Let's talk about the NWT laws about women and waterbending
This is going to go into a bit of religion here, so you've been warned.
Also, I finally got out Yee Old Computer to play around on for a bit. Faster typing, ya know...
Okay, lets start with the whole 'The women seem to be fine with these laws' and go from there.
I don't think they are 'okay' with the misogynistic laws. Not when the laws have been there to indoctrinate girls from a young age for centuries. It's more like they don't have a choice. I say this because its evident in the real world today. There are hundreds of religions that practice this same type of indoctrination around the world. It's one of the reasons I absolutely hate religion in the first place. But besides that point, even in America there are some places that practice this same misogynistic monologue. Some of them are well known.
SLDS is actually a prime example of this. There are women in this religion who are given no freedom to speak their mind, or even a choice on who they can marry. Some are even married to older men as pre-teen girls. This religion is all Patriarchal. The men make the decisions and the women have no choice but to follow. They aren't 'Okay' with it.
I've had the chance to stay in an Amish community for a few days while horse shopping in Southeastern Kentucky. The people are nice, but the women are almost always kept where they can't be seen by others. Both my friend (who is a retired social worker) and I were not okay with how the women are treated.
Point is, there is no choice.
Which is why when Katara comes to the NWT, she changes the conversation in a big way. Her place in her tribe gives her independence and validation. Especially when she is the only waterbender in her tribe. Even though the SWT started out as a NWT colony, their laws are completely different. It changes the dynamic between her and the principle leaders of the tribe she doesn't fully understand. The tribes have been out of touch for so long that both are virtually unrecognizable to each other. This happens with all cultures when they split off.
But Katara having her independence while Yue, in contrast, has to abide by tradition makes for a wonderful dynamic. Katara with the ability to choose for herself and fight for herself makes the story all that more interesting. But there is this little problem...
The silence of the women in the NWT.
In the Netflix adaptation, we see a change in narrative from the OG show. Katara advocates for the women of the NWT to fight because they aren't allowed. She does this after she proves herself to Pakku and to the leaders. Once this happens, she is able to change the narrative. She is able to change the outcome of several lives.
I'm not going to go into Yue's bending with the NLA, but it really doesn't affect the story all that much. However, Katara speaking up for all the female waterbenders does have an impact. The women are suddenly given a chance to find their voice, to make a change that Katara started. Something that doesn't happen much in the real world today and often comes with consequences. Namely disownment from family and no support.
Which is why I love that part of Katara's journey. It's not that the women suddenly want to fight. Maybe they've been wanting the chance for a long time, but because of consequences, they can't.
Sometimes it does take one person from somewhere else to start the conversation for change.
Okay, I think I've gone on long enough, but hopefully you get my point.
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MYSTERY MAN
starring itoshi rin!
synopsis: you decide to go watch rin's football practice for the first time, much to his delight. his teammates struggle to figure out who you are and what you've done to their usually very grumpy rin.
requested by @checkoutmyflow! i hope i did your rq justice ^^
notes: first time completing a request! sorry for the wait >.< ALSO this is gn!reader :)
admittedly, you weren't much of a football fan, even though your boyfriend was a professional college player. you didn't really understand the sport, as you hadn't played it since second grade gym class, but for some reason, you had decided that today, on this sunny tuesday afternoon, you were going to drop by rin's practice alongside a football-for-dummies book to watch and hopefully learn a little about the sport he was so enamored with.
it would appear that they were in the middle of a practice match, as his teammates and him were wearing different colored pennies, and there was someone keeping score on a whiteboard.
you sat down on the bleachers quietly, not wanting to distract anyone from the game. your eyes scanned the field quickly, almost instantly finding rin's unique dark green hair. you tried your best to keep up with what was happening, quickly flipping through your book whenever someone did something cool to try and find it, but it proved to be quite difficult, and you found yourself very confused at the sport's intricacies.
despite your lack of understanding, the one thing you could observe and comprehend was how alive rin looked whilst playing. he was sweating, shit-talking, and scrambling around the field non-stop, clearly very tired, but his eyes had a certain glimmer to them that you didn't get to see often, and he moved around the field with immaculate grace and precision. you watched as he skillfully maneuvered around the field and how he seemed to be able to calculate exactly where his opponent would go. you didn't have to understand the sport to know that this field was a place where itoshi rin shined like no other.
rin took hold of the ball and began dashing across the field with it, his shiny hair blowing behind him. his eyes began darting around the field, his brain taking in and calculating every factor necessary to victory.
his brain certainly didn't expect to see you, his lovely s/o who knows nothing about football, sitting on the bleachers.
your eyes made contact for a brief moment before rin tripped over his own feet and flew forward, making literally everybody on the field stop what they were doing.
a brief moment of silence washed over the field before laughter soon took its place, his teammates jogging over to him asking if he was ok, and what the hell just happened as they howled in mirth.
he grumbled some excuse with red cheeks as he looked away, clearly very mortified. his coach decided to call a break, seeing as everyone had already stopped playing, and he grabbed his water before practically sprinting over to you.
"y/n," he breathed as he came to a stop in front of you, puffing a little from fatigue. "you're here."
you giggled. "hi, rin. i thought i should come watch one of your practices. i want to get to know all the aspects of your life, after all."
he leaned in closer to you to brush his hand against yours as you two chatted a bit. anyone could see the way his eyes softened as you spoke and how his shoulders relaxed at your every move. anyone even being his pretty-damn-stupid team.
in the distance, bachira, isagi, chigiri, nagi, and reo murmured amongst themselves, wondering about who you were - the mystery person mr. im-better-than-you-and-grumpy-all-the-time rin looked so happy to see.
"his sibling, maybe?"
"nah, i'm pretty sure sae is his only sibling."
"oh! what about his parent, then?"
"dude, do you have eyes? way too hot to be a parent."
"his lover, maybe?"
there were a solid 5 seconds of silence before they burst out into laughter once more.
"get out. itoshi rin, an s/o? no way in hell, dude."
"i doubt he could even keep anyone for more than a month. they'd get tired of his attitude real quick and leave just as fast."
"rin-chan probably isn't capable of loving anyone, after all."
despite their adamant denial of your relationship with rin, they could all notice rin's demeanor. he looked happier, more at ease, gentler, kinder, and overall, he looked like a normal person. who were you, and what had you done to their rin?
coach blew his whistle, and they watched as you gestured for him to get back with his team. they then watched with their jaws on the floor as he, itoshi rin, POUTED and SWEETLY PLANTED A KISS on your forehead before jogging off.
they all exchanged looks of pure shock as rin jogged back to them.
they all gave him a shocked look as he raised a brow.
"...what?"
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