#message me and tell me about yourself :)

[honeypleasejustkillme]

i’m so ready to just be loved man

#actually bpd #bpd problems #bpd vent #actually borderline #actually mentally ill #bpd fp #bpd #bpd shitposting #bpd favorite person #bpd mood #i am taking partner applications in my messages #message me and tell me about yourself :) #i seriously am not joking i want someone to love

[spooky-something]

These playlists are gonna make me cry, I can't, they're so bad...

Don't you dare try to gaslight me, Victor would NOT listen to Will Wood, leave him out out this...

Like, for actual characterization, this one had it, a lot of these songs are actually on our own Frankenstein playlist...

Heavy on HAD...

#Spotify playlists are SO SO BAD #god awful #dude if we're gonna drag will wood into fucking gothic/classic literature it's only acceptable with Jekyll and Hyde #Only time I'll let it slide besides maybe two or three of his songs that actually work with Frankenstein (Main Character and Memento Mori) #They had MSI on one of the playlists too #so bad... #Also #Tbh Necromancin' Dancin' isn't really Frankenstein either unless we're thinking of just beginning Victor #and even then making evil and the message of the song seems a bit different from Victor #more movie Victor core #The Imagine Dragons took me out though #next you're gonna tell me Weezer is on there /hj #if you want anything done right do it yourself #frankenstein #victor frankenstein #gothic lit #classic literature #gothic literature #classic lit #mary shelley #the modern prometheus #I have a deep hatred against these playlists because they're so inaccurate #please dude if you're gonna do a playlist and insist your headcanons at least make sure they make SOME SENSE #I can't #the autism is gonna win today #Can you tell I'm very passionate about this because Frankenstein is my Spin??? /hj

[stormblessed95]

"One of our greatest freedoms in life is how we react to things"

- Charlie Mackesy

Honestly, just something that I think a lot of people in fandom should keep in mind when your first thought to how someone else experiences fandom is anger. It might be time to step back, or at least curate your fandom experience more so that it's what YOU want. Life is easier and happier that way

#all the messages i get of complaints about tkkrs or ymrs or shippers in general #or just the antis in my inbox #its all just so much #this cant bring you people joy #i know it doesnt because you TELL me it doesnt #fandom should be something that brings you happiness and serotonin #dont get so wrapped up in the drama that you forget that one of the greatest things you can do for yourself #is decide how you want to engage and react to things #jikook #kookmin #fandom discourse #quotes #the boy the mole the fox and the horse

[crescentfool]

guys. isn't being alive so cool. there are. so many swag people in my life. some of them don't even know i exist but i know that they exist and they're doing cool shit and i look at them with fondness that's enough for me.

the people who do know that i exist are also wonderful and i cherish them so much beyond human comprehension its unreal to me that in another lifetime i wouldn't know such splendid souls but they are here with me now and i think that's all that matters.

and there's so many cool little creatures and animals and plants and whatnot and even if i don't know shit about them i think its so cool that somewhere out there these things spark whimsy and joy and breathe life into people that their brain is like a cozy little library of encyclopedia knowledge.

the way in which life can take us on so many fun journeys and paths even if it may not look like anything to us in the moment i think it's so fucking neat to be able to walk this path and that even in hardship there will be good for us eventually and stories to tell for getting through these things.

guys i love being alive im so happy i love life and i'm so glad that i can feel a depth of emotions because it means i can be grateful for so many cool things like this.

i hope you all have something to love in life too you are so epic and swag for reading this and i think you will absolutely be able to skyrocket out of the universe to do the thing you want to do. keep on keeping on fellow humans!!!

#lizzy speaks #i needed to get this out somewhere #today on lizz exists i am feeding my brain nutrients #i have been neglecting to give my brain positive messaging so i put myself in a rut on an accident :c #i hope everyone can be compassionate to themselves! you are so cool. tell yourself nice things u deserve it #there is so much joy in being niceys not only to others but to urself #i think being alive is so beautiful sometimes i feel so strongly about things it makes me want to cry from how wonderful life is #do i need to post this? no. but i want to. this is a moment of lizz brain to be preserved methinks #and it makes me very happy when other people can enjoy being alive. i sincerely hope the people around me and the ones that i may not be- #able to see in this instant can be happy too. happies for everyone!!!

[awakefor48hours]

“All the fights in Steven Universe were so boring. They all end with talk no justu.” Tell me you didn’t understand Steven Universe, without telling me you didn’t understand Steven Universe

#Steven universe #nothing made me angrier in the SU fandom than when people brought up talk no jutsu #I hated it because that’s not the point the show is trying to make #SU was about family #not a fascist government #(take one moment to ask yourself why the main planet in the show is called HOMEworld) #which is why talking was important #by fighting it defeats the message of the show #and tells kids from 7-12 that violence is the answer to intolerance

[enluv]

not sure if you are interested but @/cherry1sblog is being really weird about niki and writing smut for him, they said they’d “wait a while” before writing niki smut that’s so weird to me I blocked them but just wanted to tell you 😕

hi nonnie i took a look at their account and have some stuff to say about their standpoints…

at first they got this ask asking if they’d write smut for niki and they said no/they would write something soft for him so I was confused but then I kept reading and honestly it made me kinda side eye because ???

there’s this ask they answered talking about how no one cares about people writing smut for other maknae line members but it’s literally far from the truth? because if you actually were on tumblr when both sunoo and jungwon turned 18 then you’d know there was a LOT of backlash for people who wrote/write smut for them both literally to this day people talk about how insane it was to be on tumblr at that time…so idk what they’re talking about when you say people don’t care about the other members because you’re absolutely wrong

edit: just saw they have a nsfw audio posted for jungwon…very interesting considering what they said above.

this ask also rubbed me wrong because yes it’s all fiction but that doesn’t mean people aren’t still openly sexualizing niki ??? this is a REAL person that you’re reading fanfiction about, no matter how you look at it writing smut for him as soon as he turns 18 is weird because he quite literally just turned “legal” this just tells me people are WAITING for him to turn legal so they can OPENLY sexualize him without consequences. that’s really freaking odd.

finally this is the ask I think the anon is referring to, saying “I’m going to wait a while” is actually so odd because it implies you know it’s bad to write for him immediately and have decided to wait so that you don’t get backlash, and you say “if I were to write about him” but you’re defending it like your life depends on it which makes me think you definitely plan to write smut/suggestive content for him and if you don’t then fine but defending it is very weird. secondly, no one is saying they don’t like a writers work, they’re upset because people are so fucking eager to sexualize a FRESHLY turned 18 year old, if you are sitting and waiting for him to turn legal age that’s predatory as fuck, it’s also wrong because he isn’t even legal he’s still considered a minor in korea where he lives and works by the way.

#I’m not trying to attack this person and I’m not telling anyone to attack them at all #don’t do that #but if this is your mindset on this you need to seriously reevaluate yourself and your mindset #also do not interact with me if you are defending this #it’s very weird and very insane #💬.direct message?! #nonnie my beloved <3 #ALSO do not send them hate that is not how you should be going about this

[skeletoninthemelonland]

#i think i first listened to this song around the time Behind The Codes became an official project #My brain probably associated the feelings of excitement and fear with the song so ig that's why I love it so much #On one side. I love working on the Behind The Codes #there's an overwhelming amount of ways to tell this story: brainstorming. designing. animating. writing and rewriting until your brain- #starts to fry and get foggy with so many ideas. its both good and stressful to push your limits like this #On another side. I'm constantly anxious about it #I've always been afraid to admit the things I enjoy as well as the things that i create #You don't allow yourself to create and embrace new things even when you're essentially alone #and yes I'm aware of the fact that there will be people who won't enjoy the series- which isn't what bothers me #What bothers me is that I might regret certain decisions #'This is not the message I wanted to convey' #'This is not the story I wanted to tell' #The decision to share this song here is the clearest example of what I mean: #Part of me says: this song is so btc oh my god please put it at the end credits wait THERE IS A 2ND PART OF IT AND IT'S EVEN COOLER OOOAAAA #then there's the main thought: this song is so stupid. it's so corny in a way it makes me uhghu7ujhkjg.. #i won against my negative thoughts today. yay #this whole post is just me rambling and being anxious. i dont even know what to say hjdsfbwjkefkdsf #bye :waves: #starbstalks

[musical-chick-13]

Okay, no, sorry, I’m still mad about this. “Be critical of the media you consume and examine why you react to it in the way that you do, support marginalized and stigmatized identities.” Yeah, until it’s about mental illness.

A woman (or even man, if he’s deemed over-emotional) makes music about suffering from mental illness and people just go, “What are they complaining about, that’s so immature, hashtag wangst.” (And then, sometimes, inexplicably, if the mentally ill woman gets better and writes happier music, they then talk about how artistically bankrupt she is now and that she should go back to hating herself.) People LOVE cis white pRoBLeMaTiC (straight) fictional men until they are realistically mentally ill, in which case they’re “whiny” and “insufferable” and deserve to die violently, apparently (or, if fandom is merciful, they’re ignored). (And then they celebrate when they DO inevitably get killed off.) “Do your duty and watch [thing I, mc13, personally find insufferable] For The (white) Gays because it has Gays.” Sure, will you watch c4 Pure, the ONLY show specifically about OCD, then? (No, the answer is no, it’s always no.)

I can’t get anyone to watch Doom Patrol. I couldn’t get people (in general-I did convince a few irl friends thank GOD) to watch Crazy Ex-Girlfriend. One of the most popular and acclaimed shows right now has a character with schizophrenia who was turned into the Big Bad Villain for no fucking reason. One of the most commonly-cited examples of Iconic™ queer media involves a mentally ill man being broken over and over and over again before The Ship™ can reasonably happen. DW introduced a major character who was at one point suffering from mental illness in her past, AND THEN ALL MENTION OF THIS WAS COMPLETELY DROPPED IN THE FUTURE, WITH NO BEARING ON ANYTHING TO THE POINT WHERE I FORGOT IT EVEN EXISTED??!?!? R*tched was a thing that existed despite the Sad Sympathetic Backstory treatment being IN DIRECT CONTRADICTION OF WHAT PURPOSE THIS CHARACTER SERVED IN One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest. THEY GAVE. A SAD WOOBIE VILLAIN TREATMENT. TO THE /LITERAL PERSONIFICATION/ OF ABLEISM. THAT IS HER FUNCTION. TO EXIST AS A SYMBOL OF ALL THE WAYS SOCIETY OPPRESSES THE DISABLED AND MENTALLY ILL.

I am!!! Literally!!!!! The only one!!!!!!!!! Complaining about these things!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THE ONLY ONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No one else has said ANYTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! No one is talking about it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I’m so tired!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#*OBLIGATORY COMMENT ABOUT HOW REPRESENTATION/FICTIONAL DISABILITY IS NOT THE END ALL BE ALL OF ACTIVISM* #*OTHER OBLIGATORY COMMENT ABOUT HOW LIKING '''pRoBLeMaTiC''' CONTENT DOES NOT MAKE YOU A BAD PERSON OR A HORRIFYING ABLEIST* #THIS WAS JUST ME GETTING MAD IT'S NOT THAT DEEP #In the Vents #the real horror was the ableism we found along the way #like. in some of these cases yes I /KNOW/ it was not meant to come across like that!!! but y'all accept that as a valid type of media #criticism when it's about anything else!!!!!!!! just not this apparently????!?!!!! #I do not understand how there is such an ABYSMAL treatment of the subject of mental illness in fiction when this is the #memetic Mental Illness Website like genuinely I do not get it I am scaling my walls and banging pots and pans and growling like a rabid dog #IF YOU WANNA TALK ABOUT THE MESSAGE A STORY IS TELLING YOU GOTTA APPLY IT HERE TOO #I AM ALSO THE LAST PERSON TO SAY THAT YOU'VE GOTTA ADD A DISCLAIMER OF SOMETHING'S LAUNDRY LIST OF FLAWS BEFORE YOU TALK ABOUT IT #BUT JESUS FUCKING CHRIST YOU HAVE TO ACKNOWLEDGE ON SOME LEVEL EVEN IF IT'S JUST TO YOURSELF THAT THINGS HAVE FLAWS #YOU'VE GOTTA BE AWARE OF SHIT #WHEN WILL WE HAVE THE OUTCRY OVER BURY YOUR DISABLED THAT WE DO OVER BYG (WHICH IS ALSO BAD BTW) #I GUARANTEE YOU WE WON'T BE GETTING A SEPARATE FUCKING CON OVER FANDOM OUTCRY THAT'S FOR SURE #I'm making a rule: if you can prove to me that you've started cxgf after reading this and/or if you can prove to me #that you've watched pure (channel 4/hbo max-the one with charly clive) I'll write a fic for you #let's see if I get sniped for criticizing both the beloved sacred mads show AND the plane crash girls show #if I see ONE more comment about how either of those is a perfect show that Gets What All The People Want I will in fact spontaneously #combust. #(and before you @ me yes I have any and all permutations of show tags blocked I'm not just being mean to be mean) #my god remember what happened the last time I tried to talk about this a;lsdfkajs;ldfkj #good thing I turned off anonymous asks!! #this is not even getting into some of the SMALLER fandoms #like I do not ever want to think about the takes I saw for ctrlz EVER again

[selvepnea]

Been thinking about my body a lot

#Sel talks #Listened through Fat Talk by Virginia Sole-Smith which talked a lot about how bodies are tools #And the way she talked about how thin-ness shouldn't be something we strive for #And I can't help but draw parallels between my own desire to go on t? I don't know. Been having too many thoughts stewing #I keep coming back to isabeau's line of “maybe it was easier to change into someone I could love than to learn how to love how I was” #And I had drawn both hrt and diet culture back into this; but. Neither of them are from self love? #It's. Idk; a friction? On how you perceive yourself and how the world perceives you? #Or. Idk idk. It's hard to articulate now that I'm trying to get it down #If I remember right; one of the messages of fat talk was how bodies should be for function first and foremost; and should hardly-if ever- #Considered for aesthetic. And yes- trying to loose weight is one of the most damaging aesthetic changes you can do- #Idk! I feel like I'm looking too far into it #Something something you're not happy with how your body looks/is perceived so you want to change it #Whether that's influenced by society; loved ones; or something biological; it's still a desire to change your body #Although one is vastly more accepted than the other #Trying to become thin is trying to make yourself more comfortable in a vastly fatphobic world; to placate the people think they have say #Over your body; make yourself more palettable to the world around you. #Which I guess is an important distinction #Becoming the person you want to be even through everyone telling you that it's wrong or disgusting #But a part of me can't help but think a part of the reason I want to do hrt might have something to do with our male centric society? #I'm too tired to elaborate any further but I feel less busy now that I have it out

[katierosefun]

oh there's something particularly painful about my mister in that dong hoon tells ji an that as long as no one knows, it's no big deal, and there's something particularly painful about how ji an tells dong hoon that sometimes, i want [my secret] to play out on big screens for everyone to see, and there's something particularly painful about how the second dong hoon meets the loan shark tormenting ji an, he starts screaming and yelling about how she's just a kid, how could you do that to a kid, and there's something particularly painful about how dong hoon doesn't even let ji an know he did that, but ji an knows. she knows because she was listening in the entire time and she just starts crying because someone actually knows this ugly, sad part of her and still took her side, and something particularly painful about how my mister started with as long as no one knows, it's no big deal but really concludes with there is so much risk in having someone know who you are but there's also so much comfort and peace to be found in that, too and maybe you shouldn't isolate yourself and maybe you should reach for that kind of comfort in being known and loved anyways

#caroline talks #my mister #if this is incoherent. it should be #rewatched the first 2.5 episodes of my mister last night #felt like crying my eyes out the entire time tbh!! #every time i watch this show there's just something about it that hurts me more and more and there's something that makes the messages #in this show feel more and more relevant #idk. thinking a lot about when ji an talks about how sometimes she wishes. sometimes she wishes #that everyone knew what she'd done and what had been done to her. #something about how ji an can't ever bring herself to connect truly with another person because of how much she hates #the feeling of people realizing what her past looks like #and not wanting to withstand the pity and also horror. like. okay. #something about ji an sobbing by the bridge when she listens to dong hoon pummeling that loan shark guy #and how i used to always cry at that scene but now i tear up just thinking about it #because you know! there's that shock (that firstly: someone knows your miserable secret. and secondly: they're still on your side) #and then absolute heartache because you don't know what to do with that information. you didn't expect it. #you're sobbing at a bridge because someone knows who you are and someone knows the scars of your past and still gets angry and sad for you. #and you still feel like you don't deserve it because you know deep down you are not a very good person (or so you tell yourself). #and. oughough. lee ji an holds such a place in my miserable little heart

[eddis-not-eeddis]

I have had a sword for a little less than 24 hours, and already I have driven off a man with it.

#i'm on a language exchange app #i only message other women #but if a guy dms me and asks a language related question i don't mind answering and will have conversations #it's usually business men who tell me up front that they are married and want to know the difference between two very similar words #or random teenagers who try to hold conversations in extremely broken english before getting tired and giving up #from time to time someone tries to get a little too chummy and at that point i just ghost them #so today someone dmed me and after chatting for a bit he asked if i could send him a picture so he could verify that i was a real person #and i get that people are out there pretending to be very different from who they really are...i get that #but my guy #we were talking about verbs four seconds ago #pull yourself together #...now i ALWAYS ignore requests for pics #of any sort at all #however #the newest picture on my phone was one of me #With The Sword #and the temptation was greater than i could withstand #so i sent him that #and he blocked me #XD

[max1461]

“Today I’m worrying about catastrophic ecosystem collapse. What if it gets just a little too hot or a little too acidic a little too fast in the ocean, and some important keystone species goes extinct and it fucks up the nitrogen cycle or oceanic oxygen production or kills off all the fish and the whole of Earth’s ecosystem just goes kaput then and there? Very concerning.” Don’t worry about it, nothing bad will happen if an important species goes extinct. Sub-Saharan Africans and Hispanics will simply fulfill the role that that old species used to fill, and they’ll do it for a lot cheaper

Human ethnic groups do not fill ecological niches the way species do. At least, they don't unless a given society has forced them into that role. There are certainly societies where a given ethnic group, or other type of social group, is relied on for (and thereby often coerced into) a specific kind of labor—see the burakumin in Japan. But these situations are socially constructed. It doesn't actually need to be burakumin doing meat processing, anybody could do that!

In ecosystems, organisms are generally hyper-specialized for a particular niche. This is what makes the loss of an organism so potentially devastating. Ecosystems are delicately balanced towers that rely on each species doing its job. In human society, the appropriate analogy is professions, not ethnic groups.

This would be obvious, frankly, upon any contemplation at all. Your implicit assertion ("if we allow widespread immigration, white people will go extinct, which will cause a catastrophic collapse of human society") is ludicrous on the face of it; it relies on a strained analogy that doesn't take the specifics of either situation into account. It is nonsense designed to prop up your agenda, not reasoned argument.

And, once again, I will clarify that I have no desire to eliminate white people! I just don't want to restrict human freedom en masse in order to preserve whiteness or whatever, because that is very silly.

Finally, it's worth noting that as far as I can tell, white people aren't even in any danger of "going extinct". Like, they're not a threatened group! This is all purely hypothetical on your part! It's nonsense!

#society #I didn't want to comment on it in the body of the post because it's not relevant to the point I'm making #but there is something so hateful in the way you have phrased this anon #I mean this in full sincerity: if you care about truth and value self-honesty #I would recommend contemplating how much of your opinions here are based on reasoned argument and how much are based on #a gut level dislike of black and/or latin american people #because there is a gut level dislike which comes through in your anons #and for the sake of *your own ability to reason* I believe it would behoove you to contemplate if it is affecting your judgement #please don't tell me the result; you can keep them to yourself one way or the other. if you send a message telling me I won't respond

[silverduckie]

....okay so I dmed someone to remove a gif of mine because they reposted it from a watermarked set that explictly said in the body of the post that those gifs are not allowed to be resposted, right? (and the watermark was still in the gif even 😂) And like they did it, and in the time it took me to type a thank you message, they just deleted their account????

#like dude i was just gonna let it slide after you removed my gif like... yeah I did warn them if they didn't remove it I was gonna like #make a public post about the theft but like... you removed it - all I care about. Other gif makers will defend their own gifs like #i'll be honest when I went into the actor's tag for self-care because this week is rough and saw that I was pissed so I was mean for me lik #wasn't my harshest moment in the dms with this stuff but definitely wasn't my normal super friendly hey i assume you didn't #see the disclaimer but- message style either - i was very firm #listen there's only so many times you can be nice and someone tells you to kill yourself before you're no longer nice in the initial messag #i've been giffing over a decade i'm tired and that scene alone took 30+ minutes to color because it came out of netflix's asshole i stg <3 #like i offered to reupload the scene for them too if they wanted to just gif it themselves okay but god #wish fanfic writers understood the whole if you wouldn't want someone to steal your entire fic don't steal gifs #like literally i can only speak for myself but I work with fanfic writers who dm me BEFORE they steal the gif like... just shoot me a #message - I'm usually pretty nice unless you literally stole my shit after I asked you not to

[boxwinebaddie]

i hope this isnt weird to say but it was my bday this week and it was... not a good one but ur ask meme today with the little draft that u never posted to ao3 was so cute and made me so happy😭😭 so im taking it as a bday present thank you for making my week better <3

hello, my peach!!!!! and no, this is not weird at all! <333

happy birthday, my angel and i am so sorry to hear that your special day did not feel very special to you :( -- however, i am glad that watching awkward ravenstan blush and cradle kyle in his arms via candid camera felt like a gift to you! you are a gift to me, my love!

if it helps at all -- please know you're not alone. ( i was packing up my apartment/v busy, so i spent my birthday by myself </3 -- i get it. )

birthdays...can be very difficult and upsetting sometimes. which is super unfortunate because they are supposed to be wonderful, but i also feel like an unnecessary amount of stress/expectation is amassed around the concept of being born, which, to be honest, is miraculous enough to be celebrated everyday!

like honestly? normalize making your birthday any day you want and constantly and consistently celebrating your existence! for example, raven hates his birthday, but does throw a major rager faux bday on halloween every year, so fuck it! we ball! Every Day Is Ur Day, Darling!

alsoooooo, if it helps x 2 ( it probably won't ) at least you aren't spending it under a mabel tree, drinking The Stanley Marsh Smolder ( fireball and spiced apple cider ) out of a thermos, missing ur super best friend, wishing you were kissing him & cutting ur lip open on that can opener he calls a lip ring. </3 BUT!!!! pls know & rem(ember) that for every sad moment there is an even happier one, sweet pea, like!!! jersey went to sleep miserable that night, so that he could wake up in stan's very comfortable cinnamon scented lap later!!!! :')

the universe will repay you for your dues, my dear! <333 and if nothing else, i am more than happy to lift your spirits with rare limited edition uncle nina ravesey fluff -- again, you are a gift to me, so it thrills me to be able to give you something in return!

thank you so much for reading!

and thank you even MORE for being born! <333

-uncle nina, bad birthday survivor

#this is SOOOO sweet #i am cheesing #i have so many cute anons in my box who were stoked on the weird little ravesey world domination snippet i posted yesterday on a whim #i'm so glad you all liked it so much -- tbh i wish it were more Well Written now like smh it was a weird draft so its a mess but #i suppose any form of jersey making ravenstan nervous and stan worrying about him and admiring him is worth it #the ncu kyle passing out x ncu stan smiling n sayin hi dummy #is the realest ncu continuity ever i'm so serious smh #they are Soft...ravenstan is so soft my boy my boy my boy #BUT MY ANGEEEEEEEEEEEEEL #HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY BELOVED #IM SO SORRY YOUR BIRTHDAY WAS NOT FUN I GET IT FRIEND!!! MINE WAS ALSO WHACK!!! #but know that even on the worst days you can read a silly snippet of some boys being in love and it can all be better #or at least i am really glad that it helped and made u happy #writing it made me very happy and reading ur message was so wonderful thank you for every second ur alive my sweet #be gentle and kind to yourself please #treat yourself the way that ravenstan would treat you!!!! #he would put you on his shoulders spin u around feed u snacks sing to you and tell you u are made of star dust <333 and read ur tarot prob #also know he would probably sing u a punk rock happy bday in front of everyone and put u in the vip section of his concerts

[the-silent-hashira]

i see the homestuck fandom is the same as always today. fuck broadwaystuck

#🧤 through the void || ooc #dont you love when people start smear campaigns and act like they arent antis because the person they dislike is mentally ill #like good job guys! you ruined my friends reputation and friendships because of personal bullshit #good job being ableist classist racist bastards #and if anyone messages or sends me anons about this that tell me i dont know the whole story go fuck yourself #even if i dont know the whole story you dont post an entire ass smear campaign document to your entire cast and crew server #youre all fucking assholes and i hope that shit burns swiftly

[nat-20s]

I don't want to sound dismissive because you're right and stories about adults are good, but that post about not relating to coming of age stories is so funny you just "came of age" like 6 years ago.

i definitely get where ur comin from anon but I didn't relate to coming age stories when i was """"coming of age""" either. I haven't even had a first love and i didn't start to understand my gender more until i was 23 skdfjkdflk which is why it's hilarious but also a little frustrating that ages like. 15-19 are supposed to be prime Discovering Yourself and Becoming Who You Are ages. most people are in a constant state of self discovery and becoming and i just find most coming of age stories uhhhh...kind of horseshit lol. I'm dunking on anyone that did find them relatable or did see themselves in them or value them but they r just. Not for me and never really have been even when I was the target age you know?

#replies #anon #'coming of age' we are ALWAYS coming of age you know? coming to know yourself in your 30s is still coming of age!!! #im not actually arguing with you personally anon this was a fun message and i get that like. yeah i cannot claim to be an Elder tm lol #but i think some people are misinterpreting that psot and are being like ugh how dare you maybe just stop reading YA?? #and that NOT my fucking point. my fucking point is that like 75% of the shows and books that get recommended to me #(which jumps to like 90% if it's queer media :/) are about teens!!! #i don't want teenage stories and im sick of self discovery and first loves and fun adventures and cool space operas being #mostly starring teenagers as if only teenagers experience that stuff!!! #why are adults allowed to find new loves and passions and have a love triangle with a bad boy and their best friend if they so want #why are 40 somethings allowed to figure out their gender and sexuality!!! #THAT's what im complaining about im complaining that finding good Adult fiction that has some similar narrative beats to the imo best parts #common aspects of ya fiction is hard #where's the stories for those of us that didn't have first loves at 15 and haven't had first loves at 25 and are still figuring out things #tldr most high school/ya stories have some really cool elements that i don't think need to be exclusive to teenagers #extra tldr: stop telling me about fictional teens having sex i can not and will not fucking care anymore #SORRY FOR THE TAG RANT ANON YOU DIDN'T DESERVE THAT FEEL FREE TO IGNORE THIS LOL