#Lesbians don’t like dick

[coochiequeens]

“My bar has always been an inclusive bar,” she said. “Trans people should be respected and have rights, and lesbian women who are born female should also have a space for themselves.” “If the young woman said: I prefer women, then the trans woman was offended and cried transphobia. But this young woman is not transphobic, it’s just a matter of consent, she doesn’t like penises, since she’s a lesbian!”

A lesbian bar that has operated in Rennes, France for nearly a decade has been forced to close its doors following a disturbing swell of vandalism and death threats by trans activists. Orane Guéneau, the owner and manager of lesbian bar La Part des Anges, was publicly denounced as “transphobic” and accused of “misgendering” by critics.

Speaking with Ouest France, Guéneau said she made the decision to shut down the venue to protect her employees in response to increased aggression, both online and at her storefront. On April 14, four unnamed trans activists spray painted the menacing message “Fuck TERFs,” accompanied by a trans symbol, on the front door of the venue during activities that were aimed at opposing national pension reform.

“I have to close after the attack that we experienced,” Guéneau told Ouest France. “The window was tagged and a pane was broken, it was hyperviolent for employees and customers, and the bar was full.”

A few days before the acts of vandalism were committed, Guéneau made a book critical of trans activism available to her patrons. 

Titled When Girls Become Boys and written by Marie-Jo Bonnet, her detractors considered the act to be representative of her “coming out” as transphobic, and condemned her on social media. 

But the backlash was not limited to vandalism and social media condemnation, Guéneau also started to receive threatening messages scrawled on paper slipped under her door last month, some of which read: “Save a trans, commit suicide,” and “One bullet, one TERF.” 

Guéneau faced further harassment throughout the month of May when a local chapter of the French feminist organization Nous Toutes published a statement calling for their supporters to boycott the bar. 

“In Rennes or elsewhere: no feminism without trans people,” reads the call to action from Nous Toutes 35. “For several years, people from the Queer community have been denouncing attacks against them in a bar in Rennes: La Part des Anges. These recurring assaults are all the more problematic since this bar claims an identity as a lesbian and feminist bar.”

The statement continues: “Therefore, it’s important that this bar finally gets massively denounced. We would also like to call on the various political, activist or cultural organizations to stop organizing with this bar… transphobes have no place in our struggles.”

In response to the statement from Nous Toutes 35, Guéneau announced that she had filed a complaint for defamation, harassment and cyber-harassment.

Yet despite the claims of “transphobia,” Guéneau has said that her venue has always been accepting of people who claim to be transgender. 

“My bar has always been an inclusive bar,” she said. “Trans people should be respected and have rights, and lesbian women who are born female should also have a space for themselves.”

However, tensions have escalated over the past five years as Guéneau defended lesbian patrons who were being harassed by men who self-identified as women and attended the venue seeking sex.

On multiple occasions, Guéneau told Charlie Hebdo, trans-identified males came to the lesbian bar to flirt with same-sex attracted women. 

“If the young woman said: I prefer women, then the trans woman was offended and cried transphobia. But this young woman is not transphobic, it’s just a matter of consent, she doesn’t like penises, since she’s a lesbian!”

Women’s rights campaigner and founder of FemellisteMarguerite Stern shared her support for Guéneau, and questioned the accusations of “misgendering” leveled against her. Stern also placed blame for some of the harassment Guéneau endured in part on Nous Toutes for their public condemnation of the venue.

Nous Toutes, the liberal feminist group spearheading the harassment of the lesbian bar, has previously attacked causes they deemed to be “transphobic.”

In 2022, the group announced it would no longer provide data on domestic femicides due to concerns over the sex-based data being used by “transphobes.”

Nous Toutes had originally been founded to provide public insight into violence against women and girls in France, but launched into a social media war with another anti-femicide campaign group over transgenderism. 

After Féminicides Par Compagnons ou Ex accurately reported that no trans-identified males had been murdered by domestic violence in France in 6 years, Nous Toutes responded by suspending their release of any data related to the murder of women and girls in the nation, claiming that the information was “oppressive” and “otherwise illegal.”

Nous Toutes then convened to determine how to make their femicide data reporting more “inclusive,” floating strategies which included counting general transphobia as femicide.

Violence against women critical of gender ideology is a regular occurrence in France, with multiple instances of women being physically attacked for not accepting the concept that trans-identified males were “female” being recorded over the past two years.

Reduxx previously reported on violence breaking out at French pro-woman events deemed “transphobic,” including on International Women’s Day in 2021 and 2022 when a number of women were left with injuries from rampaging trans activists. 

In April of this year, a symposium intended to raise awareness of the plight of Afghan and Iranian women was abruptly postponed after trans activists threatened to violently ambush the event because of the presence of a gender critical speaker.

By Genevieve Gluck

Genevieve is the Co-Founder of Reduxx, and the outlet's Chief Investigative Journalist with a focused interest in pornography, sexual predators, and fetish subcultures. She is the creator of the podcast Women's Voices, which features news commentary and interviews regarding women's rights.

#France #Rennes #La Part des Anges #Ouest France #When Girls Become Boys #Marie-Jo Bonnet #Censorship #death threats against lesbians #Nous Toutes Calls themselves a feminist organization but is ok with harassing lesbians #Lesbians don’t like dick #transbians #Drop the T #transwomen being sex pests #TRAs not happy with allies unless they are absolutely servile #Féminicides Par Compagnons ou Ex told the truth #Telling men NO is not the same as femicide

[h3artshapedkisses]

It’s the way you can tell most of the lesbian community are full of bi-hets just by how enraged they are by a lesbian saying she’s proud to have never kissed, dated or had sex with a man. Why are you offended by homosexuality? Shouldn’t you be happy for her? Hm..

Also I hate when the fauxbians who have never had sex with a man are like “I just never happened to have sex with a men because no man wanted me lolll I’m a gold star but ashamed to call myself one :((.” Like as very femme young woman who never has done anything even slightly romantic with a men but has had boys ask me to be their girlfriend and even male friends try to ask me for intimacy since a very young age, and has had to put her foot down and firmly say no ever single time, its so weird that they are deliberately erasing gold star’s life experiences to just being “ugly”. If you would have then you are a bisexual. Full stop.

#God we are so fucked #And the worst part about this is it isn’t even new like even older western butch lesbian are fake homosexuals who are just ugly bisexuals #And don’t fit into the male gaze #That’s why they cant imagine femme and conventially attractive women like me being gold star #To them gold star is ‘never got fucked by a man’ not never wanted to have any romance or intimacy with a man #Because if a man asked them out they would have said yes because they are bi #they can’t even began to imagine true female homosexuality that’s why they speak over us gold stars #This is why they either love wearing strap ons or getting strapped too(pillow princess or stone) i blame the older bid-hets once again #Cause they can’t imagine any sex without a dick because to them that is the most ideal form of sex #I am a gold star willingly you idiot not by accident dick lover #They also truly can’t imagine never once wanting to be with a man #To them its just a missed oportunity #Sorry this is so long but yea #Like I’m sorry but older lesbians who aren’t willingly gold star don’t represent me or stand for me #They don’t speak up for me or even want me in their spaces and i sure as hell don’t want them in mine

[mintharasthrone]

more “gay” pages posting complete homophobic garbage claiming bisexual women are lesbians

#tra homophobia #drop the t & b #of course there’s a comment calling us actual lesbians trans/biphobic 🙄 #all lesbians are terfs bc homosexuality is only real if a woman is a feminist or political like what kind of homophobic logic #they think they’re so different than het men who argue all lesbians aren’t real and want a male and piv #the obsession with also equating toys to wanting a man is never ending #and i remember the poll here that showed most lesbians of course want to eat pussy most of all #and bi women wanted to use toys #like lesbians don’t want anything that looks like a dick when they have sex only bi women do and i know from experience #why the fuck would we #i wish people would stop fucking obsessing over and disecting how lesbians have sex and why #they always have to make it about males and dick #it’s socially acceptable to make creepy perverted comments always talking about or mocking lesbian sex #bi women are like why do lesbians hate us? you literally are with whole ass men calling yourselves lesbians and dykes and bonding over how #much you hate real lesbians and insinuating we aren’t real and can be fixed with conversion #therapy #people hate us so deeply for loving only women and only the female anatomy #they genuinely believe we can’t be happy being homosexuals and bring up toys as some kind of proof #the same people who can’t make women come unlike us

[apollos-boyfriend]

there’s absolutely nothing wrong with having previously identified with a lot of microlabels only to have realized those weren’t for you and only identifying as one or two things now, but if you list out all the microlabels you used to go by and have the punchline be “oh isn’t it CRAZY i identified as SO MANY things lol 🤪 i was so WEIRD and CRINGE back then 🤣” i am blowing you up with my mind

#icarus speaks #neg #discourse #SHUT THE FUCK UP #first of all. let people explore. there’s nothing wrong with hoarding labels. if it makes them feel comfortable who gives a fuck #second of all. who gives a fuck. #who is being harmed by someone identifying as a pangender androgynous demisexual grayromantic lesbian. tell me. #who gives a fuck. let people live their lives. just because it’s not for you doesn’t mean you have to be a dick about it #i used to like spinach but now i don’t and you don’t see me throwing a hissy fit over it #did you get it? did you get the cishet validation you’re desperately craving? #how do those boots taste huh? do they taste good?

[dr-lizortecho]

I’ll show you how valuable Elle Woods can be

#I don’t watch this movie everytime I’m sad #not at all #something about her being in orange or with the orange laptop for like the whole montage post Warner being a dick #legally blonde #elle woods #also #this movie ended in lesbianism #no one can convince me otherwise

[menalez]

you're both pointing at each other and saying "no YOUR problems are online and MINE are real. so if lesbians / bi women say something mean, that's bad but it's probably in retribution."

lesbians IN REAL LIFE have called me a "dick riding spicy straight" or told me that they hope a man abuses me when they found out i'm bi. i've seen bi women IN REAL LIFE call butch lesbians gross and mannish or bring up that fake DA stat to claim lesbians are predatory. acting like either of these are only online, or only in response to the other side being so much worse? it's just straight up false, nothing is so black and white.

you worded that post in an extremely loaded and inflammatory way and then are using people getting rightfully peeved as "proof" to back up your claim that all bi women are actually homophobes. it's not conducive to a productive discussion.

amazingly what i have said is terms like “cumguzzlers” being spewed by lesbians and goldstar discourse are things ive only seen online, not that no lesbian ever has ever said discriminatory things about bisexual women irl 😭 but i’m glad after several posts where i said i don’t doubt theres lesbians who have prejudiced beliefs about bi women irl, you decided to overlook that to get offended at me calling goldstar discourse and terms like “cumguzzling handmaiden” online things 🤗

#which is more prominent btw? lesbians that use terms like dick riding spicy straights #or bi women that say sexuality is fluid and if lesbians don’t like dick that’s close minded and prejudiced and actually lesbian is inclusiv #of women into men and and and-? #bc despite having met dozens of lesbians i’ve never heard any say anything gross about bi women. i have heard lots of lesbophobia from bi #women tho… #which is why i can only say ‘i’m sure such lesbians exist irl but i havent seen them’ #anonymous

[lavenderfeminist]

Did not realize some women bond over like, being straight (in a kind of roundabout way) until someone I know jokingly made fun of the way I eat bananas and then started nudging me about how cute some guy was and I came to the sudden realization that it had never come up in a conversation between us that men are not my thing

#the banana thing sounds weird but she was teasing #I just don’t think she would have said it if she knew I do not like dick #even my friends growing up didn’t talk about men to this extent and then most of my friends now know I’m a lesbian so it doesn’t happen

[yardikins]

Personally to me, the idea of Din/Bo feels like this

#the mandalorian #star wars #Does anyone else get this vibe #Like I know Bo being lesbian and Din being gay/bisexual isn’t canon #But so much of the fandom believes it that it feels canon #I’m obviously not gonna bash Dinbo shippers cause that’s just being a dick #I just really don’t like it yknow

[annaruby]

twt r*dfems worst ppl on earth cause what do you mean i’m having to defend men bc you can’t act like a normal person with critical thinking for a second

#‘penetration/het sex is inherently oppressive to women’ you will begin coughing in 2 days. #‘bi women are tainted cock suckers’ ‘lesbians can’t like dick’ i know where you live and i am in your walls. #‘period blood isn’t a biohazard stop shaming women’ ITS LITERALLY FUCKING BLOOD YOU IMBECILE GO BACK TO SCHOOL TAKE O N E BIO CLASS FOR ONCE #the ‘women don’t have last names’ screaming at my walls YOU CAN LITERALLY CHANGE THAT. LEGALLY. GET UP AND STOP BEING A PERPETUAL VICTIM OM #AND ​THATS NOT EVEN TRUE WORLDWIDE HELPKDJSKDKDK #speaking.

[sad-catra]

I’m fucking disgusted

#“I’m gonna keep drawing a lesbian sucking dick!’ #do you have any idea how predatory and lesbophobic that is?? #I don’t like to say kys but….

[coochiequeens]

In their promotional materials, HER even began using the term “womxn” to be more inclusive of those who felt “woman” was an offensive term.“

Boasting 1.5 million users in 55 countries, HER is undeniably the largest and most recognizable lesbian dating app on the market. While debatable now, it appears to have been created with the best of intentions. The app’s founder, Robyn Exton, said she first set out to design an app that wasn’t just a female version of Grindr. 

However, over the last few years, HER has become less of a platform for lesbians to mingle and more of a case study in the contagion of gender identity ideology and how it uniquely harms the lesbian community. 

Launched in 2015 under the premise of being a female-run lesbian space, HER went through a subtle rebrand in 2018 in an effort to profit from the burgeoning trends of “queerness” and “inclusivity” — terms which had gained popularity from the social justice bloggers of Tumblr and into mainstream discourse. HER, which had ostensibly been designed exclusively for female users, began to add more “categories” and “identities” so it could attract a base that included trans-identified individuals, particularly men. In their promotional materials, HER even began using the term “womxn” to be more inclusive of those who felt “woman” was an offensive term.

Exton gave an interview at the time calling the queer community “amazing” and celebrating the fact that queerness was causing people to “question, challenge, and think about their identity.” But, what started with a spark of “inclusion” turned into a wildfire of compulsion.

On Exton’s app, there was a flood of men who identified as lesbian who felt welcomed to use HER as their new mating grounds. All the while, lesbians and bisexual women who were only interested in dating females were not provided any option to filter out these men from their searches.

Over the short years following, HER began mutating into an entity that was openly hostile to its lesbian users in an effort to signal its dedication to inclusivity. 

Without the ability to filter out men, who could pick any identity they liked on the app, some female users took it upon themselves to signify that they were only interested in other women by adding it to their bio or including a photo with logos that signified exclusive same-sex attraction.

These women found themselves quite literally forced off the app.

Jen, a lesbian user known on Twitter as @cbucksrules, told Reduxx was suspended after adding “no trans women” to her bio on HER because she was exclusively same-sex attracted.

Jen had joined HER in late 2021 looking for a female partner and assuming a lesbian dating app would be the place to go for such an endeavor. Finding a veritable smorgasbord of 5 o’clock shadows and head tilts, Jen attempted to ensure she would only be contacted by other female users.

“I [wrote] in my bio what I would not consider the opposite sex as a partner nor a woman who was not a proud woman as we would not be compatible.” 

Shortly after, Jen was suspended. She wrote to HER’s customer service and asked why, and received a snarky response from an agent named “Devin” berating her for using “hateful language” in her bio, and asserting “trans women are women.”

Jen was incredulous. 

“HER banned me, a lesbian for being a lesbian and not wanting sexual and romantic relationships with the opposite sex,” she told Reduxx.

But Jen’s experience is far from isolated.

Another woman, a vocal woman’s rights advocate known by her moniker DJ Lippy, told Reduxx that she had been suspended from using HER after she uploaded a photograph to her profile featuring a sign that displayed the dictionary definition of woman as an “adult human female.” Many trans-identified males reject the definition of woman as it excludes them as they are not female.

“You can pick any gender identity and sexuality you wish and exclude any you choose… just as long as it isn’t male,” DJ Lippy remarked to Reduxx. “It’s like opening an all you can eat vegan buffet but sneaking salami into all the dishes. When you complain, they kick you out and call you a pork exclusionary radical vegan.”

Another lesbian women’s rights campaigner, Aja, told Reduxx that she was suspended after adding that she was “only interested in biological women” to her profile as she says she had been receiving regular messages from male users who identified as lesbian.

“I was messaged by lots of blokes who I ignored … so I added ‘I’m only interested in biological women’ to my profile and added a picture where I was wearing my ‘adult human female’ t-shirt. Not sure how long it took them to ban me but they did,” Aja says.

Academic and feminist author Holly Lawford-Smith also had a similar experience using the app. In her bio, she wrote that she was only interested in matching with other lesbians and was suspended as a result.

When she reached out to customer service, they advised her that she had been reported for “transphobic” behavior.

The customer service representative, Samantha, went on to inform Holly that it is against their community guidelines to list who you were not interested in matching with, and also compared a lesbian not wanting to mingle with men to a lesbian excluding masculine women.

Speaking with Reduxx, Holly said: “Everything about the app is designed to force gender identity ideology onto the people using the app. You can’t choose a sex, only a gender identity. You’re pushed towards entering pronouns. You can’t filter out males. You constantly have to swipe past men.”

She added: “It’s incredibly sad that an app designed to bring same-sex attracted women together has now been completely infiltrated by, and has completely sold out to, men.” 

Other lesbians on social media have expressed similar experienced about being banned from the app for stating that they were exclusively attracted to females.

Even as lesbian users continue to express disappointment in the fact that a lesbian dating app appears to be forcing female users to match with males, HER has continuously doubled down.

Last year, the app announced that it was taking a hard-line stance on so-called “transphobic language and behavior” by adding “improved TERF controls” which made it easier for male users to report female users for being same-sex attracted.

They also surveyed their trans-identified users and asked them what their biggest “hurdles” to dating on the app was. The number one reason given was “trans-exclusionary dating preferences.” Many women expressed outrage that their sexual boundaries were being framed as a “hurdle” that needed to be overcome. But this is hardly the first time homosexual females have been branded as “discriminatory” for not including delusional men in their dating pools.

The HER saga reached a fever pitch, however, over the past few days as it decided to celebrate Lesbian Visibility Week by explicitly attacking and cyberbullying lesbian women who refuse to date trans-identified males on their official Twitter.

In what can only be described as an unhinged tirade, HER’s social media manager used the company’s Twitter to engage in targeted harassment against women. During their episode, they defended a child molester, sexually harassed women, encouraged doxxing, and made a strange comment about feeding gender-critical crabs to trans-identified males. The social media rampage resulted in the company being temporarily suspended from Twitter.

The incident began when HER quote retweeted DJ Lippy, a user who had previously been banned from their app, who had been remarking on how a trans-identified convicted pedophile had taken the name of a feminist activist after he transitioned. Despite the fact HER had not been mentioned in the original comment from DJ Lippy, the app’s official social media page appeared to have sought out her remarks about the pedophile, and responded with an incoherent, sexualized comment mocking the original user.

“Can the TERFs not afford knitting supplies? Somebody start a GoFundMe, left their gaping assholes catch a cold,” HER wrote.

Immediately, they garnered backlash, with people outraged that they appeared to be starting an argument because a user had criticized the actions of a notorious pedophile.

As they started to get criticism, they continued to post bizarre remarks, including that they “must stay young for pedos.”

As more lesbian users came to DJ Lippy’s defense, the user at the helm of the HER Twitter account began sexually harassing lesbians who criticized them.

The overtly homophobic and sexualized nature of the replies led to many on Twitter to speculate that a man was behind the account, with others still so perplexed by the lack of professionalism that they theorized the account had been hacked.

But, after being suspended from Twitter for repeated instances of harassment, HER took to TikTok to inform people that they didn’t care about the suspension and that no one was going to be disciplined for the abusive tweets. Their account has since been reinstated on Twitter.

On April 26, recognized as Lesbian Visibility Day, HER’s founder published a blog post saying that it was her goal to reclaim the word ‘lesbian’ from those who say that “only those assigned female at birth can be lesbians.” After a barrage of insults aimed at lesbians where she calls them transphobic, bigoted, hateful, and even fascist, Exton ends the screed by stating, “There’s no such thing as a real lesbian.”

Oh, how the mighty fall. Robyn Exton, a woman who designed the app in 2015 with the seemingly heartfelt mission of creating a space for female homosexuals, denying the existence of the very base she once tried to serve.

As nonsensical as that might seem at first glance, we must remember that Exton is a businesswoman, and her strategy of booting clientele who are exclusive allows her to expand her potential customer base significantly. 

She has no vested interest in stating that lesbians are a specific, definable group of people who actually exist. Doing so would only limit her app’s potential market. It wouldn’t be a far stretch to assume she has has no interest in excluding males from the app, either, as men are much more likely to spend money on a dating app.

HER has chosen their marketing strategy: to make the app as appealing to men as possible, then bully, harass and ban any woman who does not accept their new clientele’s presence. They released two notifications this week alone asserting “transphobes” are not welcome on the app. 

These notifications were celebrated online by trans-identified males who call themselves lesbians. 

“As a trans lesbian it feels good knowing HER has my back,” one man wrote on the Reddit board r/actuallesbian, a community that is known to have a 47%user overlap with the male-to-female board.

But while HER has been boasting about their trans-inclusivity to the seal-clapping of trans-identified males, even some liberal women have been grappling with how to approach using the app if they are genuinely same-sex attracted. On Instagram, one woman left a comment stating that some women only want to have a sexual relationship with someone of the same sex. 

She clarified that she wasn’t trying to be a “TERF,” lest she be labelled “transphobic.”

HER responded by telling her to “just swipe left” and went on to explain that she needed to reflect on why her sexuality isn’t “inclusive.” Perhaps most disturbingly, they told her she was welcome to use the app only so long as she kept the specifics of her sexual attraction “to herself.”

HER is effectively telling lesbians to stay in the closet about their homosexuality in order to avoid alienating male users. The company continuously promotes the importance of consent whilst viewing women’s sexual boundaries as an obstacle that needs to be either overcome or hidden. 

The rebranding of the app from a lesbian dating app to a queer dating app sends a clear message: sexual coercion is in, and sexual boundaries are out. Consent is important, but the reason you’re saying ‘no’ is wrong. You can be a lesbian, but keep it to yourself or you may scare off porn-addled male customers. 

The confusing, undulating messaging that borders on gaslighting is the point. It is reflective of how gender ideology operates in general, where blind compliance and devotion is prioritized above common sense. And, of course, all of the compliance and devotion is intended to herd people into a machine of sociopathic profit seeking that benefits a select few.

I have no use for HER, and my lesbian friends have long since figured out to steer clear of it. My concern is for those young lesbian women desperate to avoid accusations of “bigotry” who are now being unwittingly forced into a digital conversion therapy camp — all so Robyn Exton can make a few extra dollars from men in skirts. 

Maybe I will launch my own lesbian dating app. I’ll call it HIM to keep the men away.

By Shay Woulahan

Shay is a writer and social media content creator for Reduxx. She is a proud lesbian activist and feminist who lives in Northern Ireland with her partner and their four-legged, fluffy friends

#HER #lesbians don’t like dick #Men can’t be lesbians #Robyn Exton #Woman is not offensive #A lesbian asking to be matched with women is not hateful #DJ Lippy #Woman is an adult human female #Aja #Same sex attraction is not transphobic #Masculine women are not the same as men #Being a lesbian is suspicious activity #If men don’t want to deal with trans-exclusionary dating preferences then they can start their own site for TIMs #Cyber bullying lesbians

[h3artshapedkisses]

tbh you can kinda tell that a staggering majority of TIFs nowadays are straight women and girls because of the simple fact that they just don’t know that you can be a gnc woman and be straight.

Hell most of them don’t even know that you can BE a gnc woman. They seriously believe that their hobbies, interests, and fashion preferences that usually align with stereotypes of men make them men instead of gnc women.

This, in my opinion, isn’t just due to them being ignorant about butch women (though many are, sadly) I think what it is is that when they dress like how they want, they get labeled lesbian/butch lesbian specifically and since they aren’t attracted to biological woman, they get confused and think “this must mean I am a gay man!” instead.

As much as I will never understand heterosexuals, I feel rlly bad that heteronormativity has made these women feel like they can’t have cropped hair, wear no makeup, and wear a suit while being loved by a man.

This also might be a reason why the so-called ‘straight’ tranzmen typically date TIMs. They are just straight gnc woman and it hurts them to be reminded that most straight men aren’t fond or loving towards women but to femininity. That’s why they say things like “I want to be feminine but in a gay guy way” or “I started feeling comfortable wearing feminine things again after I started looking more male” :( I honestly feel bad for how bad they feel for themselves. mutilated and humiliated for the sake of a man loving you in your natural form.

#radblr #radical feminism #radical feminist safe #radical feminists please touch #rad fem #radical feminst #black radfems #radfems please touch #radfem safe #gnc straight women only gets i’ll bad for #lesbians don’t like dick and will never even look at one willingly #^ tifs usually love dick and can’t go a day without singing it’s praises or a being it’s attached to. #that’s why i get confused when y’all say they are just butch lesbians in denial like they are very clearly straight gnc women

[bioswear]

I’ll say it once: I think Israel needs to fuck off, Palestine should be free, America needs to stop sticking its dick where it doesn’t belong

#but I sure as fuck am not going to put face value stock in any of the political posts about it here #SIMPLY because it’s tumblr and sometimes people are very passionate in their stances #personal txt #which is why I have barely reblogged any of the Palestine stuff #bc I have not the time to do my own research and formulate my own knowledge about it #I think it’s terrible I think it’s unnecessary I think America shouldn’t be sticking it’s Money Dick where it shouldn’t belong #but I also have student loans to pay back crippling debt and a massive lesbian crush on my cute bi coworker so #so you know… in the realm of what I can and cannot control #I’m going to worry and care for Priority 1 (which is always me) #anyone would like to start some shit in my inbox by all means it’s been a long time since I’ve had the Displeasure of being a Bitch online #I don’t have to justify anything to people on here but I thought it should be said

[transcarcinization]

a pet peeve of mine is people going ‘yall say [thing people say] but then do [action completely different people do that the first thing is in fact fighting against]’

like, people don’t have rallying cries for opinions that are universal. you can’t take a common sentiment that’s in active backlash to a mainstream pattern of belief and then blame that saying for the mainstream pattern of belief

#this happens with feminism so much. like i get that there’s people that talk the talk and don’t walk the walk #but overwhelmingly. those are simply two different groups of people believing different things #i feel this way about ‘y’all want [x] but can’t even handle [y]’ #i promise the lesbians fighting for sad nasty mean wet female characters and the people who were dicks about mabel pines have like. #very little overlap #i also promise people yelling ‘LET WOMEN BE MEAN’ are in fact responding directly to the group of people that can’t handle mabel pines #i’ve stopped accepting accusations of hypocrisy unless you can point to specific people who believe both

[mapleborealis]

choose violence ask game: 4, 5, 12

4. what was the last straw that made you finally block that annoying person?

tbh i that doesn’t usually happen a lot, i slow to follow someone and largely follow leftists when i do. the times i have i think usually have been antisemitism that they refuse to back down from when asked about. like bro cmon you’re a leftist have a little self reflection and thoughtful listening and research like when you listen to every other minority group

5. worst discord server and why

the server where i was told when i was exploring an au where i made a canon cis male character into a trans butch woman and was told that cis male and trans butch lesbian genders are the same type of masculinity and thus i was perpetuating toxic masculinity 😎 it was a hot fucking mess and stupid as hell i left like two weeks later and found my people elsewhere

second place goes to the server that needed you to go to a secondary verification server to show your real government id and face on the internet to prove that you were 18+ that’s sketchy as hell on several levels, but mostly i feel sad for the people who are so paranoid about accusations of pedophilia they’re going to let their name, address and real photo on the internet to avoid the toxic & paranoid environment antis have created. just make a private server and limit who joins so you can all share brain rot in peace and happiness not every server needs to have thousands of members and BNF mods.

also i think it imploded for unrelated reasons a few days ago.

12. the unpopular character that you actually like and why more people should like them

MIRAGE MIRAGE MIRAGE i mean mirage isn’t actually that obscure in the transformers fandom there’s just so many other characters that it’s easy to get lost. hes shitty old money but also lost all his family’s status and doesn’t know anything but also the autobots second best spy and !!!! i have so many thoughts about him and jazz, him and prowl, mirage and the cybertronian religion, how the old money of cybertron worked

second place mikhail from sirius the jeager, sad abused vampire son boy who lost his people and cut off from his culture but knew his younger brother was alive and just needed to stick around long enough to know that yuliy could continue their culture on <3 im not crying you’re crying

#ask #copper-sands #i hope i abstracted the server enough to not draw any issues #like it’s fine they were kids just they were putting their transmasc ID ahead of my ID of a queer woman who doesn’t like femininity #they then proceeded to make the most femme trans woman interpretation of that character which felt ooc to me #like whatever we can all have different interpretation but the way they said i was wrong was confusing and hurtful #butch women are so pretty :( useless lesbian moment rn #also i’m in several other 18+ servers which never needed governemt verification before #it’s fandom it’s for fun calm down #they’re all on the honor system bc we just want a chill space to talk about dicks yknow at best they wanted a second social media to verify #sure easy to fake but it’s like they just wanted to make sure people were chill and if you lied about age you’d get kicked #and they’re the most chill servers with amazing artists and writers #a lot of all ages servers im in i barely go outside the 18+ areas bc it’s just i don’t care about your drama #i’m here for relaxation after work not purifying the world through salt the earth crowd tactics #old man yells at cloud

[headaching]

this pride month please please PLEASE stop equating gay men to “liking dick” and lesbians to “liking pussy”. it’s transphobic and invasive and reductive and did i mention super fucking transphobic

#and homophobic and aphobic and lesbophobic etc etc #sorry for saying dick and pussy in the post are you mad #im just thinking about all the times ive heard this especially irl #all the times ive been told the ‘right dick’ would ‘fix’ me and it’s like beloved. the right dick will fix me into an even bigger lesbian #and i will have the time of my life <3 #genitals don’t have genders and that concept is so foreign to so many people #oh and if you’re gay/lesbian and say this get help. and by get help i mean do a modicum of research #ask to tag #ok to rb