antheiantics

[antheiantics]

MBTI!!! very large space for designs :D

[antheiantics]

— Donna Tartt, the secret history

[antheiantics]

ENTJ: why is wanting and needing things so humiliating like yes i do need a hug so what whatever die kys dont look at me i hope you blow up youre nothing leave me alone

[antheiantics]

A (lot of) question(s) for all UK natives or ex UK residents here in Tumblr (from a writer):

What kind of measurements do you use most often? Kilometres or miles? Centimetres or inches?

What are typical UK foods that the Internet doesn’t talk enough about? I’m pretty sure native dishes are more than the Shepherd’s pie and Fish&Chips.

Typical English comfort foods? Your favourite comfort foods?

Speaking about childhood favourites - what games did you play with your friends when going out ?

Tell me what kind of urban legends scared or intrigued you the most while growing up?

Famous ghost stories? When I was young it was the boom of Queen of Spades and Samara Morgan. What were you scared with & from?

Do parents in the UK “expect” certain career paths from their children ? To be more specific - what kind of quirk do UK parents have? Think of it like the expectation for perfection from Asian parents.

UK quirks someone NOT from UK should know about?

Context: My characters have lived their entire lives in the UK but I haven’t which makes it hard for me to know if I sound “legit” when writing about their experiences.

#uk #united kingdom #uk citizens #england #writers on tumblr #writing #writblr #writing advice #questions #questionnaire #writing characters #character building #oc character #ghost #ghost stories #urban fantasy #urban legends #oxford #cambridge #my writing #gathering information #do some research #thread #hot topic #world building #asking for a friend

[antheiantics]

world_of_engineering_75 on Instagram

[antheiantics]

Part 2 of whatever the hell this meme is

[antheiantics]

idea: scene with two characters eagerly stripping each other clearly about to bone, but they keep getting interrupted by finding carefully concealed weapons in each other’s clothing, so they keep just unholstering, revealing and unstrapping increasingly ludicrous amounts of hidden guns and knives as the clothes come off, and it’s lowkey killing the mood a little

[antheiantics]

ENTJ Behaviours - Everyday things the Internet analysis don't tell you about - weirdly specific edition

Loud loud laugh. The type of laugh to make you go under the table. Happens roughly 2-3 times a day.

Shouting for no apparent reason.

Zoomies, yes, zoomies around the house.

Zoomies in talking - The point is to get it out fast and furious and go on with the day. Spoiler alert: 80% of the time I have to repeat myself, because people didn't understand my point delivered in Eminem speed. I'm fine, we're fine, it's fine.

Constantly forgetting people don't have the ability to understand with just one, maximum three words. Exception: INTX

Hating to be late and arriving early. Completing several tasks while waiting.

Having absolutely no tolerance on people who are late. Holding a grudge about it. Waiting for the day to just leave so the other person learns from it.

Abrupt style changes that shock people - going from casual business to grunge fairycore, not realising that people get confused with the vibe.

ENTJ procrastination is a thing - it's just procrastinating by doing other smaller tasks instead of doing the big looming one.

Being confident all the time except in a specific moment in which it's required to.

Ordering food at McDonald's because your extroverted friends were "too shy" to.

Waiting for those same friends to say "hi" to the entire planet while you try to look confident, pretty and approachable.

Being invited in the conversation in the span of one minute and hitting it off for the next 10 minutes.

Walking fast.

The boulevard is the runway and y'all are just peasants interrupting the strut.

Making detailed plans about being a successful company owner in 10 years, but forgetting to take in the sheets the next day. Short-term goals - a strong point, if forced. Day to day to-do list - not a strong point at all, unless written down (most of the time confident enough to remember our own tasks) (most of the time we forget to do several of them, or postpone them to shove three more that we planned to do after two weeks, but oh well, an opportunity arose - extremely specific, might not apply)

Patience. Monstruos amounts of it. Miranda Priestly was just fed up after so many years in the industry and I can see why.

Pet peeves are inefficiency and people who repeat the same mistake over three times, after it was explained to them by multiple people.

Strong opinions. Controversy. How are y'all dealing with Cruella (Emma Stone) and Elizabeth Bennett (Pride and Prejudice) mix, type of person? Genuinely curious. Not asking for a friend.

As for the ENTJ men reading this - do you have like a list or diagram, with all the people that manage to keep up with your Stewie Griffin (South Park) , Kaz Brekker (Six of Crows) tendency to "invest" and Thranduil(The Hobbit/LOTR) type of beauty and pride, and how long is it? Again, genuinely curious.

Wrote the origins of criticism and invented self-criticism in the process, because emotional liability got invented roughly around the same time and apparently it was "too much" *side glances INFPs*

Crying only out of helplessness (not if you can help it, ofc) and anger.

Fan of stupid puns (extremely evident)

Might unintentionally ghost people or leave them on seen, because they messaged you while your brains were working overtime (happens too often)

Caffeine doesn't work, but it's a ritual of pleasure, not to be missed, unless the day is bound to finish in prison. Same could be said if you take tea instead of coffee.

Relaxing by watching documentaries about successful people.

De-stressing by drinking wine with that one close friend that you see once a month due to busy schedules and talking about life.

That close friend also happens to be the closest one to IxxJ type and thoroughly listens while we explain the nature of emotions and why we think that the normal emotion we felt is a terminal illness.

Flirting is a way of surviving not a way of life. Take it as you wish.

Inspecting and dissecting your crushes so you know what you're dealing with. Most of the time we "un-crush" them with a snap of our fingers.

Sometimes we "just go with it" and end in a semi-casual situationship.

When they tell you we are confident and undisturbed by flirting, they're probably lying or not competent enough about speaking on real (not psychology explained) life. We do. It's just not obvious. INTJs, INTPs and ENFJs might not agree, because they somehow just know.

Getting hurt over minimal details people mentions about us throughout a conversation but being unaffected by "the big ones".

Which is hilarious because we're major "big picture" people - details are the things we see last. Sometimes, we don't even bother to inspect them.

ENTJ: Ah, ah, okay, bye-

Other people: No, wait! There's-

ENTJ: I pretty much got it, bye-

P.S. "Pretty much go it." or "I'm gonna wing it.", but make it organised, are probably catch phrases by now. No matter what people tell you that's a major trait of XXXJ people.

When I told you we invented criticism, I forgot to mention we also helped ESTJ and INTJ invent sarcasm.

#mbti #entj #mbti personality types #intp #intj #mbti conversations #mbti things #16 personalities #entp #dark academia #entj thoughts #entj post #entj things #psychology #mbti shit #mbti scenarios #i was bored #mbti thoughts #thoughts #infj #estj #esfj #enfj #mbti post #16 personality types #threads #light academia #academia aesthetic #infp #estp

[antheiantics]

No more repressing, no more hiding. I'm out of the cage and I'm feral

[antheiantics]

dudes who are normal will be like im joker insane but women who have not felt real since they were seven will be like im average normal

[antheiantics]

what are you even supposed to do when youre angry.  cant scream at anyone cos im not a dick. cant break anything cos i paid money for that. cant rip my hair out cos i need it on my head. literally what now

[antheiantics]

what are you even supposed to do when youre angry.  cant scream at anyone cos im not a dick. cant break anything cos i paid money for that. cant rip my hair out cos i need it on my head. literally what now

[antheiantics]

infp: *in distress* Why are you shooting the little guys?

entj: *playing video games and unbothered*

infp: *in more distress* stop shooting the little guys!

entj: That's how you play the game, infp!!

[antheiantics]

"there will be a day you will get tired of all the things you do for validation and that's the day you will feel extremely disconnected with yourself"

[antheiantics]

*crossed legs, put sunglasses, sipping Aperol, looking at the sea*

i don’t have time for small talk babe. get to the point.

[antheiantics]

And those chances I gave were never something I would say out loud or make known. They were more of chances I gave to myself, to prove to myself that it was still worth it.

I tried to wait for the change in you. I tried to believe you would work on yourself as much as I pushed you to do it, but no matter how many times we held that conversation it always seemed to go back to the beginning. As if all the reassurance and support I gave was forgotten. Maybe you liked the fact that I always was there. But there's a limit to how many times you can count on a person to pull you out of the swamp. Sorry, without much of an apology for this. During that process of wanting you to feel like you mattered (and you did), I forgot to work on myself. I thought I was fine and you too, same as me, didn't acknowledge that I wasn't. While I was in denial, you acted blind. I highly doubt that you didn't see it. You have a good intuition. You just either didn't know how to approach it or chose not to. Either is fine, honestly. The sad part is, I don't feel sad or care enough to know the answer now.

No matter. I'm way past it. But I wish we could have talked way back when I still wanted things to be better. Now I don't want anything from this friendship and it's sad but it's a step I need to take for myself no matter how confused it may leave you. Because you did care, but you never cared enough to speak up and I am done with waiting to be asked.

If I ever stop talking to you & remove you from my life, just know how hard it was for me. I have a bad habit of holding onto the little bit of good in ppl & giving too many chances. So if I don’t fw you anymore, it’s bc you pushed me way past my limits—but when I'm done I'm done

#thread #thoughts #friendship #life

[antheiantics]

i need to start appearing in people's nightmares