#that im genderfluid?

[t4transsexual]

we need to normalize using certain terms as short hands. theres a lot of ways to stealth and that may include someone medically transitioning to male and telling people hes a trans man, when in reality hes nonbinary or genderfluid or multigender or agender or maybe even just a woman who transitioned, or hes questioning his gender entirely but just knows transitioning and living as a man is the right answer no matter what he is. basically if you thought someone was one thing and they tell you theyre something else actually, even if this was a recent revelation or they were stealthing, believe them

#and yes lots of nonbinary people stealth #also like its not always safe or comfortable #to give specifics to your gender identity #like with me #a lot of the times its way easier to say im a trans man #than to say im genderfluid #like be so fr with me #do you think im telling my 65 year old parents #that im genderfluid? #or even that i use it/its? #or that im a lesbian and a woman sometimes? #but that i want to transition anyway? #hell no #they would NOT understand #and thats ok! #im totally fine living most of my life as a man #even though im not one #trans #t4t #transmasc #transhet #trans man #transgender #transfem #trans woman #genderfluid #agender #bigender #multigender

[yuribeam]

for whoever needs to hear this:

starting HRT doesn't have to be a huge momentous all-or-nothing decision. you can just try it like you would an antidepressant you've been informed of the risks of.

there won't be any immediate irreversible changes overnight. you can always stop, change your dose, change your delivery system, decide it's not the right time. you can even microdose if you want to.

you don't have to tell anyone. you don't have to announce it if you don't want to.

stop waiting for a perfect time in your life because it won't come.

stop waiting to reach a mythical level of certainty that never comes to anyone, for anything.

you've been thinking about it long enough. if you have the opportunity, just give it a shot. you're worth the courage it takes to make a change in your life.

#yes im talking to you 🫵 #@ myself mostly lol but posting in case this resonates w anyone 🩷 #transgender #trans #hrt #hormone replacement therapy #estrogen #estradiol #testosterone #t #e #transition #gender transition #lgbt #lgbtq #nonbinary #genderqueer #genderfluid #agender #demigirl #demiboy #androgyne #androgynous #mtf #ftm #egg cracking #transfeminine #transmasculine #transfem #transmasc

[anarcho-smarmyism]

the way that "Karen" originally meant primarily white women using ther privilege to abuse people of color and service workers and the internet turned it into a stand-in for "bitch"...... the way that "NLOG" originally meant girls and women who performatively separate themselves from femininity and put down other women out of internalized misogyny but the internet turned it into a stand-in for their lesbophobic or transphobic slur of choice for masculine women.....the way "manic pixie dream girl" was originally a critique of a sexist trope in fiction and the internet turned it into a way to insult real life girls and women for being weird or quirky....never fucking ending

#sexism #misogyny #theres a version of this with white ppl appropriating aave but im not the guy to write that one #feminism #genderfluid

[anticapitalistmongoose]

alright boys, girls, neither, both, and those in between we need to clear something up:

if someone says they are queer, they are queer.

no ifs, ands, buts, etc. they are queer.

and if they discover later that they're cishet, great, amazing, wonderful, i'm glad we gave them community when they were figuring themselves out and needed it.

no gatekeeping of queerness here, alright?

because when shit hits the fan queerphobes wont care whether you're a cis gay man who goes by he/him or a bigender aromantic pansexual who goes by it/its

so stop with the respectability politics.

we're a community, fucking act like it.

#im tired of all the shit so id thought id clear this up #if you gatekeep other ppl's identities just shut up #important #queer #queer community #lgbtq #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #trans #gay #lesbian #bisexual #intersex #asexual #aromantic #pansexual #bigender #genderfluid #genderqueer

[l-cereta]

i think honestly the craziest thing abt transmisogyny isn't like the active moments of hate but the complete unwillingness and uninterest in anything we have to say — this assumption that if a trans woman is talking it's not worth your time and you can just scroll past. and then you'll have fuck terfs in your bio like nothing happened! wild

#if any of yall reblog that f1nnster post im gonna be heated for realsies tho #sorry! it actually was really shitty of her to perpetuate 'trap' narratives! that sucked a lot actually! #glad he's genderfluid now genuinely like good job but the amount of videos she put out that are like. just. spot the Fake Woman #like PLEASE respect tgirls even a little bit

[theeretblr]

I think when you wore that strawberry dress. It changed something, started seeing a lot more men in dresses that year. Maybe I sought it out but I do think u did something.

I have had a lot of people and fellow creators tell me that seeing me wearing a dress so confidently made them feel able to do it themselves.

The ones I hear about most are the Stawberry Dress and the Bi dress I wore to the first Streamer Awards, which was also the first time I wore a dress in public.

Trying to work out my gender and sexuality while being exploded with public attention was terrifying, but I feel like things have chilled out a lot, and I finally think I have worked stuff out.

It makes me so happy to have inspired so many! Be who you want to be! Don't let anyone stop you!

Fuck gender roles! <3

#askeret #gender #lgbtq+ #genderqueer #genderfluid #bisexual #tbh im still working stuff out lol #it takes time #you don't have to rush it :)

[candy8448]

If this post gets 3000 notes by the 16th April, i will come out to my friends

Edit: Should i lower it a bit?

I will lower it a bit

1000 notes

Edit2: im scared 0.0

Edit3: ajahahaaaaaaahhhh nooooo everyone is tagging everyone to spam and akahajaiGsjsuyasbdusb

Edit4: skauagsjeysjsdudhn we've hit the notes 0.0

Thanks :0...... ill come out then... not right away but hopefully before the 16th wish me luck 0.0

@felicitylemon got us to the end soooooo...... tank you

#i wanna do it but im scared so i need a motivator #bigenderflux #genderfluid #bigender #bigenderfluid #i do a little ramble #genderflux #multigender #pronouns #neopronoun user #neopronouns #lgbt #lgbt+ #gnc #gender nonconforming #trans #transgender #nonbinary #demigender

[fiapple]

as a bisexual with a complicated gender identity, i just think that's so sexy and intellectual of me actually. if you are also a bisexual with a complicated gender identity just know we should be sharing a nomination for a nobel prize rn.

#bisexuality #bisexual #trans tag #nonbinary #butch #femme #fem #agender #genderqueer #xenogender #genderless #genderfluid #bigender #lgbt+ #bisexual positivity #gender #also hi amber this doesn't mean im less sorry about being annoying. it just means its also fun. #5k

[thehealingsystem]

It's so wild to me that as a community we're still so hostile to multigender and genderfluid people existing in gay and lesbian spaces.

You...are aware that people who are both men and women are allowed to be gay, right? And lesbian? Their other genders doesn't cancel their connection to womanhood, or manhood, or whatever else they id with. They are allowed to be gay despite their fem-alignment, and they are allowed to be lesbian despite their masc-alignment.

It comes from these weird online spaces that the standard to be gay or lesbian is to be a "non-woman" or a "non-man," which is inherently transmultiphobic and...extremely ahistorical. And completely misunderstands nonbinary identity. So if you're both then you just don't belong anywhere I suppose.

#they treat these people as abnormal when really shoving anyone into categories of non-women and non-men is fucking #completely out of touch with how identity works #like i saw a demiboy lesbian flag and the comments are just FILLED with teenage queers getting so mad for no reason #saying shit like im in your walls or your father left you or whatever #please this is so CHILDISH grow UP #multigender #genderfluid #gay #lesbian #lesboy #turigirl #queer #lgbtq #just a he/they transmasc nonbinary boydyke lesbian VERY tired of this nonsense #actually erasure of multigender experience and that one of our genders will cancel out the other #made me very resistant to the fact that i may still be connected to feminity and girlhood #even though i am undoubtedly am #transmultiphobia

[deecotan]

in his "when will my husband return from war" era

#one piece #sanji #deeco art #im obsessed with genderfluid / fem presenting sanji you hve no idea

[cazmonaut]

is it madness?

#loki laufeyson #loki series #loki fanart #art #loki art #loki dark world #loki #mcu #marvel #do get help #im not doing get help #glorius purpose #im in love #men #but not a man if u know what i mean #genderfluid #tom hiddleston #painting #i love dilfs #happy birthday tom

[xumoonhao]

pride web badges, version 2! / flag outline

version 1

#hehe heres the newer design of them :3 im quite happy w/how they turned out :o #i like the originals ofc but i think these ones are sleeker and overall look neater! and im glad they all have hearts :3c #and i included the ones i was asked about before!!! three new ones in this set <3 #my art #web badges #ok to rb!!! #gay #queer #asexual #bisexual #pansexual #agender #aromantic #bigender #genderfluid #genderqueer #nonbinary #transgender #neopronouns #xenogender #as always free to use with or without credit :3 just dont claim as your own <3 #don’t reblog this if you’re a terf!!!

[calcium-supplement]

trans people are goddamn amazing and beautiful and i love you all, i hope you have a nice day and a good life full of respect and love and safety, you deserve it

transphobes, get the fuck away from my art and my family and my friends and my community. i hope for the sake of both yourself and the people you hurt, you privately figure your bullshit out and change and repent

everyone else, hi i love you. god. trans people kick so much ass. love you so much. take care. get some water, stretch, get something to eat, shower if you can, and i hope you sleep cozy tonight

#im nonbinary and genderfluid btw #but regardless of that i wanted to say this cuz it fucking sucks #trans pride #transphobia #yes this is about calcium-cat being a transphobe

[nightthinker-08]

*Taps mic* Yall gotta promise me to be normal about this or Im never drawin em like this again alright? Okay. Anyway hope yall enjoy this twink Pomni

#the amazing digital circus #tadc #my art #pomni tadc #He's a tumblr sexyman alright #been very self conscious about my art recently thats why arts been slow :'] #If you're wondering what my headcanon for Pomni I see them as genderfluid btw lol #I have a soft spot for binder Pomni cuz Im projecting xD but top surgery scar Pom is v cool too #Also Im slowly giving up on drawing these characters show accurate cuz dear god its hard and I suck at copying art styles

[one-time-i-dreamt]

I was coparenting a genderfluid demigod child with a bunch of friends, strangers, and also Chris Pratt. He kept acting like he was their real parent and deserved full custody despite not making any attempt to care for or understand them and they clearly disliked him.

#dream #i think their name was Lovelle? #they used he/she/they pronouns in the dream but im just using they for simplicity #also bc i cant ask which pronouns they prefer today since they arent real :( #i got so attached tho i miss them #coparenting #genderfluid #demigod #chris pratt

[gender-luster]

bitches be like "transition goals" and it's just a being, shrouded in darkness, cloaked in mystery, dark, like the void, lurking in the unknown, its true form long forgotten, not to be seen by the mortal eye

#it's me im bitches #trans #nonbinary #genderqueer #transition goals #transgender #genderfluid #agender #multigender #trans memes #the beast otgw #lgbtq+