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dee2x · 2 years
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✨Parenting with Spirit Guides✨ What does it actually mean when I say doing this parenting thing with my spirit guides? 😊 It’s like having someone by your side (who’s always on your side), ready to point out to you - to help you figure out that problem you’ve been facing in your day. They point out little things, and some big things. It brings you back to your awareness of yourself, and your surroundings. Telling you how and what to focus your attention on to find your answer. I need help with my children, teaching them how to stop playing with their iPad. I find myself yelling in frustration, and then I’m reminded to understand them, and guided to say the words that will encourage them to stop on their own. We teach them the how, the why. And then we leave it to them to consider it themselves. This is what it’s like having our spirit guides with us. ❤️ If you have questions, I can channel them answers. The last round was so empowering, it felt so good to find answers and help the parents to see their children and themselves better. 👏👏👏 The last free session is on Thursday 3 Nov, 11am AEST. It will be recorded and replay up for a limited time. Private sessions are also available if there are questions that you want answered in a personal space. Please ask to discuss. Please DM me or comment “Yes please” for an invitation. ❤️ #raisingconfidentkids #raisingconfidentchildren #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #intuitiveparenting #respecfulparenting #parenting #parentingkids #confidenceinkids #parentingguide #selfloveinkids #parentingwithspiritguides (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CkRzbFdp6nl/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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To say world events have been challenging the last few years is an understatement. Sometimes we may feel overwhelmed by current events, while at the same time feeling like we have to do something. It is okay to take time to work through your feelings and then determine what course of action, if any, would be right for you. ✨ #thursdaythought #mentalhealthishealth #mentalhealthawarenessmonth #parentingtips #parentingteens #parentingkids #strongemotions #copingskills #copingstrategies #wellnesstips #livingbrighter #cindytgrahamphd #brighterhopewc #brighteryoupodcast #brighteryoupod (at Brighter Hope Wellness Center) https://www.instagram.com/p/CeBdTTbOau-/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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responsiveparenting · 2 years
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Things I say to be a safe place for all emotions “You can always come to me with your big emotions. I am strong enough to stand with you. I can help you hold your pain.” “You can always tell me what you are feeling and thinking. Even if those things are scary. You won’t scare me. But I might be able to help you feel less scared.” “No matter what you say or do, I will always love you. My love does not change, it only grows.” J. Milburn @responsive_parenting These are phrases I use with my 8 year old. They are more appropriate for 6 and up. With smaller children, simpler phrases may be more effective, such as …. “I’m here.” “I know.” “Go ahead and have a good cry.” Finding it hard to hold space, breathe slowly and empathize while you are feeling dysregulated yourself? You are not alone ❤️ Around here, we accept these moments as a typical part of the responsive parenting journey. Instead of simply trying to avoid those moments, we plan for them. Get a FREE 10 minute Visual Breathing Aid video to help guide your breathing when you purchase the Guide to Survival Mode Plans. Go to the link in my bio or comment SEND below and I’ll send you a link @responsive_parenting Child’s version of Visual Breathing Aids also available 😊 #responsiveparenting #jmilburn #emotionalintelligence #holdingspace #healingjourney #validatefeelings #allthefeelsareok #parentingsupport #parentingkidswithtrauma #parentingkids #beasafeplace https://www.instagram.com/p/CWMHTgJL4DZ/?utm_medium=tumblr
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ruudy-justmymom · 4 years
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Parenting The Irrational Vocation (Vidnami TRIAL VERSION)
Parenting - The Irrational Vocation The advent of cloning, surrogate motherhood, and the donation of gametes and sperm have shaken the traditional biological definition of parenthood to its foundations. The social roles of parents have similarly been recast by the decline of the nuclear family and the surge of alternative household formats.
Why do people become parents in the first place?
Raising children comprises equal measures of satisfaction and frustration. Parents often employ a psychological defense mechanism - known as "cognitive dissonance" - to suppress the negative aspects of parenting and to deny the unpalatable fact that raising children is time consuming, exhausting, and strains otherwise pleasurable and tranquil relationships to their limits.
Not to mention the fact that the gestational mother experiences “considerable discomfort, effort, and risk in the course of pregnancy and childbirth” (Narayan, U., and J.J. Bartkowiak (1999) Having and Raising Children: Unconventional Families, Hard Choices, and the Social Good University Park, PA: The Pennsylvania State University Press, Quoted in the Stanford Encyclopedia of Philosophy). my own web: https://www.justmymom.com/
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solidparent · 4 years
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6 Important Steps for Accountable Parenting
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What does it mean to be accountable? 
As a person, we are expected to justify our actions and decisions.  Not only do you need to hold your children accountable but you also need to keep yourself in check. Accountable parenting means your decisions need to be explainable. You need to be able to justify your actions and your decisions and so do your kids. You also need to be in control of your decisions.
Clearly define roles and expectations
When you or your children are unclear of your roles and what is expected, your life will suffer. Make sure you clarify all expectations of your home. Some good things to think about to help clarify your own thoughts are below: Do you understand what is expected of you as a parent?What do you have for expectations of yourself?Does your family understand your role as a parent? Have I made my relationship clear with my family ? Does everyone have a clear understanding of their own roles and expectations?
Hold yourself accountable
Our children learn from what they see. Owning up to your own mistakes can be the most effective way to show your children how to hold themselves accountable. Set the standard for which you want them to live by. When you model accountability rather than making excuses you teach that behavior to your family. By recognizing you may have hurt your child in some way and saying "I'm sorry I hurt you," the child will immediately feel better. You were able to recognize them and show them the situation is about them and not you. By not making an excuse you are able to maintain a trusting relationship and also reinforce accountability as a value in the family. A simple and honest apology for a mistake allows your kids to see you are holding yourself accountable, in turn allowing them to do the same. Owning a mistake actually communicates strength to your child. It gives them a feeling of security in knowing you make mistakes too, and that it is okay to do so.
Be consistent in your parenting
Consistency helps to develop routines. It sets standards and expectations and clearly lets people know what they can expect. Children love when their parents are consistent. In discipline, in expectations, in bed times, in screen times. Consistency sets the basics for everyday life. Limits and boundaries create a balance and helps to teach kids how they should behave.
Be an involved parent
There is a fine line in involving yourself in your child's life. It is natural for us as parents to want to protect our kids but try to keep in mind, mistakes are a necessary part of development. Kids learn so much by making mistakes and by living through the consequences. An over involved parent can really harm a child's growth, especially as they start to hit those teenage years. I remember so clearly when I was in college, I could pick out the kids who's parents never let them make decisions. They were on their own for the first time and they were wild. It was hard to watch, the over drinking, over eating, over sleeping, and truly just over indulging because no one was there telling them not to.
Find your parenting balance
In my mind, you want to avoid being the "helicopter parent", it is an extreme that does not seem to work well in the long run. The type of parent who just hovers over their child, not really allowing them to grow and mature. Kids who have helicopter parents tend to get the message that they can't make decisions for themselves, so someone else has to do it for them. The other extreme is being under-involved. These kids actually seem to be pretty good at decision making and being independent, because they learned it from their own survival skills. They are forced to learn the necessary skills through trial and error and are rarely given any guidance, support or encouragement. It is best to find a balance, while living your own life as a parent and allowing your child to live their life. As your kids reach the age of maturity, those teenage years, they will have a built in confidence, allowing them to make decisions. Of course they will still need clear boundaries and a real understanding of potential dangers and regular check in's with their family. But, outside of that, give them a chance to learn, grow, make good choices and also to make mistakes. Celebrate the positives and deal with the negatives.
Recognize the positives
Get yourself in the good practice of finding the positive things your children do and make sure you highlight those good things. Accountability is not always about punishments, doom and gloom. Be sure to compliment the good stuff. Notice when your child is kind to another, when they return something that is not theirs, when they help with chores without being reminded or asked. As a child, it can be nice to have positive reinforcement. Attention is always appreciated so why not find the ways to have positive attention!
Accountable Parenting Recap
Clearly define roles and expectationsHold yourself accountable Be consistent in your parentingBe an involved parentFind your parenting balanceRecognize the positives We would love to hear your thoughts about Accountable Parenting! Feel free to comment below and share on social media so your friends, family and followers can enjoy as well! Have you taken a moment to like our Facebook page? You may really enjoy reading our post about Teaching Children to Use Good Manners. Read the full article
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jalanninjaku · 7 years
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Assalamu'alaikum Sahabat! Bagaimana paginya? Yang puasa sunnah semangat ya!
Muamalah Untuk Anak - Mengenal Buruknya Harta Haram -
Penulis: Ust. M. Ibrahim Saleh, Lc
Hardcover 132 Hal Full Color Size 21x21cm Isi 5 cerita dalam 1 buku
Manusia adalah makhluk sosial yang tidak bisa lepas dari permasalahan muamalah, terutama muamalah maaliyah yang mengatur berbagai hal yang berkaitan dengan perindahan harta/manfaat dari satu orang ke orang yang lain.
Ayah dan Bunda. Pengajaran muamalah ini sangat penting lho dalam Islam. Bahkan ulama sepakat bawha muamalah itu sendiri adalah masalah kemanusiaan yang MAHA PENTING.
Dalam bidang muamalah maaliyah, seorang muslim wajib memahami bagaimana bermuamalah sebagai bentuk kepatuhan kepada syari'at Allah. Jika tidak memahami ini, maka ia akan terperosok kedalam sesuatu yang haram atau syuhbat, tanpa dia sadari. Gak mau kan, putra dan putri Ayah/Bunda nantinya seperti itu?
InsyaAllah di buku ini "Muamalah Anak". Zaid dan teman-temannya melalui cerita keseharian mereka, akan mengantarkan hikmah yang akan memperkaya pemahaman anak mengenai muamalah.
Yuk, ajarkan anak mualah sejak dini!
Info pemesanan: 0813-6310-3552 (no call) BBM: 52655720 IG: @sahabathelwa
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sahabathelwa-blog · 7 years
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Assalamu'alaikum Ayah dan Bunda! Buku Muamalah Untuk Anak! Penulis: Ust. M. Ibrahim Saleh, Lc Hardcover 132 Hal Full Color Size 21x21cm Isi 5 cerita dalam 1 buku Manusia adalah makhluk sosial yang tidak bisa lepas dari permasalahan muamalah, terutama muamalah maaliyah yang mengatur berbagai hal yang berkaitan dengan perindahan harta/manfaat dari satu orang ke orang yang lain. Ayah dan Bunda. Pengajaran muamalah ini sangat penting lho dalam Islam. Bahkan ulama sepakat bawha muamalah itu sendiri adalah masalah kemanusiaan yang MAHA PENTING. Dalam bidang muamalah maaliyah, seorang muslim wajib memahami bagaimana bermuamalah sebagai bentuk kepatuhan kepada syari'at Allah. Jika tidak memahami ini, maka ia akan terperosok kedalam sesuatu yang haram atau syuhbat, tanpa dia sadari. Gak mau kan, putra dan putri Ayah/Bunda nantinya seperti itu? InsyaAllah di buku ini "Muamalah Anak". Zaid dan teman-temannya melalui cerita keseharian mereka, akan mengantarkan hikmah yang akan memperkaya pemahaman anak mengenai muamalah. Yuk, ajarkan anak mualah sejak dini! Lihat sampel bukunya: Klik -> bit.ly/muamalahanak Info pemesanan: WA: 0813-6310-3552 (no call) BBM: 52655720 IG: @sahabathelwa FB: fb.me/sahabathelwa Telegram: https://t.me/sahabathelwa Gerai Helwa: Web: www.geraihelwa.com Shopee: https://shopee.co.id/geraihelwa [GRATIS ONGKIR] Tokopedia: https://www.tokopedia.com/geraihelwa Bukalapak: https://www.bukalapak.com/u/geraihelwa #bukuedukasi #bukuedukasianak #bukuanakmuslim #bukuanak #bukubestseller #bukuanakmuslim #ekonomisilam #muamalahmaliyah #bukuanakberwarna #bukumurah #parentingkids #muamalahanak #ilmu #bukuislam #bukucerita #muamalah #edukasidini #tarbiyah #pendidikan #pendidikananak #bukumuamalah #ceritaislam #bukuanakislam #bukuislami #bukubergambar #bukurekomendasi #jualbukuanakmuslim #zaid #sahabathelwa #helwa
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eaglekidz · 2 years
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DICARI, Call 0857-1911-1693, Sekolah Parenting Jakarta Bundar Lucy
Klik https://wa.me/085719111693, Sekolah Parenting Pada Orang Dewasa,Sekolah Parenting Pada Lansia,Sekolah Parenting Pada Laki-Laki,Sekolah Parenting Pada Usia Remaja,Sekolah Parenting Pada PerempuanBunda Lucy Trauma CenterPTB Duren Sawit Blok D3/1KlenderJakarta Timur(Dekat Sekolahan SDIT Arrahma)http://psikologindonesia.comhttps://g.page/r/CZUcygKgl_UzEAg/reviewhttps://g.page/r/CT98JtEHC7zUEAg/review#iparentinghelp #iparentingmediaawards #iparentingmediawinner #parentingjokes #parentingjogja #parentingjunkie #parentingjakarta #parentingkids #parentingkeluarga #kparentingseries
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agl-kidz · 2 years
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TERBAIK, Call 0895-3600-47385, Sekolah Orang Tua Parenting Bunda Lucy.
Klik https://wa.me/62895360047385, Belajar Positive Parenting, Belajar Parenting, Belajar Parenting Anak, Belajar Parenting Anak Usia Dini, Kelas Belajar Parenting Bunda Lucy Trauma Center PTB Duren Sawit Blok D3/1 Klender Jakarta Timur (Dekat Sekolahan SDIT Ar-rahma) http://psikologindonesia.com https://g.page/r/CZUcygKgl_UzEAg/review https://g.page/r/CT98JtEHC7zUEAg/review #parentingforreal #parentingfunny #fparenting #fparentingtips #iparentingclass #parentingjakarta #parentingkids #parentingkeluarga #kparentingseries #kparentingstyle
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egle-kd · 2 years
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DICARI, Call 0878-7604-0136, Sekolah Parenting Jakarta Bunda Lucy
Klik https://wa.me/087876040136, Sekolah Parenting Pada Orang Dewasa,Sekolah Parenting Pada Lansia,Sekolah Parenting Pada Laki-Laki,Sekolah Parenting Pada Usia Remaja,Sekolah Parenting Pada Perempuan
Bunda Lucy Trauma Center
PTB Duren Sawit Blok D3/1
Klender
Jakarta Timur
(Dekat Sekolahan SDIT Arrahma)
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dee2x · 2 years
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✨Parenting with Spirit Guides II✨ best thing about pickup is hearing their stories about the day, seeing and listening to what they’ve made. I ask what inspired them, what they were thinking and how it makes me feel - happy or cheerful. rarely do I say how proud I am. (I am super proud by the way!) ✨ why I don’t say I’m proud - I want to encourage them to create, explore and play for themselves, that does not involve my opinion. We want them to do because they’re interested or curious about it. this then translates into an adult who creates and decides based on their own thoughts and opinions. not someone who seeks approval to feel that it’s a success. This is one of the many reasons why I parent with my Spirit Guides. So that I know better. And I can do better. This is a message from my Spirit Guides: “We understand that you may think that guiding your children to find their purpose in life is simple. It isn’t easy, but if you throw it all at them - a chance to study well, learn all that they can, ballet, play the piano and martial arts. All of these will set them up on a path for success. But in actual fact, it is the little things that will set them up. How they react in the face of disappointment, how do they attempt to fit into a new environment and find their own space. How will they decide on a new adventure, what new experiences should they choose. What shall they learn? All of these are very important life skills that a child should learn to grow in them. As these are the life skills that will guide them through life. What you do when you face challenges determines who you are. And you would want the same for your children. This is why you learn to do better. To guide them well. This is why you are here. We are complete.” I’m having one more free session on Thursday, 3 Nov 2022 11am AWST. If you find the answers to be useful, I’d appreciate a testimonial. It will be replayed for the week. Please DM me for an invitation. 😊 #raisingconfidentkids #gentleparenting #consciousparenting #intuitiveparenting #respecfulparenting #parenting #parentingkids #confidenceinkids #parentingguide #parentingwithspiritguides (at Melbourne, Victoria, Australia) https://www.instagram.com/p/CkNtAFDpD4o/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=
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momtipsco · 4 years
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Four Types of Parenting Styles Impact on Child As parents we sometimes are unaware which sort of parenting styles we tend to apply when we deal with our kids. These four types of parenting styles may just be some sort of labels or distinction on how parents are grouped together when parenting. #co-parenting #fosterparenting #parentingadvise #parentinghacks #parentingkids #parentingquotes #parentingstyle #parentingteens #parentingtips #pregnancy
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responsiveparenting · 3 years
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Things I say to be a safe place for all emotions “You can always come to me with your big emotions. I am strong enough to stand with you. I can help you hold your pain.” “You can always tell me what you are feeling and thinking. Even if those things are scary. You won’t scare me. But I might be able to help you feel less scared.” “No matter what you say or do, I will always love you. My love does not change, it only grows.” J. Milburn @responsive_parenting These are phrases I use with my 8 year old. They are more appropriate for 6 and up. With smaller children, simpler phrases may be more effective, such as …. “I’m here.” “I know.” “Go ahead and have a good cry.” Finding it hard to hold space, breathe slowly and empathize while you are feeling dysregulated yourself? You are not alone ❤️ Around here, we accept these moments as a typical part of the responsive parenting journey. Instead of simply trying to avoid those moments, we plan for them. Get a FREE 10 minute Visual Breathing Aid MP4 to help guide your breathing when you purchase the Guide to Survival Mode Plans. Go to the link in my bio or comment SEND below and I’ll send you a link @responsive_parenting Child’s version of Visual Breathing Aids being released soon 😊 #responsiveparenting #jmilburn #emotionalintelligence #holdingspace #healingjourney #validatefeelings #allthefeelsareok #parentingsupport #parentingkidswithtrauma #parentingkids #beasafeplace https://www.instagram.com/p/CT4njwhLvz8/?utm_medium=tumblr
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airickaphoenix · 5 years
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Check out the link to find out more parenting advice and tips #Montessoriroom #grandparenting #Toddlerchores #parentingkids http://bit.ly/2YML4Il
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drujjwalpatni · 4 years
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यदि बच्चों को काबिल बनाना हो तो Parents एकांत में यह वीडियो देखें | 5 Biggest Problems
Are you worried about your child's temper tantrums? Has disciplining them been a big challenge for you? Well, let's accept that #parentingkids or raising good children isn't an easy task. Moreover, most of the disappointed parents are desperately looking for a golden ticket to the solution. So, here it is! The motivational speaker, Dr. Ujjwal Patni, chooses to talk about #parentingproblems and solutions to help you kick start a well-adjusted family in just 30 days. Their anger issues, secretive nature, jealous outbursts have become common parental complaints today. The times are changing rapidly.  So, age-old #parentingtechniques may not help you anymore to modify the undesirable behaviour of the contemporary generation. In this video, the #parentingcoach has picked up 5 common #parentingissues that disrupt modern-day family life. Watch till the end for the best #powerparenting plans advised by Dr. Patni for an improved #parents-childrenrelationship.
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troubledontlast1 · 5 years
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IF THE LORD IS WILLING, IF I EVER GET THE WONDERFUL PRIVILEGE OF RAISING KIDS, I VOW TO MYSELF AND GOD THEY WILL BE RECITING THIS. #repost @starburymarbury “Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it.”- Prov.22:6 #raisingkids #raisingkidsright “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord.”- Eph.6:4 #raisingboys #raisingboysright “Correction and discipline are good for children. If they have their own way, they will make their mothers ashamed of them.”- Prov.29:15 #raisingboystomen #raisinggirls “Discipline your son, and he will give you rest; he will bring delight to your soul.”- Prov.29:17 #raisingstronggirls #raisinggirlsright It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men. #kids #children Don’t raise your kids to have more than you had, raise them to be more than you were. #boys #girls CHILDREN ARE NOT A DISTRACTION FROM MORE IMPORTANT WORK. THEY ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT WORK. #trainupachild #train You cannot control what your children are expose to. You can only influence the way they perceive it. #sparetherod #badkids Children are like wet cement. Whatever falls on them makes an impression. Thank #sparetherodspoilthechild #discipline Discipline is the foundation upon which all success is built. Lack of discipline inevitably leads to failure. #disciplineyourkids #trainachild Your kids require you most of all to love them for who they are, not to spend your whole time trying to correct them. #trainachildup #trainachildupright BEING A PARENT MEANS LOVING YOUR CHILDREN MORE THAN YOU’VE EVER LOVED YOURSELF. #badchildren #parents It is not what you do for your children, but what you have taught them to do for themselves that will make them successful human beings. #parenting #beingaparent These kids who never have any accountability for their actions will continue through life thinking nothing is their fault, and everything is owed to them. #parentingkids #parentingchildren BEHIND EVERY YOUNG CHILD WHO BELIEVES IN HIMSELF IS A PARENT WHO BELIEVED FIRST. #goodparent (at One C1TY) https://www.instagram.com/p/BuVulZ7Ff0V/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1wes45ab8db07
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