#children behavior

[ctfo47]

#parents #distraction #children #children upbringing #children behavior #children being love.

[reviewinfotech]

#behavioral #disordered eating mention #children behavior #health #interesting facts

[donelywell]

February 29- March 2 2024

The first time Sonic went Super in Road Trip wasn't exactly as stunning to Tails as other au's and stories.

Tails is like maybe 5 here (I'm not actually that organized on the timeline for this au yet, I'm getting there though, things are getting in order.) and he wasn't forced to grow up and be a hero in this au. So he's a bit more childish than canon Tails because he doesn't feel as pressured to mature and grow up fast. Plus, he genuinely thinks Sonic is going to die and this is the last time he see's him, so tears are bound to come down.

Part 1

#roadtrip!sonic au #sonic the hedgehog #super sonic #dadnic #miles tails prower #tails the fox #sonic fanart #wholesome sonic and tails wednesday #Okay- I'm gonna ramble a little bit about the dialogue and behaviors here you can skip the other tags if you're not interested #First- Sonic immediately tells Tails that he's fine first before asking if Tails is okay. This isn't Sonic putting himself first- #-but him trying to comfort Tails because even if it's cheesy- Tails will only feel okay if Sonic is okay. #Apparently it calms children down if they listen to their parents heartbeat (melts my heart when I remember that) so Sonic put- #-Tails close to him not only so he could hear that Sonic is alive- but also to try calming him down a little more. #Small thing I started incorporating way too late- Sonic will call Tails Big Guy if the kit is smaller than him and- #-Little Guy if the kit is larger than him. #Sonic changed his pattern color to be blue like Tails' eyes after he points out that they are both yellow (it's not colored here- #- but you probably remember that Super Sonic has golden fur.) #Sonic is constantly rubbing a thumb on Tails' hand as a comforting gesture. #That's my ramble- I know it's just pretty bare bone stuff that anyone reading might get but I freaking love explaining stuff (I gotta stop)

[thatgoddamngingerundercut]

‘Butter’ Jacket Shoot Sketch Day Three - RM, j-hope, Jimin, and V

#bts #kim namjoon #rm #bts rm #jung hoseok #j-hope #bts j-hope #park jimin #jimin #bts jimin #kim taehyung #v #bts v #bangtan #bangtan sonyeondan #bts gifs #btsedit #my gifs #vmin soulmate behavior in gif two and three #vmin soulmate behavior #vmin #children lmfao #i have a bunch of these but i got caught up with other stuff whoops #mostly by a man named min yoongi but god what else is fucking new #fair to note i really only make these because i want them to exist #these are for me #because they're so unbearably cute and i need an outlet lmao

[yuwuta]

Nanami ver of bsf upstaging bf?? ❤️

listen… i meant what i said when nanami is just as bad, if not worse when it comes to driving your boyfriend away/upstaging him... maybe his tact makes him a better man than satoru, but you could also argue that it doesn’t; you could argue that kento is is only as respectful as necessary and consciously pushes boundaries, whereas satoru just does!! he just IS!! satoru IS overbearing and knows no consequence, but kento is not and he is very aware that evert action has a consequence, but he weighs it, determines it’s worth it, or—arguably worse—determines that the threat of your boyfriend getting mad or figuring him out isn’t high enough. kento is premeditated murder, he is going to drive your boyfriend so insane, to a place where he fully believes he cannot compete where he cannot compares, and kento will not feel bad about it. so, i rest my case, vice president of the not shit club, and their children are NO better!! 

also, having been friends with kento sets a bar that your past and/or current boyfriend must quickly learn to meet, and more often than not, they don’t even come close. why go on random dating-app dates when kento sends food to your house just because he had an inkling you were sad (you texted him in a certain way that tipped him off). dates meeting you halfway at a restaurant/bar isn’t nearly as flattering when kento drives an hour in heavy rain and traffic after work to pick you up, just to make good on seeing a movie you told him you were excited about. expensive dinner dates and bar hopping becomes mundane when that’s the normal for you and kento, when he regularly takes you out to dinner, if not weekly, then at least bi-weekly, because he’s intentional about your friendship and having time to spend and catch-up with each other in between busy work days. it’s hard to be impressed with a boyfriend when your best-friend takes you on his twice-yearly vacations and pays for everything, citing that even though getting a proper vacation is hard, he loves the time spent with you, so it’s all worth it. kento doesn’t even have to wait for some guy to become your boyfriend, he puts any potential partners out of the running by the standards he’s already set for you. 

#anonymous #in the words of exo he did it all with a smile on his face too like he is JUST as bad as satoru!!!!! #it's always nanami respectful king this nanami the standard that--HES NOT SHIT!!! TRUST ME!!! #and say you do get a boyfriend or a partner... that poor person.... it's a wrap for them #kento doesn't even need to show how close u two are your bf is gonna feel insecure by sheer comparison and kento is going to enjoy it..sick #no wonder he and gojo are friends! birds of a feather flock together!!! #their children (megumi/yuuji/yuuta) learned this behavior from them. it was TAUGHT #the takeaway dating advice is just 'dont let someones boyfriend stop you from being their husband' 😇😇 NOT SHIT!!!!! #jujutsu kaisen x reader #jjk x reader #jjk fluff #jjk smut #jujutsu kaisen fluff #jujutsu kaisen smut #nanami kento x reader #kento x reader #nanami fluff #jjk scenarios #jjk imagines #nanami x reader

[femmefatalevibe]

Hi I was wondering how do you deal with a toxic family member? How do you handle situations in which they are manipulative and gaslighting you?

Validate your own emotions and experiences

Practice emotional differentiation. Prioritize your own feelings and goals

Learn the psychology behind guilt-tripping, shaming, and people-pleasing & how it's used to manipulate/gaslight children of narcissistic & other types of emotionally immature parents

Implement the "grey rocking" technique during conversations (be "boring' and emotionally flat; don't give them the emotional reaction they crave)

Go as low contact as humanely possible (no contact is the best option). Never initiate a conversation unless its absolutely necessary (logistical issue, emergency, etc. if needed)

Keep them on an information diet. Don't tell them anything about your life that is not vital for them to know

Don't try to change their minds. Just say "You're right," and disengage

Set boundaries on conversation topics/them criticizing your character. Say "I'm not engaging in this conversation." Stop replying, hang up the phone, or walk away

Live your life with them out of sight, out of mind as much as possible. You deserve to live in peace and be happy, no matter what these toxic family members say

Hope this helps xx

#toxic household #toxic family #narcissistic behavior #gaslighting #adult children of emotionally immature parents #emotionally immature parents #emotional regulation #emotional abuse #higher self #personal growth #trauma healing #healing journey #trauma recovery #femmefatalevibe #q/a

[shesunety]

This is partly the reason why kinito wears glasses...

Kinito, you are not being a good role model towards the kids! You should be teaching them the following instead!

#kinitopet #kinito #think of the children #do not teach them ipad behavior!

[ovaruling]

maybe a hot take but please don’t have or stop having children if you have an active eating disorder/body dysmorphia (including binge eating, not just restrictive disorders). seriously

thinking you’ll be the exception (because you’re So self-aware, unlike those Other disordered women) and won’t give your dysmorphia/eating disorder to your child is pride before a very slow and terrible fall

it never ever works. you’re never ever immune. i mean, such a huge reason of why there are so many of us now is bc our moms thought the same thing lmfao. didn’t matter how well-intentioned they were. no matter how much they tried to separate Their Problems from Ours. here we fucking are

i know it’s not women’s fault to begin with, but the reality is that those of us affected do incubate, nurture, and pass on the virus in the Current Way of Things

the buck needs to stop here. this isn’t a game. think of all the things your mother probably thought she was expertly hiding from you that you still picked up on and were profoundly affected by in a terrible and formative way. it will happen to you, too. don’t think it won’t.

if you know that you’re not solidly and confidently recovered, you have a responsibility to stop that buck and not actively attempt to create a child who will observe, mimic, internalize, adopt, and inherit your lifelong life-ruining behavior. the selfishness is breathtaking honestly

#eating disorders are one of the most treatment-resistant behavioral issues out there #once they take firm root #this is not quite the same as ‘don’t have children if you’re even a little bit mentally ill’ btw before anyone thinks it is #this is a very specific problem #and it is LEARNED #you cant always protect your child from the outside world influence but you can do something about what your child starts with at home #i am recovered now but i could’ve saved my whole life if my mom hadn’t been dieting when i was 7 #so i started dieting too #bc she was my mom and i did what she did #cuz i was fucking 7 #she never told me what a diet was. i just observed her. #and when she binged EYE binged #i blame her always for my food addiction

[katabay]

Lucullus, Sulla, and Metellus Pius Lucky, Felix, and Pio

another set of characters from Bad Governance! mostly. I wanted to draw Lucky for real, his wardrobe is the most fun for me

anyway, a political triad for sure! definitely some kind of interlocking relationship™ happening in the background of that!

bsky ⭐ pixiv ⭐ pillowfort ⭐ cohost

#lucky is the other parent to felix's children and boy do gossip columns and radio shows have a time figuring out the details #bad governance the series #original tag #im gonna be real. the actual situation wrt to felix's kids are not difficult to understand. its just that people are too Cis & Straight #to think outside the box. cringefail behavior from them but what can you do

[marzipanandminutiae]

please. for the love of god. talk to your kid who enjoys reading classic children's literature about phrases like "pride comes before a fall" and what they do and do not mean

or else they will end up 30 and mentally ill and convinced that being Too Content/Confident/Happy will make bad things happen to them or their loved ones

#personal #classic lit #[drug PSA voice] talk to your child about the 19th-century glorification of self-deprecating behavior #logically I know that phrase is about being cocky/overly confident to the point where you assume you're infallible #and thus make mistakes #but like. the moralistic Victorian children's book brainrot has convinced me that #some sort of Higher Power will punish me in a poetically appropriate way for the 'sin' of [checks notes] enjoying my life #that's not to say you shouldn't READ those books! they're often quite good! #but. there are things to talk about in them for parents. this and also the Bigoted AttitudesTM that sometimes pop up

[bonefall]

Is there a cat in cannon who got a good death who you think didn't deserve it? Especially if they committed crimes?

Tom the Wifebeater and his redemption death. No question. It's not even close.

Not only do I reject to the "redemption death" on the grounds of it being Tom the Wifebeater who is bullying others until his dying breath, even taunting Thunder about Turtle Tail is dead and the kits must be very torn up about it, but I reject "redemption through death" entirely. I don't like it in stories. It's a theme I deeply object to.

And again it's fucking wild that every time a character is a father, even if they are a wifebeater or a child abuser, the writers think that it bestows a glimmer of goodness into them which every abused child is forced to appreciate and cry about. Breezepelt, Thunder, Tallstar, Tom's children, all of them forced to reconcile and admit how much they wuv their papa.

Abusive dads in WC regularly get redemption deaths, too. Clear Sky dies saving his grandchild, Sandgorse died saving a rando in a tunnel, Tom the Wifebeater saving his daughter.

But Tom the Wifebeater is the worst example of it. Hands down.

#Though I will say it's not exactly a matter of a crime being 'too bad to come back from' #ANYONE can change. #But these ones DONT. #These fathers are *recontextualized* by their deaths and their victim is pushed into rethinking their anger towards them #IF they even had anger towards them at all. All of Tom's victims were too dead to have those feelings because DOTC hates women #And his children are destroyed when they learn that the guy they met once who kidnapped them and got their mom killed died #And that's why I generally hate redemption deaths. By their very nature they don't display what's so HARD about accountability #The changing of your behavior. Checking yourself. Admitting that your victims dont have to forgive you. #It's hard work! #It's painful sometimes! It's worth it but it's not always easy! #It's also its own reward. Your relationships improve. You feel better. You understand yourself. #but no. a redemption death is the end. You never really have to face what you did. #And I hate the way that lots of storytellers think it means it undoes the violence they did #IT does nothing. They're gone. The victims continue. #Where are my stories with RESENTMENT for that? How DARE you die for me?? How dare you run away from the hole you cut into my flesh??? #You think the end of you becomes the missing piece of me? #Awful. No thankz #Bone babble #Tom the Wifebeater #child abuse #cw child abuse #tw child abuse

[ifonlyicouldrun]

Noooo I just saw a YouTube comment say “Mike is not gay, he is just childish” and I couldn’t believe my eyes because this is the EXACT same argument people had for Will before S4 came out!

This once again proves that queerness is not taken seriously and that people unconsciously and automatically associate queer behaviors with a fear of growing up or a “phase”. Mike HAS to be straight because he is dating a girl but if he experiences issues with expressing his feelings and the relationship becomes toxic, it HAS to be because he is behaving like a kid. It CANNOT be deeper than that

#byler #They are all children so of course they can be childish at times but are childish behaviors the only thing the show is trying to portray?

[the-owl-tree]

oh won’t anyone think of the feelings of the poor male character who seldom faces consequences for his actions

#if some ppl started defending female characters in wc #the same way they’ll try and rationalize and justify a shitty male character’s behavior #we could finally have some PEACE #if you make me read about how appledusk wasn’t that bad because he was sad his children drowned #and then i want an essay defending sparkpelt!!!!

[sleeplesssmoll]

Manus Vindictae: Forget Me Not

...this guy.

#manus vindictae #forget me not #3 GRAMS OF SHAME MY ASS #Why do you get to attack me so many times?? #then he sips his wine like a cheeky bastard and heals #this is why druvis left you and adopted suitcase full of children #i have nothing else to add #absolutely shameless behavior #reverse 1999

[fricc-darn]

By my blood, as I draw it here

I dedicate myself to service

I severe all ties of my old life

Those who birthed me are meaningless

Those who raised me are hopeless

Those who loved me are worthless

I now wear this mask to symbolize my transformation

As a child learns to walk so too will I learn to fly

#the moon children creed goes hard ngl #u just gotta slay ig! #behavioral event network #ben drowned #ben drowned arg #jadusable arg

[spitblaze]

idk if I have any kids following me, but if I do:

people who act like it’s important to ‘be normal’ and never do anything ‘embarrassing’ are LOSERS! They’re chumps who missed the memo that purposeful conformity is actually the lamest thing on earth and they’re obsessed with how they present themselves to the world at the cost of their own happiness. You don’t need to change, or act like you don’t have emotions about something, or dance like you fully expect everyone to be watching and judging you. You will be so, so much more cooler if you just do whatever you want to do and that’s a promise

#spitblaze says things #this isnt to say that if you for example need to stay in the closet for your own safety you shouldnt do that #just that the people who want you to stay in the closet are #1) losers #and 2) the villains of like 90% of all media made for children in the last 30 years #also inb4 'uuuh what if who you are is a n@zi' #jokes on you being a bigot is 100% conformity baybee #racism is a LEARNED behavior