#the duality of fran

[soldier-poet-king]

WAILING while this job was far from perfect and def wasn't the place for me long-term professional development & career wise, one of the ladies from finance just brought me a farewell plant ;-; her office is A JUNGLE (I'm envious) and idk how she manages to keep everything alive but I got a baby plant in a mug and I'm 😭😭😭😭

#the duality of fran #it is a pilia (sp?) or chinese money plant #I MADE SURE TO GET THE NAME. BC I AM A NOTORIOUS PLANT KILLER #i love plants they do not love me back #im TRYING #my last apartment did not have enough natural light #i had like a dozen plants in my dorm and they ALL died when i moved to that apt #and i haven't bought any plants since. bc parents house basement #i miss having life around me!!!

[pxmlx]

I don’t have the time to start any new shows, so for the last few weeks I’ve been rewatching my comfort shows (mostly in the background, I can’t sit in silence), which means I’ve been switching between The Nanny and Criminal Minds and I’ve just realised how funny it is that I watch them both for comfort, they couldn’t be more different from each other (also there is little to none comfort in cm but oh well)

I do it with films too- Imagine me and you and fucking Speed 😭

#the duality of woman #cc babcock #the nanny #criminal minds #emily prentiss #fran fine #paget brewster #fran drescher #fran x cc #laura lane #temily #jennifer jareau #tara lewis #derek morgan #david rossi #niles the butler

[kcuf-ad]

If you take a selfie with me you will either get me looking this 🤩🤩😘😘😊😚 or like this 😠

#duality of man #duality of fran

[starkattaro]

Started making this very personal mental health project. But I also really want to talk about it. Cause it's been helping me a lot.

Basically it's the write letters to yourself to express your emotions but with a little twist, basically, use an existing character; fictional, real, whatever. That you would REALLY want to be friends with. But for one or another reason you can't. Like you would be friends with them in another universe.

And write letters to them! About all the things that you can't speak to them about, or anyone about, since they can't hear you. Since, they will never hear a beep, you can talk about every single thing that's bothering you!

I'm doing this because I have a very big issue, saying my emotions or problems out loud if I feel there's a person behind. This has gotten so bad I can't talk to therapist without lying to them about the severity of my emotions because I simply feel irrationally guilty.

Normally, I spent these nights, where I just remember every trauma or pain I've had. Trying to learn from it. Trying to solve it all on my own. As well as dealing with it now so I don't have to interrupt anyone with my hurt in the morning. Obviously, this doesn't work often. Mostly makes me feel worse. And I've simply gotten tired of not being able to tell anyone that I'm seriously hurting.

That bottle has reached its damn limit.

This way I can let it out somehow.

The fact that it's someone I can never speak to, gives me comfort. They're Someone. So it doesn't feel like I'm talking to mid air, just not someone I can bother, cause they probably don't remember my existence.

I already feel less lonely, which is kinda tragic. Get rid of the could have beens if you're making your own, and finally tell someone your recurring thoughts.

Maybe in the future, I can talk honestly to someone about my issues. Wording myself correctly, letting go a bit off the guilt, as I have been practicing with the letter system.

Cause I can't go to therapy and fix my issues, if one of the issues is. Not being able to go to therapy. I'm 18 years old, so I need to do my own appointments now. It has definitely become harder. Here is my progress, that is my goal. To schedule some damn appointment, or tell my mom to schedule me some damn appointment. And go to the appointment, and. Tell it all to someone with a person behind.

#maro rambles #mental health #coping mechanisms #I've decided to call the project #letters for 3/4 #mostly cause it rhymed a bit #and it's the amount of letters in the name idk #it's also online if I think someone reads something I immediately think I am driving someone to missery it's horrible 😭 #this blog was originally meant for this as well? but. again. i failed a bit. lol. #i can see someone crying and only feel awkward #but the moment I think I can make someone sad BOOM #duality of the Fran of Maro. i guess.

[suturcd]

@arcitraditore said: ❛ you don’t have to keep me company, i’m fine by myself. ❜  hueheuehueheuee

"If I leave you to your own devices, Mr. Buccellati, I fear there's a not-insubstantial chance of you returning to me regardless with knuckles in need of stitching," comes Fran's matter-of-fact tone, following a marked, thoughtful pause in the face of his dismissal. There is no bite in it, but it is perhaps a testament to the odd sort of quarter-friendship that has formed between them over repeat visits that she has become ever-so-incrementally bold enough to note such things in his presence.

Fran lifts her eyes from the splay of medical textbooks she's set on the nearby table to look to Buccellati, expression neutral but eyes intent. He reminds her of her father on occasion, in the way he carries tension--like Atlas holding up the sky. Her father, of course, was always worse at concealing things than the man before her--more erratic in his then-fresh grief, less polished than the well-honed, exacting knife Buccellati has learned to sharpen his troubles into over the years. Still, Buccellati is more man than myth despite perception--cool-carved marble giving way to tightly-coiled wire, and Fran knows beneath that, too, is the same blood and sinew and beating-heart-viscera of any human being. Fran thinks of him as young and ancient all at once--thinks of him often the same way she thinks of herself, as some half-alive creature with tenderness and vulnerability in a firm grip, because there are few safe places to put it down where it cannot be snatched away. Her gaze lowers.

"…Do you insist on it? …Me leaving, that is." She will give him the option to turn her away, but he needs to say it outright. It is possible Buccellati does not want company, but that does not necessarily mean he wants to be alone, either.

Fran likes to think, perhaps, that she is a good compromise between the two.

#ECTO? in MY inbox?????????? absolute treat #OUGHHH I MISSED THEM. EMOTIONAL SUPPORT COWORKER #arcitraditore #ic. #ic askmemes. #DUALITY OF U SENDING THIS PROMPT BUT ALSO THE ONE WHERE HE TELLS FRAN HIS DOOR IS ALWAYS OPEN TO HER AUUUGHHH THEIR DYNAMIC SO GOOD #just 2 people keeping the light on....... lighthouse metaphor....... something......... razzle dazzle #im so normal about them i swear

[kale-of-the-forbidden-cities]

fran bow is about duality

it's everywhere. all over the game. i'm normal about it

@cutebisexualmess @dizzeners @lemon-girl-in-devil-town @keefe--sencen @tastetherainbow290 @myfairkatiecat @awful-amateur @aspenaspenaspenaspenaspen

#fran bow #fran bow dagenhart #fran bow fanart #art #fanart #kale's art #kale's doodles

[theparonomasiac]

The duality of Fran

#Tensei Shitara Ken Deshita #Reincarnated as a Sword #Sword Anime #Tenken #Fran

[madame-fear]

I want to change my pfp to either another pic of Fran, or Kuku— and at the same time, I want to keep this one. The duality.

#help me i can’t choose #I SUCK AT DECIDING #✧.* amiraverse #random

[tabbytiger]

duality of fran

#fran #my ocs #tabby art

[littlebabyboybarzal]

Kyle totally give sexy young English Lit professor, but also give Big Tech sugar daddy. The Duality!

GET YOU A MAN WHO CAN DO BOTH!! Listen…hot lit professor is my JAM. But big tech sugar daddy…I’m looking 👀 I’d be up in his office like Fran sitting on Maxwell’s desk in short skirts all the time

#did not expect to thirst over him today lol #kyle dubas #asks #anon

[soldier-poet-king]

Ppl are always like noooo self love is bad and we have to be giving and altruistic and always considerate etc etc and like all of those things are true to a certain extent, but when you're a super serious kid who took it too literally and became a hypermoral adult it's just like

Well *I* like me and that's all that matters, regardless of what anyone else says

#the duality of fran #yes yes im a virtue ethics bitch and it's ultima abt balance #ultimately* #and yes yes disclaimer about things like. tattoos and clothing. not war crimes and murder #which shouldnt need to be said. but yknow. webbed site #ANYWAY I LIKE ME. I AM LEARNING TO REALLY LIKE THE ME I AM BECOMING #becoming is inherently a state of loss but it is also a state of joy

[luminiera-merge]

duality is one of the greatest tools we can use, especially for the rejection of false dichotomies. i personally would like to be an extremely tall bunny girl with sharp claws and sharp teeth (think fran from ffxii). it's a Gender thing and it's a feminine thing, but not entirely. people think masculine and feminine are a spectrum sometimes but like...why? why can't you take the things you like from each to fit your needs and wants bc there's where i sit

similarly, the false dichotomy of "smart" and "strong", or "booksmart" and "socially adjusted". why can't i be smart and strong and booksmart AND socially adjusted? i'm gonna try at least!!

sometimes i wanna be cute. sometimes i wanna be scary. i don't think i'm actually very GOOD at being scary but i don't think i have to be one or the other all the time. as always, i'll take what i want from each for whatever suits me. upbeat? chill? i'll be both! a planner? someone who wings it? i'll be both

and that's what i mean when i say duality is one of the greatest tools you can have. adaptability is everything and accepting that "duality" does not even mean adherence to a binary, but moving outside it if need be. not needing to stick to one thing or another, but not letting that mean you refuse to associate with it either. neither one nor the other, but not NOT one or the other either

#the idea of duality is smth we all think about but #few people use it to the extent it COULD be used

[ahkaahshi]

anyone wanna send sumn funny to my inbox/submissions or spare me a sliver of interaction lol I'm having a rare moment of extraversion :)

#fran thinks out loud!! #attention: come interact with me!! 💞❤️ #I'm trying so hard to finish this fic so I can do other things but I would appreciate a tidbit of interaction!! #I say this now and then when I get a message in my inbox my introvert self will come right back out n be like 😳😱 #the duality of fran #ive been in a funky mood all day long tbh so some lighthearted convos would be appreciated

[cat-bit]

I tab out for like a half an hour

Bruh

Sam

#dream smp #my heart is BROKEN #over this goddamn minecraft roleplay #love is dead and c!sam is a bad guy :( #i dont mean bad guy as in villain #i mean bad guy as in this man is about to torture ponk for those keycards AND ENJOY IT #i am devastated #BUT AT THE SAME TIME THATS SO INTERESTING #BECAUSE IM STILL SO SYMPATHETIC TOWARDS HIM #my mind automatically goes to the stream where he spent like 15 minutes blowing up his own base #to clear out the bloodvines and keep fran safe #his obvious trauma over being trapped with the egg #the fact that he qas willing to face that trauma to save hannah #THIS IS THE DUALITY OF MAN AND I AM S O B B I N G

[arkannis]

me looking at cal kestis: the actor...is the same.. actor...who....acted...as that joker dude...

#fran talks #how u look like a himbo #and then like THAT in the next minute #is this what the fellas call...duality of a man

[suturcd]

fran when she sees sb with their literal guts hanging out: it'll be fine, i'll just tuck those back in

fran when she has to wear powdered gloves: ohhhh Nothing Has Ever Felt This Repulsive

#ooc. #[fran vc] no powder free gloves??? just say u want me dead #duality of fran