#sometimes my bowels get upset

[dino-boyo-agere]

Tipps for little ones that are prone to accidents!!

(Obvious cw! for diaper mention)

mainly regarding No. 2 since that's what I deal with pretty much every day.

Which padding might be best?

Finding the right diaper for regular, or even everyday use can be difficult.

Since I regularly go potty normally, I often have to open and close my diapers. I find hook & loop tapes are the most durable option for this.

Pull ups are also easy for that, but they tend to get saggy and they fray really easily, so I'm not a big fan of them.

Cloth back diapers aren't crinkly, so they are more subtle than others.

The thickness of a diaper is not important when you only go number 2 in them, since they don't have to "absorb" liquid, just hold the other stuff, so you can go as thin - and therefore subtle - as you'd like.

Medical diapers are much more affordable than cute ones, but they are also boring.. Drawing on your diapers or putting stickers on them can be a great solution, aswell as a fun crafting project.

How to possibly prevent accidents?

Prevention is not always possible, but those tricks help me sometimes.

Be careful what you eat/ drink. Knowing what dietary constrictions you have and upholding them can be vital. Try avoiding possible triggers for IBS, food intolerances, etc. Especially when you'll be out and about, where having an accident could feel especially upsetting.

Try and figure out the "schedule" of your bowel movements, most people have to go at certain times and in certain intervals after eating. Figuring out your schedule if possible can help you prevent accidents by going to the toilet at the right time precautionary. Finding out your schedule can be done by writing down every time you use the restroom, especially after eating/ drinking, so also note the times of that! Do so for at least one moth to try and figure out a clear pattern.

What do when you had an accident in public?

Having an accident in public can feel upsetting and humiliating, I often get really self-conscious and sad if it happens.. But I have some Tipps that help me deal.

Firstly, here is a tiny tutorial for the cleanest way to "fold" a dirty diaper, to prevent any leaking.

I always carry little diaper bags with me, that I previously filled with a "smell killing powder". → these powders can be bought online or in stores, they are advertised as scent killers, odour eliminating Powder or garbage / diaper bin deodorizing powder. (I use "Geruchs Vernichter" by Dr. Becher) !! don't put the powder in a diaper while/ before wearing it, it's really harmful to the skin !!

The diaper bags are just little plastic bags, there are options to get ones that aren't see through, if you're super self-conscious. Another option is to wrap the bag (or diaper in it) in toilet paper to disguise it. The bags themselves are also available scented!

Carrying air freshener or deodorant may also help you, when you're in a public bathroom and feel self-conscious about the smell.

A fresh diaper, aswell as wet wipes and disposable gloves are also always in my travel bag.

Make a list of positive affirmations & take it with you everywhere.

It's not your fault, you're not broken, you're not icky, you are so valid & these accidents don't change anything about that!! <3

What to wear?

If your shy about wearing diapers, the right clothes may give you comfort.

Baggy clothes to hide them are a great option.

I found hoodies that are long enough to cover up the back areas especially comforting.

Baggy pants in general are great to hide your padding, just make sure to wear a belt so they don't slip of!

I always wear a tugged in shirt or a onesie, so there is no peeking of the diaper when I lean forward.

Wearing a short leggings/ underwear over your diaper might give you a feeling of safety aswell.

That's all I can think of right now, I might update this later though. Everyone is free to add their own tips, tricks or remarks aswell!!

I want you to know that there is nothing sameful or icky about having to wear diapers or simply choosing to wear them for comfort. There is nothing weird about it and you are not broken or less worthy of love for wearing/ needing padding.

You are strong, you got this and I'm so very proud of you for taking care of yourself!

Stay safe, kiddo!

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[ewesless]

💨💀 Headcanons!

@5mary5

Okay so this is my dirty secret forbidden crack. Here there be talk about bad gas out the ass (I can't find that legendary tumblr post, but if I do I will edit this post.) Edit: As promised! No wonder I couldn't find it :( I bless old chats, thank you old chats.

Mine will be the opposite with the characters breaking the taboo with MC!

MC: Somehow they have never done this in front of anyone. Is it magic? Superhuman levels of self control? Nay, it's because they are a sheep plushie. Laughs at farts because they are pretty immature and like crude humor. So this will be their reaction!

Lucifer: Only in the sanctuary of the bathroom, but he does alone in his room or office. He has the tightest control and the stick up in there helps a bit. Even dead asleep he has ironclad hold over his sphincter. Mammon and the Anti-Lucifer League have tried to cause him to with gas causing food and drinks, but even curses, spells and hexes failed. Does he even fart or is that why he's so cranky all the time? Scolds MC for being immature and regularly chews out his brothers for being vulgar. Strings anyone up by the heels who would have the audacity to fart in front of Diavolo because it makes Diavolo lol and Barbatos looks at him like he's commit a heinous offense.

Mammon: Will hold someone down and fart on them, aka his brothers, by that I mean Levi. He would be embarrassed for letting one slip in front of MC, but when he finds out it makes them laugh and they're okay with it he's relaxes and won't worry about letting them out. Intentionally low pressure ones though and tries to be quiet about it. Will tap Luke someone else on the shoulder and say, "Guess what?" And then fart!! He fooled Luke and Little D. no. 2 with the "pull my finger" trick.

Leviathan: Rancid, third stinkiest because of his food choices and because he will hold his bowels during binge sessions and speed runs. His headphones have advanced noise cancelling now because he was having a gas attack from anxiety during an game night against MC, Diavolo and Barbatos (Because Barbatos was curbstomping him) so all of a sudden he is gifted these fancy headphones??? He doesn't connect the dots because he thought his old pair had good cancelling. When MC is hanging out with him he'll apologize only if they're audible or noticeably stinky. He thought the reason MC was laughing their ass off that fateful game night because he was so funny...

Satan: Third stinkiest. He's accustomed to being alone in his room so when he's reading in the library and wants to be left alone he will rip ass. It smells like a litter box in his room sometimes, but he blames it on Mammon's cooking rather than the cats he is able to smuggle in. He doesn't fart intentionally in front of MC, but he isn't bothered by it when he does because it's a normal bodily function so wht would he be? That's illogical.

Asmodeus: you would not catch him DEAD. He gets an upset stomach occasionally from fad dieting so he takes stomach medicine when he does, but he's an "exclusively in the bathroom" type. He will whenever he's alone though, but he resents it. He thinks his gas smells the least offensive and he's right!

Beelzebub: The stinkiest of stinkies. They have power behind them too, like gale force hurricanes (not really, but you could swear it) when he has eaten certain food. He does not hold back but he does apologize when he belches and farts.

Belphegor: Second stinkiest, silent but deadlies. No apologies, no remorse because he's lazy and his rear is just as lazy and it's a natural bodily function. He uses them to troll his brothers too, but he always gets a particular smirk when he does and they are a creeping death so if someone is observant or wary enough (like Lucifer) they will escape the room.

Diavolo: He got caught off guard by one in front of MC once and it snuck past his defenses unhindered. He almost died from embarrassment and MC almost died from trying not to laugh about it. After that he was profusely apologetic, but MC told him it was fine as they laughed and soon Diavolo was laughing with them. He's always extremely polite and socially graceful about even a stomach gurgle because he has an image (and a Barbatos who is always protecting and enforcing that image) he has trained himself to have an incredible ability to hold them in. (The chat where he had the leg cramp supports this) So when he catches a moment between public appearances or meetings to escape to the bathroom he has to make the most of the opportunity. He farts for funnies in front of Lucifer when they've been drinking because one time he did and Lucifer was so aghast by his gas that he let out a scoff-laugh of disbelief and amusement that the Devildom Prince just did that. Diavolo is hellbent on hearing that cute reaction again and uses it at unexpected moments like a ninja flashbang. With MC he feels like he doesn't have to feel the pressure to be seen as perfect and occasional fartiness (usually when Barbatos is on a kick with certain foods) is just part of him that he can be himself without fear of judgement with them about.

Barbatos: My MC would be in a long term battle of wills against anyone, but particularly Barbatos. They will not fart. He will not fart. No one has given ground in the ?(?) years they have known each other. The reason why? One time he passed gas in front of them and was so ashamed because of looking anything less than completely perfect, flawless and in control that he edited the timeline. He will go so far as to summon portals and step into pocket dimensions to fart.

Luke: Holds them and excuses himself to the bathroom because he's a polite and well mannered boy (in some ways...) and it would reflect negatively on Michael and Simeon for him to do that. If he tooted (his words) in front of MC he would be upset about being gross or uncool in front of them, but MC would reassure him everyone does and that it was kinda funny though, wasn't it? Well ;n; I guess it kinda was... never again.

Simeon: He doesn't exactly hold them back, but he doesn't exactly let them out either. These situations do call for discretion, but he gives it away even if it was overlooked because he laughs a little and apologizes every time. In front of MC it makes him embarrassed, but when he realizes they make MC laugh he's more inclined to be relaxed and might do it for funnies.

Solomon: He has a category of his own. His food may not affect him, but it does affect the smell of his farts. At PH his room smells like absolute rotten ass unless Simeon rushes and airs it out whenever Solomon leaves it because he keeps the door shut and locked and often stays in their a whole day or more. Like Leviathan he'll be busy or distracted and in flow state with his research and magic and not use the bathroom. He can go in the woods no difficulty because he has magic to assist (not like HP wizards though. The man has sensibilities and couth.) He knew MC laughs at farts by observing their reactions to others so sometimes he'll say, "Hey MC." to get their attention and then rip one and laugh with them. During routine inspections of Cocytus Hall Barbatos actually casts a spell on his nose and mouth because of the foul and despicable sham of a sorcerer's fecal particles saturate the air.

Raphael: Because he eats a variety of foods but also regularly eats Solomon's food his are a subcategory of Solomon's. He does not make an expression or reaction and noone else does either because even his farts convey threat and the danger of his rain of spears.

Mephistopheles: When he was a young Demon he was even more anxious about looking good in front of Diavolo and impressing him. He did fart in front of him once and was so mortified that he vowed to never do something so disgraceful again. Will not ever fart in front of MC.

Thirteen: THIS IS THE REASON SHE HATES SOLOMON SO MUCH. She got a severe upset stomach from his food and actually thought about 100 new death traps to murder him with. That was the only reason she didn't kill him on the spot bacause the silver lining was those 100 traps! She would sooner hide out until the extinction of all life before she would pass gas in front of MC or anyone. The number one and only who adheres to the in the bathroom!!!

These are inspired by real life! Especially Mammon and Solomon.

#obey me #obey me nightbringer #obey me lucifer #obey me mammon #obey me leviathan #obey me satan #obey me asmodeus #obey me beelzebub #obey me belphegor #obey me diavolo #obey me barbatos #obey me luke #obey me simeon #obey me solomon #obey me raphael #obey me mephistopheles #obey me thirteen #obey me 13 #useless writing

[hereticpriest]

Chew

Rating: Mature?

Relationship: Laszlo Kreizler x reader

This is a bit of a prequel to Bite, expanding upon the beginnings of their relationship. Soon to be followed by another prequel about their wedding night.

Warnings: Heavily implied odaxelagnia, letters of an intimate nature, flirting in the 1890s, period typical misogyny, period typical relationship culture.

Note: Szerelmem means 'my love' in Hungarian.

When you had first started your job as typist at the Kreizler Institute, you thought that you would have a small cubby tucked away somewhere in the bowels of the Institute. Somewhere where the good people who ran the Institute could forget that you existed until they had need of you, like any woman who dared have a job in these tumultuous times. Your interview with Dr. Kreizler had been perfunctory, but he had paid attention to you as you spoke, and he only interrupted you once, to stop a somewhat self-deprecating verbal spiral. He gave you a short test regarding your typing skills and ability to take dictation, reading over your results with a double-edged comment about your remarkable grasp of the spelling of complex medical terminology.

When you had arrived for your first day, you were surprised to find yourself led up to Dr. Kreizler's office, where a desk had been placed with a typewriter and appropriate supplies. The chair was comfortable, but you felt a little bit nervous under the heavy scrutiny of your boss. Thankfully, he was fair, and genuinely kind most of the time. He was wonderful with the children, and you truly admired the easy manner in which he spoke to them. He had a habit of prying, as if he needed to understand the way your mind worked, and you remember distinctly the moment you told him he couldn’t ever be capable of fully understanding your mind seeing as he was a man, and you were a woman. You had experiences he could never properly relate to.

That had certainly sparked one hell of a debate, but he hadn't been upset with you. Instead, he seemed to want to prove you wrong by way of dissecting your brain while you were meant to be working. He asked you questions endlessly, sometimes completely out of nowhere, and often those of a personal nature. However, you found yourself happy enough to speak to him, exposing your tenuous relationship with your parents, who were upset that you chose to have a job despite their intense desire for you to marry as soon as possible. He noticed your compulsion to chew the skin around your nails and asked you questions about it as if you were his patient rather than his typist. The following morning, you came into work to find a brand new pair of gorgeous gloves on your desk, and Dr. Kreizler suspiciously quiet.

Shortly after, you met the first of his friends, John Moore. He was very kind to you, with a certain sensitivity you weren’t used to seeing in high society men, though he always treated you as if you were very delicate. Next, came Sara Howard, a woman who impressed you very much as she was the first woman to ever work for the Police outside of cleaning staff. You both spent many a time together commiserating over the trials of working for men, though you felt a bit bad since you had much less to complain about than she did. Dr. Kreizler was very kind to you, if blunt and manipulative. He’d never made you feel uncomfortable in the way that men often made women feel uncomfortable, and he was respectful of your personal space. You often stayed at the Institute as late as he did, and he would always offer you his arm to walk you to his carriage, giving you a ride home safely, and walking you to the door despite you insisting it wasn’t necessary.

He was, however, prone to staring. It wasn’t like you thought he was staring at you - you were sure he was just lost in thought and not really seeing what he was looking at - but you could feel his eyes burning into you regardless and it had taken some time to get used to it. He was also prone to prying in ways that were considered socially inappropriate. He asked you about your fears, your dreams, your desires, and your relationship with your parents. He probed when you told him that your parents wanted you to marry instead of working for him. He asked about your prior suitors, or at least attempted suitors, and how you felt about them. Every time you helped with a case, be it criminal or simply a patient, he would demand your opinion and make you defend it.

The fact that he did it to everyone made it easier to handle - he didn’t think you were stupid and feel as if he needed to decipher your nonsensical thinking. On the contrary, he valued your opinion and thus wanted to hear it, and discuss it. He just wasn’t very good at the discussion part, and made it feel more like defending one’s scientific papers. Mr. Moore tended to get offended on your behalf when Dr. Kreizler did it in front of him, but you always took it in stride, and when you were done with the conversation or had run out of points, you simply had to admit it in order for the good doctor to leave you alone. He wasn’t trying to be a pest, he just liked a good argument to get his brain whirring. He liked dissecting every point to find the truth of a matter, and was very much open to considering the opinions of others, which was a rarity. He just made it seem like a fight when it was really his burning curiosity.

The brothers Isaacson entered Dr. Kreizler’s group last, and together they began to work on the case of the murders of young boy prostitutes. Mr. Moore protested your involvement like he did Sara’s, but you were a bit more gentle in telling him that you had a very strong stomach. You were, in fact, fascinated by the whole ordeal, which was a morbid fact you tried to keep to yourself lest you seem rather strange. You didn’t do any investigating yourself - you were simply there to take notes, and make copies of the files that Sara borrowed from the Police department. However, Dr. Kreizler brought you everywhere with him when he was investigating, offering you his arm and keeping himself between you and any other men to avoid you becoming uncomfortable. He was careful with you, and you appreciated that he took you into consideration when he brought you to less than appropriate places.

Note-taking for the investigators brought you to becoming somewhat comfortable in Dr. Kreizler’s home, as you all often met there, and Dr. Kreizler had a habit of thinking aloud when he was finished at a crime scene. He began asking you to come back with him to the house so that you could discuss the case, notes you had already taken, and what you were missing. Often, John Moore and Sara Howard would join you if they had the time, though you lied to your parents when you told them you were never actually alone with Dr. Kreizler. Countless times, you had curled up on the sofa across from him, talking until Cyrus or Stevie would have to remind you that you might want to leave before nightfall. The good doctor would come with you in the carriage even though he had no need to, and it always made you feel soft, even if he’d been rather annoying or mean that day.

It was only recently that things had begun to change.

Your parents were on a rampage - a backhanded reference to your wasted youth and beauty by one of their high society friends had sent them into a tizzy, and you found yourself the victim of near-constant badgering. They were insistent that you leave your job and let them find you a husband so you could raise your station and theirs. For a long portion of your employment, you’d been able to stave them off by promising that you did want to marry, you just wanted to experience the world a little bit first. Unsurprisingly, that had come to bite you in the ass. They had found a gentleman whose prospects were affected by his unfortunate stutter, and he was willing to overlook your want for employment. Your parents had given you a lecture the previous night, and made it very clear that you were going to marry this man when he asked. The ‘or else’ was implied, and had kept you up all night.

You stumble on the slight ridge where the door to Dr. Kreizler’s office closes, which he told you was used for privacy as it helped dampen sound. It’s the first time you’ve ever been careless enough to trip over it, and you find yourself caught in the stare of the good doctor, his honey-brown eyes scanning over you quickly as if looking for an explanation.

“Are you okay, Miss L/N?”

Something about the soft way he asks you causes a crack in your demeanour, and you nod, swiftly making your way to your desk.

“Of course, Doctor.”

A disbelieving hum answers you and you settle yourself at your desk, opening Dr. Kreizler’s journal to the marked page where you left off so you could resume your work. You lose yourself in it, the soft clicks of the typewriter lulling your mind enough that you don’t hear the doctor’s approach until his hand gently closes around your wrist, pulling your palm away from your mouth. He hisses air through his teeth as you stare, ashamed, at the mottled purple of your thenar eminence. You didn’t even realise you were doing it. You knew you had been biting last night after your lecture from your parents, however, you never thought you would unconsciously do it in the presence of Dr. Kreizler.

“Your biting habit worries me.” He states as he leans his hip against your desk so that he can look at you properly, “What troubles you?”

Another crack.

“Let me help you, Miss L/N.”

Spiderweb cracks spread across the glass separating you from your emotions. You have so little control of yourself left, so close to breaking. You close your eyes briefly, steadying yourself, then look up at your boss as calmly as you possibly can, “It is a childish matter, Doctor, I couldn’t possibly trouble you with it. Please excuse my behaviour.”

Dr. Kreizler sighs.

“Miss L/N, please tell me.” he asks a little more sincerely, and you shatter. Your bottom lip wobbles, and his fingers slip up from your wrist to wrap around your hand instead, an intimacy that makes both of your faces’ hot. His fingers slip through yours, and you stare at your hands instead of looking at him, nerves sparking at the intimacy.

“My parents want me to marry.” 

“So you’ve said.”

“Yes, well, they’ve found a man willing to take me on despite my questionable desire for employment.” You inform him, looking from your linked fingers to his face and noticing a tightening in his jaw.

“Ah.” He acknowledges, taking a breath, and for the first time you notice the flowers sitting on his desk, and the letter attached to them. You don’t forget your troubles so much as grab the distraction with both hands.

“Oh, those are lovely. I apologise for overstepping my bounds, however, may I ask who they’re for?” You ask, “You even wrote a letter. That’s so lovely, Dr. Kreizler.”

The doctor’s cheeks go pink, and he glances at the flowers before looking back at you, “Have you accepted his courtship?”

Your face falls, and you frown as he outright ignores your query, which seems almost worse than if he were to tell you off for it. But, you shake your head, looking away from him as you pull your hand free of his. He holds on for a moment longer before letting you go.

“He has yet to formally ask me, and thus I haven’t yet been forced to decline as I intend to.”

The tension in Dr. Kreizler’s shoulders ease, and you wet your lower lip as he leaves you, walking over to his desk and picking up the flowers. His nervousness rubs off on you, and you stand, following behind him.

“The flowers are for you. I know it is wholly unprofessional for me to propose courtship at your place of employment, however I believe we’ve surpassed the simple bonds of employer and employee to something more akin to friendship, so I hope you will forgive me. I-I know that I may not be what you want in a man… I have… deficiencies that may make you hesitant, and I know that I am difficult.” he says as he touches his right arm, which you knew about only because he had needed assistance one evening while you were at his home without anyone who knew about it, ”But I would take care of you in all ways. You would want for little, and of course, you would be able to continue your employment and pursuits of knowledge. I would never deny you anything simply for the fact of your gender.”

You’ve never thought of Dr. Kreizler that way. In the interest of keeping a professional relationship on both sides, and treating him with the same careful respect as he treated you, you had put his being a man firmly in the back of your mind. He was a doctor. He was a brilliant mind. He was your boss. He was something of a friend. Last, and very much least, he was a man. As you stare at him in shock, you begin to put latent thoughts together that you’ve often pushed to the back of your mind. He is a handsome man, with sweet honey-brown eyes and lovely brown hair. His body is appealing, with broad shoulders and a strong chest. His intelligence is attractive - you’ve always known it in the back of your mind, but you’ve ignored how that might’ve made you feel, instead focusing on the outcomes of his intelligence. He is well-groomed, from his pristine facial hair to his fantastic outfits, which you know cost a pretty penny. He has always cared for you, and shown you some of the best sides of himself to balance the times when he is more difficult. His weaker hand ghosting across your back when he helps you from the carriage while his strong hand holds yours to steady you comes to mind when you think of how he cares for you. Your father has never shown that much care for your mother - your coachman helps your mother from the carriage while your father marches on ahead.

You realise with a start that Dr. Kreizler is everything you’ve ever said you wanted when you considered marriage. And as you examine the softness and the twinge of hope in his eyes, you realise that you do actually want this. You want him. Your cheeks grow hot as you realise that you truly, honestly, deeply do want him. And he just asked if you would let him court you.

A surprised ‘oh!’ escapes your lips in a rush of air, and you take the flowers from him, staring at them in shock.

“I… I would accept, should you propose courtship, Dr. Kreizler. I thank you for asking me rather than my parents, however, my family is old fashioned and you… well, you would need to ask my father as well.” You admit, and he seems surprised that you agreed, which hurts your heart.

“I had intended on pursuing this properly, once I knew your desires on the matter.”

“And now you do. Perhaps you should call on my father.”

“I will.” He assures you, and you stare into his eyes for a moment, holding your flowers to your chest like he might try to take them back.

“Good. I will await the good news.” You reply with a firm nod, and a smile creeps across your face like you’re trying to restrain it, mirrored on his own. You head over to your desk, and he moves quickly to pull your chair out for you, drawing a shy smile to your lips. You spend the rest of your day at work listening to the soft rumble of Dr. Kreizler’s voice and trying quite hard not to laugh when three separate patients, two of the other workers at the Institute, and John Moore remark on the man being in a particularly good mood today.

That evening, a knock comes at your door, and you wait with baited breath, hiding at the top of the stairs as Dr. Laszlo Kreizler asks your father for permission to court you. His proposal is professionally detached, running off of what you’ve told him about your parents, and emphasising that he would like to pursue marriage swiftly. Your father knows exactly who the good doctor is - he had done his research when you began working for him - and he is aware of exactly how wealthy the man is. His social status has suffered from his career choice and his strange views, but he’s still above the man they’d intended for you, and they knew you would be well-looked upon for getting the man to finally settle down. It would look good on him to marry a high class woman with good standing as well.

You stand up quickly as you hear your mother approaching the stairs, and she breathes a sigh of relief when she sees you, looking happy about you for the first time in a long while. She encourages you to come down, and as you approach her, she teases you gently about having a gentleman suitor and that perhaps she should have seen the wisdom of you working with a well-to-do man as if this had all been your plan. You’re happy enough to let her believe what she likes so long as she isn’t angry with you. You had changed after returning home from work, and now wore a dinner gown that was much prettier than much of the clothing Dr. Kreizler - Laszlo, as he’d asked you to start calling him - had ever seen you wear. He brightens at the sight of you, and you smile demurely, taking your father’s arm delicately.

“Dr. Kreizler has come to ask to court you, darling.” He says as he pats your hand on his arm fondly, as if he hadn’t been arguing with you a short few hours ago. You smile with a bit of faux surprise on your face, and you give your father’s arm an encouraging squeeze.

“Well, with your approval, Father, I will most heartily accept.” You reply, and you smile as Laszlo holds out a sealed letter to you, taking it from him and tucking it into one of your pockets. He kisses the back of your hand and bids you all farewell, promising to return in the next week or two to get to know your family better, and asking your parents if it would be acceptable to take you for a chaperoned walk this coming Saturday. You bite the inside of your cheek to hide your excitement, a smile tugging at the corners of your lips as you try to keep your cool in front of your parents.

You tear into your letter and drown yourself in his words, his proclamations of adoration and desire. He begins with a softer tone - how surprised he was when you came in for your interview, the way you provoked his mind, how impressed he was to find that you’d read not only his own work but the work of other alienists. How you coaxed him to open up piece by piece, in ways he hadn’t expected. How you’d encouraged him to see some of the little joys in life when you’d brought him to the rooftop gardens and told him what each of the flowers was. The way he loved to hear your opinions on cases, be they criminal or patients of the Institute, for you always surprised him with a new perspective.

Next, he professes little intimacies. You were wrong when you’d assumed he wasn’t staring at you and was simply lost in thought. He admits to getting lost in the soft curve of your smile, the delicate click of your fingers on the keys of the typewriter, and the way you sometimes hum while you’re working. He loves the way you grip his bicep in your hand when you walk together, and the gentle flex of your fingers when you get excited by something you see, or the clench of your hand when you get annoyed by something. That you trust him so deeply as he helps you from the carriage, barely looking where you’re going as he guides you, trusting him to keep you safe. How his heart races when your knees bump together in the carriage, or when you let him place his hand on your lower back to guide you through a crowd at Delmonico’s. How he dreams of the soft curve of your back, and what it might look like unbound.

By the end of the letter, your heart is racing just as he’d professed his own had raced, and you lay back on your bed after you’ve unburdened yourself of your day’s clothing with the help of your maid. Alone, you hide yourself under layers of blankets, your hand between your thighs as you read your doctor’s private words for you. You stroke your pleasure from sparks to a fire, eyelashes brushing against your cheekbones as you toss your head back into the pillows, a silent cry caught in your throat. Guilt burdens you afterwards in the cold dark of your bedroom, and you slip from your bed to sit at your desk in your nightdress, writing in a flurry to your doctor. Now, with the last remnants of your act of devotion cooling on your inner thighs, your writing is sinful. But your doctor does not believe in a God, nor the binds that society places on a man and a woman, and he will not shame you for your weakness. Perhaps he will even take himself in hand like you did, and devote himself to you in love and sin.

The idea of it burns you, and you bite your trembling lip as you write about what you’d done with his name upon your lips, hidden under metaphors that he will doubtless understand. By the time you’re done, you know this letter should be burnt. If you were a good, pious, proper woman you would walk down the stairs to the fire in the fireplace and burn the letter to avoid anyone seeing your shameful words. You seal it, then slip it into the pocket of your coat, crawling into bed and getting comfortable for the night. The following morning, your face is burning as you place the letter into Laszlo’s hand, and he gives you a discreet smile that only worsens the feeling until you settle at your desk to pretend you aren’t an unprofessional ball of embarrassment.

You hear a soft gasp, and your eyes meet Laszlo’s as he reads your letter, his cheeks burning. He coughs, adjusting in his seat, and folds the letter, presumably to read later. A wise choice. You giggle, and he smiles despite himself, turning his gaze back to his papers. You admire him for a moment longer to make up for all the time you’ve wasted not gazing at him, then turn back to your work, excited for the future. Hopefully, he won’t make you wait too long to be wed. It seems almost a waste to delay any longer.

You find yourself engaged no more than two months later.

#laszlo kreizler x reader #laszlo kreizler

[hell0mega]

so despite saying for years now that im not autistic, ive been thinking about it more recently and am coming to question that conclusion. my mom, dad, and sister are audhd, so it would make fucking sense. and i realized all the justifications I've come up with feel like excuses lol

textures that make me want to jump out of my fucking skin and make my mouth feel weird? yeah i have a couple, but doesn't everyone? i simply avoid them :)

socks USED to bother me... then i simply bought socks that don't :)

yeah I've always had bowel issues but i mitigate it! :) sometimes it's still bad though

when i was a child I'd miss "reading the room." so i obsessed over learning body language and how to read micro expressions to make sure that whoever I'm with is having a good time!

what do you mean that's not something people have to learn?

it took me until i was an adult to learn how to show empathy towards people

i was an extremely picky eater growing up, but isn't everyone?

i would sort by color for fun. but also by compulsion. i can't eat a bag of m&ms without a pattern

i am not extremely sensitive to light or sound or touch... because i make sure i regulate my emotions and calm myself down and fix the issue before i get upset!

i have cried after (successful) shopping trips, but that's the adhd, right?

i wear sunglasses on overcast days

headaches and migraines

extreme disinterest in very important, time sensitive things, like taxes

Very Good At Patterns. i find patterns in things that aren't patterns. love when numbers line up in interesting ways or when things make shapes by accident. hate when they don't

repetitive behavior cuz IDK Why But It Feels Nice. rocking. rubbing something. etc

"no that doesn't effect me, for you see i have a system so that it doesn't!"

I'm still thinking on it but like. yeah

#mine #autism///

[serah-in-diapers]

I'm sure you get this a lot, especially now after your last post, but do you regret your decision to make yourself incontinent? Especially since you've had to try to retrain?

Not even a little bit.

It feels very validating and comforting, even in the problems and the hardships, because I, and most people who actually genuinely commit themselves to untraining or becoming incontinent, feel like in some capacity we're meant to be this way, and have had desires towards being incontinent and being seen as incontinent for most of our lives. I just talk about the reality of a disability which is not all sunshine and rainbows 24/7, even if it was done on purpose.

The disconnect that comes up so often on Tumblr particularly, right, is that in this space, 99% of people are just here to indulge in a sexual fantasy and get off, so they want and expect everyone who talks about incontinence to constantly say how amazing it is no matter what, or say how everyone should do it, or talk about how it's totally the secret pill to fix all of your life problems and isn't it also so very hot, haha.

That's not real life though, and that's not the whole picture of choosing to live with a condition that we can all recognise, with any amount of common sense put into it, has far more downsides to it than upsides. Those of us who choose it, and choose to invest the time and money and effort, do it knowing it isn't really logical. We do it for emotional comfort, or self-image, or whatever reasons we've decided are good enough to override the normal logic of the situation.

What I always want is for people actually interested in doing this kind of thing to recognize that choosing incontinence isn't just some perfect fantasy like it's described in kinky fiction. It's hard, and it's a lot of work, and it can be upsetting sometimes too in ways we don't always anticipate.

Does that mean that it hasn't been worth it to me, and that I regret having such poor control of my bladder and bowels now? No.

Does that mean it wouldn't be worth it to you? Because of all the general downsides of dealing with incontinence?

Only you can make that call for yourself.

#untraining #incontinence #incontinent

[troubled-tums]

my belly has been upset for days. i’m just a gassy bloated constipated mess.

i literally had to have my friend come over the other night to help me get from couch to washroom over and over again just to not be able to relieve myself :( i’m kinda small and my bloating is debilitating sometimes, my belly gets so big it’s quite painful.

my belly is doing this thing where it’s gurgling and cramping like i need to go but nothing ever really comes out but a lil gas.

i am just beyond uncomfortable right now. I’ve not gone to the washroom in 2 days and my belly is full of trapped gas and whatever’s upsetting my poor belly and causing this awful spasming.

i had to stop going to the gym this week to try to calm it. wish i was brave enough to ask my friend to rub my belly. might get enough courage tomorrow, as we’re hanging out to try to help me relax (and hopefully get my overfull bowels moving).

idk how to ask!! lmk ideas?

Hey Anon! I’m so sorry I missed this, I don’t come online all the time. Your bellyache sounds really awful, I hope you’ve managed to resolve it since. Did you get some tummy rubs in the end?

And for the record… I would have suggested:

“It hurts so badly… I just can’t seem to get any relief”

“I keep rubbing my tummy but I still feel awful”

“I don’t think I can massage it effectively on my own… Ow, it really hurts”

[chaotic-archaeologist]

can i ask a sex advice question please?

how do i uh.... how do i douche properly..? and how do i make sure that it's like..... clean and safe. before i do anything ?

ty <3

Hi there, standard disclaimer: talking about sex is not shameful or embarrassing in any way, but I am going to put my answer under a read more to allow everyone to curate the content they wish to see.

The first thing that I want to emphasize is that douching (either vaginal or anal) is not a prerequisite for any kind of penetration. I think that a lot of people get it in their heads that they need to douche in order for things to be "clean" but the reality is that you can 1) clean up without douching, and 2) real life sex can sometimes get a little messy no matter what.

You don't clarify which kind of douching you're asking about, so I'm going to cover both. Let's start with vaginal douching:

THE VAGINA IS A SELF CLEANING SYSTEM

Say it with me, folks! Vaginal douching can actually do more harm than good. It can upset the natural pH of your vagina, leading to bacterial imbalance, subsequent infections, and discomfort (source 1) (source 2) (source 3). Please trust your vagina to clean itself. If you are experiencing odor or unusual discharge, please seek the assistance of a medical professional.

Now that we've gotten that out of the way, we can move on to anal douching. The anus and rectum are not the same as the colon. Fecal matter is stored in the colon, it passes through the anus and rectum. While not self cleaning to the same level as the vagina, the anus and rectum (outside of any GI tract issues) should be free of anything but trace amounts of feces.

Anal douching, while not as harmful as vaginal douching, does come with its own set of risks. Perforations/scratches from an enema nozzle can be painful, as well as increase the risk of acquiring an STI. Overzealous cleaning can result in the stripping of the rectum's protective layer of mucus.

Eating a high fiber diet (or even just fiber supplements) is a great way to encourage regular bowel movements that pass through the anus and rectum without leaving much behind. When we think of preparation for anal penetration, we generally think of the douching/enema and stretching, but a well balanced diet is just as important.

The decision to douche before anal penetration should be something that you undertake on your own, without pressure from a partner. Cleaning with your fingers and a very mild soap while in the shower is also perfectly adequate preparation, as is no cleaning. Listen to your body and let that dictate your needs. Scarlteen (a sexuality and gender inclusive sex education website) has a great post on whether or not you should douche before anal sex.

So let's say that you've read everything here and still feel like douching is the right choice for you. The San Fransisco Aids Foundation has a really good article about how to to douche safely. They cover everything that I would have, so I'll direct you to their Anal Douching Safety Tips.

Finally, I want to reiterate that there is a great deal of difference between real life sex and what we have been conditioned to expect sex to be like. Things that DO NOT count as realistic sex:

Porn

Fanfiction/written smut

Sex scenes in movies and tv shows

The vast majority of sex as depicted in popular media

It is 100% okay to drop that expectation of perfect cleanliness. Do the amount of cleaning that YOU want to do, and take measures to manage the rest of the mess. Condoms, dental dams, and gloves are great tools, and you should feel free to use them.

Stay safe and have fun,

-Reid

#he speaks #he answers #sex education #sex ed #sex advice

[train-whistles-at-night]

I don't have any specific questions to ask, but I'd love to hear about the littles

ive had this open for hours and literally thought abt what id write for possibly over an hour before i fell asleep so im just going to WRITE IT and everyone has to be NICEYS TO ME

anyhow CW for squicky content (regression and using nappies/diapers in a regressed state (for both urination and defecation), but in a completely non-sexual fashion)

Let's get the easier ones out of the way

Skulduggery is a skeleton, even using the human facade giving him the ability to do bodily functions, he's not fond of them. I don't think he uses nappies, but he understands why the others find them comforting. He thinks the material is soft and that's nice.

Dexter wears the equivalent of pull-ups- they're soft and nice and he's not really into using them, but he does like how they feel and the comfort they provide that if he gets too into being small and really can't make it to the restroom to pee, it won't get everywhere and will save him a little bit of face. Expressly only will use them for urination and will always use the restroom for defecation. (Would try to change himself, but will accept changes from most any of the CGs but prefers Saracen if he has to have help with it.)

Anton uses nappies, for both uses, but more-so urination than defecation, but it happens sometimes. Usually when he's very small and very into playing or small and actively sick. Anton gets small and scared and soft and shy when he uses the nappies, whether it's on purpose or entirely by accident, even having used them for a while now, there's still a sense of.. Shame? That comes with it. Age regression is so very important for Anton, but he has a Persona And Aesthetic he keeps up in public spaces, and he doesn't ever want anyone outside of the Dead Men and Kenspeckle to find out, especially about the nappies. Anyhow, he likes using them, and it started from bedwetting while small, and maybe sometime I'll write a little drabble about how they got to Anton actually enjoying using them with Saracen's help. Nappies for Anton are soft and crinkly and safe, they make him actively feel smaller in a good way when he wears them. They keep from any accidents happening, and Larrikin loves to dote of him when he changes him, it makes him a happy kind of embarrassed, the kind one gets because they are actively loved. It's good for him.

Ravel doesn't have much of a choice in wearing nappies- when Ravel regresses, 9 times out of 10 it's involuntary, and out of something causing a fear/trigger response. He gets very, very small when he first regresses (I'm talking like, half a year old at most), and slowly ages back up throughout the rest of the day. Here's the thing- same as with Anton, Larrikin really, genuinely doesn't mind changing nappies, he kinda likes it actually! It's a ways for Larrikin to show the littles that he is trustworthy and would never ever make fun of them or shame them for something they can't control/something that is deemed 'icky'. Ravel tends, from the fear that caused the regression, to wet right as he gets small, and generally doesn't have much control at all over his bladder and bowels when he's that small, and it upsets him immensely if it gets on his clothes at all. The solution has been nappies, which have stalled his upset most entirely, as the mess gets contained, and easily disposed of.

Most times the littles get very plain white/one color only nappies, but sometimes, just because Larrikin likes them really, he gets them ones with cute little designs on them. He can't help it, he thinks the littles in their lil nappies are so cute, he's gotta indulge himself every once in a while.

Anyhow despite my fear on posting this one, it's actually a topic I'm interested in talking more about if one had questions. Don't be afraid to ask.

#Little SP #skulduggery pleasant sp #okay OKAY i finished this #please god people be normal about this- and if i must reiterate #age regression in Little is entirely nonsexual- no debates- this is done as a coping mechanism #if you have nothing nice to say abt this topic just dont say anything at all #okay im done #thank u silver for the ask and being supportive even tho i was very scared in call #also yes one is allowed to rb this as long as theyre nice and have some fucking sense

[ashleysmessyjourney]

One Week

Hey y’all! Got a fun update for ya! It’s been nearly a full week of me messing my diapers. It’s been a bit of a struggle to be sure, but one that I’ve accepted. I’m working to see if it’s something that I can transition to full time messing instead of only once in a blue moon and I’m still kinda sorta on the fence about it. I rarely mess my diapers, except on rare occasions when others challenged me.

I figured out a good way to keep the cleaning ickiness down by only messing my diaper squatting down. It just feels… natural, I guess? It’s a lot easier for me to go poo poo in this position and it’s easy to clean up, too. I figured out that untaping right after messing and using the back of the diaper to wipe away all the messy stuffs really helps minimizing the amount of time needed to clean myself. There’s no point in letting it get all squished against my butt when I stand back up, after all.

I’ve been messing myself in this position nearly all of this past week and it’s been working out well so far! Now my body is getting used to messing in this position, so whenever I squat down, even to pick something up, I can feel my bowels relax ever so slightly. Since the muscles connecting the bladder and the anus are connected (try clenching down on your bladder; you’ll feel your anus clench too!), I know my bowel control has atrophied a little bit. I can feel when I need to go #2 but sometimes I have only a minute or two to get to the potty, even less when I’m drinking coffee.

When I went out for some dinner a couple nights ago, I think the food was a bit under cooked or something because it gave me a tummy ache. The waiter took forever to even bring me the check in the first place and they weren’t even that busy! All the while it feels like my stomach is twisting itself into knots. Sure, I could have gone into the restaurant’s bathroom, but I hate using them, so it really wasn’t an option for me because I dedicated myself to this challenge no matter what.

When I finally got the check and paid for it, I felt like I was gonna explode. My place was about 15 to 20 minutes from the restaurant and I knew for sure that there was no way that I was going to make it back in time to mess myself in the privacy of my home. I felt a huge cramp hit me halfway back to my car, making me stop in the middle of the parking lot. There wasn’t anyone around so as soon as I got back to my car, I squatted down and did what had to be done. There was just no way that I would have ever been able to drive safely all the way home in that much pain.

As soon as I let it all out, I knew my ordeal wasn’t over. While my tummy felt a lot better, I did not want to change my messy diaper in my car. As much as I advise others on how to handle any situation in diaper training, including shitty ones like this, I was unprepared for this specific situation. I didn’t have any of my big disposable underpads in my trunk; they’d been used a while ago and I had kept pushing off a restock of my car’s diaper supplies because I was lazy. I was a fool and it left me in a shitty situation, pun intended.

I hope I don’t get too many more upset tummies in public like that because that wasn’t too fun to deal with, but in a way, I’m glad that I went through this so I know how to prepare for the next shitty situation. It also allowed me to share my experience with all of you so that you might be able to avoid what I had to go through. Even though that wasn’t that fun, I’m still enjoying my time messing full time.

Want to add more time onto me messing my diapers 24/7? You can do so by sending me stuff from my wishlist! I have a timer in my bio that I update when I get something new, too!

[puppyexpressions]

Why Is My Dog Not Eating?

Decreased appetite (hyporexia), or loss of appetite (anorexia) in dogs can be stressful for pet parents, and can sometimes indicate an underlying medical condition. Anorexia for more than 24 hours should not be ignored, as it is often a warning that something else is going on.

Here’s some insight on why your dog is not eating, including a questionnaire that can help you get to the root of the issue and some tips for what you can do to help.

Reasons Why Dogs Won’t Eat

There can be many reasons why a dog won’t eat, but they generally fall into three major categories:

Medical

Behavioral

Issues with the food itself

Medical

The list of possible medical causes for dog anorexia or hyporexia is very long and can include anything that might cause pain, nausea, lethargy, or stress:

Dental disease

Oral pain

Nausea

Vomiting

Diarrhea

Intestinal parasites

Pancreatitis

Stomach upset (eating table scraps or something else they shouldn’t have, or a sudden change in food or treats)

Infection

Fever

Cancer

Liver disease

Kidney disease

Inflammatory bowel disease

Congestive heart failure

Lung disease

These are only some examples of medical issues that can lead to a loss of appetite in dogs; there are many more possible reasons.

Behavioral

Anxiety, stress, or fear can cause decreased appetite in some dogs, just like it can in people. Keep in mind that what you think is stressful is different from what your dog may see as stressful, and even small things can produce anxiety and cause them to not want to eat.

Changes in a dog’s routine or environment, such as new people or pets in the house, traveling, or loud noises such as construction, storms, or fireworks can trigger anxiety. Even something as simple as changing the time or location of a meal can cause more sensitive dogs to feel stressed, and it may make them less likely to eat.

Intimidation from another pet in the household can also cause a dog to avoid his or her food bowl. Many dogs do not like eating right next to housemates, as there can be intimidation that we, as humans, don’t pick up on. It is recommended that dogs be separated for feedings in order to decrease any resource guarding or intimidation.

Generally, if the issue is related to stress or anxiety, dogs will begin eating again after a day or two, once they have adjusted to the change. Some dogs may need behavioral modification or medical treatment to decrease stress and anxiety if it is frequent.

Issues With the Food

The issue might be with the food itself—it could be old, expired, stale, or spoiled. While some dogs, such as happy-go-lucky Labrador Retrievers, might eat anything in sight, others, such as Yorkshire Terriers, may be a little more particular.

If a dog has been on the same food for a while and has always eaten it well, take a look at the expiration date on the bag or can, and check to make sure that it is stored in an airtight container.

All dog food containers and bags should be sealed, and the food should be thrown out if the expiration date has passed. Open canned food can be sealed with plastic wrap or a lid that’s made to fit dog food cans, and it can be kept in the refrigerator for two to three days.

Many pet parents wonder if their dog may simply be tired of their food if they stop eating it. While some dogs may be picky, a healthy, hungry dog should not stop eating a certain food simply because they’ve eaten it for a while.

Sometimes it takes a few tries to figure out which dog food your dog likes best, but if your dog seems to get tired of food after food, it may be because they are getting too many treats or human food, or they might have a medical condition.

Dogs are smart and quickly learn that if they don’t eat their kibble right away, they might get some tasty treats instead. Rather than jumping right to table scraps or a new food, see if mixing kibble with canned food, or gently heating the canned food is helpful.

Switching foods suddenly often leads to stomach upset (decreased appetite, vomiting, diarrhea), so it can be very counterproductive. It would be very unusual for a dog to go hungry for several days just because they are picky, so it is important to rule out underlying medical conditions with your veterinarian if this happens.  

Why Won’t My Dog Eat? Questionnaire

Use this questionnaire to help determine possible causes for your dog’s loss of appetite.

Will Your Dog Drink Water?

If your dog will drink water but won’t eat, it may be due to nausea, stress, or mouth pain. If they are able to keep the water down, that is a good sign. However, if they are vomiting after drinking water, they should be seen by a veterinarian right away, as this could indicate severe nausea or an intestinal obstruction. If they go longer than 24 hours without eating, even if they are still drinking, they should be examined by their vet to determine the underlying cause of their inappetence.

If your dog has not eaten or drank in 24 hours or more, they should be seen by a veterinarian right away in order to be assessed and treated for likely dehydration, and to investigate the underlying cause of their unwillingness to eat or drink.

Anything that can cause a dog to feel ill, such as kidney disease, pancreatitis, intestinal parasites, liver disease, cancer, infection, intestinal obstruction, etc., can lead a dog to refuse food and water. Like humans, dogs cannot go for more than a few days without water, so this should be treated seriously.

Does Your Dog Eat Treats But Not Food?

If your dog is refusing dinner but saying yes to treats or table scraps, they may be filling up on “junk food” rather than their own dog food. However, if your dog has other symptoms of not feeling well, a medical condition could be to blame for their altered appetite.

For example, if your dog is happy, energetic, drinking water, playing, and not having any vomiting or diarrhea, it may be that they are simply getting too many calories per day in treats and aren’t hungry for their meal. They may also have outsmarted you, knowing that if they refuse to eat their food, they’ll get tasty chicken and dog treats instead.

However, if your dog is lethargic, having any vomiting or diarrhea, starting to eat a bit then stopping, or drooling or licking their lips, they may not be feeling 100% well. Treats are higher rewards, so many dogs will be more likely to eat those rather than their food, even if they aren’t feeling the best. Think of a time when you’ve had an upset stomach but powered through to have your favorite treat while passing up the salad bar.

It is always best to be on the safe side and have any possible medical conditions ruled out if getting your dog to eat is becoming a frequent challenge.

Is Your Dog Not Eating Dry Food?

Does your dog turn up their nose at dry food, only to wolf down canned food the minute you set it down? This is a common complaint from pet parents, and it can mean a few different things.

It may be that your dog has dental or oral pain. Many pet parents believe that if their pet is eating, they must not have oral pain, but that’s not the case. They have to eat, so many dog struggle silently with oral pain for months or years until a dental procedure is done to extract any rotten or infected teeth.

While some dogs will still eat dry food even with severe oral pain, many prefer canned food, as it’s easier to chew. If your dog is no longer wanting to eat dry food but will eat canned, they should be seen by their veterinarian for an oral examination.

It may also be that your dog prefers canned food to dry food, as it often smells stronger and may be seen as more of a “treat.” Try mixing canned food with the dry kibble to encourage your dog to eat, and gradually transitioning to a higher ratio of dry food, until your dog is back to eating dry kibble.

Some dogs simply refuse to eat kibble in favor of canned food. While this can have some negative consequences, such as worse dental disease or a higher food bill, it may not be a problem to have your dog on canned food long-term. Talk to your veterinarian to see if feeding your dog an all-canned diet may be the best option for them.

Is Your Dog a Senior?

While senior dogs may have lower caloric requirements than young dogs, and therefore may eat less than they used to, marked weight loss or a refusal to eat is not normal and can indicate serious underlying health conditions.

These can include, but are not limited to:

Dental disease

Pancreatitis

Liver disease

Kidney disease

Stomach upset (eating something they shouldn’t have or a sudden change in diet)

Cancer

Cognitive decline, mobility issues, or vision loss can also cause a dog to not eat if they are unable to find or get to their food bowl. It is important for senior dogs to have a feeding routine, that the food bowl remain in the same area of the house so that they know where to find it, and that they have a rug or yoga mat to stand on while eating to avoid slipping or having trouble standing on hard floors.

If your senior dog has gone longer than 24 hours without eating, they should see their veterinarian for a thorough physical examination and possible diagnostics to investigate the cause of their loss of appetite.

Is Your Dog a Puppy?

A young, healthy puppy shouldn’t go more than a few hours without eating.

Small breed puppies, especially, are at a high risk of hypoglycemia (low blood sugar) and should be watched closely for signs of lethargy or collapse if they are not eating. If this happens, they should be treated on an emergency basis.

Some puppies may not like larger kibble, as it can be hard for their puppy teeth to chew, especially if they are just transitioning to solid food. This can be remedied by mixing in water and letting it soak to create more of a porridge consistency, or the kibble can be mixed with canned food as well.

If your puppy still will not eat, they should be seen right away by a veterinarian. If they are also lethargic, vomiting, or having diarrhea, they should be seen on an emergency basis.

Did You Just Adopt Your Dog Recently?

A newly adopted dog can take days or weeks to settle into their new home. Anxiety is a common cause of temporary inappetence, so it’s not unusual for a new addition to the household to refuse food for the first day or two.

It is important to ensure that they are given a quiet place to eat, away from other pets or children that may interrupt them. As long as they are otherwise energetic and not having vomiting or diarrhea, it’s okay to give them a day or two to get used to their new home before worrying about them not eating.

However, if they are lethargic, vomiting, or having diarrhea, or go more than 48 hours without eating anything, they should be examined by a veterinarian to rule out any underlying medical conditions.  

Did Anything Change in Your Household?

Some dogs may be sensitive enough that a change in their environment may cause inappetence. Examples include a new addition to the family (whether a new pet or a new baby), construction, having people over, or even a change in the location of the food and water bowls.

While noise phobias aren’t specific to your household necessarily, things like thunderstorms and fireworks can also cause enough anxiety to discourage your dog from eating.

Could Your Dog Have Separation Anxiety?

Many dogs with separation anxiety refuse to eat while their pet parent isn’t home. Some dogs with separation anxiety even expect their loved one to be in the room while they eat, and will stop eating if their human leaves the room.

While this is not necessarily a health concern, it is a sign that your dog may have severe anxiety that needs to be addressed. Calming chews such Composure may be helpful, and calming pheromone collars can be beneficial as well.

However, if you are concerned that your dog may have severe separation anxiety, consider consulting with a board-certified veterinary behaviorist for help.

Did You Switch Dog Foods?

Transitioning from one dog food to another too quickly can cause stomach upset, which may mean that your dog doesn’t feel like eating. It’s important to transition foods gradually over 7-10 days in order to avoid stomach upset. This also allows your dog to get used to the new food over time, rather than making a sudden switch.

Is Your Dog Pregnant or in Heat?

Early in pregnancy, your dog may have a reduced or absent appetite. If your dog is in the middle or late part of her gestation, she may eat less because her stomach has less room to expand due to the presence of puppies, but she should make up for this by eating a smaller amount more frequently.

Regardless of what point of gestation your dog is in, if she has not eaten in over 24 hours, your veterinarian should be called right away to ensure that everything is okay.

Dogs in heat may also have a decreased appetite, which is considered normal. However, if she goes longer than 48 hours without eating anything, she should be checked by her veterinarian. If she is lethargic, vomiting, having diarrhea, or drinking and urinating more than usual, she should be seen by her veterinarian right away, as this could indicate an infection in the uterus known as pyometra.

Is Your Dog Diabetic?

If your dog is diabetic and will not eat, this could be an indication that something is seriously wrong. Ask your veterinarian what they recommend doing if your dog won’t eat at the time of your dog’s diagnosis.

As a general rule, dogs should not be given as insulin if they aren’t eating, as this can cause dangerously low hypoglycemia. If your veterinarian advised you to give a half dose of insulin if your dog skips one meal, do so, but alert your veterinarian immediately if your dog skips another meal.

If your diabetic dog skips a meal, is lethargic, nonresponsive, or vomiting or having diarrhea, they should be seen by a veterinarian immediately, as this could be an indication of hypoglycemia or diabetic ketoacidosis, both of which are life-threatening if not treated right away.

Did Your Dog Just Have Surgery?

It is not unusual for your dog to skip a meal or two after a surgery. The medications used for sedation and anesthesia commonly cause nausea and a decreased appetite, and medications that they may go home on, such as pain medications and/or antibiotics can also suppress the appetite.

You may try tempting your dog to eat with a spoonful of canned food or boneless, skinless, boiled chicken on top of their kibble. Better yet, ask your veterinarian for a few cans of a prescription gastrointestinal diet to feed for the first few days after surgery. These foods are highly palatable, are easily digestible, and can help counteract some of the gastrointestinal upset that can happen after surgery and anesthesia.

If your dog had oral or facial surgery, your veterinarian may recommend feeding only canned food for two or more weeks. This also means that your dog should not receive hard treats or chew on hard toys until they are declared healed at their recheck appointment. If your dog is refusing to eat the prescribed canned food, reach out to your veterinarian in case there are any post-operative complications.

What to Do When Your Dog Won’t Eat

If your dog is lethargic, vomiting, or having diarrhea in addition to not eating, see your veterinarian right away. If you don’t see any of these, here are some ways to try to entice your dog to eat:

Add water or no-sodium chicken broth to the dog food and let it soak for several minutes to soften it.

Heat canned food for a few seconds in the microwave (make sure to take it out of the metal can and put it into a microwave-safe bowl). Canned food can become scorching hot quickly, so feel the food first to avoid any burned tongues.

Try mixing some plain, boneless, skinless boiled chicken and rice with their kibble to encourage them to eat.

Add a probiotic such as Purina Fortiflora or Advita on top of the food. Not only can this make the food more palatable, but it can also help any inflamed or irritated intestine heal by rebalancing a healthy gastrointestinal flora.

If you have tried these tricks and your dog continues to refuse his food, he should be seen by his veterinarian to rule out any underlying medical conditions.

Unless explicitly prescribed by your veterinarian, your dog should not be given any over-the-counter gastrointestinal medications like Imodium or Pepto Bismol, as these could cause serious side effects or even interact with medications that your veterinarian may want to give. It is best to consult with your veterinarian before attempting to treat symptoms at home.

#dog diet #anorexia in dogs #dog wont eat #dog health

[emeralds4fandoms4playhouse]

Bianca headcanons

Giving her headcanons because she my favorite 😍

Bianca has always had a bit of jealousy towards her brother. As he was basically the golden child. So she suffers from always feeling and being looked down on by how successful her brother is

2. she suffers for IBS which stands for Irritable Bowel Syndrome. It’s an upset stomach without any causes. It mostly happens to her when she’s stressed

3. Bianca has the fear of Anthropophobia. Which is the fear of people. She only have a few close people that she can trust. This fear usually comes from trauma.

4. She a lesbian. No questions asked.

5. Now this is more of a theory im making a headcanon. She gets motion sickness, which is why she’s never really visited the Octopod. Only that one case to where she had too for her and the cub’s safety.

6. She’s 35.

7. Hunting gets difficult sometimes while the temperatures are getting warmer, and she never had the training to eats plants. So she’s fearful that she may attack/eat of Barnacles crew members/friends

8. Bianca had only made friends with Pearl from the Octonauts/Octo-agents. As she doesn’t really want to become friends with Mike more by she gets annoyed by them

9. She has a crush on Pearl and I will stan by that

10. She just likes to sit in the snow and watch the sunset

11. She just sleeps in late all the time. Not a night owl, she just doesn’t want to wake up.

12. She calls and talks to Hugo daily (who she met online) even though he’s a prey and she’s a predator. He is her best friend.

#octonauts bianca #octonauts #above and beyond #octonauts barnacles #headcanon

[lifewithchronicpain]

Up extra early because Harry has his second annual vet appointment. He's got to get shots, nails clipped and I'm going ask about his obsessive chewing, see if there's anything more we could be doing to help and whether or not he might have PICA or is just an aggressive chewer.

I was going to get a stool sample but I forgot because yesterday was raining. I'm hoping when I take him out shortly he might go otherwise we will have to get one later and drop it off. We already know his chewing upsets his bowels because he gets constipated sometimes.

Also I'm excited that the vet is letting people back in the building. They're only allowing one person and my mom decided instead of going herself she'll have me go on, simply because I've been on top of the animals' health for a few years now ever since I managed to push my mom into proper yearly visits for Giles and our late dog Xander.

It's so important because you catch things before they're an expensive problem. Giles had a checkup and they were worried about his teeth, but we had to focus on his asthma at the time, and so then I put him on greenies dental chews and at the next checkup they said his teeth were fine.

I'm so glad I finally be able to talk to the vet one and one and not over the phone.

#harry the dog

[kakusu-shipping]

Neat!!! Tell me more about your reverse selfship w Koro-Sensei!!! What kind of media would you be from? How would the general fandom feel about your character?

Anon I love you mwah mwah this is all I was thinking about while at the eye doctor today and lemme tell you. I still have nothing.

Like Koro-Sensei's the easiest to do a reverse Self Ship for because he is a self shipper, especially with cool characters from anime and manga which is what my default media is buuut

I don't think I'd be his type in a fictional setting. Koro-Sensei has a very prominently big titty girl that could beat your ass type when it comes to anime. He likes Shonen and action and cool main characters with super neat powers. I.. don't and probably wouldn't fit into or be from an anime like that (a sweet slice of life maybe, one of the side characters to the main romance?)

I just don't think I as a character would fall into his range. I mean maybe, we all have our outta left field F/Os here and there. It's just unlikely.

Taking into consideration this Highschool or maybe Office Job Slice of Life Comedy Romance setting, I'd probably be a side character, implied canon queer rep in 2015 manga that got censored for the Anime, or even fully cut because I'm just one of the friend group who didn't get a real episode to himself till book 7 or so, and didn't end up with anyone in the end. The manga readers (like Koro-Sensei) are die hard fans, the Anime Onlys have no idea what they're talking about. I have no official merch and the Mangaka only draws me in the big promotional group images sometimes.

I could see Koro-Sensei being really upset about the lack of content about his favorite character and setting out to make it all on his own. He write the X Readers and draws all the fanart and makes a whole Stan blog and everything. Goes really hard about it for two weeks or so, and ends up burning himself out on it. Then he'd switch hyper focus onto something else and leave it all to rot in the bowels of A03.

That's about all I have for it right now, and probably eve will have? At least for Koro-Sensei. I have some other ideas for other Reverse Self Ships thanks to the Discord bouncing the idea around this morning a lot.

I dunno if I'll continue these into anything but they're fun thought experiments! Thankyou for indulging me!

#Thankyou for asking #Reverse Self Ship #Koro-Sensei #He really is the easiest one because he's just like us in fandom spaces #I do like the idea that he self ships like a shooting star #goes really hard into one F/O and produces tons of content for them in a really short time before fizzling out #Your fave becomes his fave for like a week and suddenly there's 7 new posts in their tag a DAY #The concept is funny #I'm boucning back and forth between Ouran/Magic Touch style 20teens Highschool Romance style manga #And funny office comedies like Manly appetite #did anyone read Magic Touch? It's really good actually #If it's the highschool one then I imagine we're in the Graduating Class of our school #Just cause idk yet how I feel about Koro self shipping with a highschooler... Idk why that's bothering me actually #Because I self ship with highschoolers I have no room #and I KNOW he is fine with it too he knows the whole Fiction VS Reality thing and likes problematic content for sure #Just fr some reason it's a hiccup to me idk why tho #Does Koro have a Humansona who's not The Reaper he uses to Self Ship? No. #No he's still a big Octopus guy in all his self ships and no one in any canon ever questions it #Like those people who self ship with Fursonas even in entirely human centered media #I love you guys you're so cool

[ex-furry]

i can find some amount of solace in the knowledge that my mom isn't in pain anymore. she isn't dealing with sickness every day. she isn't juggling depression with the things her body is putting her through.

a few days before she died, she told two of my aunts that she wanted peace and "to be out of this body." it was one of her rare moments of clarity, a brief second during which her liver failure didn't block her actual thoughts. we figured that, while she could have meant general peace—a break from the constant beeping and the nurses sticking her with random things and the blood pressure cuff squeezing her arm every fifteen minutes—there was an understanding among all of us that it went deeper than that. she knew that none of this was going to stop, even if the link that they made to fix her bowel had healed and her liver had started to function a bit more. it would have been months of recovery, just like it was before. she didn't want to go through that again.

there was a fairly long period between her liver transplant in 2013 and her second run-in with cirrhosis where she was able to live a normal life. she could think clearly, work in a field she cared deeply about, advocate for organ donation, and go anywhere she wanted. she was even able to go on our trip to california in 2016, which involved a lot of walking. after her knee replacement in 2019 and the subsequent heart failure she experienced, though, things began to get more difficult again. she had to quit her job because she was falling asleep at the office. covid certainly didn't help with her health, but she was still able to paint in 2020, which became a hobby of hers. she stopped being able to paint as much sometime last year.

it's hard for me to pinpoint exactly when it got really difficult again. i tried to push my knowledge of her illness away. i wanted to fix it by ignoring it. i thought i could do it. it got too bad to ignore after i graduated college in may of this year. her emotions were constantly changing; she'd snap at me in the morning for not doing something she told me to do, but she'd apologize that night. this cycle repeated many, many times. i know she didn't mean any of it now. i hate that it took this for me to realize that.

she was also confused more regularly. her sleep schedule was horrible. i would sometimes wake up and go to the bathroom at 4am and she'd be wide awake, my dad asleep and snoring loudly next to her. they argued a lot more, too. when she was clearheaded, it was obvious that she loved him more than anyone else. when she wasn't, though, she would get irritated when he would tell her that she had to take her medication, she had to get up and use her left knee so it could get better. when we were at the hospital just two weeks ago, this was still the case. it had gotten worse, actually, because she was so out of it. my dad said that he'd learned to not take it personally. he's not lying. he has always loved her so much. he always will.

my mom also told my aunts that she just wanted her kids to be okay. she didn't want us to be upset. i don't think i'll ever be able to fulfill that second wish for her. i'm trying my hardest to make the first one come true, though, as much as i can.

i would take having her here with me over everything else, but i'm glad that she's at peace now. she never deserved to have to go through nine years of bouncing between doctors just to end up in the same situation she was in at the beginning. i'm glad we got that extra nine years, though. i'm glad she was able to advocate for others, see me and my brother grow up, and experience life after her liver transplant. i couldn't be more grateful for that time, even if i wish that we could have had more.

#💜🐞

[puppygendered]

I'm Oliver/Oli, a 32 year old trans enby fag puppy (he/they/pup/it) with a penchant for trying to be arty when I'm really just goddamn horny. I'm neurodivergent, disabled, a wheelchair user, chronically ill & chronically in pain. MINORS DNI/DNF THIS BLOG.

I'm a lover of all things & people on the wierder side of life, T4T relationships of all kinds, & being unsettling & generally strange. My orientation is broadly 'queer' but I generally like masculinity as a very wobbly and flexible rule. Plenty of women I'd let peg me, too. But I tend to appreciate male and masculine vibes more, if you get me? IDK describing my attraction is Difficult. Basically it's a free for all here. Just DO NOT reblog anythign I post to MEN DNI blogs. I am securely trans masc. Do NOT misgender me.

My likes, soft limits & my hard limits can be found under the read more. I would suggest you read it before you follow me! I only tag CNC/CDC, everything else is probably untagged.

If you want my Discord or Snapchat or whatever please just ask!

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Alignments & Titles:

Dom [----✨️----] sub

Top [---✨️-----] bottom

Titles I enjoy as a Dom: Angel, Divinity, Deity, Divine, variations upon that theme; (Key-)Keeper; Master; Prince; Sir; Alpha.

Titles I enjoy as a sub: (dumb) pup, puppy, dog, variations upon that theme; prince, princeling, lordling, variations upon that theme; (good/bad/dumb) boy; probably more I haven't had chance to experience yet.

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YES ✨️Overstimulation, forced orgasms, forced ruined orgasms. ✨️Orgasm control, orgasm delay, orgasm denial, edging. ✨️Chastity play. ✨️Rough sex generally, anal or vaginal or otherwise. ✨️Impact play, especially hand spanking and paddles or floggers. ✨️Size kink, especially when linked to… ✨️Monster fucking. Big monsters, small monsters, you name it. Anything except bugs. Especially tentacles, beasts who pass the Harkness test, divine beings and demons. ✨️Werebeasts especialy werewolves. ✨️Puppy play, as a keeper, an Alpha pup or a regular pup. ✨️Roleplay during sex, assuming different personalities, wearing costumes, etc. Especially royalty and divinity play but inclusive of many other scenarios especially high fantasy and omegaverse ones. ✨️Switching roles or positions. ✨️Body worship, boot worship, genital and ass worship. ✨️Corruption/faux innocence and purity play. ✨️CNC, CDC. (ALWAYS TAGGED FOR BLACKLISTS) ✨️Non-penetrative sex such as intercrural sex. ✨️Crying in the context of being overwhelmed with emotion or stimulation. ✨️Begging, humiliation, degradation. ✨️Food play, but not so much feeder/feedee, more like eating food off a person etc. ✨️Cuckolding and cuckqueaning. ✨️Electrical stimulation. ✨️Leather, latex, other fetish wear. Big boots especially. ✨️Power play and exchange. ✨️Primal play, Predator/prey. ✨️Daddy Dom play BUT ALWAYS a Sugar Daddy/Mommy thing, not an ageplay thing. I do not do ageplay myself and would rather not interact with ageplayers. ✨️Clothed/naked sex. ✨️Exhibitionism/voyeurism. ✨️Certain clothing fetishism, including gloves, lingerie, stockings/tights and big heavy boots. (Sometimes all at once, gasp!)

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Soft Limits: ✨️Feet and associated fetishism not already covered. Not for me, I prefer my feet in boots or stockings, haha. Would consider for the 'right' person but it's not my 'thing'. ✨️Swallowing urine or blood. ✨️Breeding/associated fetishism. ✨️Forced gender play. ✨️Fisting.

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Hard Limits/No Thanks: ✨️Extremely large insertions/cervix/bowel penetration. ✨️Unnecessary bullying and cruelty. I am a Soft person and a Service top at heart - I don't vibe well with hardcore humiliation and degradation myself personally; I'd rather make you cum than make you upset. ✨️Vomit/Scat. ✨️Sexualised Agegre or ageplay in general, but especially Infant ageplay and ABDL. ✨️Detransition content of any description, even when voluntary but especially when forced. ✨Using the wrong gendered terms and pronouns intentionally. ✨️Piercings and tattoos and anything else permanent. ✨️Eyes and anything to do with them.

#pinned

[maximumcrownfox]

Another Day at the ABS

(This is the most recent adventure, it follows a series about 15 adventures long, let me know if I should post the others)

I had been missing cock so badly because many of my regulars promising to come see me had opted out, leaving this sissy barren & needy. I got dressed & I wore a knit dress with all the trimmings, I looked cute & I so love being a girl!

I made out with a guy, which I rarely do, around age for a long passionate time then dropped down like a sissy & sucked a huge load out of him. He had a beautiful 7 incher that was yummy, it was a Thick cock with thick semen!

Afterwards a BBC younger guy came in with a beautiful penis that took a long time before he rewarded my persistence with another huge load. I relaxed hoping to meet a breeder or two, almost falling asleep.

I sucked two others before a guy with a beautiful 7 incher came in and got naked & allowed me to worship his cock & balls. Other guys opened the door & he decided we should go public. As I worshiped his cock & balls, other guys stood watching. One older guy with a thick cock with a huge bell shaped glans was naked, entered & the first guy instructed me to suck him. I did & guy #1 started to spank my sissy bottom. I switched between the two cocks for about 15 minutes. Guy #1 moved behind me & sat on the chair and I sucked #2. He started fingering my pussy hole and spanking me. After a few minutes he instructed me to sit on his penis. I reached up for lube & greased my pussy & moved over his rod. I sat slowly & impaled my sissy pussy with his steaming rod. I took guy #2 back into my mouth and had the pleasure of being spit roasted. #2 ejaculated into my mouth quickly overwhelmed by my fucking myself with cock #1. Cock #1 grabbed my hips & began to fucked into me. Cock #2 left thru the open door & I noticed 3 guys watching us, I loved that feeling of humiliation & sissy pride. Cock # 3, a overweight guy with a 3 inch penis stepped up with his mini penis hanging over the elastic of his shorts. His belly prevented me from getting my lips over much of his stump, but as a good sissy, I worked at it. All the while, I was bouncing on Cock #1. The spit roasting was so intense, I had a strong full body sissygasm without even stiff, my clitty securely tucked & taped under my panties. Cock #3 spurted sour & slimey loads a moment later grunting in a high pitched scream. Cock #1 began thrusting with exaggerated power & unloaded into my womb sending me into a second gasm, being so close to the first was nothing I have ever felt before. The boys left & I grabbed a tampon & sealed my pussy with it. I sucked two more gentlemen before it got really slow/quiet & I decided to call it quits. As I drove home, as sometimes in the past, the semen in my belly created a upset bowel. The tampon kept me from soiling myself & when I got home, I was 100% liquid as I relieved myself. I have read semen will do it, I was just lucky I had the tampon inserted. The hassles of being a sissy girl are worth it. I LOVE BEING A GIRL, spit roasting is one of the most satisfying feelings & experiences a sissy can have, I was over the top with todays events!! Thanks to all who read this!! Hugz Ami.

#panty slave #humiliated sissy #sissi femboi #feminized sissy