Background checks on potential partners:
Today I saw something that was quite alarming while on a certain social media platform. I’m apart of a group that is for women to find out if they are engaging with the same men in our city. A woman posts a picture of a man she’s chatting with. I was a few hours late before I had seen the screenshot. From I read in the comments apparently his number was shown in the picture. By the time I saw the photo the number was gone from the picture. I was in shock by how the women were scrutinizing her so harshly. Yes I understand it wasn’t  acceptable for his information to be displayed but it was really overkill.
The woman who posted the photo when on to say that she conducted a background check on him. As she does with every man she considering. One commenter said “how would like to be background checked?”. Which I found astonishing coming out of a woman’s mouth. Why would you not conduct background checks, especially as a woman with the dangers you’re more likely to encounter interacting with the opposite sex? It was a very insensitive and tone deaf comment.
I say all of this to say can please stop making disclaimers, rooting for, and defending a gender, who collectively don’t do the same for you. Let the words reciprocity ring through your mind, with dealing that you have with human race. You deserve reciprocation. Please save yourself the embarrassment. Dignity is such a beautiful thing the honor and love you decide to show yourself is pivotal to your mental state. Can we be a little kinder to each other. The women’s experience can beautiful and challenging. 💝

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