Yet again, a woman faces her abuser in court. Yet again people are smearing her for coming forward. No one should ever have to publicly share photos of their medical care to have people believe them. We stand by you Megan, we believe you 💜.
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I just read some depressing transphobic shit, so in light of that
I just wanted to post another reminder that this blog is a trans-friendly space that is welcoming of everyone (except bigots). I myself am a cis woman but I’m trying my best to be a good ally to the trans, non-binary, and GNC community.
I can’t imagine how scary it is for you guys right now in this current climate (all across the world, really, but especially in the US and UK), but I hope you remember that you have allies out there who do care about you and will fight for you. Don’t give up hope, it’s the most precious thing we have.
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i really wish that every anti-porn post on this site wasn’t made by some unhinged bioessentialist terf and i DONT want to hear “maybe there’s a reason that all the anti-porn people are terfs” because i’m not thinking about this from a “porn is bad” angle. i would like to have a conversation about how western society effectively has two completely separate versions of sex; how the sex people have is a totally different thing from the sex they watch, and how porn is inherently objectifying (i say this in a neutral, literal sense of the word) because it’s a material you’re consuming, not an interaction. and how i wish we could actually acknowledge these things and talk about the dissonance between porn and interpersonal relationships!!! but every anti-porn post on this godforsaken site is like “men are just naturally born evil but also porn is eroding their brains but also they were like that in the first place” and i want to tear my hair out. can we please talk about the effects of porn (<- NEUTRAL PHRASE) without those fucking freaks showing up. also this post has been edited a bit because terfs keep twisting my words and i’m losing my goddamn patience
i ❤️ trans women
terfs don’t fucking touch this post i understand the complexities of porn on a deeper and more nuanced level than you could ever hope to
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cant believe your betraying womanhood and lesbianism….
Oh god the t*rfs found me. I’m not “betraying” anything. All I’ve done is discover a new thing about myself and changed my label appropriately. Discovering new parts about yourself is a GOOD thing. I am so grateful for my experiences in lesbianism and womanhood. I lived 18 years as a lesbian woman. Nothing is different now except I found an identity that makes me happy. Now please get off my blog, t*rfs are not welcome here.
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i know i’ve done a good job monitoring who i follow when my dash is full of people screaming for trans rights bc @photomatt is a fucking asshole :)
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“Dykes to Watch Out For” - Allison Bechdel
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Just saw a post from Biden saying that he’s a capitalist and I was like “why would he admit to that???” and then remembered that there’s people who actually think it’s a good thing
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Lesbian deerhound :] messing around with multiply layers and brushes
Fully neutral version under cut
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sometimes i think about jk rowling. she thinks women shouldn't have to use the same bathrooms as men, so she supports policies that force trans women into the men's bathroom and trans men into the women's bathroom. seems legit.
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saw a post that was talking about how someone detransitioned and was continually still referred to as nonbinary by their friends, but radfems had accepted her as a woman again immediately, so she joined them.
this. this is why we need to accept and respect people that detransition, switch to another gender after having already transitioned, or change their gender in any way. we cannot let our circles be closed while terfs and other exclusionary groups have their arms wide open.
please, for the love of god, from a genderfluid person who fights every day to be understood and accepted- be fucking normal and respectful about changes in gender and pronouns.
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i like wands, let me tell you why
(or scroll, i cant make you do anything)
once my choir teacher in school, when teaching my class about proper projection of sound, told us to close our eyes and point. like point at a spot in the room and make sure we knew what we were pointing at before we closed our eyes. and then pretend that you were aiming all your air, all your sound in that direction, tunneling through your hand and shooting directly in that area. and it helped a fuckton with projection!
i like to think of wands similarly. they’re conduits or tunnels, pipes almost. those who need them or want them can channel their intentions or magic or manifestation or whatever the hell you wanna call it, to help it “go” in a specific direction. they’re helpful channels for anyone who wants or needs them!
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laying on the floor at 2 am bc of The Hip Pains i shoulda bought life alrrt
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Yeah I don’t buy his apology tour one bit. He’s a master manipulator. I better not see anyone trying to defend this abusive pos come the trial next year.
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Grant me the serenity to not read reddit threads about JKR, the courage to not read reddit threads about JKR, and the wisdom to not read reddit threads about JKR.
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Sometimes I think I’m messed up but then I see a TERF in the wild of my notes and then I remember I’m my best self and I’m constantly improving <3
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