#diy packer harness

[whatdoidofromhere]

Day 23

So I made a packer harness. I haven’t found any harnesses that I liked and I didn’t make a pouch though. It’s like a jockstrap but made out of a thong.

Here are some of the steps of anyone else wants to try or even improve upon. This is version three just fyi.

Fist I cut lines across the front where the hem will be (black lines) and then cut along the white lines to make straps and slits for the shaft and sack to be out.

Then I moved the use to be crotch straps to fit around my hips to secure the prosthetic to my pubic area

The finished product should look like this

Now I do have to hem stuff it up but let’s be honest sewing isn’t easy lol I’ll do it another day.

I do want to improve the design so let me know if y’all have any tips or tricks or ideas.

#ftm #ftm trans #genderfluid #nonbinary #trans journey #you’re not alone #transgender #packing #trans packers #diy packer harness #diy harness #trans harness #packer harness

[moe-broey]

They call me staple penis on account of. Well

#it's a good thing i don't travel bc tsa would HATE ME LMFAOOO #broader context is i have a stp silicone packer that's become a bit mishapen at the base/lip #where it connects to the body. due to how it sits w my harness (which. is handmade by eyeballing the website pics) #so it may not be ideal. but i am. resourceful 😤 #but bc it's misshapen in that way it would be DEVASTINGLY EASY. to make a dire blunder #tbh it is a learning curve and i have been. discouraged. from further attempts. #HOWEVER. one thing about me is that i will use jewelry wire for ANYTHING. but jewerly making in most cases LMFAOO #obvs i can't really show anything but. a little bit of jewerly wire seems to have corrected it! #lining the inside to fit the curve/push it outwards and folding the wire on the outside to hold it in place #placement IS everything here v intentionally picking areas where it wouldn't cause any issues functionally #and the. two slots where the wire folds on the outside. staple penis. #i'm not even bummed about it honestly this is fucking awesome. to me gender is ALL about diy. #and to be loved is to be changed. ect.

[genderqueerdykes]

i usually pack with a mr. limpy (and god do i wish it had a different name) which to my knowledge is still one of the most widely available & cheapest good packers on the market, but i also frequently use a nonhuman-looking silicone packer i got from a fantasy adult toy company. to keep my them in place i usually wear packing underwear i got online at transguysupply or wear harness underwear under boxer briefs.

packer info: packers can be made of several kinds of materials. most will require powdering (usually with some kind of starch) after cleaning to make sure they aren't sticky. silicone doesn't have this problem, but tends to be much stiffer than other materials and is more difficult to pack discreetly, though as long as it's ~5in or smaller it's not usually a big deal. if you're using a normal packer, things seem more natural if you shift the shaft to point towards one leg. if you're packing with a STP (stand-to-pee device) it's best to pack "up" towards your stomach instead.

packing info: packing underwear tends to be expensive if it's something you want to use daily. getting or creating a packing pouch (see: new york toy company & DIY tutorials online) you can pin in any underwear is much less expensive and has a similar effect.

it never occurred to me that there are Nonhuman packers and now i realized i definitely do want to get one LOL thank you so much, we really appreciate you taking the time to answer! the information is super helpful, and also we are glad to hear you found something that works for you! you are rad, take care

#asks #answers #packers #packing #information #save #resources

[pansyfemme]

Hello i am not new to being transgender but I am new to the packers- you posted about packing harness- what is that all about?

Is it like strapon but less thick? Where did you buy? Any tips or information about packing? What is material of fake penis?

So sorry for bad english is second language! Bright day and good health for you!

no problem! so a packer is different from a strap on as its not usually used for sex, it’s something you wear under your clothes. Like how a strap-on mimics an erect penis, a packer mimics a soft one. It’s usually squishy and soft to the touch, and most commonly made out of silicone. It may or may not be actually sculpted to resemble a penis. The purpose of a packer is so trans men and other people who lack a bulge in the front of their pants can have one. It essentially mimics how a soft penis looks under clothes. It can be extremely euphoric for people who have bottom dysphoria as it visually looks like they have a penis in their pants. I’ve had mine for six years, and i dont think the website i bought it off of even exists anymore tbh. You can get them on websites for trans goods, but also at sex toy shops. I got mine when i was thirteen, on advice of my gender doctor when i complained of bottom dysphoria. Specifically, i have a 4” Sport stp from number one laboratories. A stp is a varient of the packer idea that acts as a funnel so you can stand to pee. I don’t really use it as that anymore, though. There are also other varients, such as ones that allow to be used as a strap on as well and higher end ones usually referred to as prosthetics that are extremely lifelike to the point of passing as a cis penis (though these are usually very expensive due to being handmade) and ones that can work for peeing, packing, penetrative sex and mastrubation, tho those are usually also very expensive. Packing isnt by nature a sexual act, and people of all ages can pack. However, it can be a sexual thing for some people in some ways. Most people start packing with a pair of rolled up socks, and diy packer guides exist! And finally, a packing harness is just like a strap on harness but designed to be worn under clothes all day and to securely hold it in place, so theyre usually more comfy and shaped like boxers or jockstraps.

✌️ hope that was helpful

[mino2aur]

was supposed to be studying for an exam but i was thinking about making a packer harness cause mine didnt come with one and then that lead to me thinking about how i had a spare one cause the company accidentally sent me two and THAT got me thinking about how the gag i have doesnt fit me and THATT got me thinking about diy sex toys. anyway

ball gag

#those pins i got for free from a weed store. the fabric is a headband from walmart #yeah. i guess you could say im an artist

[orcgoth]

DIYed a "packer" harness and I'm mad I can't show litterally everyone BC it feels so hot lmao

#orc.txt

[strawberrybabydog]

Not sure if you answered this yet but do you have any other Pawsthetics in mind after your muzzle gets here? 👀 I'm SO EXCITED FOR YOU to get your muzzle in btw and all of my fingers are crossed that you'll get it asap on Monday

i mostly have the pawsthetics i want rly bad rn, but here's stuff im missing:

realistic ears headband

realistic matching tail OR belt harness tail (tail i have rn is a taxidermy keychain one - its fine but i want more options)

fursuit

black fuzzy leg warmers

paw shoes and paw socks (which will be DIY)

professionally made canine/werewolf teeth (i have diy ones rn)

canine packer

long black sharp acrylics!

muzzle - no like, a real muzzle. like "make ur dog shut up/dont bite" muzzle

bone-shaped chews

aesthetically pleasing paw padding

that septum ring dog nose thing, if it ever becomes real

a custom leather pup hood maybe? i dont really need one though and theyre very expensive so im unsure about this one

the rest of my physical transition is like, permanent body mods and stuff - but here's all the non-permanent ones. like i said i already have a lot of stuff that i like already so i didnt list things like "collar" here cuz i already have a bunch of em... although i do want more...

most of these things i actually already have saved on my etsy and i just can't afford them yet actually :0] so a lot of these things exist! if anyone wants links just ask!

#asks #pawsthetics #personal #woof #werewolf posting

[calamitys-child]

Im a trans guy and was wondering - do you have any advice on like, where to start with packing in general or more specifically buying a packer? No worries of not, have a good day:)

Absolutely I do! Divided below into three sections for ease of perusal, feel free to ask if you need anything else! Nothing in good faith is automatically off limits, if its one of the rare cases I'm uncomfortable I'll let you know and no hard feelings :)

UNDERWEAR: You can buy packer specific underwear, but it's frequently a bit pricy. I personally use one of two methods. If you buy boxers with what's described as a Keyhole Front (I get mine from Primark usually) the front will be made of two overlapping layers, in between which is a pocket that fits a packer well. If you're a little more into your DIY, you can sew a pocket into the front easy enough - there's plenty of simple tutorials online, I'm currently tipsy but if you want to remind me later I'll show you how I make mine specifically. Both have slight differences and pros and cons but they're more or less interchangeable in my experience, no major differences. You can also buy strap on harnesses that take the form of boxers with an O-ring in the front, which I have never personally used for daily packing but which I've heard vouched for as a good option. Places to buy: primark, spectrum outfitters

PACKERS: I, and almost everyone I know, started with a pair of socks. A packer doesn't have to be a specific thing, it's just anything that creates a realistic bulge in your underwear. Socks work well! Highly recommend them, especially if you're on a budget or not out to folk who you live with. You can also get foam packers, basically a sort of padded semicircle (is there a word for dome but oval?) which does the job. I have one that I use sometimes, it's not my favourite but it's good and cheap. My first penis-shaped one was the Mr Limpy XS (3.5 inch), which is great but you have to position it carefully so it doesn't look like you have a boner - I recommend packing 'up', ie having the shaft part pointing up the way, with that. I recently got a Calexotics 4inch which is good, a bit more solid and it Feels much larger. One thing worth noting is that the Mr Limpy is 3.5 inch measured from like. The back of the balls/the longest possible length whereas the Calexotics is 4inch measured from where the shaft and scrotum separate, if that makes sense. If measured the same way it would be 3.5 vs 6inch or 2.5 vs 4inch approximately. Types of packer are up to personal preference, the one piece of advice I'd give is never go higher than a small - these are made by people who think "8 inches is average, right?". Trust me, bigger than a small for daily wear will almost certainly just be uncomfortable. Places to buy: spectrum outfitters, most places that sell sex toys and similar

ACCESSORIES, and no I don't mean the fact I impulsively gave myself a prince albert through a packer, though that is very fun and I do recommend it. Basically, I've just talked about packers that only act as packers, cause that's all I use and I dinnae know much about anything else. You can get STP (stand to pee) packers which, as the name suggests, let you use the bathroom standing up ie at a urinal. You can also get things known as Pack And Play, meaning they can be used in sex. "Play" is also occasionally divided into referring to things you can use sexually with a partner and things which provide sexual stimulation to the wearer, but again, I can't give personal advice on those. Places to buy: I only know Peecock and Reelmagik which are SUPER fancy and expensive, but I know cheaper and easier ones def exist

There will be a deal of footering about involved, but that's normal! I discovered today that I need a smaller/tighter pouch to hold my calexotics one than my Mr limpy and had to improvise by using a safety pin to make the pouch smaller as a quick fix. Also, unless its legitimately a whole strap on, nobody is staring as much as you think they are, I promise.

Good luck and have fun in finding a kind of packing that works for you!!

#Trans stuff

[fatmasc]

Fat/Plus Size Transmasc Resources and Advice

recently i’ve been doing a lot of research about packers, and I’ve noticed that a lot of the info out there isn’t made with fat transmascs in mind. Well, i’m a fat transmasc, and I want to help out with that. Please keep in mind that I am pre-T, pre-top, and am speaking mostly from personal experience! this post will probably be long, so info is below the cut. At the end, please feel free to add more advice or something i have missed.

1. Underwear

Packing underwear is important, but most of the styles are jockstraps or short briefs. I cant stand when my thighs rub together, so i only wear boxer briefs with the longest inseam i can find. Which brings me to Woxer. Woxer is a brand that makes boxers for women (ppl with vaginas is what they mean, but theyre marketing is focused on women, so just a heads up.) this underwear is soft, stretchy, durable, and available in 3 inseam lengths and sizes up to 3XL. this is great all-around underwear and i swear by it. of course, if you are interested in packing, woxer is not packing underwear, which brings me to

2. Packing gear

Edit: I have now posted a tutorial on how to make your own packing pouch! stronger than the ones i’ve found online!

Packing underwear is expensive, but harnesses and magnetic pouches are much cheaper and can be used with any kind of underwear. Looking through some reviews, some people say that the magnets on the pouches are not all that strong, but you can still pin the pouch to your underwear. of course, it is even easier to DIY this and sew up your own packing pouch that you pin to your underwear. I have not personally tried either, but both seem like better investments that shelling out $40 for one pair of dick underwear

3. Binding

We all know gc2b has a great size range, but for plus size ppl i really urge you to check out shapeshifters. you can get every measurement of your binder custom made to your size, as well as multiple other things added. Shapeshifters is also great because theyre full length binder can be pretty effective in keeping feminine-looking lovehandles in check. I will admit, theyre one of the more expensive binders out there.  There’s nothing wrong with going with gc2b since it’s cheaper, but if theyre sizes don’t cut it for you then peruse shapeshifters and see if you can find something you can save up for in the meantime

Another tip for binding- the bigger you are, the more difficult it is to get flat. Medium-impact sports bras have been my go to for days i need to look flatter but cant stand to bind. With a loose shirt and maybe a jacket if its cold my chest looks the same as it does in a binder.

4. Hygiene

it’s the summer. youre wearing a binder, a tshirt, and a denim vest, because youre trans. Youre sweating your silicone balls off. That happens, it’s normal, but it means you need to shower when you get home. please. Ive never thought that the hygiene of a fat person needs to be different, but given our extra weight and rolls and such it’s important to consider. fat girl flow has a good article on different products she uses as a fat person, but take it with a grain of salt and think about the stuff that would really help you (eyeing those bra sweat liners for binder sweat) (also make sure you wash your binder)

5. Packers

Really my only thing to say here is, youre a bigger guy. get a bigger dick. Don’t go crazy, but keep that in mind when youre eyeing the 3 in mr limpy. also if you can’t afford a brand new top quality packer, check out NewYorkToyCollective on etsy. They sell silicone packers with air bubbles and other minor flaws for a reduced price

6. Support

Know your friends, know who cares, know who isnt telling you that you’d ““““pass better if you lost weight”“““. youre a handsome, wonderful person, and your weight doesn’t dictate your presentation or your transness.

#transmasc #transmasculine #transgender #trans guy #nonbinary #plus size #plus size trans #plus size resources #fat #fat trans #fat nonbinary

[nothorses]

hi! its the teen trans guy anon back again, first off thank u so much for responding!! it was great to like, hear ur perspective on it yknow? anyway, like, the whole thing is that my mother cancelled therapy after i came out, because i came out to her at a meeting w my therapist :/. also, i dont live in the US, im in switzerland, i should have made that more clear. also, this is kinda weird to ask but do u have any tutorials on how to make a packer? i have a binder and guys clothes, but my bottom dysphoria is the worst of all rn.

anywho, this is getting long, thank u again man

No, that’s not on you to clarify! I have the most experience with U.S. stuff, and tend to go digging for that first, but I know that’s not where everyone’s at. That info does help, though; I poked around a little more for some local organizations, including TGNS and Milchjugend, and found lists of more here and here (I’m a little limited here in that I don’t know the language, so you might want to dig more on your own or with some other help).

I really recommend getting in touch with folks at an organization with specific experience helping trans youth (or trans people in general, if that’s not possible), and asking about your legal rights and what resources they might be able to help with.

As far as packers go, here’s a video tutorial, here’s a written tutorial, and here’s a different DIY packer model. You can use safety pins to secure them in place, or look into harnesses through the website that second link is on. You might also consider STP devices if bathrooms are causing you trouble!

I’m sorry your mom’s withdrawn you from therapy; revoking access to mental health care because she disagrees with the opinion of the mental health professional is fully unethical and cruel, and you deserve better.

If you do feel mental health resources are helpful to you, this forum thread has a discussion that might be helpful. Anything you can do for your mental health while you have to deal with this is important.

I really hope you can find some support & resources and stick through this tough time. Things will get easier someday, especially once you’re old enough to have some control and autonomy in your own life- I know adulthood did a lot for me there, scary as it is sometimes. It seems like a long way off, but it’ll be worth the wait! And I hope you get at least some of the things you need before then, too. 

You got this, dude.

#advice #Anon #Ask

[realtransfacts]

I'm a trans man and I think I want a packer/probably a packer/STP, but I don't want one that looks really realistic because dicks kinda gross me out?

Maybe something from here could be useful for you?

Pee standing up without a STP

DIY fabric packer

How to make your own Harness

How to Pack with a Sock

Shewee (mostly aimed at cis women but still good!)

If any of my followers have any other suggestions for anon, please feel free to add to this post!

#Anonymous #stp #packer #trans #transgender

[genderqueerdykes]

Hey this is for the packing post. I couldn’t for the life of me tell you what brand of packer I have but in terms of comfortability and ease, how I normally pack is I literally shove it in a sock and safety pin it to my underwear. It’s cheaper than buying lots of packing underwear/gear. You can get it positioned well in a spot where it’ll mostly stay, and you don’t feel the silicone against your skin. It does move around sometimes, but I think dicks just do that anyway lol

that's smart! i know a lot of ppl who have DIY harnesses that come in all kinds, i've definitely heard from a few ppl who have done the same thing i think that's clever. (takes notes)

thank you so much for your help! use & harness tips are definitely helpful even if u don't know the brand of ur packer! thank u so much, also we hope u have a wonderful day! stay safe, take care

#asks #answers #packing #ftm #trans men #trans man #enby #nonbinary #resources #information #save

[spiralsketchbook]

Harness tutorial

I have a packer (mr limpy) but im poor and so dont have a harness. Been using briefs and tight pants to hold her in place but ya know what? I hate briefs. I always have and always will. So im diying a harness. Heres my tutorial. Forgive the lighting, my lamp was facing Frankie cuz he needed light.

Fair warning: there will be a penis shown towards the end of this cuz im 18 now and can show it

These are the two main pieces (Im poor i dont have a safety pin so im using a bobby pin deal with it)

The big one is the elastic band from a pair of Dr. Seuss boxers that I took out of commission due to wear and tear. The smaller piece is a cut from the side of those same Dr. Seuss boxers.

I cut the loop thing out like this

Then looped it like this, using my peen to figure out how big the loop should be:

You want the loop snug around the peen, or itll hang wonky.

You're gonna wanna sew it rather than safety pin it cuz i promise you itll fall apart within the week if its just pinned. Sew it better than i did- my sewing skills came from my own brain and they do the job but arent pretty so im not gonna give you tips on that besides try to keep your stitches even.

Attach that shit like this:

Insert peen:

Then youre done. Dr. Seuss flavored harness.

This isnt permanent, i just need it for the next month or so. Just until i get a jock strap or make a pouch-harness. Ill post how i make the pouch harness when i make it. Cheers goodnight love you

#ftm #ftm packer #transboy #bottom dysphoria

[the-ensemble-system]

I just!!! spent three hours sewing myself a diy harness for our packer!!!!!

I’m so happy!!!!!!!! I don’t sew much but I think I did a great job :) 

#kaelanspeaks #did/osdd #osdd #actually osdd #dysphoria #dysphoric #own post

[thetransgenderwiki]

Packing

Packing (verb): A term used to describe the use of a non-flesh penis.

Packing is, much like binding, most common for masculine presenting transgender people and partakers in drag. There are some who simply refer to their prosthetic/non flesh penis just as their penis - many can be used for sex and to pee while standing. There are three common methods of packing:

- DIY Packers: This is an affordable method of creating a bulge in one's trousers. Common DIYs include using socks to create a bulge, or filling a condom with hair gel and tying it off.

- Store bought packers/"Strap-ons": These are often found in adult stores. They come in a variety of sizes and skin tones, both cut and uncut. Some have testicles, can be used for sexual penetration, or can be used to stand and urinate. Most can be held in place by a jockstrap or harness.

- Prosthetic Penises These are made to look and feel like a typical cisgender penis, and is attached to your body with medical adhesive. Some models can be used for sexual penetration and/or urination while standing. However, these tend to more expensive than other packers.

As one may guess, most packers require cleaning, and usually come with the instructions to properly do so.

Potential Risks of Packing:

Consider wearing a condom if you are using a rubber or Cyberskin packer or prosthetic penis for sex, as it is possible to spread HIV and other STIs with them.

Some people experience skin irritation from the materials of packers. This can be helped by wearing two pairs of underwear, with the penis in between them, to protect your skin.

Others may have allergic reactions to the medical adhesive used for prosthetic penises.

Sources: - http://www.phsa.ca/transcarebc/care-support/transitioning/bind-pack-tuck-pad

#trans #transgender #binary #nonbinary #enby #lgbt #lgbtq #pride #lgbtpride #lgbtqpride #transpride #enbypride #education #pro acceptance #trans definition #transissues #transgenderproblems #respect #justtransthings #thetranswiki #packing #prosthetic penis #packers

[gxnderfxck]

An Update

As I have not posted on this blog in a while.

I have officially changed my name. It is no longer 3 hyper feminine first names and a surname.

It is now: “neutral word” “neutral sounding middle name” “surname”

I am much happier.

I have a packer and a DIY harness. I’m hoping to save up for a proper harness this year.

I’m holding off on getting a binder although I’ve finally found a place in the UK that does decent binders so I don’t have to pay shipping fees from the states.

I’m on a bit of a health and weight loss journey right now. I’m building muscle on my chest and losing fat (a lot of other places as well but chest is important for the binder thing) so I’m holding off until at least September, if not October, as it feels inefficient to spend money on something with the possibility it wont fit me at all in 3 or 4 months. 

I’ve survived for this long with dysphoria on my boi days. And most of my dysphoria is lower body. I can manage a few more months.

#genderfluid #genderqueer