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The majority of people are horny. People are always going to be horny. You cannot stop people from being horny. Throughout history there have been extensive attempts to suppress horniness and they haven’t worked. You can be mad about it all you want but horniness will prevail against any adversity. There will always be an aspect of horniness within society. Sexuality cannot be contained by having missionary sex with your spouse alone in the privacy of a dark bedroom.

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I hope you don't mind me reblogging this to add my own 2 cents op, just lmk

But, as a kinkster myself (i.e. having kinks that a lot of people think I should be like. Idk thrown in jail for???) having dark fantasies is NOT bad. In fact they usually come from trauma. Suppressing them will do more damage in the long run. Thought crimes don't exist!

As long as it's safe, consensual, and sane then you're okay. If it's something you can't do, like necrophilia or r*pe, that's what roleplay is for. I'm into CNC, I'm into age play. That does NOT mean I want to actually be assaulted or do the assault, or I'm into children.

So, for everyone out there: obviously have good boundaries with your partner(s), intimate bedroom time or otherwise. Having "taboo" desires or thoughts is not bad and is not a moral failing, you cannot help it. Engaging in play or kink can actually be very beneficial for you, and may help you heal (it has helped me with my own csa trauma). We are sexual creatures!!! Sex is normal! It is purity culture that makes us feel bad about sex!

Lately I've had these dark sexual desires I've been trying my hardest to suppress for the sake of my mental health. My partner knows about them and sometimes jokes about them, and I can like, feel myself start to become more comfortable with them. I don't know if I should tell them to stop because it's making me worse, or let them keep going because I absolutely love it when they talk about it.

#a few side notes: no pedophilia is not kink. do not come in here strawmanning that hurting children is the same as two consenting adults #this doesn't exclude aroace people. I'm aroace #hope this helps <3 #actual bpd #actually bpd #borderline pd #borderline blog #actuallytraumatized #actually traumatized #ptsd #depression #anxiety #intrusive thoughts #mental health help #actually borderline #bpd #🐇

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i wanna say fuck you to anyone who shame disabled, chronically ill & neurodivergent people, especially homebound folks, for "spending too much time on their phone/on the internet/etc." when it's the only (Somewhat) accessible way for them to experience the world. many people don't get to get out much even if they want to because of their disabilities. shaming someone for trying to connect with the world, make friends and engage with hobbies in ways that are accessible to them is beyond cruel and unnecessary

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yeah you're "punk" but are you normal about deformed people?

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abled people really act like if your illness or disability isn’t terminal then you’re not allowed to complain about it or grieve the life you thought you’d have and it’s so fucked up

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Humans are social critters, we can't change that. I don't want us to.

The kindness, the humanity in sending a stranger a cat video because you know they're struggling. Telling someone they look good today just to get them to smile. To hold open the door for someone. Small little things.

I joke it's my "mitzvah of the day" when I do seemingly inconsequential things for others, but to be on the receiving end: it can make such a drastic change.

Be that little kindness in the world, even when the world itself is trying to snuff you out.

#hi im the one sent the cat video and now currently trying not to sob #actual bpd #actually borderline #actually bpd #borderline blog #borderline pd #borderline personality disorder #bpd #bpd culture #actuallytraumatized #actually disabled #disabled #🐇

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Here’s to hoping that every single person with schizophrenia or a schizoaffective disorder or DID or NPD or any other ridiculously demonized mental illnesses has a wonderful day

#*Shrieks in DID ASPD and BPD*

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You should break up with me. Why are you here? Why are you here? Why are you here. I can't communicate. I hurt you. Why do you fucking throw yourself into the fire instead of running away?

You have to talk to me like a child, because, really, that's all I am, aren't I?

I don't want to run away

#i know this is going to do numbers :/ #actual bpd #actually borderline #actually bpd #borderline blog #borderline pd #borderline personality disorder #bpd #borderline culture is #bpd culture #bpd fp #🐇 #actuallytraumatized

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We're arguing. We're framing things differently.

I'm sorry I was taught unhealthy ways to view the world, to cope, to communicate. I didn't mean those words as an attack, to play dirty. To me it's just 1:1.

#🐇 #complex ptsd #actuallytraumatized #actual bpd #actually borderline #actually bpd #borderline blog #borderline pd #borderline personality disorder #bpd #borderline culture is #bpd culture #bpd fp

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When I just started to tackle my ARFID but now because of my BPD I so violently want to self punish and starve myself to death

#actual bpd #actually borderline #actually bpd #borderline blog #borderline pd #borderline personality disorder #bpd #borderline culture is #bpd culture #🐇

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if you’re happy for literally any reason no matter how “small” or “stupid” you’re winning in this world as far as I can tell

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the stoic teenager to being on the verge of tears anytime something slightly inconvenient happens adult pipeline is very real

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[Text: This user has ARFID.]

Like/Reblog if you save or use please!

Art by us.

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gentle reminder to those with EDs, allergies, or literally any condition that interacts with food, who are also trying to boycott for Palestine:

if not getting a certain brand means you wouldn’t eat, get the brand. if not getting a certain food means you wouldn’t eat, get the food. yes, even if there’s a boycott. do not let people guilt you into self-endangerment. in order to work, activism must be sustainable and must involve radical self-care. of course do your best to find other brands, but if it comes down to it, do not starve in the name of activism.

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Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder (ARFID)

Spectrum Sloth

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people on tumblr will literally post things like “you have to eat vegetables and expand your palate i dont care if you are a picky eater because of autism (if i can overcome it you can too)” and everybody will reblog it being like “yes this is true for everybody no matter what” and think its okay. like sorry but that wont work for everyone and there is no one size fits all and some people will never be able to eat these things no matter how hard they try. im only allowed by my doctors to eat recreationally and not for nutrition, because my ARFID is so severe that i get my nutrition solely from a specially made formula drink. your suggestions of “try vegetables roasted!” or “try them in soup!” and assurances of “i did it, you can too!” don’t work for those of us with more severe mental illnesses and disabilities. stop tying a person’s worth to their diet and stop assuming everybody has the ability to do what you can.

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Picky eaters 🤝 Sex repulsed people

“yOu wOn’T kNow uNtIl yoU tRy iT”