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a-student-out-of-time · 3 years

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Erm Sun? Can you really, really regulate our asks until the jamming field goes down? Hajime's getting head pains and we are getting worried that his brain being used as a relay point by us is starting to have side effects. Basically if there are asks that repeat and say similar things, narrow it down so he doesn't get overwelmbed. This goes to Priestess as well.

Is it...hmm...

That’s unusual. I was sure this wouldn’t affect him too much.

Compressing all those voices in his head?

We didn’t have time for long term testing, but even a few days of this seemed negligible.

Although...maybe it’s also due to the concentration of so many time travelers into one small area? Or maybe something the rouge one’s causing.

Speaking of which, any word on what’s happening with them?

Let’s see...position at-

Oh, crap! They’re moving closer.

What!? How fast?!

Too fast...

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asking-jude · 5 years

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I’m 17yrs old and until recently i never thought or considered whether i’d had romantic feelings for people beyond the fact i used to entertain the idea of “what if they like me” and could imagine wanting to see how it went w/ one friend vs how every other friend i put in that scenario was a “definitely not im sorry” until my friend and i begun talking less and they started dating someone. (part 1 of bc many i'm very wordy, haha.)

(ask continued) …After kind of mourning the friendship and the “missed chance to be in a romantic relationship” that i wasn’t even really aware i’d wanted. I met a new friend ago during the ‘mourning’ and like last time never thought anything abt whether i liked them until more recently this year. It starts off with realizing out of all my friends i’d want to see where a romantic relationship could go, although i’m not sure if i even feel for them romantically

So then i’ll start trying to scrutinize my feelings to tell whether it’s romantic or not and that part begins to eat up my mind almost every hour of the day. If i start to narrow it down i hit the second part of over-thinking it of “i’m thinking about it so much i’m making it all up in the beginning, i’m just stressed over losing my friend so much i’m interpreting it as romantic” which resets the cycle as though i’d never even begun trying to figure it out.

The muddled feelings could be romantic, and whenever i start to narrow it down it seems at least slightly romantic or at the very least stronger friendship but only half the time i believe they could even really exist. However, i keep returning to thinking about it because the fact still stands there /are/ muddled feelings there of some sort that i would like to figure out bc its not just the “i could see myself maybe dating them”. there’s more to it than that that begins the cycle.

I don’t know where to begin with stopping the cycle. at this point it feels like i can’t figure it out or stop it by myself and i should just ask someone what they think, but that seems kind of ridiculous considering they’re my own emotions and feelings. I don’t know how to even begin a conversation about this, though, or what to say considering how much the muddled feelings change and the fact sometimes i overthink them too much to the point i doubt their existence.

Hey. This seems like a relatively unique experience and it must be overwelmbing to feel stuck in this sycle of thought and emotion. I suggest before reading my entire response, you might benefit from reading your ask again from the imagined point of view of someone who is looking to help the person who said what you said. Since this seems like such a unique scenario, I think that I might not understand what it is that you are going through exactly. However, no one understands you as well as you do. So, if you read this over, while trying to hold onto a more objective third-party perspective, you might be able to figure this all out and what you should do.

Another option to help you sort all of this out would be going to therapy. Therapists are skilled, trained, and caring individuals that you can hire to help you figure all of this out in ways that you can’t even predict. They are like perceptive mercenaries that you can hire to help you find and defeat the enemies within your mind. I strongly suggest going to therapy that is covered by your insurance, especially if you are questioning the existence of things.

Another option you have is to try to sort and organize these thoughts and feelings more. I suggest getting comfortable, closing your eyes, and focusing on your breathing for a few minutes. After spending some time to calm down so you are not overwhelmed by the mass of thoughts and feelings accompanied by the issues you are facing, I think you can start focusing on the problems. Any definite thoughts or feelings you have about it could be written down as well as possible options, worries, and outcomes that might occur. After taking notes on the issue for some time, you can analyze them and perhaps figure out a solution, better understand your problem, or notice connections that are hard to see when the thoughts and feelings are all mixed together in your head.

When it comes to romantic and friendly relationships, there are no clear black and white definitions that you should be searching for. Every interaction and connection with another being is unique to that individual connection. I would suggest trying not to pressure yourself into finding a romantic relationship or have a certain type of connection with someone. These things will come and go naturally and I am sure you will find the perfect people to connect to in your life if you just try to be more patient and let them come. Try going to clubs or gatherings of people that are into the same things as you. I met a ton of friends at music concerts and I met my loved on at school in the same program as me. I hope you figure this all out soon.

Good luck,

Tyler Kennedy

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