#if ppl unfollow me after this

[wakanai]

do you ever get that feeling where you wonder if a person actually hates you? CAUSE as a chronic overthinker, I can say that it absolutely sucks 🤡🤡 like PLS if you dislike me or anything I said or if I make you uncomfortable, just unfollow. I don't care if we're mutuals or anything. LIKE LEGIT I WONT GET MAD I'LL ACTUALLY APPRECIATE YALL FOR BEING REAL TT. and it's not personal so i 100% understand. i unfollow blogs too. PLUS even if you unfollow, as long as i like ur posts ill still keep following you lol. unless you block me which- again, ill understand.

#random ramblings #pookie bear pls #make it clear LOL #saying this because of a friend and im kind of confused #like do you not dislike me or am i just overthinking things? #why are you still following me TT TT TT #if ppl unfollow me after this #im actually going to be relieved because im glad they're honest #overthinking #random overshare but an acc i follow actually blocked me recently #and i think its because of some memes i made as a reblog #like yeah i overshared a lot about myself #then got blocked by this acc #but its actually okay because ik its not personal #its not my problem i didnt do anything wrong they just dont like me from what i shared about myself and thats fine #what gets me is when someone who's been giving hints of disinterest still continues to follow me #like cmmon man PLS be straightforward about it so i can move on already #dont give me false hope lol

[tariah23]

oooooo white people in my replies really saying ‘I can excuse racism but I draw the line at homophobia’

Not surprised since this is the site that only talks about racism and thinks it’s a big deal when they see it demonstrated in the cartoons and comics they like *coughs* dungeonmeshi *coughs* (for example at least. I haven’t seen THIS many white ppl talk as in depth about racism on here as much as these fandom nerds, man. I stg. Like “Ohhhh, so you all DO acknowledge that racism is real? Just not in real life even if you could feel it slapping you in the face at high speed. Gotcha.” It’s crazy.

Tumblr is like, 90% white and is extremely centered around them. That’s why you barely see stuff that’s important to black and brown people ever trending here or being talked about. It has to be something incredibly huge to the point where even white people can’t ignore it like they usually do, to talk about it here.

They only talked about George Floyd here because the topic of his death became world news. Even people in other countries were talking about it. Before him, it was probably Ferguson and Trayvon Martin… most of them are still trying their best to ignore the genocides because it’s a “touchy subject.” What do you expect from white people who live in their own bubbles of comfort and refuse to pop it with a needle??? They find comfort in their privilege and faux ignorance (they love playing stupid to avoid conversations about important things outside of fandoms like, are these mfs born with half a brain dedicated to fandom or what.) That’s literally all these mfs make a big deal out of, especially on this annoying ass platform. The ao3 mfs will go to war for the site that allows racist ff and cp like it’s no big deal. I wonder how many people here even donated to the site while actively scrolling past dono posts from folks who really do need help. They act like they’re doing a civil service by defending this site that makes over the amount of it’s intended dono goal in minutes.

Then you already know as soon as you even bring up racism in the stuff they like, they start ganging up and harassing black bloggers especially, calling them TERFs and the whole nine. Anything to make that person look bad for being concerned about the racism that they have such an intense aversion to. God, it’s absolutely exhausting knowing that these people would have no problem choosing a cartoon character over your entire existence if they COULD. Isn’t that fucking sad, man?

#:( #it’s like what can you do #as a black person I get why sm black bloggers here have ‘don’t follow me if you’re white’ in their bios #they’ll call it racist or whatever (it’s fucking not you guys just treat black ppl like shit here and most of us feel unsafe to interact #with y’all. you guys always turn on us at the drop of a hat) #i remember commenting on a HS post funny enough years ago #because the punchline of the post was literally the white mfs saying nigga #and I was so annoyed that I told them off and one of my white mutuals unfollowed meanjsjsjsl #like right after that #and another unfollowed me because I talk about racism and the like a lot like this is a really well known artist too so I was like 🧍🏾‍♀️? #because I talk about racism a lot??? it’s weird lol #like they’ll tolerate you for a while then when they feel offended they start to act weird and act like you’re not supposed to talk about #the stuff that effects you #tkf replies #karmelarts #they don’t give a shit about anything if it doesn’t personally Involve them #they act like they can’t relate to anyone or anything it they aren’t marginalized themselves (being gay or trans which they treat as a #personality trait) #notice how you never see movies/ shows about black and brown ppl trending here? it’s always white centered shit no #matter how hot and popular that show might be #you’ll never see something like the wire snowfall or power trending here #all of the black ppl are on twitter anyway so #sm black ppl got ran off of here by annoying white ppl

[tsunochizu]

I know this is not what all of you followed me for but deal with it

Ragequit head bonk

#my art #rainworld shipping #rw shipping #rw ragequit #nsh x fp #I know I write em as angry at each other in btts but in btts EVERYONE HAS ISSUES SO #let me vibe #rainworld #rain world #I have three moods which are #write funni fixit #what if everything went wrong in fixit au #and ragequit brainrot #every (Good and not weird) ragequit shipper is my friend now I don't make the rules #(it does not apply for people who are bad people or hc them WEIRDLY etc etc just don't be garbage is what am saying) #those two make me throw things their dynamic is the best to write no matter the au #whenever btts chapter is delayed am probably writing oneshots that will never see the light of day #I wonder if ppl will unfollow me after this smh they didn't come here for shipping content

[arrietty-rune]

Sometimes i feel useless and annoying

#//vent #my vent art is... normal sometimes like this one so okay to rb but idk might delete later or removing the tags #i use a lot the wilsons as confort ch actually #idk sometime i feel like i'm not that appreciated in the fandom idk despite my heart know it's wrong #i think it just bc i overthink about some tawog artists that i enjoyed giving support for months but they never interacted with me #and for one of them their art and cute doodles helped me in personal stuff + brought me back to tawog fandom #and i hoped to make them smile with my art but.. yeah they just... don't care after these months #I get sad and disappointed that now they art send just... /neg vibes so i unfollowed them #idk i just feel guit that i made them upset for... unknown reasons #sigh i should just don't care about that and keep to draw dor myself #cringy or not #i'm mostly an optimistic person but overthink a lot when i feel anxious haha #i'll be probably smile and enjoy life again tomorrow #if ppl wanna talk or sending cute ask ye you can #talking with ppl help me to confort so feel free

[cosmobrain00]

fun difference- owl would blow someone to get wht he wants n keith would kill them to get wht he wants

#not tht anyone asked but yk #dont be a fake fan n ignore this post bc ik sm do w these #just like the four ppl who unfollowed me almost right after tht hate sex post.. hm #also still doesnt give ppl the right to water owl down to a simp but I digress<3

[ferretwhomst]

rb for sample size :-)

#ferret rambles #i feel like ppl are gonna start unfollowing me after that 5th option #uh oh :-D

[kenobihater]

it's always rlly funny coming back from a break from this hellsite bc i usually accumulate followers in my months long absences, but as soon as i start posting my opinions and hottakes i lose like 10+ followers within a few days 🫶🏼

#i'm not gonna stop tbh bc it's my blog and i'm inherently an opinionated bastard :) #as a teen i used to be pretty afraid of offending mutuals and longtime followers but now that i'm a certified hater and a block #button addict? I Understand Now. unfollowing someone who you don't vibe w/ or blocking annoying ppl is so cathartic! #i havent cared abt followers since i hit like 500 on this blog yrs back. most of my followers are probs inactive at this point so its just #a number. also i get less ppl sending me messages or asks after i shatter their conception that they know me by posting smthn they disagree #with. it's verging on parasocial when a loyal follower gets on my ass so that's always a bit annoying tbh #that said there's a BIG gap between calling me out on something i did wrong vs a simple difference of opinion abt like ao3 donations or #fandom drama in my mind. i welcome the former and actively disapprove of the latter. also: if you don't vibe with any of my opinions feel #free to unfollow or block!! i block a lot of ppl and you shouldn't feel like you HAVE to follow me if i start posting stuff you dislike! #i prommy i won't be offended in the least! #len speaks

[bylertruther]

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#The Drama^tm tht happened on byIertruther.edu.gov some time ago doesn't bother me but it does make me go :/ tht some ppl #whose presence i rly enjoyed unfollowed after tht and took a side bc it's like. if ppl tht i once praised are going to dislike me for #a vaguepost then can they at least dislike me over a real vaguepost and not a simple mike post that was misconstrued as one like 🫥🫥 #how was that mike post any different from my other mike posts 🤡 or any of the sword mike posts that have come out since! #like. okay. it's fine. it's just unfortunate lmao.

[benetnvsch]

(also real talk cuz ive been getting more bongostraydogs followers,, id appreciate it if u do not follow / unfollow / block me if u call urself/identify as a pr0shipper or ship things like 0dazai or fvkuran. obvs I can't (and entirely don't care to) 'police' what people post/like but I can control my own experience here so f u do follow or even interact w my posts and I notice it ur just gonna be blocked. these just personally make me very uncomfortable cuz of trauma so this is less of a request and more just an explanation why u may suddenly blocked after interacting ough-)

#I mean it is a request to those who go above and beyond to respect others boundaries but this is Tumblr the mental illness site after all - #KJHFKJHF obviously don't expect others to go out of their way for my own limits but that won't stop me from setting them and blocking those #-who's content makes me uncomfortable even if not malicious cuz I am silly and just wonna to enjoy my time here lol #and if u don't like/disagree with these boundaries feel free to unfollow/block too - even if we're close mutuals #(also if ur a mutual who is these things- aaaa I am politely requesting to be soft blocked/blocked entirely-even if we're close im sorry</3 #curate ur own space kings- but that also includes me setting my own boundaries #obvs im not gonna harass or witch-hunt ppl who do these (thatd be gross behavior on my end) but I can and will block them for my own comfor #this is my blog and I get to make the rules here KJFHFKJH- #kite's unfiltered brainthoughts

[hinatabestie]

this ao3 debacle is so annoying i log onto my socials and am forced to witness all the terminally online losers of the world crying pissing shitting their pants at the possibility of not being able to read child p*rn/incest on that site anymore. i feel like our civilized society is rly on its last legs

#idc abt ao3 i think it should get nuked #in the last few years its really turned into a cesspool of abo/cp/incestuous content #if we can agree tiktok is poisoning the minds of people why cant we agree ao3 does the same #if they took off all the cp/incest i wouldnt have a prob with it. but naur #and everyone who says this is 'an attack on qu33r ppl!!!!!' don't lump me in with u . #i hope all 'proshippers' unfollow me after this bye

[pepprs]

you will never be too old to find someone for you. society puts a lot of emphasis on dating in high school or right after but in reality the number of people who stay in those relationships untill marriage is low. real life doesnt prioritize those years! you are never done meeting people who will love you and you will love too. there is no timer ticking down. 24 is not too old, i promise.

i know you’re right 😞😞😞 idk why i have issues abt this bc most of the ppl i spend time w / follow on inst*gram (where i saw that post 🥴) / etc are at least a couple yrs older than me if not decades and also in most cases didn’t meet their person until they were around my age or older so it’s like why not enjoy the ride and just trust that it’ll all fall into place bc ur teens and 20s are definitely not as stable or happy or whatever as they’re made out to be sometimes. i think i just need to stop looking at social media that isn’t tumblr and find a different counselor and learn how to drive 😭

#asks #purrs #tysm for this though. also yes you’re so right it’s not just romantic love that matters and i definitely have a lot of friendships in my #life thst are legitimately the only things keeping me afloat and i will make new friends and cherish the exisitjgn friendships too. i think #i am ermmmm just a little mentally ill and need to unfollow some ppl LOL. like last yr i had a meltdown after watching an actress i like (🥴 #make a video abt how she just got engaged to her middle school sweetheart and instead of feeling hopeful (or u know… happy for her) i just #felt jealous and hopeless and that’s not good or fair bc she deserved that so much and it was not about me AT ALL! but yeah. idk what im #sayi ng im just in a bad mood and being insane. but ty for this reminder augh #also i will answer other asks eventually i promise i just saw this in my notifs and had the energy to reply. i have so many more and i will #get to them someday soon i hope. which reminds me another reason why i am scared iam foreveralone is bc i have the SMALLEST social battery #in the whole world and i just get overwhelmed by messages and hide without even opening them lol. but i appreciate them and i need to try t #get better. ok im typing a lot ummm embarrassing.. back to da dash #reminder

[23meteorstreet]

hey wouldn't it be soooooooooo funny if instead of being a sunny blog with a spaced url I changed my url to a sunny thing & started posting spaced all the time???

#i can feel ppl hitting the unfollow button as i type this lmaoo #how this was the only thing out of the 2386329 sunny & cornetto trilogy urls i typed in that wasn't taken will forever be a mystery to me #i have the perfect not sunny but charlie day url saved... #id have to fix the links on all my old gifsets but it might be worth it #jk id run out of things to post/rb after like a week 🥲 #the real joke here is pretending that im still a sunny blog & this isnt just my collection of random crap #(i do wanna come back to my gifsets eventually tho...)

[wtfcl0ud]

sees someone younger than me who i follow make a 'bad post' n it's like literally they're still learning i remember being 19 n i wanna see the growth that should happen. sees someone older than me who i follow make a 'bad post' ok blocked bye.

#hmmm #thts kinda ageism tho? #n like discriminatory ish #like age isnt a factor of maturity n knowledge n all tht #i mean the post is a generalized statement #but the instances where i block older ppl for ideas tht bother me #are usually after a long period of repeated behaviour n hving an idea other things abt them #i think the most like discriminatory one was someone with asd who's special interest is the royal family #they're sweet. n all n i loved their coloring but im sorry i dont want to see tht 😭😭😭 #i just unfollowed them n it's not like i thi k they're a bad person but im really not abt the royal family oof #cloud nonsense

[gurorori]

T_T i hve smth rly shameful 2 admit urgh

#i don think its DAT bad but it like.. questionable #i think ppl wld think me a freak <- is one #but ummm.. twitter. ykno when dat one 'clips dat go hard' acc was everywhere but it was actually jus liveleak typa shit jus ppl dyin n #gettin murdered #well ill b honest i gawt rly drawn to dat one when it was still up #OBVIOUSLY morbid curiousity i think its one of the things i literally operate on. on a molecular level dats me #but uh theres definitely a lot of shame dat comes with i jus feel Bad bad increasingly bad #but i console myself with the fact im not clownin on it unlike ppl in the replies makin light of it #but yeah after dat one gawt taken down i was... kinda desperate to find accs like it. so i DID n followed like a dozen #now disturbin videos of gore n murder pop up on my timeline often n i jus don have the patience to go n unfollow em all #cuz i kno ill get drawn into scrollin thru em again #2 MAKE MYSELF CLEAR i don derive sum kinda pleasure or satisfaction outta it #i jus get fixated on it n cant stawp n i KEEP LOOKIN #it makes me rly distressed cuz.. well. real life things like dat do scare me lots n i start spiralin badly...

[deathberi]

💩 ichiheeme on my dash ops should learn how to tag wtfff smh 💩

#im sorry if you like bleach its most likely i wont follow you #reminds me of when i look of animanga blogs to follow… but they have 1 ih reblog so they fail the test no matter the 99% seemingly- #overlapping interests we have #i have i think 3 mutuals who failed way after i followed them and im always so tempted to unfollow but theyre alr proven nice ppl im so torn #あああ面倒くさい🥱

[commajade]

there's a few people in their early 30s on here mostly white people that i had been following since like 2013 or 2016 and rly admired for their posts about literature or music and when i became more active on here in 2020 some of them started following me back but something always happened where either i didn't like them anymore or we had a weird interaction that made them unfollow me or both idk why that happens. maybe i am just not meant to be mutuals with random people whose thoughts i have been reading since my formative years lol

#personal #i only still like 1 of the ppl that were briefly mutuals but then unfollowed me after a weird interaction lol #i was the one being weird i think #i thought i was right at the time