part of your queer identity, but it isn't the only aspect of being queer. It isn't helpful to force people to have proof that they are "truly" gay/lesbian/bisexual/asexual/queer in general. How are you entitled to other peoples' queer identity?

#lesbian #gay #bi #bisexual #queer #lgbt #lgbtq #i see this so much more in queer spaces and it's like... cishets already question our validity. why do you do the same? #i've dated men and women and it's felt like in some ways i had to preform queerness. i had to prove that i am correct in how i identify #because i wasn't believed. i was made to prove all my identities were right for me #this also happens in trans spaces too... #...where you have to preform transness in some way (this was really common in transmedical spaces i will admit) #(i don't take acephobes seriously but i have seen this line of thinking even from ace-friendly people) #<- previous tag was because i said that i saw an acephobe who was saying the 'prove your identity through actions' and tumblr fucked it up #thanks for being so reliable tumblr! /s