A Complete Guide for organizing your life!
People who are truly organized are not born organized; they have to cultivate healthy habits that will help them stay organized.
Even if you consider yourself to be a disorganized person, you can learn to be organized. With a little bit of practice and learning, you’ll become an organized person, from planning to jotting down.
Organizing your life is the key to success in all aspects of your life. Staying organized allows you to easily stay on top of things and avoid stress. Organizing your life is a skill that requires practice over time.
Make baby steps while learning how to get your life organized to avoid being overwhelmed and giving up too soon.
Organizing is challenging because you must have to fully involved in the process.
You can be very thoughtful with your time, tasks, and to-do’s, but what if your house is full of mess or your email inbox can’t fit one more email… Believe me, it all feels chaotic.
Worst of all, feeling and being disorganized can keep you stuck in life.
That’s why, in this article, I’m not focusing on a single aspect of your life that you can organize; instead, I’m giving you simple tips for managing your time, home, finances, and life as a whole, which will help you feel more centered and less stuck.
If you’re wondering, “How do I become an organized person?” or “How do I organize my life?” then take this golden advice from a former disorganized person, and believe me when I say ANYONE can implement these tricks.
Let’s dig into it! And see what works for you.
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I want Laura in love maaaaaannn I don’t care what she’s done, what would see really be like in love?like her actions, words, will sex be something nice for her instead of just corrupting some nun?like she actually enjoys the act with someone she cares for?
Laura's highly traumatized and unstable, so her view on that topic is very unhealthy. She views sex as a power play, something to satiate boredom, but being in love? That's not something she's used to. Her mind is all over the place, she's confused. Childish even.
She believes love is something that's unattainable for something like her. She doesn't need it, she doesn't deserve it. She's fucked up beyond repair and doesn't get to demand that luxury.
I mean, yes she's pining from afar, but how can she expect the subject of her affection to like her back? Impossible. She waits for them to harm her to regain that unhealthy sense of familiarity, and when it doesn't happen she gets scared and unnerved.
As to how she would act in love, it'd pretty much be how she acts with Integra.
She becomes more meek, quiet, she's fascinated and serviable. Like how wolves show submissive body language to indicate they like you.
But there's also an underlying defensive hatred because, well something must be wrong with this person to make her feel like this.
She wants to "corrupt" them, because it's familiar, because she views reciprocity of her feelings as the person debasing themselves.
Her love language is acts of service. Most of the time those services include bringing you the head of your enemies and ending anyone who made you uncomfortable because how dare they, or offering her body to entertain you for however long. I mean people are happy when they get laid right? The satisfaction feels nice, she wants her favored person to feel nice.
She sees them as a savior or a saint, puts them on a pedestal and shows her throat in submission.
She pines from afar and denies anything about it to the person but doesn't care to hide it to anyone else. She tries to scoot closer and invade their space when they're not looking or finds any excuse to be closer to them in whatever way, cleaning their room, being physically close when she can (outside of sex of course, she doesn't understand why but it feels nice to be close to someone even when they're not using your body). She denies it all in front of the person but openly says it to anyone else.
It's obsession, devotion, willful submission and fascination because control is a privilege and she's giving it to the person, jealousy of everything but not saying anything because she doesn't get to demand anything, so she gives them her everything and hope they're satisfied. She doesn't want them to leave like how she left her previous partners. The fact that Integra can't exactly leave her without killing her (which is a whole other can of worms) reassures her a bit as well.
Also, actual intimacy is something foreign to her so throw in a hefty amount of cannibalism metaphors.
Maybe it's all an idea of taming oneself out of love. It's bittersweet.
All in all, this is the quote that probably sums it up the best.
Also, I am currently writing a smut fic of Laura x Integra from Laura's pov exploring their relationship and the intimacy they share.
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Fic Summary: A movie night, a DnD campaign, a Halloween party, an unhappy compromise, a rejection, and a letter. Mike and Will spend senior year trying to navigate the past, the future, and a growing tension between them that threatens to upend their friendship.
(A post-ST2 AU)
Ch.2 Snippet:
Mike breathes out, and Will starts to get up as he says, “Hey, let me drive you.”
“No, it’s okay,” Will insists.
“It’s raining like crazy out there,” Mike says.
“I don’t…” Will trails off, he doesn’t know how to get out of this situation, “It’s fine, Mike.”
“Seriously, just- please?”
Will stares at the floor, shaking his head, “Don’t you have to go home?”
“No,” Mike says, “Dinner’s not 'til seven.”
“Oh,” Will says, and then he realizes he’s not gonna be able to avoid being alone with him any longer, so he looks over at Mike, who has his hand gripped tightly around the strap of his ratty old backpack as he stands there with his jaw clenched, looking all for the world like he just offered to defuse a bomb, and he nods, “Okay.”
“Okay,” Mike says, like he’s bracing himself, “Okay."
New chapter is out! This time we get Will's POV!
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You know one thing I'm tired of is I'm really fucking tired of terminally online leftists/communists "ironically" flirting with calling far-right/fascist pundits and policies "based" "tankiepilled" or whatever other dumbfuck terminally online babyspeak they use. People calling T*cker Carlson a "comrade" every time he airs a segment with some weak right-wing populist class war shit. Calling themselves "Marjorie Taylor Greene-pilled" because of her opinions on Biden's foreign policy. Lol lol lol it's so funny and ironic guys right?? Right??? Fuck off
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Sorry if you’ve already answered something like this! how does Warrior Bites work into the initial journey in TNP? I don’t recall how long the journey to the sun drown place took, but I feel like with how cooked food is preferable due to diseases and parasites, did Bramble and co have to get dewormed when returning to the clans? Or perhaps the Tribe could help them with that on their way back, as a thanks for how they help drive out Sharptooth?
I feel like it’d be difficult to sneak out with extra rations with how the Clans were struggling, plus it’d be difficult to carry all the tools required to cook every time they set up camp. It’d be easier for them to eat their prey raw, at least during certain parts of the journey.
Would also be an interesting opportunity to introduce the cast to different foods, too! Rogue groups in twolegplace using vegetables from gardens for flavor, for example. I couldn’t find if there’s salt beds in English mountains, but if there is the Tribe would have way easier access to it than the Clans do. I bet they’d have wildly different cuisine as a result.
Sorry for the long winded ask but your ideas tickle my autistic brain just right fjahfhsh
The Tribe mountain MUST have salt under it, right? The Appalachians and the Caledonians are the same mountain range split up by tectonic shift and I know there's salt in the Appalachians because it's, like, pre-life-on-earth old right? Hangon
*le googel*
YEP there's a lot of salt in Cheshire, one of the counties I use as a model. Which I could have just learned by googling "uk salt mine." However, my brain is a rube goldberg machine.
The Sundrown Patrol DEFINITELY needed a deep cleaning! They would be full of fleas, probably be carrying a couple of bad knots or a couple of mats, and one or two of them definitely caught worms. Probably Squirrelpaw tbh, knowing her impatient little butt (affectionate).
The Tribe wouldn't do a deep deworming though, because that takes time and the Clan cats would want to get home as quickly as possible. They just stayed for the quick celebration to gather some rations and planned to leave... but then the appearance of Sharptooth changed their plans.
(btw if you wanna see how the Sundrown Patrol's Journey to the Lake goes in Bonefall TNP, I made a map and a synopsis!)
Setting up a basic cooking fire wouldn't be TOO hard though! You just keep a couple of sticks to use as spits and roast your prey over the open fire, like either a roast or a marshmallow. Beats dealing with tapeworms for the whole trip.
Funny enough I actually think it's Crowfoot/feather who's the main cook of the little patrol, I keep feeling like Mudclaw was a pretty good chef. He would have passed that onto Crow.
Tawnypelt: "It's almost sunrise, Crowfoot is late... if he doesn't come soon we'll have to go without him."
Crowfoot: "Hold your hedgehogs I'm here. I was making tunnelbuns for the trip."
Squirrelpaw: "Where- what-- how did you do that so fast??"
Crowfoot: "youre weeeeeeeeelcome."
Stormfur: "Hang on, you didn't steal from your own Clan in famine, did you?"
Crowfoot: "??? I mashed my personal larvae stash to make into travel rations and this is the thanks I get??? you think my clanmates were gonna keep my mealworms alive while I was gone?? Mousebrain!"
Brambleclaw: "Yuck, who wants to eat mashed bugs?"
Squirrelpaw hiding how appetizing it sounds because her buddy Sorreltail opened her eyes to how good grasshoppers can taste.
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