#the kind of love he says is so gross !!

[astrobei]

oh boy do i have some news for you

#quotes that make me want to slowly peel the skin off my body like a pomegranate #everyone talks abt mike’s need to be needed n wanted n loved #which is so true so valid so real #but like #can we circle back to will for a second . #bc it’s not just that he wants mike and can’t have him it’s like #for him this kind of love isn’t even in the picture #when he says ‘i’m not gonna fall in love’ knowing he already is #what he means is that love won’t ever be reciprocated #he can’t have what nancy and jonathan have #the kind of love he says is so gross !! #he thinks no one wants to hold his wrists and kiss his palms and smile at him !! #oh #head in hands my sweet baby boy #pls don’t tag this or make additions w ‘this but mike actually’ YES I KNOW MIKE ACTUALLT #ILL MAKE A BILLION MORE POSTS ABT MIKE #I PROMISE #BUT RN WE R TALKING ABT WILL ok that’s all #like #for him it’s mike or no one #and knowing he’ll never be able to have an easy teen romance like mike n el #or lucas and max #or jonathan and nancy or even dustin and suzie #:( #‘im not gonna fall in love’ meaning #‘i am in love but no one will fall in love with me’ #will byers #mike wheeler #byler #/astro posts

[thedarkonesposts]

Obligatory omega Kylar posting…. We r also talking abt the other school love interests in abo terms cause… I neglect anyone who isn’t Kylar 😐

Kywar (omega)

Everyone can tell he’s an omega. He gets made fun of for it because of course the grimy weird kid also has to be an omega

Kylar might be an omega but he has the violent possessiveness of an alpha. He’s also mad delusional and thinks he’s secretly an alpha despite being quite breedable and tiny. Obviously he isn’t and instantly gets submissive the second an alpha is actually around.

He’s unintentionally slutty, he has no ability to control his impulses- which leads to being starry eyed and needy around every single alpha before he’s mated. He’s just a little desperate to have a mate honestly.

Cute, he’s cute.

Even more of a hopeless romantic than usual, someone needs to claim and knot him before he whimpers at the wrong person. He’s incredibly shy but his urge for romance weighs out enough that he’ll stalk alphas and stare up at them w his heavy breathing the second they’re close.

Obsessed w having pups. Does not shut up abt it, thinks he’d have the cutest babies despite hating how he looks.

Being forcefully claimed wouldn’t phase him, he’d be happy someone wants him that much tbh.

Biter. Like regular Kylar he shows love in weirdly violent ways- biting excessively is definitely one of them. Once he gets a mate it’s over, they’re going to be covered head to thigh in bite marks and hickeys so everyone knows.

Gets separation anxiety from his mate, even if it’s just for a few hours he can barely handle being away.

The master of nest making and nesting. Dude makes the coziest nests and has the best naps there. Shits built with care and love.

Runt

His omega scent works hard against his lack of showers. He smells cinnamony. Christmassy almost. Just a nice mix of spice.

Sydney (beta)

Alluring to literally anyone, alphas, betas, omegas. Everyone wants him and thinks he’s a gorgeous and perfect mate

People argue abt what he is. They think he’s too pretty and kind to be a beta or alpha but too headstrong and self assured to be an omega. He’s also strong enough people doubt it. They’d probably be shocked to find out he’s just a beta

Doesn’t understand alpha or omega instincts and has a giggle abt how desperate and crazy they seem,,,But still wants a mate and hopes being a beta won’t ruin his chances

Grew up with an omega best friend so he’s kind of picked up on cozy omega activities like nesting and scenting. He’d definitely do them with a partner whenever he got one.

Prefers omegas, despite his masochistic tendencies he doesn’t like how alphas act, it annoys him.

Literally so pretty.

Whitney (alpha)

Annoying about it, everyone knows he’s an alpha because he’s the most stereotypical asshole alpha possible.

Claims he doesn’t want a mate and doesn’t care about having one yet absolutely does.

Has tried forcefully mating several ppl just for it to reject and him to have a bitch fit over it

Would be weirdly possessive once mated, definitely also a biter. He wouldn’t let his mate go out without being bitten and scratched to hell.

Smells nice, pine maybe.

Doesn’t want pups even once mated

Robin (omega? Beta?)

Could either go omega or beta, he’d still be smaller and submissive regardless but I think he’d suit being a beta more. His submissiveness is more earned than being inherent.

He isn’t like… pathetically needy. He’s dependent and loves to cuddle but it isn’t excessive.

No matter what he is he’s getting bullied for being an omega so he might as well just be one.

Neutral on pups, he feels like he’s too young to worry about that stuff.

Bonus Eden (alpha obviously)

Did you guys know Eden and Kylar would be the perfect couple? Yeah I’m making a section for eden just to shove this down ur throats again :)!!!!

Undoubtedly an alpha, just look at him. He’s aggressive, primal, big. The mate literally any omega would want. (ESP Kylar, Kylar would be on his knees begging for a chance if they met)

Violently possessive but also very protective and loving as a mate.

Not above forcefully mating someone, and doing it over and over until it doesn’t reject

He wants pups. Badly. The satisfaction of breeding his mate would be the best feeling in the world. He’d also be more than happy to trap them at home to keep them safe during pregnancy. He’d do literally everything for them- but still ask to be bathed and fed if they could manage it.

Smells like a campfire, cozy.

If only there was some desperate, loyal, needy omega who also desperately wanted pups. That would be crazy. If only someone else could match the same level of possessiveness and delusion it takes to kidnap someone and forcefully mate them….

#yea I think Eden would kind of be like eek abt Kylar’s genetics bc he’s so runty #but he’d get over it cause Kylar is… breedable still. even a little cute #pls I want them to meet and destroy each other #they’re both so possessive and insane they’d be so happy to isolate each other and never see the outside world #anyways I also wanna see alpha whitney be all :/ no one wants me while saying he hates everyone #just for Kylar’s gross self to be like hiii I want you I want you I want you pls love me #just because Kylar is desiresble to me and Eden doesn’t mean shitney wants him tho #degrees of lewdity kylar #kylar the loner #sydney the faithful #sydney the fallen #dol whitney #whitney the bully #degrees of lewdity whitney #degrees of lewdity Sydney #dol sydney #dol kylar #tsefried rambles #omega shenanigans #robin the orphan #degrees of lewdity Robin #dol Robin #eden the hunter #degrees of lewdity eden

[feline-evil]

Dick or no dick confirmation Pickles was always going to be trans to me anyways; if he's swingin' somethin that's phallo babes, if he's not then his t-dick fat. What's not to get.

#metalocalypse #jay talkin #I'm sorry they wrote that awful gross little man far too likeable and relatable to on a trans level #for me not to hoot and holler and cheer for the trans pickles agenda #changes nothing about his character arc or any of the show anyone is capable of being the kind of person he is #don't make the mistake of thinking thats exclusive to cis men #his transness wouldnt change that #only adds on an extra layer to him that i think works fantastically. #Listen that dude was rejected by his family driven to drink and drugs young to escape that ran away to be in a band #is called fucking Pickles of all things and refuses to tell anyone his real last name; #over the span of four seasons and two movies he slowly starts to learn to be for others what he never had #he becomes more caring more supportive #it's not a stretch to say he undoes some of the toxic masculinity he's been keeping himself shielded behind #and learns how to be a kinder man. #all of which have no contradictions with him being trans! #In fact it doesn't take much extra thought to find ways a lot of this can line up with some trans masculine experiences #i mean. Did no one else have a younger phase where they swung as far as they could into crass rude and uncaring ways #to try and assert their masculinity only to grow and realise that you can be a man and be more caring. #Did no one else have father issues. 1 800 come on now i know those are both shared experiences a lot of us have had LOL. #at the end of the day this show aired nearly 20 years ago and is finished. we're not getting more of it #so nothing is altered nor changed if pickles is canonically trans or not ok. its fine #i mean hell i dont even need canon confirmation hes trans to me and thats all i care abt #but i think if yr getting suuuuuper weird abt needing him not to be canonically trans you have some issues #and bio essentialist ideals of gender if you think only a cis man can act like he does #again. anyone can be like that. its not exclusive. him being trans would not change him in any way shape or form lol #AND ALSO GODDDUUUGH for once i love getting to see a guy pushing 50 whos depicted as trans #do you have any idea how dire and barren it is out here. we never get to see a trans guy older than 30 and whos not a pristine model #I WANT MORE OLD SHLUBBY SHITHEAD TRANS GUYS IN MEDIA

[skhardwarevers1]

when he writes you an entire letter to provide closure (the closure is vaguely mentioning that he messed up a little in the middle of three pages just accusing you of being a manipulative lovebomber): 😨

#Sorry I just needed to rant a little because HELLO ??? WHAT THE FUCK???? #Who the fuck does he think he is? It’s so poorly written too #I would excuse it if it was hand written—but this was TYPED AND PRINTED OUT #Not to mention he quite literally blames me for everything. Blames me for making him “loose his ability to be kind” #And for making him “never love again” #I’m sorry? If you think that I changed in a bad way? Because if you do you definitely need help #For the first time in MONTHS I felt confident without worrying about what he’d say about what I was wearing or how I looked #And how uncomfortable it made me every damn time #And I’m not even going to get into the endless amount of harassment and pressure to do the things he wanted to do because it’s gross #Cuz I’m not fully ready to face all that just yet. I’m literally still getting over spoken things and implications #Back to my point—subconsciously I started associating happiness with that feeling I had in the summer rather than with him #I grew as a person. I realized how fucked everything all was. If he can’t see that he might be right about being too far to fix himself #In conclusion: fuck Eloise and fuck his bullshit letter and fuck everything he did to me #S.K thinks #Vent #again….sorry

[softquietsteadylove]

We haven’t read from the Ballerina/Boxer AU since January I think! How about a little protectiveness from Thena this time?

"Wow," Gil murmured to himself as he walked down the aisle and towards the stage. His voice bounced around slightly, despite the carpeted floors. The crystal chandelier hanging above was lit up and glittering.

"You've been here before," Thena laughed lightly as she descended the steps to greet him.

"Yeah," he chuckled, receiving her in his arms and kissing her. "But only when I come to see you. And I'm not exactly absorbing my surroundings when that happens."

Thena just sighed, relishing the warmth of his embrace - and his hands on her back - a little longer.

They were in the middle of rehearsals for the dance company's next exhibition. She was reluctantly participating to advertise for herself and Sersi, as well as keep an eye on a few old students of hers who were now regulars.

Gil tapped his fingers against the bare skin of her back, "how is it?"

"Hm," she sighed, running her hands over his arms idly, "long. But they're giving us saturday and sunday this week. And in two weeks it'll all be over."

"So you can come over friday night?--is what you're saying?" Gil suggested hopefully, earning him another laugh and a kiss.

"I think I could manage that," Thena purred against him. She sighed less blissfully as she heard the doors to the stairwells open.

"What?" Gil blinked at her sudden change of mood. She swiped her lunch out of his hands and attempted to usher them back to the doors and out of the main theatre.

"Thena!"

Gil snorted at the total lack of attempt on Thena's part to disguise her annoyance. She let out a petulant grunt as her colleagues fluttered out of the wings and down the steps towards them.

"Who's this?" one of the other ballerinas asked with wide and curious eyes.

"Wait, this must be the beau that Thena's been texting between runs!"

"Is he?" another one gasped, although it sounded kind of fake. "This is the handsome specimen that's finally pulled perfect Miss Thena away from the stage?"

"We're leaving," she muttered to them, but they weren't having it.

Gil blinked as the flock of women spread out around them even more in an intimidating formation. Some of them towered over even him, making Thena seem even more delicate than usual.

"Thena, don't be so stingy," one of the really tall ones chastised her in a very patronising tone. "You know better than to bring something to rehearsal if you're not going to share."

Thena all but growled at them.

"Uh, sorry ladies," Gil attempted to speak up for himself, "but I was kind of hoping to have Thena all to myself."

More fake gasps; they reminded him of the girls in school who would say something nice and then whisper behind their hands the very next second.

"He's so sweet!"

"How ever did you find this one, Thee?"

Gil raised a brow at the overly familiar shortening of her name.

"None of your business," she continued to snarl at them, to no avail as they all but circled them in the narrow theatre aisle.

"He must be an athlete of some sort," one of the ones sitting down crooned as she eyed him up and down. "Look at those arms!"

Another round of giggles erupted from the group of them, much to Gil's discomfort. He tried not to squirm, squeezing Thena's hand in his.

"He must be good at lifts."

"I imagine they get up to a different kind of lifting, don't you think?"

Gil blushed.

"Well, Thee?--is he?" one leapt from her seat, reaching out to test out touching his arm for herself.

Thena swiped at the hand like a feral cat. She turned herself to face her colleagues head on, Gilgamesh behind her and her much smaller frame. "Enough."

"Oh, get over yourself, Thena," the tallest one rolled her eyes at Thena again. "We're just having a little fun."

"Not at my boyfriend's expense, you're not," Thena glared right at her, not intimidated in the least. "And I may have to be here for the company, but it does not require me to be civil with any of you."

"Yeah, that's clear."

Gil kept quiet, watching the women all but hiss at each other. He was happy to step in if his girlfriend was getting hit on, but she was more than capable of fighting her own battles. And he was pretty sure that boxing wouldn't help him in the least in defending himself against a flock of angry ballerinas.

"We are leaving. I will return for rehearsal." Thena listed out in her usual clipped and frosty tone. "You will never set eyes on him again without me there to make sure you behave."

"Whatever, Thena," the clear prime of the group crossed her arms in Thena's face, leaning over slightly to meet her eyes. "Are you so insecure that you think you have to babysit him?"

"Please," Thena finally cracked a smile, although Gil shivered to imagine being on the other side of it. "I couldn't imagine someone more loyal than him. You, on the other hand, seem quite eager to flirt with someone else's partner. My condolences to your poor husband."

Thena turned, her head held high and maybe with her nose turned up. She pulled Gil along behind her, grasping one of his hands and her lunch in the other.

Gil wrapped his arm around her as soon as they were in the lobby. "They seem...fun."

Thena wilted against him, letting out a very ungraceful growling sound. "I thought they were all having lunch in the greenroom downstairs. I never would have let you come in personally otherwise."

"What?" he chuckled, leading them out of the lobby and to the nearest peace and quiet. "Then I wouldn't have gotten to see you being a total badass with them."

"Gil," she chided him faintly as they headed out into the spring air. The light and breezy skirt she wore as a teacher was tied around her waist over her leotard.

He laid his jacket over her shoulders. "I mean it! It was pretty hot to see you fight 'em off like that, Gorgeous."

Thena blushed faintly, allowing herself the reprieve of snuggling into him until they reached a nice park bench. "Well, swans are very territorial, you know."

#Thenamesh Ballerina/Boxer AU #this might be a little defensive as opposed to protective #but I loved the idea of the other swans flocking to this big handsome man #and Thena's like back! get back! he's mine! #Gil gets to see a ballerina fight for territory and he's like whoa #these ladies mean business #they have a nice sweet lunch together #sitting on a park bench #taking turns feeding each other bites #y'know like gross disgusting couples in love do #then Thena goes back to rehearsals and holds her head high #the mean girls can say whatever they want about her #it does give her a kind of satisfaction #knowing they all want her boyfriend and can't have him #she tells Sersi later on and Sersi is like #I am a pacifist I believe in peace and love...but I will light their hair on fire #Thena's like not necessary #but if you ever see them so much as looking at Gil

[mothram]

#diana's music diary #good morning #i slept early #it was nice #very cozy #I only slept like 4 hours though cause I had to get up for a delivery... also I'm posting this a couple of hours after waking... #as is becoming usual for these... I've been kind of vibing to music pretty much... #anyway yesterday was good but so exhausting... played lethal company with friends like I'd said which was really fun!! was a little bit of #process getting my bearings in it since I'd seen maybe one second of gameplay before but after a day or two in game I picked it up I'd say! #I mostly just ran away when I saw something scary but I tried scanning a monster and it opened the door which made me scream once ahaha #after that I was a lil tired but we ended up having a session of the project moon ttrpg I'm in kind of out of nowhere #it was short but v fun to play Frei again he kind of completely shut down the distortion singlehandedly which was surprising considering he #has no combat capability.. incapacitated them and read its mind which helped us figure out what we needed to do to resolve the distortion #-peacefully! my partners character did the actual resolving cause Frei is terrified of going near anything as gross as that distortion was #(it was a giant gross greasy burger monster. who was just bob from bobs burgers. he ended up in a polycule with linda and teddy after.) #Frei also read my partners characters mind a bit and maybe upset him a little by mentioning his daughter (her character is divorced lol) #anyway yeah... I was tired after both of those so I kinda got in bed and passed out quickly while listening to music... #idk what I'll do today I'm a bit sore still and I'm v sick and tired rn so I'll probably just relax a bit... #let's make today nice and cozy and good... love u friends thank u for reading <3

[yuridovewing]

“oh ha ha the theory where ashfur is dovewing and ivypools father is so cringe”

#but…. my melodrama…. #real talk i like the theory but dislike whiteash. im not a believer bc i ship them im a believer bc its interesting to me #i see it as like. ashfur had a bruised ego and whitewing had had a crush on him since she was young #and he basically just. used her to restore his ego. bc hes a creep. he went to her not out of love not even as a second choice #but to go ‘’see? SOMEONE loves me so why cant that bitch love me? shes missing out on me #but he ofc wants squilf as a mate. so hes not official with whitewing he wont let her tell anyone #bc he wants her to come back to him and she cant do that if hes not available #so yeah means to an end situation. and when whitewing gets pregnant ashfur ditches her bc he wants REAL kits with squirrelflight #and whitewing is pretty sick of him but she still doesnt want to say who the dad is bc shes grossed out by him now #bc cant imagine he was exactly nice to her #and birchfall decides to be their adoptive dad bc he and whitewing are besties #and hes also in love w one of the shadowclan cats he traveled with so like lol works for him #and its not bc i want to put whitewing through that or something its bc i think the repercussions would be interesting #lionblaze and jayfeather try to be kind to dovepaw. but they look at her and see their murderer in their sisters place #dove and ivy being abandoned by their dad and only existing out of spite really. how that connects to the prophecy #and when it comes out that ashfur was an attempted murderer and they suspect hes their dad it just gets worse #and then in tbc two of the protags would be ashfurs grandchildren… they exist bc of him #and he uses both of them for his plans. may as well use his bastards for something in his eye #‘’oh but whitewing is cloudtails daughter and hes ashfurs foster brother-‘’ ashfur is already a creep lol #hes closer in age to squilf’s dad than he is to her so would u really put it past him #like the point isnt ‘’awww this ship would be cute’’ its ‘’ashfur is a sleazy asshole lets play with that’’

[allofuswantgwinam]

random but like 2 months ago my mom saw this video of this mom and daughter that would cuddle and like one of those touchy families ig and me and her do not and never have done that. Well this woman came to me after she saw it and was like talking about how she felt like maybe she wasn’t affectionate enough and I was like “no please. do not cuddle with me, i like how we are” and this bitch said “good, me too. but it just made wonder if you felt that way” 🤣🤣🤣 she’s so funny. i told her either way it’s too late now, i don’t even like when my friends are touchy with me most the time either but if i love you enough i will tolerate it 🤣🤣

#unless you’re my person i don’t wanna be touched 😭😭 #like my aunt is really touchy so when’s e went to Disney it was driving me crazy!!!! #but I love her so much so I just let it happen 🤣🤣 #I was dying inside tho #idk why #I realized this about myself a couple years ago actually #bc I have a friend that has trauma so she’s like ‘absolutely not’ #but i don’t necessarily have trauma but I hate it #but most the time I won’t say it unless idc about you #🤣🤣 #idrk why but I wanna know why I feel this way lol #cause my dad is affectionate and I would be like ‘no’ and he’d be like ‘you’re my kid idc I do what I want’ maybe that’s why #bc he didn’t respect my boundaries shocker #he not gross tho #I feel like that sounded bad but I’m talkin like a hug and kisses on the cheek etc #been meaning to rant about him actually bc he kinda been irritating #by that I mean I’m realizing a lot of things and it makes me kind of mad at him

[spartazia-blog]

Anyone, including Polin fans, (especially Polin fans) who calls Colin any version of idiot/stupid/blind OR who references him “grovelling” or “earning her love” or any other gross, dehumanizing term is an insta-block. Today was my tipping point for the low tolerance I had for the shit and hate Colin gets in this fandom

#polin #saying you ‘love’ a character and then insulting them is gross #and it belies the claim of love #stop MAKING COLIN OUT TO BE SOME KIND OF VILLAIN #Pen has more to apologize for than he does #and I fucking sick of pretending otherwise #I’m so over this fandom #leave Colin alone #keep his name out of your mouth if you are going to talk shit #just fuck off

[waluigisgaybf]

GOD it fucking sucks I cant even cuddle my doggies or my mom rn :( I want hugs and cuddle piles so bad rn.

#My household had me growing up super physically affectionate and just affectionate in general #we say I love you to eachother thousands of fucking times a day #but my step mom abused and scared me out of being able to be physically affectionate with my dad as often #like hugs and lil leaning against him on the couch cuddles #cause when I was around 15 she started telling me I wanted to fuck my dad #because I thought other people with beards were attractive #and she straight uo fucking said those words to me #and I KNEW she was fucking crazy #but it made me feel weird and fucked up about wanting to hug and chill with my dad as often #and we have Manny the doggie here #but hes not anywhere near the same kind of cuddle buddy as the dogs with my mom #and he sleeps in my dad and step moms room #and my mom and other dogs are still stuck in Texas to keep an eye on my great grandmas brain health #My step mom also used to FREAK the fuck out when me and my little brother would cuddle #she told us it was gross and disturbing and would yell at us #when literally he’d be sitting on top of my lap like in a criss cross shape on a chair #like hed try to make me phsycally uncomfortable by sitting on my legs weird to hurt them #and I would refuse to budge so then wed just both zone out on our phones or tv while he was on my legs #and shed LOOSE IT #so in combo with her #and my ex from 8th grade #Im really reallt fucked up when it comes to being able to be physically affectionate and I am so deeply touch starved from kt #it*

[edens-pen]

any movies, shows, books youve liked recently:)

i just finished The Glory which is a netflix kdrama, and i absolutely loved it!!! i love a good revenge plot and that's what i'm getting with this.

the main character is amazing and determined and "faithful to her anger" and her love interest is a fucking doctor and this man says, "i will be your executioner. who can i kill for you right now?"

venus like i was swooning over him !!!

#— eden's asked and answered <3*˜ #— venus ! <3 #no because they're actually so in love it's gross #she tells him she does not want a prince right now and he tells her he will be her executioner #like that is true fucking love #like he's so sweet actually i don't even know who he's coded #i kind of want to say nanami coded #but i really think it's the yuuji/sukuna combo of being sweet and able to kill someone

[baked-hylian]

My face after I get a text from my coworker that he loves the witch manga and already finished the three volumes I lent him

#wha #witch hat atelier #He sent me a huge run on sentence in the disguise of a paragraph about the series #and I'm just like oh you just wait it gets BETTER #but honestly everyone should check this series out #it is S tier #it's amazing #so beautifully illustrated #and the word is crafted with such intelligence and intricacy #AND KAMOME SHIRAHAMA SAID FUCK GROSS MEN THAT PREY ON GIRLS #We need more mangaka like that #seriously #I can't think of many series that treat that kind of topic #the way Shirahama treated it #She really said 'no most men aren't trash it's just you because you're trash' and made sure it was a man saying it to the trashbag #just #love it

[touyaz]

why's it always isagi talking about devouring people. when will it be bachira's turn. When will I get to see him sink his teeth into someone and lick their blood from his wrist and chew--

#i got @cannibachira (which i thought was cute but its kind of :/ now) and also @cannibalbachira btw. if u even care. #is it too weird to say he loves when he gets hair in his mouth lmaooo #oh god okay wait #tw gross #im gonna get weirder in the next tag #u love his enthusiasm to go down on u until he gifts u a hairball made of ur . pubes. i respect the grind icl hes so proud of it. #'look at all these little bits of u!!! isnt it cute!!!' man put that away and get back down there #HE'S A HAIR PUSSY ENTHUSIAST IS MY POINT!!!!!!!!!! #he makes me insane #tw cannibalism #lmk if i gotta tag more 😭😭😭 #wintext #the meat that eats meat

[holyshit]

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#mess anon #i think it's a reasonable thing to say since a lot of regular people are involved and it's become such a media shitshow #that it must be rough to be associated with all the drama surrounding it either way tbh #whether it was a complete mess bts a slight mess or not a mess at all #and the reality is we do not know what is true- we have hints that something went on mainly regarding florence #and obv the gross shia bs #but there's also a lot of the stuff that people are taking as fact are coming from anon sources- a lot of which could easily be fake #considering how much of a public spectacle this has become and people love to contribute to the drama fake or not #so the truth probably lies somewhere in the middle like with all these kinds of things because shit just keeps getting piled on #and i do feel bad for all the people involved who were just doing their jobs and are now dealing with such a public spectacle #attention anon #ehh i think it's a complex subject bc i do think he is a perfectionist and probably does want everything to come together like he planned it #so i wouldn't be shocked if he legitimately hopes it doesn't leak #but i don't consider people listening to leaks to at all be a moral issue. i always listen to leaks for artists i love #and it's never stopped me from supporting them through streams etc #so it's always annoying to see people make it into this huge moral Disrespect when you can't avoid the spread of information #of this scale once it's out- it's ridiculous to think otherwise #and acting like they're evil and awful for having a different opinion than louis might have #about the unavoidable spread once a leak happens #and i think no matter how he personally feels about it- he probably is realistic about it being a common thing that happens #and wouldn't put blame on individual fans for it lmao #but alas

[electriccenturies]

...why... why has the mcr fandom suddenly decided it's okay to call ppl slurs???

the misgendering is old news by now but the constant f*g f*ggot f*g f*g is new and AWFUL. it is NOT progressive or okay??? you get to reclaim it for YOURSELF, it is still a slur if you say it about others!!!! especially about ppl who have specifically asked you to not speculate or talk about their sexuality... and ppl who have almost certainly had that word used to hurt them.

like i cant speak about fr*nk or r*y but the w*y bros have both talked about people thinking they were gay in high school and being bullied for it. the 90s were NOT like now, it was not SAFE. that is also why ppl call m*key GNC btw since ive seen ppl complain about that. yeah what he wore is p normal NOW, but it was not back then??? you can't just remove context from things??? so yeah, m*key wearing super tight girls jeans and eyeliner and doing whatever the fuck he did to his hair back then (and even just being openly touchy feely with dudes??? like those heychris pics) WAS gnc in 2005. so, so wild to me how people have latched on to g*rard being the "true f*g of the band" or whatever when m*key was also pretty openly doing gay shit too. it says a lot about what people actually care about: making g*rard a paper doll to project onto — he was talking about YOU!!!! — rather than actually being excited to have successful, gnc, probably lgbt icons like that.

i just dont get how people can convince themselves they're being Good People and treating LGBT people well while they act like this. like trans is not a slur, she is not a slur, but it is 100% misgendering to call someone trans or she/her if they have never asked you to??? why is okay to misgender g*rard as a 'joke' but not misgender YOU?

it's because you treat transness as a joke, sorry!

#i have blocked so many ppl for calling g*rard a girl/trans/transfem/she/a f*g that theres barely anything left to see #I truly dont know what to say to ppl who think thats okay... how can they claim to 'love' and 'respect' g*rard #while blatantly violating his wishes? he has said over and over to STOP forcing labels on him #its not okay to misgender people i dont give a fuck if you're trans #its not okay to force ANY label on real human people or to call them slurs??? WHAT?!?! idk how this fandom got so twisted #g*rard has made it super fucking clear that his identity is none of our business and if he IS trans he clearly doesn't want to come out #(he's also clarified what he meant by he/they but ppl who take 'i identified WITH girls' as 'I identify AS a girl' dont care about that) #like ive said this before i think but believing he legit uses he/they pronouns also means that you think his brother and friends dont care #enough about him to do it since they ONLY ever use he when refering to g*rard #if he actually asks for smth then yeah of course ppl should respect it! but he HASN'T and he's straight up done the opposite #u think he's gonna ever feel safe coming out now that his words have been twisted and ppl think its cool to call him a trans woman? #idk its just Gross. it is the exact opposite of progressive and kind #think whatever u want like i have a Theory about a member of MCR but u know what? i dont fucking TELL people unless they bring it up first #and then only in DMs!!! #keep it to yourself if you have to talk about it!!!!! #im bitter about how ive been treated btw but i am trans positive... just not cool with THIS version of the 'trans community' #just if anyone was gonna throw that at me... i want changes but i do very much want trans ppl to be able to transition... ANYWAY

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next time i meet someone i gotta make smalltalk with at a party and they mention japan im straight up gonna pretend like ive never heard of the country or sth istg

#pot.txt #when someone talks about their past/upcoming trip to japan and i go yeah japans great been there before and they ask why and i say #Bc i have family there and you can just. smell the instant where you become an exotic specimen and trivia dispenser to them #im glad u enjoyed ur trip to japan lol why do i have to name the seaweed dish u ate in a region ive never visited #and why do i gotta hear how gross u think natto is. lol #i dont mind talking about japanese culture in appropriate contexts and i love talking about food but man. its def not the first time #Tho admittedly i did get off vibes from him when he asked me what i do and cut me off like a sentence in to explain that hes a scientist #albeit in a different biological system and knows about his wifes field via her work. #which like sure i get that kind of reaction if i was tryna explain a neuron to him. #But i was literally saying that i dont work in his wifes field lol #Oh man and when he said sth like oh so you claim to have japanese ancestry #haha youre very cute phrasing my heritage and identity like its somehow up for debate.