#WISH I KNEW THIS SOONER

[angelicgaming1007]

Just incase no one else was aware. You can set tiktoks as phone wallpapers?! with SOUND?! So Astarion is now one my phone specifically this tiktok

#astarion #baldurs gate 3 #tiktok #gee the more you know #Wish I knew this sooner #I feel dumb

[aizawas-upper-left-wisdom-tooth]

As an aro/ace. I've come to find that people are a lot like knifes. Some knifes are janky and ugly looking, some are gorgeous and make me happy to look at them, while most knifes are just knifes. But no matter how attractive a knife is, I don't wish to kiss it nor have it near my privates.

#aro positivity #aromantic #asexual #ace pride #knife mention #aroace #people #wish i knew this sooner #dont know whats not to get

[phoenixmetaphor]

bonus:

#my fanart #resident evil #chreon #leon kennedy #leon s kennedy #chris redfield #leon knew what he was signing up for #chris has been embarrassing since claire was a child leon stood no chance #wish i had this idea sooner so i didn’t have to haul ass to get it done before x-mas #but we’re here now #merr chrismas to those that celebrate #and domestic chreon holiday fluff for all

[puppyeared]

Plant life

#I learned I can resize and crop the canvas 😭 I wish I knew I could do that sooner #feeling out of it so sorry for the lack of funnies and drawings #have a Xin Ya in this trying time #my art #myart #doodles #lmk oc #fan oc #my oc #oc #xin ya #lego monkie kid #lmk

[solidsnakecake]

So I learnt when Solidus is choking Raiden, Raiden can withstand the ordeal better if he stares at Solid Snake in the corner...interesting.

Like staring at Solid gives Raiden oxygen. Literally motivates him to hold his breath better. Motivates him to live and endure.

Storytelling in game mechanics.

Source

#kinda deep #i wish i knew this sooner #metal gear #metal gear solid #raiden #solid snake #mgs raiden #snavid #metal gear raiden #hideo kojima

[unicornrepublic]

Idk where else to put this but I just need to let y'all know. If you have any BFRBs, I really can't recommend NAC enough. I have trichotillomania, dermatillomania, and dermatophagia and they have gotten SO bad recently. Especially the trich. My psychiatrist said he saw a study that said taking N-acetyl cysteine or NAC tablets help, but none of his clients have tried it so he told me to let him know if it works.

I've only been on them for 3 weeks and I have seen such major difference, I'm pulling and biting and picking way way way less frequently now. Sometimes I feel like I go a whole day without it. I feel like I can finally see a light at the end of the tunnel. It's a supplement so you don't need a prescription, I got a bottle for $8 at The Vitamin Shoppe. I take 1200 mg daily but I see some people say they need to take 1800-2400 for it to help.

After feeling out of control for so long I feel like I'm finally gaining some semblance of control back and I feel a lot happier and more confident. Now I just have to wait for everything to grow back lol. But please look into it if you haven't found anything else that works!

#bfrb #trichotillomania #dermatillomania #dermatophagia #NAC #i promise im not sponsored lmao but i wish i knew about this sooner

[arthursfuckinghat]

Albeit, I'm only on chapter three of my first rdr2 playthrough, but this game has really taught me a lot so far.

I was getting really frustrated and caught up in the fact that my honour level would go up and down when I was striving to be the 'highest honour', I'd do good deeds to make up for story missions that lowered my honour (e.g breaking Micah out of jail and killing all those lawmen) and after listening to how Arthur described himself to Jimmy Brooks - I get it now.

Arthur doesn't see the honour scale like we do.

That sounds obvious, I know, but he is aware of his actions (the good and bad) and knows the consequences, he would help out strangers as quickly as he would rob them if they wronged him. He doesn't see himself as a good man, an honest man yes, but he knows he has done bad as much as he has done good.

That's how he was raised, it's what he knows works and keeps him alive.

He has seen good people be wronged and taken advantage of, he has seen bad people and how little they are respected and unwelcomed. He saw and is seeing the downfall of the outlaw lifestyle.

But that's another thing, the people in this game aren't just [good] or [bad]. The game does a fantastic job at showing you all the grey, muddled areas between those two 'categories'. Arthur himself cannot be categorised as exactly good or bad, that's a factor in what makes his character so fascinating.

This has helped me a lot in my game progression. I don't need to make up for my choices if they benefitted my gang, I don't need to save every stranger that claims to be innocent as they're being dragged to jail by lawmen, I don't need to get myself further into trouble dealing with that. I already have bounties on my head, sinking deeper into that will do more harm than good for my Arthur.

I don't need to prove that I'm good, when that isn't how Arthur is.

I can change this anytime I please, but finding the comfortable area between doing good at no expense of my own and doing good at the expense of others is tricky at first.

I let the people at the first train heist go free, that ended up with the government workers getting a tip about Dutch being around, and Leviticus Cornwall himself demanding for Dutch.

I could have killed those people so they wouldn't have ratted us out, but I didn't. So now, instead of just choosing the option that is "good" in my mind, I have to choose more wisely. Even if it kills people.

#this game has me in a chokehold #im so deeply in love #I'm usually late to games anyways but I wish the game was more popular in my country #I wish I knew about this sooner #but! I have it now!! #at last #no spoilers please #rdr2 #arthur morgan #mick squeaks #red dead redemption 2 #liveblogging

[trans-lass-with-tea-glass]

I saw THIS today when a friend mentioned becoming one of nami's patron peps or whatever and this BASTARD stole my attention cause toffee owning a malt body pillow make me love them more than anything in the world they're so CRINGE and I LOVE THEM this is fuckin hilarious

#syrup and the ultimate sweet #random thing from today #nami you are so delightful for giving them this #wish I knew sooner #also thank you my friend for allowing me to know this exists #gaaaah I wanna seee them snugglin it

[candyje11yfish]

wahhhh i didn't get to boop you!

take this instead :3

thanks! :3 (what is boop)

#ask mari #im assuming its an april fools thing?????? #nooooo i wish i knew about this sooner i want boop :( (whatare boops)

[gideonisms]

have y'all heard about sitting still in one spot and zoning out staring until you just feel like Static then waiting a few minutes for your body to give you the updates and decide you're hungry or thirsty? sound of the summer

#been getting really into sitting still and humming nothing in particular like a creepy child from a horror movie #i wish someone had told me about this sooner. it's literally like waiting for your laptop to install the updates #it's so funny #the exact opposite of all mental health advice which tells you to always stay in touch with your body #i pretend i don't have one for 5 minutes and then i'm miraculously all better #i fucking KNEW there was a life hack i hadn't tried

[transmascissues]

so deeply uncomfortable right now listening to my roommate (who is not a trans man) talking about how it’s wrong to “let” trans men use certain labels for their identity.

this, of course, being the same roommate who implied that i should put myself in physical danger by going into the men’s room because me being in the women’s room might make someone feel weird.

i should be asleep right now but i’m so furious listening to this. out of all the people in this dorm full of trans people, this is who i have to live with.

#they also said that people never tell gay men to try liking women which is...so wildly out of touch??? #i wish they showed their true colors sooner so i couldve switched out tbh #god they would hate me if they knew a single one of my opinions. this room would get hostile FAST #i hate it here #transandrophobia #transandromisia #transmisandry #virilmisia #virilphobia #anti transmasculinity

[violetclowns]

Tiffany Fox appreciation post 💞🖤

#She’s so cute I wish I knew about her sooner #shut up reese #dc #tiffany fox #league of batgirls #lucius fox #batwing #Luke fox #Lucas fox #Batman #batfam #batgirl #barbara gordon #bruce wayne #batfamily #bat family

[bunnyandcoffeeposts]

Saving a Bad Situation

If you ever have a day/outing/conversation that just isnt going the way you want it to, everything just feels icky and wrong, and youre starting to think absolutely nothing can salvage it, consider Starting It Over! Not everything is going to perfectly all the time, but if you feel like you're losing control of a situation this play-pretend strategy can help you get back on course! Here are some ways we've used Starting Over to help get things back on the right track:

We were having quite a yucky morning - We woke up because of a bad dream, our morning tea wasn't made right, we forgot to eat breakfast until we were way too hungry, and we found out the plans for the day had changed drastically. It felt like the whole day was going to be miserable. So we Started Over! We got back into bed and set an alarm for 5 or 10 or 15 minutes, then closed our eyes and just laid under the covers hugging a stuffie until our "reset period" was over. We could pretend that the change of plans had been made the night before and so that was now just the plan for the day "like always", we remade our "first" cup of tea, reminded ourself to put toast on, and that bad dream was from "yesterday" morning!

Through neither person's intention, an important conversation was miscommunicated or misinterpreted, or a little bit of both. We both were long past upset and neither of us wanted to snap at each other. So, I said that I'd Like to Start the Conversation Over. We hung up our call, we both took a deep breath, and used our own mistakes, and our now better understanding of the other person's thoughts and needs to work through the conversation more carefully and considerately. We started the call over, greeted each other just like we hadn't talked at all that day, pretend that the previous talk never happened, but still had a productive and positive talk

I really wanted to play video games with Mama, and Mama really wanted to play video games with me! So, understandably, she moved rooms to the computer that has her games on it. I wasn't sure on how to communicate beforehand that I wasn't ready to change rooms, so the quick change with no transition period made me feel jostled and upset. So i said "I'm almost ready to go to the computer" and put in censored text that i would like to play pretend for a few minutes. We both pretended that we were still in bed and when i felt comfortable enough said that i was ready to "go" to the new room, covered my eyes for a few moments as we "went to the new room" and then took a few minutes to get adjusted. Physically we stayed sitting at the computer the whole time because there are a number of stairs in between, but it still gave me the effect of that transition period i needed

This is something mainly used with the littles or on days where emotional regulation is more challenging, but that doesn't mean that its little or autistic exclusive; everyone needs to hit the reset button sometimes! No, not everything in life is going to go exactly how we want it to, and we all need to be able to adapt to things out of our control, but that doesn't mean something "small" has to ruin your day, or that you can't take a breather before giving something a second go!

This is just something we've found helpful for us and been using more often lately to keep issues from snowballing out of control, and has also been a good exercise for us to better communicate our needs and feelings. It's a lot easier to say I Need To Start Over than trying to work through articulating emotions while upset. Its easier (and usually more protective, for us) to explain how we felt and what we felt went wrong once we're calmer. No, this probably wont work for everyone, we used to find it too hard to play pretend, but since getting back in touch with our imagination its become much easier, but its an extra tool you might want to add to your emotional and communication toolboxes and consider trying out!

#lily post!♡ #i got some help from lolo typing it up and making sure it makes sense ! #we've been doing this with mama and i wish we knew how to do it sooner! #sfw agere #sfw littlespace #sfw caregiver #agere positivity #sfw little community #agere blog #sfw little #syskid #autism #actually autistic

[hooked-on-elvis]

Elvis Presley attended a Nancy Sinatra show at Caesar’s Palace in Las Vegas, Nevada on August 6, 1970.

#1970 #this daddy #nancy sinatra #man I never thought I would be so hooked up on elvis #i mean it #he has me in a chokehold #this month i turn 29 years old... i'm not in the age for being such a fangirl anymore but somehow elvis got me like this #it's still so odd me #but it feel so right #like I regret nothing... i just wish i knew him sooner #i actually regret not being born sooner #i never thought i would ever be an elvis fan #its so funny to me #nothing about him... its just... he was never something familiar to me #he was just a mythology character to me... or something #and now... he feels like a friend to me #weird man... weird #i love it

[adhd-merlin]

💥 i'm curious

💥What is one canon thing that you wish you could change?

Well, if it just one thing...

I think Merlin and Morgana should have had a proper showdown. Because after Morgana discovers Merlin is Emrys, she takes away his magic and... laughs in his face a little before trapping him in a cave? That wasn't very satisfying, in my opinion (yes, I get that Merlin getting sealed in a cave is a reference to Arthurian legend).

I just wish they had written a more extended scene for their final confrontation. We deserved it after all that build-up. Like, it's basic rules of storytelling.

#thank u for the ask :3 #asks #ask meme #“FACE ME MORGANA!” #< he was so hot for this. btw. #you could say the same about the magic reveal #i do wish it was revealed a bit earlier #i guess i wasn't too mad about it because i knew when i started watching the show that it was only going to happen in the final episode #i suppose i would've been mad about it if I had been watching the show for years #but tbh if merlin had revealed his magic to arthur earlier... the whole mordred situation could not have happened as it did #because merlin would be like 'hey arthur btw I saw a vision this dude is gonna kill you' #and arthur would be like 'wow thanks for telling me merlin I shall not make him a knight then' #(probably) #like the entire S5 would not exist. it could not play out as it did. #so I understand it I guess #but still. maybe A BIT sooner. #maybe not 10 minutes before arthur died.

[mistress-light]

Forspoken • Locations

On the eighteenth day of the fourth month of the year 3874, our beloved Tantas led Athia to victory in the battle for Visoria Castle. Rheddah's armies were routed at last, and they're scattered remnants pursued without mercy, until no trace of the invaders remained.

#forspoken #forspokenedit #forspoken in tanta we trust #forspoken: visoria #thelvadams #ilikedetectives #userwolfkissed #chuckhansen #phoenixiancrystallist #cruelfeline #square enix #games #video games #gaming #my stuff #my gifs in 4k i wish i done this sooner ;AAAAA; #also oof if only the tanta's knew what was unleased