#sometimes being an adult sucks

[pose4photoml]

Well now it’s way past my bedtime… one of my mutual texting me about Bad Buddy and keeping me up rewatching 😉… I mean I can’t possibly stay up right ?!? Nope gotta be an adult and sleep some before going to work… being an adult sucks sometimes … lol

#my mutual keeping me awake #bad buddy rewatch #nope must go to sleep now have to wake up for work soon #sometimes being an adult sucks

[sonknuxadow]

you know i do wonder how many sonic characters actually have living parents. like knuckles is the last of his kind so obviously his parents arent around anymore. both guys who could be considered shadows dads are 100 percent confirmed dead. sonic is canonically an orphan im pretty sure. and on the other side of the coin cream is like the only character in the game cast who has a living parent we actually see onscreen. but what about everyone else i dont think theres a straight answer for any other character. other than rouge's mom being mentioned a couple times i Guess but we dont even know anything about her or if shes still alive just that she existed at some point. are these kids constantly putting themselves in danger because they dont have parents around to stop them or because their parents just dont care

#like what about tails. im guessing he didnt have any sort of family he was attached to if he left to be with sonic so quickly #but that doesnt really mean he didnt have parents at all. maybe he had parents and they just sucked i dont know #what about amy. what if she had parents this whole time we just never see them. #what about blaze. considering shes a princess id assume she was born into that role #but i dont know if her parents are ever actually mentioned #maybe theyre dead and there was no one else to take on their role and thats why blaze has so much responsibility at such a young age? #silver . he was born in a wet cardboard box all alone i cant really imagine him hvaing parents sorry #considering charmy is 6 and living with vector. an adult whos obviously not his biological dad. #i feel like something probably happened to charmys parents #espio i dont really question as much #becuase it feels very common in the sonic universe for teenagers to have more freedom than would be expected in real life #or maybe its not that common and the teenagers we're actually following are just living the most fucked up lives ever. i dotn know #but either way. espio where are your parents buddy. are they still alive. vector where are YOUR parents are they still alive #i dont know if i actually want canon explanations for all this though #because its kinda fun not knowing every detail about every characters life and being able to speculate and insert your headcanons n stuff #to be clear im talking about game canon #i know stuff like archie sonic and the sonic movies and the 90s cartoons will sometimes give characters new family members #or talk about their family situation even if the games dont say anything about that sort of thing

[novantinuum]

happy borthday to meeee :)

i am going to celebrate by, ,,,,

participating in capitalism. sigh.

#*wheeeeze* being an adult sucks sometimes #jen rambles

[thotsfortherapy]

having mommy issues be like I hate that you know me I hate that we’re related I hate that you birthed me I hate that you don’t know how to love me properly I hate that you can’t see how much you hurt me I hate that I’m expected to love you

#cy says stuff #I moved out when I was 17 for a reason #but I do still go back to visit when schools out sometimes and I regret it every single time #every time we talk I’m like damn is it time to call it quits because this is not it #I literally feel like I’m constantly on the brink of being disowned or kicked out of the house when I’m there #but it’s also for things like. bringing a single bottle of wine to a Christmas party that I did not even drink #or like. moving in with my partner of 4 years. because we are going to the 2nd most expensive city in Canada and girl I cannot pay the rent #or being upset when she reads my diary ?? or reads my credit card statements without permission and also just like behind my back?? #like do you think I’m not going to find out when you bring up information you only would’ve known if you had read those things #I can put two and two together… #also I’m literally almost done my university degree. i am fully an adult. these should not be issues ! #ahhhhh!!! #anyways I will speak to my therapist about this lol #also y’all my friends are always like oh I love my mom and it just seems to be a socially accepted thing that you should love your mom #but what if your mom sucks what then #I genuinely cannot relate to them I’m like literally what does that feel like #the first time I felt loved was when I was 15 lol there is 0 love in my family #anyways ! #it’s okay I am out of it and I have been out of it #just #always on the brink of cutting her off forever lol #some ppl just never change as much as you want them to and that is tough to accept. #it is also harder because society is telling my that I need to stay loyal to my family cause they’re blood #but if this were anyone else I would’ve blocked them so long ago 😭

[wildflowercryptid]

something that's been weighing on my mind ever since learning about the situation with ezra / toonimal is seeing how these predators will take the active hostility that is frequently directed towards minors in online spaces to their advantage and use it to prey on vulnerable children. i think that we as adults in online fandom should probably come together and maybe rethink the language / manner we go about interacting with kids bc clearly the way things are rn is causing active harm.

like obviously, if you're an adult and aren't comfortable with minors interacting with you or your content, you should be allowed to set that boundary and should be vocal about it, ( especially if the content you create isn't safe for them to consume. ) but i don't think talking to them like they're a blight on all that is good and holy is the way to go about it. maybe just saying you're an 18 plus account will suffice, you don't have to tell them to fuck off.

#i'm opening myself up for ppl to leave the stupidest takes on this post but whatever i need to get this off my mind #before anyone says anything about the kids on that website. they're grooming victims. they're literally kids being taken advantage of #show them some fucking kindness and be understanding that they're the victims in this situation #idk what it is about becoming an adult that causes so many ppl to lose their empathy towards minors it's weird #like yeah kids can be annoying and pushy on online spaces sometimes but a lot of them are old enough to know online etiquette lbr #alot of us were annoying kids on the internet at some point we should understand that you don't just. get a handbook for how to act online #that's shit you learn overtime but ppl seem to forget that #they also seem to forget that talking down to kids isn't gonna teach them shit they're not gonna listen to you if you treat them like idiots #what i'm trying to say is that we really need to talk to minors more respectfully and maybe give them a little grace #( obviously there will be situations where some of them need to be yanked up by the collar but there's ways to go about that >>> #without treating them like shit ) #these kids need to know that there's spaces for them to be online safely without having to stumble into places that'll pray on them #we all know how much it sucked to be a kid online we should want better for the ones coming in after us ya know #sorry if this comes across as preachy it just breaks my heart and boils me blood to see kids being taken advantage of like this #especially when there's ways to prevent it idk #how do i even tag this.... #mj.txt #there's trigger warning on the linked post btw #tw csa mention

[sga-owns-my-soul]

i need a 6 month vacation from being alive pls

#i'm so tired #i'm getting burnt out from writing #and playing video games #and petting my cat #and talking to my friends #i'm gonna cry in the break room at work #i'm so fucking tired #i'm so sick of being in pain #i'm so sick of thing's constantly being shitty #i'm just. i'm so tired #i want a break #and can't take one #so i'm just suffering #and losing the ability to actually do the things i enjoy #fuck #being an adult sucks sometimes #i'm tired #ignore this #personal rambles #stick liveblogs her breakdown #not stargate

[true-bluesargent]

there's something so fun about how i'm a uni student and i study history and whenever we go on any kind of trip we all turn into like. primary school children <3 like we had a trip to a museum today and we were all so excited! and we stopped into both the giftshops and bought silly giftshop junk and we talked to one of the actors who has to pretend to be a character from history and we played all the games on the video screens and we did the scavenger hunt activity that's supposed to be for little kids and we were all just so excited!!! and it was so fun. which is why you need to let fun and whimsy into your life because everything is just better and happier!

#adults should be allowed to just do fun 'childish' stuff without ridicule #because like if nobody on my course had been matching the energy my day would have sucked! #but we were all having such a fun time just being silly and touristy and childish #and it was wonderful #i love my degree so much sometimes #my course is such a good group of people too <3 #you just need whimsy in your life #whimsy

[murderandcoffee]

I have to file my taxes and I am so scared of fucking something up

there's so much now since I have a full-time job with a 401k and health insurance and shit like that

I know that making an honest mistake isn't a big deal and can be resolved with little fanfare but still

✨anxious✨

#taxes #being an adult fucking sucks sometimes #praying that I don't owe the government anything #bs.txt #personal

[lixbf]

the thing w maddie and buck and their parents and chim and his father is so. seeing that the very same person that raised you horribly and was a bad parent to you is very much capable of being good with children and you see it in how they interact with your own child and not knowing exactly what to do with that

#and chim has the added layer of seeing that his father is also capable of being a better father to albert and not just a better grandfather #there's resentment for their parents but also relief that they won't treat their grandkids the same #but also sadness over the childhood and the family they didnt get until now #kinda sad theyre fixing all the relationships w the parents like idk sometimes parents suck & their adult children dont have to love them #i mean i guess it's like supposed to be healing for the characters but it's not like everything is a-okay within the buckley family now so #911 abc

[sophiethewitch1]

in my hater era

#sophie speaks #tw vent #like. what. what??? #i do try not to upset anyone with trauma dumping or whatever but sometimes that bites me in the ass because people assume I'm not strugglin #struggling hugely #had one of my most violent meltdowns ever recently and it was after pushing myself to do something #and you know. thats on me #but saying like #im NOT trying?? #i dont want to start any problems but oh my GOD what do you think being sick constantly does to a person #what??? #trying to be a proper adult here but i am quite upset #idk how are you supposed to deal with shit like this #express this has upset you and that you are having a hard time #but then they dont believe you?? #trauma dump it is. hope you enjoy my psychiatrists notes #like im level 2 support needs autistic. i need a little fucking leeway or i genuinely try to kill myself #i KNOW its pathetic i KNOW its weak but my number one priority is keep myself alive #im so tired #ive been suicidal for like 7 years now #my life sucks so incredibly hard and I'm in constant pain and that just #it doesnt make me willing to deal with this shit #cripplepunk core lmao #cripple and im going to kill you #this is just geniunely upsetting #i feel like i need a good cry #i really am so tired #i feel like i just dont want to do this #why am i paying for this? why am i doing this? #if im not enjoying this why the fuck would i do it

[blitzy-blitzwing]

I had enough for a new iPad but I had to be responsible and pay my rent. 🥲

#being an adult sucks sometimes #and I have other bills to pay #rambles n stuff

[daydreamnoise-draws]

Happy New Year! 🐲 Here's hoping it's a great one!

#artists on tumblr #digital art #oc artist #digital illustration #original character #illustration #original art #art #doodles #oc #oc: juniper #I haven't been online as much as I wanted to towards the end of last year. #Being an adult with a job sucks sometimes

[dystini]

Calling all current and former (just taking a break?) Indycar writers!

A couple of us have noticed that the fandom is very quiet, aside from the Callum/Marcus writers and a few others. And many writers we used to see a lot of (or semi-frequently) have vanished. We're just wondering why. (We miss you.)

Did you know there's a discord server for Indycar fanfic? Hit me up if you want an invite.

Please share to get as many writers to see this as possible.

#indycar rpf #fanfic #I know I'm writing less than I did last year #Partly it's health (two long duration colds this year) #Partly it's life (the “joys” of home ownership) #Sometimes being a responsible adult sucks and gets in way of the fun stuff #But I'm also so damn prolific that my “less” is a lot of people's “how the hell do you write so much?” #I have some long stories in the pipeline if I can just get them finished

[fortes-fortuna-iogurtum]

hey friends is it normal to just feel. numb. because I think that maybe it is not. but what would I know anyway.

#really tho it’s like I can barely feel anything anymore. idk if it’s stress?? depression?? #the enormous weight of adult life suddenly and unexpectedly crashing down on me with the weight of the entire planet?? #I used to feel so *much* all the time and now I feel like I can barely feel anything at all… #and everyone around me is living life so much and I’m just here feeling like I can barely keep up with conversations as they’re happening #I’m tired… I feel like God is a far away idea that I’m struggling to hold onto… I feel like my mind is a bent and jumbled mess #like I grabbed hold of it and tried to crush it into the shape I thought it should be and now all I’ve got is a broken frame #I /know/ who I am and what I believe. I /know/ what my life is. but I don’t feel anything. #the only time I feel anything is sometimes when we’re singing at church I just cry at the sense of glory of something I can’t touch #and sometimes I shake with fear at the thought that I’ve ruined everything that could’ve ever been good about me #I’m oversharing on the internet again but I just don’t know what to do. I’m so tired. I want to see something beautiful and feel #the weight and glory of it again. but I feel like I can’t. all I feel is numbness. #I feel like I could sleep for months but every time I wake up I never feel refreshed. and I’ve been having bad dreams too. #adulthood kinda does suck can I please go back to being 5 #gurt says stuff #personal

[cwrldpc]

#just want to quit my job #run away from home #sucks being an adult sometimes #burnt out on life

[maggot-baggage]

One thing ive been trying to work on is being more outspoken or just speaking in general bc i realize. In a way. Ive used the excuse that nothing i say or do really matters let alone worth mentioning to others, so I just keep quiet and stop posting and talking and messaging people

#and its not on purpose but sitting down and thinking about it i think it just came from how people talked to me as a kid #treated me more like. like there is no reason for me to speak up unless its about my achievements and projects #and if i have none then i have nothing worth saying #and now as an unemployed adult struggling to socialize irl and online. and struggking to do the things i love #i find myself resigning back to complete silence in a way bc i mean what have i done worth mentioning yk #i say “i have to be more annoying” and mean it bc like it sucks seeing i have mutuals i made friends with years ago but im too scared to #actually talk to them. bc again what have i done worth mentioning #idk imma work on this im just thinkin bout shitttt #i just feel like a loser for this sometimes bc im not going to magically become successful and interesting enough #to have worthwhile conversations with others ig #but i can try by just bein ok with bein a lil boring while i work my way back up to being a semi functional adult #mag.txt