#kind people being kind

[jingyismom]

Just read a post that said to tell people when you like their stuff so ive come here to tell you that you're my favorite fanfic author. Never had a favorite before. Everything you've written (on ao3 anyway) I've read and loved and been touched by in some way. You're so so good! Vibes impeccable, characters great, prose and imagery vivid, pacing perfect. Not a single flop. And I'm probably going to watch the show of the fic you just posted just to be able to read it with context. hope that's not too weird!! Anyway that was all, goodbye and thank you for everything you've put out there ✌️🌼

Anon, I love you. This ask is going to be powering my frail mortal coil for years to come. And that's the opposite of weird, that's the best thing I've ever heard! JOIN US!! JOIN!! US!!!!

#thank you so much im not crying youre crying #pls watch mjty #grow our numbers xjhsjshd #it deserves so much more love #asked and answered #kind people being kind

[campingwiththecharmings]

Neon lights is one of my favorite Santi fics I’ve ever read. It’s amazing and so are you. I eat up all your work. I think you might be my favorite writer on here, you got Santi’s voice down so well. I can practically here him speaking

omg i'm

thank you so much for taking the time to send this, nonnie. i can't even begin to tell you how much it means to me. 🥺💖

#legit at a loss for words (in the best way tho) #and holy shit #what an absolute HONOR it is to potentially be your favorite writer what??? #there are so many amazing ones on this site and that you'd even CONSIDER me is just #it's unfathomable to me if i'm being honest lmao #but an honor nonetheless #srsly tho ty for taking the time to say this #sometimes it feels like i'm just screaming into the void so i appreciate this far more than i could ever really explain #from the bottom of my heart thank you 💖💖💖 #okay now imma go cry #kind people being kind #asks

[dean-winchester-is-a-warrior]

Hey Dear..As you can see i am hooked to your page

My fav being mini series between Y/N and Dean sharing her firsts

I was wondering if you get sometime…You can do similar with Beau Arlen

Just a thought

Xoxo 😘

Yay!! I'm so glad you're enjoying it and that you've found that series. I really enjoyed writing their relationship and watching it develop, so I'm always thrilled when someone finds it. ❤️

It would be interesting to do something similar with Beau. I do have a second similar series of one shots with Jensen already, so I'd definitely have to try and find a new spin on it. But I will for sure give it a think and try and see if I can come up with something.

Thanks lovely!! 🥰

#kind asks #request ask #beau arlen #kind people being kind #kind words fuel authors

[live-from-flaturn]

Hi Tadhg!! Happy birthday 🎊🎊 I hope you had a great day 😊

I did! I am! And it's getting even better!!! <3

#thank youuuuuuuuuu #tadhgs birthgay celebration #kind people being kind #i'm ajdfl;asjfdksa;fsak

[galvanizedfriend]

Hope your doing well yokan!

Big fan of your fics, you have such a way with words and your klaus and Caroline are exactly how I envision them, I feel you’ve captured them both so well!

Really excited to see how wolf III ends, especially since you’ve mentioned your carrying on to season four but I’m also so interested in we’ll always have New Orleans, it sounds so good!

❤️❤️❤️

Hi, nonnie ✨

This totally makes my day, nonnie, ty sm 🥺 I'm so happy you like my fics and the way I write those two idiots in love ❤️ You're so nice, thanks so so much!

Hope you have a wonderful weekend!

#yokan answers #anon #kind people being kind

[joaquinwhorres]

just want you to know that you are very brave for speaking out against maddie. if it wasn’t for you i never would’ve been brave enough to backtrack and talk about my own experience with her. so for that i thank you. you are a saint and i will personally fight anyone who gives you a hard time for doing what needed to be done. 💜 [@hiddenqveendom]

Thank you for your kindness and your friendship. I don't feel very brave though as I had nothing to lose. My OCs weren't stolen, I had them blocked, I wasn't friends with any of the people defending them, I came out ok except for a bit stressed and ruffled.

The real people who are brave are the people like you who had their names included on the list. Who came to me with receipts and said it was ok for me to tag their name. The people who realized what Maddie was doing and asked them about it and in some cases got booted from servers, blocked on Tumblr, and kicked out as friends. I can't even imagine how hard that is.

So thank you for your compliment, but I feel like other people deserve it more than me. I was just like the scribe. ❤️

#kind people being kind #anna-tiope

[inkskinned]

because sometimes there are invisible tests and invisible rules and you're just supposed to ... know the rule. someone you thought of as a friend asks you for book recommendations, so you give her a list of like 30 books, each with a brief blurb and why you like it. later, you find out she screenshotted the list and send it out to a group chat with the note: what an absolute freak can you believe this. you saw the responses: emojis where people are rolling over laughing. too much and obsessive and actually kind of creepy in the comments. you thought you'd been doing the right thing. she'd asked, right? an invisible rule: this is what happens when you get too excited.

you aren't supposed to laugh at your own jokes, so you don't, but then you're too serious. you're not supposed to be too loud, but then people say you're too quiet. you aren't supposed to get passionate about things, but then you're shy, boring. you aren't supposed to talk too much, but then people are mad when you're not good at replying.

you fold yourself into a prettier paper crane. since you never know what is "selfish" and what is "charity," you give yourself over, fully. you'd rather be empty and over-generous - you'd rather eat your own boundaries than have even one person believe that you're mean. since you don't know what the thing is that will make them hate you, you simply scrub yourself clean of any form of roughness. if you are perfect and smiling and funny, they can love you. if you are always there for them and never admit what's happening and never mention your past and never make them uncomfortable - you can make up for it. you can earn it.

don't fuck up. they're all testing you, always. they're tolerating you. whatever secret club happened, over a summer somewhere - during some activity you didn't get to attend - everyone else just... figured it out. like they got some kind of award or examination that allowed them to know how-to-be-normal. how to fit. and for the rest of your life, you've been playing catch-up. you've been trying to prove that - haha! you get it! that the joke they're telling, the people they are, the manual they got- yeah, you've totally read it.

if you can just divide yourself in two - the lovable one, and the one that is you - you can do this. you can walk the line. they can laugh and accept you. if you are always-balanced, never burdensome, a delight to have in class, champagne and glittering and never gawky or florescent or god-forbid cringe: you can get away with it.

you stare at your therapist, whom you can make jokes with, and who laughs at your jokes, because you are so fucking good at people-pleasing. you smile at her, and she asks you how you're doing, and you automatically say i'm good, thanks, how are you? while the answer swims somewhere in your little lizard brain:

how long have you been doing this now? mastering the art of your body and mind like you're piloting a puppet. has it worked? what do you mean that all you feel is... just exhausted. pick yourself up, the tightrope has no net. after all, you're cheating, somehow, but nobody seems to know you actually flunked the test. it's working!

aren't you happy yet?

#almost wrote the champagne line as ''effervescent'' but legit could not write it without saying ''effervescent like a snail'' #ah tumblr... #writeblr #warm up #idk . having trouble writing rn #ps i don't like to talk about it . it is my medical information. but before you ask. yes this is about being on the spectrum #i really don't like when ppl make my writing about how im [whatever ID]. i want it to ring true for the people who it rings true for #i don't want it to be like ''awwwww look at this person!!! she's the EXCEPTION!!! :)" ..... #no.... not really..... #idk something gross happens whenever i admit to certain conditions and i turn into like inspiration p*rnography #like yes they actually let us use keyboards these days #furthermore i just... dont feel comfortable talking about this part of me. i had too bad of a childhood. adhd is one thing... #this one im like. still coming to terms with. which is like. my own journey. #idk. just please be kind. some things are more private than others. this one feels private to me. #i do not know how to help others w/this . and i do not know how to help myself. i will talk about it if im ever ready. idk if that will #actually ever happen #ty in advance i love u im kissing you we are kissing somewhere on the spectrum

[indeedgoodman]

#art #humanity #kindness #people being people #society #human beings #faith in humanity #india #cleaning #life hacks #tips #how to #love #life #hope #feeling #emotions #existence #reality #real life

[gibbearish]

love when ppl defend the aggressive monetization of the internet with "what, do you just expect it to be free and them not make a profit???" like. yeah that would be really nice actually i would love that:)! thanks for asking

#yes i want things to be free like ??? that is not a weird desire #'but but it costs money to keep up' ok and? how is that my problem #the government has plenty of murder dollars they could reallocate a few to make internet services universal if they wanted #also these companies were perfectly capable of supporting themselves before the internet got drowned with ads so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ #edit: muting notifs on this post bc new additions have kind of petered out #so no one feel bad about adding something someone else has said‚ it is not bothering me im just trying to keep my #notifs page cleanish lol #also since i saw some people are being redirected to read my tags: firstly hiiiiii this is a special secret message for you:3 #secondly i have learned since making this that the reason they were able to support themselves previously was because #of investors bankrolling everything #and theyre now finally realizing that theyre never going to actually make a profit and arent as willing to invest #however thats just a minor correction and doesnt change my overall point #once again. so many murder dollars #so thats why im just adding it here in the tags rather than making an actual correction #anyways . love yall 💕 #origibberish #bigger gibbers

[fefairys]

getting real fed up with my peers treating teenagers like shit. how did you forget so fucking quickly what it's like to be them. shame on you.

#this is about people my age getting into internet discourse with teenagers #and calling them stupid and overall belittling them and being a jerk to them #like. literally just block them if they are being a shithead #teenagers are shitheads sometimes #youre not going to change them #they need to grow up on their own #and an adult making fun of them isnt going to help #in fact it is going to hinder the process #if you want to try to help you need to be kind #if theyre not receptive to that and are still being an asshole then it is not worth it #and you need to go do something else with your time #you are a fucking adult

[jingyismom]

Really hoping this doesn’t make me come across as a creeper but: I love your blog and how much you appreciate fanart, so when I saw this I thought you should see it in case you haven’t. https://lena-point.tumblr.com/post/688223519431180288/and-they-were-mad-scientist-buddies-who-saved-each

IT MOST SURELY DOES NOT!! I adore that I successfully express how deranged I am about fanart, including this one!! It's one of my favorite arts of all time, it's STUNNING!!!

Link here!!

In fact, when I saw it last month it gave me huge satisfaction and hope to know that people are still creating mind-blowing work for this fandom. Like, that's obvious, I reblog beautiful work every day, but this one hit me at a particularly Tired life moment and sparked some much-needed joy.

Thank you so much for thinking of me with this!!!! It's made me so happy, plus it's given me an excuse to share the art itself again ❤️❤️

#asked and answered #kind people being kind #fanart is the blood and the life

[campingwiththecharmings]

If you receive this, you make somebody happy! Go on anon and send this to 10 of your followers who make you happy or somebody you think needs cheering up. If you get one back, even better. 🩵💜🩷🖤🩶🤍

aw wow, thank you, nonnie 🥹❤️

#asks #kind people being kind

[dean-winchester-is-a-warrior]

Hello Dear

Been addicted to your page lately

Love the Dean fics

So about the Fatal Attraction request

Maybe could you write soft dark fatal attraction of Michael Dean towards Dean’s Gf..one of the more reason he doesn’t wanna leave the vessel…

Ok bye bye

Xoxo💖

Omg! Thanks so much! I'm so glad you're enjoying my little space on the interwebs. 😁

I'm sorry, but the Fatal Attraction swuare was already scooped up. But I love this idea so much, and I've never written anything for Michael!Dean before! So, I'm gonna write it anyway. It won't be part of the bingo, and it might take me a little bit, but if you don't mind that, then I'm really looking forward to writing it. 😊

Thanks, sweetie!

#kind people being kind #request ask #ooh! michael!dean #*rubs hands sinisterly* #cant wait!

[live-from-flaturn]

Happy birthday, tadgh!🤍💛I hope you get to do something that makes you happy today!🥳

I got a blue raspberry slurpee and 3 people complimented my tiger print Hawaiian shirt at the craft store so today has been awesome!!! Thank you so many!!! 💚😭🥹

#tadhgs birthgay celebration #sobbing openly in the club (my living room) #kind people being kind

[whetstonefires]

You know what I realize that people underestimate with Pride & Prejudice is the strategic importance of Jane.

Because like, I recently saw Charlotte and Elizabeth contrasted as the former being pragmatic and the latter holding out for a love match, because she's younger and prettier and thinks she can afford it, and that is very much not what's happening.

The Charlotte take is correct, but the Elizabeth is all wrong. Lizzie doesn't insist on a love match. That's serendipitous and rather unexpected. She wants, exactly as Mr. Bennet says, someone she can respect. Contempt won't do. Mr. Bennet puts it in weirdly sexist terms like he's trying to avoid acknowledging what he did to himself by marrying a self-absorbed idiot, but it's still true. That's what Elizabeth is shooting for: a marriage that won't make her unhappy.

She's grown up watching how miserable her parents make one another; she's not willing to sign up for a lifetime of being bitter and lonely in her own home.

I think she is very aware, in refusing Mr. Collins, that it's reasonably unlikely that anyone she actually respects is going to want her, with her few accomplishments and her lack of property. That she is turning down security and the chance keep the house she grew up in, and all she gets in return may be spinsterhood.

But, crucially, she has absolute faith in Jane.

The bit about teaching Jane's daughters to embroider badly? That's a joke, but it's also a serious potential life plan. Jane is the best creature in the world, and a beauty; there's no chance at all she won't get married to someone worthwhile.

(Bingley mucks this up by breaking Jane's heart, but her prospects remain reasonable if their mother would lay off!)

And if Elizabeth can't replicate that feat, then there's also no doubt in her mind that Jane will let her live in her house as a dependent as long as she likes, and never let it be made shameful or awful to be that impoverished spinster aunt. It will be okay never to be married at all, because she has her sister, whom she trusts absolutely to succeed and to protect her.

And if something eventually happens to Jane's family and they can't keep her anymore, she can throw herself upon the mercy of the Gardeners, who have money and like her very much, and are likewise good people. She has a support network--not a perfect or impregnable one, but it exists. It gives her realistic options.

Spinsterhood was a very dangerous choice; there are reasons you would go to considerable lengths not to risk it.

But Elizabeth has Jane, and her pride, and an understanding of what marrying someone who will make you miserable costs.

That's part of the thesis of the book, I would say! Recurring Austen thought. How important it is not to marry someone who will make you, specifically, unhappy.

She would rather be a dependent of people she likes and trusts than of someone she doesn't, even if the latter is formally considered more secure; she would rather live in a happy, reasonable household as an extra than be the mistress of her own home, but that home is full of Mr. Collins and her mother.

This is a calculation she's making consciously! She's not counting on a better marriage coming along. She just feels the most likely bad outcome from refusing Mr. Collins is still much better than the certain outcome of accepting him. Which is being stuck with Mr. Collins forever.

Elizabeth is also being pragmatic. Austen also endorses her choice, for the person she is and the concerns she has. She's just picking different trade-offs than Charlotte.

Elizabeth's flaw is not in her own priorities; she doesn't make a reckless choice and get lucky. But in being unable to accept that Charlotte's are different, and it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with Charlotte.

Because realistically, when your marriage is your whole family and career forever, and you only get to pick the ones that offer themselves to you, when you are legally bound to the status of dependent, you're always going to be making some trade-offs.

😂 Even the unrealistically ideal dream scenario of wealthy handsome clever ethical Mr. Darcy still asks you to undergo personal growth, accommodate someone else's communication style, and eat a little crow.

#hoc est meum #pride and prejudice #elizabeth bennet #charlotte lucas #meta #charlotte is a much less sociable person than lizzie #so avoiding her husband most of the time and not seeking out his company is more viable for her! #she also has more patience for people being wrong #partly i think because she kinds checks out and lets them get on with it which lizzie isn't too great at even with her mother #people have different needs like that's a thing okay #marriage #spinsterhood #pragmatism #like if elizabeth had to listen to collins talk for a few months straight she would be nearly insane with rage #he's not just a low-quality man he's a man designed to be the worst for her specifically #also note that because jane's marriage is elizabeth's fallback plan #darcy screwed her over personally by interfering between her and bingley #she ofc does not bring this up how could she #but it's intensifying the anger during the hunsford rejection i think

[joaquinwhorres]

Hope you're doing well! Here, have a cupcake 🧁😇

eep thank you!!! I love cupcakes

#sunshine #kind people being kind