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Stashing, or pocketing: when one person in a relationship makes the conscious decision to hide the other person from their inner circle, both in real life and on social media; a situation where the person you're dating avoids introducing you to their family and friends; or where one partner demands complete secrecy about their relationship.
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Stashing
Si likea a los demás, sube otras fotos e ignora tus posteos, puedes estar sufriendo "stashing".
Sube fotos de la comida que tuvisteis, pero no te etiqueta, sólo escribe mensajes como «muy rico lugar».
Sube una foto del concierto de tu banda favorita, no obstante, en la descripción ni siquiera te menciona.
Encuentras un meme increíble de su película favorita y lo etiquetas, a pesar de todo, no responde.
Le da like a las fotos de tus amigos y amigas, pero la tuya pasa desapercibida.
Decides poner una foto con tu pareja y la etiquetas; sin embargo, debes esperar a que autorice dicho tag y nunca lo hace.
Comenta las publicaciones de otros, pero las tuyas las ignora.
No ve tus Instagram Stories (en las cuales, por cierto, siempre aparece).
Sólo likea —a veces— las fotos en las que sales con otros amigos.
Te dice que olvidó subir la foto que se tomaron juntos. «No subo nuestra foto porque nadie tiene que enterarse de que fuimos a bailar», te repite una y otra vez.
En la actualidad, la vida depende mucho de lo que dicen otros de nuestras redes sociales. Es decir, la popularidad se mide a partir de los likes en una fotografía, las ganancias de una banda dependen de las veces que escuchas sus canciones en las plataformas musicales y el amor se mide en fotos de perfil. 
Estamos en la era en la que es más fácil terminar una relación con alguien por medio de un mensaje de WhatsApp que citarle para platicar al respecto. Es por ello que las nuevas formas de hacer menos a la pareja tienen que ver directamente con las redes sociales y el Internet.
El satashing es una de las prácticas más comunes e, irónicamente, poco reconocidas. Consiste en un doloroso y largo silencio proveniente de una de las partes del noviazgo a través de Facebook, Twitter, Instagram o cualquier red social existente.
Es decir, mientras que tus amigos postean una fotografía con sus respectivas parejas y se llenan de elogios y emojis de corazones, tu pareja no sube jamás algo sobre vosotros, no comenta tus fotos y mucho menos va a gustarle tu última selfie en Instagram. En efecto: te esconde en el mundo virtual.
A simple vista puede parecer irrelevante o quizá podrías pensar que no hay por qué alarmarse, ya que es más valioso lo que se vive realmente. Sin embargo, sí importa y es doloroso. 
Aunque también se da en la vida real, la situación actual (la vida virtual) es más pública y, por lo consiguiente, cruel. Aunque, para evitar malentendidos, hay que saber en qué momento está ocurriendo un episodio de stashing y cuándo sólo hay desinterés en las redes. Es decir, si es una persona que se involucra mucho en ellas y postea constantemente acerca de su vida, entonces es un posible caso de stashing. Por muchas aristas que le quieras ver al asunto, no las hay y el problema es claro. 
Muchas personas tratan a otras como un producto de consumo. Igual que te gusta tener una caja de leche de repuesto, hay personas que coleccionan relaciones sin comprometerse emocionalmente. Se muestra interés y se utilizan técnicas de seducción falsas para enganchar al otro y que nunca les falte un cariño.
Si crees estar siendo víctima de stashing sin importar los motivos, debes saber que hay forma de solucionarlo y es con la comunicación. 
Pregúntale qué está ocurriendo y si tiene un problema en específico que le moleste de ti. 
Aclarad los términos de vuestra relación relación y si hay forma de solucionarlo sin terminar el noviazgo. 
Tal vez sea el momento de decir adiós por muy poco que haya durado, pero recuerda que un romance así no te llevará a ningún lado. 
Puede parecer exagerado terminar por un like en Facebook; no obstante, no es más que una demostración de que en realidad tu pareja no está interesada en algo más contigo o que no está seguro de quererte, y si es el caso, no pierdas más el tiempo.
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Rosa ❤️
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lescroniques · 6 months
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El Stashing en les Relacions: Quan l'Amor s'amaga, és un Senyal d'Alarma
Les relacions sentimentals són un viatge emocionant, però de tant en tant, veiem comportaments en la nostra parella que ens poden generar dubtes. Un d’aquests, seria l’anomenat “stashing,” un concepte que reflecteix una dinàmica relacional peculiar. gettyimages.es Què és el Stashing? El stashing és quan algú oculta la seva parella a altres aspectes importants de la seva vida, com amics,…
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ilearnmeathing · 6 months
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gresit · 7 days
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MONKEY MAN (2024) dir. Dev Patel
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ashoss · 5 months
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dick and jason being asshole older brothers because i think its funny
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dick: what do you think we should do, jaybird?
jason: i've got an idea, dickie.
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DC X DP PROMPT #16
Mr. Lancer is the brother of Lex Luthor. He never really had an eye for business, or invention, or innovation. He just wanted to be a teacher, spread the good word on literature. Which is the whole reason he had changed his name and moved to the middle of nowhere.
He does not appreciate his brother delivering a package in his door. Not delivering it personally, not even sending a physical person to do a drop off. Just a measly note.
'hold onto this for me - L.L.'
What has Lex ever done for him? Nothing, that's what. So Mr. Lancer does the sensible thing. He opens the box to investigate to find - hardened ectoplasm?
Mr. Lancer knows about Danny and co. Au where Kryptonite is just hardened Ecto and is basically rock candy. Lex sends his brother a shit ton of kryptonite for safe keeping thinking 'he lives in the middle of nowhere what's he gonna do with it?' he feeds it to Danny :)
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corvidaearts · 1 year
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a series oh photos involving The Incident as told on snapchat
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bonus epilogue sketch from doc under the cut
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dfsdgaefh · 2 months
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i fear ive fallen back into the kuroken mines
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legobowl · 2 months
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Human Macaque + separate wukong I drew for another drawing 😌😌😌🙏
I HATE THE SIX EARED MACAQUE. Also i CANT survive the winter I NEED SEASON 5 GUYS HOLD ME DOWN…
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shiftythrifting · 1 year
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i was wondering why there's food at the thrift store but... it's a container!
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chillymuffins · 1 month
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does anyone still like them? because i do
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cappycodeart · 5 months
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CONCEPT DOODLES for an AU I dabbled in with a few friends after the winter king episode but kinda forgot about after the Fionna and Cake finale... I decided to revisit it and explore a little more after coming to terms with everything LOL... So, it's another "Winter King doesn't die immediately after his crown gets nuked" AU, but THIS TIME he's just dying really slowly (like Simon in the Betty episode) and ALSO joins Fionna, Cake, and Simon on their search for magic crowns. There's no logic behind this tbh, we just wanted to put him through The Horrors. And make them all friends. But mostly The Horrors. :) (he only gets to live as a treat, because I think he's funny).
Bonus (old screenshot), because this is still funny to me:
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fuxuannie · 11 months
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╭₊˚ ๑︰𝒅𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒂𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒎𝒂𝒌𝒆𝒔 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒉𝒆𝒂𝒓𝒕 𝒈𝒓𝒐𝒘 𝒇𝒐𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓
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:★: pairings : spidey-boys x long distance lover ! reader
:★: warnings : none, crack & fluff
:★: a/n : new layout !!! watchu guys think :)? no major atsv spoilers
:★: tags : fluff, ldr relationships (more like different earth or universe relationships), author is very tired, sleepy brain rambling
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MILES falling inlove with you was.. rough. After you had no contact for so long, it felt like the one way he could meet you was in his dreams and face the dread aswell as the emptiness in his heart when he wakes up.
When he sees you again, it's almost instant the way he pulls you in for the tightest hug on earth. Miles is whispering sweet nothings about how much he misses you, the way you never left his mind since the first day you met & how you continue to cloud his every thought.
He just misses you so much, just having someone understand him because it's not the easiest to find people he can casually talk about his stuggles of being Spiderman.. but you were there. You were his safe place, his second home.
HOBIE is forever greatful for the technology that the Spider Society provides and can just make a portal at any time, all the while constantly being able to land in your bed with no fail every single time.
However he is not greatful that he's constantly on missions, and when he's not, you are. But honestly, sneaking off during his free time to visit you is his favorite activity. "Hey there, love." "HOBIEWHATAREYOUDOINGHERE??" (hobie what are you doing here)
Sometimes he thinks its a rare occurence to see you more than 4 times a week. It makes him miss you an awful lot, but those 3 hour cuddle sessions make him forget all his troubles.. so he'll bare it until he's able to see his lovely partner again. <3
PAVITR can't stand being away from you but he loves you too much to complain, he'll suck it in but whenever he gets sad he calls you on his watch and immediately lights up when you pick up and sees your face.
He doesn't demand anything, but all he asks is one call within the day. Little updates when you're given the chance if you want to, he knows you're very very busy like him but he's not immune to missing you, and he misses you so bad.
When he finally sees you again, he's GLUED to you. He's holding your hand, an arm around your shoulder or waist or he's practically carrying you around because he wants you to be super close after being starved of affection.
Conclusion : spidey-boys lack affection, plz give them they need it badly
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ravewing · 2 months
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the anomalofridge
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shallowseeker · 2 years
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35911220/
Stashing for later reading
And also a religious point of view -
https://www.mosaicsite.org/main/2022/3/15/moral-injury-and-the-power-of-forgiveness
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