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If you want a man to show interest in you, don’t be so desperate and needy. Let him do what he wants,
and he’ll naturally want to be with you.
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When you know how to trigger a man to do anything you want, you know you’ve won.
Read pinned post to know how.
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How much more does he need to show you that he doesn’t want you? Move on already.
serious question tho
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Anytime a man isn’t giving you the attention you want, ignore him for an hour minimum doing whatever your heart desires.
I swear it works everytime.
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If you don’t know how to make a man fall in love with you or need help getting him to obsess over you, download my free ebook here so you can learn how😉
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Ladies, remember:
Show no emotion and watch a man get emotional.
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Have a life outside of your SP/BOYFRIEND.
To put things into perspective, every woman on this planet must have a life outside of their special person. If not your consequences will be that when this person isn’t there or they have things to do like everybody, you’ll feel lonely and you won’t know what to do with your life.
Also, this is what makes you infinity more attractive to men. When you have a life outside of him, he knows that you have things to do and that not everything is about him. So conclusion? if you want him to fall for you, have a life.
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How to know if your boyfriend is a narcissist💔
This topic is kind of a trigger for me because I was in a toxic relationship about 2 and half years ago and it still triggers me to this day because there were just too many things that I let slide even though many people made it clear that it was a toxic situation. Before I start I want to clarify, this post is NOT meant to shame you or make you feel any less worthy because you’ve experienced this situation before or are currently experiencing it. It is meant to teach you and hopefully inspire you to leave this situation in the healthiest way possible if you haven’t done so already.
About 2 and half years ago, I was with a man, who shall remain nameless, that was very toxic and narcissistic. He would disrespect whenever he wanted, he would put double standards in our relationship such as I HAD to do things because he said but he couldn’t do anything for me, he manipulated me, called me put of my name, and gaslighted the sh*t out of me whenever he was in the wrong and I confronted him about it. Finally, when I decided to leave, he said he would change and 20 other things for me to stay, but never ended up changing. This always made me feel like I was the problem or not good enough. But it wasn’t me doing the emotional damage, it was him. Now, years later, I’ve healed and gotten into a healthy relationship, I can tell you ALL the things you need to know about these type of men and how you can deal with them properly w/o anything getting out of hand.
Here are some of the signs of a narcissist BF you should look out for and how to address them:
1. If you don’t feel comfortable doing something, and this person FORCES you to do it or just does it W/O consent, he’s a narcissist.
2. Every time he does something you don’t like, you address it and he makes you feel like it’s your fault or like he did it because you did that, he’s a narcissist.
3. If he compares you to other women he’s had saying you are or are close to being like them because of X, Y or Z reason, he’s a narcissist. (Then he’ll say he didn’t mean it for you to stay.)
4. After a fight, if he tells you all the things he likes about you or how you’re this great things that’s come in his life, he’s love-bombing you, he’s not caring about how you feel or the effect of what he did might have caused to you. He’s a narcissist.
5. If he always brings up things you’ve done/said in the past and takes them out of context just so it fits HIS narrative of why you are wrong, he’s gaslighting you. He’s a narcissist.
6. If anytime or EVERY time he is wrong, he somehow always convinces you that you’re wrong in what you’re saying or makes you feel confused about your judgment, he’s manipulating you. He’s a narcissist.
7. If he tries to control who you hang out with + he always seems to have the upper hand on who you follow on Instagram or checks your Snapscore and has a say in who you can text, follow, DM or talk to, he thinks he owns you. He’s a narcissist. (Then he’ll say he’s “protecting” you to get you to stay.) *lets not even talk about if he gets to tell you what you can wear.
8. If you keep addressing the things that hurt you and he keeps doing them consciously because “he knows he’s damaged and wants to change but its not working so he wants you to wait a little more until he changes”, he’s lying. He knows you’ll believe the story so he’ll keep doing whatever he wants until you finally leave. He’s a narcissist.
Now, these are just a few of the signs he can have. He may have more or worse, but the key for you here to actually know if he’s a narcissist is feeling. If you get this feeling, and its like your sixth sense, that this guy isn’t good for you, that many people have told you so and you kind of think they may be right, if your parents also tell you he’s not good for you, even if someone you never expected to tell you he’s not good for you, tells you, then you know this guy has to leave.
How to address it:
1. Talk to him in person and tell him all the things that don’t sit right with you. Tell him you understand why he is doing them, but that you can no be with him because it is hurting you and you need to take care of yourself.
* He will tell you a bunch of things to get you stay, but at this point you’ll just have the ick and thinks its BS.
2. Then leave him to live his life because he will never change for you.
Look and you won’t accept it now. Maybe not even tomorrow, but sooner or later you will accept it and once you do, you will leave him and a huge weight will lifted from your shoulders. Thats how it feels, and once you heal, you will be free from somebody who, let’s be honest here, doesn’t care that much about you to begin with. A person that truly loves you, will never purposely hurt you. So drop the dead weight already. Once I let go of this man, I opened myself to a man who really wanted to give me the world. Respect me and give me everything I wanted, and this is what I want for you.
This week I’ll post how to get over a narcissist to make it easier for you❤️.
Drop any questions below🦋
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If he wanted to, he would.
Recently my boyfriend and I have been very busy with work and a bunch of things that make it harder for us to see each other. Plus, every time that we plan something, for some reason another event takes place before we can actually get something done. So I talked to him about it, I was like, “Babe, I really need us to find some time to be with each other w/o any interruptions.” and he was like, “You’re right babe, Ima work something out.” This man literally picked me up from work with a bouquet of flowers and took me to a high-end restaurant and then a hot intimate session.
Now look, this in no way, shape or form is intended to be taken as bragging or egotistical. But this is to show you that if you do your due diligence correctly, YOU WILL attract these kind of men. There are men out there who are willing to give you the world, but you have to get yourself straight BEFORE these men begin to fall on your lap. How do I get myself straight!? You may ask. Allow me to list a couple of things.
- Be busy with your goals
- NEVER put a man before your needs (sleep, food, etc.)
- If you start talking to a man, make him wait (when you do this, you allow him to wonder and force him to crave you more)
- Don’t be all desperate to be in a relationship or have a man (that’s exactly what you portray and he can sense that energy, this is NOT what you want to do)
- Overall, don’t care too much about it. They will come to you, you don’t have to do anything.
You do these things and 9 times out of 10, you will get any man you want.
A second point I want to add for all my women who are already talking to a man, if he wanted to, he would👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻. If he’s not giving you the princess treatment you deserve, it’s because you are conforming to whatever it is that he’s giving you. Real men don’t play games and they won’t conform to your games either because he will not care. If this man is constantly playing hot and cold, treats you however he wants or is just below par and doesn’t give you what you want, that’s aligned in direct proportion to how you see yourself and what you deserve in a relationship. If your beliefs are that:
- men fall on your lap
- men obsess over you easily
- men give you whatever you want w/o asking for it
- men treat you like a queen
- men chase you
then the men who you attract are alpha males that treat you like a queen. However, if your beliefs are:
- he’s hot, but he won’t notice me
- the constant question: am i good enough for him?
- i need to know what he’s doing at all times
- he always needs to know that I love him
- the need to question everything he does
- the need to know who’s he been with
- the feeling that you cant keep him
- i can’t be w/o him
- i cant be with him unless i look good at all times
then naturally you are attracting men who see you as desperate and most likely use you for their benefit. All these are limiting beliefs and the only way you can change them is by doing shadow work and working on your confidence. Once you get to the point that you see a man you like and you think “He’s already mine” or “He will fall for me”, you’ve achieved your goals.
I know this was a lot, but necessary. Drop any questions you may have below🦋
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The more time you don’t talk to him, the more he’ll obsess over you.
So recently my boyfriend and I have been getting a lot of distance in. We’re both working so we don’t have the time we used to have to be with each other. Therefore, we will naturally miss each other more during the day. Which brings me to my next point, if you’re always with a person like constantly talking to them or around them, you begin to get used to them being there all the time, but when you let the other breath and spend some time apart that actually builds you guys’s relationship deeper. Ever since I be letting him miss me and mind my own business, I literally get texts from him all the time saying he misses me and he wants to hang out.
So if you’re trying to get a man to miss you, be strategic about it. For example, if you guys talk at a certain time everyday, break the cycle, and one of those days just go to sleep w/o saying anything or tell him you had a long day and you’d like the extra sleep. When you do this, he will wonder why you’re so detached or why you’re willing to break the pattern so easily. Then he will realize its not a game and that you actually have things to do outside of him. In other words, have a life outside of just getting a man to like you or notice you. You will become much more attractive instantly.
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