#just as a reminder

[ambrosethedarling]

MY SHINING STARRRRR

#he is the light of my life #glow boy #sunshine #starlight #literally all of it #baby boy baby #trans duke thomas #just as a reminder #my Duke is trans #ambrose art #duke thomas #the signal dc #batman comics

[heymacy]

hello little stars ✨ happy monday and welcome to Joy List Week!

if you’re like me and you’ve been going through it lately, you know how hard it can be to find pockets of joy in the everyday. but they’re there, and they matter, and identifying them and acknowledging them can sometimes make all the difference. so let’s do that, shall we? make one today, or tomorrow, or whenever inspiration strikes, and tag me so we can all share in each other’s happy little moments. i love you all 💛

finding new music that hits just right 🎶

movie nights

french toast & eggs benedict

otters

cloudy, rainy, cozy days 🌧️

warm towels straight out of the dryer

sweet habanero Cholula 🌶️

new furniture and decor

string lights ✨

squishmallows

ice cold water on hot days 🧊

chicken caesar salads

red light kisses 💋

Marshall’s & TJ Maxx trips

therapy

traveling to visit loved ones ✈️

long hugs

art museums

when my cats greet me at the door after a long day

air conditioning ❄️

waking up to ao3 kudos & comment emails

new plants 🪴

making other people smile and laugh

when the group chat pops off

“good morning, i love you” ☀️

sharing secrets

iced vanilla chai lattes

friendship

relentless, unwavering hope 💛

“Joy is not made to be a crumb.” — Mary Oliver

i’m tagging @gardenerian, @iansfreckles, @ewanroys, @metalheadmickey, @heymrspatel, @whatwouldmickeydo, @gallawitchxx, @whatthebodygraspsnot, @howlinchickhowl, @sleepyfacetoughguy, @vintagelacerosette, @y0itsbri, @squidyyy23, @sickness-health-all-that-shit, @7x10mickey, @energievie, @captainjowl, @crossmydna, @palepinkgoat, @thisdivorce, @creepkinginc, @mishervellous, @shameless-notashamed, @xninetiestrendx, @deedala, @deathclassic, @purplemagpie, @rereadanon, @whaticameherefor, @tectonicduck, @too-schoolforcool, @auds-and-evens, @ardent-fox, @arrowflier, @callivich, & @grumble-fish 💫

#*joylist #☀️🌻🌟🌙💛💫 #i told my therapist about joy lists and she said i should make a little one every week #just as a reminder #and i agree

[eros-vigilante]

#palestine #just as a reminder

[saurons-pr-department]

Melkor/Mairon is ADHD, Autism solidarity

#just as a reminder #i do not have the energy to find my old post to reblog so just made a new one

[mvnsvn6]

forgetting to draw on steves moles is punishable by guillotine

#this is @ myself btw bc i totally almost posted something and then realized #but yk #just as a reminder #steddie #stranger things

[shining-star-system]

Just as a general post and reminder that if I say something and you don’t agree with it, that’s fine! But also realize that I won’t continue interactions if you’re an endo/tulpa/whatever -genic that isn’t OSDDID related and support endos or other things like them.

All of my posts are experiences we face and witness. Not everything will be “up to date” on endogenics or things surrounding them.

If you want to show me something, site credible sources and I’ll make sure that we’re educated, otherwise, take it as it is. An experience.

No one will change our views on endos and supporters. I will never support them, none of us will.

You’re all free to block my blog and move on. But also respect my DNI about endos/tulpas/demos/etc and those supporters not interacting with me rather than coming out of the woodworks.

If you have a genuine question regarding our views or something else, by all means, ask away and we’ll answer. But we won’t change our views on endos.

#endos dni #dni endos #shiningstarspeaks #just as a reminder

[felixcosm]

"If Edgar's eyes go red, he's going scorched earth until he gets what he wants."

— Episode 80

#woe.begone #just as a reminder #given the current season #wbg spoilers #wbg edgar

[kitweewoos]

letting go and starting over

Summary:

After Natalie is fired and Will returns to Chicago Med, Crockett reaches out and starts something new.

Ship: Will Halstead/Crockett Marcel

Rating: Teen and Up Audiences

Archive Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply

Words: 3,044

Written as part of @yearoftheotpevent​

Additional Tags:

Alternate Universe - Canon Divergence

Queer Crockett Marcel

Gay Will Halstead

Friends to Lovers

Past Relationship(s)

Past Abuse

First Kiss

Year of the OTP Prompt Event 2023

Coming Out

Starting Over

Developing Relationship

Past Will Halstead/Natalie Manning - Freeform

Past Crockett Marcel/Natalie Manning

Past Will Halstead/Matt Cooper - Freeform

[read it now on ao3]

#chicago med #cmed #one chicago #marcstead #crockett marcel #will halstead #discussions of past coopstead #mentions of abuse #year of the otp #yotp 2023 #wip yotp march #this is an anti manstead household #just as a reminder

[softboiledwonderland]

Props to the woman who's just given some terrible advice in a reality show I'm translating, and then, just as I was starting to judge her, was like "this might be terrible advice, but I'm not a therapist". Like yeah sure that's actually valid

#I feel like more people should hedge their advice with this lol #just as a reminder

[thane-emblem]

Sitting at my desk listening to my playlist having big blorbo thoughts <333 I love being alive

#not being ironic i really mean it #special thanks to muraken for being the Character Ever and popping back into my head every few years #just as a reminder #love that guy. i could put him in a terrarium and feed him lettuce and it would be so enriching for me #he's just. ive got essays in my head. animatics even. #this playlist is the one i made specifically for him too like he deserves it #not me being fully immersed in bg3 at all hours except daily Thinking About MuraKen Hours #isa's adventures

[mattyknees]

mutuals i am kissing you on the mouth btw

#just as a reminder #i love u all #my post

[abluehappyface]

syscourse & ☕️

This is going to be a long post, so bear with me.

The subject of syscourse is not something that I feel I'm well versed in as a singlet. Of course I can create and formulate opinions on the matter like most everyone else, but that doesn't mean I'm going to share them. As a singlet, I feel I don't have the jurisdiction to post anything system related, nor do I have the ability to engage in syscourse, as I don't meet the requirements necessary to be able to. This isn't me being difficult or stingy with my opinions by not offering them, this is me staying in my own lane. I will generate as many opinions as needed, but I likely will never publicly state them unprompted, unlike here, where I'm clearly being prompted to.

The main reason I don't want to engage in syscourse outside of being a singlet would be a lack of information. As of now I feel I'm simply spectating over those within the Plural community to try and gain as much information as I can without disrupting anyone, as it is not my place to do so. I'll maybe reblog an ask game tailored towards systems, but I'll make it very clear that I am not fit to participate. It's mostly me just silently passing information on about systems to the other systems that follow me (which is somewhere between 5-7 I think.) Once again, not going to interact where I don't feel I'm allowed to.

This is not a negative thing though. You, another set of mutuals, and so many others have helped me to learn about systems so much. Two years ago I literally knew nothing about systems, but today I'm learning so much so fast. I'd like to think I'm an ally to systems, though I cannot be certain, and really it's because of what I've been directly taught and what I've learned by sight within the Plural community. I've become a much more educated person because of my spectating.

Like with everything though, I can only speak for myself. What I do or don't know is and always will be a reflection of myself, and sometimes I'm going to get things wrong. I can't learn everything in one day, especially not when new information seems to be released frequently. I will try my best, but some things just won't be possible. This is no one's fault, but more of the cards we're dealt.

One thing that I'm absolutely NOT going to get into is anti-endo syscourse. By no means do I have enough information to make any sort of judgment when it comes to that. In all honesty, even if I did have enough information to debate in anti-endo syscourse, I don't think I'd want to. I'm not the kind of person to deal with online arguments anyway, especially not when I'm not a part of either community arguing. Online arguments also tend to be ill managed, just giving me one more reason to avoid them. If you're not going to be civil with your opinions, then I don't want to hear them.

I'm not trying to tell you or anyone else what to think. Quite the opposite actually. I'm telling you that I may not give you ANY headway into what I think, as I don't have the power to do that. I encourage everyone to think on their own, with as little output from outside sources as possible. If you should seek an outside source, take it as a suggestion, no a concrete answer.

Speaking of concrete answers, I don't have one for this question. It's not in my jurisdiction to give you one. Once again, as a singlet, I'm never going to have enough information to formulate something about something I may never experience. If anything I should be listening to what systems say and simply doing my best to understand it (and believe me I'm trying.) I'd like to give you my exact opinion word of word with absolutely no doubt about syscourse, but I can't do that right now. There's always going to be doubts in my mind about syscourse, and realistically, I don't plan on participating in any. Such is my nature as the "overthinking" singlet I am.

#asks #ask #ask game #ask meme #ask to tag #syscourse #system #systems #plural system #pluralistic #bluey's brain #bluey's bestie #bluey's friends #bluey's stuff #bluey's opinion #bluey's talking #bluey's rambling #just as a reminder #if you should chose to reply to this #i may not respond #as i may not have the authority to do so #keep it CIVIL in these notes

[vesicelestial]

if you have a question for us and would like it actually answered please send an ask! we tend not to reply to post replies due to this not being our main account and/or not seeing the reply and are much more likely to answer asks.

#n.txt #we also dont take requests #currently #just as a reminder

[lesbianralzarek]

"life doesnt get better, you just get stronger" does NOT include ages 11-17. life does in fact just get better from there. those years are dogshit. like, you do get stronger but its mostly just a factor of not being 11-17 anymore. positive thinking helps but it doesnt fix whatevers going on at 15, you have to brute force through that one raw

#i originally posted this as just a 'hey remember how fuckin bad middle/highschool was? shit was wild' type post but now #there are a bunch of teens in the notes being like 'oh my god are you serious? it gets better? im not stuck in hell forever??' #and im reminded that the only people who told teenage ella 'it gets better' were speakers at mental health assemblies #aka the least relatable people alive who were seemingly born to lie to you #so. uh. yeah im a certified adult who isnt here to lie or sugarcoat the realities of being a teenager #the only thing more certain than the pain is the transcience

[koddlet]

personal rules for winter ❄

#this was fun bc i didn't intend for it to be kind of cryptic #i just wanted to make some reminders for myself about winter cuz i never learn #especially the back cover which i guess isn't really a rule but still stands. i'm in a rural place so when it gets dark it's Dark #and its hard to want to do anything #zine #mini zine #illustration #nonfandom #analogue art

[a1sart]

if there's one thing this last episode has affirmed for me about Alastor it's that he FUCKING HATES being reminded that he's not the most powerful creature in hell.

Like, he hates being ignored by Carmilla when she says she doesn't care why he was gone

He hates Lucifer ON SIGHT

He threatens to KILL Husk when he dares to mention that Alastor is working for someone more powerful than him

and now this.

Alastor freaking out because he almost died. Something almost killed him. He can fucking die. There is something more powerful than him out there. And it's not something he can ignore or brush off because it almost killed him.

Alastor hates the reminder that he's not as powerful as he tells people he is. He isn't indestructible, he isn't invincible. And he fucking hates that.

#hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel spoilers #al talks about things #OUUGH HE'S MAKIN ME INSANE #he isn't blorbo yet #but he could be #anyway I've seen people say that he's freaking out because he's realizing he maybe does care #No???? that's not it??? #He's scared because he just got the shit beat out of him by an angel??? #He got reminded that there are things out there that are more powerful than him? #that's why he immediately jumps to trying to figure out a way out of his deal #because he wants to get out from under whoever is more powerful than him!!! #hazbin hotel alastor #hazbin alastor