#like. he would respect my pronouns he would

[sunnibits]

The fact that ‘Izzy Hands would respect my pronouns’ is an entirely true and canonical statement feels both hilarious and slightly cursed…

#like. he would respect my pronouns he would #he would not respect ME but he would respect my pronouns goddamnit #izzy hands #ofmd #in reference to him using Jim’s pronouns that one time as he abandoned their boyfriend to die on a deserted island

[ruvviks]

pov you're vitali and you're in college and the guy (pictured above) (his name is nick) who keeps switching between being your bf and a pain in the ass wants to see your boobs (you say no and he blocks you for three days)

taglist (opt in/out): @shellibisshe, @florbelles, @ncytiri, @hibernationsuit, @stars-of-the-heart, @vvanessaives, @katsigian, @radioactiveshitstorm, @estevnys, @adelaidedrubman, @celticwoman, @rindemption, @carlosoliveiraa, @noirapocalypto, @dickytwister, @dameaylin, @killerspinal, @euryalex, @ri-a-rose, @velocitic, @thedeadthree

#cp2077 #cyberpunk 2077 #art #art:nick #nuclearocs #nuclearart #yes he's got makeup brushes in his bathroom yes he will buy you pads and respect your pronouns but he is still a CUNT!!!!!!!!!! #i would let him hit a few times but it stops there. i would not let him ruin my life for four consecutive years like vitali did #anyway hi sorry for making art of minor characters in the bigger picture of things do you still love me #i'm just so fascinated by him and his cringe fail loserboy vibes he's so. ough. and also uh btw if you even care #he kinda looks a little bit like mikhail and would have similar mannerisms and similar humor as well. sorry #basically a mikhail replacement for vitali. which is part of why it doesn't work out for vitali and nick xxx

[leveragedlibrarians]

Look, Im not saying that Jake would be extremely passionate about/interested in the history and use of neopronouns and their etymological sources

But I Am saying that if I told him I use she/fae pronouns he'd probably get really excited, tell me the exact historical precedence of the word, ask me why I use it, and then promptly start a fistfight with anyone who purposefully refuses refer to me like that

#jake about neopronouns: I just think they're neat! 🥰 #i love etymology ok #and jake does too #and i can and i will project my fascination with words and pronouns onto him #cuz he's my lil guy #look respecting 'odd' pronouns would piss his dad off so much #and that's just icing on the cake #jake respects your pronouns and if someone doesn't then they gonna reapect his fists #eves too #i can just see like ezekiel making some sarcastic remark about xey/xem pronouns #just for jake to give him a full verbal essay on their historical context and the etymological reasoning behind it #and then ezekiel comes in the next day and is like #'hey uh. i don't think I'm really a boy.' #JAKE HELPING EZEKIEL FIND HIS NEW PRONOUNS I CANT #ezekiel jones #jacob stone #the librarians #the librarians jake #neopronouns

[coquelicoq]

did i tell u guys about how my family, who have been lukewarm at best and vaguely antagonistic at worst about using they/them pronouns for my nonbinary sibling, did a complete 180 upon learning that my sibling is also good with she/her...like i can't even tell you how hard it's been to get them to even just try to use they/them and then they hear she/her and a switch is flipped in their brains that goes "you are an asshole actually" and all of a sudden my mom is buying PROTECT TRANS KIDS t-shirts and my grandmother's apologizing to me when she messes up. okay i'm glad you got there eventually but if this capability was inside you all along i don't understand why you couldn't have been doing this with the they/them set. like my grandmother told me a couple years ago that she wasn't even going to make an effort because she was probably going to die soon (<-completely made up excuse; obviously any of us could die at any time, and she is old, but she's in good health and her mother lived to be 100) and therefore wouldn't be seeing my sibling often enough for it to matter??? but she/her is worth the effort where they/them was not, apparently. like again i can't complain about the outcome but i am very much complaining about how we got here. what even is this.

#also love how my stepdad said he would start using she/her on my sibling's birthday as a birthday present... #don't even know where to start with that. like oh thank you how benevolent of you to grant this favor #and these are people who see themselves as progressives #my theory is that they vaguely theoretically support trans people because Being Mean to Trans People is what Bad People do #but didn't actually categorize my sibling as trans until they heard about the she/her pronouns. they/them is just a silly fancy i guess #transphobia #pronouns #idk just like. how hard is it to try to respect the way someone wants to be referred to. it hurts no one #i'm not even complaining about the family members who had trouble because they/them is a plural pronoun #i don't really buy that because of singular they but at least they were trying. and they only told me they were struggling in private #away from my sibling. but to not even try? and then it turns out you ARE capable of changing the pronouns you use for someone #as long as they're pronouns YOU'VE decided are legitimate? that's not how this works people

[torra-and-the-toons]

I like to think Jimmy and Edd have a very special friendship, one where they understand each other whole-heartedly in a way that each individual doesn’t quite have with their usual group of friends. So naturally, in my version of their older selves, Edd is the one Jimmy turns to when they start feeling confused about their identity. And Edd is the one who helps them find it. 

#my doodles #ed edd n eddy #edd eene #jimmy eene #a fistful of ed really sold me on Edd and Jimmy tbh #I feel like Jimmy would be scared to come out to the others #yes even Sarah #especially sarah #what if they don't accept them? #or respect their new pronouns? #what if they lose their friends over who they feel like they truly are? #but Edd isn't like that #Edd is kind and understanding #He is someone they can turn to with any problem and he'll never laugh at them #sorry for the really messy comic btw that couple days of non-stop work kicked my ass and I'm trying to get my creative streak back #I wanted t erase it so bad bc I hate how sloppy it is but I forced myself to keep it

[in-tua-deep]

Had a dream where I was back in high school in a math class and my teacher was just. Incredibly disrespectful about my identity/pronouns. So I swapped to the other math class section with a different teacher

And new teacher didn’t use my pronouns either, but it still felt better. And then someone broke my desk. And someone asked me if I made the right choice swapping, because neither teacher used my pronouns, right? And I just had this moment of such clarity, of, “yeah, he doesn’t use my pronouns. He doesn’t always use the right name. But you know what? He’s angry someone broke my desk, and I know that if he finds out who it was, they would be in trouble. And it wouldn’t be like that with the other teacher.”

Just. Utter clarity of the definition between someone who doesn’t understand pronouns but still sees me as a person deserving of safety vs. someone who maliciously doesn’t use my pronouns as a way to communicate disrespect and thinks that means I don’t deserve to be safe

#my dreams #rip to my high school history teacher who got cast as the villain #but also neither of these teachers were math teachers #it was my highschool history teacher and my high school art teacher? #very out of character for my history teacher. but honestly pretty in character for the art one #do I think my old art teacher would have used my pronouns? no #do I think he would have bitten then head off of someone who was messing with me? yes absolutely #terrifying man. used art as a coping mechanism for his war experience. 10/10 #I think this dream is a reaction to my new job actually #sat down and had a very emotional but helpful conversation with my director about pronouns and use of them with clients #my supervisor is a queer elder who is confused but supportive #told me that if non-binary were as known as it is today back then supervisor might also identify with it #but supervisor is apparently too old to come out *again* #which what a mood #man being non-binary is fucking hard #nothing but respect for my fellow they/thems and neo-pronoun users this shit is EXHAUSTING #also shoutout to the dream bit where bad teacher was like ‘haha and is that an apple’ when I was holding a banana #and I just fully ignored him. didn’t even acknowledge the ‘joke’ #an iconic move if I don’t say so myself

[nutmegdoggy]

if you guys wanted to see how bad the tom macdonald and ben shapiro rap is but didn't wanna give them a view, here ya go

normally I'm against distributing shit from horrible people even to hatewatch it, but this is just so embarrassingly awful that I think the entertainment value is worth it

#i cannot BELIEVE ben shapiro raps in this #it doesnt even feel real #hes been memed so much it feels like a deepfake #there are so many insane bars (derogatory) #I ASK MYSELF WHAT WOULD BEN DO #(while ben makes the most uncomfortable face possible) #LETS JUST KEEP IT REAL FAGS #IF YOU WANT MY PRONOUNS IM THE MAN IM THE MEN WHO DONT RESPECT YOU (???) #bens lines are my favorite #HOMIE IM EPIC DONT BE A WAP #HE ALSO DIRECTLY DISSES NICKI MINAJ LATER ON?? #my favorite part of this video is ben's awkward little wave at one minute in #he has no idea what to do #he doesnt REMOTELY know how to look cool #so he just does the tiniest friendly little wave #uncertainly hovering near the bottom of the frame as if it cant decide whether it's appropriate or not #I ALMOST FORGOT ABOUT THE MATCHING HOODIES #btw even i didnt have to give this a view on youtube #a friend used ffmpeg to download it and post it in a group chat #cw homophobia #cw transphobia #cw queerphobia #cw f slur #cw islamophobia #cw conservatives #ben shapiro #tom macdonald #conservatives

[benevolentcannibal]

His fate is sealed.

#vinsmoke yonji #yonji vinsmoke #one piece oc #one piece #one piece fanart #yorin oc #big naturals make a simp act unwise #my art #step on his balls enough times and respects their pronouns #like training a dog #he would be so easily led around by his nostrils oml #notices what they like while he's out doing war crimes and brings back offerings #uses him as a body guard when they leave germa for negotiations and he's not allowed to speak #yes yorin torments the other brothers #violence for violence

[cithaerons]

idk i think it’s usually fair to assume that someone goes by the pronouns they present as unless they tell you otherwise? and if we declare that’s not the case then i feel like we’re back in the boat of pressuring people to tell the world their pronouns and thus out themselves when they aren’t comfortable doing do. and i kind of feel like the people who primarily harmed by NOT doing that are trans people? obviously it’s good to ask if it’s a safe and appropriate context for doing so but it often won’t be in the real world. idk, maybe others have different views.

#like for instance one of my classmates last semester was a trans woman #she didn’t actually list her pronouns in her email sig and i don’t know her outside of the classroom context #my prof goes and uses he/him pronouns for her and it’s like??? #did some googling and she refers to herself everywhere on the internet as she #obviously if she had told me otherwise i would respect that #but like if someone is performing femininity in every respect i feel like it’s fair as an acquaintance to assume they use she/her pronouns #unless they tell you otherwise #and vise versa! #even pulling someone aside who is performing a specific gender in every respect other than being ‘cis’ & demanding pronouns #feels weird to me #no one does that to me as a cis woman?? it feels othering idk #but maybe people appreciate that?

[mejomonster]

Being nonbinary and dressing feminine sometimes despite very much not being a woman is. Its like hello strangers hello new friends im making please dont immediately steamroll

#contemplating a lot #rant #feel free to ignore #i just. so like. im very nonbinary #which i suppose many nonbinary people are #to the point im like. well i cant go to a transmasc support group or a transfem support group cause i doubt either would #see me as someonr who fits (wish my city had a general trans meetup but we arent big enough i guess) #i know I KNOW theres a bunch of cisgender fucks who think nonbinary = woman and it drives me up a Fucking wall #i know theres (even more ouch) a portion of lesbians and queer ppl who see nonbinary as woman-lite or feminine man #and just dont fucking put in the effort to grasp what being outside man or woman (or overlapping) could be #(probably ovdrlaps w ppl who refuse to grasp pansexuality or bisexuality) #and like. when i was young? maybe i wouldve seen myself as a trans man #but when that didnt totally fit i felt well. maybe bigender then. nonbinary. yeah that fits i suppose #or maybe i am a trans man who just doesnt want to change myself for societal pressure #but i do relate to being a woman too? so nonbinary feels best. but i certainly dont feel like a woman #im okay with she he they. but if i tell strangers theyll usually default to ONE so i just say #THEY so strangers dont immediately try to basically pretend im not nonbinary by sticking to another pronoun they feel is easier to them #and if i say They the fact remains: are these new strangers or friends dicks who dont respect my gender even tho they #accomodated to sayibg they? do they say she in private to friends. do they refer to me as a gender im not when im not present #idk i have been... interacting with a lot of straight dudes lately. and im like? im bi and nonbinary so im like. well if ur straight dude im #not sure u would even Wanna date me? u are aware im a dude too? are u okay with that? can u respect that??? #which has NEVER happened to me before. cause i only dated bi guys nonbinary peeps like me or nonbinary lesbians #ive never dated a person i feared may actually not see me as I Actually Am and have accepted iy

[ehh-is-the-name]

The people have spoken...

Cobs would respect your gender neutral pronouns!

#inanimate insanity #ii steve cobs #ii cobs #writing is hard #rant in tags #did I expect this outcome when I made the poll? no... #but after a like 2-to-3-day-long argument with a friend #ok yeah- I can see where people were coming from #a piece of me still believes that like #this guy uses it/its pronouns for the mephones and such- #and not in a reclaiming way or anything- #so like... idk kinda hard for me to see him respecting people #But yeah- uh I guess that- #you could then argue that he just doesn't see his creations as like people? #so I'm just like 'well he's a dickhead in many ways so what's a little sprinkle of lgtbphobia gonna do?' #idk #I just kinda see him as a homophobic gay man #which is probably from ao3 brainwashing- but whatever #my friend was saying he probably would since he's a fan of progress so he'd be like 'Oh cool new gender unlocked' than be against it #which is like- sure I guess? idk #I'm halfway convinced #this is kinda why I wished more people would've explained in the tags but I'm really stubborn so :/

[holyviolence]

omg i spent the whole day cleaning my entire apartment because my family was coming to visit and 1) so so so happy my adhd is being medicated now it's literally changing my life and 2) i FINALLLY got through to my dad about how he probably has ADHD too!!!!! he finally said Yeah i think i might have adhd. and my mom was like Me too (we've had this talk privately before, she knows she has adhd too lol) And my brother is literally transferring to a different school because he can't concentrate and isn't disciplined at his current uni. adhd family.

#literally thank goodness my brother was here to like Perfectly describe in real time what happens to adhd people when they go to college for #the first time. there's less structure and you fall apart. i used that as an opportunity. #i've slowly slowly slowly been chipping away at my Entire family btw. i've finally convinced my dad that medication is a GOOD THING. #i said You know. there's a lot in life that you feel like you Have to live with. but being on meds has made life so much easier and happier. #and that's when my dad finally said it. #:^) sometimes i like..... think about my family and how complicated i feel because growing up was super tough with all of them but now they #are all better people..... and i can't help but feel proud because as much as it is ABSOLUTELY great job for THEM for getting there But i #also feel uhhh partly responsible because i was constantly calling them out for shit. not always in the best way #but always standing up for others and challenging them on their worldviews and just casually talking about more liberal (as in free. not #politically) things. yes i do feel like if it wasn't for me my family would be worse people #i KNOW one of my brothers would be because he literally told me so. and it makes me happy. it is proof that my life is worthy and i have a #good impact on the world. it doesn't have to be a big thing i do to change things..... because i believe in the Ripple Effect #my dad is a teacher and he uses the proper pronouns for his trans students without complaint now. that has a good impact on SO many people #the trans students and their classmates who hear their teacher respect them. my brother is no longer homophobic he's bi lol and #if i hadn't argued with him about what bisexuality meant bc he was Wrong when i was 18 and he was 16... i wonder.... #my younger sister is one of the nicest kids i've ever met and i partly raised her. it feels great to see her be such a good kid #her best friend is a trans girl and when she first came out my sister was one of two people in their class who still wanted to be #her friend. #idk. just inspires me to keep being the best person i can be & always do what's right even if it makes people mad #bc no one can hurt me as much as my family has traumatized me (lol) and look what happened to them!! i didn't give up! and i see real change

[electricpurrs]

i keep getting really fucking jumpscared everytime someone calls me "he" im like oh yeah! those are my pronouns and people actually call me them. i forgot that was a thing

#i very very rarely get called third person pronouns on the internet #(since if i am talking to a friend for example they will just talk to me directly in second person) #so that means the vast majority of times i hear myself being referred in third person is irl when my family calls me she #and i dont LIKE it but i have zero other choice so i forget i even have another option #if that makes sense?????? #like wow..... my mom would never call me he but my friends do because they care about me and respect me #absolutely mindblowing concept

[sunsoak]

Everyone’s all “nonbinary is included in every sexuality” until a nonbinary person who is on hormones prefers men who like men and women who like women and all of a sudden I’m being problematic and offensive to…….. well everyone I guess

#WhoGive A Rats Ass #like genuinely why the fuck does anyone care omg why is this a big deal #I’m not being offensive to other transmascs by fucking lesbians like i never said you all need to or you all should or you all want to #it’s MY LIFE….. how is my very personal sex and love life affecting every transmasc in the world ITS NOT…. #it’s your problem for seeing me as a binary trans guy when I’m not I just am on t and use he/him pronouns. like whatever bro omg #like ok. it’s MY OWN CHOICE that I would fuck a lesbian im ok with that. that’s just me! the ftm reading this is not involved. #im not going around fucking parading that transmascs should fuck lesbians this is literally just my personal life and choices #and if lesbians want me and gay guys want me (which they both do) THATS FUN FOR ME AND I LIKE IT BECAUSE IM NOT A BINARY TRANS PERSON…. #anyways yeah so I’m bisexual but not in the traditional sense. just let me live I’m so sick of reading posts bashing people like me #sorry that I have the lived experience of being a dyke and I’m into dykes who are into dykes. #sorry that I’m also kind of attracted to men but only men who will acknowledge and respect and be attracted to my masculinity. #everyone wants to support gender fluidity and sexuality fluidity until someone is actually being fluid lmfao like honestly!!!

[nanowired-lover]

im pretty sure some transmasc ppl can relate and said already but i want my gender to be ''male crossdressing presenting''. I want ppl to look at me and be lile ''this is a GUY, a MAN, a DUDE and he wears things like a woman but when he tells you he's a guy you know he is." I want to look hyper fem and hyper masc. I want to change between a bubbly emotional lil angry dude and your sweet tranvestite.

#i am sometimes at peace being trans but some times i'm just feeling super dysphoric bc i cannot present how i am #masculinity is so sexy to me #feminity is so fun #and i want to be that. sexy and fun. #having thoughts about lupin being super gender but not. when he's just a guy #mostly in his drag persona. the way thz fandom interpreted his relationship with gender. make me go apeshit. #and to the ppl wanting to be like 'u can just do that now aren't u a guy' #please bitch im in france. ppl can't even stand neutral pronouns. transphobia is a thing and i want to keep my job 😋 #and i know most of ppl here would still treat me like a woman and says how much they hate men around me but 'ho they respect my pronouns' #bitch im 5 ft tall with a voice so high and bubbly #AND AN E CUP

[sleepy-crypt1d]

why did they make jack so weirdly misogynistic in tales he would NOT fucking say that

#borderlands #tales from the borderlands #handsome jack #like??? idk part of what made jack interesting is that his hatred wasnt Directed it was just Everyone #ANYONE who crossed him would be murdered it didn't matter who that person was - like in BL2 he made sleazy comments but this is stupid #like this is the same man who got nervous around a girl he liked and started tripping over his words and avoiding questions but sure #sooooo fucking tired of people just going 'oh? villain? bigot 💚' please be original #its so much cooler when the villain respects people but just doesn't care #he WILL ask your pronouns but he will also beat you to death and laugh ya know? that's so much cooler #people in real life are already bigotted enough let me enjoy my villains without being fucked reminded thanks