#please feel free to reach out

[lovelykhaleesiii]

hello my lovelies,

I hope everyone is well & life is treating you kindly. I know the fandom space has been quite tense these past few days/week, with all the truth and revelations coming out about certain creators/writers that we thought we’d known for some time now…

it truly saddens me deeply, as many of us knew these writers, were avid readers of their works and even considered them a close mutual. I think most of us can say we’ve felt blind sided and that sometimes we may not always get along with people and that’s okay… we need to be mindful of our actions. a huge learning lesson.

I hope now we can all be a bit more aware of how significant our actions are, especially online. dealing with strangers frankly, we can never truly know the full picture of someone’s life nor their honest intentions. please be careful.

I’ve not always been perfect either, so I do apologise if I’ve ever hurt anyone or made them feel neglected or any less. and if I’m being honest, I haven’t had a positive experience either with some other creators so hopefully, they take some accountability in all this & re-inform their interactions with others and how it can impact people…

with that being said, I know a lot of people are currently turned off by the fandom which is quite fair to be honest, but truly I think we can all collectively get past this. s2 is coming up and we should try to rebuild this fandom to a safer, more joyful and understanding space. especially for any newcomers that may wish to join!

I’ve recently, been part of a wholesome discord server for all things HOTD (with the bonus of other fandom channels) if anyone would be daring to join now (or whenever you’re comfortable). it’s been revamped with new admin (myself included) so please feel free to reach out to me with any questions, and I’m more than happy to share the invite link ❤️

you guys can even sus it out for yourselves and leave if you so choose to. no lock in contract 🤭

I hate to see so many lovely creators leave because of all this, however I support whatever makes you feel comfortable.

my blog will always be a safe space, and I hope I can provide that for you guys 🤍🙏🏻 dm’s are always open too.

- love always, Hel 💓

#I want to be thirsty over these blonde bitches again without feeling sad #HOTD #HOTD fandom #please feel free to reach out #aegon ii targaryen #tom glynn carney #ewan mitchell #aemond targaryen

[rahbid]

ok. new blog is set up :)

#im not linking it #please feel free to reach out

[pluralsword]

Wish we knew (trans) systems with transformer headmates who are willing to dig into transness so we could like, develop community knowledge about how to tackle dysphoria/trauma related to them and other headmates and what that does to the body and how to heal (for the record we aren’t traumagenic, we’re protogenic/gendiegenic). Like, we know two that we are friends with, and are just not having an easy time right now (it’s getting better but it’s getting in the way of somet things we have to do). thankfully our therapist and gender clinic folks are very supportive and so are our friends and spaces we frequent. We are just kind of at a loss over how long it’s going to take to really feel better/increased headache blood rush symptoms when getting cued by specific things we didn’t used to get. We’ll make it, it’s just not easy, but we think that if we weren’t around this would have been much more painful for our alterhuman robot headmate and the way her system used to work before us.

#plurality #plural healing #transformer headmates #y'all if you feel comfortable talking to us with where we come from as prominently trans gals or xeno folk who have been through a lot #please feel free to reach out #we have a lot of love #but we're just feeling #sad #that there are some things that used to be easier that are now very hard #that two headmates have so much anguish

[nektaarr]

Eid mubarak my beloved mutuals and tumblr friends! May Allah accept all your fasting and your efforts. May all of you come out of this beautiful month with a clean heart, a soul filled with light and love from al-Wadūd (the most Loving).

I love you all for the sake of Allah <3

#i‘ll keep you all in my duas #hope you are all ok #if anyone needs someone to talk #feels lonely #or heartbroken #please please feel free to reache out #my inbox is open for all of you inshaallah! #<3 #alhamdulillah #yxc

[silverraes]

so with the amount of reactions to my last post re: thai bl friend circles I've been considering starting a small thai bl discord where we can all scream together? It'd be my first time managing sth like this so you'd have to bear with me but lmk if you're interested

#also still always feel free to drop me messages or asks #just throwing this idea out into the void before it ends up flopping lol #the sign #the sign the series #pit babe the series #bake me please #twins the series #my dear gangster oppa #last twilight #just gonna go ahead and tag the same shows so it reaches its audience #thai bl

[the-tired-commander]

Building a Pride Flag.....2!

Hello again! After how well last years went, I wanted to come back and make another flag! This year i'll be using the Progressive Flag (thank you to everyone who voted in my poll to decide!)

If I get too many characters for this layout to work, I will be altering it so the side stripes are on the top and bottom instead!

So! Here is where you come in! I'm hoping to make this flag out of all of your excellent characters!

Simply reblog whichever colour post you think they fit best with and add on a picture for me! It's as simple as that! You're absolutely welcome to send me many characters, in fact I would love it if you did! Last year I collected 170 characters, and i'd love to get even more this year. If you submitted characters last year and would like me to use them again, let me know! I can easily access the screens from last year!

I'll be running this until the end of June! I will make multiple posts when the cutoff point is getting near!

I look forward to seeing all your characters!

RED ORANGE YELLOW GREEN DARK BLUE PURPLE BLACK BROWN LIGHT BLUE PINK WHITE

Please make sure you use this years posts!

Below the cut for a little more information about what i'm looking for!

When sending screens, please make sure I can see your characters properly!

Too far away means I can't really show off your character!

(this is a glitch screen but it gets the point across) If i added Opehlia onto the flag like this, she'd either be very small or I might have to stretch her.

Close up shots can work, but that's mostly up to you! If you wanna just show off your characters face, that's perfectly fine!

Absolutely take screens using emotes and skills! They're a lot of fun to work with and can really show off your characters!

Damai using a skill vs Alvida from the character select screen, I would use either screen happily but the motion shot shows off Damai a little better!

I will do my absolute best to get your back pieces and weapons in!

If your computer can handle it, higher graphics is nice to work with. Again, this is all about showing off your characters and higher graphics help with that.

PLEASE DO NOT FEEL LIKE YOU CAN'T TAKE PART IF YOUR COMPUTER CAN'T HANDLE HIGHER GRAPHICS! I WILL STILL INCLUDE YOUR CHARACTERS!

A background that contrasts your character will make my job a lot easier when I am cutting them out to put them on the flag.

This makes for a very easy edit! I will still happily work with any screens I am given!

If you want to edit your screens or send screens you have previously edited, you are welcome to! Especially if you want to add features that you can't have in game.

If there's anything else you'd like to know, please please reach out to me. I want to make this fun for everyone to take part in!

I will tag people that take part in the final result, if you do not want to be tagged, please tell me!

Happy Pride month in advance to all you lovely people!

Here's last years so you can have an idea of what you'd be taking part in!

#gw2prideflag #guild wars 2 #gw2 #please do feel free to reach out to me if you have any questions #i want everyone to feel like they can take part #you don't have to of course! #theres absolutely no pressure #but i would love for people to feel like they can be involved <3 #i'm excited to be doing this #behold my excessive use of exclamation points cause im happy about it sjdfhk #but yeah! two months for people to send screens! #this gives people extra time and gives me a bit more time to work on each screen too #i would also really appreciate people reblogging this post so i get a better reach! <3 #if anyone wants to use art then please talk to me about it!!

[the-ace-reader]

URGENT NOTICE FOR US DISCORD USERS!!!!!

There is an announcement floating around, and this one starts out basically the same way, but

I have included a more in-depth email template to send to Discord that is based on an arbitration opt-out sample letter from a legal office.

That way, your opt-out will hopefully be more watertight, as this is a legal issue. It may be overkill, and hopefully it is, but better safe than sorry, right?

———————

Discord has decided to do an INCREDIBLY SHADY MOVE and change their TOS to include an arbitration clause (scroll down until you see the bolded heading titled “Agreement to Arbitrate”)

To opt-out of the arbitration clause, email

[email protected]

with your notice that you do not wish to be a part of the clause. It is STRONGLY RECOMMENDED that you do this as soon as possible.

A possible email format to use (remember that this IS a legal opt-out) -

Email Subject: Opting Out of the Agreement to Arbitrate

To Whom It May Concern:

I, [legal name], am opting out of the Agreement to Arbitrate as outlined in Section 16 of your Discord Terms of Service Agreement, on [today’s date].

I do not agree to the Agreement to Arbitrate for any accounts created by, or associated with, the email(s)/phone number(s) provided:

[list email(s)/phone number(s) attached to discord accounts]

This opt-out notice applies to any and all accounts that I, [legal name], have utilized in the past, am currently utilizing presently, and may choose to utilize and create in the future.

Please let me know as soon as possible if you need any additional information from me to implement my opt-out request.

Finally, I ask that you send me confirmation that you have received and processed this opt-out notice.

Sincerely,

[legal name]

For more information, here is someone that breaks it down a little bit:

#if a lawyer wants to chime in feel free? #I based the email template off of an opt out letter from a legal office but I am not a lawyer #discord server #discord #reblog to boost #signal boost #boost #please boost #discord chat #discord stuff #important #reblog to save a life #reblog to spread awareness #reblog to spread the word #reblog to reach more people #reblogging is appreciated #please consider reblogging #spread the word #legal #us users #america #United States #USA #better safe than sorry

[ask-team-grim]

( @the-abandoned-digital-city @ Dravena)

the weird little cat guy was watching her carefully before asking.

“How are you so cool??”

Dravena: Ya think I’m cool?!

Dravena: Oh man, thank ya! Usually ‘mons think I’m scary, not cool! I’m totally gonna tell Rye!

Dravena: I’m a pretty normal lookin’ Deino though. Or that’s what my Dad tells me. So not really somethin’ special I did. Just suppose ya never saw one of us before. Not many ‘mons have.

Dravena:…

Dravena: Wait, do you have food? Can I have some?

#gosh Dravena was not ready for a complement lol #you totally just made her week! #as your reward you get the kinda odd looking happy eyebrows #she smelled the weird meat cookies too lmao. #as always please feel free to ignore it or reach out if the reply isn’t to your liking or it makes you uncomfortable for whatever reason! #this interaction is: #noncanon #pmd #pmd oc #pokemon #pokemon mystery dungeon #pokemon ask blog #pmd ask blog #deino #deino oc #lousleepover

[jendoe]

so uh. i really. really hate that i'm having to make this post but i want to take some stress off of their brother's shoulders

@phillipsgraves passed away this evening from covid complications, so please keep me and their family in your thoughts because this... is obviously a tremendous loss for all of us. they were a wonderfully talented, smart person and an amazing friend to everybody around them, especially to me. i'm lucky i got even 5 years with them... i just wish it could've been more we had so many plans together :(

as of right now, i don't know if they have any plans to set up a donation fund or anything of the sort, but if they do, i'll let you guys know

#*ajtxt #death tw #ask me to tag if thats not Enough #making this post is the hardest thing i've ever had to do #im genuinely in a state of shock like im shutting down rn #im going. to have to take a break from tumblr bc it hurts too much to use rn #but please feel free to reach out to me on discord i could use the support #i'm going to need... a lot of time to process this. there is bits of their life Everywhere and i didnt get a proper last convo with them #its taken me over an Hour to even press post on this bc it just makes it. too real #rbs appreciated

[cagenewman]

WHO: Cage & OPEN!

WHERE: The Garden, suburbs

WHEN: March 17, 2024

Every year on St. Patrick's Day, Cage's mother had made him a cake, and there was only one rule: it was never green. Even when he went through that John Deere phase, she told him that he deserved to have his special moment, separated from the holiday, an evening that was just about him. And now, thirty-some years later, he had finally embraced the green. Or maybe that was the beer talking. It had been a long week of sanding down bedroom floors at home, matching knobs and locks at the farmhouse he was restoring, checking in at the shop, studying and researching and brushing up on his business skills and, well, he deserved beer and sweets on his birthday. To honor his Irish roots. Or whatever. "Oh, oops," he let out a laugh as he pulled his hand back from reaching for the flight of non-alcoholic drinks that had been set out by the bartender (he wasn't a total lush, he took breaks in between), gesturing towards it, "was this yours? I don't mind waiting, I already got a t-shirt for doing the booze one."

#merrockstarter #;; i'll be leaving this up through the event duration for absolutely anyone! #but if you want anything with any of my other 8 please feel free to reach out <333

[wormwoodandhoney]

tearful grief thoughts under the cut.

i have this thing where i want time to slow down, because it means he was just here. i relate to all things as, "he was still alive then". at the beginning of 2023, he was still alive. and now it's 2024. and time keeps going on but he was just here. i keep wanting to tell people, "but he was just here! he was just here!" i'm dreading the anniversary of his death. there will be no more firsts without him. it'll just be... what it is. not sure if any of this makes sense, but i needed some of these feelings out of my heart.

i thought christmas would be the hard holiday, but it's new years. i just don't like beginning things without him.

#grief #don't rb please #feel free to comment or reach out tho esp if you also miss drew

[naofaun]

ive been seeing a lot of shout outs to people who can't shower or clean or brush their teeth, which, good, but i also wanted to make a different, more specific type of post, so:

shout out to people who have to sacrifice certain hygiene practices (or what the general public considers clean/dirty) because of their disability

shout out to people who can't use wash cloths or alternatives

shout out to people who can't cut, trim, clean or file their nails

shout out to people who can only shower in hot water, causing outbursts of rashes, acne, etc

shout out to people who sweat or smell so much that deodorants/anti perspirants don't do anything for them, or who otherwise can't use them

shout out to people who can't use most soaps or shampoos

shout out to people who can't participate in skin care (lotions, face masks, etc)

shout out to people who can't shave and have issues with hygiene because of it (i.e, smelling worse or sweating more)

shout out to people who can't use menstrual products easily/at all

shout out to people who can't brush or comb their hair

shout out to people who can't brush their teeth, tongue, gums, etc

shout out to people who need a caregiver to help them shower, no matter how much help they need

shout out to people who have bladder or intestinal issues and therefore struggle with bodily fluids/being gassy/etc

shout out to people who have to clean parts of their body by “soap flow” because they can't reach to wash properly

(this also applies for any sort of struggling, not just “can't”!)

#pls feel free to add more!! #hygeine ks a huge struggle in this community and more specifics need to be talked about #a lot of rhis is a huge self callout /j #{ ♡ } nao : misc . . . #disabilities #disabled #obviously any disability applies but im tagging for reach now #autism #autistic #adhd #ibs #... cutely runs out of ideas on what to tag #actually disabled #please please add more!!

[traumatizeddfox]

little psa

hi angels

when i created this account, i created it with the means to just vent about my day, mental health and abuse. eventually i gained more followers and i'm so happy to say that people come here to feel seen, heard, and maybe even loved. my goal will always be a place where victims of any form of abuse from a friend/family/person(s), regime, legislation, etc can come here and feel like they can vent, maybe share their stories, ask for advice, etc

that being said, as much as i love when people reach out. I will not partake in any "cancelling" or call-out posts. I have been victim of being part of these, and I never want to partake in someones wrongful downfall and even if your post is genuine, true, etc, it's hard for me to know all facts and I never want to use my account to wrongfully attack someone. Abuse is so tricky and there is no such thing as a perfect victim. As much as I would love to help people, I want to make it clear that I believe everyone, but I get a few messages/asks of people asking me to call out people, and I just can't/won't do that.

I feel really terrible asking this, only because I know abusers get away all the time. I beg you to keep fighting for justice, and posting on your blog, but the only issue i have had, is accounts ive never seen randomly popping up asking me to expose their abuser and like I said, ive been on the other side where my abuser(s) has lied about me, even going as far to make Youtube videos on me.

If you want to use my ask box as a place to vent about your abuse, bullying, etc please feel free too! Im always here to answer anons (even if i dont answer all because I have over 1000 in my box lol) I also have a discord (which I know im never active in because im so busy lol, but its in my pinned tweet or feel free to ask!)

Also I hope this doesn't come across like I am telling people to NOT reach out and talk. NEVER STOP TALKING ABOUT IT. I just don't do call-out posts on my own blog, thats all, but again feel free to send asks talking about it, i will always listen <3

love fox 🐾

#i hope this comes across as sweet as i can!!! #i love u all thank you for follows #please feel free to reach out i will always be there

[powerfought]

  𝐀𝐅𝐅𝐈𝐋𝐈𝐀𝐓𝐄𝐒  𝐂𝐀𝐋𝐋!  please  give  this  a  like  if  you  would  be  interested  in  becoming  affiliates!!  similar  to  mains,  this  would  mean  you  and  your  muse(s)  would  be  the  first  i  go  to  with  plot  ideas,  would  receive  priority  for  both  inbox  and  thread  responses ( and would receive said replies live rather than in the queue ),  would  be  featured  on  my  pinned  post  ( traveling  with  ... ),  and  would  generally  be  subjected  to  in  character  and  out  of  character  shenanigans.  my  hope  with  affiliates  is  to  truly  integrate  my  muse(s)  with  the  arcs,  backstories,  and/or  development  of  those  whom  my  muse(s)  are  affiliated  with,  in  vice  versa.  you  may  choose  to  be  affiliated  with  one  muse,  several  muses,  or  all  of  them!  if  this  sounds  like  something  you'd  want  to  discuss  further,  drop  a  like!  i  will  reach  out  to  you  as  soon  as  i  am  able. 

  i  am  currently  looking  to  fill  spots  for  5-10  affiliates. all  that  i  ask  is  that  we  have  discussed  our  muses  in  some  capacity  previously.  we  do  not  have  to  have  written  extensively  in  order  for  me  to  consider  becoming  affiliates.

this  is  not  an  exclusives  call.  if  a  mun  of  a  muse  you  also  write  has  already  liked  the  post  or  been  added  as  an  affiliate,  you  are  still  more  than  welcome  to  join  up!  at  this  time,  i  am  not  looking  for  exclusives.

#✎ ੈ˳ THE TADPOLE THAT ATE MY BRAIN — affiliates call. #any questions please feel free to reach out!!!

[altruistic-meme]

if you could... describe aftg in 5 words

oh this is not as easy a question to answer as it should be akfhsdkf bc like. i could describe its plot, or my thoughts on it as a fan, or how it makes me feel, or just make a joke, or or or and bc idk why you're asking it makes it harder :'))

but let's see...

plot: gay sports mafia found family.

fan: drama, familiarity, trauma, comedy, home

feelings: love, understanding, chaos, joy, comfort

joke: you know, i get it-

(as you can see, i couldn't pick which one to go with, so choose whichever 5 words you want lmao)

#anyway the hard part is cus like. if you're already a fan then you KNOW it's plot #and i would go with either feelings or joke probably #if you aren't a fan you won't understand joke and maybe want the plot to see if you'd want to read it #in which case getting my feelings or thoughts on it could also help you decide #especially bc 'gay sports mafia' is something it has been described as OFTEN #and thus you wouldn't necessarily need ME to tell you that #anywya #i spent WAY TOO MUCH TIME thinking about this so ya know. i do hope you see this kshdfhsd #i know how it can be sending anon asks #especially if you don't follow the person you sent it to like MAN rememebring to check in and then scrolling the blog to find it???? #so sorry i never shut up here #anyway if you ARE someone who hasn't read it yet and are interested; please feel free to reach out to me with any questions!!! #aftg contains a lot of potentially triggering material so it's good to have some understanding of what you're walking into! #(i did not but thankfully i'm not easily triggered by most things lmao but it still is nice to have that warning) #aftg #askers #anon #shh ac #also if you HAVE read it please appreciate my joke. i think im very funny.

[silverraes]

the discord is here!

a couple of days ago I made a half-joking post asking who wants to be my dumb little thai bl friend circle and after getting a lot of reactions to that, some people seemed interested in joining a discord server where we can all scream together. If you're one of those people (or if you just happen to stumble upon this and are interested): here it is!

there's not much going on in there yet but I'm hoping to make it a bit prettier once I see what people are usually talking about :)

#alright throwing this out into the void and hoping it doesn't flop lol #moots feel free to come scream with me #once again tagging the same shows as on the first post to reach target audience #the sign #the sign the series #pit babe the series #bake me please #my dear gangster oppa #last twilight #twins the series #thai bl