#she was a toxic bitch

[sergle]

When I talk about something bad I've experienced, Baked In to my experience as A Woman, I am not "making my little cousins feel like shit for being women", because I am talking in a space with, allegedly, adults. I am not bringing my problems to children in the first place. That said, I don't HAVE to make my baby cousin feel bad, because she's already experienced sexual harassment in her life, and she's only 8, and doesn't even understand what any of it means yet. And everyone in her family can try to instill confidence in her, and never talk about our bodies in a negative way. But she can still feel like she's too chubby, because she still goes to school, and talks to other kids and their parents, and still sees ads, and still watches tv. We can be positive, but we can't fix the root of the problem. And I don't HAVE to tell trans women that "pain is a rite of passage", because that's not a Rule being enforced (by me), because I've already sat and listened to my friend complain about constantly shaving as a Baseline necessity and how it hurts her skin and she has to put makeup onto fresh cuts on her face because going out without a full face of properly feminine makeup would make her life worse, and being anything less than thin and lithe makes her "less feminine", and ALL the things that can make her "more feminine" are behind a paywall. And I can try to make her feel better, and I can hear her experiencing the tenfold version of problems I relate to, but I can't fix the root cause of her problems by just telling her not to complain. Forcing happiness as a core personality trait for women is not the Girlboss Feminist move that you think it is, and no amount of gender euphoria in the world will make you immune to systemic oppression.

#sergle.txt #you cunts learned the term 'toxic positivity' years ago and forgot it instantly #putting a bandaid on a fuckin severed leg is what it is #do i wish i wasn't a woman? no #do i feel pretty in a dress? yes #have i suffered? OH MY GOD YES #do i think any woman alive today has lived without suffering in these ways? NO. #unless she is being raised by wolves. in which case. good for her. #again I am still flabbergasted by that post having used trans woman as a last ditch effort scapegoat. #like. shocked. as if ANY trans girl's problems are because other women complain abt the way they're treated. #she's got her own problems bitch!! and they are directly correlated to my problems!! #it's like. it's infantilizing almost. the way the dickheads in that post went from ''kids'' to ''trans women''. #adult women who know how gender works. #condescending.

[sxphr]

Bianca: Shit, I lost Wednesday. Enid's gonna kill me.

Yoko: I have an idea.

Yoko, shouting: OMG is that... Esther Sinclair.

Wednesday, appearing with a silver knife in her hand: Where?

Yoko: Found her.

#esther sinclair is a toxic bitch #wednesdays gonna kill her #its fine #she deserves it #wednesday addams #incorrect wednesday quotes #wednesday #enid sinclair #enid #wenclair #yoko tanaka #bianca barclay

[tokyogruel]

hey btw it takes a lot of patience and care and time and dedication to teach someone how to read and write so please dont forget that muu, canonically, is teaching haruka how to read and write

#seriously shes a patient and caring friend to him #shes not an evil toxic bitch shes a 16 year old who became a bully to avoid being bullied #creature speaks #milgram #to the main tag you go

[sterekmpreg]

Kate is a grown-ass woman towards a literal child because she is a crazy predator (and I’m tired of people not acknowledging it and Derek’s trauma from it):

Stiles defending Derek cause that’s his mans and Kate just so in the wrong:

Just a reminder: Kate Argent is a predatory bitch😐

#derek hale #stiles stilinski #derek x stiles #stiles x derek #sterek #stiles stilinski x derek hale #sterek pack #derek hale x stiles stilinski #sterek is real #sterek love #sterek meme #stiles and derek #derek and stiles #kate argent #I hate Kate argent #she a fucking bitch #She's is such a fucking creep #she deserves so much worse #Derek has messyad toxic relationships with woman after that because Kate fucked him up so much and I can't even describe the anger I feel #i absolutely hate it #I hope kate argent burns for eternity and it still won't be enough for what she deserves

[eerna]

Nicasia swallowing her pride and begging Jude for Cardan's life on her knees u will always be famous. Jude letting herself cry over Cardan in front of no one but Nicasia u will always be famous.

#''we were friends before we were lovers and we were friends even after everything'' what if i ate my own throat #like she is still a bitch! she doesn't stop being a bitch!! but it's an emo bitch now!!! how delightful!!!! #tfota liveblog #red flag he stayed besties with his toxic ex even after she helped kidnap and torture his wife. whoopsie!!! #god i need to draw that conversation i have been planning on it for years now ever since i cried on that damn bus

[swordmaid]

had a vision of brienne preparing to enter a joust and jaime is leaning over the stands either trying to give her a kiss or putting his favour on her pauldron and some other dudes are holding onto him so he doesn’t fall over

#it’s that vibe of that person sitting on their friend’s shoulders to kiss the other person leaning from the window #u know the one????? anyway. #I love jb in tourney settings I think jaime would absolutely want her to wave his favour around #while he’s wearing the most obnoxious looking velour doublet so everyone knows that’s HIS favour btw #also I think he’d be the type to coach her from the sidelines and standing up screaming SHANK THE BITCH!!!!!! #when brienne gets dismounted or something he’s gonna be like BOO that’s a foul that didn’t count FLOP! fail. she’s just going easy on you 🤭 #jaime being the most toxic joust spectator everyone hates sitting next to him

[spop-romanticizes-abuse]

ah, you see. we're not mad that she's toxic. we're mad that she does the exact same shit as shadow weaver and horde prime, and gets away with it.

it's completely okay to portray toxic characters in media. what's not okay is romanticizing the toxicity and acting like it's totally okay to abuse your partner as long as you're hot.

#idk how many times i can say this before i lose all my braincells 😭 #“catra is supposed to be toxic” bitch then why was she not killed off like shadow weaver or horde prime? #spop critical #spop salt #spop criticism #spop discourse #spop #she ra #anti spop #anti catra #anti catradora #anti c//a #antic//a #anticatra #anticatradora

[quietwingsinthesky]

see my brain just doesn’t register the idea of anyone having a ‘one true love’ which is why the common fandom tropes of making canonical love interests terrible in order to justify why your ship is better always bugs the shit out of me. it feels like the only reason you would do that is if the idea of the characters in your ship having any other sort of romantic relationship that was important to them, even in the past, is a threat to their current one, therefore all their past relationships need to be demonized in order to make them ‘not real love’ so that they remain pure and chaste and ready for the True Love of the endgame ship.

#im not crazy right like other people notice that trope ajd get annoyed by it right #its a very weird trope to be so common from my perspective because like. why not just. break up the couple you dont want. #for reasons that arent ‘i made this person into a charicature of themselves to justify why my blorbo would have never actually loved them’ #you know? its weird. its weird right? #and then of course there’s the offshoot of this that intersect with fandom misogyny where that demonized person is usually the female love #interest. or sometimes not even that. sometimes she was just standing there a little too close to one of the guys and that made people feel #insecure about their ship so they make her a bitch. gwen cooper. im. im talking about gwen cooper. people do this to gwen cooper and ill #never know peace about that. #anyway. is there a word for like. heteronormativity for monogomous people. because thats what i think this falls under. #because it is a very. like its a very conservatively monogomous idea. i feel like it is not unrelated to christian values of not having sex #before you’re married. that maybe someone in fandom might manage to ditch that particular ruleset to make their blorbos fuck nasty but NOT #the underlying idea of it that you can only ever have One Person you share that love and intimacy with. so you still end up perpetuating the #same toxic beliefs. you know? sorry im rambling it just annoys me

[lestatlioncunt]

i was tagged by @dekarios @katsigian @devilbrakers @risingsh0t and @katewalker to use this cute picrew with some of my ocs. thank you so much guys ily <33

violante/ruven (bg3) | akira/hanako (cp77) fenix/vesper (cp77) | hiraeth/serana (skyrim)

tagging: @hibernationsuit @quickhacked @reaperkiller @pawnguild @arisatominakos

@faarkas @ncytiri @gothimp @nokstella @baelavelaryon

@florbelles @aezyrraeshh @xolaanii @thedeadthree and anyone else that wants to join!!

#tag games #this picrew is so cute.....i must admit it's sooo cute... #sorry i had to use the love loses for vioven..obsessed with them i'm afraid. toxicity & psychosexual obsession let's gooo!!!! #also vesper being depicted with a lil smile?? my queen of resting bitch face in all picrews??? what can i say she got a lil kissy... #oc: violante #oc: ruven #oc: akira #oc: fenix #oc: vesper #oc: hiraeth

[alfredoalfredoalfredo]

no you dont understand how much i love ivy embra, okay OKAY

I showed my friend what her accent sounds like and he fell in love immediately btw

Shes the it girl sorry you guys dont like girls who are mean

#Adaine and ivy friend arc when #Maybe even...more than friends #Idc that shes osin's bitch bff and probs made fun of adaine for thinking osin liked her #Okay toxic lesbians #dimension 20 #fantasy high #fantasy high junior year #fhjy #adaine o'shaughnessey #ivy embra

[lollytea]

The Blight family are so interesting IN THEORY. In execution they are....😬

#i dont mean that like. theyre flawed characters #i LOVE flawed characters. nothing i love more than seeing some messy toxic bitches do messy toxic bitch things #i love the exploration of unhealthy family dynamics #i love the trope of a rich shiny perfect family who are secretly fucked up and miserable #i love the kind of characters that environment creates #whether it be gaslighting gatekeeping girlbossing assholes #or people who are desperately trying to be good. or to break away from the role theyve been forced into #or people who are in a little more of a grey area. people who have a good side and a shitty side #its all fun and interesting #the problem with the blights is their characterization is just so....clunky. sloppy. not very good #alador amity and the twins all suffer from inconsistent writing #alador is a complex case to delve into. and you dont wanna listen to me dissecting him #so ill just say that he could have been handled better #ironically Odalia is the most consistently written character of them all #shes very surface level evil. shes not very interesting #I enjoy Odalia. I think she's funny in just how unapologetically shitty she is #and her VA gives such an entertaining performance #but she is like. Hollow. There is nothing going on with her other than abusive mom and capitalist #but by god at least she knows what shes about

[empty-blog-for-lurking]

So i finally listened to The Magnus Protocol and uhh holy shit, yall mind if i

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#the magnus protocol #tmagp #tmagp spoilers #In the tags #My favourite case has to be the 2nd one Daria girl you are so fucked up!!!! You are so fucked up girl get help!!!! #And i am loving the absolute toxic work environment it is hilarious all the characters are great!! #Alice Gwen and Lena have three way situation of snide backhanded remarks and office coworker hate going on #Colin hates everyone but especially the puter and is this close to murder #Sam is just trying to do whatever the fuck he is doing. He is new here. He is over qualified #Teddy my man saw his place workplace comedy swerving towards horror genre and immediately ditched ship good for him!!! #(Unless Lena brutal pipe murdered him in which case girl i am so sorry) #And just character in general. Like Alice is trying to vibe her way through life #while also saying some death flaggy 'oh this is def foreshadowing' shit every episode #Gwen has the same surname as the shows previous antag #but also just after Lena's job and just wants to be taken seriously and thinks everyone is against her #she also may or not have discovered that her boss is murderer but oh well #Sam is like this sweet nice guy who is also so fucking nosy and the only one actually curious about fucked up shit cases magnus institue #And everyone is telling him to stop Girl! Turn away girl!! You are gonna get fucked up girl!! Look away!! #Colin is just so fucking angry and feral but also IT is just like that. He is crawling on the floors. He is growling at people #Lena is so fucking tired with all these bitches in her office Head Bitch incharge of all these Bitches #And i am 80% sure she murdered that guy Klaus #Anyway love all of this. Cant wait to hear them get killed in brutal tragic ways

[proudfreakmetarusonniku]

like i see people say stuff like “rei is a deconstruction of the idea of like the perfect girl in a male gaze-y way” and and i'm ready to agree until they go “it’s because she’s creepy and weird and bad!” like no. rei's a deconstruction of misogynistic ideas of womanhood because they’re ideals forced upon her that damage her, not because she’s in any way “creepy”. like, the fact she’s a fourteen year old girl who was basically used as a substitute wife by her father bc she looked like his own dead wife is not something that is meant to make rei look bad like holy shit.

like both rei and asuka are very obviously like. showing fantasised and misogynistic ideas of an idealised woman don’t work irl yeah. shinji's misogynistic view of them is wrong. but that’s not because rei and asuka are bad people it’s because like. “fourteen year old who's flirty and seductive” and “fourteen year old who's a quiet obedient object” are major signs of abuse and trauma and anyone actually acting in those ways at that age clearly isn’t normal. asuka is desperate for attention in any way she can get it, even unhealthy and dangerous ways. rei is at the very least I has a weird pseudo-incestous enmeshment filled abusive relationship with her father, even if she's not actively being sexually abused. asuka is seeking support, rei is a grooming victim. these are not things that are flaws in their character the entire point of subverting the expectations is to show how those expectations are unhealthy to rei and asuka like. god.

#like. negative fucking media literacy. #like. rei and asuka show signs of abuse in ways very normal for teenagers #every one of the Children in Evangelion is a victim and they react in messy ways #the point of that isn’t to show that they themselves are bad. it’s to show how trauma fucks you up #like none of them are bad people! they do fucked up shit bc it’s normalised to them! #people will just centre rei and asuka’s trauma around shinji and then call the show misogynistic for that like. #woah pal. there’s issues in the show yeah but i think that’s more an issue on your end buckaroo. #like their trauma interacts with him. and his trauma interacts with them. bc the show is literally about human's influences on each other #like the human instrumentality project isn’t there to just be funny it’s a thematic conclusion??? #and also like. it’s comparing and contrasting all threes trauma to understand exactly how they got shaped the way they are. #just. think about the show you’re watching. please. #rei isn’t creepy she’s a schizophrenic abuse victim who's probably done the least screwed up shit out of the main cast #shinji isn’t a loser he's a heavily mentally ill young boy cracking under the pressure of toxic masculinity and having his boundaries erode #until he's unable to even respect the boundaries of others and recreates his trauma for a desperate attempt at control #asuka isn’t like. okay i mean she IS a bitch but literally so is every thirteen year old ok. #and it’s bc she fucking despises the vulnerability being kind shows. she despises herself and is overcompensating bc she’s scared and 13 #like. god.

[leezuhh]

"beef" on netflix is so fucking good. i love a show about a small event that turns into something insane that nobody involved could have possibly predicted. also i like steven yeun. spoilers in tags

#amy and danny constantly trying to ruin each other's lives only to constantly get into deeper and deeper shit themselves is. peak. #spoilers follow: #literally like half the main cast dying in a gunfight with cops is Also something i could not have predicted. #rip jordan my favorite toxic lesbian queen. she was only there to start shit. stealing her brothers gf. her constant gay tension w amy #and then she GOT BISECTED???? girls it turned into a horror movie straight up so fast... poor naomi she was just there to fuck bitches..... #liza post #beef netflix #live liza reaction. if they reconcile over paul dying horribly i will have . feelings #anyways RIP paul he was like my favorite character. i love a stupid ass himbo #everyone in this show is a terrible person and it's extremely entertaining #'I AM NOT HELPING YOU UNLESS YOU USE NICE WORDS' you both just crashed your cars off a cliff after chasing each other down. ok #'i see your life' 'you poor thing' #it's such a good show at being funny and dark and poetic and Good. also crow motif xoxo #update PAUL ALIVE SWAG

[zellk]

Funny romance charts - Dangerous Babygirls edition (empty chart)

#i know i did spriggan and mitas but really i mostly wanted to do these two #but it always takes longer to complete for these two because i have to THINK so much more fkmdjhsmgkjh #helps me develop them properly tho >:) so it's good #lana #rena #lanare #renaiel #paracosm #symphonia #oc #ocs #zellk oc #zellk ocs #i am laughing SO fucking much at how fucking toxic Lana has the potential to be #like it's also hard for me to fill these (esp for her) because she changes SO MUCH as she grows through the years of her story #(and gets to a point where she can have a “healthy” relationship with Rena) #(healthy between quotes because they are both unhinged but together and for each other so it causes slightly less trouble to everybody) #(they do sorta balance each other out fr fr) #(but they also cause unhinged behaviours in each other and i love it kfdmjshgmkjdhgmkjh) #anyways when they were younger Lana was an abusive gaslighting bitch - glad she got reality checked a few times and grew out of it #someone told her “be better” and she took that personally

[stupid-sloot-headcanons]

I miss when Harley and Ivy's relationship wasn't bland and boring and unrecognizably tame

#the desire to make Good Representation™ has led companies to think that means gay/bi ppl cant be toxic and like. interesting. and compelling #sloot bitches about things #like modern Ivy isnt a character. shes a green support device for Harley that spouts couples therapy advice #MAAM YOU ARE AN ECOTERRORIST. WHY ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT CHANNELING RAGE IN A NONVIOLENT MANNER #Ivy is the rage of the planet personified. at her best shes portrayed as this being tortured by the pain of the Green and going insane #bc NOBODY she tries to explain it to understands. humans will never understand and will never stop poisoning. so she stops bothering to #appeal to their humanity bc their humanity is what drives them to do this. killing them/feeding them to plants/making them plants is justice #and better for everyone including them to her. #SHE IS NOT A HEALTHY PERSON AND THAT IS OK. ITS GREAT EVEN. #she and Harley are very broken women who find refuge in each other. Harley is proof to Ivy that humanity isnt 100% worthless #Ivy is proof that Harley can find love and companionship that can be truly reciprocated.